Lasting Love…Made Easy

Katie and Gay Hendricks

1. Introduction
2. Key points summary
3. The Entry Key

Introduction
Thank you for your dedication to what really matters in life:
the deep, rich experience of lasting love that fulfills everything
your heart has always yearned for. Your commitment to
fulfillment in love has brought you to a doorway. This doorway
leads to a completely new way of being in love and relationship:
love is easy. This PDF will help you discover if this is the right
time for you to shift into a new state of consciousness in which
lasting love is actually possible…and easy.

Key Points From The Video

•Almost everybody thinks that love is hard and relationships
take a lot of work. In actual fact, the easier you make love and
the less you ‘work’ on your relationships, the more love you get
to experience.

www.lastinglovemadeeasy.com 1
 •If you’re single, your objective is to attract the love you want
and need by effortless shifts of consciousness, not by stressful
pursuit.
•If you’re a couple, your objective is discover how to open and
maintain a flow of love by effortless shifts of consciousness, not
by doing more of what already hasn’t worked.
•If we can do it you can, too. Our stories on the video illustrate
how we started with no role models or books to guide us, and
over a period of years created a new set of skills that made love
easy. We moved from having conflicts almost daily to a new way
of being in which neither one of us has criticized or even spoken
an unpleasant word to the other in fifteen years now.
•Because we didn’t have any mentors, we had to figure out a
lot of things ‘the hard way.’ Now, our life purpose has become to
help people experience more love than they ever imagined
possible…and to have it be easy. If any of us can learn how to
make love easy, everybody can.
•Nobody ever told us that all relationships go through five
stages:
•Romance
•The Inevitable
•The Choice-Point
•The Result
•The Re-Kindling
•Nobody ever told us that creating the kind of love you want
is an inside job. In fact, society, advertising and media teach the
exact opposite: to look at the outside, the superficial aspects
such as clothing, cosmetics, hairstyles.
•The inside job for single people:
•Learning to commit in a new way

www.lastinglovemadeeasy.com 2
 •Learning to love and accept yourself
•Clarifying Your Three Absolute Yes’s and your Three
Absolute No’s
•The inside job for couples:
•Learning how to shift out of the state of consciousness
that generates recycling conflicts
•Learning how to end blame and criticism
•Learning how to feel and appreciate the state of
consciousness that generates the flow of love and
appreciation
•The REALLY BIG THING nobody ever told us is that
love and relationships can be easy. Almost everybody tells you
the exact opposite: that love is painful and you have to work hard
on your relationships.
•If you are willing, you can prove to yourself once and for all
that lasting love is easy.
The Entry Key To Lasting Love: An Experiential
Process To Help You Open The Doorway To Lasting Love
The key that opens the door to more love than you ever
imagined possible is something that sounds so simple but can
actually be so hard to give yourself in real life: willingness. Your
own willingness is the key that opens the door. Here is a quick
and easy way to assess your level of willingness at this time in
your life:
Three Questions, Three Willingness Statements
Each part of this process invites you to wonder about a
question, then to try on a Willingness Statement to find out if it
fits for you. You will be able to feel right away whether the
questions are illuminating for you and whether the statements
are a good fit. When we invite you to ‘wonder’ about the
question, we mean for you to invoke a real, sincere experience of

www.lastinglovemadeeasy.com 3
wonder when you ask the question. There are no right or wrong
answers to these questions; your own authentic reaction to them
is all that’s important.

**Instructions**
Ask each question a few times in your mind, saying it over
and over until you get the feel of it. A good way to do is to ask
the question in your mind, then take a few easy breaths as you
let it settle into yourself. Find out if you feel a clear ‘Yes’ to the
question.
The First Question: Am I willing to move past my prior
experiences of love, to wonder open-heartedly about
what’s possible for me in love right now?
After you feel the question settle into you, make the
following statement a few times in your mind. Softly repeat it to
yourself, then take a few easy breaths as it settles in. Discover
how your body and mind resonate with the idea.
The First Willingness Statement: I’m willing to move past
my prior experiences of love, to wonder open-heartedly
about what’s possible for me in love right now.
Say it a few times in your mind, listening carefully to your
body and mind to find out how you resonate with the statement.
Now, move to the second question.
The Second Question: Am I willing to shift out of the
state of consciousness that generates my limiting patterns,
into a new state of consciousness in which I feel more love
than I ever imagined possible?
As before, run the question through your mind a few times,
until you can feel an answer to it emerge from your own
consciousness.

www.lastinglovemadeeasy.com 4
 Then, turn the question into a Willingness Statement, and
find out if it fits for you.
The Second Willingness Statement: I’m willing to shift out
of the state of consciousness that generates my old
patterns, into a new state of consciousness in which I feel
more love than I ever imagined possible.
Say the statement a few times, tuning in to how your body
resonates with that willingness.
Now, move on to the final question and Willingness
Statement.
The Third Question: Am I willing to open up to more
love than I ever imagined possible, and to have it be easy?
As before, say the question over several times, taking a few
easy breaths after you ask it, to listen to the reactions from your
body and mind.

After the question has settled in to you, try on the third

Willingness Statement.
The Third Willingness Statement: I’m willing to open up
to more love than I ever imagined possible, and to have it
be easy.

Take some time to reflect on what you learned in this

process. For example, if you didn’t get a clear ‘Yes’ to the
questions, take some time to reflect on the reasons. If you
couldn’t get your body and mind to resonate with the Willingness
Statements, wonder about the reasons. There are always good
reasons for all our relationship patterns, although the reasons
may extend back into childhood and don’t actually need to
influence you today.

www.lastinglovemadeeasy.com 5
 What’s Coming
In the next video, we’ll show you innovative solutions to the
biggest relationship problems people bring to us—loneliness,
blame, lack of sexual fulfillment, conflicts about money. We’ll
show you why people keep repeating these patterns, sometimes
for decades, until they make an astonishing discovery. We’ll share
this AH-Hah! with you and show you how to apply it to your own
relationship life.

Thanks again for your dedication to what really matters

most in life. We’ve dedicated our lives to helping people
experience more love in their lives, and it is wonderful to have
you as a partner on the journey.

With love,
Katie and Gay

www.lastinglovemadeeasy.com 6