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Volume 3 1999 Number 4
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J O S E P H M E L N I C K, Ph.D.
A
S A GRADUATE STUDENT IN THE
munity psychology. I remember going to sensitivity labs, Black–
White encounter groups, making home visits to families; and
doing training and organizational work with nonprofit agencies. It was
during this period that I and many others discovered Gestalt therapy.
Many of us originally entered the field, drawn not by individual
therapy, but by the possibility of applying our therapeutic learning to
the community. We wished to touch segments of society beyond the
reach and interest of traditional psychotherapy. It was a time of opti-
mism. We believed that the tenants of psychotherapy, shaped to fit
different contexts, could literally change the world.
In retrospect, this human potential movement was “a period of great
flowering, not because organizations changed that much, but because
it became possible to change the consciousness of large numbers of in-
dividuals in all walks of life” (Nevis, 1997, p. 117). Gestalt therapy
played a fundamental role in this movement. For example, there was
Eliot Shapiro applying Gestalt therapy to school systems, Fritz Perls
building his Canadian commune, and of course, Paul Goodman com-
mitting his heart and soul to the antiwar movement.
I am uncertain as to all the reasons why this movement seemed to
diminish in the 1970s and 1980s. Whatever the reasons, our society be-
came more conservative, and psychotherapy became more insular and
narrow. It shifted from an emphasis on growth and expanded aware-
ness to the curing of illness and reduction of symptoms. Whereas symp-
toms in the 1960s had been viewed as reflecting a larger environmental
context, by the 1980s for many, the symptom was the disease.
The pendulum is beginning to swing back. Gestalt-trained people
are moving out into the community, and they are making a difference.
They are working with and within political, legal, and religious sys-
tems; with nonprofit agencies; with environmental groups; and with
the economically disadvantaged. Gestalt values that emphasize aware-
ness, use of self as an instrument, and resistance as the existence of
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Reference
B.R. Would you start by telling me about your current work as a judge
in Maine?
J.W. I am a judge in the district courts in York County in Maine. The
district court is the first tier of the legal system. Basically, it is the
people’s court. It is the place where most people in society have
their one and only contact with the court system. Primarily I deal
with divorces, family matters, parental rights and responsibili-
ties of unmarried parents, protection from abuse, domestic vio-
lence, and small civil and criminal matters.
B.R. Was becoming a judge a conscious, professional goal of yours?
J.W. When I first got out of law school, I clerked for a federal judge in
MA., and I knew then that I wanted to be a judge. But it is not
something I did anything about. I did not live my life in a planned
way. I didn’t think about what kind of contacts I needed to make.
At the end of 1993 I was contacted by a small group of people
who were working with the governor of the state of Maine, look-
ing for candidates for the position of director of a family court
pilot project. At that point I said to myself, “ Why would I want
to do that?” My practice then was primarily educational law that
dealt with legal issues in higher courts, federal courts. I thought
about their proposal and surprisingly realized within 24 hours
that it was exactly what I wanted to do.
B.R. Why did you want this job?
J.W. I realized that I loved the idea of asking each party, “What do
you want?” and then fashioning a solution. I liked that approach
Beverly Reifman, a Gestalt Therapist and consultant in private practice in Cam-
bridge, MA, is also on the staff of the Institute for Couples and Families at McLean
Hospital in Belmont, MA.
Joyce Wheeler is a district court judge in York County, Maine. The interview took
place on February 13, 1999.
better than being an advocate for one side or the other. When I
was in private practice, I did a few family cases a year. I only did
two child custody cases. In one case I represented the father; in
the other, I represented the mother. In both cases neither side was
wrong. I knew that I didn’t want to do family matters from an
adversarial point of view.
B.R. So you moved from being in the role of advocate for one party to
being in the role of problem solver. That was a significant shift in
your professional stance.
J.W. Yes, it was. Maybe this change was influenced from my place
and role in my family of origin. I was the oldest of six children
and felt responsible for the welfare of my younger siblings. I was
described as an impatient child, wanting my own way. I don’t
think that I was a problem solver as a child. I do think, though,
that I had a sense of justice, wanting to do what was right at an
early age.
B.R. Do any examples of early injustices come to mind?
J.W. I remember, going back to the days of school banking, when the
boys in the family got more to put in their accounts than the girls.
That gender issue appeared at a very early age. Also, I remember
when my parents were members of a country club and there was
a debate whether a Black person should be allowed to join. I felt
outraged at some level even though I didn’t fully understand.
Although my parents were the same parents who administered
the unequal banking policy, they were the voice of injustice about
racial discrimination. They didn’t make distinctions between
people because of class and race. Their friends were not limited
to the medical community (my father was a surgeon) but were
people across many levels. I grew up with the sense of freedom
to move among people. That was very important to me.
B.R. This sense of justice eventually led you to law school. Did you go
straight from undergraduate school to law school?
J.W. No. I went and got my masters degree so I could teach. I taught
high school for three years in Framingham, Massachussetts. I
taught constitutional law and African-American studies. It was
during that time period that I decided to go to law school. I started
to put gender concerns into a political framework and that moti-
vated me as much as anything. Up until that point, women were
mothers, teachers, or school nurses. It became important to me
to enter the professional world where women were excluded.
After law school, I became frustrated with the legal system. I
was focusing on one case, one family. What I dealt with felt so
minute, the problems so repetitive. One direction for my frustra-
tion that I thought about was to try to create some kind of a dia-
AN INTERVIEW WITH JUDGE JOYCE WHEELER 277
divorce and what the courts could do to make the divorce pro-
cess more sane so that kids do better. In a more abstract, less task
focus, we do not do enough of talking together.
We probably need to do that in order to sustain ourselves on
the bench. It is pretty isolating being a judge. Maine is so geo-
graphically spread out that when we do get together, which is
two to three times a year, we are very focused on concrete tasks.
The Gestalt training progams I’ve done have given me the op-
portunity to step out of the judicial box and think about how to
integrate my values and be more effective as a judge.
B.R. How did you get introduced to the Gestalt model?
J.W. I was going through a divorce and also thinking about changing
my career. I was university counsel at the time, dealing with em-
ployment issues, discrimination, dealing with interpersonal prob-
lems between administrators and teachers and teachers and
students. Many people thought that because I was a lawyer I
would have solutions to all kinds of problems. They didn’t want
or need legal solutions. I felt that I was flying by the seat of my
pants. I needed some training in dealing with interpersonal con-
flict. I thought of the possibility of going back to school for a
Ph.D. in psychology as a way to gather more skills to more effec-
tively work out relationships. However, I knew I did not want to
do a dissertation. Experiential learning was the way I wanted to
learn. My ex-husband’s sister recommended that I do a Gestalt
training program. I did the O.S.D. (Organizational Systems De-
velopment) program from 1993–1995 and the Couple and Fam-
ily program after that.
In the Gestalt program, I learned on different levels. I describe
the experience as learning through my pores. It is almost impos-
sible to articulate what I learned; I can only answer that question
from what I carry with me today from the experience itself. The
question I was asked at the end of each week of the training pro-
gram was, “How do you support yourself?” I hated that ques-
tion. I think my answer for the first several weeks was, “Who the
hell knows?” And so I learned to answer that question.
I learned something else that is enormously helpful now when
I sit in a courtroom. I learned how to be present in a system as
cleanly as possible by distinguishing what is my stuff and what
is the stuff that is coming from the parties before me and the
witnesses. When I hear all these bells and whistles going off, I
can stop a moment and figure out if this person is triggering
memories of my ex-husband, my father or mother, or whatever it
might be, or am I picking up just what this person is emanating?
I recognize that there is a need to make that distinction even if I
AN INTERVIEW WITH JUDGE JOYCE WHEELER 279
J.W. It’s a very difficult one. For example, if a woman comes in and
wants to drop her complaint, I sometimes will talk to her before
she does to try to ascertain whether she is acting freely or whether
there is some threat. In doing that, however, I feel uncomfortable
because I don’ t want to play “Big Sister is watching you” and
undermine her autonomy to decide. I, nevertheless, take a pro-
tective stance. Then if she wants to dismiss it, rarely do I say,
“No, you can’t dismiss it.” I try to slow down her action.
Here’s another example. We’ll be doing an uncontested divorce.
The parties will come before me, and it is clearly an unfair di-
vorce. There may be a pension plan that he is going to walk away
with and that she will get nothing for retirement. There may be a
huge disparity in their income levels, and she should be getting
some spousal support. I am faced with that same dilemma of how
much I should intervene. Am I stepping over too far and becom-
ing her advocate? What I do is try to bring out the information,
for instance, that a pension is a marital property, that it is some-
thing that both of them have a right to, even though he earned
the money. I advise them of their right to consult with an attor-
ney and tell them that there are free legal services available if
they want to do that. Occasionally, I do say that I will not grant
this divorce until you have time to think about it. Sometimes the
man is very angry and the woman is in tears because she is scared.
It is a risk that I will be setting her up for more control and ma-
nipulation and even abuse because I have evened out the power
for a moment and maybe it will reverberate negatively against
her. It is my responsibility to make sure the divorce is fair and
equitable, yet as a woman, I have enough sensitivity for her need
to be self-defining.
The man often talks about money as if it is his and she accepts
that. I ask about the context, the field, to get information as to
where this divorce plan came from. This is all to be done in ten-
minute slots.
B.R. Do Gestalt principles help you keep track of what you are doing?
J.W. Although I don’t use the words figure and ground in the court-
room, I see figure as the case before me; the ground is the marital
experience. I do need to know about the ground to resolve the
figure issues. I don’t need to take care of the figure in the court-
room. What I want to do is to get a sense of the ground, pulling it
out. Although I’m staying on the margin, I need to enter that fam-
ily and know what the dynamics of that family are and what their
patterns are of contacting each other.
The Gestalt experience is not solely an intellectual process. It
has become part of me. It is there. The Gestalt experience is my
284 BEVERLY REIFMAN
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Gestalt Review, 3(4):285–300, 1999
An Experiment in Community
Psychotherapy
N I G E L C O P S E Y, MSC
T A L I A L E V I N E B A R-Y O S E P H, MA
T
HE SETTING IS THE
most deprived in the United Kingdom. In addition to the prob-
lems facing a community with very high levels of unemployment,
Nigel Copsey is a Christian minister with a passion to integrate spirituality with
mental health. He works with the community mental health services in inner London
and for the Sainsbury Centre for Mental Health. He is also a humanistic psychotherapist.
Talia Levine Bar-Yoseph, past Director of the MSc in Gestalt Psychotherapy, Metanoia
Institute, London, is currently a trainer on the MSc, the course advisor, and a Gestalt
practitioner.
The writing of this article has challenged us both to examine the meaning of co-
writing. You will see that the article is written out of Nigel’s personal experience and in
the first person. However, it came to be created by both Nigel and Talia sharing a jour-
ney together, whereby each was bouncing ideas off the other. It was because Nigel was
in the actual setting that the story reads as his experience. His experience was shared
by Talia both as a supervisor and as a consultant. The content of the article was jointly
created as a result of many hours of discussion and dialogue. Co-writing for this article
has meant co-creating.
This article forms the basis of a forthcoming chapter in Bridging the Divides: A Dia-
logic Approach to Cultural Diversity, edited by Talia Levine Bar-Yoseph, to be published
by GIC Press.
poor housing, and high levels of crime, every major report published
in the last year has drawn attention to the crisis facing community
mental health services: the community services simply cannot cope with
the problems they are facing.
In addition to these issues, East London has undergone a major trans-
formation over the past 20 years. The traditional ‘East End’ was a very
settled community centered around the docks that provided employ-
ment for the whole area from the city of London downstream. It has
always been one of the most deprived areas of London; however, the
East End was a tightly knit community, with the majority of the popu-
lation intermarried and living within small communities. With the death
of the docks and the introduction of slum clearance programs, the whole
area began to change.
In the post-war years, large sections of the population moved out of
inner London while many of those remaining were rehoused in tower
blocks. At the same time, large numbers of people drawn from over-
seas communities began to move into London to make it their home. In
the mid-1950s and 1960s, the new population mainly came from the
West Indies, while in the 1970s and 1980s, large numbers of Asians and
Africans moved into East London. It is estimated that in the East Lon-
don Borough of Newham, the nonwhite population now represents over
50% of the population. The new communities have brought a rich di-
versity of life to inner London. They have also settled in defined areas,
with the result that the traditional white population has either moved
out of these areas or has itself moved into a number of more clearly
delineated neighborhoods. The whole map is changing.
One major result of this new population mix is the establishment of
a strong Asian culture within many parts of East London. For example,
there are now 30,000 Muslims, 21,000 Hindus, and 5,000 Sikhs living in
one London borough. In one particular area of the London Borough of
Newham, it is now possible to walk for two miles and pass fifteen
mosques and five temples. In addition, there are as many Africans and
African-Caribbean congregations as there are church buildings: indeed,
some traditional church buildings are host to three different black-led
congregations. It is this change in patterns of religion that has been
both the most unacknowledged and also the most significant in recent
years. In this one London borough, the combined congregations of Chris-
tians, Muslims, Hindus, Sikhs, Buddhists, and other Asian faiths now
represent at least 40% of the population.
The post-1945 experience of church-going in East London was one
of decline. In 1975, it was estimated that, if the decline continued, there
would be no churches left by the year 2000 (Smith, 1996). As late as
1985 the Faith in the City report was bemoaning the decline of urban
AN EXPERIMENT IN COMMUNITY PSYCHOTHERAPY 287
It was Paul Goodman who developed Gestalt thinking within the so-
cial context. Indeed, in Growing Up Absurd he devotes a whole chapter
to what he describes as “The Missing Community” (Goodman, 1960).
Taylor Stoehr (1994), who is Goodman’s literary executor, writes,
More recently, in Gestalt Review, Selma Ciornai (1998) has drawn atten-
tion to the cultural context of Gestalt in Brazil where the practice of
therapy is responding to the field conditions of a society where the fam-
ily is central to contact. In the same issue, Slemenson (1998) draws out
the relevance of Gestalt theory within a political context. Looking to
the future he observes that future goals should include: increased com-
munity work with mental illness as well as with prevention. He be-
lieves all social classes have equal rights to high-level professional care.
Polster, commenting on Goodman’s focus on developing (Brown, et
al., 1993) Gestalt theory into a social context, says, “In fact, Paul
Goodman, our most elaborative writer, has been almost totally disre-
garded in Gestalt therapy so far as his social commentary is concerned”.
Polster (Brown, et al., 1993) goes on to assert,
When I was given the opportunity to research the role of faith com-
munities within a community mental health context in the inner city, it
was like a dream come true! I was commissioned by the Sainsbury Cen-
tre for Mental Health to undertake a two-year project exploring the
mental health needs of the faith communities in East London (Copsey,
1997). Adopting a qualitative method of research, I visited twenty-seven
traditional Christian groups, ten African/African-Caribbean Christian
churches, two Asian Christian churches, four charismatic Christian
churches, four mosques, five Hindu temples, two Sikh temples, one
Buddhist group, and three other Asian groups. In addition, I visited all
groups working in mental health in the voluntary sector. My aim was
to listen to their understandings of the problems facing those with se-
vere mental health problems within their community. I was welcomed
by all, and there was a willingness to talk freely and to be very open.
My passion for East London began when I was a student at London
University studying theology. I lived in East London and began to see
first hand the poverty of the inner city. I lived through the slum clear-
ance programs that contributed to the destruction of a clearly identifi-
able culture, namely the traditional East London cockney. Many families
were forcibly moved to outer London whilst others were rehoused in
tower blocks. What is now acknowledged as a planning disaster re-
sulted in the destruction of a community that had a very strong sense
of identity and history. Cockney London was a tough place in which to
live, but there was a commitment by the community to the community
that was deeply rooted. This identity is retained in the popular media
through television soaps like Eastenders.
While I was training as a Christian minister, I knew that this was the
place where I should live and work. Even at that stage in my journey, I
felt very strongly that there should not be such inequality: the City of
London is one of the wealthiest areas in the UK within walking dis-
tance of Hackney and Tower Hamlets, the most deprived areas in the
UK. My strongly held belief as a Christian is that such polarities are
not part of God’s plan. Once I was ordained, I went to live in the
Docklands area of East London. My job was to establish a nondenomi-
national Christian community. At that time, the population in that area
was almost totally white, and attendance at anything remotely religious
was restricted to about 0.5% of the population. This is in stark contrast
to the new communities of East London (West Indian, African, and
Asian) where religious belief is part of life.
Not only was my initial task to discover ways in which it might be
possible to encourage a spiritual view of life, but also to respond to the
setting in which we lived. It is important to note that most profession-
als lived outside the area, which remains the case. The result is a co-
290 NIGEL COPSEY AND TALIA LEVINE BAR-YOSEPH
guage. The mosques and temples dominate the skyline of the East End
streets. Daily, devotees of all ages attend the many places of worship.
The customs of the communities have become the norm: the norms of
dress are Asian. The restaurants and shops are completely Asian. I of-
ten eat in an Asian restaurant where I am the only white person. The
food is wonderful! The shared symbols of religious meaning, dress, lan-
guage, and custom provide a very public display of a shared meaning.
Definable groups with a history from Asia and Africa have established
themselves. Because of easy communication with “home,” a strong link
is maintained. This is illustrated by the numerous telephone shops of-
fering cheap international calls and by the rich and diverse range of
Asian shops. The spiritual focus of each community is often linked to
geographical areas in the home country with imams and priests who
travel between the two countries.
The following polarities form part of the environment in East London:
have replaced psychoanalytical ones. I was not (and never have been)
working with people in a one-to-one individual and private setting.
My work has always led me to be with people suffering from mental
health problems in their own context. This was the challenge to me as I
embarked on this research. Here I was, a white Christian minister, com-
mitted to psychological and spiritual change, seeking to learn from the
many diverse faith communities in inner London.
The phenomenological approach (Husserl, 1931) stressed the importance
of “bracketing off” my own assumptions as I sought to understand how
people from other backgrounds saw and understood their world. I very
quickly realized how difficult this was. Especially with faith communi-
ties that were predominantly white, I realized that the assumptions I
internalized were often far removed from their reality. One very good
example came when I was approached by a white Christian religious
group in the docklands area to provide a support group for those who
needed help with the many mental health problems in their lives. This
was a group that was very different from the traditional church. They
met in a house. Each person had lived in that area of East London all
their lives. This group had a large number of men which is unusual for
this area. The area has an unemployment rate of 22% and has one of the
highest levels of deprivation and crime in London. Alcohol and drug
abuse are a way of life to many who live in this area. Adopting a phe-
nomenological approach, I quickly realized that I had assumed I knew
what it was like to live in such an environment (after all, I had lived in
the area for 15 years!). However, the reality was that I had no under-
standing of what it was like for some of the group members to live in
that context. I had projected onto them my understanding of their con-
text. In supervision, I was able to see my process. I returned with a
renewed desire to listen and learn. This phenomenological investiga-
tion enabled me to discover what this particular group needed. One
introject I carried was the size of the group. After all, four was not a
group! Another was a belief that everyone should attend every time. I
had to discover that what was required was a much less rigid system. I
had to keep on asking lots of questions in order to be able to engage in a
true dialogue with them concerning their experience.
With the white religious group I began with an assumption (albeit
wrongly!) that I fully understood the culture. When I began to approach
the Asian, African, and African-Caribbean communities, I realized at
the outset that I had to adopt a phenomenological approach. I quickly
realized that Western interventions use a language containing many
assumptions. For example, the very notion of counseling has little or
no meaning to an Asian elder. In the first place there is no equivalent
word in their language. My Asian colleague and I spent a morning
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I set out first to find a trained Gestaltist living and working in this area
of London. I was also looking for someone who was working within
community rather than operating in a “counseling centre.” In addition,
296 NIGEL COPSEY AND TALIA LEVINE BAR-YOSEPH
I was looking for someone who came from one of the new communities
and saw religious belief as a part of his or her life. My reason for want-
ing to work with a Gestalt-trained therapist was because I needed some-
one who shared my commitment to moving into the field and who was
flexible enough to work with the phenomenological data. I also needed
a colleague who could quickly gain the confidence of those communi-
ties with whom I had only limited contact. This is particularly impor-
tant when considering the issue of language and the willingness of Asian
women to relate to another woman from their own cultural background.
The importance of their faith, which impinges on every aspect of their
lives, needed also to be both understood and empathized with fully. I
knew that it was simply not possible for me to become part of this sec-
tion of the community. I was unable to find any fully trained Asian
female Gestaltist! The reason for this is that therapeutic training is very
expensive and focused primarily within Western middle-class culture:
a culture that ignores the values of the new communities. Such trainings
expect trainees to conform to the values of the Western worldview
(Hellman, 1994). It can therefore be seen that for someone for whom
spirituality is a part of life, such a value system is experienced as alien.
After much searching, I found a coworker from within one of the Asian
voluntary organizations, who was in the process of completing her
master ’s degree in counseling psychology.
In order to discover how to proceed, I “moved into the field.” In one
mosque, both the President and the Imam said that they were willing
to engage with me in discovering how the mental health services and
their religious organization could explore ways of working together. A
Sai Baba group invited me to their worship as an honored guest and
was willing to explore future partnerships. In both cases I did not stipu-
late what the content of the dialogue should be. Instead, I was willing
to engage in a process in which we joined together in discovering a
relationship of trust. My willingness to join with what was already in
the field enabled us to embark on a dialogue. In both cases I started
from the assumption of difference. I have also established a working
relationship with an Asian mental health charity as a result of adopting
the same approach.
In addition to the group already referred to above (the white, East
End, Christian group), the most exciting development has been the es-
tablishment of a women’s Muslim group. In my two years of research,
I discovered a very special Muslim lady who had herself experienced
severe mental health problems, directly related to a number of factors
linked to living in East London. In our discussion, she realized that
there were many Muslim women who actively sought her out for help—
she is a natural listener and, because of her own journey of both suffer-
ing and survival, does not preach to those who come to her. I should
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what could become could be very different to that which we have hith-
erto defined as psychotherapy.
I would like to pause at this point and refer to the role of supervision
in this process. My supervisor, Talia, joined me in this venture as I was
bringing together many of the findings from my research. It is very
significant that she comes from a different culture (she’s Israeli and I
am English) and from a different spiritual background (Judaism and
Christianity). From the ground of our relationship has emerged a mu-
tual respect that is held together by differences. It is as if we mirror the
process that I am undertaking with my Asian colleagues. I hope that
my Asian colleagues and I will also be able to model this. They are
Asian, Muslim, and Hindu. I am English and Christian. Both in my
supervision and in the work setting, true dialogue is only possible by
recognizing the differences. This is also a basic assumption in Gestalt
theory. Tali’s role for me has been similar to that of a consultant. I have
been able to ask lots of questions and to be clear about what I need
from her. In turn, she has challenged me in many areas, not least about
my own introjected assumptions. She has also enabled me to keep a
very clear focus on the phenomenology. I see such a role as crucial, for
she is separate enough from the situation to be able to avoid fusion. I
would sum up her role as providing me with the challenge to remain
focused on what is figure in the field and to concentrate on the phe-
nomenological data rather than on interpreting the content.
A very good example of this was with the white Christian group. It
was not the policy of the group to be totally white, but because it meets
in a district that is predominantly white, it draws solely from that com-
munity. I quickly discovered that the members of this group had adopted
the introject of the wider community, which resulted in their believing
that they could not influence the structures of society. The structures
do, in fact, reinforce this perception. The co-created reality is one of
powerlessness. The main task has been to help them to draw on the
very strong resources of their faith to begin the process of creating a
different environment for themselves. My goal has been to encourage
them to co-create an environment of mutual support in order to em-
power one another to effect change in their daily living. Although my
work has been to support the system to effect change, I am willing, if
necessary, to become part of the wider field in order to enable this to
happen. In this setting, the “field” involves major inequalities that are
both social and political.
I am convinced from the early experience of these two groups that
working in groups is the only way to work with the reality that groups
are an essential part of the community. People need the support of a
family-sized group. Again, I have been willing to adjust the size of the
group according to the needs of the participants. It seems that a total of
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five is an ideal number. This fits with the cultural norm where people
only share personal details with a chosen few.
I also realize that small groups have an important place in all faith
communities in this area of London. Both these groups come from a
tradition that is not based on individualism. The extended family is
essential as a way of life for them. This is in stark contrast to suburban
London where there are high levels of mobility and where people live
in very unsupported environments. However, a further common de-
nominator of the groups is that there is a shame connected with the
sharing of mental health problems. By forming an alliance with the
supportive structure of a faith community, it is hoped that we will be
able to evolve a safe group in which to explore such problems. It is
early, but the signs are encouraging.
Conclusion
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T IS ESSENTIAL THAT EXPERIENCES
munity Psychotherapy, be presented, shared, and reported since
there has been little written on this important subject. I consider it
valuable particularly for psychotherapists, such as ourselves, living in
countries where individual psychotherapy does not properly respond
to the needs of the people due to our less individualistic culture and
much smaller communities.
I very much appreciate the thorough style in describing and explic-
itly stating the vicissitudes of your work: I found it easy to follow the
process and gradually learn from the experience described. It also
helped me to sequentially make comparisons with my own experience.
Some of the time I felt I could perfectly understand your experience
because it is quite similar to those we have had in Mexico. Other times
I found myself learning, for you describe things I would not have
thought of. Your article opened doors by helping me to reflect on my
work and generating what could turn out to be new specific applica-
tions to my professional practice.
I am in agreement with the authors that the phenomenological
approach helps us Gestaltists to break from our biased ideas, thus
allowing us to understand people within their own context. This phe-
nomenological approach to culture is the essence of community
psychotherapy.
I am reminded of interventions that I was witness to some years ago,
that involved psychotherapists working with peasants near Guadalajara
city. In one particular instance, the psychotherapist called himself
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302 MYRIAM MUÑOZ POLIT
Some Concerns
The authors of this article seem to imply that not having a particular
religious belief is a hindrance, and that belonging to any religion is,
“per se,” something good for the development of the individual. This
seems to me like a projection of their own beliefs which may limit the
vision of their investigation and analysis. Be that as it may, I would like
to comment on what is happening in Mexico in this regard. Since the
Spanish conquest, Catholicism, and recently the various types of Prot-
estantism resulting from the close proximity to the United States, have
influenced their members to generate a culture where conscience devel-
opment is deeply limited, due to the basic idea that it is necessary to
obey the religious authority mandates. They dictate what is right and
wrong. Any attempt at autonomous reflection is deemed as “diabolic.”
This is illustrated by the satanization of all that implies conscience de-
velopment, specifically all humanistic psychotherapies. They are ranked
by the official Catholic Church (dominated by the “Opus Dei” and
“Christ Legionaries”) as part of what they affirm to be a “demonic sect”
called “New Age” and prohibited to their followers.
One result has been the arrival of different types of Christian Protes-
tantism. It has generated, especially in native communities like those
in the state of Chiapas, a real “religious war” where Catholics and Prot-
estants have been part of armed confrontations, and families and
304 MYRIAM MUÑOZ POLIT
HANK YOU , MYRIAM, FOR YOUR RESPONSE to our article. You were so
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HERE IS AN IMPORTANT LINK
ive theory. Gestalt theorists (Perls, Hefferline, and Goodman, 1951;
Latner, 1973) describe how individuals are constantly engaged in
an ongoing process of losing and then reestablishing organismic equi-
librium. In a parallel way, narrative theorists (Labov, 1982; Bruner, 1990;
Linde, 1993) describe how we tell stories about troubling events in our
everyday experience in order to regain some sense of equilibrium in
our lives. The important shared concept at the heart of both Gestalt
theory and narrative theory is that we are constantly addressing and
attempting to make sense of “disequilibrium” in our experience.
In this article I will make visible how individuals work to reestab-
lish a sense of equilibrium in their lives through the stories they tell. I
will also show how these efforts parallel what Gestalt theorists have
described as the process of Gestalt formation and closure. Through this
analysis, I hope to show how a working knowledge and awareness of
narrative theory can help Gestalt practitioners in their work with cli-
ents in the therapeutic context.
In Part One of this article, I present a case example in the form of a
transcript of therapeutic work between Dr. Violet Oaklander (“Dr. O”
hereafter) and a 14-year-old girl named Elisa. In Part Two, I elaborate
on the theoretical links between Gestalt therapy theory and narrative
theory before analyzing, in Part Three, the exchange between Dr. O and
Peter Mortola, Ph.D. is an Assistant Professor of School and Counseling Psychology
at Lewis and Clarke College in Portland, Oregon. For the past five years, he has worked
closely with Dr. Violet Oaklander in her training workshops that provide adults with a
Gestalt approach to doing therapy with children.
Elisa. In Part Four, I outline implications of this study for Gestalt prac-
titioners.
Dr. O: Wow. . . .
Elisa: . . . And he’d go and I’d be sitting there going all crooked. . . .
Dr. O: Wow . . . Yeah. . . .
Elisa: . . . And it’d be really hard to live my life without him because
he was always something that when I made decisions—it was
his part too. And so, ummm (crying, wiping nose)—it was just
like all my life depended on him too. Even though he had his
own feelings too. But, I never really told him that either, that he
was a lot of me . . . but . . .
Dr. O: Hm, mmm . . .
Elisa: So when I think of him, it’s like . . .
Dr. O: Now, how old is he now?
Elisa: He’s going to be 16 in September. So, he’s going up (she draws
a line going up) and I’m staying down (she draws a descending
line). So he’s kinda like living his life—he just keeps going, but
I’m still down here trying to figure out what to do, so . . .
Dr. O: Hm, mmm—If he were here, how would it be different for you?
Elisa: Actually, it’d probably still be the same. I’d have to get adjusted
to having him back. And it’d be awhile before he started being
part of me again? See, because I’ve lived—now I’ve lived like—
a year I think, or two years—without him, and so, I’ve gotten
used to sort of being on my own. I’ve gotten used to making
decisions, without me asking “Jason, what do you think?” A lot
of the reasons I got my answers was from him ‘cause he helped
me. So if he did come back, I’d get used to—having him there.
But I don’t think I’d be so much with him anymore.
Dr. O: And maybe you’ve learned—you’ve had to learn a lot of how to
do that yourself.
Elisa: Yeah. . . . That’s happening a lot where—I live my life on my
own, without having Jason there. . . .
Before analyzing the transcript above, I will first elaborate on the im-
portant connections between Gestalt and narrative theory. Although
the concepts within Gestalt theory and narrative theory are divergent
in many ways, both sets of theories hold at least one thing in common.
That is, the concept of a central, three-part, or “triadic” process involv-
ing a movement through equilibrium, disequilibrium, and modified
equilibrium. In Gestalt theory, this movement is described as being cen-
tral to the ongoing process of Gestalt formation and closure. In narra-
tive theory, this three-part movement is described as being central to
the process of telling a story and “making sense” of human experience.
In the following sections, I briefly outline how both Gestalt theory and
NARRATIVE FORMATION AND GESTALT CLOSURE 311
Narrative “Equilibrium”
In the transcript presented in Part One above, Elisa opens with a state-
ment about her older brother Jason: “With Jason, I lived with him
longer.” Elisa then elaborates on this statement by describing what had
been “normative” (Bruner, 1990) in her young life with a series of
phrases that captures the importance of her brother ’s presence:
Narrative “Disequilibrium”
Tannen (1989) states that instances of repetition in a story “underline a
key phrase or idea” that the narrator is emphasizing. In Elisa’s case,
repetition of the idea that “something is missing” underlines the dis-
equilibrium that she has experienced in the process of losing her broth-
ers. To emphasize her feelings of missing her brother Jason, Elisa uses
multiple metaphors in her first lengthy passage to portray her trou-
bling feelings in clear images:
Capps and Ochs (1995) note that storytellers emphasize their mean-
ing within a spoken text through the use of “intensifying” adverbs and
adjectives as in Elisa’s emphasis placed on her descriptions of trouble
through her repeated use of “really” (e.g., “really big, dark . . . tunnel,”
“he was a really big part of me,” “it’d be really hard to live my life with-
316 PETER MORTOLA
out him”). Thus, through both repetition and emphasis, Elisa makes
clear that losing her brothers was a significantly troubling event in her
young life. In Gestalt terminology, Elisa brings into “figure” a verbal
portrait that clearly articulates her foregrounded disequilibrium. By
having encouraged Elisa to express herself through the images of “col-
ors, lines and shapes,” Dr. O can be seen as facilitating both narrative
construction as well as Gestalt formation with her client: “The figure
(Gestalt) in awareness,” state Perls et al. (1951), “is a clear, vivid per-
ception, image, or insight” (p. 231). What Elisa has done thus far through
her image-laden words is to articulate a “vivid perception” of the trouble
in her story, which she next works to make sense of in collaboration
with Dr. O.
“such later events resolve the high point action in some sense, clearing
the stage or capping off the experience” (p. 31). Reflecting this notion
of resolution, Elisa ends the transcript with a statement that works to
resolve or, in Gestalt terminology, bring closure to the conflicts she has
been describing. Additionally, it can be argued from the Gestalt per-
spective that such phrasing is evidence of what Perls et al. (1951) have
described as “the destruction of previous equilibria, and the assimila-
tion of something new” (p. 373). At the end of the transcript, Elisa pre-
sents herself not simply as “down” about losing her brothers, but as
someone who has incorporated that difficult loss into a larger perspec-
tive of herself, gaining some closure on it in the process.
It is important to highlight the fact that this example of narrative
formation and Gestalt closure was not accomplished by Elisa in isola-
tion, but within the particular context of a therapeutic relationship es-
tablished over time with Dr. O. Thus, Elisa’s sense making can be seen
as being both verbally and nonverbally “co-constructed” with the able
assistance of a caring adult in the form Dr. O. In the following section,
I discuss the implications of this study.
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Building Bridges:
A Response to Peter Mortola
S T E P H A N I E B A C K M A N, MSSA
Most of the narrative therapists have in their repertoire the use of the
reflecting team. (The team consists of a group of therapists seated to-
gether with each member “reflecting” back to the client an invariably
positive musing about what has just been said in session; the client
discusses whatever was of interest out of that reflecting. The team re-
flects again; the client discusses whatever was of interest in that reflec-
tion. That sequencing continues throughout the session. Most of the
time the team members speak only to each other, and the client ad-
dresses only the therapist.) The reflecting team, with its rhythmic back
and forth of the reflections and responses to the reflections, to the de-
gree that some focus is maintained, can fit the elements Mortola has
described as the “well-formed” narrative. He describes the six elements
of a well-formed narrative from a linguistic perspective, abstract, orien-
tation, complicating, action, resolution, evaluation, and coda. In fact, he is
describing what is one of the basic supports for change in the Gestalt
theoretical framework: The co-creation of good form. The template of
the cycle of experience (see Zinker, 1977), the good form, the Gestalt, or
unit of the work can all be synonymous with the linguistic perspective
of the well-formed narrative. An honoring of form can be applied to
the use of the Gestalt session or to the use of the reflecting team. How-
ever, many times the team does not follow a well-formed narrative.
What is adhered to, instead, is a rule that nothing needs to (or even
should) stand out, and no coda is necessary. As a result, the focus shifts
continually and the ending is ragged. Continuous shifting of figures
leaves an “unformed” narrative.
One more bridge, then, between narrative and Gestalt therapists is
that the reflecting team and a Gestalt therapy interview both have the
potential for the creation of a well-formed narrative. Most Gestalt thera-
pists value a therapy session that adheres to a theme and a clear devel-
opment of one issue. The value of the good form exists for the Gestalt
therapist as an important ingredient of the change process. Among many
other uses in the process of change, good form helps the client retain
the new meaning that was created during the session. Practically speak-
ing, neither the Gestalt therapist nor the narrative therapist always suc-
ceeds in orchestrating a well-formed narrative, but both share this value.
To use Mortola’s words, they share a theoretical linguistic perspective.
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of the couple, family, and so on. The data that the Gestalt approach
values regarding the patterns and sequences that are transpiring dur-
ing a session are now not being used by narrative therapists in a way
that makes those patterns visible to the client. In an attempt to stay
away from the “therapist-driven” sessions, they have substituted a cha-
otic, unformed format. This results in a loss of novel and compelling
data for both the therapist and the client, and the narrative approach
risks limiting itself to intrapsychic work. Out goes a baby with the bath
water.
Mortola’s interesting article suggests the building of the above-men-
tioned bridge. Further linguistic awareness can always be a shared driv-
ing force of both the narrative and the Gestalt approach, as he suggests.
In that way, narrative-based work can become more integrated into
Gestalt therapy. In turn, the Gestalt therapy theory can return to the
narrative world a commitment to phenomenological observations between
and among people. I hope the ideas in my response will add to the devel-
oping of connections between narrative theory and Gestalt therapy theory.
Thank you to Peter Mortola for bringing it to our awareness.
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I
HAVE BEEN ASKED TO COMMENT
rary trend in the field of both psychotherapy and literary narrative.
As a participant in this discussion, I feel most interested in the nov-
elty of the theme “narrative in psychotherapy.” Perhaps I am caught
up by a narrative process too. What is the disequilibrium that provokes
me to read this article? What modified equilibrium do I find in writing
this reply? More important, in which relationship of mine does this new
construction of meaning happen?
What follows is my narrative of my process of regaining some sense
of equilibrium, in the here-and-now of the relationship with you the
readers (author included). It springs from the encounter between what
I have read in the article and my previous experience of the interface
between narrative and Gestalt therapy (disequilibrium). My narrative
is a new, always momentary, equilibrium—already surprising and un-
foreseeable as it emerges—of my making contact with you, who the
reader.
Narrative is therapeutic in the extent to which it implies an active
restructuring on the part of the narrator, whose previous balance has
been thrown into crisis by an experience that overturns the preceding
Gestalt. This is what Mortola’s article affirms, underlining how the pro-
Margherita Spagnuolo Lobb is Director Istituto di Gestalt, H.C.C., Italy and Presi-
dent European Association for Gestalt Therapy.
Translated from the Italian by Bruno G. Just.
cess that supports the act of narration on the part of the client high-
lights a parallel between Gestalt therapy and narrative theory.
My commentary consists of four parts. I begin with a brief descrip-
tion of therapy as narrative in order to situate Mortola’s contribution in
this field of literature. I then would offer a definition of the narrative,
which, in my opinion, is more harmonious with Gestalt therapy theory.
I list what I consider to be useful and stimulating points of reference
between narrative theories and Gestalt therapy. In so doing, I can then
specify the usefulness of this approach for Gestalt clinical practice.
tale to the client or, better still, a thread capable of allowing the client
to discover the lost plot in his story.
In this last decade, the literature of psychotherapy has been enriched
by the many contributions to this stimulating relationship between nar-
rative and psychotherapy. Among the most original contributions are
those of Gestalt therapist Erving Polster (1987). Within a literary and,
therefore, aesthetic code, he presents Gestalt therapy’s attention to pro-
cess as a mirror of life’s spontaneity, from which no therapist should
escape. Narrative theory in psychotherapy thus becomes a develop-
ment of the Buberian concept of “betweeness” (Zwischenheit). It also
illustrates our concept of contact as the phenomenology of a boundary’s
event and the discourse by Goodman on verbalizing and poetry (Perls
et al., 1951, vol. II, ch. 7).
Current thought on narrative in psychotherapy moves in the field of
hermeneutics (Gadamer, 1960; Salonia, 1992b, Sichera, 1998). Narra-
tive significance of interest to the therapist is that which develops at
the contact boundary (the escaping point, Gadamer would say) between
the therapist and client, between the horizon (precomprehension) of
the therapist and that of the client.
Even in the field of the developmental theory, the narrative aspect is
of great moment. The child’s capacity to tell a story about himself is,
indeed, defined as a fundamental milestone in self-development (Stern,
1985; Wilber, 1986). This is consistent with Gestalt therapy. Perls et al.
(1951, vol. II, ch. 7, sec. 1) affirmed that the acquisition of language is
tightly bound to the development of the personality. They considered
it a creative act of the second or third year of age. We can, therefore, say
that the ability to tell about one’s self indicates the ability to integrate
the various experiences into one experiential, holistic unity that is well
differentiated from what is not-self. This evolutionary jump, which oc-
curs around three years of age, allows the child to experience contact
making with the environment in a differentiated, integrated way with
a clear sense of personal beingness (Salonia, 1992a).
of contact, can never, either in its coming to pass (as action of the ego)
or in its signification, disregard “who” the story is being told to. There
are necessarily three elements that define narrative for the Gestalt thera-
pist: the narrator, the narrated, and the person(s) to whom the narrative
is addressed.
In Gestalt therapy, the self—the hinge of all therapeutic approaches—
is conceived as an experiential event that happens in the phenomeno-
logical actuality (Perls et al., 1951, ch. 10, sec. 4). Narration, as expression
of the self-in-contact, is necessarily a relational act inserted in a field
(the self is the experience of the field). The other, “the who” to whom
the story is addressed is neither secondary nor background: he is an
element that determines the narrative. Indeed, the self, with its voli-
tional aspect decides how to tell the story, according to whom it is ad-
dressed. There doesn’t exist a fact in itself, for itself: since narrative is
as an event of contact, there exists then only “a fact told to.”
Narrative that occurs in therapy (a process described by the author
as (equilibrium, disequilibrium, modified equilibrium) cannot be sepa-
rated, in its contents as well as in its modes, from the fact that the nar-
rative is addressed to the therapist. Narration is a creative adjustment
that occurs in the here-and-now; it is a product of the experience of the
field. The therapist is a fundamental part of the field; s/he is the envi-
ronment with which the client’s self is in contact. For a Gestalt thera-
pist, the three phases of the process described by Mortola cannot be an
exception to this reading. If one observes them from a relational and
experiential perspective (What is Elisa’s experience in relationship to
Oaklander?), then one sees that the client’s manner of being in the pres-
ence of the therapist is centered on feelings of discouragement and pain.
It is as if the client is asking the therapist: “Will I dare to live without
my brothers?” When Oaklander asks: “If he were here, how would it
be different for you?” she gives the client the key to redo the story with
another truth: “It’d probably still be the same.” When both Oaklander
and Elisa concur: “And maybe you’ve learned—you’ve had to learn a
lot of how to do that yourself,” they discover in that mutual contact a
narrative truth, which fits beyond the historical truth and which is the
proper locus of psychotherapy.
cry that issues from the very blood of the founders of our approach.
Despite the dichotomy, which Sartré pointed out, between living and
narrating, they rose to the challenge of forming a theory that could stand
with what marks the spontaneity of human living: the phenomenology
of its being-in-the-world.
Perls et al. (1951, vol. II, ch. 7) analyzed language in such a way as to
allow the evolution of our theory toward the narrative aspect of therapy.
They define language as the bridge between individual and society.
“People . . . find confronted within themselves their ‘personal’ wishes
and their societal roles” (Perls et al., 1951, ch. 7, sec. 1). Thus, they allow
us to define narrative, not as a wish to hide, but as a wish to reveal.
Narrative reveals then, not only some preexisting meaning, but also,
and more important, the meaning of the here-and-now relationship, a
meaning that is always between “personal” wishes and societal roles.
Furthermore, in line with Mortola’s thesis, they affirm, in speaking
of poetry, “and most important of all, a poem has a beginning, a middle
and an end; it finishes the situation” (Perls et al., 1951, ch. 7, sec. 2).
Also, “the present situation is taken as an adequate possible field for
solving an unfinished situation” (Perls et al., 1951, ch. 7, sec. 2).3
The parallel between narrative theories and Gestalt therapy offered
by Mortola leaves at least two important aspects not covered: the rela-
tional aspect (to whom is the story addressed?) and the aspect of se-
quence within the process (sequentiality) which carries the closure of
the Gestalt (what to do to foster it?)
3
Kitzler [1999] connects this process aspect of narrative to Miller ’s analysis [1981]
of the roles of conflict and resolution and wonders which one of the two is more influ-
ential in final narrative creation.
330 MARGHERITA SPAGNUOLO LOBB
myself, much less to him, the pain of his foreshadowed loss. In one
instant this dream acquired its narrative truth: the possibility of ex-
pressing my love to Isadore and the pain of his approaching death.
Every account finds its deepest significance, its most pregnant be-
ing, in the relationship within which it is created. Isadore From’s dream-
work theory exemplifies this central theme in Gestalt therapy. The mode
in which the client narrates his story to the therapist has to do with the
therapist and has the goal of undoing a retroflection that, unaware,
maintains a relational hold on the client vis-à-vis the therapist.
As an example, I cite an excerpt from Salonia (1992b):
The client says: “I feel confused.” The therapist can ask: “In what
way do I confuse you?” After the first: “This doesn’t concern you”
. . . the client can hint at the fact that, perhaps, the therapist has
talked too much or has said something different in this session
than in the previous ones [p. 10].
story (in the creation of his self in contact), and to update himself,
moment to moment, on the quality of his being there as a therapist. The
therapist’s lack of interest, as in the case of the client, indicates a verbal-
izing, the silencing of a conflict, thus a central point for therapy.
I hope that this narrative will stimulate reflections useful to our cli-
ents and for whoever tells us his story.
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In: Psicoterapia della Gestalt. Ermeneutica e Clinica, ed. M. Spagnuolo Lobb &
G. Salonia.
Sichera, A. (1998), Comparison with Gadamer. Towards a hermeneutic episte-
mology of Gestalt therapy. Studies in Gestalt Therapy, 6/7:9–30.
Spagnuolo Lobb, M. (1988), Introduzione all’edizione italiana. In: Ogni Vita
Merita un Romanzo, ed. E. Polster. Roma: Astrolabio.
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have simply accepted living with a narrative closure that reflected the
way things were for her sometime in the past without being able to
acknowledge the way things are for her now in the present. I think this
reflects what Backman aptly points out as change coming about by a
shift in the narrative told by the client.
Dr. Oaklander ’s question that encourages Elisa’s reevaluation (“If
he were here, how would it be different for you?”) somehow allows
Elisa to glimpse and articulate an awareness of herself in the present
that she had not been able to see just seconds prior! The reversal is
dizzying. Instead of accepting that “he’s going up and I’m staying
down,” Elisa now clearly asserts that “I live life on my own, without
having Jason there.” All this results from, as Spagnuolo Lobb points
out, the centrally important fact that Elisa is telling a story to and with
someone.
For me, seeing the power of micro-interactional moments like these
clarifies what Backman has described as the fuzziness of words like
“social constructionism.” When I think about the kind of influence “we
who hear stories” have in the therapeutic context, I feel both exhila-
rated and laden with incredible responsibility.
A last point that I would like to clarify is subtle and perhaps a bit
dangerous. In writing my original piece, I was not starting from the
assumption that Gestalt theory and narrative theory were two reified
things in themselves that I was trying to join. Rather, my assumption
was that both the Gestalt process and the narrative process were part
of the same human/organismic move to make sense of ourselves and
the world. I didn’t view them as two separate processes that I was try-
ing to link theoretically. Instead, I was trying to describe how they are
really part of the same fundamentally important phenomena of human
meaning making. I am thankful to Joseph Melnick and all the others
who have made this opportunity possible.
Gestalt Review, 3(4):337–340, 1999
T
HE PURPOSE OF THIS EVALUATIVE PILOT
two videos, one with Violet Oaklander, using Gestalt therapy and
the other with Ray DiGiuseppe, using Rational–Emotive Behav-
ior therapy (REBT), to explore their utility as training tapes for gradu-
ate students.
For decades, therapy films with adults, which compare various theo-
retical perspectives, have been produced and used as training tools for
mental health practitioners. The most famous training film was the
“Gloria” tape, which featured a Gestalt (Perls), Rogerian (Rogers), and
a Rational–Emotive Behavior (Ellis) therapist. Each clinician worked
with the same client “Gloria” from their respective theoretical orienta-
tions. Despite the criticisms and limitations (Stoten and Goos,1974;
Kiesler and Goldston,1988; Weinrach,1990) of the “Gloria” tapes, they
have been used as the model for training films for clinicians who work
with adult clients (Weinrach, 1986).
While numerous films have been produced, most recently a series
by the American Psychological Association, there is a scarcity of clini-
cal films featuring therapeutic work with children and particularly from
a Gestalt approach. Futhermore, minimal research has been carried out
in evaluating the utility of training films by student therapists.
Sheila Aspinall is a School Psychologist with the New York City Board of Educa-
tion, Division of Special Education. She also has her own consulting agency. This paper
was submitted in partial fulfillment of the requirements for the doctorate in Profes-
sional Child/School Psychology at New York University.
Iris Fodor, Professor of Applied Psychology and Director of the School Psychology
Program at New York University is interested in the integration of Gestalt and Cogni-
tive therapies. Recent work features a Gestalt approach to emotional education in the
schools.
References
Agin, S. & Fodor, I. (1996), The use of the core conflictual relationship theme
method in describing and comparing Gestalt and rational emotive behav-
ior therapy with adolescents. J. Rational–Emotive & Cog. Behav. Ther., 14:173–
186.
DiGiuseppe, R. (in press.),Rational emotive behavior therapy with a depressed
adolescent. [Videotape]. New York: The Institute for Rational Emotive
Therapy.
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chotherapy in Europe and the United States, that this edited collection
on the use of touch in psychotherapy should appear. It is the first over-
view volume on the topic and, as such, warrants review by Gestalt and
body-oriented therapy programs.
The book is divided into three sections. The first section, “Theoretical
and Ethical Considerations,” is geared at outlining the history, issues
and concerns, context, and rationale for the ethical use of touch in psy-
chotherapy. The second section, entitled “Research Perspectives,”
reports on some specific research on touch in psychotherapy, hoping to
illuminate its use. The final section, “Insights From Practice,” presents
a number of thoughtful and sometimes brave descriptions of the use of
touch with clients, along with the authors’ guidelines in its usefulness,
problems, and possible proscription in certain clinical situations.
The section is started off by editor Ed Smith’s orienting discussion
on “Traditions of Touch in Psychotherapy.” Smith’s approach is histori-
cal in emphasis, suggesting that the bias against touch in mainstream
psychotherapy stems from a Western cultural bias against the body, as
well as Freud’s historical, we might even say hysterical, taboo against
any forms of touch in psychoanalysis. Despite this, Smith notes the
importance of touch in human development and ego formation, the
use of touch by Ferenczi and later by Reich within the analytic tradi-
tion, and the modern use of touch by some analysts, by body-oriented
psychotherapists, and by humanistic therapists, all of whom use touch
in different ways and for different purposes.
The chapter by Kertay and Reviere is, to my mind, a crucial one for
the discussion of the use of touch because it defines touch, its mean-
ings, and its usefulness, as contextual. In Gestalt terms, it is a field prob-
lem. Its complexity, therefore, is not amenable to simplistic taboos or
rigid guidelines. They note that both the decision to touch and the de-
cision not to touch will have meanings which are interpreted by the
client and that the real issue is how to understand the context in which
meaning is made. Their most important point is that the use of touch
requires careful consideration and thoughtfulness by the therapist with
ample attention to the impact on the particular client, on the therapeu-
tic relationship, and with much self-searching and clarity about one’s
motives and countertransference issues. They offer some initial guide-
lines which are better elaborated elsewhere in the book.
Smith returns with a chapter on “Taxonomy and Ethics of Touch in
Psychotherapy.” His taxonomy is an attempt to break down the dual-
ism of touch/no touch and note the forms of touch that are taboo in
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therapy, such as aggressive or sexual touch, and those that are not, such
as conversational markers, technical touch in body therapy, expressive
touch, and so on. I found his use of the chakra model awkward and
distracting here, marring an otherwise useful theoretical discussion. I
appreciated his mention of informed consent for touch as part of the
contracting process within Gestalt experiments utilizing touch. This
ongoing informed consent model is what we have used in Body Pro-
cess training as well.
The final chapter in this section by Bar-Levav is a brief but powerful
appeal for the importance of touch in healing deep psychic wounds.
He grounds his rationale in the fundamental developmental language
of touch for infants, noting that verbal reassurance is simply inadequate
in the face of terrible or painful inner experience. Gestaltists would say
that words alone are simply inadequate relational support for the mag-
nitude of the phenomenological experience in many situations. While
he mentions the importance of permission each time touch is used, this
chapter is more of an impassioned plea for the relevance of touch for
healing in therapy, and readers must look to other chapters for clinical
guidance.
The section on research is started off by Fagen and Silverthorn, who
report their research on touch and emotional communication. Their main
findings suggest that the interpretation of touch by clients tends to be
more skewed and inaccurate as the degree of psychopathology increases,
a not surprising finding, and that more care must be taken therapeuti-
cally to understand and interpret touch with such clients.
The chapter by Milakovich looks at variables which distinguish thera-
pists who touch versus those who do not. Most of this, like the prior
chapter, is fairly obvious. For example, touch users were more likely to
be humanistic, to value touch, to have experienced body-oriented thera-
pies themselves, to have had more training in touch. A few findings,
such as that touch users are more likely to be female and to have been
sexually abused (a confounding variable here?), seem against stereo-
type. I found this chapter dry and not rich enough to raise much in the
way of questions.
The next chapter, by Clance and Petras, investigates therapists’ de-
cision-making processes regarding the use of touch. What I found so
helpful here is their use of detailed excerpts from therapist interviews,
which describe their thoughtfulness about how, when, and why they
use touch. This reveals much about the way in which they see the clini-
cal issues of touching and not touching, regardless of whether you agree
with their specific rationale.
The chapter by Geib on the client’s experience of nonerotic touch in
therapy was of the most interest to me in this whole section. Her small
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ter more useful if the author had taken an evaluative look at his train-
ing and practice in regard to touch. Mandelbaum’s approach is mostly
descriptive, and I found myself asking for more substance and critique,
more chewing. What of his training was problematic in regard to touch,
and why? How does he evaluate with whom he uses touch, what kind
of touch, and who he does not use it with? His discussion was not com-
plex enough for so complex a topic.
Torraco presents a set of descriptions of using physical touch, mostly
holding, with clients in transferential long-term therapy to fill in de-
velopmental deficits. The discussion of client dynamics and the com-
plexity of relationship here stands in contrast to the previous chapter.
Her first case presentation is laudable in that she describes how the use
of such holding failed with an intensely disturbed client, flooding the
transference with more than the client could contain. She thoughtfully
discusses what she did wrong and what she learned from this. She then
contrasts two clients, one who had not been well cared for as a child,
with whom she gently used touch over time, and another who was over-
indulged and whose self-supports were consequently underdeveloped,
with whom she did not use touch because it would have undermined
her growing independence. By the end of the chapter, after other cases
are discussed, she presents useful guidelines for the use and non-use
of such holding touch in long-term therapy. What stands out to me most
is that to use holding in this way requires ample experience and clini-
cal, discernment and is thus not anything new therapists can do. The
evaluation of the therapeutic field requires great clinical acuity and
ample experience to avoid the kind of problems she describes in her
first case when she was a younger and less experienced therapist.
The book ends abruptly here and glaringly lacks an afterword, sum-
mary, or discussion chapter by the editors. The reader could use an
overview that extracts some of the salient points and principles in the
use of touch, as well as suggestions for further research and clinical
consideration. I would have liked to hear, also, what their experience
was in putting together a book of this nature. What did they learn?
What are their new questions? What do they recommend to the field in
terms of developing training, supervision, or practice guidelines?
Final Comments
References
Kepner, J. (1993), Body Process: Working with the Body in Psychotherapy. San Fran-
cisco: Jossey-Bass.
A few years ago I saw the results of a study which tallied the number of
times people touched each other in public places, in two dozen coun-
tries. I had supposed the United States would be toward the bottom of
such a list, but I was more than a little surprised to find that the land of
the free was dead last: less physical contact than any other of the coun-
tries measured, the study reported, below Japan, below the Scandina-
vians (my guess for the low men on that particular totem pole).
More than 15 years ago, we had the beginnings of the national cho-
rus of outrage about the 4 million children or 10 million abducted in
America, or one child in four, the sad faces on milk cartons and the
courses in every elementary school, teaching children to be wary of
adults, not only strangers but also their own parents. The Time reporter
who tried to double-check on the figures advanced by organizations
created by parents of abducted children did a sampling of police de-
partments and arrived at a figure of 1,000 a year. When he went to his
editor, he was told to bury it because it was so low that it would cause
too much controversy.
Since then, we’ve had child abuse and its attendant hysteria (and
real injury) piled onto the stolen children wagon. Now, camp counse-
lors get courses in when they can touch children and where (in public,
on the arms and back, sometimes, maybe). And added to this is the
formulaic, religious fever of public and “professional” attitudes toward
drinking and smoking. Therapy of course has not escaped the influ-
ence of this polluted atmosphere of righteousness. This is surely a ver-
sion of the neurosis of normalcy about which our Gestalt
predecessors—who were, some of them, refugees from Nazi Germany
and homosexuals (in much less tolerant times than we enjoy)—spoke
and wrote. In Gestalt therapy and elsewhere they were eloquent about
the importance of discerning what constitutes heath in a “sick” society.
Unfortunately, no mention of any of this is made in the present book.
In discussing the reputation of touch in therapy, they say the fears of
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therapists (about what will happen if they touch their patients) is at-
tributable to “lack of accurate information” (p. xi) about what touch is
and how it is used, an Alice in Wonderland perspective for sure. The
tone of most articles is academic good manners as the ship goes down.
To give the reader a flavor of this, here is the first sentence of the early
chapter, “Touch in Context”: “Touch is a fundamental, multilayered,
and powerful form of communication thought to be essential to nor-
mative human development” (p. 16). All of this—the cautious note,
being tentative about that about which there is no doubt, and the ab-
sence of any recognition of sensuality or pleasure for its own sake (much
less any approval or encouragement of it)—is remarkable and bizarre.
I would not for a moment underestimate the devastating conse-
quences of this American way of no-touch. What is the cost to us as a
nation, not to mention our patients, of this don’t-touch culture? It’s
immeasurably large, I think. I can’t recall any occasion when this im-
portant iatrogenic effect of the current tenor of things has been men-
tioned.
In the sphere it has marked out for itself, Touch in Psychotherapy is a
sensible book. I’d rather have my own actions judged by the panel of
authors of Touch in Psychotherapy than any other grouping I can think
of—but perhaps that’s why both book and the situation in which it ex-
ists seems pathetic and tragic.
I touch my patients, nearly all of them at one time or another. There’s
a lot of back patting as we leave together, mostly that, unless there’s
something up. In the course of sessions, I take hands, pat arms, some-
times hug, touch knees, the works. But I’m not immune to the effects of
the social climate, whether because I’m more restrained than I was or
because the people I see are. (It’s a contact boundary phenomenon as
well as a field phenomenon, isn’t it?) There’s less hugging in my office
than there used to be and less simple, sweet off-hand touching. My
daughter-in-law is Italian, Venetian, and she is always touching me. I
love it. And I remember when I was first teaching in France, in Bor-
deaux in the late 1980s, how fascinated I was with the round of two-
cheek kisses in the morning and at the end of the day, how eager I was
to be included, wondering how I’d stand the warmth and the body
smells, the relief and pleasure of it.
I wonder sometimes, in bewilderment at the current state of things,
if the residue of sixties attitudes combined with the reaction against
them accounts for some important part of the present problem. The
1960s virtually eliminated the common handshake in this country, in
favor of a “Hi, I’m Karen” or “Have a nice day” and a wave or a nod of
the head. (I still tend to try to insist on shaking hands, but I know it’s
not the current rhythm of things and probably seems a little oddball or
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overly formal.) The current ubiquitous use of first names and the re-
cent establishment of “How are you?” “I’m great, just great; how are
you?’” does little, I believe, to relieve the don’t-touch chill in the social
climate, although it has the appearance of friendliness. It seems to say,
“We’re so casual and friendly we even use first names right off the bat,”
but we hardly touch each other. No wonder we’re so desperate to know
how everyone feels.
Joel Latner
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