HYPNOTISM & SEX

BY

ALEX - LEROY
EUROPE'S, YOUNGEST, FASTEST,
FUNNIEST & MOST OUTRAGEOUS STAGE HYPNOTIST

(HOW TO GET LAID 365+ TIMES A YEAR)

USING

HYPNOTIC TECHNIQUES
COPYRIGHT: A LEROY 1995

(HYPNOTISM & SEX)

HOW TO GET LAID 365+ TIMES A YEAR

BY

ALEX LEROY

Hi dudes! Allow me to introduce myself, my name is Alex-Leroy

and I expect you know yours! Now I'd like to introduce you to

what will be for most of you, I'm sure, a truly interesting,

informative and entertaining book to read. Now the reason I say

most of you is quite simply because many of you will use the

self-hypnosis techniques which are explained within these pages,

and for all you people it will be a relaxing, enjoyable, if

somewhat slightly unusual experience. Now although you'll see

the word "sleep" rather a lot in this book, none of you using

these techniques will ever be asleep or at least I hope you

won't, you see if your hypnotised you'll be fully aware of

everything going on at all times, you'll just have this

overwhelming desire to do almost anything I say! (Sorry false of

habit), almost anything you may wish to suggest to your own sub-

conscious mind whilst under hypnosis. Having said that of

course, it is impossible to make anyone say or do anything which

would contradict their morals or their values, but then if you've

bought this book you've probably got no morals or values so that

will be o.k! Now in an ideal world I'd hypnotise all the people

reading this book, then wake you up a few hours later and

convince you it was the best book you'd ever read, unfortunately

that's just not possible, as such I feel there's a couple of

things which I must run past you before we begin. First and most

importantly almost everybody can be hypnotised or use self-

hypnosis techniques successfully, that's in fact true, each and

every reader of this book can be hypnotised or use self-hypnosis

techniques very successfully indeed. Having said that, of course

it is impossible to hypnotise anyone who does not wish to be

hypnotised, so you must approach this subject with an open mind,

with the idea of letting yourself go, relaxing and giving it a

try, if you approach the subject with an open mind then that's

all that really matters, now of course there are a few other

types of people who I cannot hypnotise and who cannot hypnotise

themselves! Firstly anyone who is high on drugs cannot be

hypnotised even though many people I've hypnotised in the past

have said it felt better than having a few joints of Moroccan

black. Secondly we can't hypnotise anyone who's drunk and the

reason for that is drunk people already think that they are

hypnotised! Thirdly, I can't hypnotise anyone under the age of

18, it's not just that it's against the law, in fact it's mainly

because purely and simply I hate kids. And finally by the Law of

the 1989 Government Guidelines of hypnosis I have to warn you

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that it's better in most cases if Asthmatics, Epileptics,

pregnant women and Clinically depressed people did not use self-

hypnosis techniques or allow themselves to be hypnotised unless

the "treatment" to be used is for the known particular problem or

for painless childbirth in the case of the pregnant female. By

the way if you're female reading this book and not pregnant

contact me via the publishers and we can sort that one out.

Now in case you're wondering hypnosis is a state of heightened

awareness in which your abilities to taste, smell, see, feel and

hear things are enhanced and it's also an experience which will

leave you feeling full of energy, optimism and happiness. If

used correctly as outlined in this book or carried out on you by

a trained professional. As I've already said anyone can be

hypnotised, anyone that is providing they have the correct powers

of intelligence, imagination and concentration which are three

attributes that you require in order to be a good hypnotic

subject, whether on the performers stage, in the therapists

consulting room or when practising self hypnosis upon yourself at

home. As to how it feels to be under a hypnotic trance I'll

quote many women who have followed me to my dressing room after

my outrageous stage shows "erotic hypnotics"; "Hypnotorious" or

"hypnotic party time"! Nearly all these women would agree that

the relaxing and exhilarating experience of the hypnotic trance

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was better than any orgasm they'd ever had, to which I usually

reply well in that case you've obviously never slept with me then

have you? Having said that of course many of these women have

also been so "entranced" by my apparent domineering powers upon

the stage during my over the top adult shows in which amongst

other things volunteers become sordid lesbian lovers, or

copulating dogs that they have followed me to my dressing room

with the intention of getting to know the dynamic performer they

have seen upon the stage much better if you know what I mean. I

usually ask them if they want to go under and when they say yes I

know that very soon I'll be on top! You see many women (and even

men, when I've worked in gay venues) see the power I have upon

people on stage and they want me to dominate them. Some

hypnotists or therapists say you cannot possibly make someone do

things they don't want to or do things against their will. Well

that may be true (although I doubt it very much) but I know that

locked deep within the realms of every women's mind are the most

extreme sexual fantasies Using hypnosis and techniques similar

to those outlined in this publication I just unlock the door to

their subconscious mind, find this hiding place and then lie back

and enjoy the results . Given the correct stimulation the most

prim and proper woman can do the most outrageous things and with

me they get that stimulation! And after reading this book you'll

be able to offer them that stimulation too and I'm sure you'll

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find, as I have in the past few years, that many women wish to

fulfil fantasies of sleeping with famous pop stars or film actors

which, yes, you can help them fulfil on the night, but the next

day it's a bit like the morning after you pull someone in a night

club then you wake up and wonder who the fuck's that. The women

can get a bit narked when they realise it was only a dream which

seemed very real indeed due to hypnosis. Now although they will

after the event realise it was imaginary and not sex with the

real person at the time they will be able to taste, smell, feel

see and hear everything just as though it was in actuality

occurring as 100% total reality. Also think what a great chat up

line it is to ask a women what she fancies most? And then for

example when she replies Mel Gibson, you hand her your business

card which says upon it hypnotherapist and sex therapist, as they

look at it you say well if you let me hypnotise you then with me

you'll believe as reality that you've slept with Mel Gibson. I

tell you what guys you wouldn't believe until you try it just how

successful this chat up line is and how, along with the other

information in this book it can help you to get laid 365+ times a

year and have better sex than you could possibly imagine. You

could then follow this line up in a joking fashion of course with

the line "seriously though, I can make sexual fantasies come true

with hypnosis and that's what I do for a living, so would you

like to go under later or would you prefer to go on top?" A

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little later on in the conversation, you can use the line of "I

should have brought my washing in for you tonight so you could

wash it for me" When they ask why you say "Well you see I saw

you in here a while ago and I've thought about you so much since

that I've stained all my bedding!" This is a sub-vocal command

and is a very subtle and non offensive joking way to make them

aware that you like them so much you'd have a good wank over

them. On many occasions you'll find that later in the

conversation the woman will ask "Seriously though, can you

hypnotise people to get them into bed" to which I usually reply

"Well to be honest I once hypnotised a woman and told her that

when she woke up she'd make made passionate love to me, I then

said 1,2,3 wide awake and she just slapped me across the face and

(pause) mind you a few seconds later she said slap me back and

fuck me ridged - so yes I'm sure it's possible". After, make

comedy banter along these lines and use of the seduction

techniques detailed in this book you'll then be ready to make

your move and make a pass at the female you've targeted. If this

is accepted willingly enthusiastically then you know almost for

certain that she'll be game for sex tonight! To put it bluntly -

anyone with half an ounce of intelligence will be able, after

reading this book, to take advantage of every opportunity that

arises on a daily basis to obtain legally, sexual adventures with

some of the worlds most beautiful women. How can I casually make

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such a statement, well the answer is simple, I know through

experience that in the real world there are literally hundreds of

single and married women who want no strings attached adult

daytime fun or to put it bluntly one off sex sessions. I back

this up by drawing your attention to the large number of normal

females who advertise for "playmates" on a daily basis within the

adverts pages of such Daily newspapers as the Daily Sport or in

many cases the classified columns of your local paper. These

adverts are usually placed by single/married women who aren't

getting enough sex and want regular adult day or night time fun.

Those interested in group sex and orgies will find also that

married couples also advertise within these pages with the

intention of finding a bisexual male or female for 3 in a bed sex

or even another married couple for partner swapping group sex.

Look also within the classifieds of adult magazines such as

Fiesta, Men Only or Play Boy. You will very often see

advertisements from adult style dating agencies who have on their

files the contact details of literally thousands of women of all

ages and types who want more sex with no emotional ties or

commitment. Registering yourself with such a dating agency will

ensure that you are never short of females contacting you for "no

strings" sex. You'll also see supplies outlet (sex shop) a

monthly publication literally just called "Adult Contact

Magazine", it's pages are full with adverts placed by readers at

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a small cost to themselves who are seeking sexual satisfaction on

exploration of one kind or another from people such as yourself

who have purchased the magazine. Some of the adverts say things

such as "for day time fun only". You can be sure that when it

says day time fun it's an advert from a bored horny housewife

who's not getting enough and who's husband is at work by day.

Some say "Can Accommodate" - which means quite simply, if you are

travelling a fair distance for the "no strings" sex session your

one night only sex partner can provide you with a bed for the

night. Other adverts say "can travel", meaning quite literally

that the female in question is prepared to travel to your

residence for "no strings" sex. Bear in mind all those ways I've

just detailed via which you can very easily obtain "no strings"

sex and you really have no excuse for not being able to have sex

on a regular basis and getting laid 365+ times a year.

Whilst I think of it, although this book may be teaching you ways

to get sexual adventures make easily, I am not advocating

unprotected sex, in fact I would think it suicidal in today's

climate where AIDS and other sexually transmitted diseases are

rife not to have protected sex. And by protected sex I mean the

use of a good reliable brand name condom, as they say, if you

want to go paddling without getting your feet wet then make sure

you put on your wellies first. Some men think sex with a condom

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is like making love to the inner tube of a bicycle wheel, but to

be honest it has several very important advantages, (1) it is

very reliable protection against most all S.T.D's including of

course the killer of modern times, AIDS; (2) it's a good reliable

contraceptive and should ensure that you don't end up with kids

you hadn't planned for; (3) As it slightly cuts down your

stimulation as a man, it means it helps you to keep on going

longer before you ejaculate; (4) As you can buy a huge variety of

condoms these days, if you experiment with ribbed condoms, French

tickler condoms and other varieties all available at your local

sex shop or mail order from adult supply outlets from within the

pages of adult magazines, then you'll find as I have done that

not only can they make your sex sessions more pleasurable for

both you and your partner, but a very good advantage of condoms

is that after ejaculation, it's very easy to clean up, apply a

new condom and get back to some more horizontal pleasure. Oh yes

and after reading this book, that should be a great advantage, as

you should have no problems in keeping your pecker up as long as

you want to so that penetrative sex is possible time and time

again all night or even all day long. With all adult contact

advertisements of the kind mentioned, you should find that the

advertisers are genuine females who are offering "no strings" sex

sessions free of charge in order to satisfy their own large

sexual appetites. Now to continue before I start to teach you

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my tried, tested and proven to work pick up and seduction

techniques which can be used any time, any place, anywhere (a bit

like the martini advert - shaken but not stirred!) I would like

to mention a few other ways in which you can very easily obtain

sexual satisfaction whenever you need or want it. Already I've

mentioned adult contact mags or advertisements, please don't

forget also that there are adult contact phone lines which you'll

see advertised in the Daily Sport, other national newspapers and

of course adult magazines. Now these numbers do cost around 48p

a minute peak rate or 36p cheap rate, but to be honest my

experience tells me that they are well worth every penny for the

sexual encounters you can experience and arrange due to their

existence. In practise you call the number relevant to the type

of woman you want sex with (e.g. busty women, 18-21 years old,

over 40's etc.). You then listen to the messages which have been

left by these people and after any of the messages you want to

reply to you press a number on your telephone key pad or say yes

as the service may be voice activated and then you leave a brief

message about yourself and your telephone number so that the

women you leave the messages for can contact you direct. And her

alternative is to place a message yourself on the service for

other women to ring up, listen to, leave their message for you.

Then at the end of each 24 hour period you call up and obtain

your messages and contact the women who obviously want to meet

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you directly, and then it's as easy as A,B,C to arrange a time to

meet for "no strings" sex as that's what you are both after.

Full details are available by calling the user's guide number

printed on the company's advert. Rest assured though these phone

messages do produce results, so if you're not likely to be in

when people respond to your message, ensure you have purchased an

answer machine and that it's switched on. As for married men

reading this book, get a mobile phone and leave the mobile number

on the phone message you leave, that way your wife or live in

lover is not likely to pick up the phone and find out what you're

doing behind their back, and when you can get mobile phones for

free, with free connection and low monthly tariffs these days,

you really have no excuse for not having a mobile phone, which

when carried around also has the added advantage of making you

look like a successful business executive when you're also

dressed in a similar successful way, and it goes without saying,

seemingly successful men attract more women than the losers in

life - Honest!! Don't forget also that if you are married or

living with someone and you're having an affair or you're going

to get several relationships on the go at the same time, then

it's very important to call all the women by the same pet name.

It's also important to buy them all the same birthday and

Christmas presents in order that in later conversation you don't

forget who got what present and as such slip up in conversation.

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 And it goes without saying that you should never take them to

the same places, otherwise a barman etc. could make a comment on

how you always seem to be with a different women and that could

really mess things up. Whilst on the subject of having affairs,

should you do so, and you get found out, never, and I mean never,

admit to anything even if your wife finds you in bed naked with

another women - deny it - don't admit it - say it's not what it

seems. Because most women don't want to believe they had just

seen what they have seen, as such it is not impossible or unheard

of in a situation such as this to deny everything and have the

wife forget all about it on purpose - because it's easier for her

to handle emotionally if she denies also in her own mind that the

affair took place. And of course, it goes without saying, never

tell anyone you're married (if you are, don't wear a wedding ring

when out on the pull). In fact the less your female sexual

encounters know about you the better, if the aim of your game is

fun sex, however honesty is always the best policy and

faithfulness is also important if intending to find a long term

secure loving relationship with long term prospects. I'm sure if

you're reading this book though, married will be at the bottom of

your priority list. After all you only get 10 years for murder

don't you! Yet another very simple way to obtain sex as and when

you need it is to hire a prostitute, hooker, call girl, escort or

whatever you wish to call them. Now although to be honest this

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will cost you money, in my experience during 1994 (year prior to

writing this book) in the Greater Manchester area if you pick a

pro up on the street in the red light area it costs about £20 to

£25 for oral sex and about an extra £10 for full penetrative sex,

which will in my experience usually take place in a nearby

secluded back ally or in the lower (basement) levels of a multi-

storey car park. Should you wish to hire the girls services for

a longer length of time to return with you to your hotel for a

sex session, my experience in 1994 tells me that in Greater

Manchester you can get anything goes sex (includes oral, front

and rear entry, etc.) for a charge of £60 for two hours of the

girls time, and an all night session (from say 12 midnight until

6 a.m. at which point they'd leave your hotel) will cost around

£100 for anything goes sex. Please note the prices quoted are a

good guide at the time of going to press and although obviously

some of the higher class girls can charge up to several hundred

pounds an hour. The prices quoted should be a good guide to the

average you'll pay in Manchester, I say the average because with

a bit of bargaining power you can get some good deals, for

example the first time I had sex, when I lost my virginity was

with a prostitute on a car park during 1992, before I started to

use my hypnotic skills to take advantage of dozens of entranced

females on a regular basis, it cost me £35 for full sex and oral

sex and was worth it, as once I'd lost my virginity I had the

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confidence to go out and have sex with any female as I had this

in my own mind already done it once successfully. As with

anything in life, experience and familiarity of the subject gives

you an inner confidence which makes you more successful in that

area in future times and the subject of sexual encounters is no

different. Once you've done it a few times and experimented with

different sexual positions, techniques etc. then you'll have an

inner confidence and will feel at ease going into a night-club,

picking up a woman and later having sex with her, as you'll

already have conquered your fears and inhibitions. Of course

it's also useful to find out if you're homosexual or bisexual,

because if you are then you can have the best of both worlds and

of course have some serious fun at orgies. As for me I used to

be bisexual you see, if I couldn't get sex for free then I'd buy

it, but these days I've turned trysexual. That's right I'll now

try anything once. After all they do say "don't put off doing

what can be done today until tomorrow, because if you like it

today then you can always do it again tomorrow".

Whilst It occurs to me, whilst I'm on the subject of sexuality,

I'll just mention these few points, (1) if you give women the

impression you are gay they will feel very relaxed when you are

around and as such you'll always have loads of women around you

in pubs and clubs. (2) If women think you are gay you'll always

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find some who'll make it their aim to turn you straight and get

you into bed and of course you won't put up too much resistance

will you? (3) Gay bars and clubs are great places to go even if

you're not gay, as they have become the "in place" for people to

go in recent years and many of the people there will be

heterosexual and also don't forget that bisexual females who

visit these clubs do on some occasions pick out a man that takes

their fancy - believe me here I know this from personal

experience. (4) If you are a Bisexual male or are homosexual or

even a heterosexual male who likes anal sex with women please

don't forget that normal Durex condoms are not safe for anal sex.

And in fact to be safe you must purchase special extra strength

anal sex compatible condoms from your local sexual supply shop.

(5) For those readers who may be homosexual or bisexual don't

forget that a popular way to obtain sexual favours from other men

of a similar sexuality is through "Cottaging" which means hanging

around in your local public toilets (the Cottage) and basically

observing body language signals or responding to the gay code

language malari. A favourite trick used by homosexual men in

department store toilets is the leaving of telephone numbers on

inside loo doors (usually mobile numbers) on which they can be

contacted or a note saying a time and place where they can be met

for sexual fun at a later date. Also if an empty shopping bag is

carried by a "Cottaging" male then if he gets lucky he can have

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his sexual partner sit down on the toilet with both of them shut

inside the cubicle, he can then stand inside the shopping bag so

that anyone else coming into the toilet just sees under the door

someone's feet who's obviously sitting on the loo and their

shopping bag on the floor. The passers-by don't realise that the

shopping bag is hiding the other blokes legs so that they can

give each other oral sex or have other sexual fun. I'm sure the

homosexual or bisexual readers amongst you know a lot more about

this subject than me so I'll just say each to his own and don't

knock it before you try it - otherwise you'll never know what

you're missing. I couldn't be bisexual though as I couldn't

stand getting rejected twice! - HA HA What a sad joke! Now that

I've digressed totally from the subject of prostitutes and call

girls, I will once again return to it - Why? Well quite simply

because I have some more advice for you which may be of use in

your future sexual exploits with your "professional" sex partner.

Incidentally the female you are going to pay for sex is a

"professional" and as such from my experience usually has no

inhibitions and is prepared to do anything which can be a

fascinating and exciting experience for the, until now, shy male

individual. Just for the record I'll now confess that I've used

the services of prostitutes and escorts many times when I was

younger in order to lose my inhibitions totally and also to

enable me to try out many different sexual positions and

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techniques before going out and putting them to use in the "real

world" so to speak. The way I see it is, you're paying the girl

for her services and as such you should get value for money, and

as she's a professional I would also say you should learn from

the experience. To take this to the extremes I once booked into

Sacha's Hotel in Central Manchester. I went into the Hotel's

night-club and after trapping off with the champagne technique

detailed later and going upstairs to my room for a good sex

session with the female, who's name to this day I cannot

remember, (she was several years my senior though!) I was still

feeling really horny and so I decided to visit the red light area

which for anyone visiting Manchester is on Sackville Street, and

the area down the side of the Britannia Hotel and near the

University in Central Manchester. I realised it was 2 a.m. in

the morning and it took me half an hour before I found two girls

who took my fancy. After approaching them both and asking if

they were looking for any business, I managed to hire the two

girls, who incidentally were aged 29 years old and 35 years old

respectively (I was literally just 18 years old at the time and

had used hookers services at a much younger age), to return to my

hotel room with me until 7.00 a.m. the same morning for a four

hour sex session for just £100 cash. As it turned out I had such

a good time I paid the girls some extra cash by way of a bonus

for their services which were very helpful indeed. You see

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although by the time of this experience I was quite sexually

experienced I took this opportunity to ask the hookers what

turned them on most, what positions they enjoyed most etc. I

found this information to be very useful in my future adventures

with women, as my experience shows me that although all women are

very different, many, many cases I've encountered they are very

much the same when it comes to the sexual side of things and they

seem to experience things both psychologically and physically as

all other women. So what I'm basically saying here is any

virgins or inexperienced males who are reading this book can lose

all their inhibitions, gain experience and also try out many

different techniques in a "no-pressure" situation by employing

the services of several call girls and if you tell them its your

"first time" with a hooker or indeed your "first time" full stop

they will, to use an old cliché, be "gentle" with you. Most red

light areas can be found in busy city centres, near car parks,

hotels or night clubs. If visiting or living in London,

Manchester, Birmingham or another large city you'll most always

find that in the public telephone boxes are business cards from

escorts and call girls which state the style of sex they offer

and show a contact number. You simply call this number and you

are either told an address to go and have sex with the hooker or

they come and meet you at that location. Your local newspaper

also will carry adverts for massage parlours offering a 24 hour

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service, many of these offer "sexual extras" at a small extra

price, which range from hand relief during the massage up to full

sex. In Sheffield there's one massage parlour where you can get

the services of six, yes six gorgeous girls for £100 an hour

(that's around £17 each an hour) all I'm going to say is look at

the local Sheffield newspaper, call all the massage parlour

numbers and ask if they offer "all the extra's" you'll soon find

out which establishment I'm referring to and all I'm going to say

is it was the best money I've ever spent. Finally on the subject

of prostitutes your local sex shop owner will usually be able to

inform you of your own local Red light area or even, give you the

mobile numbers of some local girls who offer services around the

clock at their own premises.

RAJ'S PICK UP SECRETS

Once whilst in High Wycombe (near London) performing my

outrageous stage act twice a night, three nights a week at the

London Bus Emporium Night-club I was helped out of a very tricky

situation by a true gentleman, Mr Raj Paul, who lived in the area

and was not only a very successful business man with many

vehicles including a Rolls Royce but was also an expert pick up

artist, which was proven by his beautiful ladyfriend Jackie and

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his very lovely young baby son, Harley. Although his "pick-up"

days were now over as he was in a secure loving relationship he

was well known in the area as a pick up artist and at one time

ran an executive male escort service for female clientele which

was well documented by a News of the World investigation, for

those who may recall the article, my friend was running the

escort service under the name of Bret Montana I seem to remember.

His way with women was also documented in all his local

newspapers in articles through which Mr Raj Paul told the male

readers the correct gentlemanly way to treat females and thus

became more successful with them. After becoming friends with Mr

Raj Paul, several years ago he taught me all his most closely

guarded pick up techniques and secrets for success with women.

And for this I shall forever be indebted to him as I can

personally confirm that every shred of advice which Mr Raj Paul

and his fellow "playboy" friends told me to use works 100%. What

is more I've found that after learning these techniques and

putting them to use, far more women now approach me and chat me

up, or is it just that I was blind to their opening lines in the

past?? Well whichever it is, these secrets, plays and techniques

are worth their weight in gold to every man on this earth who

wants to be far more successful with women, and literally get

laid FREE OF CHARGE 365+ (PLUS) times a year. So without further

ado lets now look at the methods I was taught by a real life

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"playboy" and "pick-up" expert which I have since put to use and

can now personally guarantee are all tried, tested, proven to

work and extremely successful in practically all possible pick up

situations with members of the opposite sex.

"ALLOW YOURSELF TO BE CHATTED UP"

I am sure, like myself before learning the following techniques

that there have been times when women have approached you in a

pub, club, night club or some other social situation, and you

have been unable to take advantage of the situation that presents

itself because you don't have the articles required upon you to

do so. Yes that's right, not only can a confident and assertive

attitude with women seriously improve your sex life but there are

also certain articles which you should carry around with you at

all times and these are namely as follows:-

1. Business Cards bearing your contact details.

2. Blank visiting cards to write upon.

3. A good quality wrist watch.

4. A good quality working pen.

5. A good quality working lighter.

6. A pack of good quality cigarettes.

7. A wallet with plenty of money in.

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8. A mobile telephone.

9. A working phone card.

10. Car keys and nice looking car.

11. Your own house or flat to be able to go back to.

WHY THESE THINGS?

Well the reason these things when carried around by your or in

your ownership can seriously improve your success with women is

quite simply because most women still feel its traditional for

the man to chat up the female and not vice versa. However many

women in this state of mind want to start a conversation with a

man in such a way that it appears very innocent in the hope that

the man they have approached will then take advantage of the

situation and start to chat her up so to speak. As such you need

the above mentioned articles to be in a position to take full

advantage of these situations which do occur far more often than

you could possibly ever imagine in your wildest dreams. You just

need to open up your eyes and realise that every second of every

day a potential situation occurs in which you can increase your

sexual success with women. My experience after learning these

techniques and obviously also the things that women use standard

opening lines to initiate a conversation with men who interest

them.

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1. For example, have you got a pen? Here you would need to

lend her a pen to take advantage of this situation.

2. Have you got the time? For which you need to be wearing a

wrist watch.

3. Have you got a light? For which you need the lighter.

4. Have you got a cigarette? For which you need cigarettes on

you, whether you personally are a smoker or not.

5. Have you got a phone card? This usually happens in pubs

where they only have a phone card phone and a lady needs to

use the phone, here the working phone card is required.

6. Can I use your phone a second, I'll give you the money for

the call" - I've had this happen many times for the same

reason as mentioned with the phone card and when you hand

over your mobile phone and say o.k, you're instantly in the

good books and then when you refuse payment for the call you

get more brownie points and I've found the female then

offers to buy you a drink instead as a thank you, and as

such you have a chance to continue things.

7. Have you got a piece of paper to write on? - here the blank

visiting cards come into their own and you can hand one

over, ideally though give them one of your business cards,

they can write on the back of it and already have your

contact details then for future reference.

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These are the articles required to take advantage of the usual

opening lines used by women. Now for an explanation of what you

need the other articles for.

8. The Business Cards - These are for handing out to women when

they ask for your contact details. If printed saying your

job is hypnotist and sex therapist they can also be used for

the pick-up lines as described earlier in the book. The

more women get these details, the more likely you are to be

called everyday by beautiful women who want sexual

relationships with you.

9. The Wallet and Cash - This is quite simply so you are able

to buy your potential sex partner a drink. And enables you

to use the oldest opening line of all time "do you fancy a

drink", it may be old but it still works. Also don't forget

you need money for night clubs, the after clubbing meal and

for most things in life. The wallet is useful for carrying

the cash, your business cards etc., and if it's an Armani

Designer wallet with the tag on it, non-verbally gives the

impression you have stacks of cash and sadly many women

still go for the guys with dosh.

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10. Your own car - With a car of your own you can offer the lone

female at the bus stop a lift; you can give women a lift

home from the night-club; you have a portable place for your

sexual fun to be experienced in; you can be any place,

anything, anywhere and don't have to rely on taxi's it also

makes you look more desirable to many women.

11. Your own House/Flat - you need your own house or flat in

order to be able to take females home at any hour of the day

or night and get up to whatever you want, whenever you want.

It's also a useful place to run your own parties and as the

party host have an increased chance of getting laid.

Round one over - How to win round two

Once you've been approached by the female, and you've taken

advantage of the opening line used by her to initiate the

conversation with you, at that point you need to carry the

conversation on in such a way that the females instant reaction

will be that your a nice guy who she'd like to get to know

better. She obviously already likes the look of you, otherwise

she would not have approached you, the fact you were able to help

her out, so to speak, by taking full advantage of her opening

line means she'll think even more of you as a person as long as

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you then carry on in a confident, friendly and assertive manner

she'll be yours! Remember of course to always be a you - you

person and not at anytime a me - me individual. What do I mean?

Well quite simply a me - me person is someone who talks about

themselves all the time and takes very little interest in their

potential sex partner, whereas a you - you person is the kind of

person who talks a sincere deep interest in their potential sex

partner's hobbies, life, interest, feelings etc. and gets the

female in question to open up and talk about herself. As I'm

sure you'll understand, people always like to be around other

people who make them feel good and by getting the lady to talk

about herself and showing a genuine interest it not only saves

you from not knowing what to say next, but more importantly,

she'll feel good talking about herself and will instantly warm to

you as most men she will have met will have been "me - me" people

who talk about themselves all the time and show off a lot and all

in all take very little interest in her. Obviously there will

come a time in the conversation when she'll ask you questions and

of course you should answer these as she's got an equal right to

know about you as you have to know things about her, the thing

here is though, because she'll have asked you these things she'll

secretly and genuinely want to know the answers and as such will

not think of you as a "me - me" person for telling her. You can,

if running short of things to say, turn the conversation back

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into her ball-court by simply saying something such as "anyway,

that's more than enough about me, I want to get to know you

better rather than boring you with details about me!" Now I know

this sounds very corny, but it almost always works to get the

conversation back into her ball court, on the rare occasions when

the female insists on more details from you, quite simply be

honest, give her the details, but always try to keep the

conversation up beat and inject an element of humour into things

where possible as it is very true to say that most women love to

be around a man who can make them laugh. Combine this with your

sincere interest in them and the fact you'll treat them like a

true gentlemen would and you'll be able to move this encounter

from a meeting into a sexual adventure very quickly. So to recap

quickly, the lady has approached you and you've taken advantage

of this initial encounter, she'll now either offer to buy you a

drink, or if she doesn't you offer to get her one, whilst also

complimenting her on her appearance. For example "by the way,

what are you drinking tonight?" (here get answer) "Barman, a

double gin and tonic please" (then turn back to her)

"incidentally may I just say how beautiful you're looking

tonight, I'd be honoured if you'd join me at my table for a

while".

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This as I say, is only an example whatever you use must be

spontaneous, apt to the situation and above all suit your own

personality, this example does do several things however;

1. It carries on the conversation from her opening line

question.

2. You've found out what she's drinking and ordered her a

double measure of it. This makes you look generous, flash

and desirable all in one. It also means you've ordered the

drink before she can refuse and thus she'll feel more

obliged to spend a little more time with you, which as we've

discussed was no doubt her motive for approaching you in the

first place.

3. You've also complimented her on her appearance which makes

her both feel good and confirms to her that you have a

genuine interest in her.

4. The final section asks her to join you at your table in a

very gentlemanly manner, and believe me most women like to

be treated in this way and put so nicely its harder for them

to say no.

I know the example given sounds very corny but my personal

experience and the experience of others shows me beyond doubt

that the simplest and sometimes the stupidest things are the

best, and work much better than an elaborate fancy worded chat up

line. you will by this point of things either be stood at the

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bar with the female having a conversation or sat down at your

table talking, at all times being a "you - you" person and

getting her to open up about herself. When asked what you do for

a living either be totally honest or use the "I'm a hypnotist and

sex therapist", series of chat up lines as described earlier in

this book, always of course delivering the lines in a light

hearted manner. This makes her laugh, introduces some sexual

non-offensive innuendo into the conversation and moves things on

a stage or two in a very short space of time. This would also be

an ideal time to use the magical tricks, balloon - modelling ploy

or fortune telling technique as detailed later on to make the

whole encounter move on very quickly so that the end of the

night, or certainly if it's what you're after, the start of a

long term relationship with her. Basically you're now in a

position whereby to put it bluntly, if the female is still with

you, then your chances of sex that night are very, very high

indeed. From this point in the encounter the rest of the meeting

prior to finding out if you're on for sex or not, will depend on

the place you are in. For example in a night-club or dance bar

it would be vital to get the female onto the dance floor during

the night and of course most importantly for the slow dances, at

which time if you haven't already made a pass at her now would be

the time to do so and when accepted successfully, you can be sure

you're on for sex tonight. If in a pub or theatre bar or some

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other social situation you should get the female to accompany you

either to a night club so you can continue as detailed later or

to a restaurant which is the equivalent of a slow dance at a

night-club and then proceed to be a "you - you" person and as the

night moves on include more and more sexual innuendo into the

conversation in a humorous way and you can be assured if the body

language signals which you will be detailed later are there then

you'll be on for sex that night or at the very least for the

second date, at which you'd use the crazy gifts for dates ideas

as a million brownie points and thus ensure that you get sex that

night. Incidentally, at this point let me say that any

professional pick up artist would proceed as follows:

A. Try to pick up a new sexual partner that night.

B. If unsuccessful then phone up one of past dates who's

telephone number you'll still have in your little black book

and ask them out for a late night meal etc. and try to turn

this into a sexual night.

C. If B is unsuccessful then call one of the numbers you have

on file from the dating/contact services as mentioned

earlier of women in your area who want "no strings" sex and

try to arrange a meeting for that night.

D. As a last resort, if in a relationship already go home and

have sex with that female, or if not in a relationship go to

the red light area and pay for sex.

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By working to the above action plan you can be 100% confident

that you'll be getting sex that night. As such because

confidence breeds confidence and women love to be around

confident and assertive men, also as you'll be more relaxed and

less anxious to be successful your efforts will be improved 100%

and as such you are far more likely to succeed with women on a

more regular basis than the average man who goes out on the pull

so to speak with no action plan, strategy or confidence. All of

which you will have after reading this book. Once the end of the

evening comes, whether in a night-club, pub or restaurant you

have by then had enough time to find out if you're on for sex,

now's the time to use the corniest line in the book "would you

like to come back to my place for a coffee?" , or a slight

improvement on this is to say "would you like me to give you a

lift home now or would you prefer to come back to my place for a

coffee?", this is an open ended question which cannot be merely

answered by a yes or no. In fact you'll find 80% of the time

they'll come back to your place in which case you're guaranteed

sex that night, around 18% of the time they'll want a lift home

and of this 18% most of them will invite you in for a coffee and

usually sex will follow and a small percentage of the time you'll

just be told "not on the first date", if this happens it means

one of two things, either they are not interested in sex with

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you, which if you've got this far down the line is highly

unlikely, or they just don't do it on the first date. To find

out ask for their contact details and enter these into the memory

of your mobile phone and then later at home into your little

black book. You can then at a later date contact her and go on a

second date which when accepted and the brownie point scoring

gift ideas are used over a candlelit romantic meal in a

restaurant are used you can be sure of sex that night. Here it

occurs to me to point out that highly sexed individuals are

usually far more confident and outgoing as they have less

inhibitions and are not as sexually frustrated. As such they are

far more relaxed about the whole subject. How does this relate

to you? Well basically, if you go out on the pull and are

unsuccessful it's well worth paying for it so that you get that

sexual release you need, or at the very least have a good session

of masturbation, it's not as good as sex but it's pretty damn

good and it's free of charge. The bottom line of what I'm saying

is that if you always ensure your sexual tensions are released as

soon as possible then you wont ever become sexually frustrated

and as such will approach the whole of your life in a far more

confident and relaxed manner which will ensure you far greater

success in all you do and ultimately a great success rate when

picking up women for future sexual encounters and relationships.

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 Other main important points which have just occurred to me are

as follows:

1. Picking up women is just a numbers and percentages game.

The law of averages and the experience of sales people shows

that every no you get in life brings you much closer to a

yes. As such to put it basically, if you go into a night-

club and there are lot's of women there and you ask them to

spend the night with you then the law of averages says that

the more you ask the more likely you are to find one who

says yes. So what I'm saying here is don't be bothered

about rejection as it's better to be rejected than to always

wonder what would have happened if you'd asked. I know that

principle to be true as another "playboy" friend of mine

proved it to me in a very crude way once. We were in a

night-club once and to illustrate to me that the law of

averages in this case would he use the chat up line "do you

fancy coming back to my place tonight for a really good sex

session?, needless to say he got many women saying no,

verbally abusing him back and in some cases slapping him

across the face, but within 10 minutes of approaching women

in the club with this line he had found one who did indeed

want sex and accepted. Now although it worked I'm not

saying you should do what he did, I am however saying that

the more women you approach on a daily basis with the

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 intention of getting a date or a sexual encounter the more

the law of averages will be working in your favour to get

this.

2. "The most beautiful women are always the loneliest". This

may sound like a really old cliché but experience tells me

it also happens to be very true indeed. To illustrate many

men are either too scared to approach these "drop dead

gorgeous women" or ask them for a date that they end up

alone. Or many men presume that such a beautiful woman

would either not be interested in them or would already be

spoken for and for the same reason these women end u lonely.

As such many of these women will be glad of some sincere

attention and like to be treated like a normal equal to you

individual. Just as women like to be treated this way

combine this fact with the law of averages technique and ask

enough drop dead gorgeous women and you are bound to get

laid on a regular basis. I know this from experience of

attending the Sunday Sport page 3 girl of the year awards at

Stringfellows in London during 1993 and trapping off so to

speak with one of the "drop dead gorgeous" contestants which

proved to me this play works and is very true indeed.

3. Women love to be treated in a gentlemanly way. For example

if you open the door for them, let them walk upstairs first,

let them walk downstairs after you, stand up when they are

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about to sit down at the table, stand up when they stand up

to go to the loo, walk on the side nearest the road when

walking down the street, treat them in a polite manner,

always using words such as please, thank you, sorry, pardon

me etc. at the correct times. If you do all this and

observe the usual rules of etiquette, on which books are

available at your local library or bookstore then as you'll

be a rare individual who treats women as individuals, who

are equal in all ways to us men, take a sincere interest in

them and treat them in a true gentlemanly manner then you

will be far more successful than the average man at

succeeding with women, as you'd become known in all the

places as a really nice person, a true gentlemen and as such

women will want to get to know you and as such are even more

likely to approach you or accept your advances. Also when

you become known as a "superstud" in bed as you will become

known after reading this book and putting the contents to

use, you'll get women approaching you who want sex with you

as they've heard how good you are. It's also a funny

phenomenon, but experience shows me that if you're seen

around women (different ones) on a regular basis etc. then

you are far more likely to get approached by women who will

then see you as a desirable person, after all why should

that women they saw you with weeks ago know you and not

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 them? You're also more likely to attract the women who like

a challenge and so try to get men into bed, and well you

wont put up too much of a challenge will you? Hopefully by

now you'll see it's not so much looks or physique that make

women want to sleep with you (although these can be an

advantage). It's more a case of psychology and the way you

treat them and make them feel that makes them want a sexual

encounter with you in such a short space of time. Also the

more you put all the methods in this book to use the more

likely they are to become second nature to you and as such

part of your personality which will then make you a

"natural" pick up expert within a short space of time

indeed!

Most, if not all women want sex just as regularly as men, the

only difference is they seem to be able to wait longer until the

right person comes along, whereas us men usually want to do it

with the first nice looking girl we meet who takes an interest in

us. When you bear in mind that women need sexual satisfaction

just as much as us men and also use the logic that if a single

female has gone to a night-club she's probably out to find a man,

especially so if she's dressed provocatively as invariably she

will be. Bearing these things in mind you'll understand why the

next technique for trapping off with women works. You enter the

night-club at say 11.00 p.m. knowing that the slower dances don't

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start until 1.30 a.m., in two and a half hours time. Once inside

the club you go to the bar, get a drink and when paying for it

tip the barmaid, this ensures that she remembers you and as such

later on when you go to the bar even if it's busy she'll usually

serve you quicker in the hope that she'll get another tip which

of course she does, because then she'll remember you at the end

of the night should you have to resort to the emergency plan of

going to the barmaid at the end of the night and asking her to

accompany you for a late night meal. If you've been establishing

a rapport all night, had a little joke and generally been

friendly then she'll usually accept. you can then use the time

over the meal to turn the atmosphere into a more sexual one.

Anyway, back to plan A, once you've bought a drink, take a stroll

around the club and establish eye contact and smile at as many

women as you can, then return to the bar and stay there. This

gives you a chance to do two things (A) talk more with the

barmaid who is plan B and (B) As more women arrive at the club

and come to the bar to order drinks you can be the first man to

establish eye contact with them, smile at them and say hello etc.

With several a short conversation should occur. Continue in

this way until around 12.00 p.m. (midnight) and then target one

of the girls you've already said hello to who's still alone and

approach her with your favourite opening line or by using the

magical trick or astrology play to start off the encounter. Then

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carry things on in the way described already. If things go O.K

great. If not getting the correct body language signals and

general enthusiastic response from her, then make your excuses

and leave to target another female. This can be done until you

strike lucky due to the numbers game or until on those rare

occasions you haven't already trapped off that it gets to 1.30

a.m. and it's almost slow dance time. Should this time arrive

and you still need to find a sex partner then approach the D.J.

and basically give him a five pound note and a note saying the

following as you say "here mate, this is for you (hand him the

fiver) do me a favour and play as many of these records as you

can in the next half hour (give him the list). on the list of

songs should be the following in the same order and I give them:-

1. When I fall in love - Nat King Cole

2. Lady in Red - Chris De Burgh

3. Time of my Life - Dirty Dancing soundtrack

4. Love is all around - Wet, Wet, Wet

5. Everything I do I do it for you - Bryan Adams

6. When a Man loves a woman -

7. I would do anything for love - Meatloaf

8. Unchained melody - Righteous Brothers

The reason for the list is as follows:

Most singles last for 3 to 3.5 minutes in duration as such if the

DJ had all the records on the list they'd last for 8 records x

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3.5 minutes approx., which equals a total of 28 minutes together

with his talking and saying goodnight at the end gives a full 30

minutes which would fill up the rest of his time for the end of

the night. It also happens to be a list of some of the best

songs I've ever found for turning women on and getting them in

the mood for sex. now you've got the full duration of the first

song "When I fall in Love" to approach one of the females whom

you made eye contact with at the start of the night, had a brief

friendly conversation with and perhaps said hello to a few other

times during the night when on your prowls around the club. She

must still be on her own and without a dance partner for the slow

dances. now considering you made contact with so many people at

the start of the night it should be no problem to find one of the

females who's still on her own and in need of a dance partner.

Now just approach her and say something such as "alright, we'll

have to stop meeting like this you know people might start

talking" (here allow her to respond then follow up with). "We

could give them something to talk about though so how do you

fancy doing me the honour of joining me on the dance floor"? Now

women just like us men hate to still be alone in a night-club

when it comes to slow dance time and will either leave shortly

after the slow dances start of accept the first offer of a dance

partner that comes their way. Now when you also bear in mind

that you've already met them several times earlier in the night,

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had a brief friendly chat at the bar etc. and you now greet her

like a long lost friend she'd be hard put to say no to your offer

as she will be happier to join someone on the dance floor who

psychologically she'll feel she already knows and it means she'll

have a dance partner also for the rest of the slow dances. Once

on the dance floor bearing in mind that the DJ will probably play

the tunes in the order on the list, bear in mind the following

things, the greatest sons my mentor and tutor has ever found to

get women turned on and that I've found from experience of using

them do work are in order of their effectiveness as follows:

1. Unchained Melody.

2. When a man loves a woman.

3. You've lost that loving feeling

4. Time of my life.

Unchained melody has become even more effective since being used

as the theme tune to Ghost and the others all seem to get women

into the correct psychological mood for sex also.

Always remember to do actual dirty dancing when the films theme

tune "time of my life" is played. It seems as if you're doing it

because of the association with the film, but due to this

innocent reason you have a good chance to do the grain rubbing

motions as you'll see by renting the film out to learn a few of

the moves, which will make the female become sexually aroused.

Then your dancing should revert to close together hands around

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her hips style until you get to the final tune "Unchained Melody"

and then its hold together as close as you can style slow dance,

and obviously here your hands can, if not already there, move

down to rest on her bottom area and before the song ends you

should make a pass at her, which if she's on the dance floor with

you at that point will be accepted as she'll be sexually aroused

both physically (by Dirty Dancing moves) and psychologically by

the music which does seem to turn women on. The list of

recommended tunes given is also ideal for making up your own

compilation tape for use as background seduction music when

making out on the couch or in your bedroom at home and can be

played on your home stereo which will preferably have auto-

reverse mode on it, so that it will keep on automatically

changing sides so that the music will not run out half way

through the sex session. Some other love songs could be

intermingled amongst this recommended list for your home

seduction music tape but those are the ones I've found to work

best.

The consistent thing with any situation in everyday life in which

you could possibly pick up women is that the hardest part is the

opening line, as once a conversation has started it's literally

just a case of being yourself and using body language etc. to

ensure that the relationship moves on quicker than usual. Many

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people have written whole books full of opening lines for

chatting up women, but to be honest the four methods of

A. Champagne play

B. Magical flirting

C. Balloons play

D. Astrology play.

will break the ice so to speak and start a good conversation with

any woman, any place, anything far better than any fancy planned

chat up line. And in the rare cases where these techniques are

not usable, such as in a supermarket just use the direct approach

and say something such as "I was just wondering if you fancied

going for a drink tonight?" or some such similar line, the law

of averages comes into plan and as you've been honest and direct

to the point you have a far better chance of success and a

positive answer than using a fancy planning chat up line such as

the examples which follow, all of which I've used in the past,

successfully in a very much tongue in cheek manner, although I'd

say they are a last resort (you'll see why!)

1. I've just opened this packet of Rolos (have a pack in hand)

and I was wondering if I could give you one?

2. Are you on your own? (They say yes). Well so am I, so

how's about we be on our own together?

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3. If I told you, you had a beautiful body would you hold it

against me?

4. You should be in an antique shop with all the other little

treasures!

5. (For this you need the 101 chat up lines booklet, usually

sold in card and gift stores). (You walk up to the girl,

with book in hand and stop in front of her, you look at one

page then say no!, turn to another page, pause and say no,

and repeat this once more prior to throwing the book on the

table and saying "well let me come straight to the point,

can I get you a drink?". This, if done in a light hearted

manner will usually break the ice and start the

conversation.

6. "Whether it's true or not say), I've just moved in to this

area and I was wondering if you could do me a favour? If I

pay for all the food and drinks, could you show me where the

best night-club and restaurant is in town?

7. It's Sarah isn't it? (Should she reply yes proceed to make

up a story about the time you met in a night-club, if she

says no follow up by saying) "Oh I'm sorry you're just the

spitting image of an old college friend called Sarah, anyway

what's your name?" (You now get her name and it's easy to

continue the conversation).

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8. Hello, to be honest I've been standing over there for the

last 10 minutes trying to think of the best way to tell you

how much I'd like to buy you a drink, so can I?" (This must

be delivered in a shy manner!)

Foolproof Dance Technique

Being a good dancer on the disco dance floor is in itself a great

way to pick up women and if you are good at dancing in night-

clubs then take advantage of it fully by going onto the dance

floor and after dancing a while so that people get to see you,

then approach a female who's obviously with no man and ask her to

dance with you. When the dance ends you can say something such

as "Boy am I thirsty now, what do you fancy to drink?" You're

then able to sit down with her and have a chat as you've already

broken the ice so to speak. Now for those of you who aren't

great dancers, have no fear, remember a few key things and dance

success will be yours. (1) All the people stood round the dance

floor are not staring at you because you look silly dancing, in

actual fact the truth is most of them probably aren't even

looking at you and the ones who are probably envy you for having

the bottle to get on the dance floor in the first place. Now as

to how to dance well, simply either go for dance lessons or copy

what other men are doing, in a non obvious manner. For example

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you observe someone at the other side of the dance floor and copy

what they do, as they are not nearby you it won't be guessed what

you're doing and as such your dancing will seem o.k. Also never

forget one other very important point, it doesn't really matter

how good your dancing is as long as you keep eye contact with

your female partner at all time and make her feel good about her

dancing with the odd complimentary comment here and there.

Another useful thing to do is watch Top of the Pops each week,

you'll keep up to date with current music trends and when a new

"party dance" such as Whigfield’s "Saturday Night" comes out you

can video it, watch it and learn it off by heart so you can be

one of the first at the local night-club to know all the moves

correctly. This looks good and of course you can show the women

on the dance floor what to do, also by observing other dancers

and how they dance to certain pieces of music. It will teach you

through observation the correct way to dance.

"Over the Dinner Table"

We've now covered a complete plan for picking up women in disco's

and now we’ll do the same for turning a pre-arranged romantic

dinner date into guaranteed sex the same night. Much of what I'm

about to explain can quite easily be altered to work just as well

in other circumstances, for example the beer glass ploy will work

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just as well over a pub's table or in a night-club as it will

when used with a glass of wine in a restaurant. So please

remember, I've written this book in such a way that there's no

index, this is a deliberate policy to ensure that you must re-

read the book several times so that the full meaning and extent

of what I'm teaching you gets embedded into your sub-conscious

mind and as such becomes an automatic reflex action for you to

carry out in your everyday life. The first thing that occurs to

me here is to take women only to a restaurant which you have

visited before and as such know will serve up a good spread so to

speak. It is also vitally important that if this is a pre-

arranged dinner date that you have booked a table in advance to

save the embarrassment of being turned away. For those occasions

where it's a spur of the moment dinner date it would pay you to

have found out which restaurants in the area do not require you

to book in advance and also which are most likely on certain

nights of the week to have space available so that you can choose

a suitable establishment to suit the circumstances. Obviously

ensure you have sufficient means to pay for the meal and that

you're dressed suitably for the place you are to visit. All this

considered remember to act in a gentlemanly manner at all times

and always call the lady by her first name as often as you can,

because as Dale Carnegie stated in his excellent book "How to win

friends and influence people" which you would be well advised to

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read, a persons name is to them the most beautiful word in the

entire English language. It is also vital to keep eye contact at

all times which is very easy to do by staring at the Bridge of

the woman’s nose, to her it will appear you are staring her

directly in the eye and yet as you aren't in reality doing this

you will never need to break eye contact with her, even if you're

lying. So much for the old saying "A person won't be able to

look you in the eye if they are lying!"

As it will always be the female who breaks eye contact first,

this will make you appear a most confident person and women do

get turned on in general by a confident man. Ensure that if a

prearranged date you're the person driving and any travelling is

done by taxi cab. This seriously improves your chances of

getting her to return home with you, as she'll have no motor

vehicle of her own to disappear in. The already explained rule

of being a "you - you" person most certainly applies as the more

you can get the female to open up and talk about herself, the

more she'll feel she's known you for a longer length of time and

thus your chances of sex at the end of the night are seriously

improved. After the meal you should, if you can afford it, order

champagne to be consumed in the lounge bar area. This does two

things, it gives the impression you are loaded and also the more

alcohol she consumes, the more tipsy she'll become and as this

happens her inhibitions will disappear, her defences will be down

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and she's far more likely to return home with you for sex. At

the end of the night the do you want a lift home now or would you

prefer to come back to my place for a coffee?, line is used and

either way if you get her inside your house/flat or she invites

you in hers and there's been sexual innuendo in the course of the

evening conversation then you can be sure you're in for it.

During the evening you can analyse how well you're doing with the

"beer glass play", which I will now explain. Your wine glass is

obviously on your side of the table, you pick up the glass and

take a drink in the normal way and then replace the glass upon

the table so it's near the centre of the table. Next time you

take a drink you replace it on the table casually so the drink

is nearer to her than you. The glass will then be in her

territory and "personal body space" if the glass is left there

untouched you can usually take this along with other body

language signals as acceptance of your advances. If, as

sometimes will happen, she casually pushes the glass back towards

your side of the table, which she could do even without her

consciously realising it then at that moment in time she's not

quite ready to let you into her personal space and so sex isn't

on yet. Should this occur use your charm and sense of humour as

usual and try the play a little later in the evening either again

with your glass or maybe this time using your lighter or

cigarette packet. Once this "play" has been accepted by her it's

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time to introduce a little sexual innuendo into the conversation

so that things start to hot up a little, then continue as

detailed in the disco/night-club trapping off plan. If the

conversation gets really sexual as it sometimes can, then you may

prefer instead of the come back for a coffee line to use the line

of "Sarah (or whatever her name is?) (as soon as she says yes,

you say) sorry it's nothing! (This is then repeated) and she'll

usually say what is it to which you reply) "no it's o.k Sarah, I

wanted to say something but I don't want to offend you!" (She'll

usually insist you tell her) "Well if I tell you Sarah you

promise not to hold it against me or to be upset!" (When she's

agreed not to do these things, you are safe to say) "Well, Sarah,

I've really enjoyed our evening together, I think you're really

attractive and to be honest I was just thinking about how much

I'd like to take you home (pause) and screw your brains out

(pause) slowly!!

Now this may seem a very severe line to use, but she's promised

to not be upset by it, her mind has already started to try and

guess what you'd say and as you use the pauses for dramatic

effect it takes the crude line of I want to screw your brains out

and turns it into a strangely romantic line by adding that you

want to do it slowly. For those of you with the correct

personality and tongue in cheek humour this line can send a girl

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crazy, partly, I believe, because of your honesty in telling her

you'd like to have sex with her now. A few other things occur to

me, for example, being romantic is a guaranteed way to be

successful with women so if it's a restaurant that sells roses,

buy her one and say it's a thank you for being such good company

and you'd love to spend as much time with her as possible. For a

pound or two this single rose gift will score you a million

brownie points in her books and this can only be good for you.

When in a Spanish restaurant you can get the wandering musician

to serenade your senorita and this too will gain you many brownie

points. Just as when in a disco, it's great to ask the DJ to

dedicate a song to your new female friend (preferably her

favourite song which you'll have found out from her earlier in

the evening). This serenade will draw instant romantic/sexual

interest from the lady you're with as it's highly unlikely any

man will have done things like this for her before. It's useful

also to seem apparently knowledgeable about food and wines, the

easy way to learn the things you need to know is to buy the

series of books available in the U.K. from W.H. Smith stores

entitled "The Bluffer's Guide Series". This is a range of thin

paper back books which contain the main things you need to know

in order to seemingly be an expert in all subjects from food and

wine or current affairs to fortune telling or the occult. This

will also give you useful information to use within your

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conversations with potential sex partners and also should you

wish to lie to your female friend by telling her you're in

similar career to hers or a more interesting career than you

really are to gain interest from her then this "Bluffers Guide

series" will be a vital tool in your armoury for success with

dating and scoring with women. If in a foreign restaurant and

the menu's written in the foreign language which you can't read,

then you can avoid any embarrassing moments by simply asking for

a bottle of the house wine and asking the chef to recommend the

establishments most popular dish and then order that, working to

the logic that if it's popular then people must like it so you

probably will too. The only other thing I'd add on the subject

of dating in restaurants which can also be useful advice for any

other style of dating are the crazy gift ideas which I'm about to

mention, all of which can draw romantic interest from the female

you're after and can also score you a million brownie points.

These ideas are all tried, tested and proven to work so although

they may seem a little bizarre they do work (probably because

they're weird).

The Single Red Rose

An oldie but a goody, it has romantic overtones attached to it

and as such scores you a million brownie points whilst also

instantly putting the female into a romantic mood and this means

after an enjoyable romantic date sex will be much easier to get.

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 When giving her the rose you can add romantic impact to the

action by saying something such as "I just wanted to thank you

for a great time last night by giving you a little present so

please accept this as a token of my feelings towards you!"

Balloon in a Box

This is an idea to use on the day that a prearranged date is to

occur. Ensure that you know where your date works and then go to

a flower or gift shop that sells the helium balloons with

messages on. Purchase one which says "I love you" on it and buy

a gift box from the same place. Sellotape the card, the balloons

attached onto the inside bottom of the box and then after pushing

the balloon inside the box sellotape the lid down, attach a

message card saying to (her name) from (your name) with love.

Then deliver or have delivered the box to the place she works

sometime during the day on he same date as your rendezvous is to

occur. Always leave it at reception or personnel so that when

she gets given it you are not around. Basically she'll see the

card, know its from you and wonder what's inside the box, which

she'll then open. Upon opening the box in the middle of the

office she works in for example the balloon which says "I love

you" upon it will instantly float up into the air so that not

only will she see it but also will all her work colleagues. This

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may embarrass her a little at the time, but for the rest of the

day all her work colleagues will be telling her what a nice bloke

you must be and how lucky she must be to have found someone like

you. In other words they will be brainwashing her into the state

of mind which means she'll be easy game to get into bed at the

end of your date that same evening and she won't even realise

what an effect it's had on her.

Vase & Rose Ploy

This is another gift idea for dates which will cost around only

£2.50 yet is extremely effective. To use this ploy purchase a

single red rose wrapped in the clear cellophane which has little

red love hearts all over it from a flower shop at a cost of about

£2.00. Then visit your local charity shop and purchase a vase

for around 50p which will hold the rose correctly and looks far

more expensive when cleaned up by yourself at home prior to the

date. The vase which is wrapped in gift paper is inside your

overcoat pocket and the rose is under your jacket. When you for

example get to the restaurant and have sat down you give the vase

to your date as you say "This is a token of my love for you",

she'll then open it in anticipation and be quite disappointed to

find it's just a vase. Then just a few seconds later, before she

can react follow up by saying "oh yes and I almost forgot the

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most important bit that goes with it, this". You then remove the

rose from under your jacket and place it into the vase for her on

the table. As you lifted up her expectations and they've then

fallen rapidly as she unwrapped the vase, when she receives the

rose and her feelings rise for the better again she'll feel even

more for you than if you'd just given her a rose at the outset.

I know this is manipulative psychology of the highest order, but

it most certainly does work.

Teddy in a Balloon

Another present idea are those balloons you can buy from flower

shops which contain a cute teddy within them holding a love heart

that says upon it "I love you". That this to your dates house

when you go to pick her up then you get to use the element of

surprise giving it to her and also it can be left at home whilst

you are out on the date.

Ring in Box of Chocolates

This gift is for use when and should you ever decide to pop the

question to a female and ask her to marry you. From a

confectionery shop purchase a love heart shaped box of chocolates

in a bright red box with a bow on it (you can usually purchase

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these in places such as Thorntons). Open the box carefully and

remove one of the chocolates on the lower level and in its place

position the diamond engagement ring which you have also

purchased. Then close up the chocolates and wrap up in gift

paper. At the date you hand over the gift which is opened by her

and seen to be a box of chocolates you then say something such as

"This is the most important box of chocolates you've ever been

given, I can guarantee this!" She is bound to ask what you mean,

at which point you tell her to lift up the top level in the box

and as soon as she picks up the ring which she invariably will,

you instantly get down on bended knee and say "(her name) please

would you do me the great honour of marrying me?" Who could turn

down such a romantic request? When accepted instantly order the

champagne to celebrate and make this a true night to remember.

Other Gift Ideas

Well those are the gift ideas for dates, now of course at some

point you'll have to purchase valentines, birthday and Christmas

presents so below is a list of things which are ideal gifts for

the woman in your life.

Flowers, Chocolates, Perfume, Silk Lingerie, Clothes, Jewellery,

Teddies, Music, Novelties.

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And of course anything which has been specifically requested by

her for a gift will never fail to score you brownie points. If

in doubt ask the female shop assistant what she'd like to

receive, at least then you'll get a females opinion before

purchasing and always keep the receipt so that she can change the

gift for something else if she so desires.

The Champagne Ploy

As the law of averages states the more women you meet, the more

likely you are to find one who wants to have sex with you, the

champagne ploy is an ideal way to meet women. you simply enter

an exclusive win bar or night club and purchase a bottle of

champagne, ensuring that it's served unopened in a champagne

bucket half filled with ice and half filled with water and also

that six glasses are placed inside the bucket around the bottle.

you then approach an area where several single women are in a

group, open the champagne bottle with a bang as the cork flies

out in the air and all eyes turn on to you for a second, the man

everyone perceives "must have money" you then invite the nearby

ladies over for a glass of champagne as simple as that and they

usually follow whilst starting up the conversation themselves

which saves you the hassle. Then you just carry on being a "you

- you" person and odds are in your favour that as you've now

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started talking to several women you should be able to find one

who's interested in you also, and as such get laid that night.

Balloon-Modelling Ploy

Purchase some Qualatex modelling balloons and a book on balloon

modelling from a magic company such as Repro Magic, 46 Queenstown

Road, London, SW1 and then you'll be able to use this technique

which I've found very effective to break the ice with women and

thus start off the conversation. you simply learn how to make

from the balloon modelling books the following three things:

1. A flower.

2. A teddy bear.

3. A love heart.

You can then stand nearby to the female you wish to approach and

start to make the balloon object which will invariably catch her

attention at which point you establish eye contact and give her a

smile. As you're finishing the object you approach her and quite

simply say "Hello my name is Alex" and you're ? (pause)", once

she's answered by for example saying her name is Sarah, you then

reply by for instance saying "Well Sarah they say that beautiful

women like presents such as teddy bears so I've made you one".

Then hand it over and you've broken the ice.

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Continuing now as earlier described. For the flower you could

say "Well Sarah they do say you give a beautiful girl such as

yourself a red rose if you like her a lot, well I couldn't buy a

rose this time of night so I made you one!" And for the love

heart you could say "Sarah, they say men can't help acting on

impulse, well I couldn't get any flowers like in the TV advert so

I've made you this instead." Now I know this balloon modelling

play is very corny but it's something which very few men use,

it's easy to learn and most importantly it's extremely effective.

"Flirting with Magic"

In a great book entitled "Flirting with magic" written by Michael

Jeffry's and available from Magic Books by post, 49 Hill Avenue,

Bedminster, Bristol (comes with a free audio tuition tape) the

reader is taught how to do simple magical tricks and how to use

them not only to be the life and sole of the party but also to

"flirt" with women by breaking the ice and initiating the initial

conversation with them. I would recommend this excellent book to

all my readers as it's full of good ways to use magical tricks to

trap off with women. To put it simply the tricks are used by

just approaching the female and saying "Hi I'm Alex and I'm the

in house magical entertainer for Yates Wine Lodge, so relax and

enjoy the entertainment" You then do a trick or two, order a

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drink and then proceed into normal conversation as you'll have by

then broken the ice. Mr Jeffrys in his book offers one liners

and jokes which add a romantic slant to the tricks done. But for

those readers wishing to just be the life and sole of the party

and to use the magical tricks in the above way I unreservedly

recommend "The Encyclopaedia of Impromptu Magic" by Martin

Gardener and available from Magic Books by Post, it's full of

literally hundreds of tricks you can do anything, anyplace,

anywhere with ordinary everyday borrowed objects. Learn a few of

these tricks and you'll soon gain a reputation as a miracle

worker and women will be wanting to associate themselves with you

who they'll see as far more exciting than the average man.

Astrology Ploy

After reading "The Bluffers Guide to Fortune Telling" available

in W.H. Smith and watching the Tarot Reading Course video by Joe

Riding available from Mr Vic Pinto at Trick a Tape, Clerkenwell

Road, London, you'll have all the women everywhere swarming

around you and wanting to talk to you when you become known as a

"Fortune teller". To use this ploy to get stacks of women round

you, approach all the women you want to target and say "Hi I'm

Alex and I'm the In house Astrology provided courtesy of Yates

Wine Lodge management, I'll be available for free psychic

readings all night and I'll be over there if you want to join me

for one". You then walk off and sit down back at your table,

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women are fascinated by Astrology and that kind of thing so if

you tell, say 10 women this story don't be surprised when all 10

women swarm to be around you. As you'll have read the above book

and watched the video you'll be more than capable of giving a

convincing reading and thus impressing all the women no end.

Incidentally I've found I usually get bought drinks when giving

them a free reading so it saved you cash also. The women will

want to be with you and around you all night and as you've found

out a lot about their personal lives by doing the psychic

readings they'll feel as though they've known you for ages

because you know so much about them and as such it's very easy

indeed to get one of the women (the one you choose) to come home

with you for a late night drink which usually leads to sex.

Believe me when I say this technique is far more effective than

you could ever possibly imagine and I urge you to try it as this

one piece of advice is worth the entire price of the book and

will ensure when used as described that you get laid at least 365

times every year with as many different women as you so desire.

HYPNOTISM PLOY

You could also of course learn how to become a professionally

trained hypnotherapist and stage hypnotist by purchasing my

extensive hardback Training Manual "The Professional Art of Stage

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Hypnosis and Hypnotherapy" by Alex Leroy by contacting me via

publishers of this book. This book will teach you all you need

to know in order to hypnotise people and get anyone to do

anything you want them to. A lot of hypnotists and therapists

say it's impossible to make anyone say or do anything to

contradict their morals or their values, well this may be true

(although I doubt it) but I know from experience that within the

depths of all women's minds are locked away the most extreme

sexual fantasies. As a hypnotist I just place the female into a

trance with a few simple commands, then find the hiding place of

her fantasies, unlock them and then I just lie back and enjoy the

results. Given the correct stimulation the most prim and proper

women can do the most outrageous things. Once under hypnosis

it's very easy to say "sleep" to a woman and then suggest "In a

few moments when I awaken you, you'll be convinced in every way

that I'm the man of your dreams, the more I ignore you the more

you'd instantly fall deeply in love with me and in fact with

every breath you take, every noise you hear and every word that I

say, you'll imagine as 100% total reality that I'm the man of

your dreams and you'll do everything within your power to prove

to me that you're 100% woman". You then awaken the female by

saying 1, 2, 3 wide awake and believe it or not if hypnotised

deeply as detailed in my book "The Professional Art of Stage

Hypnosis and Hypnotherapy" available from the publishers of this

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book, then she really will as 100% reality believe you are the

man of her dreams and as such she will do all within her power to

prove she's 100% woman to you, as such it's no problem to ask her

back to your place for sex as she thinks you're the man of her

dreams when he asks her to go home with him. Now let me point

out something very important here, no-one can be hypnotised

against their will, as such they have to co-operate and

concentrate in order for you to be able to make them enter a

genuinely deep hypnotic trance and then brainwash them slightly

by using the techniques of:

1. Belief and expectancy

2. Disorientation and confusion

3. Suggestion and repetition

4. Relaxation and sleep

As fully outlined in my in depth training course book on the

subject. This being the case as English law states if you

volunteer to do something then if any consequences occur which

you later regret it's your own problem as you volunteered to take

part, you can as such very legally hypnotise a female with her

consent and once she's in a deep hypnotic trance suggest to her

you're the man of her dreams and as such she'll prove she's 100%

woman. Then when you awaken her leaving this suggestion in her

mind as explained you have no problems getting her into bed as

she believes as "total reality" you're the man of her dreams.

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This may not exactly be ethical, but it is , I believe legal,

anyway I've never had any legal problems using this technique to

bed women after my shows and also out and about in social

situations, as has been documented on Local National and

International network, satellite and cable TV channels or

primetime radio and many, if not all, U.K. National Daily

newspapers including of course Britain's most read Daily paper

"The Sun". The fact that the Sun's undercover reporters managed

to find women who had experienced sex with me whilst believing I

was their favourite film star gives you documented evidence that

this method does work, and as it says in the Sun report, (which

is printed at the front of the book in Media Section) as they'd

always consented to be hypnotised. I was not legally in the

wrong, although some would say what I did was unethical. Anyway

that's the suggestion you use to get her into bed and then to

remove her from trance fully you'd use a suggestion such as "In a

few moments when I snap my fingers you'll be completely awake,

any suggestions I've given you tonight will be cancelled out in

every way, in other words you'll be back to normal just as you

were before we both met this evening, and you'll be your normal

self in every way, full of energy, health, vitality and

happiness. You'll awaken remembering only that you've had the

best sex of your life and will be very happy!" You'd then bring

her out of trance totally by saying "1, 2, 3 wide awake" (and

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then snapping your fingers at which point she'll awaken). By

awakening her in this way she'll remember she has had the best

sex of her life, but will never realise that you used hypnotism

to get her into bed. Incidentally, as a 500 page A4 size,

hardback training manual my book "The professional Art of Stage

Hypnosis and Hypnotherapy" can not only teach you everything you

need to know in order to hypnotise women deeply enough to use the

techniques and suggestions I've just outlined, but also after

reading my book available from Supreme Magic, you'll know enough

to, should you wish, earn money and potentially lots of it from

hypnotherapy sessions at £35 a time or from stage shows for which

even a beginner hypnotist would receive around £125 a night at

time of writing this book. Not only will the information improve

your sex life, but it can also seriously improve your finances.

Also bear in mind that like Bands, Hypnotists also get female

groupies, so when you do a hypnotism show its a great way to meet

dozens of women who will be so entranced by the domineering

character they see perform that they will practically rip your

trousers off in a bid to get you to make love to them in your

dressing room. incidentally once under hypnosis you can suggest

to your sex partner that "In a few moments when I awake you, not

only am I still the man of your dreams, but every time I say the

word now, you'd have a multiple orgasm and experience it as

reality with each and every orgasm becoming more intense and

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enjoyable". You'd then awaken her as detailed already and at

anything during the sex session you said the word "now" she

really would have a genuine multiple orgasm, as such you can

guarantee that you both have an orgasm simultaneously by saying

"now" just as you are about to ejaculate. Allow your own

personal experience to prove to you that although you can't say

to someone when you wake up you'll shoot that man dead!, you can

make them play a game and do it in a game as long as they don't

realise what they're doing. For example if a hypnotist

hypnotised you and suggested that you return mentally to six

years of age, you would do. Once acting and thinking as a six

year old, our hypnotist could suggest to you that you were

playing cowboys and Indians, you were the cowboy and your brother

was the big chief Indian and in a few moments you'd awaken, pick

up the toy gun in front of you and go into the next room and

shoot the nasty big chief Indian dead. This suggestion would be

accepted by your mind and you would pick up what was actually a

real gun and go to your brother and shoot him thinking it was a

toy gun and you were just playing a game. Now this example is

provided for information purposes only and incidentally could

only be done by using severe brain washing techniques which are

explained briefly in my Training Manual from me via the

publishers. This section has been for information purposes only,

I am not encouraging anyone to commit any immoral or unethical

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acts which, although legal are, as I say not ethical. As such

anyone doing as outlined in this book does so at their own risk

and in full knowledge that the risk is theirs and that I Alex

Leroy, as Author of this book cannot and will not be held

responsible for your actions after reading this book or my

Hypnotism training manual "The Professional Art of Stage Hypnosis

and Hypnotherapy". All I'm going to say is prior to quitting

stage hypnosis "I was living out my sexual fantasies on stage,

was a really perverted bastard and as it say's in the Sun report

reported earlier in this book, I have taken advantage (legally)

of literally hundreds of entranced women using my hypnotism

skills and the techniques as outlined in this entire publication.

Despite what some professional hypnotists say, once under

hypnosis, if the suggestions are phrased correctly, you can get

anyone to do anything, as all people who have seen or

participated in my outrageous stage shows "erotic hypnotics" and

"Hypnotorious" will testify.

Best Places to Meet Women

Traditionally, we have in life been conditioned to believe that

the best place to pick up women is in night-clubs, pubs or wine-

bars! Well to be totally honest the only truth behind this

tradition is that these are the places where you are most likely

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to find the highest number of women at one time, and as such the

law of averages is therefore working in your favour to find a

woman who will sleep with you. So you may ask why is it that

some guys who are often nothing special to look at are so

successful with girls? Well you should already know the answer

if you've absorbed the things I've taught you so far. It's quite

simply that they know that every rejection brings them closer to

a woman saying yes to them and as such they have the patience and

persistence to keep on asking until they are successful. You'll

usually find also that these are the guys who treat women as

equals and get the women to talk about themselves a lot which is

one of the most useful and important thing you can learn to do by

reading this book. So what I'm saying is for a planned evening

of picking up women, always go where plenty of women are as then

your chances of sex is increased. However, every single day you

are confronted with beautiful women who could be potential dates

and or sex partners for you. On the public transport to and from

work, in the office, in the same building as you work in, at the

shop where you buy your paper, the checkout girls at the

supermarket or the woman in the queue next to you. They are all

potential dates and should be regarded as such. Consequently

every minutes of the day opportunities arise to ask a woman to

"join you for a drink after work to wind down" or to approach a

woman you like the look of in the shopping centre and say in a

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shy manner so as to get the woman off guard "I know this may

sound silly, but I just spotted you in the crowd and you seemed

to be a really nice person, so I was wondering if you'd like to

join me for a drink now or if you'd sooner exchange telephone

numbers and get together later in the week?" Here again we have

an example of an open ended question which cannot merely be

answered by a yes or no statement, as such your chances of a

positive reply are much improved. Whether she agreed to a date

there and then is not a worry, the main thing is to make that

initial approach and exchange telephone numbers, as once again

the law of averages say the more telephone numbers you get on a

weekly basis the more likely you are to date some of these girls

and then bed them at a later date. To illustrate many men

complain they are unsuccessful with women and yet they never

really make much of an effort to find one, procrastination is the

worst evil in life, after all, why put off doing what can be done

today until tomorrow? Because if you like doing it today then

you can always do it again tomorrow! Lots of women can be found

in the local coin operated laundry's so it could be worth your

while to start doing your washing there, using the ice breaking

methods I've already explained. You can initiate a conversation

and who knows what will follow? Ensure you go to a ladies

hairdressers to have your hair done and two advantages will

present themselves to you (a) All the hairdressers will usually

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be women and (b) you can ask the good looking ones to do your

hair in a style which they'd like to see on a man such as

yourself. The likelihood is that if they, as a female like your

hair the way they style it then many other women will do also, it

also gives you another pick up opportunity by saying to the

hairdresser something such as "cheers, my hair looks great and I

feel great, how's about I take you for a drink tonight to say

thanks for your help?" The worst that can happen is she says no,

in which case all is not lost, you can follow up by saying "o.k

if tonight’s inconvenient how about a little later in the week?"

It's hard for her to say no to this and as such at this point

you then exchange telephone numbers and of course contact her at

a later date. For those with half an ounce of intelligence

you'll be able to see the most important message, secret, call it

what you will, that I can teach you is on this page, take

advantage of every opportunity that arises. Every woman you see

on the street, on the bus, on the train, in the supermarket etc.

is a potential date. All you need to do is approach her and use

the line I detailed earlier and invariably overall you'll have

far more successes than failures as the women will be flattered

that you asked them in such a spontaneous way and here the

element of surprise works in your favour so you stand a good

chance of getting a date there and then. Never pre-judge anyone,

there's no reason anyone should say no to you, but if they do you

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don't have to feel bad, just presume they are already in a

relationship, are lesbian or just don't want a relationship at

this moment in time and that will keep your spirits up to keep

asking women until you hit lucky and get laid. The bottom line

of what I'm saying here is that the more contact you are making

on a regular basis with beautiful females the more the law of

averages will be working in your favour. To find a woman who

will not only be open to your advances but will also want sex

with you, just as much as you want sex with her. As such never

prejudge anyone, as the one person you pre-judge could

unfortunately be the woman who'd have said yes to you! To sum up

this section of my instructional guide. Persistence and

commitment to picking up women are the most important personality

traits that a professional pick up artist can have. And always

believe that today will be another lucky day for you, because

what the mind can perceive the body can then achieve. To put it

another way, if you fill your imagination with clear visions of

you approaching women talking to them, having your proposal of a

date accepted, then the date being successful and finally getting

her into bed and having great sex with her. Then as these images

will be embedded into your imagination and as all psychologists

have proved "When the imagination (sub-conscious) and you go out

on the "pull", even if your human will is telling you you'll be

unsuccessful as the "Imagination always wins" as stated above the

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images in your imagination (sub-conscious) are far more likely to

become reality than those negative thoughts in your conscious

mind (THE WILL!). As will be explained later, these trial runs

in the mind or "Mental rehearsals" are even more effective when

you carry them out whilst in a state of self-hypnosis as then

these positive suggestions will be more firmly embedded in your

imagination (sub-conscious) and as such will have a more

positive, profound and obviously beneficial effect in your

everyday life and as mentioned in this example, make you more

successful with women which of course is the aim of this book.

To put it yet another way "Positive thoughts breed positive

actions" and invariably "Positive actions produce positive

results". Now as all this is starting to sound like an American

Motivational Training Seminar in self-improvement techniques,

allow me to say that's my intention! You see without improving

your self first to eliminate your negative personality traits,

how do you ever expect people to find you irresistible? As such

let me finish this section by saying that you can very

successfully use the self hypnosis techniques which I'll detail

later to strengthen your weaknesses and eliminate your negative

traits. Incidentally, for those readers who'd like to be

seriously successful not just with women but also in all other

areas of your life I unreservedly recommend "Unlimited Personal

Power" and "Awaken the Giant Within", two of the best self

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improvement books ever published, written by American Gun and

motivationalist Anthony Robbins. These books can be ordered via

your local W.H. Smith's and really are worth their weight in

gold. You would also have put your money to good use if you

invested £140 into purchasing the "Unlimited Power" 30 day

Training course for ultimate life success which comprises of 24

audio tapes and a course guide, is well worth every penny.

Compiled and devised by Anthony Robbins. The course is available

from:

Nightingale Court

2 Aspens Units

Devon

and will seriously improve your life, both sexual and other

areas for the better.

BECOME A MALE STRIPPER

If you've got a decent set of wedding tackle and enough

confidence to remove your clothes in front of several hundred

women who are all leering at you, the become a male stripper!

You'll get paid from £50 to £100 per night for two 20 minutes

spots and of course will be in a room cram packed full of women

who are all in a hot and horny sexual state of mind. How do I

know this? Well simply because I used to perform a Ladies only

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night show entitled "Erotic Hypnotist Alex Leroy presents the

Stallions 'male strippers' and exotic dancers". These ladies

only nights would usually be held in the top room of a pub and

be promoted by myself with a ticket charge being made on the

door as the women enter. believe me when I say these ladies

only nights were always well attended with no less than around

100 women each night, remember of course these women are all

alone, no men with them and have come for a dirty night out, so

are in a sexual state of mind. Once several male strippers have

worked them into a frenzy, the women become very sexually

frustrated and as all the bar people are female the only men in

the venue would be me and the three male strippers. So there

were say 100 women and four men , that’s a ratio of 25 women to

each man, and experience shows me that by the end of the show

all the women are not only sexually frustrated and turned on but

are also slightly tipsy, as such it would be the worlds easiest

thing to approach one and say “Do you fancy joining me in my

dressing room for sex?” Be as simple and direct as this and the

answer will usually be yes due to the hot and horny sexual state

of mind which the women are now in. You’ll usually find however

that the women will approach you with offers of sex as my

experience shows me that 100 women in a room who’ve had a little

bit to much to drink, have been telling dirty jokes & watching

male strippers can turn into veritable sexual beasts who will

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not take no for an answer in a quest to get laid! On many

occasions when I performed my Hypnotism show at these ladies

nights I’ve been given oral sex in the toilets by several

different women, I’ve had a necking session with just about

every woman in the joint & screwed the brains out of several

throughout the evening, these women even told me they were

married or involved in a relationship but they needed sex there

and then to quench their appetite which had been worked up by

the evenings events. So if you want to become a male stripper,

consult your local Yellow pages, contact the entertainment

agencies tell them you have the confidence & body needed to

become a male stripper and you just need to see a few in action

to develop your own unique act, They will usually then be able

if you make the right impression to sneak you into a closed

doors “Ladies only” night show so that you can develop , observe

and learn your own unique routine & then start working through

the agent who has helped you along the way. You’d then be both

earning money & getting into a position where being asked for

sex by many women is GUARANTEED to happen, so the planning ,

developing of an act etc. for those this idea interests could be

well worth the effort. You could of course just start promoting

such shows by booking a venue direct, hiring the male strippers

from a local agent & then selling the tickets. This could be a

nice little earner for you but most importantly it would mean

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that you could be inside the venues on the nights of the shows &

as such be in a situation where women do my experience shows me

go crazy for almost any type of sexual satisfaction. So if you

want sex with several women on the same night who all approach

you & ask for it then this option is most definitely for you!

Those ladies only nights shows were certainly the most enjoyable

shows I’ve ever done, Imagine it getting paid to be in the

company of stacks of women who after the show approach you & ask

for no strings sex there & then, it seems too good to be

true....But its 100% Total Reality!!!

BECOME A MODELLING AGENT.

Another way to get paid for meeting the worlds most beautiful

women on a Daily basis is to set up your own Modelling Agency.

To do this you’d just get information on setting up an

employment agency as basically that’s what a Modelling Agency

is! The Proprietor (you) finds people who wish to hire the

services of beautiful women for TV ads, photographic shoots etc.

(both nude & clothed), Fashion Shows, Promotional work etc. and

then you supply them with one of the females who would have

registered themselves with your agency and you receive a

commission payment from the model of say 15 to 20% plus V.A.T

based on the models wages for finding her the job. Once set up,

being the owner of a modelling agency is an ideal way to get

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paid for meeting the worlds most beautiful women on a daily

basis as they’d e coming to you to find work. Bring in also the

law of averages & your bound to get dates with some of these

women and also don’t forget the casting couch still exists very

much so in fact, both within the Modelling and general

entertainment industry. As such you may just find the female

models finding it very hard to say no to your offers of a night

out as they want to keep you happy at any means in the hope that

you’ll keep them supplied with work on a regular basis in

exchange for sexual favours. It may be wrong but this kind of

thing most certainly goes on as your then in a very powerful

position as far as the females are concerned and although its

wrong some people do abuse positions of power for their own

means & as the owner of a modelling agency you could most

definitely abuse your position to obtain sexual favours,

although I do not condone anyone using any ideas supplied in

this book for information purposes only in an unethical manner

or illegal way....anyone doing so does so at their own risk!!

BECOME A MALE ESCORT

Yet another way to get paid for meeting beautiful women & this

time Definitely having sex with them is to become a male escort.

To do this in the simplest form you’d just place a classified

advertisement in all local media publications saying something

such as “Executive Male Escort Service available for Discerning

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female clientele only (all fees affordable).” Now an advert

such as this means any female replying to it does so in the

knowledge that they’ll have to pay for your services so don’t

feel bad in charging a decent fee! When they ring up ask if

they require your company at their home, in a Hotel or for a

social event? Should they say in their home or in a hotel you

know 100% they require sex, as such tell them its say £30 an

hour for your time and then take the appointment & when the time

comes you go to the given address , have sex with the women ad

get paid for this as an extra bonus! Remember though that as

the women is paying for your professional services she says what

goes and as such the most important thing to do is to bring her

to Orgasm as many times as possible, then as your customers will

be satisfied you are more than likely to get repeat business and

after a short while could have a nice income with regular and

varied sexual adventures....so Heaven does exist after all

then!!!!

Incidentally some male escorts charge as low as £20 an hour

whilst some charge up to £80 an hour. You could phone local

escort agencies to find out the average prices charged by the

competition in your immediate area. Should they require your

services for a social situation ask them “Will you be requiring

my services in private as well at the end of the night?” Should

they answer Yes then you know you will get sex at the end of the

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night, after an evening of wining and dining etc. which you tell

the female will all be at her own expense on top of your hourly

fees. Although as a male escort your job is to bring your

female client to Orgasm as many times as possible or at least to

satisfy her sexual appetite, it does mean however that not only

will you be earning a nice extra income whilst getting laid on a

regular basis, in fact you’d most likely get laid far more than

365 times a year as this book promises to teach you to achieve!!

SELLING YOURSELF TO WOMEN

Just as a salesman who’s successful really “sells” his product

to each & every potential customer, so you as A MAN TRYING TO

PICK UP A FEMALE SEX PARTNER MUST REALLY “SELL” yourself, your

personality & your sense of humour along with all the other

positive points about yourself to each & every potential female

sex partner that you meet! The old saying that what you look

like doesn’t matter it’s what’s inside that really matters is

O.K. if your the personality kid of the 90’s otherwise its

complete bullshit and its much truer to say “You never get a

second chance to make a first impression!” And because first

impressions last its vital yours is a good one at all times of

the day as you never know when you’ll meet the woman of your

dreams. Needless to say cleanliness is vitally important, teeth

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cleaned, nasal hair trimmed, cleanly shaved, washed & styled

hair, clean body, aftershave, deodorant & all the other things

which common-sense tells you must be done as part of your

personal hygiene & cleanliness ritual on a daily basis. Don’t

forget also to cut your fingernails, it looks very nice & also

it means when you end up in bed with a women you’ll be 100%

prepared, to put it nicely the whole area of the women’s vaginal

and clitoral area is so tender and delicate that if your

fingernails are too long you could cut her down there and

believe me this would not go down to well. Once your body is

nice and clean, also being presented correctly the next thing to

consider is the clothes you are to wear which ideally will make

you look like cool dude with money to throw around. A few

tips...Black will go with anything and contrasts well with

bright shirts or jackets. Should you be a little overweight or

short in height then shirts with stripes going upwards

(vertically) will make you look slightly taller & thinner,

whereas shirts with Horizontal stripes can make you look

slightly bigger in build if your a seven stone weakling.

Remember also a few golden rules when choosing clothing for when

out purposely on the pull, by day it will of course be your

working clothes so have no worries there, at nights or weekends

however you should be wearing clothing that is both comfortable

and also you must feel good in it whilst also making all the

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eyes turn onto you whenever you walk into a room. For example a

very simple outfit is black patent leather shoes, black socks,

silk boxer shorts, black designer style trousers & chunky black

genuine leather belt, A Blue silk shirt and a bright red mofflon

jacket. This example outfit I’ve worn on many occasions and

really makes you stand out from the crowd due to the mixture of

black, red & blue colours all of which contrast well with each

other. The bright colours will make you look a bright & cheery

person to be with and its also the ideal look to wear in order

to look right using the pick up techniques which I’ve taught you

so far. A nice casual suit with contrasting coloured shirt can

also work well & all in all its a case of you must stand out in

the crowd, whilst feeling comfortable and able to dance in this

clothing. Its also vitally important to look as you feel is

right, it matters little what other men say as long as your 100%

confident in your night-time outfits then you’ll act 100%

confident & as such be 100% more confident, s consequently

you’ll be 100% more successful in your quest to get laid 365

plus times a year. Once again purchasing clothes in shops where

there are female attractive store assistants can be very useful,

as mentioned for the hairdressers here in the same WAY if the

women think you look good in a certain outfit then the chances

are many other women will do so to as many women think in the

same way!! The trousers should show off your bums nice size as

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women seem to love mens’ bums. If you have skinny legs then

pleated trousers can make you look bigger in build, you could of

course start working out at the gym or at home a little in order

to broaden your shoulders and put on a little muscle. Having

said that I’ve always got by with shoulder pads in the jackets

to make my shoulders look broader, pleated trousers to make my

build look bigger and in general use the clothing to my

advantage which of course you can do also!! Designer clothing

although very expensive can be a very worthwhile investment as

clothing of a one of a kind nature is bound to make you stand

out in all circumstances as there’s no chance of anyone wearing

the same outfit as you. So now cleanliness and clothing are

sorted, you may also wish to add jewellery. Ideally genuine

jewellery is best, otherwise a good quality fake Rolex watch and

some good costume jewellery can help add that final sparkle to

your “Richman’s” image and as you’ll look like a million

dollars, your confident & also feel good within yourself then

Sexcess with women will be yours! Remember breathspray in the

pocket is usual for smokers although ideally its much better to

give up smoking via self hypnosis. Once cleanliness, appearance

& clothing are dealt with you are left only with mental attitude

which will be dealt with later in the self hypnosis section.

You’ll then be a true pick up expert and ready to be let loose

into the world of the professional playboy!! As well as selling

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yourself in this way you can also use techniques of salesmen to

your advantage to make a relationship move to the bedroom far

more quickly. Techniques such as “Mirroring and Matching” which

is basically where you observe the females body actions & a few

seconds after she makes a change in her body posture you make

the same identical change in your body posture...so in effect

you are “Mirroring” her movements and then “Matching” them. But

do ensure that you aren’t making it so obvious that it becomes

mimicking as this is more likely to end the relationship than to

move it on!! Used in the correct way though the technique of

Mirroring and Matching can make the female think subconsciously

you are very much the same as her and as such she’ll warm to you

more quickly and sex is likely to result far more rapidly. You

can also use “Subliminal” messages to implant the idea into the

females mind of sexual thoughts by hiding a message within a

normal sentence and this is detailed fully in my hypnotism book

available from me via the publishers of this book. A brief non

sexual example of how this would work is as follows... “As you

listen to my voice you may feel that YOU WANT TO GO TO SLEEP NOW

or maybe a little later.” The words which are not in capitals

are spoken in a normal quiet tone of voice, whereas the words in

capitals are spoken in a slightly louder tone of voice so that

the difference is spotted by her subconscious mind only & as

such acts as a subliminal suggestion, so that it looks innocent

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but enters her subconscious mind just as “YOU WANT TO GO TO

SLEEP NOW”. And remember the golden rule given earlier that

when the imagination and the will are in conflict the

imagination will always win & as such your subliminally

suggested message will be acted upon whether its of a sexual

nature or not. A great book to read if you don’t want to invest

several hundred pounds into my stage hypnosis training course is

The Hypnotic World Of Paul McKenna book by the man of the same

name. It costs £5-00 and contains details in full on Mirroring

and matching, obtaining a rapport with people, subliminally

planting messages in a persons mind and much, much more... which

can all be used together to seriously improve your chances of

picking up women on a regular basis. Also I’d recommend to all

readers to borrow a few books on salesmen’s techniques from your

local library as you’ll find many of these methods can be used

in the dating environment. For example a sales principle is

KISS meaning Keep It Simple Stupid which is used to remind you

that the simplest methods and chat up lines are always the best.

By far the most successful chat up lines are those which are

created on the spur of the moment, are spontaneous and as such

are 100% tailored to the situation you are in & the female you

have approached. These sales manuals or ideally my professional

training manual in Hypnotic Ploys will also teach you how to use

reverse psychology to get people to do things which they did not

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intend to do at that moment in time, or to get them to reveal

more about themselves than they’d intended to. For example a

girl says I’ll come to your house at 8-00 tonight, you then say

“Well if you should decide to be there at 6-00 |I won’t mind in

fact I’ll be very pleased to see you!” A better non sexual

example of reverse psychology is this.... When I was younger I

used to get bullied a lot and one time after learning reverse

psychology a bully said to me “Get lost now Alex or I’m going to

hit you.” I replied by saying “Go on then why wait to do it, try

to do it now if your so hard!”, This was a combination of

reverse psychology as I was saying the reverse of what the

person expected and also the law of reversed effort that says if

you tell someone to try & do something, then it suggests to them

they will be unable to do it and as such the harder they try to

do it the more unsuccessful they will be!! A sexual example of

the law of reversed effort is “Go on then try to leave me, you

can’t” The harder she tries to leave you the less she’ll be able

to. An example of reverse psychology is “Go on then leave me &

oh by the way I wish you the best of luck & happiness” said in a

casual, sincere non emotional way this will be exactly the

reverse of what’s she expects you to say & as such will usually

result in her doing the opposite (reverse) of what she’d

intended to do. So if she’d intended to leave you don’t be

surprised if she changes her mind & stays with you! Do some

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research on reverse psychology & the law of reversed effort they

are both very useful techniques for manipulating people &

getting anyone to do anything you want when you want them to do

it. So the bottom line of this section is both a knowledge of

psychology techniques & salesmen’s techniques can seriously

improve your sex life and make you double if not triple your

success with women. Here I’ve told you the basics, my book The

Professional Art of Stage Hypnosis and Hypnotherapy goes into

complete depth about each of these subjects and also includes

details of brainwashing and persuasion methods!

PLEASING YOUR PARTNER FIRST!

In this section I will reveal to you tried, tested and proven to

work techniques which will make you the best lover which your

female sex partner will have ever experienced and as such will

gain you a reputation as a “SuperStud” with very little effort

on your part. It will also ensure that she always has the FIRST

orgasm, whereas in most sexual encounters she will have had the

man will have shot his load before the women is anywhere near to

having an Orgasm herself hence the bad reputation which all men

have been branded with as having a “WHAM BAM THANK YOU MAM”

attitude! The things which I am about to tell you have always

worked in my own personal experience, but as all situations are

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very different, remember adaptability is also an important

personality trait to have. In order to give a female the best

sex session she’ll ever have in her life you need to understand

a little bit about a females anatomy, how they think about

sexual relationships and how they experience things, its also

very useful to have a good varied knowledge of sexual positions

& techniques which can be used in your love making sessions. To

this end I would say its vital for all men reading this book to

widen their knowledge of women, their bodies & also of sexual

techniques...as such I recommend you purchase, beg or borrow the

following books,....

1) The Joy Of Sex 2) More Joy Of Sex

3) How To Make Love To The Same Person For The Rest Of Your

Life.

4) The Male Multiple Orgasm And How To Achieve It.

These four books when read and the information within absorbed

will give you a thorough knowledge of the male & female anatomy,

how they both work, how they can be stimulated & in fact all you

could ever need to know, not least of which will be numerous and

varied sexual positions. Armed with this knowledge you’ll be

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able to talk to a women about sexual matters in a way which she

understands and also respects, and also you’ll know more about

how her body works than even she perhaps knows & most certainly

more than the average man does. All these publications are

freely available in W.H. Smiths or any local bookstore! I’d

also recommend watching all the sex education videos you can to

help broaden your horizons. Another very useful technique is to

buy & read on a weekly basis several Women’s Magazines, these

will reveal to you the things happening to women, what women at

the time are interested in & will give you some good interesting

conversational material to discuss with your female friend which

she WILL be interested in. The first important thing that I’ve

learnt about women is that unlike men 90% of their Orgasms are

induced psychologically via foreplay & fantasy and of course

being treated correctly by their sex partner. Foreplay is I

believe more important than the penetrative sex itself, and the

act of foreplay starts from the very moment that you both meet

until you actually penetrate her! This being the case your

first impressions, your chat up lines, the conversations you

both have, the date you go on, those close groin rubbing dances

are all in some way part of the foreplay. When you ask her back

to your place for a coffee its the start of the really serious

foreplay and if its a one night stand your after then you’ve

only got one chance to get things right. Back at your place it

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should have an atmosphere which helps get the women into the

correct mood for sex! For example the seduction music I

mentioned earlier should be playing on the stereo, it helps to

have lights which are controlled by a remote control dimmer so

that you don’t need to move from the couch to turn the lights

off when things are hotting up, the decor should not be bachelor

pad style in black ash effect furniture & all modern gimmicks

etc. as this looks far to prearranged. It is much better to

have a nice homely atmosphere and decor which although nicely

colour co-ordinated suggests your a nice professional person as

opposed to a professional pick up expert. A homely atmosphere

will psychologically make women feel at ease and at home so to

speak, so they are far more likely to unwind and let themselves

go! A bottle of Champagne in the fridge when you get back can

be very useful & also romantic and means you’ll get a little

more tipsy & so both relax and as such lose your inhibitions.

You will both be I presume & recommend sat next to each other on

the couch, and as you drink will be adding more and more sexual

innuendo into the conversation, this is done in order to start

getting the female into a really sexual state of mind. If you

are both smokers of Wacky Backy (which incidentally I’m

not.....Honest!!) then a joint or two at this time can also

relax you both a lot and also it helps induce an atmosphere

where you both become very talkative. At this time (when both

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of you are a little drunk or stoned) I’ve found three easy ways

to get to the next stage of the game.

A) I would now add more humour to the conversation & suggest

that a good way to get to know each other better would be to

play truth or dare. Now before you say this is childish let me

point out that I learnt this technique from a 35 yr. old playboy

who’s used it for years with great success. For those of you

who don’t know with truth or dare you take it in turns to ask

each other a question about the other person which can be about

anything including sex & must be answered or the person must

perform a dare of your choice. I usually play this game with my

female friend and add more and more sexual innuendo into the

questions I ask her and invariably means she does the same back

so as the game turns sexual so does the atmosphere & the nature

of the dares people have to carry out if they don’t answer a

question and as such as things hot up you’ll both become very

horny indeed. There are two ways in which you can after a while

turn the game into a sex session by either simply making a pass

in the everyday way & working up to sex or as I usually do I ask

her a question such as “What turns you on most sexually in bed

with a man!” she will either then answer which means you’ll know

exactly what to do when you get into bed to turn her on or

she’ll accept the dare instead in which case you say “OK you

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won’t tell me so I dare you to show me instead!” she then has a

choice accept or don’t and if she doesn’t at this point then the

likelihood is you won’t get it, another way to put it is to

simply dare her by saying for my next question “Would you sleep

with me” this will usually catch her unaware & even if she takes

the dare instead her reaction will tell you the answer one way

or the other. If she says yes or obviously transmits many body

language signals saying yes then next time you get to give her a

dare say “ I Dare you to come to bed with me now!” I know its

crude but the atmosphere will be such by this time that it seems

totally normal.

B) The second way is to be sat on the couch together having a

drink & a chat and then as the conversation becomes more sexual

and all the body language signals are accepting you totally then

just take hold of her drink and place it onto the table whilst

keeping eye contact with her at all times & either just make a

pass by starting to kiss her or say “Lets stop messing around,

cause your driving me crazy.” Then make a pass at her, if she’s

come to your place after a night out together, sexual topics

have been discussed and all body language signals have been

positive there is no reason for her to push you away and as such

you’d let the casual Kiss turn into an open mouthed full

passionate style kiss & then start on your foreplay routine to

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get her turned on enough to have sex with you there and then on

the couch or to join you upstairs in the bedroom.

C) The final technique which I have found to be very successful

is once you’ve got back to your place and had a few drinks and

the conversation has turned increasingly sexual, ask the female

casually “What time do you have to be away in the morning?” If

she answers in a few hours or its not important then she has

basically agreed to stay the night with you for sex as the

question you have asked is just a subtle way to ask her if she

will stay the night with you. As such if she answers in this

positive way and seems to have the idea in her mind of sleeping

with you which her answer will reveal then a little while later

after a kiss & cuddle on the couch with perhaps your hand

stimulating her nipples and stimulation of her clitoris through

her clothing I would just stand up and whilst looking at her say

“Well I don’t know about you but its warmer upstairs so I’m

going up to the bedroom, I’ll see you up there!” You then just

turn & go upstairs without looking back & the fact you have

acted so confidently that you expect her to follow you means

she’s far more likely too. And when she does which I have found

happens most of the time you know that sex is guaranteed, why

else would she follow you to the bedroom?

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You now know how I get from the living room chat to the sexual

fun starting, all I can really add now is that most women have

Orgasm in foreplay & not during penetrative sex, as such you

must carry on the foreplay until the female achieves an orgasm

or says something such as “I want you now” or “Please get into

me know” or some such other thing along these lines. Foreplay

techniques are detailed in the recommended reading I’ve given

you but some which I’ve found very, very useful in turning a

women on enough to satisfy her sexual needs with an Orgasm are..

1) You obviously kiss, open mouthed, this can be varied by

kissing the edges of her mouth & moving inwards before a full

mouth to mouth kiss. You can also kiss around her mouth and

then move back to full open mouth kissing, you have the neck to

kiss which is usually an Erogenous zone, you have the earlobes

to lick and all other variations of kissing you can think

of...be very imaginative there are literally 100s of different

ways to kiss someone which are only limited by your own

imagination.

2) The classic hand up the top or feeling through the ladies top

technique of stimulating her nipples until they become erect is

very useful, later when both naked its good to suck, lick &

lightly bite in a playful way her nipples as it can be a big

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turn on. Also the full hand massage of her breasts I’ve found

can be a real turn on for her.

3) When fully clothed I’ve found it useful to simulate that we

are both having sex then, so that the movements stimulate her

clitoris and as such turn her on move.

4) undressing each other can be a big turn on, undoing zips with

your teeth can be a really nice touch and being able to undo a

bra strap with one hand up her top is impressive & useful so

have a look at a few different bra straps and see how they do up

& also undo you’ll then stand a far better chance than the

average man of not stumbling or fumbling when you try to do

this!

5) Kissing her entire body that is covering her entire body from

head to toe in little kisses can be a real turn on for both of

you and is bound to find out where all her erogenous zones are,

you can then concentrate on these most sensitive zones later.

6) I find it very useful to have discussed sex during the

evenings conversation & then I can find out what foreplay and

sexual techniques turn on my potential partner and then I am in

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a position to please her in the way she likes to be pleased when

we later have sex,

7) Toe sucking known as Shrimping can be a turn on for her and

of course don’t forget that sensual massage can not only relax

her but turn her on also in a really big way. Books teaching

you basic massage can be purchased at your local bookstore and

its well worth learning a little as its really useful in

foreplay to get a girl in the right mood conducive for her to

achieve Orgasm.

8) Manual stimulation of her vagina & clitoris is good, mainly

of the clitoris. My tips on this are first casually lick your

middle finger of the right hand & then stick your middle finger

out with all the other fingers curled closed against your hand,

you can now move your hand down her body in slow motion until

your finger ends up where her vaginal opening is, you then move

your finger back upwards along the same route taking notice of

when her body bucks slightly which will usually be the moment

your finger comes into contact with her clitoris which is a

small mound of flesh rather like a mini penis as it becomes hard

& erect when the women is turned on so when your finger goes

over a small bump you’ve found the magic button which will with

enough stimulation bring her to orgasm!! To stimulate it press

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lightly upon the clitoris and move it gently backwards and

forwards, sideways and also in a circular movement, you can also

flick it with the end of your finger in fact do anything you can

think of just so long as she responds positively.

9) It can then be good to go down on the women called

(cunnilingus) or oral sex! you move your head down between her

legs and you can do several things.. I usually thrust my tongue

in & out of her vaginal opening for as long as I can and then

use my finger to thrust in & out of her for penetrative

stimulation whilst I also use my tongue to stimulate her

clitoris by licking it, sucking it slightly and flicking it with

the end of my tongue. By doing a combination of this and number

eight together I find that after a while the female will usually

experience a very satisfying Orgasm! And by a little while I

must point out some women can come in a matter of a few minutes

but on average I’ve found it can take 15 to 25 minutes of

clitoral stimulation to start the Orgasms coming thick and thin.

I’ve also found clitoral stimulation of this manner is the

easiest way to bring the woman to climax & once she’s come once

you can carry on stimulating her & very quickly she’ll have

another orgasm & another as the clitoris by then will be so

erect & sensitive that the slightest touch will send shivers of

delight through her body. I would now after she’s orgasmed kiss

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her entire body once more & then kiss her mouth to mouth for a

while whilst caressing her breasts with my hand.

11) I would at this point mount her so to speak by getting into

the standard missionary position for sex, achieving penetration

and having penetrative sex in the usual way for a while prior to

changing positions.

12) The best positions I’ve found for when you finally feel you

want to climax are Doggy style where the women is on her hands

and knees whilst you enter her from behind Doggy style! This in

itself achieves much deeper penetration than usual, reaches the

parts that other positions do not reach and as such turns her on

more. It also means that your hand can be placed around her

body and at the same time as your pens is thrusting in and out

of her you can also stimulate her Clitoris with your free hand.

Sideways on can also achieve a similar depth of penetration &

gives the chance also of Clitoral stimulation at the same time.

Another excellent position is where you lye on your back and

the female is on top of you sat so to speak on your penis. It

goes in much further & as she’s on top she can control the

movements, moving herself up & down as she so desires in a way

that’s guaranteed to turn her on.

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13) There are many other positions, foreplay techniques and

methods which you can use to make this the best ever sex session

she’s experienced and if you read the books I’ve recommended

then you’ll get to know them also. But as a general rule of

thumb I say you should NEVER penetrate a women until she’s

already had an Orgasm or demands that you get inside her. That

way you’ll have always given her an Orgasm before you take your

pleasure and as such will not get a reputation as a selfish man

instead as most men think of themselves and you concentrate on

her first you’ll get known as a SuperStud and as your reputation

spreads as women do tend to talk to one another about their

sexual encounters then you may just find that women start

approaching you merely with the intention of finding out if you

can live up to your reputation as a red hot lover! Also when

you can Honestly say to a women if you sleep with me then you’ll

be having the first Orgasm & also I guarantee you 100%

satisfaction!, If she senses that you are sincere & honest in

this statement & also seem 100% confident that you can live up

to your bold claims then she will be intrigued and want to know

more, ultimately this can mean she will want to sleep with you

as so few men ensure that the woman has an Orgasm or several of

them prior to taking his won pleasure! Also consider that your

erection will stay up longer & your stamina be increased by the

self hypnosis techniques which I’ll teach you a little later, so

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all in all you’ll probably be the best lover your female sex

partner has ever had sex with & if she’s Hypnotised to believe

that your her favourite filmstar or the man of her dreams things

will be even more enjoyable for both you and her. As such being

a true pick up expert I take pride in giving a women at least

one orgasm if not more before taking my own pleasure so that she

is sexually satisfied and the penetrative sex to her is then

just an added bonus. You see I feel good knowing that a women

has been sexually satisfied every time they spend a night with

me and get turned on even more myself by hearing all the genuine

pleasureable noises & seeing her facial expressions of delight

that the effort is well worth while in more ways than one! A

few other things which I feel will be very useful in improving

your sex life are listed below...

A) Vacuum Penis Developers as advertised in Adult sex magazines

and sold in sex shops do I’ve found from personal experience

increase the size of your Penis significantly if used on a

regular basis!! This in itself can seriously increase your

sexual self confidence, although in reality size doesn’t matter

its what you do that matters and the reason for this is because

most women Orgasm during foreplay and not during penetration.

However having a big penis won’t do you any harm as indeed many

women still falsely believe a Big Penis is required for

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satisfying sex....this in fact is rubbish!! So as you can see

the reason a big penis helps is that not only does it give you

more self confidence but also she will psychologically believe

sex will be better and to this extent it will be.

B) Spanish Fly available from sex supply shops will keep your

erection up all night & ensure that you can do it time & time

again. Available in both tablet or liquid forms I can

personally recommend the effectiveness of Spanish Fly for

improving your sex life.

C) As you’ll hopefully be practising safe sex I recommend Ribbed

Condoms, French Tickler Condoms and Flavoured Condoms to add

variety & extra fun to the sex sessions. Incidentally its even

possible to purchase glow in the dark condoms although I suppose

wearing one of these the scene through the bedroom window would

be one of a fridge door being opened and then closed and if you

were going fast you’d be strobing.

D) Also I’ve personally found that a small selection of sex

toys such as a vibrator, Anal probe etc. can add variety to the

sex. For example a large SuperStud vibrator can be inserted

into the women’s vagina on high speed setting whilst you

penetrate her anally and stimulate her clitoris with your

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finger at the same time, as such she’d be sexually aroused

Vaginally, Anally & via her Clitoris all at the same time, and

believe me when I say I’ve heard a women scream with delight

during times such as this. Remember of course all sex toys

should be cleaned & sterilised prior to usage on a new female

sex partner in order of both cleanliness and also to avoid any

possible transmission of S.T.D.’s via the sex toys.

E) Sex is normally & naturally very messy, as I’ve said earlier

when using condoms its easier to clear up. Otherwise I’d

recommend you have a change of bedding for each day & have some

tissues by the bed in order to clean up after your sex session

in your quest to become a professional pick up expert.

F)Pheromone spray as sold in sex shops does work and can

seriously attract women towards you without their conscious

knowledge of the fact. At a cost of around ten pounds per

bottle this pheromone spray can seriously work to attract women

towards you & helps to put them in the correct mood for sex.

You’ll still have to chat them up, however your job of doing

this will be made far easier by just wearing this musk scented

aftershave Pheromone based aftershave spray on your wrists,

behind your earlobes and a little on your chest as stated in the

instructions which you’ll get with your purchase.

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G) Having a King-size waterbed can make the sex you have much

more enjoyable due to the fact that the water mattress moves

around with a life of its own accord whilst both of your

physical body movements during sex add to this movement and well

to be honest this is something which words cannot describe and

which only personal experience will reveal to you!!

H) It may sound obvious but simply asking your female sex

partner during sex where she’d like you to touch her, what she’d

like you to do etc. is very useful. It may seem far too

embarrassing to do, but she’ll be grateful for your

consideration and interest in satisfying her sexual needs, and

this in itself can turn her on even more sexually!!

I) And as well as using self hypnosis to increase the time it

takes you to ejaculate, it is useful to masturbate until you

feel yourself about to come & then stop just before you do so.

You keep on repeating this process as many times as possible

until you can take it no longer at which point you’ll ejaculate.

This technique done on a daily basis will increase your stamina

sexually & also your staying power prior to ejaculating during

sex.

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J) If you think you are going to come to quickly during an

actual sex session then withdraw your penis from her and press

just under the head of your penis with the forefinger and thumb

of your hand, pressing quite hard until the desire to ejaculate

goes completely at which point you can carry on having sex

again,

K) The fact that women think about sex in a different way to men

is reflected in the fact that millions of pounds worth of porn

magazines are sold each year to men in the UK whereas women

spend millions of pounds on romantic Mills & Boon style books.

This proves that True Romance is still the best winning way with

women.

L) When you include Kissing etc., foreplay and actual

penetrative sex....then a decent sex session should take at

least a couple of hours and preferably three hours minimum, then

you will start getting known as a stud. All night sessions are

easy to achieve as you just do more oral sex and manual

stimulation, massage or kissing etc. to kill the time until you

can get another erection or have enough energy again to have

penetrative sex. And bearing in mind women have most of the

Orgasms through this foreplay they aren’t going to complain

about the time being killed in this way.

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The final thought which I’ll give you in this section of the

book is that at the end of the sex session the women will like

to be held & hugged & kissed etc. prior to you both going to

sleep or getting dressed and going your own ways. This way by

showing consideration you will always part on good terms & as

such are in a position whereby you could meet and possibly have

sex again at a future date!!

PERSONAL SELF - DEFENCE.

In order to become a Million percent confident when out on a

women hunt, it helps to know that if a tricky situation occurs

you can take care of yourself, and of course any female friend

you may be with at the time! This knowledge and confidence that

you can physically take care of yourself will in itself avoid

many fights as your body language signals will be spotted by

potential problem causers and then they will think twice prior

to starting agro with you. Avoidance of a fight is the only

real way to be a winner and to this end a good knowledge of

psychology will be very useful as then you can usually talk your

way out of a fight! Two books which will teach you the most

effective street fighting techniques & are written by a top

professional bouncer who’ll teach you how to win fights & stay

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alive in the real world are THE SECRETS OF SELF DEFENCE VOLS. 1

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BODY LANGUAGE SIGNALS

90% if not more of communication is non verbal, for example a

persons tone of voice, attitude, body-language, body posture &

eyes can tell you far more about what a person is thinking than

what their words are saying to you. For example when a persons

eyes and pupils are enlarged it is obvious that they are in a

sexually aroused state of mind or at the very least that they

are very happy to see you. So look for eye pupil enlargement

when chatting to women as its a good non verbal indicator of

whether they like you! Also should they move closer towards you

during the conversation especially if the topic you are

discussing at the time is sex or relationships then you can be

fairly certain that your onto a good thing whereas if the female

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moves away from you, its obvious she’d sooner not discuss the

subject in hand and as such its time to quickly change the

subject. Leaning towards you, calling you by your first name a

lot & laughing with you are all very good signals to receive

when chatting women up for sex. When a women nods a lot whilst

you talk its an acceptance signal of what you are saying.

Obviously if a women sits closer to you, moves closer to you

when dancing etc. then these are all acceptance signals showing

that your chances of bedding this women are very high! Common-

sense is the keyword of interpreting body language, just be

aware of the females body movements & her apparent attitude when

she makes them and your common-sense should tell you whether its

a positive signal or a negative one which indicates its time to

try and chat up a different woman! Obvious signals of whether a

female is an easy target so to speak are not only her body

language signals on which you’d be well advised to study a few

books from your library, remembering of course that to receive

one signal on its own is not conclusive proof of being accepted

by the female however several different positive signals within

a short space of time and your onto a good thing. The other

indicators that she’s out to find sex can be the place where you

both are, for example in some areas like seaside resorts & city

centres certain clubs are known as pick up zones & as such women

there are more likely to be looking for a one night stand. To

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find out where these good places to trap off are in the certain

areas ask a bouncer at the doorway in a club & my experience

shows me that they will usually tell you the correct place to go

even if its not the club they are working at themselves. Friday

and Saturday nights in a Night-club are traditionally the nights

when its easiest to trap off with women as there are more women

out on the pull, However don’t forget that every second of the

day you can find places where women are & as such your never

short of a chance to pick up women. Seductive clothing, with

low bust line, lots of leg showing and the look that says F**k

me are all ways women (Especially younger ones) attract

attention to themselves when out to find a one night stand!

Older women will usually dress in a sexy way but in more

sophisticated clothing and will still be easy to spot when

looking for a one night stand, I feel its also time to state

that from my experience Its easiest to pick up women for sex

when on holiday. I feel the reason women let themselves go more

on holiday is because they are somewhere no-one knows them & its

more unlikely that they will ever bump into the man they have

sex with again! Whilst on holiday they can do what they want &

don’t have to think of other commitments, so seem to relax more,

lose their inhibitions and turn into veritable sexual monsters.

Personally I’ve never failed to pick up a women in a Blackpool

night-club, they are so full of women that the law of averages

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is not only so high in your favour that its unreal but also the

women are in the mood for fun, so sex will usually follow & this

is why seaside resorts have got the classic reputation for Sun,

Sea, Sand & sex! Also on the subject of Holidays I know that

the Club 18/30s holidays are great ways to get sex regularly as

many women go on these holidays with the intent of having sex as

much as possible with many different men! Working as a redcoat

in a holiday camp is not a great way to earn money but it can be

an excellent way to get laid every night with women of all ages.

The people at the camp on holiday (here I mean both married &

single women!) will my personal experience shows me proposition

you for sex and although as a camp staff member you are not

meant to liase with the customers, of course any red blooded

male does and as such regular sex is almost inevitable when

working as a Red coat on a Holiday camp! One male friend of

mine who works on Haven Holidays Camps once bedded three

different women within a 24 hour period and all three of them

had approached him. (two of them were whilst he was off duty and

the other one when he was supposed to be working). America is

also an excellent place to Holiday as I’ve found as have many of

my friends that most American women fall into the will have sex

on the first date or the will have sex on the second date

categories. Now I don’t know if this is true for American men

trying to pick up American omen...but for some reason American

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women love English accents and as such you’ve got a head start

over the American men who are trying to pick them up.....as such

I say viva America!

THE BASICS OF FLIRTING.

The golden rule of successful flirting is that you must at all

times do unto your potential flirting partners as you would have

them do unto you, No matter what you think they’ve already done

unto you. In other words, never prejudge people & always treat

others in a friendly manner. Friendliness is the key to

flirting as the more friends you make the more the law of

averages says many of these will turn into sexual encounters.

The three basic personality traits of a successful flirt are...

A) Be Smart

B) Be Patient

C) Be Prepared

To explain be smart means not only to be always dressed in a

suitable way to attract the opposite sex but to also be smart

enough to notice the flirting opportunities which will present

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themselves daily, and which people are transmitting the best

acceptance body language signals so are as such worth targeting.

Be patient means quite simply what it says, be patient enough to

persevere and carry on in your quest of flirting with women to

gain sex. Here the law of averages will then be on your side at

all times, and you’ll never miss a chance to flirt.

Be prepared, always be ready to say hello to someone to break

the ice, to start a conversation, to accept a compliment, to

speak to someone new etc.! It also means being emotionally

prepared by being at all times confident enough to approach

every single woman you meet. And of course being prepared means

having it 100% clear in your mind what you want to gain from a

flirtatious encounter which I presume after reading this book

will be sex.

Its true to say that us men in general flirt so they can bed as

many women as possible whereas in general terms women flirt so

that they can find someone to marry them. Its also very true to

say that for most men its impossible to have a lady just as a

female friend, there is usually always some thought of sex in he

mans mind at all times. Remember of course also you don’t have

to be single to flirt, in fact many married people flirt with

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other people in the presence of their partner not for revenge

but just to make themselves noticed & also to feed their own ego

with the interest which gets taken in them. You see married

flirts who hide what they are doing are in fact CHEATS although

I honestly feel in general most men cannot be faithful to one

woman all their lives and as such us men do seem to be

controlled by what’s inside our trousers, as such this book

should seriously improve the average mans chances of getting

laid 365 times a year with a different women every night. At

this point allow me to say that if after reading this book &

increasing your self confidence via self hypnosis you are still

a little scared to flirt then don’t despair! Everyone including

professional pick up experts like myself get scared at various

times. The flirts who say that they are confident & appear to

be 100% of the time have just learned to hide their true inner

feelings better than most! If your ready to start flirting on a

serious basis then you’ll find your the kind of person who at

all times out & about in social situations is friendly &

talkative. At self help seminars, social gatherings, theatre

shows etc. you are the person who has most of the fun during the

breaks talking to people & making new friends, in other words

your all encompassing goal in life on a daily basis will become

TO GET LAID 365 TIMES A YEAR! and if you live by this rule that

if something you are about to do can bring you closer to your

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ultimate goal of getting laid then its worth doing & results

will occur. So always remember the phrase..

Will my next action bring me closer to or further away from my

ultimate goal of getting laid today!

If the answer to this question is that it could possibly bring

you closer to your ultimate goal then do it without hesitation &

without the fear of rejection as it will be another step closer

for you on the road to success. It has just occurred to me the

five personality traits which are most important for any pick up

expert and they are as follows..

1) Always be the bearer of good news & as such put people into

good optimistic moods.

2) Always be a good listener when others talk to you, always

remembering that you have two ears and only one mouth so use

them in those proportions.

3) Go out of your way to meet new people, incidentally just the

act of others seeing you around different groups of people

regularly gives others the instant impression you are a

desirable person & well worth getting to know.

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4) Pick up the telephone & keep in contact with old friends

they may just introduce you to the girl of your dreams at a

future time, and it also gives you a chance to gatecrash any

social events or parties which they may mention are occurring

soon, at which you can meet more females to gain sexual

satisfaction from.

5) Learn when not to say anything as popularity comes from

knowing when to hide feelings, desires or criticisms.

6) Leave them wanting more & by this I refer back to the

telephone as in rule four. Always try to end calls after around

5 to 10 minutes so that conversation is always interesting,

never becomes boring & as such you always get invited to social

events.

Another very good way to increase your success with women is to

show your vulnerability. By this I mean when you approach them

& chat her up you are seen as the aggressor, so its then good to

show your just as vulnerable as she is to put her at her ease

and by far the best way to do this is to reveal little

insecurities about yourself in a way that makes them seem like

positive assets. In other words reveal the real, more tender

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side of you, but don’t ever open yourself up for attack &

success will be yours on a daily basis.

15 STEPS TO WOMEN HUNTING SUCCESS.

1) Use flattery, yes the old saying that flattery gets you

nowhere is complete and utter crap, the truth is that flattery

will get you everywhere and anywhere and in fact every human

being on earth loves to be complimented regularly.

2) Always say Hello with energy & enthusiasm and with body

language which shows that you are in a happy optimistic mood as

people will then want to be around you.

3) Shake hands, you may think that this is to formal to do when

meeting a new female, but as its an ideal way to establish

bodily contact even on just a brief basis its well worth doing

and it also makes you look like a gentleman. At the end of the

handshake, finish with a tiny extra squeeze (not tight though)

and then let go of her hand this signals to her in a non verbal

manner that you are warm, confident & far more than just pleased

to meet her and that in fact you have a sexual interest in her.

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4) Make immediate and direct eye contact the secret of how to

maintain this is detailed earlier in this book.

5) Repeat the persons name as stated earlier a persons name is

to them the most sweetest word in the English language & its

also the easiest way to attract & maintain their attention in

you.

6) Ask her questions which most men don’t ask! In other words

ask about the females life goals, basic beliefs, what they want

from a relationship & the things most men usually don’t ask

women when flirting. When you hear a women say Noone has ever

asked me that before, then you know that dating success will be

yours.

7) Don’t stare at people, instead do a double take, this means

turn your head quickly to one side and then return it promptly

back to its original position. (now pause for a few seconds)

then turn back and establish eye contact with the female, smile

and after about 10 seconds resume your normal position or

approach her and talk. Staring pisses people off however doing

a double take will intrigue them.

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8) Get the female to talk more about herself & her life story

than you do about yours, always be a you - you person.

9) Keep up to date with current affairs, pop music etc. & then

you can never be accused of being stuck in your ways by women.

10) Whispering will bring an immediate response from women, If

you whisper something to them, they’ll move closer to you in a

quest to hear & as such intimate contact is made.

11) Low sonics (that means a quiet tone of voice) is by far the

best way to talk to women and many women say that a low voice

tone is far more sexy and desirable.

12) Leave them wanting more as they say in showbusiness

circles, end before things get boring so that they always want

more & as such come back to you at a later date.

13) Name dropping? If you yourself are not famous then the next

best thing is to know someone famous as dropping names in

conversation can create interest from many women.

14) Use the 1, 2, 3 routine,

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1) Your approach is dazzling, bold & spontaneous.

2) Once a rapport is established you back off completely, in

other words order a drink or do something to change the females

focus of attention from your flirtatious behaviour.

3) Renew the flirtatious behaviour after a suitable period of

time, but not to the extent of your initial approach. This time

in a more playful manner as opposed to seriously.

15) Set a goal that is say 20 women in a day you’ll approach

with the aim of establishing a conversation, getting a telephone

number or in fact an actual date....then the law of averages

will be on your side and some will be successful!

DON’TS OF WOMEN HUNTING.

1) Don’t depend on others to make things happen.

2) Don’t tease or criticise people.

3) Don’t cling or be over protective.

4) Don’t mentally dwell on flirting & certainly don’t worry

about it.

5) Never fidget as it shows a lack of self confidence.

QUALITIES OF A SUCCESSFUL PICK UP EXPERT!!

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1) He is comfortable & confident in his environment & projects

ease and stability.

2) He has a low soft tone of voice.

3) He is confident enough to reveal something about himself & as

such show he is vulnerable.

4) He has a real sincere interest in talking with a women about

rather mundane things.

5) He is (apparently) honest and can be counted on to do what he

say’s he’ll do.

6) He has good manners & treats women in a gentlemanly way.

7) He is curious about a woman and wants to know her opinions.

8) He knows when to end the pick up & either get down to

initiating sex or arrange to meet another time.

9) He is affectionate and supportive.

10) He is protective... like a big brother figure.

11) He knows that the little things count, such as flowers, a

goodnight call, a special place to eat or be etc.!

12) He knows that flirting will get him everywhere.

NETWORKING.

Networking simply means using any female friends you have in

order to meet all their female friends who could be a potential

sex partner for you. As such just because you don’t fancy

having sex with a women its still well worth while exchanging

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telephone numbers in the hope that you can get invited to a

party or social event which she may hold or attending the

future, the idea being once there you can use the fact you know

her as an opening line to break the ice with her other female

friends who are all potential sex partners for you. The fact

you know her means her friends will be more open with you and as

such this INSTANT ACCEPTANCE will seriously improve your chances

of getting a date with one of her female friends. And don’t

forget of course that every one of your female friends have more

friends of their own & these have friends etc. and so it goes

on! As such after reading this book you can never have an excuse

for not meeting lots of women on a regular basis. Just as

salesmen create a network of people to whom they can sell

things, so you can create your own network of female friends in

order to meet loads of other females & as such get laid 365

times a year, which is incidentally far more times than the

average man has sex (with different women) in an entire

lifetime! So even if you only get laid with a different women

once or twice a week on a weekly basis then believe me when I

say this would be two women a week by 52 weeks which equals 104

women. And lets say you play around like this for three years

prior to getting involved in a serious relationship with someone

then its three years by 104 women which equals a total of 312

women! And let me say any man who’s slept with 312 women over a

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three year period is either a professional pick up expert such

as myself or has read a copy of this or some other similar book.

So once again here we have an example of how a salesmen’s

success technique can be adapted & then used to increase our

success with women.

DATING IDEAS.

Before I introduce you to the subject of self hypnosis & how

these hypnotic techniques can be used to make your sex life both

more enjoyable and successful I would like to include some ideas

for unusual date ideas & also dates which are also highly

effective in getting a women into the correct mood for sex

whilst being easily affordable!! For example the usual dating

ideas of Cinema, Night-club, Restaurant etc. are all OK as

detailed within, but it can also be a nice surprise to the

female in question & great fun for you both to choose a far more

unusual date such as ice or roller skating, ten pin bowling,

laser gun game centres, A day out at a theme park...in other

words anywhere that your imagination can think of. You can of

course go for the more conventional meal after the wacky date

has ended prior to moving the date into a sexual conquest. An

unusual date scenario such as those mentioned will be welcomed

as a nice change by the female who’ll see you as a little above

the average run of the mill man who sticks to more convential

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dating ideas. Another unusual dating idea which is also highly

romantic is a picnic when the weather is nice, incidentally this

is also ideal for when you are on a low budget. Also of course

most restaurants have at least one night a week when everything

is cheaper and they have specials on, as such you can buy a copy

of your local WHAT’S ON? guide such as City Life (Manchester),

City Limits (London) or What’s On (Birmingham)...in these

magazines you can not only find out places to go on dates such

as an alternative comedy venue, theatre shows etc. but it will

also contain details of which restaurants there are in the local

area, when they open, what food they offer and what nights the

special deals are on. Knowing this every night of the week

you’ll be able to find somewhere to date women at a bargain

basement price! To end this section I’d like to detail step by

step the order in which meeting someone can then lead to sexual

intercourse...

1) See a female you like.

2) Approach the female.

3) Use an opening line or ice breaking technique to get the

conversation started.

4) Get the female to open up & talk about herself, generally

being a you person.

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5) Observe body language signals etc., add sexual innuendo into

the conversation, dance together if in a night-club and use all

the general methods as taught in this book to move the

relationship onto the next stage.

6) When the end of the night comes use one of the lines detailed

earlier to get the female to come home with you.

7) When at home, have a drink etc. & initiate the foreplay

kissing.

8) Use one of the techniques as detailed to get both of you into

the bedroom.

9) Use foreplay techniques.

10) Sexual intercourse follows.

11) Cuddle, Kiss, Talk etc.

12) To sleep & when the morning comes exchange telephone numbers

over breakfast for future usage and say goodbye!!

That’s basically how events would go & as such you’ll see that

all these things have been explained in great details along with

many other ways in which you can get laid 365 times each year

within the pages of this book. I’d now like to in the next

section of the book teach you self hypnosis techniques which can

be used both easily and effectively to increase your sexual self

confidence, stop impotence & premature Ejaculation whilst also

helping to increase your Penis size! Put these Hypnotic

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Techniques to use along-side the things outlined in the first

half of this book and to put it bluntly you’d be seriously sad

if you couldn’t get laid at least twice a week and as least

twice as regularly as the average male on this planet. So now

its time to enter my Hypnotic world where there really are no

limits and the only limitations in your life are those which we

impose upon our own minds, so become a no limits person & expand

your mind for both emotional, financial and SEXUAL SEXCESS!!

THE SECRETS OF SELF HYPNOSIS.

Hypnosis is a mysterious, fascinating art which has entranced

people for decades. Hypnosis is a power, a power which

fascinates and astounds people, in fact Hypnosis is the most

powerful force known to mankind. A skilled hypnotist can once

he has gained a persons consent to Hypnotise them, have that

person do literally anything that he so desires (even of a

sexual nature). Many people believe that Hypnosis cannot be

used for sexual purposes, well my experience shows me that this

is a very distorted view & the truth of the matter is to gain

sexual favours via the use of Hypnotism and Hypnotic techniques

is in fact far easier than you could possibly ever imagine in

your wildest dreams!! Quite simply how can I say this, well

here are four very good reasons,,,

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1) Franz Anton Mesmer. who was one of the earliest exponents of

Mesmerism now called Hypnosis was well known as many history

books on the subject prove for his sexual exploits with women

whilst they were under his Hypnotic influence.

2) As all Stage Hypnotists who genuinely hypnotise people are

making people do things which they would not normally wish to do

& as such these things are against their own volition, then

common-sense should show you that if women will try to give me

when commanded Oral Sex on stage whereby I stop them just in

time, If I were to do this in private and not stop the female

from doing it then Oral sex would occur!

3) The fact that several Hypnotherapists, Psychotherapists using

hypnosis etc. have assaulted their clients sexually whilst they

were in a Hypnotic trance and they have been jailed for this

then this proves beyond a shadow of a doubt (there are numerous

documented & PROVEN cases) that Hypnosis can most certainly be

used to obtain sexual favours from women whilst they are under

hypnosis.

4) My personal experience which has been documented in most all

UK national daily & Sunday newspapers (some copies enclosed at

start of book) and has also been extensively featured on most

all UK Network, satellite and cable TV Channels along with

national radio stations prove the point beyond a doubt that

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hypnosis can be used to obtain sex from women. At this point

let me say that sex gained from women as in point three above is

most certainly illegal as the therapist has broken his legal

duty of care to the patient who had expected something else to

occur. Hypnosis to obtain sex from women as I’ve done in the

past (documented by press) is very much on the borderline of

being either legal or illegal and I’ve been lucky thanks to a

loophole in British law which states & also that none of the 200

to 300 women who’ve had Hypno sex with me have ever complained

or been distressed when awoken from trance in fact many have

commented just how much they have enjoyed it. The only women

who have talked to the newspapers about there Hypnotic sexual

encounters with me have all admitted that whilst they may not

have slept with me had they not been in trance that they only

had themselves to blame for fully consenting to let me Hypnotise

them without them first asking me what I was to get them to do

under hypnosis....one or two have also said just how much they

enjoyed it and how they’d love to sleep with me again!! All the

women were over 18 and as such consenting adults, they were all

intelligent women and as they’d just witnessed my Pornographic

stage show EROTIC HYPNOTICS logic tells me that they’d have

enough sense to realise that I was able to get them to do

ANYTHING against their will if they consented to be Hypnotised

by me which of course they all did. I also defend my past

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actions (I’ve now stopped doing it) by pointing out that none of

these women ever struggled, refused to have sex, many asked for

hypnosex with me and none have ever been upset enough to report

me as they knew that I HADN’T BROKEN THE LAW. Some even tried to

contact me at a later date for Hypnosex... and on a few

occasions they offered to pay for it! Furthermore English law

states that should you as a consenting adult (over 18) in full

mental state consent to participate in any activity which they

at the time of consenting know or should as an intelligent adult

know has possible side effects or dangers, possible consequences

or injuries etc. then they as the consenting adult in full

control of their mental state at time of consenting to be

hypnotised and participate in what follows are 100 percent

solely responsible for all risks involved & any consequences

which occur due to you volunteering or consenting to be

hypnotised or agreeing to participate in this activity in

knowledge that risks or consequences are possible!! This being

the case as all women I’ve hypnotised in this manner to believe

I’m their favourite filmstar are always asked first if I can

hypnotise them and have their full consent to get them to do

anything then they have by law consented to what I later did

whilst they were under hypnosis. Also I’ve only ever done this

after my shows so the females in question would know I did a

Porn style act and as such with the sexual innuendo I use to get

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their consent they were all very much in the state of mind where

they had a damn good idea what I was going to do for them, and

as I’ve said many times I’ve been asked by the women to give

them Hypnosex as they’d seen me in the papers and wanted to

experience it for themselves. The opening comedy routine of my

act actually tells the audience quite bluntly that women can be

hypnotised for sex so when the women later consent to be

hypnotised they are already aware of this fact!! The fact that

once they were under hypnosis I convinced them I was the man of

their dreams so that they’d WILLINGLY have sex with me is

irrelevant & basically they consented to be in this situation &

put themselves into this position and as such although it may be

a little immoral to do this it is just on the borderline of

whether it’s legal or illegal. Incidentally NOONE READING THIS

BOOK IS ADVISED TO DO WHAT I’VE STATED AND ANYONE DOING SO DOES

SO AT THEIR OWN RISK! This publication is supplied for

information purposes only and as such you have been warned. Also

consider that in a court of law its impossible for someone to

prove that they were hypnotized by you & also bear in mind

D.N.A. (bodily fluid) evidence is not possible so I believe

several weeks after the event has occurred, the person has had a

bath etc. & as such it would be even harder for anyone to prove

their case. Any people pretending to be witnesses would of

course be asked as would be the person who had allegedly been

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hypnotised of their own free will why they had not reported this

to the police immediately after the event or within a reasonable

space of time, also bear in mind anyone trying to set you up

would have to prove you were with them on the night in question

which if you were someplace else would be impossible, and even

if you were with them how could they prove that anything had

taken place? As all of these women put up no struggle believing

I was the man of their dreams and as such willingly &

enthusiastically had sexual intercourse with me none of these

women could possibly claim they had put up a struggle and as

such would have no injuries or bruises as evidence. Consider

also that this only ever occurred in my dressing room or toilets

of the venue in which I had just done my show there would be

numerous witnesses to testify no signs or noises of a struggle

took place & in fact at the end of the night I’d been saying

goodnight in a friendly manner to all the people I’d hypnotised

in my show and also the female who I’d had sex with! As there

would be people to testify to this, the question a court of law

would have to consider is why would a female who had just been

forced to have sex with someone say good bye to them in a more

than friendly manner at the end of the night in front of

witnesses? And on the rare occasions when these women returned

with me to my hotel room there would be many witnesses to

testify that the female had not been forced into my car,

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witnesses at the hotel would testify they had not been forced

into my hotel room, and reception staff would testify in the

morning I had said goodbye to the female at the hotel reception

prior to ordering her a cab home! Consider finally that once

hypnotised and they believed I was the man of their dreams I

merely said something such as SHALL WE MAKE LOVE NOW? or SHALL

WE HAVE SEX NOW? and she as the adult female over the age of

consent said yes & then participated willingly & without any

resistance, as such many psychologists & experts on Hypnosis

could be found to support the view that in fact all people have

an emergency detector in their brain & whilst under Hypnosis

cannot be made to do things consciously which they would find

morally wrong. Now this view itself may be right or wrong as

detailed within the pages of this book but in a court of law it

would along with all the other details I presented to you I’m

sure influence a jury to find me 100% NOT GUILTY of rape as some

people such as Stage Hypnotist Eddie Burke of the Federation Of

Ethical Stage Hypnotists has accused me of being on National

Live TV! so to conclude on this subject I have NEVER forced a

women to have sex!, I have NEVER raped a women!, I have only

ever had sex with women who although they may have been

hypnotized have 100% WILLINGLY CONSENTED to participate and have

sex with me!!

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Now that I’ve cleared up that little point its time to explain

the basics of self hypnosis and then detail fully how you as a

lay person can use these methods & techniques of self

improvement to improve your own personal sex life 100% and

change your life for the better for ever! To illustrate the

fact that self hypnosis can remove the limitations which people

impose on their own minds & as such we are all born as equals we

just become less equal by negative ideas being programmed into

our minds as we grow up! This results in many of us having an

Inadequate Self Image (I.S.I). Using self hypnosis we can

strengthen our I.S.I and as such become equal with all men as we

were born to be & consequently be far more successful in all

areas of our life on a daily basis and to this end I quote.....

You are what you will yourself to be. In that great kingdom of

the mind, you fashion in the precious mould of thoughts, the

motive power which shapes your destiny. For what you think is

what you will become, what you believe in indicates the way, and

whilst you live, the will is never numb. Remember when your

life you plan, it has been sagely said of man this, I CAN IF I

THINK I CAN.

Anon.

ON THE SUBJECT OF PERSISTENCE.

Nothing in the world

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Can take the place of persistence,

Talent will not,

Nothing is more common than

Unsuccessful men with talent.

Genius will not,

Unrewarded genius is almost a proverb.

Education will not

The world is full of educated derelicts,

Persistence and determination alone are omnipotent,

The slogan PRESS ON has solved and always will solve

The problems of the human race.

WRITTEN BY CALVIN COOLIDGE.

And of course sooner or later in life the man who thinks he can

achieve something and persevere will have more success than the

average man. Incidentally the famous quotations which follow

not only illustrate my points clearly but can also be used as

positive suggestions to yourself once in a state of self

hypnosis.

As a Man thinketh so he becomes........THE BIBLE.

When we stop fighting the inevitable, we realise energy which

enables us to create a richer life..............ANON.

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We cannot change the inevitable but we can change ourselves...

ANON.

In quietness & confidence shall be your strength... ISIAH 30:15

Success is to be measured not so much by the position that one

has reached in life, as by the obstacles which one has overcome

trying to succeed......BOOKER T. WASHINGTON.

Most folks are about as happy as they make up their minds to

be.... ABRAHAM LINCOLN.

Most folks are about as successful in life as they make up their

minds to be.....ALEX-LEROY.

Most folks are about as successful with women as they make up

their minds to be.....ALEX-LEROY.

Consider these words which are the wisdom of great men all of

whom have been greatly successful themselves and you should

realise that the power of your mind is the most powerful force

known to mankind & it is yet not fully understood by scientists

just how powerful our personal Necktop computers are!! It is

believed however that the average human only uses 10% of their

brainpower to full capacity, this being the case bear in mind

that techniques of self hypnosis can help accelerate your

abilities to learn new things & as such you should now fully

understand that self hypnosis for Positive change really can be

beneficial in a big way. Whatever personal self improvement

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program you wish to follow there is always a set procedure to

follow which is...

1) Create the correct environment for self hypnosis.

2) Induce yourself into a self hypnosis trance.

3) Deepen the relaxation suggestions in your mind.

4) Give yourself positive ego strengthening suggestions.

5) Next suggest an improvement in the area desired.

6) Implant the post hypnotic suggestion to renter trance more

easily in the future.

7) Awaken yourself from the self hypnotic trance.

This seven step procedure is very easy to follow, with the only

changes being the suggestions which you give yourself in order

to improve the area of your life which you desire to change at

that time. It is also very similar to the procedure most

professional Hypnotherapists follow which is...

1) Get rapport with the client.

2) Induce the hypnotic trance.

3) Deepen the state of relaxed trance.

4) Give client ego strengthening suggestions.

5) Use suggestions needed for the therapy in hand.

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6) Implant major post hypnotic suggestion that person will

renter trance more easily next time.

7) Awaken the person from trance.

This also happens to be the correct procedure to follow if you

intended to get a female to sleep with you whilst she believed

you were the man of her dreams. Here the only change would be at

point three where the hypnotic trance is deepened, instead you’d

use techniques of disorientation and confusion to slightly

brainwash the female so that she’d go into such a deep state of

hypnosis & the critical faculty of her brain would be asleep so

to speak that she would then be putty in your hands for Filmstar

Sex Hypnosis. The procedure to follow would be...

1) Get rapport with the female & gain her consent to hypnotise

her.

2) Lock her hands together via the locked hands suggestibility

test & then induce hypnosis via the falling backwards induction

(both detailed later)

3) Deepen the trance using techniques of disorientation &

confusion.

4) Give the female a little ego strengthening therapy so she

ends up in a great state of mind for sex.

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5) Use post hypnotic suggestion of each time I awaken you & then

return you into trance you’ll go 100 times deeper (and then do

this several times).

6) Use the suggestions mentioned earlier in this book so that

when awoken she thinks you’re the man of her dreams and as such

she’ll want to have sex with you.

7) Put her back into trance after having sex and suggest to her

when taken out of trance will remember only that you both had

great sex and she’ll be really happy about what she did.

8) Awaken her from the trance suggesting that she’s back to

normal & is no longer under hypnosis with all suggestions now

having been removed from her mind, in other words she’s now back

to normal!

Armed with this knowledge & the brief details included in the

section Hypnotism Ploy earlier in this book, you should be able

as an intelligent human being to after reading this book to if

you so desired Hypnotise women (with their consent) for filmstar

sex hypnosis. I would however recommend that you study the

subject a little further as a little knowledge is a dangerous

thing and also Knowledge is POWER!! So now its neigh time to

explain the self hypnosis procedure in a step by step basis.....

STEP 1...CREATE THE CORRECT ENVIRONMENT.

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In order for self hypnosis to work efficiently for you not only

must you be in a suitable environment which we’ll come to in a

few moments but also you must be in the following state of

mind....

1) You must have consciously made up your mind to get rid of

your problem.

2) You must believe that hypnosis can help remove or seriously

improve your problem.

3) You must have reasonably good concentration and imagination

skills.

4)You must expect the self hypnosis treatment to work & as such

stick to the treatment you prescribe yourself on a daily basis

until your goals are achieved.

From an environmental point of view I is advisable to be alone

in a warm homely room with subdued lighting. telephones should

be off the hook & any other members of your household should be

warned not to disturb you whilst at work on your self

improvement programme. In other words you must create an

environment for yourself in which you feel confident that you’ll

be able to relax enough for your self hypnosis treatment to be a

success. When proficient at inducing yourself into a state of

trance however, you’ll then be able to do so anytime, anyplace,

anywhere irrespective of surrounding distractions as you will by

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then have trained your mind to focus fully on one thing to the

exclusion of all other external distractions & stimuli.

STEP TWO....INDUCE YOURSELF INTO A TRANCE.

Although there are numerous ways that you can induce a self

hypnotic trance, I will for the purposes of this book explain

one of the most simple & effective methods which will bring much

success & positive results with very little effort on your part.

To proceed ensure that step one is fully completed next draw

the curtains and then either position yourself comfortably in a

chair or lye down in a comfortable position on the couch. The

next step is to enter the hypnotic trance state and as such gain

access to your subconscious which is rather like the database of

a computer and as such can be reprogrammed to effect positive

changes in your lifestyle and personal habits. To proceed as

you are positioned comfortably you would now begin to breathe

deeply and regularly in through your nose and then out through

your mouth in a rhythmic fashion which will rapidly relax your

entire body and enable you to concentrate (focus) your attention

on your breathing rhythm to the exclusion of any external

distractions. Once you have been paying attention to your

breathing in this way for around one minute, its then time to be

aware of the different areas of your body, your feet, your

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ankles, lower leg area, knees, upper leg area, pelvis, hips,

stomach, chest, back, shoulders, arms, hands, neck, face, head &

scalp in that order. As you concentrate on each bodily part in

turn you should at the same time tense the muscles in that area

of your body & then after a few seconds relax those muscles as

you suggest to yourself with the little voice within your mind

that EACH & EVERY MUSCLE, LIMP; LOOSE, RELAXED...SO HEAVY & SO

TIRED!! Do this in turn for each area of your body, tensing the

muscles for a few seconds then relaxing them as you suggest the

above phrase to yourself and you’ll find that by the time you

get to your forehead in the order of things as stated you’ll be

in a beautifully serene deep state of self relaxation or as we

prefer to call it self hypnosis. IN this state of mind any

suggestions given to your mind will instantly enter your

subconscious (imagination) and as such within a short space of

time become an automatic reflex action in your life due to the

principle I explained earlier in this book which proves that

when the imagination and the conscious will are in conflict, the

imagination will always win!! As such the suggestions given to

your subconscious (imagination) will be followed and success be

yours. The next step is to deepen the level of self hypnotic

trance and this is step three.

STEP THREE....DEEPEN THE SELF HYPNOTIC TRANCE.

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This is easily achieved by imagining as vividly as possible in

your minds eye a place where you feel good, full of happiness &

energy, a place where there are people praising you and in

general thinking of all the things you are proud of so you in

effect by doing this convince your mind that you are 100%

capable of achieving the goal you have set yourself. Then after

a few minutes change your mental picture to that of an escalator

& imagine in your minds eye its an escalator of relaxation and

it takes 60 seconds to journey down this escalator into the land

of deep relaxation where self hypnosis success is assured. Next

see yourself stepping onto the escalator and as you see yourself

journeying down further with every breath you take, every noise

you hear & every suggestion which you give yourself, allow

yourself to relax more & more and then start to count backwards

from 60 to 1 believing that on each count backwards your mind

will be taken one step further into trance & your body one step

further into relaxation. When you reach the count of one its

time to give yourself the ego strengthening therapy which is

step four.

STEP FOUR......EGO STRENGTHENING THERAPY.

To carry out the ego strengthening therapy you’d just suggest

any positive things to yourself which will make you feel both

confident and happy and as such in a correct state of mind to

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believe that you are an excellent person with unlimited personal

potential, which will then make the actual suggestions to be

used for the desired goal more easily accepted and as such more

easily achieved. Some excellent ego strengthening suggestions

to use at this point are detailed below although I’m sure you

can devise personal suggestions of your own.

Everyday in every way I am getting better and better & closer to

achieving each of my personal goals.

I was born equal to all men, as such I am capable of equalling

life’s highest acheivers’ accomplishments and am myself a most

wonderful person.

Every day I shall be calm and confident, relaxed and happy, even

when there is no reason for being so.

I now allow myself to totally forgive anyone who needs my

forgiveness both now & in the past, I fully and completely

forgive. As such I am now totally forgiven by anyone who needs

to forgive me, both now and in the past, I am fully & completely

forgiven.

I am a valuable person because I am a human being.

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I have the right to be popular, I have the right to speak up, I

have the right to make mistakes....all these gifts are god

given.

To put it bluntly its by far best to devise your own series of

ego strengthening suggestions as then they will be 100% personal

and as such more effective.

STEP FIVE....SUGGEST IMPROVEMENT IN DESIRED AREA.

This I believe speaks for itself, Its now time to use self

suggestion of a positive nature to effect a positive change in

the area you want to change for the better. Here the self

suggestions you use are always better if devised yourself for

personal usage, however examples will be given shortly so that

you have a good idea how to structure and phrase your positive

self suggestions for success. Here as you can devise positive

suggestions for any habit, phobia or problem you can as such use

self hypnosis to change ANYTHING for the better. Obviously it

goes without saying that to stop a habit or phobia suggestions

saying you no longer wish or desire to have or carry on this

inappropriate behaviour or habit would be used whereas for

things you want to achieve suggestions stating you will notice a

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significant change for the better in a short space of time would

be used.

STEP SIX.....IMPLANT THE POST HYPNOTIC SUGGESTION.

Here you’d use the following suggestion to your own mind, In a

few moments when I awaken myself from this state of relaxation

not only will I feel wonderful and achieve my aims with ease,

but next time I wish to renter this state of Trance to effect

more positive changes I will be able to relax more easily,

deeply & more rapidly in order that each time I carry out these

actions the suggestions which I give my mind will become even

more powerful and effective.

STEP SEVEN...AWAKEN SELF FROM TRANCE.

Lastly you just need to awaken yourself from the trance in a

positive state of mind whilst full of energy & optimism, so that

you can go on with your life with no conscious thought of this

experience so that the self suggestions will then start to work

on you as an automatic reflex action. To awaken yourself from

the trance use a suggestion such as....

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In a few moments when I count to 3 I shall awaken from this

state of relaxation with a feeling of well being, contentment,

self confidence and safe in the knowledge that my sub conscious

mind will allow my self suggestions to work as an automatic

reflex action to achieve positive change in my life in the area

I desire. I command my conscious mind to have complete faith in

my abilities to achieve success & will awaken full of energy,

optimism & confidence with no side effects whatsoever.

1) All suggestions growing stronger every minute of the day.

2) Closer in every way to achieving my desired goals.

3) Wide awake and full of energy.

At this point you would then be wide awake & the self

suggestions will have started to work to improve your life. The

most important thing to remember is that you must allow the self

suggestions to work automatically as an automatic reflex action

& never must you will them to work. Have faith in the power of

self hypnosis and success will be yours. My personal experience

and the combined experience of thousands if not millions of

people world-wide who’ve benefited from self hypnosis have just

let it work for them & that’s the important thing, once the

suggestions are given to your mind and you wake your self from

trance you must then carry on with your life just as you would

do normally.

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Now I just need to teach you the ways in which to phrase self

suggestions to your own mind in order to achieve total success

through the power of self hypnosis, first though here’s a list

of things all of which given the correct self suggestions can be

treated with self hypnosis.

SEXUAL PROBLEMS WHICH CAN BE TREATED.

Impotence, Premature Ejaculation, Increase Penis Size,

Increase Breast size, Stop Period Pains, Painless child birth,

Your first Orgasm, Become Fertile, Better sex for lovers,

Increased sexual self confidence, overcome Fridigity,

Sexual fantasy hypnosis, attract the opposite sex, etc., etc.

NORMAL PROBLEMS WHICH CAN BE TREATED.

Stop Smoking, Lose-Weight, Skin problems, Nail Biting,

Insomnia, Alcoholism, and all other habits, problems, fears,

phobias and nervous disorders.

SELF SUGGESTION CAN ALSO ACHIEVE.

Speed Reading, Accelerated learning,

Increased Sports Performance, Maximum Memory capacity,

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And quite simply enables you to achieve ANYTHING which you set

your mind to by the use of positive self suggestion & the

techniques as outlined herein. As Paul McKenna said in the

Sunday people of march 19th 1995 we all have a personal necktop

computer (our brain) which far surpasses any other form of

computer known to mankind & really does mean each of us humans

has unlimited potential. Well the use of self hypnosis can

enable you to tap this personal power so that your life can go

the way you plan it to. As they say none plans to fail in life

but many people do fail to plan. This shows us that success is

achieved by setting goals & then through pure persistence we

will achieve them, especially through the use of self hypnosis,

EXAMPLES OF SELF SUGGESTIONS TO USE.

All self suggestions used MUST of course be of a positive nature

& by positive I mean intended to create a positive result. If

you devise your own self suggestions which you feel comfortable

with then they should be OK! But ensure that these suggestions

seem to have only one possible meaning so that they cannot

possibly be misinterpreted by your subconscious mind, here use

of common-sense will pay dividends. I will now give you a few

examples of the way to phrase positive self suggestions & then

along with the details I’ve taught you in these pages you should

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be more than capable of devising your own suggestions. If you

have any specific queries which you cannot personally work out

then I’d be more than happy to hear from you via the publishers

and I try to help you out.

STOP SMOKING.

I no longer need, want or crave for cigarettes in any way shape

or form. All desire for cigarettes or Tobacco has left me

totally and I look forward to a bright healthy cigarette free

future, The Government health warning will now read to me

Smoke, Choke, Death & disease which reminds me that there are no

good reasons to smoke but there are plenty of reasons not to

smoke and start my life as a confident non smoker. I no longer

wish to smell of cigarettes, have bad breath or yellow skin and

I wish to stop killing myself & the people I love around me, as

such I will now start my life again as a non smoker as I no

longer need, want, crave or desire for cigarettes or tobacco of

any form.

IMPOTENCE.

From this day forward, each time I find myself in a sexual

environment I will be full of energy, confidence & optimism. I

will be relaxed and all stress or worry will leave my body

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effortlessly allowing me to become sexually aroused and as such

achieve an erection. I will not be upset by this occurring,

knowing that it is natural for all men at some points in their

life, I shall however relax and enjoy sex so much that an

erection will automatically occur.

INCREASING PENIS SIZE.

I command my mind to allow my body to release any chemicals

required to allow an increase in my penis size. My penis is

just a muscle which like all other muscles can get bigger

through exercise (here masturbation can help) I understand the

size increase may not be obviously visible to me but I will

continue confident in life that an increase in size has and will

occur.

ATTRACT THE OPPOSITE SEX.

I am equal with all other men, as such I can be just as

successful with women as the worlds greatest pick up experts, I

just need to relax, be confident & reveal my pleasing

personality to women who will then warm to me. I will neither

fear rejection or allow it to upset me, instead I shall

persevere, continue to aim for my goals and sure enough success

will be mine. Consequently I will gain the respect and

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admiration of others for overcoming my past fears and

demonstrating what a popular person I can be with the opposite

sex,.

SUMMING UP..

So there you have four examples of how suggestions would be

phrased for certain things, use your common-sense & remember all

you have been taught then successful self suggestions will be

developed by you with ease! Basically though as the four

previous examples show the self suggestions used are basically

just affirmations to yourself convincing yourself that you can

achieve the goals you have set out. As this convincing yourself

will be done to your subconscious mind as you are in a state of

self hypnosis it will then become reality and as such your inner

dreams and desires will come true. It may all seem far too

easy, but trust me when I say that the simple things in life are

usually the best and as such failure can only occur by trying to

complicate matters. Yes I’ll agree that I’m asking you to have

a lot of faith in the power of self hypnosis but do as I’ve said

and the positive results will be a much bigger reward for your

efforts than you could possibly ever imagine. These self

suggestions should be carried out as often as possible (no more

than three times a day) until your goal is achieved. The best

times are just as you’ve awoken in the morning & just prior to

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going to sleep at night as then you can gain access to your

subconscious mind far more easily & thus enter trance more

rapidly. It can be useful to visit a professional

hypnotherapist who can for a small fee guide you into the

hypnotic trance state and then implant a suggestion into your

mind that you can from that moment forward renter the trance

state whenever you so desire just by thinking of a keyword or

symbol in your minds eye. The professional hypnotherapist will

also be able to help you devise your own self suggestions to be

used for the particular problem which you wish to change or cure

for the better. Your local hypnotherapist can be found in your

local yellow pages directory or by looking at the personal or

health classified adverts column in your local weekly or daily

newspaper. I would now with particular reference to sexual

matters dispel some myths which have been around since the dawn

of time and in themselves can help cure many peoples

psychologically induced problems.

MYTH ONE.

My Penis is small, thus I am not going to be able to satisfy my

partner. (or my husbands penis is small, thus he is not going

to be able to satisfy me).

THE TRUTH.

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There is no correlation what so ever between genital size and

the pleasure which your partner experiences.

MYTH TWO.

Taking visual delight in the nude figure of my wife/girlfriend

is sinful.

TRUTH.

A wife wishes her husband to enjoy the sight of her body.

MYTH THREE.

An erection should occur automatically, it can be willed.

TRUTH.

For some people especially those in their forties and over, some

type of overt stimulation is needed in order to produce an

erection. To will an erection is in fact impossible.

MYTH FOUR.

Sex is a kind of dirty word or activity.

TRUTH.

Sex and sexual activities are natural, essential and a wonderful

part of living.

MYTH FIVE.

I am a real man only when I am sexually responsive to all women

and capable of immediate sexual arousal.

TRUTH.

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Various sensitising factors such as poor diet, fatigue from

overwork, selection of distracting environments for attempted

sexual interactions, poor health and alcohol problems can all

decrease sexual response and interest.

MYTH SIX.

Normal sexual intercourse is a manifestation of a male

physically dominating a female, solely for the pleasure of and

satisfaction of the male.

TRUTH.

A women intensely wants and needs penetration to feel fulfilled

when this is what her psychological expectations have

conditioned her to require.

MYTH SEVEN.

A good women does not want sexual intercourse, or only wants it

for procreative purposes.

TRUTH.

A healthy women has just as strong a need & drive for

intercourse as a healthy male does.

MYTH EIGHT.

I am frigid because I am capable of achieving only manually

induced Clitoral Orgasms.

TRUTH.

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Penile....Vaginal intercourse may achieve Orgasm through

providing indirect stimulation for the Clitoral situated genital

corpuscles or in some copulative positions, it may result in

direct stimulation for the Clitoris itself. No matter 99% of

female Orgasms are clitorally induced, as such so called Vaginal

Orgasm is a myth, this in itself is useful for both the male and

female to know.

When you consider the truth explained to the above eight myths,

it just goes to show that a distorted view of sex or a lack of

knowledge on the subject can in itself be the cause of a persons

problem, as such by reversing things and changing this view or

gaining the required knowledge the problem can on many occasions

be eradicated. Remember also that self hypnosis can only work

in anything where psychological forces are at work, it is a

matter of personal will, or doctors have no other solution but

to tell you its psychosomatic.....but in these instances as you

will find I’m sure with personal experience can be seriously

helped if not cured with hypnosis.

HOW DOES IT FEEL.

This is the final question I need to answer on self hypnosis,

how does it feel? Well to be honest the experience is very much

a personal thing & is very different for everyone who tries it.

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I will point out that you are not asleep however and in fact

will be fully aware of everything going on around you at all

times, in fact being able to taste, smell, feel & hear things

better when in trance as its actually a state of heightened

awareness. So don’t give up hope because it didn’t feel like

you were under hypnosis because hypnosis is not like sleep and

there is no such thing as a hypnotised feeling as such please

have faith in the techniques I have taught you and then I

promise you will gain many positive results.

THE LOCKED HANDS TEST.

This is a little test used by Stage Hypnotists in order to see

how susceptible people are to being hypnotised. I personally

also use this in a social setting to lock peoples hands together

& break the ice at social gatherings. It is also very useful

for instilling 100% belief into your Hypnotic subject that you

can control their mind so to speak and as such they will enter

the hypnotic trance more rapidly should you choose to get their

consent to hypnotise and then you do so!! As I mentioned earlier

this is also used in the procedure to gain sexual favours from

women via hypnosis. Basically its just down to the power of

suggestion & how much belief your hypnotic subject has in this,

it also works because the Knuckles are naturally such a shape

that they are very hard to separate in the position required for

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this test....However most people never seem to realise this!

Also bear in mind the law of reversed effort comes into play and

you should be able to understand how this test works, so when

you suggest to a subject that when they try to separate their

hands they will stick together more tightly, it implies by the

word try that you expect them not to be able to separate their

hands as such they come to believe this themselves &

consequently the harder they try to separate their hands the

less effort it will have hence the name the law of reversed

effort. Incidentally the law of Reversed effort was discovered

by the French psychologist Emile Coue who also pioneered the

self help suggestion of Every Day in Every way I am getting

better & better. Here I would like to digress totally by

pointing out that if you observe a Stage Hypnotist live at work

and learn word perfect off by heart the things he said, if you

then said these things to a person who was led to believe that

you had a thorough knowledge of Hypnosis most of these people

would then enter a Hypnotic state as they would believe you

could hypnotise people and as such would expect themselves to be

hypnotised. Now by no means am I saying do this, in fact I’d say

you need as much knowledge as possible prior to hypnotising

someone for the first time, having said that of course I

hypnotised my first victim so to speak after watching a

Hypnotist by the name of Payl Nyles at work and I had more

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success than I could possibly have expected. Bearing in mind

what I’ve just said I shall detail word for word the suggestions

I would use in order to lock someone’s hands together and as

such impress them enough that they would then enter a hypnotic

trance very rapidly & would believe they are under your complete

control, and if a person believes this to be the case....then &

only then does it become a matter of reality that you can get

them to do literally anything! If you learn this word for word,

off by heart and deliver the lines to a women who’s hands are in

the correct position as will be explained shortly, then 90% if

not more of these women will find their hands are locked

together by the count of three and will not be able to separate

them until you touch the back of their hands. Their belief in

you as a hypnotist will then be 100% and as such it will be easy

to place them into trance with the falling backwards induction

as explained a little later.....for now here goes with the

wording for the locked hands test.

O.K> (her name) Just place your arms outstretched in front of

you and interlock your fingers so that the fingers of your left

hand are against the back of your right hand whilst the fingers

of your right hand are against the back of your left hand. Now

push your fingers together just as tightly as you can and

concentrate on the sound of my voice at all times. Next (her

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name) push your hands away from you outstretched so that they

are still interlocked but now the palms of your hands will be

facing outwards whereas the backs of your hands will be facing

towards your chest. Now just push your hands up above your head

as high as you can, up, up, into the air as if your trying to

reach the sky & continue to do this at all times until I say

otherwise. From this moment forward I’d like you to concentrate

on your hands getting tighter and tighter and if you concentrate

as I’m sure you will then by the count of three, your hands will

be stuck fast tight together! In fact if you really concentrate

and use your powers of Intelligence, Imagination and

Concentration effectively then by the count of three when you

try to separate your hands, as reality you’ll find the harder

you try to separate your hands the more they’ll stick together

tightly. Three as you concentrate & push your hands up into the

air as if your trying to reach the sky you’ll find that your

hands are getting tighter and tighter.

Two, with every breath you take, every noise you hear and every

word that I say your hands are sticking together more tightly.

And on One, I’d like you to keep pushing your hands up into the

air at all times until I say otherwise as now I’d like you to

try and separate your hands, as the more you try the more

they’ll just stick together (here pause for a few seconds whilst

she tries) O.K. in a few moments when I push on the back of your

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hands they will spring apart as an automatic reflex

action....1,2,3, Now (here you push upwards on the backs of her

hands so they separate).

The test is then complete, the lady will feel very vulnerable &

will now have total belief in your hypnotic powers, so at this

point its easy to say...As I’m a Professional Hypnotist and your

such good subject, Please may I have your consent to Hypnotise

you! Once she says yes & consents she will have made a

conscious decision that you can & will be able to hypnotise her

with her full consent, so now YOU WILL BE ABLE to place her

under hypnosis with the trance then being deepened by awakening

her (1,2, wide awake!) and then returning her into trance (sleep

& relax!). The reason being that each time someone renters a

hypnotic trance they go deeper and the more deeply they go into

trance the more control you can take over their minds. Its now

time to use the Falling backwards induction.....

THE FALLING BACKWARDS INDUCTION.

Once again as with the locked hands test if you use the

following wording as detailed and follow the instructions within

the brackets then you will end up with a person in a Hypnotic

Trance after carrying out this very quick falling backwards test

as follows.....

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Well (her name) that was excellent, the fact your hands locked

together indicates to me that your an excellent person with

great powers of intelligence, imagination & concentration for

being placed into a beautifully relaxing state of hypnosis. so

(her name) would you like to go under? or would you prefer to go

on top?, seriously though may I have your consent and co-

operation to enable me to hypnotise you so that you can

experience a most relaxing & enjoyable state of mind which some

people have said is better than having a few joints of Moroccan

Black! (when she says yes success will be yours!)..That’s great

(her name) incidentally you are aware aren’t you (her name) that

when under hypnosis you will do most anything I suggest? (here

when she answers yes you are covered legally). Lastly (her

name) do you believe totally that I can place you into a

beautifully relaxing state of hypnosis (once answers yes...time

to do it!). O.K. (her name) in that case please stand up

straight, feet together, hands down by your sides, close your

eyes, tilt your head well back and begin to breath deeply and

regularly in through your nose and then out through your mouth.

From this moment forward (her name) I’d like you to concentrate

only on your breathing and the sound of my voice as this time

when I count from 3 to 1 if you concentrate which I’m sure you

will then you’ll feel yourself falling gently backwards into my

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arms, now I won’t let you fall and hurt yourself but I will let

you fall into my arms and rest you onto the floor as you enter a

beautifully relaxed state of relaxation....Your eyes will remain

closed at all times unless I say otherwise and with every breath

you take, every noise you hear and every word I say you’ll go

100 times deeper to sleep! Three, the deeper you go the better

you feel and the better you feel the deeper you go as you relax

every muscle in your body from the tips of your toes to the tips

of your fingers, so limp, so loose and so relaxed....so heavy

and so tired. Two, with every breath you take, every noise you

hear and every word I say you feel yourself beginning to fall

gently backwards into my arms. And on one Falling back, back,

back and Sleeeep (drawn out)....Relax and going deeper and

deeper all the time with every breath you take, every noise you

hear and every word that I say. (she’s now under Hypnosis) OK

(her name) from this moment onwards until I say otherwise

whenever I say 1,2, wide awake you’ll instantly be wide awake

and you’ll have an overwhelming desire to do anything I say as

an automatic reflex action and whenever I say Sleep you’ll

instantly close your eyes, let your heavy head fall forwards

onto your chest and renter this state of trance except each time

you renter this state it will be 100 times more relaxing and

enjoyable for you. (At this point she’s under your control and

can be place in & out of trance as the suggestion states by

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saying 1,2, wide awake or by saying sleep & whilst under

hypnosis any suggestions she’s to carry out can be given to

her!).

N.B....At this point she would fall backwards into your arms as

from the moment you start this induction and she stands in the

position described you are stood with your right foot up flat

against the backs of her heels with your right middle finger on

the centre of her forehead pulling her backwards slightly. On

each count backwards you pull her back a little further so that

on the count of one when you say falling back and sleep all you

need do is move your right arm back a little and she will then

fall backwards at which point you lower her to the ground and

continue with the suggestions given above. A full explanation

of this induction with photos is in Paul McKenna’s excellent

Hypnotic world book available from WH Smiths. Basically the

breathing in & out through her nose both relaxes her and also it

closes down the critical faculty of her brain slightly so she’ll

carry out your suggestions without question. The action of

falling backwards will so disorientate and confuse her that the

end result will be a state of relaxation similar to a state of

brainwashing in which anything is possible. The details of how

to deepen the trance and how to awaken them from trance have

already been given in this book, now at this point let me point

out once more that this book is supplied for informative

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entertainment purposes only and anyone using the contents herein

does so at their own risk and in full knowledge that they are

100% solely responsible for their own actions. The four steps

to brainwashing are explained below and all four are contained

within the falling backwards induction for good effect!

1) Belief and Expectancy.

2) Disorientation and Confusion.

3) Suggestion and Repetition.

4) Relaxation and Sleep.

These are the four main steps to obtaining a Hypnotic trance

state, remember that Hypnosis is the most powerful force known

to mankind it should therefore be treated as such, not be abused

and respected for the very powerful force it is. I will say

though that if all suggestions given to a Hypnotic subject are

completely cleared from their minds at the end of the session

then there are no dangers to Hypnosis and its usage.....as its

just a state of mind and self belief.

CONCLUSION AND SUMMING UP.

Well there you have it, by now readers you have probably

realised that with hypnosis almost anything can happen. All

that really happens with hypnosis is that imagination is

enhanced so that what was one minute purely imaginary the next

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minute is very real indeed. At this point I’d like to thank all

readers for purchasing this book which I’m sure you’ll agree is

both unique and represents remarkable value for money. One funny

thought which has just occurred to me though is that some people

early on in my career did not believe that I had COME TO BED

EYES and could hypnotise women with their consent for Hypnotic

sex! In fact many of them said if you had the secret of how to

do that you’d be able to sell it to every man on earth and

become a multi-millionaire very quickly....Well now I have wrote

this book, its on sale and I hope it will as they all predicted

make me rich. Its now time for me to bid you farewell...but do

me one favour OK....always practise Safe Sex!

STOP PRESS...STOP PRESS....STOP PRESS.....STOP PRESS!!!!

THE THINGS SOME HYPNOTISTS HIDE.

Many hypnotists & Psychologists say that it is impossible to

make anyone say or do anything which would contradict their

morals or their values, well that being the case I’d like to

provide you with some information from people other than myself

the worlds leading expert on bedding women via hypnotic

techniques which proves beyond a shadow of a doubt that all the

techniques in this book DO WORK & COULD WORK FOR YOU!

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To quote Dr Eric Berne, author of Games People Play and also Sex

In Human Loving, he said in a Penguin Book called A Layman’s

Guide To Psychiatry and Psychoanalysis on pages 284 & 285 on the

subject of Hypnosis two very important things...

A) Some subjects CAN be Hypnotised without their knowledge and

without their consent.

B) Hypnosis CAN be used for anti social and criminal purposes.

Here I will add that to hypnotise someone without their consent

or knowledge requires expert use of Disorientation, Confusion &

subliminal level communication combined with low sonics and a

fixed gaze at all times but it is most definitely possible with

some people.

Next to quote Delavar’s book The Hypnotist’s Bible....

1) If people are told under hypnosis that they’ve got a sunburn

then a sunburn will appear.

2) False memories can implanted into peoples minds and Hypnosis

can be used for anti social purposes.

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3) In Delevar’s book, despite the fact he personally taught me

my craft he goes on record as saying what I’ve done in the past

as documented by the press is obscene. By saying this he is

confirming that its 100% possible to do as I’ve claimed.

Delavar is a respected Hypnotherapist & Stage Hypnotist of some

60 plus years experience and has taught many people their craft

including some who are now household names and television stars,

as such I’m sure he knows what he’s talking about and you too

can have confidence in the fact that all I’ve taught you within

these pages does work! To further prove that Hypnotic

techniques do wok successfully in the quest to pick up women I

would like to make a few more points ....It is widely known that

Hypnosis and hypnotic techniques are used by cults and religions

to entice new members and then to stop them leaving and even in

some cult religions to have sex with all the other members, so

don’t you think that compared to achieving this what I have

described would be far easier? And as was documented by Paul

McKenna during March 1995 on his ITV Network First Documentary.

Hypnosis and Hypnotic techniques can and have in the past been

used to motivate assassins to kill people and are also used

regularly to keep people in cults, make them do things against

their will etc. etc.!! As Mr McKenna is regarded as one of the

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worlds leading experts on Hypnosis I feel this information which

he broadcast on his television documentary showed that when used

alongside disorientation and confusion methods (mild

brainwashing) that most definitely people can with Hypnosis be

made to do things against their will! I will also quote Dr

David Waxman president of the Society For Clinical and Dental

Hypnosis who on the London show broadcast by LWT during 1994

said of a routine I used in my act in which I made a women

believe she had just been raped...that in his own professional

opinion She would wake up and believe that she had indeed been

raped! This being the case his professional view also proves

that once a person is hypnotised they can be made to do things

against their will as no-one would want to experience such a

feeling...would they? My last two points of proof are that

firstly Mr Eddie Burke who is on the committee for F.E.S.H The

Federation Of Ethical Stage Hypnotists said to me live on

Central Weekend Live during February 1994 that if I had done as

I’d claimed in the Sun newspaper then I should be in jail as it

would make me a rapist! His comment proves that in his opinion

what I claim is possible....However as he forgot that the women

had to consented to take part it was slander as I HAVE NEVER

BROKEN THE LAW AND NEVER WILL!! And secondly the fact many top

psychologists agree what I claim is possible and the personal

experience of many people who now and use these secrets show its

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possible proves that this is a 100% true expose of how its done.

At this point let me say that any women reading this book can

quite easily protect themselves by NOT CONSENTING to be

hypnotised by anyone....The reason being if you don’t consent to

be hypnotised then as you have consciously decided not to be

hypnotised 99.9.9% of Hypnotists will then find it Impossible to

hypnotise you. So use your common-sense and you’ll be safe at

all times. Well its now time for me to say goodbye once and for

all and wish you luck in your quest to become a professional

pick up expert, any letters of appreciation or stories of your

success picking up women can and should be sent to me via the

publishers of this book. For now though good luck dudes and by

the way how do you give a women an Orgasm?..............WHO

CARES!!!!!

Sincerely

(Alex-LeRoy)

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