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Be Like Water
And this is exactly right. Are you trying to escape the moment,
fleeing from it and struggling against it? Or are you inhabiting the
moment effortlessly?
One way to do this is to stop yourself when you find yourself
struggling, and just pause. Be present, sensing your breath, and then
everything around you. See the situation with some objectivity,
instead of fleeing from it blindly. Carefully consider your options —
all of them. And then respond to the situation mindfully and with the
appropriate response — not an overreaction.
In this way, you respond flexibly, appropriately, and effortlessly.
See the possibilities. When we have our minds set, and our vision set,
on one destination, we are often blind to other possibilities. We’ll
miss opportunities this way. Instead, see all the possible paths and
pick the one that will work best for you. That doesn’t mean to become
indecisive because there are so many choices — to be paralyzed by
choice — but instead to learn to move effortlessly among all the
possible paths instead of being stuck on one path. This gets easier
with practice, as you learn to trust your intuition.
Find the pressure points. Sometimes, if you find the right spot,
achieving something takes very little effort. Hitting a baseball with
the sweet spot of the bat will cause it to go much further with less
effort. Finding these spots of maximum effectiveness and minimum
effort takes mindful effort, which is why effortless action isn’t
mindless action.
Do less and less, with less and less effort. Effortless action isn’t
something that is achieved overnight. In fact, if you try too hard to
achieve it, you’ve defeated yourself already. Instead, when you find
yourself in a whirlwind of activity, and pushing hard, slow down,
relax, and do less. Eliminate some of your motions so that you’re
moving with economy. Push less, and flow more. Slowly learn to do
less, and then do less, finding ways of doing that require little action
but lots of effectiveness. Learn to let things unfold naturally instead of
pushing them to happen. Let people learn on their own instead of
controlling them. Set things up so they happen without you having to
steer everything. Slowly learn to use less effort, and then less than
that.