JeevanSathi- Compatibility

Report

XAYX9746's Moon in Pisces and in Uttarabhadrapada

Nakshatra
YTAU8613's Moon in Aquarius and in Satabhisha Nakshatra

Special
Guna Male Female Points Influences Relevance
for

Mental &
Physical
Nadi 8 out
Pitta Vaata Health --
(Excess) of 8
General
Wellbeing

Building a
Bha 0 out Good Life
12th 2nd Vaishya
(Constructivism) of 7 Growth for
 Family

Ideals
Gana 0 out
Manushya Rakshasa Wealth & Kshatriya
(Temperament of 6
Commitment

Prosperity &
3.00
Maitram Friendship
Jupiter Saturn out of --
(Friendliness) Support &
5
Fulfillment

Children
Yoni
1 out Healthy
(Instinctive Cow Horse Kshudra
of 4 Sexuality &
Compatibility)
Prosperity

Luck &
Right
Tara 0 out Choices
8 9 Brahmin
(Comfort of 3 Peace & A
Long life
Together

Posterity
0.50
Vasya A Caring
Pisces Aquarius out of --
(Innate Giving Life
2
Together

Varna 1 out Betterment

Brahmin Kshudra --
(Mutation of 1 Increase

13.5
Total
out of
(Wavelength
36

A Quick Look at Your Compatibility

RESPECT

The flow of your relationship will tend to bring about mutual

disrespect. This will make it very difficult for both people to
feel loved over an extended period of time. It will be very
difficult to harmonize with each other and an arranged
marriage is bound to be unsatisfactory.

WAVELENGTH WITH ASHTA KUTA SCORE OF 15 OR

LESS

You are on Completely Different Wavelengths. This means

you lack affinity towards each other. Both of you will feel that
you have to compromise much too much to be happy and so
its most likely that you will drift apart over time.

INNATE SENSE OF PURPOSE

In addition to having a low Wavelength score and being

attuned very differently, astrological factors also reveal that
you do not have an innate sense of purpose together and so
finding meaning with each other over a long term period is
not likely.

OBSTACLES

Because you do not suffer from Vedha Dosha, any practical

obstacles that keep you apart can be overcome so that you
can be together.

MISFORTUNE

You are free of Rajju Dosha and so your association does

not bring any extra misfortune into your lives and thus any
misfortune is the responsibility of your own selves so
marrying this person would not bring any additional troubles
into your life.

ASSERTIVE PRESSURE

Kuja Dosha is balanced between your horoscopes. This will

help you to act and respond towards each other in a
balanced fashion that allows both of you to feel like you have
a say in your relationship, that the relationship is equal and
that both of your needs are getting met. You are equally
matched in strength and you can, therefore, work together to
build a better life.

CONCLUSION

This relationship is not recommended for further pursuit.

Since one or more of these five measurements is
inharmonious, this relationship may tend to support each
person's bad habits and issues and make it harder to find
happiness with each other as well as with yourselves. The
most difficult measurements that prevent from having a happy
relationships are the Obstacles and Misfortune. These
usually become apparent early on in the relationship.
Misfortunes are particularly painful and create huge ups and
downs. Lack of Respect and imbalanced Assertive Pressure
become more and more apparent after six months and can
become very frustrating for both people. Poor Wavelength is
the least immediately painful or inharmonious and can take
years to take its toll until it makes people drift apart or feel
drained. So if this relationship is lacking any of these five
measurements, you will want to take a good look at your
relationship and see what you are really willing to do in order
to have it. It will certainly take more work and effort or a bit of
extra compromise. If you love each other already, then you
can choose to work out your problems, but we do not
recommend starting a new relationship or having an
arranged marriage. Continue reading to get more details
about your match and if you are already in a relationship, to
get tips on improving your relationship.

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And Here is Your Compatibility

Report in Full Detail

RESPECT

The flow of your relationship will tend to bring about

mutual disrespect.

In any relationship it is respect that is most important. Love is

said to, "flourish in the soil of mutual respect." When any two
people get together there is a particular flow between them. If
it flows well, both people feel respected, cared for and loved.
If it does not flow well, both people fell disrespected,
incompetent and frustrated. Men and women tend to feel
loved for different things and thus need to be respected in
different ways. Men feel most loved when their thoughts and
actions are respected and when they are appreciated for
what they do. Women feel most loved when their feelings are
respected and when they are appreciated for who they are.
This is not to say that a woman does not feel loved when her
thoughts and actions are respected and when she is
appreciated for what she does, it is only to say that she feels
most loved when her feelings are respected and when she is
appreciated for who she is. Men do feel loved when they are
appreciated for who they are and when they have their
feelings respected, but they feel most loved when they are
respected for their thoughts and actions and when they are
appreciated for what they do. Since men and women feel
most loved when respected for different things, a healthy
relationship will flow in such a way so that both people will
most often be respected for what is most important to them.

Your relationship is set up in such a way that the energy will

flow from the woman to the man, which is not the ideal
situation. Several difficulties can arise because of this. This
will throw the woman into the doer role more often than not.
This will have the result of the woman feeling like the man
does not care about the relationship as much as she does,
since she is ending up being responsible for everything.
Since the energy is not flowing from the man to the woman,
the man will not get the opportunity to do as much, which will
not give the woman the opportunity to appreciate the many
things he might do for her. Just when the man is starting to
think of what needs to be done in the relationship, the woman
is already doing it. Again, the man does not get the
opportunity to do anything for the woman and the woman
does not get the opportunity to feel like the man is really
willing to do right by her.

A major problem about having the energy flow from the

woman to the man is that women tend to bond more in a
relationship when they receive and men tend to bond more in
a relationship when they invest their time, energy, money and
ideas in the relationship. In this relationship, with the woman
being thrown into the more active role, the woman will not be
receiving as much from the man and the man will not be
doing as much to be invested in the relationship.
Relationships need a strong bond and with this type of
dynamic the only bond may be the bonding that takes place
sexually, and this generally bonds the woman to the man
more than it bonds the man to the woman. Thus the woman
can end up being in a relationship where she is sexually
bonded but in which the man is not very bonded to her and
may not really want to be there.

The man may feel nagged when being told what to do. This
is felt as very frustrating to men - when men are told what to
do they start hearing, "you are such a dumb and useless man
that I, the woman you want to love, cherish and protect, has
to tell you want to do." The woman gets equally frustrated
and she will begin wondering why she is doing so much for
this relationship when the man is not really participating. She
will also get very frustrated with herself for having to get the
man going and for telling the man what to do. The last thing
that a woman wants to do is be perceived as a burden or a
nag, she wants to be a thing of beauty, joy and love, but if the
man is not stepping up to take the necessary actions, what
else can she do?

Relationships all have their difficult moments. At these times

of duress, it works best if the man approaches the woman to
fix the problem or make amends. When a woman
approaches a man to work things out or make amends she
usually says something like, "I am not sure we are meant to
be together." This is her saying, "let's work this out," though
the feminine illiterate man does not understand what she
means and replies, wishing to make her happy, something
like, "maybe," "maybe not," "I am not sure," "probably not,"
"you are probably right," or "if that is what you want." Which
sets the woman into a rage of despair - it is not what she
needs to hear. When a man approaches the woman to fix a
problem or make amends he brings a gift, asks her out, tells
her that their relationship and that she are worth fighting for -
he comes from a positive point of view which helps the
woman feel better right away and helps the relationship right
away. With the woman being thrown into the doing, fixing
role in your relationship, during difficult times she will
probably be the one that makes the effort to get the
relationship on track. The effort will not be very successful
though, since what the woman needs to know more than
anything during the difficult times is that the man loves her
and wants her, which is shown when he comes to her to
make amends, not when she goes to him.
Another difficulty that can arise due to this dynamic is that the
men are generally not able to relate to their feelings as
quickly as a woman. Thus, when a woman approaches a
man with some request, idea or opportunity, it takes the man
twenty minutes to figure out if he would feel better taking the
woman up on her offer or if he would feel better doing what
he is doing. During that twenty minutes he cannot really
relate well to her, he cannot give her an honest answer and
so he feels uncomfortable and somewhat torn inside. The
woman, seeing his discomfort, begins to feel that his
discomfort is with her and then wonders if he loves her. If he
does take her up immediately on her offer, then usually he is
not really there for a while as his brain shifts to relationship
mode slowly, and while it is doing so, the woman does not
feel like he loves her since he is not there a hundred percent.

These dynamics can get very confusing and frustrating for

both of you and create a lot of ups and downs and make you
wonder if you could ever live with this person for the rest of
your life, even if you feel a strong love for the other. If you did
somehow manage to live out your life with this dynamic, it
probably would not be the best for you. These dynamics can
cause the woman to neglect the healthy development of her
feminine side. Being forced into the active role excessively
can drain the woman and cause illness and separate her
from her inner happiness. Over time she may find that she
has accomplished much, but has little happiness. The man
will likely be less productive and since a man's feeling of
worth is largely based on the good he is able to do in life, it is
important that he is as productive as possible.

Many men have masculine issues to work out that prevent

them from feeling confident and secure with their ability to do
and to achieve. This can cause them to be meek, or
tyrannical if they are trying to compensate for their insecurity.
Similarly, many woman have feminine issues to work out that
prevent them from feeling good about themselves and this
can cause them to feel like they always have to prove
themselves or like they have no worth or value.
Relationships help men to work out their masculine issues
and become better men and better people. Similarly,
relationships help women work out their feminine issues and
become better women and better people. The way the
energy flows in your relationship, it helps the woman become
a stronger "man," but it does not help her become a better
woman. It helps the man become a more sensitive "woman,"
but not a better man. This relationship may well support your
weaknesses instead of making you more secure and happier
people.
If you are the woman and have had a habit of being involved
in a relationship like this where you are the giver and doer,
then you likely have some fear of bonding. It really can be
scary. You will have to work out those fears before you can
have a relationship that you feel nourished and loved in.
Sometimes it can feel better to be starving in a relationship
that you are trying to make happen than it is to experience
the vulnerabilities that can come with bonding to a man - so a
relationship that makes you the doer with the responsibility
for what is going to happen can feel safer. But if you want to
feel loved and nourished, you will eventually have to learn to
be in a relationship where you are a receptive partner at least
fifty percent of the time. You may feel that you need to
perform in order to be worthy; this can also make you feel
more comfortable in the doer role, but the best thing you can
probably do for yourself is learn that you are worth the good
things that are freely given to you. Finally, feminine energy
can only receive as much as it feels good about itself, so the
answer to learning how to be in a relationship that will allow
love and nourishment to come your way is to look inside
yourself to find your true beauty so that you feel better and
better about yourself.

If you are the man and have had the habit of being involved
in relationships where you look towards the woman's lead,
you may have a lack of confidence that prevents you from
saying what you want. A healthy relationship requires the
man to have the courage and confidence to say what he
wants and for the woman to have the courage and security to
say, "no." The man must also have the self-esteem to hear
"no" from the woman so that he does not get frustrated and
forceful or that he does not feel too whipped to ask for the
next thing. If you have a lack of confidence, you may be so
concerned about displeasing the woman that you try to follow
her lead. But when it comes down to it, what women want is
to be happy. For a woman to be happy with you, she has to
feel that you love her, which is only apparent when you
invest in her and the relationship through your own decision
and power. For her to be happy, she needs to feel that you
will be strong when it is required, which means that you will
be strong when she is not able. If you are always following
her lead, then she will not feel confident in your ability to take
care of her when she has a weak moment and will become
frustrated with you.

Occasionally a man really wants to be on the receptive end

of a relationship and the woman really wants to be the
initiator. If this is the case with you both, then this relationship
will work perfectly for you. Sometimes a person is not sure if
they want to be more on the receptive end or the doing end.
A simple question can help you find what you would be
happiest with. Ask yourself, "Is it more important for me to be
respected for what I do and what I think, or is it more
important for me to have my feelings respected and to be
loved and cherished for who I am?" All of us, of course, want
both, since each of us has both a masculine and feminine
half to our psyche, but which is more important? If you are
male and if being respected for what you do and what you
think is more important, then this relationship is not going to
give you what you want, you will be put into the receptive role
more than you want. If you are male and if having your
feelings respected is more important, then this relationship
will work perfectly for you so long as the woman wants to be
the doer. If you are female and if you want your actions and
thoughts respected more than your feelings, then this
relationship is perfect for you, so long as the man wants to be
on the receptive end more of the time. If, on the other hand,
you more want your feelings to be respected and to be
cherished, then this relationship is not going to be what you
want, you will be thrown into the doer role more than you
need to be.

WAVELENGTH

You are on Completely Different Wavelengths

For a relationship to be smooth, efficient and nurturing the

couple has to be on the same wavelength. They must have
mutual needs so that they can share in the fulfillment of those
needs and they must have an innate ability to understand
each other. Everything that we do in life has a subtle
influence upon us. Throughout the day we crave one thing or
another. Fulfilling these cravings goes a long way in helping
us feel balanced and energized. When our body is craving
exercise we need to get out there and move or we just won't
feel okay. If we are feeling the need to be by the ocean we
won't feel right until we get there. If we feel like eating a
certain food, we will feel hungry until we eat that food. So it
goes throughout the day. A couple that wants to spend a lot
of time together has to have needs and cravings that are
similar in nature and they have to have these needs at the
same time. Otherwise, one or both of the individuals will not
experience enough of what they need and end up not feeling
right until, over time, they will become drained. If this type of
attunement is not there, then the couple will also not relate
and communicate well together since they really won't be
tuned into the same thing at the same time.
Your Wavelength score is less than fifteen, which puts you
on a different wavelength. As a result of this, you will not
really be attuned to each other and will often have very
different needs. This can make it difficult and quite an act of
compromise to get both of your needs met. But if you don't,
one or both of you will start feeling off and can even get
drained to the point of exhaustion or sickness. This low
Wavelength score shows that you are not really attuned to
each other, which can make it more difficult to understand
each other so communication will have to be much more
verbal and very clear. Since you are on a different
wavelength, you won't be able to tune into each other's
needs and words as well and so your sharing won't feel as
deep as you probably would like it to be. Low attunement
means that you actually "vibrate" at a different and even
conflicting frequency, so spending a lot of time with each
other in close proximity, sleeping in the same bed and such
can actually be draining. You will probably notice that if you
do sleep together you will need more sleep, so if you want to
keep this relationship, doing more things alone and even
sleeping in different beds occasionally may well be
necessary to keep you both feeling balanced, energized and
healthy.

Often a low Wavelength score does not seem like a big

problem at the beginning of a relationship. It is over time that
the difficult effects become apparent. So this may not feel
very serious at first, but over time you may find the
relationship draining and find yourselves growing apart and
pursuing more and more things without each other.

If you are involved with a person that you have a low

Wavelength score with and you are trying to work things out,
the best thing that you can do is be independent and allow
both of you to go and do what you need to do for yourself in
order to feel balanced and energized. Then come together
and enjoy your time together with energy and enthusiasm.

Your Wavelength score is determined by eight different

astrological measures. Each of these eight measures has
something important to show you about your relationship.
Continue reading to learn all about these eight factors and
how they are affecting your relationship.

EXCESS

Each person's physical health as well as their actions are

governed by three principles: Kapha, Pitta and Vata. Kapha
correlates to the Chinese principle of Yin and to the
Phlegmatic temperament. Pitta correlates to the Yang
principle and the Bilious temperament. Vata correlates to the
interplay or movement of Yin and Yang and the Windy
temperament. These principles are very important in respect
to our actions, health and feelings. Kapha provides the
capacity for love, devotion, receptivity, rest, enjoyment and
emotional response. Pitta provides courage, initiative,
leadership, determination, intelligence, improvement and
protection. Vata provides the capacity for the change and
adjustment that life requires in order to live healthily and
happily. If one of these temperaments becomes excessive,
then the relationship, the lives of both the individuals and the
physical health of the couple may become unbalanced and
strained.

Each person has their own make up and blend of Kapha,

Pitta and Vata, which is their "normal" state. This "normal"
state may or may not be a healthy "normal." Regardless of a
person's normal mental and physical state, when we relate to
another person, the energy can change and there is the
possibility of two people relating together to create an excess
of Kapha, Pitta or Vata which results in their relationship
having some imbalance. The imbalance will also carry over
into the rest of their lives.

Fortunately, there are no astrological indications pointing

towards any of these three energies becoming excessive or
problematic between you. This will help you both come from
as "real" a place as possible. You won't be behaving
radically different from your normal behavior because of the
relationship emphasizing Kapha, Pitta or Vata. You may, or
course, have your own imbalance or excess of Kapha, Pitta
or Vata which will strain your life and any relationship you
are in, but at least it is not the fault of the relationship.

In any relationship, one of the most important things is to be

as much our real self as possible. Since an excess of Kapha,
Pitta or Vata brought upon by the relationship can prevent us
from expressing our true self and, thereby, cause us to relate
with difficulty, not having an excess of Kapha, Pitta or Vata is
the most important factor for having a high Wavelength score.
Not having an excess of Kapha, Pitta or Vata with this person
earns you eight points towards your Wavelength score and,
most importantly, will help you to relate to each other in the
way that you intend to and wish.
CONSTRUCTIVISM

Sacrifices will have to be made in order for you to be

creative and constructive with each other.

Astrological indications reveal that in attempting to build your

lives, create and be constructive together some large
sacrifices may be required. Each of you may have to give up
some hope, dream, desire, habit or characteristic in order for
your relationship to move forward. Sacrifices will not only be
necessary in order for your relationship to move forward in
the big ways, but also with the little things such as planning a
trip, going out, buying things. You may also find yourself
holding back thoughts sometimes that may disrupt the flow of
the relationship. Due to you having to make these
adjustments and sacrifices for the relationship, you do not get
seven points towards your Wavelength score, and you may
find that the sacrifices required to make the relationship work
may be too high a price to pay.

TEMPERAMENT

Astrological indications reveal that, when it comes right down

to it, the woman has an independent, eccentric and intense
temperament with many emotional depths and that the man
has a progressive, industrious and practical temperament.
These are not compatible temperaments and so you lose up
to six points that you could have otherwise earned towards
your total Wavelength score.

Women with this type of astrological lunar temperament are

very temperamental and their unbridled emotions can make
them go to extremes at times. Only men with the same type of
astrological temperament are considered compatible. Men
with other types of astrological temperaments, such as the
man in question, will have a hard time appreciating this type
of woman. He will misunderstand her and often feel
threatened by her, and she will not feel accepted for who she
is. Nor will he have the ability to settle her at times when she
is feeling an extremely turbulent or depressing emotion, or to
help her feel better when she is down in the dumps.

FRIENDLINESS

You have a reasonable affinity for friendship.

A primary ingredient for any good relationship is the affinity of

friendship. Friends are discovered in the places we like and
in the things that we like to do, so in a relationship friendship
makes two people want to do things together. Also, in any
relationship, people need to treat each other in a friendly
way, especially during difficult times. Astrological indications
reveal that you both have a reasonable affinity for friendship.
This will help you both enjoy the things that you share quite
well. When things get tough, you will treat each other
respectively well as you work things out. This affinity for
friendship earns you three out of a possible five points
towards your total Wavelength score.

INSTINCTIVE COMPATIBILITY

Each person has an instinctive nature that they rely upon in

intense situations when all recourse has left them. This
instinctive nature is usually resorted to in crisis situations and
in situations when a person has to do something, but does
not know what to do. The instinctive nature also comes out to
a lesser degree during the more intense aspects of sex. For a
couple to go through intense situations harmoniously
together and for a couple to bond through intense
experiences and sexual experiences, it is important that their
instinctive natures be compatible.

Astrological indications reveal that your instinctive natures

are not harmoniously disposed towards each other, nor are
they disruptive towards each other. This is quite acceptable
and, since your instinctive natures do not disrupt each other,
you earn one out of a possible four points towards your total
Wavelength score.

COMFORT

A man's temperament will either feel comfortable and safe to

a woman, or it will feel more threatening. If the man's
temperament feels safe and comfortable, then the woman
will, or course, feel better about the relationship, and she will
also be better able to get over any issues that may be making
having a good relationship difficult for her. It will help her
grow emotionally. The man will also benefit as he will feel
like he is doing the right things in the relationship which will
help him feel good about himself and, by extension, the
relationship. If, on the other hand, the man's temperament
feels more threatening, the woman will only have a more
difficult time feeling secure in the relationship and the efforts
that the man might make to move the relationship forward, or
to improve the relationship, may actually cause a setback in
the relationship. If that is the case, the man may become
frustrated and unhappy with himself and, by extension, the
relationship.

Astrological indications reveal that the man's general

temperament is more threatening to the woman than it is
comforting and so you do not gain three points towards your
total Wavelength score that you could have otherwise
earned. During times of difficulty the man may find it
impossible to find a solution and his efforts will just as likely
cause more problems as they will improve things.

This is quite a minor comparison by itself, and by itself it will

not have a major say in the relationship, it is only important in
the context of gaining a high enough Wavelength score as to
have a good relationship.

INNATE GIVING

The man may put himself out too much for the woman.

Astrological factors indicate that the man has an innate ability

to know the woman's needs and that he is happy to fulfill
them, however, he may occasionally do more than he can or
do something when he himself is in greater need. Even
though the man may sometimes put himself out, it does,
overall, help your relationship. As a result of the man's
devotion, the woman will appreciate the man and desire to
do more for him, so you gain 1/2 point towards your total
Wavelength score.

MUTATION

This relationship will incline you to make positive

changes.

People change as a result of being in a relationship. Each

person mutates somewhat as a result of being with the other.
Ideally, this change is for the better and since it is part of
human nature to want to change and improve, if the
relationship has an innate ability to bring about positive
changes, the couple's need for growing and improving will be
better met.

Astrological indications reveal that your relationship is more

likely to help you both change towards the positive instead of
the negative. This will make the relationship more fulfilling
and so you gain one point towards your Wavelength score.
INNATE SENSE OF PURPOSE

In addition to having a low Wavelength score and being

attuned very differently, astrological factors also reveal that
you do not have an innate sense of purpose together. This
increases your chances of eventually growing apart as you
are both very different.

OBSTACLES

Obstacles can be overcome so that you can be together.

In any relationship so much has to happen for two people to

completely be together. Many of these things are practical
things, like living in the same place, both being free and
unattached, having work schedules that allow the necessary
time for being together and having enough money to feel
secure about building a life together. Then there is always
the matter of being in the same mood and frame of mind so
that they can enjoy sharing their lives with each other.
Getting all of these things to fall into place can be quite a
chore at times and there is plenty of opportunity for setbacks
and obstacles to being together. For some couples, their
destinies are timed so completely differently that there will
always be something, or some feeling, preventing them from
fully being together. Their destinies pull them apart and
simply living their very lives becomes a source of obstacles
to being together. When one lives in California, the other
lives in Florida, when the Californian moves to Florida, the
Floridian moves to New York to take care of their
mother...and so the relationship goes or, rather, does not go.
Fortunately, you escape this and the timing of your destinies
is not an impossible conflict. So long as other compatibility
factors are okay, you will be able to sort out your lives and
make any changes and adjustments necessary in order to be
together.

MISFORTUNE

Your association does not bring any extra misfortune

into your lives.

Besides the obvious importance to love and to be loved in a

relationship, it is important for every couple to share a
productive and happy life together. In fact, being in love
increases our desire to live a productive and fortunate life.
Some people get together and find their lives getting better
and find more and more meaning to be with each other.
Others, on the other hand, get together only to have
everything go completely wrong, not just wrong in their lives,
but wrong between them as well. Their very togetherness
brings ill feelings between them along with misfortune. It is as
if they are tied to a string of unfortunate events. Fortunately,
one astrological measurement will show whether a couple is
tied to the type of misfortune that has no end and no cure or if
their association does not breed any extra ill into their lives.

Astrological indications reveal that your relationship does not

suffer from any such type of unfortunate attachments. Due to
your own inherent destinies and personalities you may still
find yourselves attracting unfortunate events, in which case
you will need to take a close look at yourselves as
individuals so that you can see what issues you are holding
onto that are attracting the ill events. You may also find
yourselves playing games with each other or putting walls up
between each other. If that is the case, it points to issues that
you need to work out and not issues that are the result of your
association with each other.

ASSERTIVE PRESSURE

While the Moon represents a person's nature and

consciousness, Mars is the planet through which we assert
what is in our mind and heart. For two people to have a
harmonious relationship, not only must they have an innate
attunement towards each other, they must also assert
themselves equally, or else the relationship will become
imbalanced and frustrated. The position of Mars in your
horoscope, and not just in one of your Vedic charts but in
three important charts, determines how much force you
assert yourself with in your relationship. If both of you assert
yourselves with relatively equal force, you will be able to
work together to have a balanced and healthy relationship. If
one of you asserts yourself more than the other, then the
relationship will become imbalanced.

Your horoscopes show that you assert yourselves with

relatively equal pressure. This will help you to act and
respond towards each other in a balanced fashion that
allows both of you to feel like you have a say in your
relationship, that the relationship is equal and that both of
your needs are getting met. You are equally matched in
strength and you can, therefore, work together to build a
better life.
CONCLUSION

Relationships are rarely easy as we all bring our challenging

personalities into our relationships. When it comes down to it,
the right relationship is the relationship that we feel right
about being in the way that it is. A relationship in which we
love a person but hope for things to be different and to
change, cannot really be termed the right relationship. It is
natural for each of us to have our hopes and wishes and no
relationship will fulfill them all, but if we can accept the
relationship for the hopes that it does fulfill, then we are on
the right track to the right relationship. Further, if the hopes
that the relationship does not fulfill do not become a source of
damage to the relationship or do not cause us to be cruel to
our partner, then it is the right relationship.

The Vedic compatibility focuses on this right type of

relationship. The considerations it makes are those that
determine if people can have this type of foundation together.
If the five important measurements are all good, then the
foundation for this type of relationship is there. The five
important measurements are Respect, Wavelength,
Obstacles, Misfortune and Assertive Pressure. Any
measurement amongst these that is inharmonious will be a
source of stress, difficulty and lack between you two. But that
is not to say that it is the wrong relationship, if that is the price
you are willing to pay in order to have that person in your life
and if you are willing to make the payment with the extra
work, then it may well be the right relationship for you.
However, it is usually seen that any of these five being
insufficient create stresses that are more than the average
person wants to pay for their relationship.

Since one or more of these five measurements is

inharmonious, this relationship may tend to support each
person's bad habits and issues and make it harder to find
happiness with each other as well as with yourselves. The
most difficult measurements to have are the Obstacles and
Misfortune. These usually become apparent early on in the
relationship. Misfortunes are particularly painful and create
huge ups and downs. Lack of Respect and imbalanced
Assertive Pressure become more and more apparent after six
months and can become very frustrating for both people.
Poor Wavelength is the least immediately painful or
inharmonious and can take years to take its toll until it makes
people drift apart or feel drained. So if this relationship is
lacking any of these five measurements, you will want to take
a good look at your relationship and see what you are really
willing to do in order to have it, it will certainly take more work
and effort or a bit of extra compromise.

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