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A HOW-TO GUIDE FOR THE PERFECT WEDDING

An Echo Press Publication | January 2011


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INDEX
Top 5 planning questions......................................5 Welcome to the 2011 Echo Press wedding
Countdown to your wedding day............................6 planner.
Echo Press wedding/engagement announcements....7 This publication is meant to be a helpful refer-
ence guide for planning your wedding day and
Wedding cake trends ...........................................8 preparing for marriage.
Surviving wedding expenses................................10 In addition to containing information on plan-
Limit your guest list...........................................12 ning your wedding, financial planning and other
aspects of preparing to get married, it also
Wedding music pointers .....................................13 includes handy checklists for all the tasks that
Create scent-sational favors................................14 need to be done by the bride and groom before
Traditional or non-traditional?.............................16 the wedding. It also contains information on many
of the businesses that specialize in wedding-relat-
Before you tie the knot ......................................18 ed services or products.
Planning forms and checklists ........................19-26 We hope this wedding planning guide serves as
Plan the wedding of your dreams.........................28 a handy reference to help you plan your most
important day!
Tips for marrying your finances ...........................29
Creative, budget-friendly wedding tips..................30 Special Projects Editor: Tara Bitzan
Use technology for wedding planning...................32 Special Projects Reporter: Lowell Anderson
Cover by: Nichole Roell
Image Courtesy of Coenen Photography Wedding services directory ............................34-35 Layout and design by Nichole Roell & Karla Mikkelson
Publisher: Jody Hanson
Cover Photo by Honeymoon planning how-to...............................36 Echo Press • www.echopress.com
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Alexandria, MN A Publication of the Echo Press
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Develop a floral plan .........................................42

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You’re engaged!
NOW WHAT?
Top 5 Wedding planning questions to answer

H
oliday season is engage- wedding seasons and you may find venues
ment season. But after he in the destination of your choice are
pops the question and booked a year or more in advance.
she says “yes,” the reality What kind of venue do you want?
of wedding planning sets Do you dream of a big church wedding?
in. Here are the top five questions you will Or saying your “I do’s” in a beautiful natu-
need to answer to make your wedding plan- ral setting? Perhaps you want your recep-
ning journey a pleasant experience. tion to be in a grand hotel. Knowing the
“After Valentine’s Day, the holidays are type of venue you desire will help you
the most popular time of year for couples to refine your options and choose a specific
become engaged,” said wedding planning location down the road.
expert Raymond Miller of My Wedding

Who do you
Reception Ideas.com. “Many brides-to-be
who get engaged over the holidays will

want to officiate?
begin their planning efforts in the first
months of the new year. Knowing where to
start can be overwhelming.” Is it important to you to be married by
Brides should begin their planning by your own church’s minister? Or are you OK
answering five basic questions, Miller advis- with a justice of the peace? Do you fanta-
es. size about being joined in marriage by a
ship’s captain? Or does your mother have
What is our budget?
“Funding your wedding can be one of the
her heart set on seeing you married by the
rabbi who was there at your bat mitzvah?
Just as popular venues book quickly,
most expensive undertakings you’ll tackle in your life together as a favorite officiants also have their dance cards fill fast for popular wed-
couple,” Miller says. “Many couples only spend more on buying a ding seasons. As soon as you know who you would like to officiate at
house or car, or funding their children’s college educations.” Setting your wedding, it might pay to approach him or her and find out about
and sticking to a budget for your wedding is an essential step toward future availability.
starting your married life on a sound financial footing. Determine “Of course there are many, many things to consider when planning
where your funding will come from – if your parents can help or if you’ll a wedding,” Miller said. “But these five points are the basics you must
be paying on your own – and decide how much you can afford to address, and everything else about your wedding will be planned
spend without going into debt. around your answers to these questions. Once you’ve made these ini-
tial decisions, it will be easier to refine your options and decide exact-
What season works?
As soon as you announce you’re engaged, people will start asking
ly what will make your wedding wonderful, memorable and perfect for
you.” (ARA)
what the wedding date will be. To make answering that question as
simple as possible, start by considering in what season you would like
to be married. Would you prefer a spring ceremony? Or do you dream
of a holiday wedding? By narrowing down the season, and selecting it
well in advance, you’ll be able to secure a date that will work for every-
one.

Where do we want to get married


andWill have our reception?
you have a destination wedding? Or do you want to keep it
local? While wedding planning is usually most successful when done
well in advance, if you’re interested in a destination wedding, planning
far ahead is essential. Popular destinations book quickly in prime
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Countdown
to your wedding day
2 toFinalize
3 months
T
o help you get a better understanding of how to plan a
wedding and when you should be making certain deci-
your guest list and mail out your invitations. If your guest
sions, here’s a time frame you can follow that should list includes many people who are spread out geographically, mail the
ensure your wedding goes off as smoothly as possible. invitations as close to 12 weeks in advance as possible. This is also a
good time to finalize your menu choices for your guests, and find all

10Iftoyou12haven’t
monthsdone it already, this is a good time to announce your
your wedding accessories such as the ring pillow, candles, etc. Also,
since it is tradition to provide gifts for those in the wedding party as
well as the parents of the bride and groom, this is a good time to
engagement and introduce your respective families. Since most recep- decide on and purchase those gifts. Just to be safe, confirm that all
tion halls and churches have busy wedding schedules, it is important groomsmen have ordered their tuxedos and finalize all transportation,
to book both as early as possible, preferably at least a year in both to and from the wedding and to the airport for your honeymoon.

1 toSchedule
2 months
advance of your wedding day.
It’s also a good idea to start
putting together a guest list the first bridal-
around this time and ask your gown fitting. Also finalize the
parents whom they’d like to readings you’d prefer during
invite as well. Also, since your the ceremony and mail them
budget will determine almost out to anyone who has agreed
every aspect of your wedding, to do a reading. If your family
sitting down and determining prefers to host a small gather-
what you can spend – and ing for close family and friends
developing a savings plan – after the wedding rehearsal,
should be first and foremost. the night before the wedding,

6 This
to 9 months
is the time to start
this is a good time to order any
food or drinks you might want
to serve that night, or make a
booking some services, such restaurant reservation.

3 toConfirm
4 weeks
as a florist, caterer, a DJ or
band, and a photographer.
However, some of the more your honeymoon
experienced DJs, bands and Image Courtesy of Coenen Photography arrangements and see if your
photographers might have wedding rings are ready. This is
their schedules booked a year also when you should get your
in advance, so this is something you’ll want to consider doing shortly marriage license and check the guest list to see who has and hasn’t
after you choose a wedding date. Also, this is a good time to inform sent an RSVP. For those who have yet to RSVP, you might want to con-
any guests who will be traveling significant distances of the date of tact them so you can get a closer idea of what the head count will be.
your wedding. The earlier your guests can book a flight, the less expen- You should also prepare and order your wedding program around this
sive that flight will be. This is also a good time to order gowns for both time.

1 toGet2aweeks
the bride and bridesmaids, as some manufacturers require a few
months to ship to bridal shops. You might want to ask someone such
as your priest or rabbi to be the officiant of your wedding. And just as final attendance count and submit it to the caterer as soon
out-of-town guests will save travel dollars by booking flights early, you as you know it, while also providing a final seating chart. Pick up the
will likely save money, too, if you book your honeymoon early. wedding gown and tuxedo. Make sure the wedding party picks up their
4 This
to 5 months
is a good time to decide on a wedding invitation. Also, now is
attire. Also, finalize your vows and confirm all wedding-day details
such as transportation, photo schedules, and addresses. And don’t
forget to pack for your honeymoon.

TheThis day before


an ideal time to start hunting for a wedding cake by sampling a num-
ber of different bakeries and their cakes before ultimately making a
decision. Just to be sure, confirm that all of the bridesmaids have is mainly when you rehearse for the ceremony and make any
ordered their gowns and start looking for a tuxedo for the groom and final confirmations you might have to make. Also, make sure to get
the groomsmen. If you haven’t done so already, purchase your wed- some sleep so you’ll look good in all of your wedding-day photos. –
ding rings and talk to the people that you would like to have partici- (MS)
pate in the wedding ceremony.

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LOTIONS, POTIONS AND
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Engagement and wedding announcements are published Fridays
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he multi-tiered cake is a ordered several months in advance.

T favorite wedding tradi-


tion that’s often present-
ed at the end of the
night. The happy couple takes a slice
and enjoys the first piece.
Couples looking for something a bit
different for their upcoming nuptials,
may want to consider these trends in
wedding cakes.
• 3-D accents on the cake, such as
graphic appliqués.
• A black-and-white motif that gives
In recent years, wedding cakes have the cake a simplistic, yet trendy
become more of an artistic center- appeal.
piece than just a confectionary treat. • A lot of bold color in the cake,
Couples often seek out renowned instead of just white or ivory.
wedding cake bakers for a cake that • Dramatic monograms that can add
will amaze the crowd and complete class to the cake.
the theme of the wedding. • Painted cakes with edible food col-
The average couple will spend oring paint that feature beautiful land-
between $700 to $800 for their wed- scapes or a portrait.
ding cake. Although many catering • Cakes that mirror the style of the
halls or reception sites will include the wedding gown, including fondant ruf-
wedding cake in a package deal, many fles and appliqués.

Wedding couples choose to order their cake


from a specialty bakery who creates
culinary masterpieces.
Many couples still opt for the tradi-
tional cake, and that is always in style.
Instead of experimenting with the out-

cake
If television trends are any indica- side of the cake, couples can be cre-
tion, many people are opting to spend ative with cake flavor and fillings.
several hundred to thousands of dol- Imagine cutting open the cake to find
lars on a customized wedding cake. red velvet or a chocolate ganache fill-
These fondant and buttercream cre- ing. (MS)

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Surviving your wedding
expenses
he average couple will spend between $20,000 and • To save, consider curbing recreational spending. Cut dinners out,

T $30,000 on their wedding, a figure that does not


include additional expenses such as an engagement
ring or honeymoon. For many, that is 50 percent more
than they have actually budgeted for the occasion. Underestimating
wedding expenses can lead to financial distress even before the mar-
trips to the movies or non-essential purchases. Place the money you
would’ve spent into a wedding account.
• Consider having automatic transfers or deposits into an account
for forced savings. Many employers can deposit a portion of your pay-
check into a separate account.
• Eliminate debt right away. It may seem counterproductive, but
sometimes you have to spend money to save money. Instead of rack-
riage has begun. ing up high interest rate charges on credit card balances, pay down
In the not-so-distant past, weddings were largely financed by the credit cards or other bills you have. Once you are in the clear, you can
bride and her parents. Things are much different now. Most weddings focus more on saving for the wedding.
now are paid for by the bride and groom with little contribution from • If need be, have a long engagement so that you have ample time
family. Young couples just starting out in life may find that weddings to save.
are more of a financial commitment than originally anticipated.
Planning for the expected – and unexpected – can help couples sur- Setting a budget
vive wedding expenses. Many couples want a dream wedding but do not have the finances
to afford a platinum event. But that doesn’t mean they still can’t have
Savings plan a lavish, beautiful wedding. Setting a budget means you can prioritize
With most couples paying for the majority of the wedding them- what you want and what you will pass up. It also provides a savings
selves, it will be up to them to come up with the bulk of the wedding goal and a firm deadline.
finances. Starting to save early is essential. Once you have set the • Shop around for the average rates of vendors in your area. Work
date, begin saving immediately. Even if the wedding won’t be a lavish on the big-ticket items first before focusing on the smaller details.
affair, it will still have some expenses. Once you have average prices, you’ll have something to base your

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budget on.
• Add up the average costs of all of the items on your wish
list. If it seems out of range, start removing things you can do
without. For example, can you have a brunch reception
instead of an evening sit-down dinner to scale back costs?
• Always set aside a little extra for those incidental expens-
es, such as tips for the wait staff and donation to the church
– items you may not think to factor in.
• Don’t expect wedding gifts to cover the cost of your wed-
ding. While some guests are quite generous, others may not
even cover the cost of their meal.

Prioritize
A dream wedding is a marriage between desires and real-
ity. Today it is possible to recreate the look of designer gowns
and other details with less-expensive options. Figure out
your priorities and work from there. Consider these cost-sav-
ing options.
• Think about where you will be living after you are married.
A residence takes priority over a lavish wedding.
• Have the wedding party carry fresh-flower bouquets, but
use less-expensive silk flowers or even fruit as centerpieces.
• Ask your baker to create a small wedding display cake HOW TO SAVE FOR A WEDDING:
you can use for your photos and serve guests from a much Consider having automatic transfers or deposits into an
cheaper sheet cake that is hidden in the kitchen.
• Get married on a weekday or at an earlier time of day. account for forced savings. Many employers can deposit a
• Limit the bar to wine, beer and soda to save on the portion of your paycheck into a separate account. Instead of
expense of top-shelf liquors. a Christmas club savings plan, you can have a wedding club.
• Register for unconventional gifts, such as contributing to
the honeymoon.
• Handle some items yourself, such as favors or catering,
to keep costs down. (MS)

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Invite only
Pare down your wedding guest list
ouples are faced with many decisions when planning a down all the guests they would like to invite. Once each is finished

C wedding. One often overlooked decision concerns the


guest list. Ideally, couples would love to invite all their
friends and family to share in their special day.
Realistically, however, budget often dictates just how many guests a
couple can invite.
with their list, the hard work of paring that list down can begin.

• Consider who’s footing the bill. If Mom and Dad


are paying for the wedding, then their suggestions for the guest list
should carry most of the weight. The same principle can be applied if
the couple is paying for their own wedding. If the costs are being split
down the middle, then both the groom- and bride-to-be should be
That reality has led to a disagreement or two over the years, as both allowed to invite the same number of guests.
the bride-to-be and her future husband make their case for whom
makes the cut. To help avoid such disagreements, couples should con- • Ask that kids stay home. Many couples request that
sider the following tips when paring down their guest list. their guests leave the kids at home. While nieces and nephews might
make the cut, it’s perfectly acceptable for couples to state their pref-
• Make a master list as early as possible. It’s erence that children not attend. This can be noted on the invitation,
impossible to pare down a guest list if there’s no list to begin with. addressing friends as “Mr. John Doe and guest” or “Mr. and Mrs. John
Once the planning process begins, couples should separately write Doe.” Guests should take the hint, but if any RSVP with their kids, be
sure to call them immediately and explain the situation. Friends and
family should understand the preference, particularly in the current
economic climate.

• It’s not a reunion. Couples are often tempted to invite


long-lost friends to their wedding. But cost-conscious couples must
recognize their wedding is not a reunion. If the goal is to keep the
guest list under control, only invite close friends and family members
who have kept in touch with you over the years.

• Stick to your guns. Couples vary greatly in what they


want in their wedding. Some want a grandiose affair they can share
with their whole family and all of their friends. Other couples want a
more laid-back affair with only those closest to them in attendance.
Whatever their preference, couples should remain firm and not feel
guilty no matter how many guests they choose to invite or not invite.

• Cut back in other areas. If it’s proving simply impos-


sible to agree on a reduced guest list, consider inviting everyone and
cutting back in other areas. Before signing any contracts, closely
examine each one for items that can be removed without drastically
changing the ceremony and celebration. Chances are there are sav-
ings to be had, and those savings might make the difference between
inviting and not inviting another friend or family member. (MS)

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Provide the musical entertainment with some information to fur-
ther help the wedding go off without a hitch. This may include but
not be limited to the following:
• Names of all wedding party participants so they
can be properly introduced.
• Name of the married couple, including pronuncia-
tion of the last name, if necessary.
• The title of the couple’s song.
• The titles of songs to be danced with mother/son
or father/daughter.

Wedding music
• A listing of any preferred songs.
• The title of a “spotlight dance” song.
• Any music that is off-limits at the reception.

pointers • Special announcements that should be made,


such as mentioning a guest’s birthday or another
special event involving guests.
• Whether a bouquet and garter toss will take
place, and which songs should be played during
these traditions.
rides and grooms while guests are dining and when

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ing.
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the music played at cians or DJs before hiring anyone of the musicians, and provide guidance where necessary. (MS)
their ceremony and reception. to ensure what they’re offering
will fit in with the wedding. Also,
Live musicians or DJs are often it’s helpful to confirm the person

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Scent-sational ideas
for wedding favors
unting down the perfect wedding ensemble, negotiat- Havran offers some tips for using aromatherapy to combat wed-

H
so stressful?
ing seating arrangements with squabbling relatives,
honeymoon flight reservations that change on a dime
– how did something that should be so joyful become

Planning a wedding can be a high-pressure time, even for couples


ding-planning jitters and create memorable favors:
Surround yourself with scents that soothe. A potpourri that features
real lavender flowers is a wonderful way to bring comforting, peaceful
aroma into your home. Sprinkle the flowers with lavender essential oil
and tuck a sachet of the mixture in with your bed linens. Place a bowl
on the dining room table. Store some in a mesh bag inside the lug-
gage you’ll be using for your honeymoon. Make the same lavender-
with a clear vision of what they want and the budget to accomplish it.
One aspect of your wedding that doesn’t have to cause stress is based scent the centerpiece of your aromatherapy favors by placing it
choosing wedding favors. Go with something simple, elegant and time- in small, handmade sachets that guests can carry home.
less that will fit the lifestyle of virtually every guest – aromatherapy. Planning a holiday wedding? Create a “wise men’s favor” by recy-
Scent is a mood-setting gift that can help establish the tone for cling an empty tea tin. Paint it with your wedding colors or cover it with
your reception, and remind guests afterward how much they enjoyed festive gold paper. Fill the tin with coarse salt and sprinkle with 16
sharing your big day. You don’t have to give every guest a pricey per- drops of eucalyptus essential oil, 16 drops of lemon essential oil, 16
sonal essence or resort to costly scented candles to achieve the per- drops of frankincense and/or myrrh essential oils, and replace the lid.
fect aromatherapy wedding favor. Making your own favors not only Include instructions to release this ancient sacred scent by removing
saves you money, it puts your personal stamp on the mementoes your the lid and placing the tin in a warm location.
guests will keep long after the wedding day has passed. Another idea that’s good year-round is a soul-warming spa kit.
What’s more, says Tom Havran, an aromatherapy expert with the Create a home spa kit with a mineral bath and a body and massage
personal products company Aura Cacia, “making aromatherapy favors oil. These gifts have a green, lemony-balsamic aroma that revitalizes
together can help a harried couple slow down, refocus and remember the body and chases away the blues. Wrap these items in a small bas-
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Traditional & non-traditional ways
to celebrate a wedding
S
ome couples want to celebrate their Traditional: “The Wedding March” (“Here Traditional: Bouquet toss for the bride and
weddings in traditional fashion; oth- Comes the Bride”) plays when the bride garter toss for the groom.
ers want everything to be unique, enters. Alternative: Toss beads or treats in the
new and exciting. Alternative: Any favorite classical or mod- style of Mardi Gras to all of the guests, so it’s
Today’s weddings are largely planned, ern song is played when the bride enters, as not only about single men and women.
financed and executed entirely by the couple long as it is approved by the venue where the
getting married. Therefore, it is up to them ceremony is taking place. Traditional: A three-tiered wedding cake all
how to celebrate their special day. in white.
Here’s a look at some of the traditional Traditional: Something old, something Alternative: Choose cupcakes, a festively
wedding elements and how they can be shak- new, something borrowed, something blue. colored cake that matches the wedding
en up for a different spin. Alternative: Wear all new items, all antique theme or another desired dessert.
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Traditional: Father walks the bride down apparel – it’s your choice. Traditional: Reception at a catering hall or
the aisle. hotel.
Alternative: A son, daughter, friend, or Traditional: Mother-son, father-daughter Alternative: Reception at an alternative
even both parents walk the bride down the dances at the reception. site, such as an aquarium, zoo or museum.
aisle. She can also traverse the white carpet Alternative: Welcome everyone present to
solo, if desired. Perhaps the groom meets the dance with a special member of their family Once a couple thinks about what is impor-
bride halfway and they walk the rest of the so all eyes are not on the bride and groom, tant at their wedding, they can cater the event
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Finances/home:
• Will we keep our money in joint or individual accounts?
• What kinds of things will we talk about first before buying?
• Who is going to be in charge of paying bills and other expenses?
• How much time do we expect to spend with each other and when?
• Where will we live? • How much will we be able to afford?
• What if one of us had a career opportunity that required
a move to a new city?
• What if one of us, or both of us, got fired or laid-off?
• How important is money to our relationship and marriage?
• What type of material possessions are important to you (each other)?
• What is your definition of financial security?
• How much is enough for a “safety net” or “rainy day” fund?

Before
• How much of our income will we save or invest?

Entertainment/friends:
• Will we have a special “night” together? Once a week, once a month?
• Who is responsible for cooking or will we share that and how?

you tie the knot..


• Do we have conflicting ideas of style?
• How often do we like to go out with friends alone? Together?

Family:
• What do you like, or dislike about my family?
• Is our individual relationship with our family going to stay the same?

S
peak to anyone who has been married for • How will we share time with our families during the holidays?
years, and you will find that communica-
tion is the key to a successful relationship.
However, many couples enter marriage Intimacy and children:
without really knowing their spouses, or • How do we deal with each other’s sexual expectations and needs?
how they feel about certain beliefs, hopes, • Describe your idea of the ultimate sexual experience?
aspirations, or even financial concerns. After the glow • Will we have children? When and how many?
of the wedding is over, couples who haven’t discussed • What will we do if we can’t have children together
these important topics may find that stress or argu- (adoption, other options)?
ments arise from miscommunication or misunder- • How might things around the house/home change once a child is born?
standing. • Will one of us give up our career to stay home with our child/children?
Taking time to sit down with your fiancée or fiancé
prior to planning the wedding can help you learn even
more about your compatibility and potential for a
Our relationship:
long-lasting marriage. Here are some of the questions • What do you love about me? • Why are you marrying me?
you can ask each other, which may spark meaningful • How might previous relationships we’ve had affect our marriage, if at all?
conversation. (Questions courtesy of • What about me drives you crazy or makes you frustrated?
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Wedding Style Planner Wedding Style
(Circle all that apply)
Ceremony Date: 1st Choice________________ 2nd Choice ______________ Casual Outdoor
Contemporary Personal
Wedding Size: ❑ Elope 0-4 ❑ Small 50-100 ❑ Med 100-200 ❑ Large 200+ Country Private
Dramatic Quaint
Formality: ❑ Very Formal ❑ Formal ❑ Semiformal ❑ Informal Elaborate Relaxed
Elegant Religious
Time of Day: ❑ Morning ❑ Afternoon ❑ Evening Ethnic Romantic
Family Oriented Simple

Wedding Theme (if any) ____________________________________________


Fantasy
Festive
Sophisticated
Spiritual

Ceremony Loc.: 1st Choice ______________ 2nd Choice ________________


Fun
Glamorous
Stylish
Traditional
Indoor Unique
Reception Loc.: 1st Choice ______________ 2nd Choice ________________ Intimate Warm

Personalizing Ceremony style/notes:


Processional ____________________ Vows __________________________ Recessional ____________________
Opening Words __________________ Ring Exchange __________________ Symbolic Rituals__________________
Giving Away Blessing ____________ Unity Candle ____________________ Music Choices __________________
Readings ________________________ Benediction______________________ Reception Music ________________
Prayers ________________________ Closing Words __________________ Other __________________________

Plan Your Wedding Day Your Wedding Day Time Table

TIME TIME TIME


• Getting Up • Receiving Line • Reception Meal

• Dressing • Formal Group Photos • Cake Cutting

• Leaving for • Leaving for • Bridal Dance


the Ceremony the Reception & Dancing

• Photos Before • Bride & Groom


• Cocktail Hour
the Ceremony Change Clothes

• Arriving At • Bride & Groom


• Parents & Guests Arrive
the Reception Leave Reception
• Wedding Ceremony
• Toast By Best Man • Reception Ends
Begins

January 2011 • Wedding Planner • 19


Bride’s Wedding Planner Checklist
The details involved in wedding planning may seem overwhelming
at times. Here is a helpful checklist to keep you on track:

❒ Arrange to have possessions and


6 to 12 months before the wedding 2 months before gifts moved to your new home. Give
a change-of-address card to the post
❒ Select a wedding date and time. office.
Make a preliminary budget. ❒ Address invitations and announce- ❒ Finish addressing announcements to
❒ Determine the type of wedding you ments. They should be mailed four to be mailed on the wedding day.
want. six weeks before the wedding.
❒ Reserve your ceremony and recep- ❒ Finalize all details with caterer, pho-


tion location.
Determine who will officiate at the
tographer, florist, reception hall man-
ager, musicians, etc. 1 week before
ceremony. ❒ Order wedding cake, if not supplied
by caterer. ❒ Contact guests who have not
❒ Hire a wedding consultant, if you plan
to use one. ❒ Finalize ceremony details with responded.
officiant. ❒ Give the final count to the caterer
❒ Decide on your color scheme.
❒ Determine your wedding theme or ❒ Make rehearsal arrangements. and review details.
❒ Plan rehearsal dinner. ❒ Go over final details with all profes-
style.
❒ Determine the size of the guest list. ❒ Plan bridesmaids’ luncheon. sional services you have engaged.
❒ Start compiling names and address- ❒ Make appointment with hairdresser. Inform them of any changes.
❒ Arrange accommodations for out-of- ❒ Give photographer the list of pictures
es of guests.
town attendants or guests. you want.
❒ Select bridal attendants.
❒ Finalize honeymoon plans. ❒ Give all musicians the lists of music
❒ Have fiance select attendants.
for the ceremony and reception.
❒ Plan reception.
❒ Check catering facilities, if at a club 1 month before ❒

Plan the seating arrangements.
Arrange for someone to assist with
or hotel.
last-minute seating errands and to
❒ Select a caterer, if one is necessary. ❒ Have a final fitting for your gown and
help you dress.
❒ Select a professional photographer. bridal attendants’ dresses.
❒ Practice having your hair done to
❒ Select a reliable, creative florist. ❒ Have a formal bridal portrait done.
make sure it comes out properly, and
❒ Select your dress and headpiece. ❒ Complete all physical or dental
determine the time it will take.
❒ Announce your engagement in the appointments.
❒ Practice using your make-up in the
newspaper. ❒ Get blood test and marriage license.
same type of lighting you will have on
❒ Select bridesmaids’ dresses. ❒ Make transportation arrangements
the wedding date.
❒ Select engagement ring with fiance, for wedding day.
❒ Keep up with the writing of your
if he has not already done so. ❒ Purchase gifts for attendants.
thank-you notes.
❒ Purchase gift for fiance, if gifts are
❒ Pack your suitcase for the honey-
4 months before ❒
being exchanged.
Have the bridesmaids’ luncheon.
moon.
❒ Make sure you have the marriage
❒ Purchase going away outfit.
❒ Make final arrangements for ❒ Keep a careful record of all gifts
license.
ceremony (deposits should be paid, ❒ Make sure you have the wedding
received (write thank-you notes
contracts signed). rings, and they fit.
immediately instead of letting them
❒ Make sure all bridal attire is ordered. ❒ Make sure all wedding attire is
pile up).
❒ Have both mothers coordinate and ❒ Make sure you have all accessories,
picked up and fits.
select their dresses. ❒ Have a rehearsal with all participants,
toasting goblets, ring pillow, garter,
❒ Register at a bridal registry in the candles, etc.
reviewing their duties.
towns of both families. ❒ Attend a rehearsal dinner party. Stay
❒ Select a responsible person to han-
❒ Order invitations and personal sta- dle guest book and determine its
calm and enjoy yourself.
tionery. location.
❒ Complete the guest lists and compile


them in order.
Select the men’s wedding attire and 2 weeks before Congratulations!
reserve the right sizes.
❒ Check requirements for blood test
and marriage license in your state.
❒ Attend to business and legal details.
Get necessary forms to change You’re ready for a
❒ Make appointment for physical exam
(if your state requires one).
names on Social Security card, dri-
ver’s license, insurance and medical wonderful wedding day!
❒ Shop for wedding rings. plans, bank accounts; make a will.
❒ Prepare wedding announcements to Source: The Beverly Clark Collection
❒ Start planning the honeymoon.
❒ Decide where you will live after the be sent to the newspaper.
wedding. ❒ Reconfirm accommodations for out-
❒ Begin shopping for trousseau. of-town guests.

20 • Wedding Planner • January 2011


Groom’s Wedding Planner Checklist
The bride is not the only one with planning to do!
Here’s what the groom should do before the big day:

6 to 12 months before the wedding 4 months before 2 weeks before


❒ Purchase the bride’s engagement ❒ Shop with fiancee for wedding rings. ❒ Together with fiancee, gather neces-
ring. ❒ Complete your guest list, including sary documents and get your mar-
❒ Discuss with fiancee the date and full names, addresses and ZIP codes riage license.
type of wedding. with phone numbers. ❒ Arrange wedding day transportation.
❒ Start on your guest list. ❒ Check requirements for blood test ❒ Reconfirm accommodations for out-
❒ Choose best man and ushers. and marriage license in your state, or of-town guests.
❒ Start planning and making necessary the state in which you are being mar- ❒ If moving, give change of address
arrangements for the honeymoon. ried. card to post office; arrange to have
❒ Discuss and plan, with fiancee, your ❒ Select and order men’s wedding utilities and phone service turned on
new home together. If fiancee is attire with your fiancee. in new home. If not moving, finish
moving in with you, start cleaning out ❒ Finalize all honeymoon plans and cleaning and reorganizing your home;
closets, cupboards and drawers to send in deposits if required (don’t help your fiancee move her things.
make room for your bride and delay — some resorts fill up fast in ❒ Have your hair cut.
wedding gifts. popular months).

2 months before 1 week before


Don’t forget to
honor the groomsmen ❒ Meet with officiant to finalize cere-
mony details. ❒ Discuss all final details with fiancee;

W
eddings are all about the brides, or ❒ Assist parents with plans for the offer to assist if needed.
so it would seem. While all eyes are rehearsal dinner party. ❒ Pick up and try on wedding attire.
on the bride, the groom sometimes ❒ Discuss the amount and the financial ❒ See that attendants get their wed-
goes unnoticed. arrangement for the flowers that are ding attire.
One person who shouldn’t fail to the groom’s responsibility. ❒ Pack clothes for honeymoon.
notice the groomsmen is the groom him- ❒ Arrange accommodations for out-of- ❒ Reconfirm all honeymoon reserva-
self. Groomsmen can and often do have town attendants. tions.
significant responsibilities. A good groom
should recognize the efforts of his
❒ If flying, make sure you have plane
tickets.
1 month before
groomsmen and give gifts as an acknowl-
edgement of their efforts. ❒ See to it that you and your atten-
Following are some gift ideas: dants are at the rehearsal and that
they know their duties.

Commemorate the reception. See that all attendants have been fit-
ted and wedding attire has been
❒ Go over special seating or pew cards
with ushers.
Men tend to focus on the celebratory ordered.
aspects of the day. Grooms can give a ❒ Make sure luggage is in the car or
personalized gift as a means of com-
❒ Purchase gifts for best man and ush- the hotel where you will stay your
memorating the day. ers. first night.
❒ Purchase wedding gifts for fiancee, if ❒ Attend rehearsal dinner. Relax and
Back to the bachelor party. ❒
gifts are being exchanged.
Pick up wedding rings. Make sure
enjoy yourself.
These days, weekend getaways are a
common theme to many bachelor parties. they fit.
❒ Take care of business and legal
Congratulations!
Consider gifts that evoke memories of
that special weekend where you were the affairs (add bride’s name to insurance
guest of honor. policies and medical plans, make a

Go the more fanciful route.


new will, add her name to joint
checking account or joint charge You’re ready for a
For grooms whose wedding will be an
elegant affair, celebrate that elegance by ❒
cards).
If you have both agreed to a pre-nup- wonderful wedding day!
giving each of your groomsmen an tial agreement, have it drawn up and
engraved pocket watch. (MS) Source: The Beverly Clark Collection
signed.

January 2011 • Wedding Planner • 21


Wedding Budget Planner
Wedding parties Ceremony
Engagement party $ ______ Location fee $ ______
Bridesmaids’ lunch $ ______ Officiant fee $ ______
Rehearsal dinner $ ______ Marriage license $ ______
Out-of-town guests’ brunch $ ______ Decorations $ ______
Other $ ______ Program printing $ ______
TOTAL $ ______ Aisle runner $ ______
Correspondence Rings $ ______
Pillow $ ______
Stationery $ ______
Other $ ______
Invitations $ ______
TOTAL $ ______
Announcements $ ______
Thank-you cards $ ______ Music
At-home cards $ ______ Ceremony musicians $ ______
Stamps $ ______ Band/DJ $ ______
Other $ ______ Extra musicians $ ______
TOTAL $ ______ Other $ ______
Bridal attire TOTAL $ ______

Wedding dress $ ______ Flowers


Alterations $ ______ Ceremony arrangements $ ______
Headpiece and veil $ ______ Bride’s bouquet $ ______
Shoes $ ______ Groom’s boutonniere $ ______
Accessories $ ______ Bridesmaids’ bouquets $ ______
Jewelry $ ______ Corsages and boutonnieres $ ______
Dresses for other wedding parties $ ______ Flower girl/ringbearer $ ______
Undergarments $ ______ Reception centerpieces $ ______
Hair styling $ ______ Other $ ______
Manicure/pedicure $ ______ TOTAL $ ______
Cosmetics $ ______
Skin care $ ______ Photography/Videography
Other $ ______ Engagement portrait $ ______
TOTAL $ ______ Wedding and reception $ ______
Wedding album $ ______
Groom’s attire Parents’ albums $ ______
Tuxedo $ ______ Extra prints $ ______
Shoes $ ______ Videography $ ______
Cuff links $ ______ Other $ ______
Hair styling $ ______ TOTAL $ ______
Other $ ______
TOTAL $ ______

22 • Wedding Planner • January 2011


Wedding Budget Planner
Transportation Honeymoon
Limousines $ ____ Transportation $ ____
Buses/transport for guests $ ____ Accommodations $ ____
Parking $ ____ Food $ ____
Other $ ____ Clothing $ ____
TOTAL $ ____ Entertainment $ ____
Reception Other $ ____
TOTAL $ ____
Reception site fee $ ____
Decorations $ ____ Miscellaneous
Hors d’ oeuvres $ ____ Wedding consultant $ ____
Main meal $ ____ Guest favors $ ____
Wedding cake $ ____ Birdseed or confetti packets $ ____
Groom’s cake $ ____ Guest book and pen $ ____
Other dessert $ ____ Misc. fees and tips $ ____
Cake top $ ____ Other $ ____
Cake knife $ ____ TOTAL $ ____
Wine $ ____
Champagne $ ____
Other beverage $ ____ TOTAL WEDDING BUDGET $ ____
Toasting glasses $ ____

Notes
Place cards $ ____
Monogrammed napkins $ ____
Rental of tableware, tents, __________________________________
furniture, etc. $ ____
Tips and fees to food servers, __________________________________
doormen, coat check, valet, etc. $ ____
__________________________________
Other $ ____
TOTAL $ ____
__________________________________

Gifts __________________________________
Gifts to each other $ ____
Matron (maid) of honor $ ____ __________________________________
Best man $ ____
__________________________________
Bridesmaids/groomsmen $ ____
Parents $ ____ __________________________________
Other $ ____
TOTAL $ ____ __________________________________

January 2011 • Wedding Planner • 23


Ceremony Planner
Date __________________________Time______________ Address __________________________________________
Officiant(s)________________________________________ Contact____________________Phone# ______________
Officiant(s) Phone# ________________________________ Fee ______________________________________________
Location __________________________________________ Rehearsal Date__________________Time______________

Ceremony Music Selections: # of rows reserved __________# of people __________


________________________________________________ Pew 1 __________________ Pew 1 __________________
________________________________________________ Pew 2 __________________ Pew 2 __________________
________________________________________________ Pew 3 __________________ Pew 3 __________________
________________________________________________ Pew 4 __________________ Pew 4 __________________

Photography Videography
Photographer ____________________________________ Videographer ____________________________________
Address__________________________________________ Address__________________________________________
Email ____________________________________________ Email ____________________________________________
Contact____________________Phone# ______________ Contact____________________Phone# ______________
__________________________ __________________________
Number of Hours Booked __________________________ Number of Hours Booked __________________________
Package Package
Description ____________________ Price ____________ Description ____________________ Price ____________
Number of Photos to be taken ____ Number of hours Total Taping ______________________
Date Previews Will Be Ready ______________________ Date Finished Tape Will Be Ready __________________
Additional Reprints Costs __________________________ Cost of Additional Copies __________________________

Contacts & Important Phone Numbers Flowers


Florist __________________________________________
Bride’s attire Phone#__________________________________________
Bridal Shop ______________________________________ Address ________________________________________
Consultant ______________________________________ Contact ________________________________________
Fitting Date(s) ____________________________________
Address ________________________________________ Cake
Phone#__________________________________________ Bakery __________________________________________
PIck-Up Date ____________________________________ Phone#__________________________________________
Address ________________________________________
Contact ________________________________________
Groom’s attire
Tuxedo Store ____________________________________ Stationery
Consultant ______________________________________ Printer/Stationer __________________________________
Fitting Date(s) ____________________________________ Contact ________________________Phone# __________
Address ________________________________________ Address ________________________________________
Phone#__________________________________________ Order Date ________________ Date Ready__________
PIck-Up Date ____________________________________ #Ceremony Guests ______ #Reception Guests ______

24 • Wedding Planner • January 2011


Reception Planner
Date ____________________Time____________________ Location__________________________________________
Phone# __________________________________________ Address __________________________________________
Food Service Time ________________________________ Contact __________________________________________
Cost ____________________Deposit ________________ Cancellation Terms ________________________________

Does Facility Provide Dinner/Reception Music


Access for Decorating? ____________________________ Group/Band/DJ __________________________________
Dance Floor? ____________________________________ Contact __________________________________________
Security? ________________________________________ Phone# __________________________________________
Adequate Parking? ________________________________ Playing From ________________to __________________
Setup? ________________Cleanup? ________________
______________________ Need Early Set-up Time?____________________________
Servers? ________________How Many? ____________ Cost ____________________Deposit ________________
Bartenders? ______________How Many? ____________ Balance Due __________________When? ____________
Tables & Chairs? __________________________________
Handicap Access? ________________________________
Valet Parking? ____________________________________

Catering Planner
Caterer __________________________________________ Address __________________________________________
Phone# __________________________________________ ________________________________________________
Service Date ____________Time____________________ Contact __________________________________________
Reception Location ________________________________ Price ____________________________________________

Menu ____________________________________________________________________________________________
____________________________________________________________________________________________________
____________________________________________________________________________________________________
____________________________________________________________________________________________________

Liquor & Beverages Cost


Supplier__________________Contact ________________ Per Person ____________ X # of Guests ____________
Address __________________________________________ =Total $ __________________________________________

Phone# __________________Pick-up/Deliver __________ Does Cost Cover


Open Bar from ____________to ______________________ All Necessary Equipment? __________________________
Cash Bar from ____________to ______________________ China & Flatware? ________________________________
Champagne for Toast ______Wine(s) for Dinner________ Room Setup? ____________________________________
Taxes & Gratuity? __________________________________
Other Beverages ____________Cost ________________
Cake Cutting? ____________________________________

January 2011 • Wedding Planner • 25


Gift Registry
Store __________________________________________ Store __________________________________________
Address ________________________________________ Address ________________________________________
Phone# ________________________________________ Phone# ________________________________________

Dinnerware Formal Informal Stemware Formal Informal Flatware Formal Informal


Store __________ __________ Store __________ __________ Store __________ __________

Qty Qty Qty Qty Qty Qty


Dinner Plates ________ __________ Water Goblets ________ __________ Teaspoons ________ __________
Salads/Dessert Plates ________ __________ Wine Goblets ________ __________ Salad Forks ________ __________
Bread & Butter Plates ________ __________ Champagnes/Flutes ________ __________ Place Forks ________ __________
Cups & Saucers ________ __________ Juice Glasses ________ __________ Place Knives ________ __________
Soup Bowls ________ __________ Low Tumblers ________ __________ Place/Soup Spoons ________ __________
Serving Bowls ________ __________ High Tumblers ________ __________ Iced Tea Spoons ________ __________
Platters ________ __________ Butter Spreaders ________ __________

Serveware/Giftware Store Qty Table Linens Store Qty Serving Tablespoons


Pierced Tablespoons
________
________
__________
__________
Runner ____________ __________ Cold Metal Fork ________ __________
Salt & Pepper ____________ __________
Cloth ____________ __________ Butter Knife ________ __________
Gravy Boat ____________ __________
Napkins ____________ __________ Sugar Spoon ________ __________
Platter ____________ __________
Mats ____________ __________ Gravy Ladle ________ __________
Bread Tray ____________ __________
Napkin Rings ____________ __________ Cocktail Fork ________ __________
Serving Tray ____________ __________
Vegetable Dish ____________ __________ Casserole Spoon ________ __________
Covered Casserole
Chafing Dish
____________
____________
__________
__________
Cookware Store Qty Pastry Server
Hostess Set
________
________
__________
__________
Sauce Pans ____________ __________
Salad Bowl ____________ __________ Serve Set ________ __________
1 Qt. ____________ __________
Ind. Salad Bowls ____________ __________ Storage Chest ________ __________
2 Qt. ____________ __________
Salad Server ____________ __________ Silver Keepers ________ __________
3 Qt. ____________ __________
Butter Dish ____________ __________
4 Qt. ____________ __________
Relish Dish ____________ __________
Double Boiler ____________ __________ Kitchenware Store Qty
Chip n’ Dip ____________ __________
Skillets ____________ __________ Measuring Cups/Spoons ______________ ____________
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Small ____________ __________ Cutlery Set ____________ __________
Coffee/Tea Set ____________ __________
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Large ____________ __________ Nonstick Utensils ____________ __________
Punch Bowl Set ____________ __________
Dutch Oven ____________ __________ Colanders ____________ __________
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Roaster ____________ __________ Rolling Pin ____________ __________
Cordial Set ____________ __________
Stock Pot ____________ __________ Graters ____________ __________
Candlesticks ____________ __________
Pressure Cooker ____________ __________ Garlic Press ____________ __________
Place Plates ____________ __________
Tea Kettle ____________ __________ Ice-Cream Scoop ____________ __________
Coaster Set ____________ __________
Bowl Set ____________ __________ Timer ____________ __________
Vase ____________ __________
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Realize the wedding of your dreams with

PLANNING
T
here are a few things about weddings that cannot be pre- with at the studio will be the one shooting the wedding. Some com-
dicted or controlled, such as what Mother Nature will do on panies have several photographers on hand.

Book a band or DJ
the wedding day. However, there are many items that are
well within the control of the bride and groom. Proper plan-
ning can help ensure the wedding of their dreams.
Another vendor that tends to have a busy schedule will be the wed-
One of the best ways to ease wedding-day nerves is for the couple
ding entertainer. Early booking ensures your date will be available.
to get organized and begin planning their event the moment the
Couples should talk about musical selections and the ways to engage
engagement period begins. The earlier preparation starts, the better
the various generations attending the reception.
the chance that vendors will be able to provide what’s needed, or that
changes can be made when unforeseen events pop up.
By making a list of things to do, couples can allot time in their
schedules for each task, and they can feel a sense of accomplishment
Choose a florist
Flowers add an elegant touch to the wedding day. A florist will often
and relief each time an item is checked off the list. provide flowers for both the ceremony and the reception. Select a

Decide on a date
florist who offers helpful, creative ideas about bouquets, corsages and
centerpieces – and who will deliver in a timely manner.
Couples should select a date for their wedding soon after becoming
engaged. After all, it is the countdown to this day that will help organ-
ize and determine planning schedules.
Select and order dresses
Wedding and bridesmaid gowns can take several months to order and

Reserve a ceremony location


be tailored. It can also take some trial and error finding a dress shop
that meets the needs of a bride and her attendants. So it’s best if this
fun part of wedding planning is done early on. While there are no set
Traditional weddings take place in a house of worship. It’s best to
rules for gown selection, it may help if the bride and her attendants all
meet with a pastor, rabbi or other officiant to see if the ceremony site
use the same shop so that styles will be complementary and service
will be available for the wedding. This person will also help guide cou-
and alterations can be organized with minimal fuss.
ples through any religious requirements needed prior to getting mar-
ried there, as well as any rules and regulations for the ceremony site.
Order invitations
Book a reception site
After securing the ceremony location, couples will have peace of mind
With a bevy of styles of invitations, there will be many ideas to con-
sider. Couples should leave ample time to look through sample books
or do research on the Internet. They should decide on a style that best
knowing they can now book the place where their party will take place.
suits their wedding, based on its formality, the time of day and the
This may be a catering hall, hotel, cruise ship, or even someone’s
wedding colors.
backyard. Sometimes the ceremony site is also the reception site, as
is the case in many second weddings. Catering directors are typically
on hand to talk about pricing and options. They will work closely with
the couple to plan and execute the reception.
Choose transportation
Many couples forget to factor limousine or car rentals into their plans.

Select a photographer
Whether it’s a limo, Rolls, horse-drawn carriage, or a party bus, the
bride and groom should arrange for transportation for themselves and
their attendants to and from the church and reception.
Photographers tend to book very quickly, particularly if they are well
recommended. It pays to research and choose one early in the wed-
ding-planning process. Every
photographer has a different
Find formal wear
Tuxedo rentals are quite popular
style. The couple should select for weddings. If the wedding is
one who will not only be accom- taking place during a peak party
modating to their wishes, but season, such as prom time, it
who will also suggest ideas that pays for couples to reserve tuxes
may not have been considered, several months in advance. All of
such as artistic black and white the groomsmen should rent from
prints or photo journalism-type the same shop to be uniform.
images. The photographer’s per-
sonality is very important. He or With these decisions made, the
she will be spending the entire bride- and groom-to-be have only
day with the couple and should a few things left to do, such as
be likable and personable. selecting wedding favors,
Couples should also find out if Image Courtesy of Coenen Photography addressing invitations and pur-
the photographer they speak chasing thank-you gifts. –(MS)
28 • Wedding Planner • January 2011
hen two people decide to
Budgeting expenses
W get married, they’re not only
combining their posses-
sions, but they’re also
bringing together unique ideas about person-
al finance. These ideas may bring challenges
Even if each individual had a budget before
the marriage, the financial status of a spouse
will change the outlook. Although each person
may have their preferences on certain items,
talking through the best ways to pool
to the relationship and should be discussed resources and save money can be an effective
beforehand for the best start to the marriage. start to your life together.

Tips for couples


Planning ahead can build a strong finan-
cial foundation for a new marriage. Before a
couple becomes a family unit, each person
has his or her own way of saving and spend-
Estate planning
Just because a couple is relatively young

about to marry
ing, as well as their own approach to finances. and newly married doesn’t mean they should-
Additionally, one person may be bringing n’t begin planning for their future – including
more debt to the relationship than the other. a family – immediately. Couples should

FINANCES
How finances will be handled should be one explore the options on life and medical insur-
of the first conversations – even before a ance plans. Sitting down with a financial plan-
reception venue is booked or a wedding gown ner can help, and he or she may be able to
is chosen. spell out options in retirement savings or edu-
When joining finances, consider these fac- cation savings. It’s never too early to begin
tors: investigating these scenarios.

Bank accounts
Generally couples will find that a combination of joint and person-
Keep the lines of communication open
Money often makes or breaks a relationship. Having similar goals
al accounts makes finances easier. The joint account is used for regarding saving and spending is often the key to couples melding
monthly bills, housing expenses and things the couple does together. together. The best way to work through difficulties and avoid problems
Separate accounts can be used for discretionary spending, like vaca- concerning finances is always to talk through all of the options. Having
tion accounts, dabbling in investments or simply for splurging. This an open line of communication about money – and participating
enables each person to have an independent identity but also share equally in the household finances – can help bring about marital suc-
the responsibility of being a couple. cess. (MS)

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Creative, Budget-Friendly Tips For The Big Day
oday, more couples are looking

T beyond standard wedding pack-


ages and exploring customized,
do-it-yourself options. According
to The Wedding Report, couples spent 10 per-
cent less on their big day in 2009 as com-
pared to 2008, and spending from 2007 to
2009 fell by more than 30 percent.
By choosing handcrafted wedding touches
and forgoing pricey extras, creative couples
are mixing and matching a surprising combi-
nation of one-of-a-kind wedding elements to
create unique and personalized celebrations.
From the centerpiece display to the wed-
ding favors, more people are realizing that
personal touches can elevate that special day
from a cookie-cutter event to an intimately
beautiful affair.
Here are four fun and budget-friendly
ideas to create a wedding that is anything but
generic:

Snip and style. If funds are tight


but you want to have lots of flowers, enlist
your florist to put together some of the more
difficult floral pieces – such as the bride’s and
bridesmaids’ bouquets – but ask your wed-
ding party or family members to help create
some fun floral centerpieces. Purchase the
flowers in bulk from your florist – or cut them
from a relative’s flower garden if the season is
right – and create your own unique center- the family or vodka for the Russian side of the
pieces. family). Weddings provide the chance to cel-

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ebrate the special values and history of the
Pick and choose. To spend couple, through small details that personalize

FOR LESS
wisely, couples are also turning away from the event and make the setting more inti-
one-size-fits-all wedding packages and mate.
demanding more flexibility in the types of
wedding resources available. From mixing Capture and share. A profes-
and matching options such as guest stays, sional photographer should certainly be con-
reception celebrations and ceremony set- sidered for the most important portions of the
tings, couples can handpick amenities and wedding (ceremony, bridal party and family • Plan the wedding for an off-
services that fit their budget and wedding pictures, etc.); however, guests can also help
needs. capture the rest of the special moments. peak time of year, or for a day of
Before the big day, family and friends can be the week other than Saturday.
Eat and drink. Family and friends asked to bring their digital cameras to docu-
can also be offered an inside look at the pref- ment the memories, along with a few dispos- • Know someone who has a
erences, passions and experiences enjoyed able digital cameras on hand for individuals beautiful home or large garden?
by the happy couple. Wedding favors could who do not own or forget their cameras. A free
include a favorite chocolate or something online photo service prior to the wedding can Consider having the wedding
that symbolizes the couple’s life (such as provide the couple, the wedding party and there. Don’t forget to figure in the
local honey, jam or a unique trinket from their guests with the link to upload, download and cost of renting tables and chairs.
hometown). For the aperitif, wine could be share their photos after the special day.
poured from a vineyard the couple likes to Printing costs will be slashed in half and • Don’t forget the option of bor-
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have a vast selection of images to choose rowing! Many recently-married
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of the couple (paella for the Spanish side of from for their wedding scrapbooks. (NAPS) friends may have items you can
borrow to will cut costs.

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RESTAURANT SUPPLY 320-763-4800
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Alexandria • 320-762-8435 AMERICAN CLEANERS
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217 McKay Ave. • Alexandria
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MARKET BAKERY
320-762-2138 • Fax 320-762-5427 BRIDAL SHOWERS Midway Mall • Alexandria DIEKMAN’S JEWELRY
111 6th Ave. W • Alexandria
ARROWWOOD RESORT 320-762-1158
ALTERATIONS & CONFERENCE CENTER ROERS FAMILY BAKERY
320-762-0309
KARROW JEWELERS
2100 Arrowwood Ln. 430 Broadway • Alexandria
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630 Broadway • Alexandria 628 Broadway • 320-763-3334
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BROADWAY BALLROOM
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320-763-6565 BKB MOM’S HOME PAFFRATH DIAMOND
COOKING LLC JEWELERS
BALLOONS & DECORATING CARLOS CREEK WINERY
Co Rd 34, Just N of Alexandria 823 Cross Country Ln SW 410 30th Ave. E • Willow Creek
Alexandria • 320-762-8735
GEYER WEDDING 320-846-5443 Alexandria • 320-763-6942
& PARTY SERVICE www.carloscreekwinery.com BROADWAY BALLROOM DISC JOCKEY
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320-762-2138 • Fax 320-762-5427 EAGLES CLUB LIVEWIRE ENTERTAINMENT
526 N Nokomis • Alexandria 320-763-6565
Kent Kolstad • 320-815-1288
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301 30th Ave. W • Alexandria Nelson • 320-762-2416
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HERBY’S BAR & GRILL Forada • 320-763-4400 Wedding DJ for Your Special Day!
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cedarroseinn.com 320-763-6577 & PARTY STORE BROADWAY FLORAL
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sixthavenuewineandale.com 110 W Lake St. • Parkers Prairie 504 Broadway • Alexandria
218-338-6217 320-762-7292
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DIEKMAN’S JEWELRY
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320-763-5105 GEYER WEDDING Alexandria
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217 McKay Ave. • Alexandria Viking Plaza • 320-763-5833
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GOWNS & DRESSES HOTELS & MOTELS JEWELRY OUTDOOR CEREMONIES
BARB’S BRIDAL & ARROWWOOD RESORT BARB’S BRIDAL & ARROWWOOD RESORT
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108 1st St. SE • Little Falls 2100 Arrowwood Ln. 108 1st St. SE • Little Falls 2100 Arrowwood Ln.
320-632-5635 Alexandria • 320-762-1124 320-632-5635 Alexandria • 320-762-1124
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DIEKMAN’S JEWELRY
111 6th Ave. W • Alexandria
OUTDOOR WEDDING
520 Broadway • Alexandria 320-762-0309 DECORATING
320-762-5163
JACKIE J’S BALLOONS, GEYER WEDDING
BRIDAL & FORMAL WEAR & PARTY STORE
GROOM’S DINNERS 520 Broadway • Alexandria
320-762-5163
217 McKay Ave. • Alexandria
320-762-2138 • Fax 320-762-5427
ARROWWOOD RESORT
& CONFERENCE CENTER KARROW JEWELERS
2100 Arrowwood Ln. Alexandria
628 Broadway • 320-763-3334 PARTY SUPPLIES
Alexandria • 320-762-1124
Viking Plaza • 320-763-5833 CENTRAL LAKES
BROADWAY BALLROOM COUNTRY INN & SUITES RESTAURANT SUPPLY
115 30th Ave E • Alexandria 5304 Hwy 29 S • Alexandria PAFFRATH DIAMOND 1228 N Nokomis • Alexandria
320-763-6565 320-763-9900 JEWELERS 320-762-8435
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Co Rd 34, Just N of Alexandria HAMPTON INN & SUITES & PARTY STORE
320-846-5443
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320-762-2138 • Fax 320-762-5427
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410 30th Ave. E • Willow Creek ARROWWOOD RESORT
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Salon LaBelle 111 6th Ave. W • Alexandria
410 30th Ave. E. • Alexandria 320-762-0309
320-759-5660
KARROW JEWELERS
HOTELS & MOTELS Alexandria
628 Broadway • 320-763-3334
AMERICINN Viking Plaza • 320-763-5833
4520 Hwy. 29 S • Alexandria PAFFRATH DIAMOND
320-763-6808 • 800-634-3444 JEWELERS
410 30th Ave. E • Willow Creek
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RECEPTIONS & DANCES SPA TANNING TRAVEL AGENCIES
BROADWAY BALLROOM ALLURE TAN ALLURE TAN ALEX TRAVEL/UTOPIA TOURS
115 30th Ave E • Alexandria 3211 Hwy. 29 S • Alexandria 3211 Hwy. 29 S • Alexandria Viking Plaza Mall, Suite 4038
320-763-6565 320-762-4057 320-762-4057 Alexandria • 320-762-0244
800-950-8690
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Co Rd 34, Just N of Alexandria TABLE DÉCOR
320-846-5443
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ALLURE TAN
3211 Hwy. 29 S • Alexandria
TUXEDOS
RESTAURANT SUPPLY 320-762-4057 BARB’S BRIDAL &
CORRAL SUPPERCLUB 1228 N Nokomis • Alexandria WEDDING SERVICES
Nelson • 320-762-2416 320-762-8435 108 1st St. SE • Little Falls
EAGLES CLUB DOLLAR DISTRICT
TENTS & CANOPIES 320-632-5635
526 N Nokomis • Alexandria www.barbsbridal.com
320-763-3063
301 30th Ave. W • Alexandria GEYER WEDDING
320-759-1192 & PARTY STORE JACKIE J’S BALLOONS,
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Forada • 320-763-4400 VIEW THIS GUIDE ONLINE 320-762-2138 • Fax 320-762-5427 520 Broadway •Alexandria
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211 Main Ave. • Downtown RANDY’S MENS WEAR
Carlos • 320-852-7170 630 Broadway • Alexandria
320-762-2475
HOLIDAY INN OF ALEXANDRIA
Hwy. 29 & I-94 • 320-763-6577
SIXTH AVENUE VEILS & HEADPIECES
WINE & ALE BARB’S BRIDAL &
115 6th Ave. E • Alexandria WEDDING SERVICES
320-759-2277 108 1st St. SE • Little Falls
sixthavenuewineandale.com 320-632-5635
V.F.W. www.barbsbridal.com
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ith all the work that goes ing the summer months, when tourist season

W into planning a wedding, it


can be easy for couples to
overlook their own honey-
moons. But in the middle of all those seating
arrangements and reception hall negotia-
is in full swing. Couples who can put off their
honeymoon until the off-season will find their
dream honeymoon is much more affordable.
• Start early. The earlier couples begin to
research destinations, the better feel they will
have for what they can and can’t afford. But
tions, couples also need to plan and look for- don’t book any flights or make any reserva-
ward to the rest and relaxation that awaits tions too far in advance. The best deals are
once the wedding has come and gone. often available a few months before the trip.
Couples can take the following advice to • Spread the news that you’re newlyweds.
ensure their getaway goes off without a hitch. Hotels love hosting newlyweds, and many will
• Be budget-conscious. After all the stress upgrade rooms for recently married guests.
of planning and paying for the wedding, cou- Couples should not be too brash about it,
ples will likely just enjoy the time away. Take though, as fully booked hotels won’t be able
this into consideration when planning a hon- to upgrade their guests.
eymoon. If a dream trip isn’t in the budget, • Think outside the box. When asked about
don’t fret. A less expensive getaway is still a a dream honeymoon, couples will often bring
getaway, and couples will enjoy their well- up Hawaii or even Paris. While those are
deserved break no matter where it is. beautiful places, they’re also expensive.
• Plan an off-season honeymoon. That Fortunately, there are a bevy of locales that
dream honeymoon might be affordable after aren’t nearly as pricey, but will still make for
all, if couples can wait until it’s not the height a honeymoon getaway that won’t soon be for-
of tourist season. Most weddings occur dur- gotten. (MS)

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Most Popular Honeymoon & Vacation Destinations
For many couples a honeymoon is just as • Mexico: With close proximity to the
important as the wedding ceremony. These United States, the tropical resorts of Mexico
couples seek the best in a vacation destina- entice many honeymooners each year.
tion – and understandably so after surviving • Jamaica: What better way to spend a
the stress of planning a wedding. honeymoon than on the laid-back tropical
Here are some of the top spots for honey- island of Jamaica?
moon destinations. • France: True romantics may desire
• Hawaii: This group of islands consis- honeymooning in the city of romance: Paris.
tently ranks as one of the most popular hon- With spectacular sights, fine cuisine and many
eymoon destinations. Once outside the tourist historical points of interest, France is often a
areas, there are plenty of places for serene top destination for couples.
reflection and one-to-one privacy. With its • Bermuda: This island is a British ter-
mountainous landscape, beautiful foliage and ritory in North American waters. Bermuda’s
awe-inspiring ocean, the islands of Hawaii can nearest land mass is Cape Hatteras, N.C.
be the perfect locale for honeymoon bliss. Bermuda has a very affluent economy, with
• Italy: Italy is the perfect marriage of finance as its largest sector, followed by
Old World charm and modern conveniences. tourism. It is a popular cruise ship port of call.
Honeymooners can pick from retreats in the Sandy white beaches and close proximity to
country to cliffside resorts. the U.S. make it a favorite for honeymoons.
• St. Lucia: St. Lucia is one of the • U.S. Virgin Islands: If you want
Caribbean’s most lush islands. Picturesque a tropical honeymoon getaway without the
plantations and lapping waters are just some hassle of passport travel, consider the islands
of the attractions of this island paradise. of St. Thomas, St. John and St. Croix. It is sur-
• Tahiti: There’s something quite allur- rounded by pristine waters and spectacular
ing about this South Pacific locale. Tahiti tow- ocean life, so honeymooners who want fun in
ers over the ocean with mountainous ridges the sun need not look any further.
but also lush, tropical areas. Tahiti is known for • South Africa: Experience awe-
fine dining and plenty of water-based activi- inspiring wildlife on safari or modern cities and
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Beautiful Wedding Day Tresses
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the planning process doesn’t start a week before the wedding, either.

Start early
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around for a stylist that you’ll stick with through your wedding day. You want to
make sure this person is in consistent charge of your look, tailoring haircuts and
coloring appointments toward the end goal.

Set a schedule
Certain hair tasks should occur at specific times. For example, your final color
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just been snipped. You’ll want haircuts at regular intervals, even if you’re growing
your hair out for the wedding, to make sure it looks healthy.

Do your research
Browse through magazines and make a look book of styles you like. Discuss with
your stylist if they will complement your facial structure, style, hair type, and wed-
ding gown. Talk about the venue and what will be expected of your hair. If you’ll
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Have a hair rehearsal
Schedule a rehearsal of your wedding day hairdo with your stylist after you
come up with a look that’s agreed upon. Not only will this help your stylist Weddings
by the Numbers
get his or her technique down pat, it’ll
enable both of you to fine tune what works
and what doesn’t. You can also get a feel
for your hair so there won’t be any surpris-
es once you are ready to walk down the Think you know weddings?
aisle. Make sure to bring your veil with you Here are some common statistics.
and make-up your face so you’ll get an
accurate view of the finished product. Take
pictures from all angles to ensure that
25: The average age of a first-time bride.
you’re happy with the look from every direc- 175: Average number of guests invited to a wedding.
tion. Remember, you’ll be photographed 75: Percentage of brides who will receive a diamond
coming and going, in action and at rest, engagement ring.
during the wedding. 2.4: Number, in millions, of weddings performed in
the U.S. each year.
Pack reinforcements 16: Average number of months for an American
Some brides opt to invite their stylist to the
engagement.
reception hall for a few touch-ups between
venues. If this isn’t an option, ask what 15: Percentage of weddings that include ethnic
products to bring along and how you can customs.
repair any minor flyaways, etc. 12: Average size of the wedding party.
80: Percentage of weddings performed in a church
Put it in perspective or synagogue.
Remember, just like everything that you’re 64: Percentage of couples living together before
planning for your wedding, while you hope things go on without a hitch, there
marriage.
may be some snags along the way. Remain calm and go with the flow. Guests
are more apt to remember the joyous tone of the day rather than minute 10.2: Percentage of weddings taking place in August,
details that could frazzle you – like an errant bobby pin or a pull in your second only to June as the most popular month.
stockings. (MS) 4,000: Dollars spent on the average honeymoon. (MS)

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Wedding Day
Transportation
Options Abound
ouples have many deci- tures. Plus, it’s traditionally the respon-

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tion to and from the special event.
sibility of the groom to arrange trans-
portation to and from the ceremony,
reception and the hotel or honeymoon
destination.
Grooms responsible for arranging
transportation can consider the follow-
There are many options in wedding ing options.
transportation. The more traditional
options include renting a car or limou- Limousine: A limo is one of the
sine. The Bridal Association of America most traditional methods of transport
reports that the average couple spends on a couple’s wedding day. A limou-
$400 to $500 for an automotive sine’s size enables it to carry the bridal
rental. However, prices may vary party in its entirety. Because the bride
depending on geography and the type and groom often do not see each other
of vehicle rented. before the ceremony, two limos may be
Wedding transportation is perhaps rented, one larger for the bridal party,
something grooms-to-be can get excit- and one smaller for the bride and her
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Classic car: Sports car enthusi- Motorcycle: Couples looking for
asts may want to make an entrance – and excitement may want to ride off into the
exit – behind the wheel of a sporty vehicle. sunset on the back of a roadster or sports
These can include a high-end Ferrari or an bike.
Aston Martin. Because of their high pur-
chase price, sports car rentals may carry a Horses: Horses can haul more than
premium price. just a carriage. A bride and groom atop a
handsome steed can make for a memo-
Stretch SUV: The traditional limo rable wedding transportation option and
has morphed into the stretch SUV. equally memorable photos.
Because of their popularity, these rentals
may be snatched up quickly. Be sure to Boat: Individuals getting married by
book well in advance of the big day. the sea or another body of water may want
to consider attending the festivities via
Party Bus: Many couples are lean- boat, be it a large vessel or a more inti-
ing toward a party bus rental, which may mate canoe or rowboat.
be a single- or double-decker bus that can
fit scores of people inside. These are par- Wedding day transportation varies
ticularly attractive to couples with a very depending on each couple’s preference.
large bridal party, or those who hope to Here are some other things to keep in
begin the celebration even before reaching mind concerning transportation.
the reception hall. • Be sure to have transportation options
ready for guests who may have over-
Horse-drawn carriage: Some indulged on alcoholic beverages.
couples truly want the fairytale feel on • Wedding party participants who arrived
their wedding day. A horse-drawn carriage at the wedding by a limo or other source
can evoke feelings of a Cinderella-type will need a ride home somehow.
day. The carriage tends to be best suited to • Find out if a hotel nearby offers com-
warm weather. For winter weddings, a plementary transportation to and from the
horse-drawn sleigh might make a better reception hall. (MS)
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Develop a wedding
floral plan
eading up to their big day, couples the rest, though not significantly so.

L have lots to worry about before


they finally get to walk down the
aisle as man and wife. Planning a
wedding is no small task, as even the most
minor details must be accounted for.
• Boutonnieres for groomsmen and ushers.
The guy’s side of the wedding also needs to
be part in the floral plan. Worn in a button-
hole or lapel, a boutonniere should be on the
left lapel and match a flower from the brides-
maids’ bouquet. The groom should also wear
Such is the case with the floral arrange- a boutonniere, though his should match a
ments, particularly when it comes to the flower from the bride’s bouquet. When wear-
more individual aspects of a floral plan. For ing boutonnieres, men should not wear addi-
instance, the following components must be tional accessories such as pocket squares.
considered: • Flowers for special guests. Certain spe-
• The bridal bouquet. It’s tradition for cial guests, such as grandmothers and moth-
bridal bouquets to contain white or cream- ers, should receive corsages. While the cor-
colored flowers such as stephanotis, roses, sages do not need to be identical, they
orchids, or lilies. Many bridal bouquets also should match the bridesmaids’ bouquets. It’s
include fillers like baby’s breath, some green best to consult with a florist for a corsage
or ivy and ribbons or additional accessories. color that matches all dresses, as typically
• Bouquets for attendants. Attendants’ the corsages must be ordered before the
bouquets should be identical, and it’s best to bride and groom know what their mothers,
coordinate these bouquets with the atten- grandmothers and other special guests will
dants’ gowns. Only the maid of honor tradi- be wearing. A corsage that goes with any-
tionally receives a slightly different bouquet, thing, therefore, is ideal. - (MS)
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