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oliday season is engage- wedding seasons and you may find venues
ment season. But after he in the destination of your choice are
pops the question and booked a year or more in advance.
she says “yes,” the reality What kind of venue do you want?
of wedding planning sets Do you dream of a big church wedding?
in. Here are the top five questions you will Or saying your “I do’s” in a beautiful natu-
need to answer to make your wedding plan- ral setting? Perhaps you want your recep-
ning journey a pleasant experience. tion to be in a grand hotel. Knowing the
“After Valentine’s Day, the holidays are type of venue you desire will help you
the most popular time of year for couples to refine your options and choose a specific
become engaged,” said wedding planning location down the road.
expert Raymond Miller of My Wedding
Who do you
Reception Ideas.com. “Many brides-to-be
who get engaged over the holidays will
want to officiate?
begin their planning efforts in the first
months of the new year. Knowing where to
start can be overwhelming.” Is it important to you to be married by
Brides should begin their planning by your own church’s minister? Or are you OK
answering five basic questions, Miller advis- with a justice of the peace? Do you fanta-
es. size about being joined in marriage by a
ship’s captain? Or does your mother have
What is our budget?
“Funding your wedding can be one of the
her heart set on seeing you married by the
rabbi who was there at your bat mitzvah?
Just as popular venues book quickly,
most expensive undertakings you’ll tackle in your life together as a favorite officiants also have their dance cards fill fast for popular wed-
couple,” Miller says. “Many couples only spend more on buying a ding seasons. As soon as you know who you would like to officiate at
house or car, or funding their children’s college educations.” Setting your wedding, it might pay to approach him or her and find out about
and sticking to a budget for your wedding is an essential step toward future availability.
starting your married life on a sound financial footing. Determine “Of course there are many, many things to consider when planning
where your funding will come from – if your parents can help or if you’ll a wedding,” Miller said. “But these five points are the basics you must
be paying on your own – and decide how much you can afford to address, and everything else about your wedding will be planned
spend without going into debt. around your answers to these questions. Once you’ve made these ini-
tial decisions, it will be easier to refine your options and decide exact-
What season works?
As soon as you announce you’re engaged, people will start asking
ly what will make your wedding wonderful, memorable and perfect for
you.” (ARA)
what the wedding date will be. To make answering that question as
simple as possible, start by considering in what season you would like
to be married. Would you prefer a spring ceremony? Or do you dream
of a holiday wedding? By narrowing down the season, and selecting it
well in advance, you’ll be able to secure a date that will work for every-
one.
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monthsdone it already, this is a good time to announce your
your wedding accessories such as the ring pillow, candles, etc. Also,
since it is tradition to provide gifts for those in the wedding party as
well as the parents of the bride and groom, this is a good time to
engagement and introduce your respective families. Since most recep- decide on and purchase those gifts. Just to be safe, confirm that all
tion halls and churches have busy wedding schedules, it is important groomsmen have ordered their tuxedos and finalize all transportation,
to book both as early as possible, preferably at least a year in both to and from the wedding and to the airport for your honeymoon.
1 toSchedule
2 months
advance of your wedding day.
It’s also a good idea to start
putting together a guest list the first bridal-
around this time and ask your gown fitting. Also finalize the
parents whom they’d like to readings you’d prefer during
invite as well. Also, since your the ceremony and mail them
budget will determine almost out to anyone who has agreed
every aspect of your wedding, to do a reading. If your family
sitting down and determining prefers to host a small gather-
what you can spend – and ing for close family and friends
developing a savings plan – after the wedding rehearsal,
should be first and foremost. the night before the wedding,
6 This
to 9 months
is the time to start
this is a good time to order any
food or drinks you might want
to serve that night, or make a
booking some services, such restaurant reservation.
3 toConfirm
4 weeks
as a florist, caterer, a DJ or
band, and a photographer.
However, some of the more your honeymoon
experienced DJs, bands and Image Courtesy of Coenen Photography arrangements and see if your
photographers might have wedding rings are ready. This is
their schedules booked a year also when you should get your
in advance, so this is something you’ll want to consider doing shortly marriage license and check the guest list to see who has and hasn’t
after you choose a wedding date. Also, this is a good time to inform sent an RSVP. For those who have yet to RSVP, you might want to con-
any guests who will be traveling significant distances of the date of tact them so you can get a closer idea of what the head count will be.
your wedding. The earlier your guests can book a flight, the less expen- You should also prepare and order your wedding program around this
sive that flight will be. This is also a good time to order gowns for both time.
1 toGet2aweeks
the bride and bridesmaids, as some manufacturers require a few
months to ship to bridal shops. You might want to ask someone such
as your priest or rabbi to be the officiant of your wedding. And just as final attendance count and submit it to the caterer as soon
out-of-town guests will save travel dollars by booking flights early, you as you know it, while also providing a final seating chart. Pick up the
will likely save money, too, if you book your honeymoon early. wedding gown and tuxedo. Make sure the wedding party picks up their
4 This
to 5 months
is a good time to decide on a wedding invitation. Also, now is
attire. Also, finalize your vows and confirm all wedding-day details
such as transportation, photo schedules, and addresses. And don’t
forget to pack for your honeymoon.
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• Think about where you will be living after you are married.
A residence takes priority over a lavish wedding.
• Have the wedding party carry fresh-flower bouquets, but
use less-expensive silk flowers or even fruit as centerpieces.
• Ask your baker to create a small wedding display cake HOW TO SAVE FOR A WEDDING:
you can use for your photos and serve guests from a much Consider having automatic transfers or deposits into an
cheaper sheet cake that is hidden in the kitchen.
• Get married on a weekday or at an earlier time of day. account for forced savings. Many employers can deposit a
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• Names of all wedding party participants so they
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• Name of the married couple, including pronuncia-
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• The title of the couple’s song.
• The titles of songs to be danced with mother/son
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• A listing of any preferred songs.
• The title of a “spotlight dance” song.
• Any music that is off-limits at the reception.
B there are opportunities for danc- In most cases, wedding musicians are professionals who have
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when it comes to It’s essential to listen to musi- be done to make the night a memorable one. Trust in the expertise
the music played at cians or DJs before hiring anyone of the musicians, and provide guidance where necessary. (MS)
their ceremony and reception. to ensure what they’re offering
will fit in with the wedding. Also,
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Traditional & non-traditional ways
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ome couples want to celebrate their Traditional: “The Wedding March” (“Here Traditional: Bouquet toss for the bride and
weddings in traditional fashion; oth- Comes the Bride”) plays when the bride garter toss for the groom.
ers want everything to be unique, enters. Alternative: Toss beads or treats in the
new and exciting. Alternative: Any favorite classical or mod- style of Mardi Gras to all of the guests, so it’s
Today’s weddings are largely planned, ern song is played when the bride enters, as not only about single men and women.
financed and executed entirely by the couple long as it is approved by the venue where the
getting married. Therefore, it is up to them ceremony is taking place. Traditional: A three-tiered wedding cake all
how to celebrate their special day. in white.
Here’s a look at some of the traditional Traditional: Something old, something Alternative: Choose cupcakes, a festively
wedding elements and how they can be shak- new, something borrowed, something blue. colored cake that matches the wedding
en up for a different spin. Alternative: Wear all new items, all antique theme or another desired dessert.
items or borrow all of your wedding day
Traditional: Father walks the bride down apparel – it’s your choice. Traditional: Reception at a catering hall or
the aisle. hotel.
Alternative: A son, daughter, friend, or Traditional: Mother-son, father-daughter Alternative: Reception at an alternative
even both parents walk the bride down the dances at the reception. site, such as an aquarium, zoo or museum.
aisle. She can also traverse the white carpet Alternative: Welcome everyone present to
solo, if desired. Perhaps the groom meets the dance with a special member of their family Once a couple thinks about what is impor-
bride halfway and they walk the rest of the so all eyes are not on the bride and groom, tant at their wedding, they can cater the event
aisle together. who may be self-conscious about dancing toward their personal interests. Tradition can
with their parents. These dances also can be be followed or they can do something com-
skipped. pletely unique. (MS)
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Before
• How much of our income will we save or invest?
Entertainment/friends:
• Will we have a special “night” together? Once a week, once a month?
• Who is responsible for cooking or will we share that and how?
Family:
• What do you like, or dislike about my family?
• Is our individual relationship with our family going to stay the same?
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peak to anyone who has been married for • How will we share time with our families during the holidays?
years, and you will find that communica-
tion is the key to a successful relationship.
However, many couples enter marriage Intimacy and children:
without really knowing their spouses, or • How do we deal with each other’s sexual expectations and needs?
how they feel about certain beliefs, hopes, • Describe your idea of the ultimate sexual experience?
aspirations, or even financial concerns. After the glow • Will we have children? When and how many?
of the wedding is over, couples who haven’t discussed • What will we do if we can’t have children together
these important topics may find that stress or argu- (adoption, other options)?
ments arise from miscommunication or misunder- • How might things around the house/home change once a child is born?
standing. • Will one of us give up our career to stay home with our child/children?
Taking time to sit down with your fiancée or fiancé
prior to planning the wedding can help you learn even
more about your compatibility and potential for a
Our relationship:
long-lasting marriage. Here are some of the questions • What do you love about me? • Why are you marrying me?
you can ask each other, which may spark meaningful • How might previous relationships we’ve had affect our marriage, if at all?
conversation. (Questions courtesy of • What about me drives you crazy or makes you frustrated?
WeddingPlanningWorksheets.com) – (MS) • What about our personalities is different and might be a source of conflict?
• How would we know we’re having problems and what would we do about it?
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tion location.
Determine who will officiate at the
tographer, florist, reception hall man-
ager, musicians, etc. 1 week before
ceremony. ❒ Order wedding cake, if not supplied
by caterer. ❒ Contact guests who have not
❒ Hire a wedding consultant, if you plan
to use one. ❒ Finalize ceremony details with responded.
officiant. ❒ Give the final count to the caterer
❒ Decide on your color scheme.
❒ Determine your wedding theme or ❒ Make rehearsal arrangements. and review details.
❒ Plan rehearsal dinner. ❒ Go over final details with all profes-
style.
❒ Determine the size of the guest list. ❒ Plan bridesmaids’ luncheon. sional services you have engaged.
❒ Start compiling names and address- ❒ Make appointment with hairdresser. Inform them of any changes.
❒ Arrange accommodations for out-of- ❒ Give photographer the list of pictures
es of guests.
town attendants or guests. you want.
❒ Select bridal attendants.
❒ Finalize honeymoon plans. ❒ Give all musicians the lists of music
❒ Have fiance select attendants.
for the ceremony and reception.
❒ Plan reception.
❒ Check catering facilities, if at a club 1 month before ❒
❒
Plan the seating arrangements.
Arrange for someone to assist with
or hotel.
last-minute seating errands and to
❒ Select a caterer, if one is necessary. ❒ Have a final fitting for your gown and
help you dress.
❒ Select a professional photographer. bridal attendants’ dresses.
❒ Practice having your hair done to
❒ Select a reliable, creative florist. ❒ Have a formal bridal portrait done.
make sure it comes out properly, and
❒ Select your dress and headpiece. ❒ Complete all physical or dental
determine the time it will take.
❒ Announce your engagement in the appointments.
❒ Practice using your make-up in the
newspaper. ❒ Get blood test and marriage license.
same type of lighting you will have on
❒ Select bridesmaids’ dresses. ❒ Make transportation arrangements
the wedding date.
❒ Select engagement ring with fiance, for wedding day.
❒ Keep up with the writing of your
if he has not already done so. ❒ Purchase gifts for attendants.
thank-you notes.
❒ Purchase gift for fiance, if gifts are
❒ Pack your suitcase for the honey-
4 months before ❒
being exchanged.
Have the bridesmaids’ luncheon.
moon.
❒ Make sure you have the marriage
❒ Purchase going away outfit.
❒ Make final arrangements for ❒ Keep a careful record of all gifts
license.
ceremony (deposits should be paid, ❒ Make sure you have the wedding
received (write thank-you notes
contracts signed). rings, and they fit.
immediately instead of letting them
❒ Make sure all bridal attire is ordered. ❒ Make sure all wedding attire is
pile up).
❒ Have both mothers coordinate and ❒ Make sure you have all accessories,
picked up and fits.
select their dresses. ❒ Have a rehearsal with all participants,
toasting goblets, ring pillow, garter,
❒ Register at a bridal registry in the candles, etc.
reviewing their duties.
towns of both families. ❒ Attend a rehearsal dinner party. Stay
❒ Select a responsible person to han-
❒ Order invitations and personal sta- dle guest book and determine its
calm and enjoy yourself.
tionery. location.
❒ Complete the guest lists and compile
❒
them in order.
Select the men’s wedding attire and 2 weeks before Congratulations!
reserve the right sizes.
❒ Check requirements for blood test
and marriage license in your state.
❒ Attend to business and legal details.
Get necessary forms to change You’re ready for a
❒ Make appointment for physical exam
(if your state requires one).
names on Social Security card, dri-
ver’s license, insurance and medical wonderful wedding day!
❒ Shop for wedding rings. plans, bank accounts; make a will.
❒ Prepare wedding announcements to Source: The Beverly Clark Collection
❒ Start planning the honeymoon.
❒ Decide where you will live after the be sent to the newspaper.
wedding. ❒ Reconfirm accommodations for out-
❒ Begin shopping for trousseau. of-town guests.
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eddings are all about the brides, or ❒ Assist parents with plans for the offer to assist if needed.
so it would seem. While all eyes are rehearsal dinner party. ❒ Pick up and try on wedding attire.
on the bride, the groom sometimes ❒ Discuss the amount and the financial ❒ See that attendants get their wed-
goes unnoticed. arrangement for the flowers that are ding attire.
One person who shouldn’t fail to the groom’s responsibility. ❒ Pack clothes for honeymoon.
notice the groomsmen is the groom him- ❒ Arrange accommodations for out-of- ❒ Reconfirm all honeymoon reserva-
self. Groomsmen can and often do have town attendants. tions.
significant responsibilities. A good groom
should recognize the efforts of his
❒ If flying, make sure you have plane
tickets.
1 month before
groomsmen and give gifts as an acknowl-
edgement of their efforts. ❒ See to it that you and your atten-
Following are some gift ideas: dants are at the rehearsal and that
they know their duties.
❒
Commemorate the reception. See that all attendants have been fit-
ted and wedding attire has been
❒ Go over special seating or pew cards
with ushers.
Men tend to focus on the celebratory ordered.
aspects of the day. Grooms can give a ❒ Make sure luggage is in the car or
personalized gift as a means of com-
❒ Purchase gifts for best man and ush- the hotel where you will stay your
memorating the day. ers. first night.
❒ Purchase wedding gifts for fiancee, if ❒ Attend rehearsal dinner. Relax and
Back to the bachelor party. ❒
gifts are being exchanged.
Pick up wedding rings. Make sure
enjoy yourself.
These days, weekend getaways are a
common theme to many bachelor parties. they fit.
❒ Take care of business and legal
Congratulations!
Consider gifts that evoke memories of
that special weekend where you were the affairs (add bride’s name to insurance
guest of honor. policies and medical plans, make a
Notes
Place cards $ ____
Monogrammed napkins $ ____
Rental of tableware, tents, __________________________________
furniture, etc. $ ____
Tips and fees to food servers, __________________________________
doormen, coat check, valet, etc. $ ____
__________________________________
Other $ ____
TOTAL $ ____
__________________________________
Gifts __________________________________
Gifts to each other $ ____
Matron (maid) of honor $ ____ __________________________________
Best man $ ____
__________________________________
Bridesmaids/groomsmen $ ____
Parents $ ____ __________________________________
Other $ ____
TOTAL $ ____ __________________________________
Photography Videography
Photographer ____________________________________ Videographer ____________________________________
Address__________________________________________ Address__________________________________________
Email ____________________________________________ Email ____________________________________________
Contact____________________Phone# ______________ Contact____________________Phone# ______________
__________________________ __________________________
Number of Hours Booked __________________________ Number of Hours Booked __________________________
Package Package
Description ____________________ Price ____________ Description ____________________ Price ____________
Number of Photos to be taken ____ Number of hours Total Taping ______________________
Date Previews Will Be Ready ______________________ Date Finished Tape Will Be Ready __________________
Additional Reprints Costs __________________________ Cost of Additional Copies __________________________
Catering Planner
Caterer __________________________________________ Address __________________________________________
Phone# __________________________________________ ________________________________________________
Service Date ____________Time____________________ Contact __________________________________________
Reception Location ________________________________ Price ____________________________________________
Menu ____________________________________________________________________________________________
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Toaster ____________ __________ Bath Towels ____________ __________
Table Lamps ____________ __________
Mixer ____________ __________ Hand Towels ____________ __________
Floor Lamps ____________ __________
Blender ____________ __________ Washcloths ____________ __________
Clocks ____________ __________
Food Processor ____________ __________ Hamper ____________ __________
Picture Frames ____________ __________
Coffee Maker ____________ __________ Scale ____________ __________
Rugs ____________ __________
Electric Skillet ____________ __________ Shower Curtain ____________ __________
Magazine Rack ____________ __________
Can Opener ____________ __________ Bath Mat/Rug ____________ __________
Mirrors ____________ __________
Slow Cooker ____________ __________ Soap Dispenser ____________ __________
Artwork ____________ __________
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here are a few things about weddings that cannot be pre- with at the studio will be the one shooting the wedding. Some com-
dicted or controlled, such as what Mother Nature will do on panies have several photographers on hand.
Book a band or DJ
the wedding day. However, there are many items that are
well within the control of the bride and groom. Proper plan-
ning can help ensure the wedding of their dreams.
Another vendor that tends to have a busy schedule will be the wed-
One of the best ways to ease wedding-day nerves is for the couple
ding entertainer. Early booking ensures your date will be available.
to get organized and begin planning their event the moment the
Couples should talk about musical selections and the ways to engage
engagement period begins. The earlier preparation starts, the better
the various generations attending the reception.
the chance that vendors will be able to provide what’s needed, or that
changes can be made when unforeseen events pop up.
By making a list of things to do, couples can allot time in their
schedules for each task, and they can feel a sense of accomplishment
Choose a florist
Flowers add an elegant touch to the wedding day. A florist will often
and relief each time an item is checked off the list. provide flowers for both the ceremony and the reception. Select a
Decide on a date
florist who offers helpful, creative ideas about bouquets, corsages and
centerpieces – and who will deliver in a timely manner.
Couples should select a date for their wedding soon after becoming
engaged. After all, it is the countdown to this day that will help organ-
ize and determine planning schedules.
Select and order dresses
Wedding and bridesmaid gowns can take several months to order and
Select a photographer
Whether it’s a limo, Rolls, horse-drawn carriage, or a party bus, the
bride and groom should arrange for transportation for themselves and
their attendants to and from the church and reception.
Photographers tend to book very quickly, particularly if they are well
recommended. It pays to research and choose one early in the wed-
ding-planning process. Every
photographer has a different
Find formal wear
Tuxedo rentals are quite popular
style. The couple should select for weddings. If the wedding is
one who will not only be accom- taking place during a peak party
modating to their wishes, but season, such as prom time, it
who will also suggest ideas that pays for couples to reserve tuxes
may not have been considered, several months in advance. All of
such as artistic black and white the groomsmen should rent from
prints or photo journalism-type the same shop to be uniform.
images. The photographer’s per-
sonality is very important. He or With these decisions made, the
she will be spending the entire bride- and groom-to-be have only
day with the couple and should a few things left to do, such as
be likable and personable. selecting wedding favors,
Couples should also find out if Image Courtesy of Coenen Photography addressing invitations and pur-
the photographer they speak chasing thank-you gifts. –(MS)
28 • Wedding Planner • January 2011
hen two people decide to
Budgeting expenses
W get married, they’re not only
combining their posses-
sions, but they’re also
bringing together unique ideas about person-
al finance. These ideas may bring challenges
Even if each individual had a budget before
the marriage, the financial status of a spouse
will change the outlook. Although each person
may have their preferences on certain items,
talking through the best ways to pool
to the relationship and should be discussed resources and save money can be an effective
beforehand for the best start to the marriage. start to your life together.
about to marry
ing, as well as their own approach to finances. and newly married doesn’t mean they should-
Additionally, one person may be bringing n’t begin planning for their future – including
more debt to the relationship than the other. a family – immediately. Couples should
FINANCES
How finances will be handled should be one explore the options on life and medical insur-
of the first conversations – even before a ance plans. Sitting down with a financial plan-
reception venue is booked or a wedding gown ner can help, and he or she may be able to
is chosen. spell out options in retirement savings or edu-
When joining finances, consider these fac- cation savings. It’s never too early to begin
tors: investigating these scenarios.
Bank accounts
Generally couples will find that a combination of joint and person-
Keep the lines of communication open
Money often makes or breaks a relationship. Having similar goals
al accounts makes finances easier. The joint account is used for regarding saving and spending is often the key to couples melding
monthly bills, housing expenses and things the couple does together. together. The best way to work through difficulties and avoid problems
Separate accounts can be used for discretionary spending, like vaca- concerning finances is always to talk through all of the options. Having
tion accounts, dabbling in investments or simply for splurging. This an open line of communication about money – and participating
enables each person to have an independent identity but also share equally in the household finances – can help bring about marital suc-
the responsibility of being a couple. cess. (MS)
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