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(CNN) — I've never met a parent at ease with the fact that their
Story highlights children watch television. This includes many, many lovely,
curious and conscientious parents who allow their equally
Children watching television, more often than lovely, curious and conscientious children an American
not, bring a sense of calm and even joy to the Academy of Pediatrics-approved one to seven hours a week of
television and video games.
household
Their kids love it. And they, the parents, seem to find relief in the
For younger children, educational shows like break it gives them.
"Sesame Street" can improve their cognitive
abilities Still, when the subject of TV comes up, they squirm. They
stutter. Their cheeks turn red and their eyebrows cinch as they,
so apologetically, explain why they need, really need, to turn on
cartoons to cook dinner or catch their breath. In each of their
minds lurks the specter of some other parent, be it a tech mogul or a supermom, whose children are living their
best lives, blissfully, productively, screen-free.
Their defense of their children's screen time is not so much a confession but a concession to the better parent
they'll never be.
Why? There's no evidence that children watching some television is a problem, and more often than not, it brings a
sense of calm and even joy to the household. Even more strange: Most of us were raised in a time when "screen
time" wasn't a concept, and our afternoons were spent engaged in "Saved by the Bell." Few if any of us attribute
our neurosis or professional hiccups to this pastime. Why do we assume our children will fare any di erently?
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For her recently published book "The Art of Screen Time: How Your Family Can Balance Digital Media and Real
Life," Anya Kamenetz, an education correspondent at NPR, pored over all the research on TV consumption and
children and found that the majority of parents have nothing to worry about.
"We know that most kids who watch some TV are going to be fine," she said, adding that parents with children
with behavioral disorders or who are on the autism spectrum might want to be extra careful.
Instead, the shame and grief stem from the rise of a parenting
culture, among better-educated and wealthier parents, that
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cartoons like 'Paw Patrol' and 'Thomas' devoted to their carefully cultivated children. A cartoon
represents a breach on both accounts: The parent is being
lazy, and the child is not engaging in an activity that will bring
them one step closer to an Ivy League education.
"We feel guilt putting our children in front of a screen because it is a violation of the premise that we are supposed
to be constantly educating them," Kamenetz said.
"Humans have always used stories to help things make sense ... and deal with emotions," she said.
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"Fictional worlds can o er shared worlds to people who don't yet have anything in common," explained Jessica
Black, a postdoctoral fellow in psychology at the University of Oklahoma who studies the relationship between
narrative, morality and the imagination. She explained that this could be especially true for young children, for
whom "the line between fantasy and reality can be tenuous."
My "Ninjago"-loving son spent much of his first week of kindergarten seeking out children who know the show's
story and characters and were willing to re-create them with him on the playground. Now, they've moved on to
their own creations -- zombie tag is the current favorite -- but their shared in interest in "Ninjago" helped ease the
transition.
Black said she grew up in a no-TV house and felt that she
su ered socially for it while growing up.
"It's important for kids to find common ground with other kids
when they go to school. When I was growing up, it was
traumatizing when teachers would ask us about our favorite
TV shows and I couldn't answer. I didn't want to put my kids
through that," Black said.
"In modern parenting culture, it is hard to resist the temptation to moralize everything and have everything fit to
brain enhancement," Kamenetz said. "But TV is a fun part of growing up and a treat. Especially if you don't have it
all the time."
TV is a pleasure. There are compelling images, stories and sounds -- often of places we would never, or could
never, step foot in. These worlds can be beautiful, and they can be funny. They also allow one's brain to, for a brief
period, turn to a nice, calm mush.
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