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MY LIFE NOW
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 Message from the Editor
Janelle Breese Biagioni

Seasons Greetings!
In the next few months, given Premier Gordon This issue also brings information about the
Campbell’s resignation, British Columbians will be continued good work of the Maple Ridge Brain
hearing a great deal about politics. Regardless of Injury Support Group and the Victoria Brain Injury
one’s choice of political party, or what any of our Society.
personal opinions about Mr. Campbell are, every
Finally, we are weeks away from the holidays. This
one of us has this responsibility… we need to keep
time of year can be extremely stressful financially,
spreading the word about the good work that is
emotionally, and physically. It is my hope that you
being done in the brain injury community and show
find ways to reduce stress and be conscious of
politicians how investing into services, supports and
pacing yourself, be aware of your expectations, and
resources for brain injury survivors is an excellent
incorporate some fun into your life every day.
return on tax payer dollars. Every association and
support group in this province knows someone From our house to yours… we wish you a safe and
who has exceeded medical expectations and is an joyous holiday season!
inspiration in their community… call them up and
ask for a story that you can share with your local
MLA and start writing letters. We can continue to
make a difference in those living with the outcome
of a brain injury; however, it does require they have
access to programs and services and that requires
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Helene Levasseur Charron
Twenty-one years ago, Helene Levasseur Charron
had an incredible career as a Trade and Consumer
Show Manager. She specialized in sales and mar-
keting, and enjoyed planning events in places such
as the Vancouver Trade and Convention Center and
BC Place Stadium.
relax and enjoy a day of golfing, Helene’s life took
a bizarre twist. The golf cart she was riding broke
down. It rolled backwards and sent her careening
off the side of a mountain. She spent three weeks in
a coma following the crash
out of the coma, she no longer spoke her native
language. In fact, when her mother visited her in the
hospital and spoke to her in French, Helene asked
that she please speak in English. Helene reports
that her English was not very good; nonetheless,
she no longer could speak or understand French.
Helene remained in the hospital for three months
and remembers how scattered her thoughts were
and how unpredictable her emotions were. “I would
just start laughing and then crying… one to the
other.”
Helene also lost her senses of taste and smell.
“They are still gone,” she states. “I was extremely
fatigued and I lost my ability to focus and concen-
trate. My balance, vision and hearing were also
temporarily impaired and I lost my common sense.”
In essence, Helene had lost any filters that would
help her determine what was or was not appropri-
ate to share with others. Helene was no longer able
to play the guitar or even sing the songs that she
had written. “I have since been able to relearn to
play the guitar and I do sing as well; however, I can’t
remember the words to the songs… I can sing the
tune, but I can’t sing the words from memory.”
When reflecting on the early days of her recovery,
Helene shared that she made one of the biggest de-
cisions of her life during that time. She reconnected
with her childhood friend when he came to visit her
four months after the accident. He asked her to
marry him. Her response was simply, “Okee dokee.”
They married ten months later. “We just celebrated
our 20th wedding anniversary,” she happily chimes.
“It’s simply amazing, but we are still together!”
Helene is the organizer of Holy Wow Poets and a
member of the Maple Ridge Brain Injury Group.
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 Maple Ridge Brain Injury Support Group
Maple Ridge and neighbouring Pitt Meadows oc- often surprised and relieved to find that others have
cupy the northeast corner of Metro Vancouver. gone through what they are going through, and can
Bordered by rivers and mountains, the area has take hope and inspiration from the example of oth-
been somewhat isolated from the rest of Metro Van- ers.
couver and has retained much of its rural charm.
Our group is grateful to the many people and agen-
Growth has been rapid in recent years, though,
cies who have lent us a hand. To mention a few:
and the two communities together will soon be
the Maple Ridge Family Education & Support Cen-
approaching 100,000 residents. With new bridges
tre has donated our comfortable meeting space,
over the Pitt and Fraser rivers, access to the region
ICBC has provided funding and referrals, and the
has improved. For those relying on transit, howev-
Fraser Valley Brain Injury Association hosted us for
er, it is still a long journey to reach the facilities and
Christmas dinner and has kindly helped out in other
services not available locally.
ways.
The Maple Ridge Brain Injury Support Group has
As the Maple Ridge/Pitt Meadows region continues
been meeting monthly at various locations in Maple
to grow, we are hopeful more services will be estab-
Ridge for about the past 15 years. It is a self help,
lished locally in support of ABI survivors.
peer support group for adult survivors of acquired
brain injury and their families. The purposes of the If you would like more information about the Maple
group are to provide opportunities for socialisa- Ridge Brain Injury Support Group, please contact:
tion, peer support, education, and referral to other Maple Ridge Brain Injury Support Group
resources. Some members of the group attend reg- PO Box 52507 RPO Coquitlam Centre
Coquitlam, BC V3B 7J4
ularly and meet for activities outside the group, oth-
Tel.: 604 944-9030
ers attend from time to time, and some just come
once or twice to receive information about ABI and
other resources. In addition to monthly meetings,
the group has occasional special events such as
bowling, barbeques, and trips to brain injury confer-
ences. We have been fortunate to have a variety of
You’re in Good Hands.
Our goal is to assist our clients by obtaining
volunteer guest speakers attend the group. These
funding for all of their immediate needs
have included various healthcare and rehabilitation in order to maximize their potential for
practitioners, as well as representatives from local recovery, while we proceed toward
recreational, educational, and religious facilities. obtaining settlement or judgment that
allows a sustainable and encouraging
The greatest resource of the group is, of course, new future.

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Greg’s Diary Entries
Selected from twelve years of post-head injury diary
entries, this eclectic collection gives a glimpse into the
thoughtful post head injured mind at work. From star-
tling honesty to lighthearted opinion, be inspired by this
thoughtful gift.
Among old cardboard boxes that obstructed my clean-
ing frenzy this winter, I was surprised to find my diary
that included several entries I made during my years of
traumatic head injury rehabilitation and recovery. After
reading some of the more memorable entries out loud,
I was convinced this was something other head injury
survivors could take part in and hopefully be inspired by.
Being uncertain about where my life was going at the
time, it is comforting to look back on who I was. My
story is not the whole story, only what I remember. I have
decided to begin this series of diary excerpts starting
with an entry from my wife at the time of the accident.
The included excerpt is her first one entered the day of
the accident, June 1, 1998. These entries now provide
me with a forum to share thoughts and experiences with
other head injury survivors.
June 1/1998
After returning from the concourse of my office build-
ing with my coffee and my muffin to start my Monday
morning, I received a phone call from Greg’s highschool
principal, Derek Kirkland, asking me if Greg was home
sick. It was 9:30am and Greg should have arrived at work
over an hour earlier. I knew immediately that something
was wrong. Greg is never late for anything especially
work. As I hung up the phone another call appeared on
my display, this one from the Ontario Provincial police.
I answered in a soft voice, unsure of what was about to
unfold; I had a feeling the situation was bad. The officer
immediately asked if there was someone else with me that
he could speak to. All he would tell me was that there had
been an accident involving my husband. My co-worker,
Leanne, took the phone from my shaking hand; the of-
ficer would not confirm whether Greg was going to make it
or not. While Leanne spoke to the police officer, I searched
my day timer to find my father-in-law Norman’s phone
number at his dental office. Cathy, my mother-in-law
and Norman’s hygenist, answered in a cheery voice and I
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told them to promise to go to Sunnybrook Medical Centre,
that Greg had been involved in a very serious car accident.
The cab ride to Sunnybrook seemed to take hours. All
I could think about was the fight that Greg and I had
had the previous Monday night, and the awful words we
exchanged. I felt sick. How could I have said such horrible
things to the person I loved so much? Was I being punished
for taking this wonderful man for granted? I felt com-
pletely numb looking out the cab’s window, and prayed
to God for everything to be okay. I felt guilty for asking
God’s help- I seemed to pray only when I needed some-
thing, never to give thanks for all the wonderful things I
already had in my life. Leanne accompanied me on the
cab ride and along the way explained what the officer told
her regarding the accident. We entered the ER knowing that
a transport truck had hit Greg’s car and that he was in the
process of being airlifted to Sunnybrook.
Norman and Cathy met me in the small waiting room
designated for family and friends. Not being a religous
person, I found the presence of the Chaplain foreboding a
possible sign of Greg’s ultimate fate. The rest of our family
arrived in a state of shock and I could see the pain in their
faces; they would not break down, though determined to
stay strong and hopeful. As for me, I could not help seeing
myself reading a eulogy, remembering my husband the
way he was when I had fallen in love with him.
After coming out of a three day coma and now facing the
challenge of dealing with the many physical and commu-
nication problems of a frontal lobe injury, it was time to
move on to my next stage of recovery.
July 2/1998
I listen intently as my brother tells me the story of when
he did something that he had not done in years, “I cried”,
he told me when describing the pivitol day in my recovery
when he was informed that I was leaving Sunnybrook
Hospital’s Intensive Care Unit for The Toronto Rehabilita-
tion Unit in downtown. Toronto
Sitting upright in my hospital bed, I remember shouting,
“I am going to get better, I will be tough and beat this, I am
leaving Sunnybrook. I am leaving Sunnybrook.” It is
then that my brother Leslie told me that tears of joy were
streaking down from his face.
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When my grandfather was diagnosed with cancer, ironi-
cally he occupied the same room that I was in at Sunny-
brook. Referred to as the glass room, specifically used to
insure privacy for patients’, we were both lucky enough to
eventually leave. I left to continue with my recovery. My
desperately ill grandfather, whom I called Ju-Ju (short
for Junior) left for Branson hospital to pass away peace-
fully and leave discomfort behind. He must have left a little
magic dust in that glass room for me.
Downstairs and at the back of Sunnybrook awaited an
inviting ambulance that would escort my brother and I to
The Toronto Rehabilitation Institute-I would be the only
one staying.
“The ride was very uneventful and quiet”, my brother ex-
plained. “As a matter of fact, you just looked out the back
window. I think you were excited about moving forward.”
After arriving in my room at the rehab centre, I remember
being very tired and then closing my eyes. I was going
to escape from this place for a while, via the dream. For
this to happen, I would decide on one of three places that I
would let my subconscious take me, if it still had the abil-
ity to do so.
I would escape to the waterfront in Bronte, Ontario where
I would enjoy thick hamburgers with ketchup and fried
onions followed by mint chocolate chip ice cream with
my new love (not sure who that will be yet). Or perhaps,
the zoo in High Park near Toronto’s west end where I loved
laughing at the knot haired animals is where I would go.
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Perhaps, I would choose a venture to Woodbine Racetrack
with a soft vanilla scented mini cigar nudged between my
lips and a hot coffee with two creams nestled between my
jean covered legs. Oh, I would shout with excitement watch-
ing the majestic thoroughbred racehorses from the track’s
third level as they thundered down the stretch.
My inner voice would say to me, “You’ve got to concen-
trate so hard on one of these places that you can visualize
almost every important detail to yourself.” Then I would
plead with my injured head to take me there, if only for a
short while. When I woke up and if I could remember my
well planned dream, I was able to handle what the reha-
bilitation institute would demand of me. A full schedule
of physical and cognitive therapy was awaiting me. I am
sure that the rehabilitation exercises would make my body
tired and demand more sleep. Another chance to visit a
favorite destination was looked forward to.
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Editor’s Note:
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four issues of 2011. We are confident you will find his writ-
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 THE VICTORIA BRAIN INJURY SOCIETY
HAS NEW DIGS!
D & E 830 Pembroke Street, Victoria, B.C. V8T 1H9
(250) 598-9339
The Victoria Brain Injury Society (VBIS) moved into
its new facility on August 3rd, 2010. The society
has often dreamt of having a newer, bigger and
brighter space. A bottle crushing plant was about
to move next door, which gave us the motivation we
needed to realize our dream. Bottle crushing plants
and survivors of brain injury, with noise sensitivity,
would not make great neighbours! We were for-
tunate, that our hard working board raised special
funds enabling us to afford a nicer place.
Our new offices are colourful and bright with a
lovely little kitchenette off of our drop in room.
Having more space, we are able to provide all staff
members with their own offices and some extra
room for additional staff in the future. We also have
another group room for small group activities. This
means we can implement even more of our great
ideas for new programs. The programs we now of-
fer are: Case Management, Peer Support, ABI 101,
Coping Skills, Personal Enhancement, Creative Arts,
Recreation, Family Support Services (individual and
group) at VBIS and at Victoria General Hospital.
Another bonus to our move is that we are in a loca-
tion that is more accessible for our members. We
are close to downtown, the Crystal Pool Recreation
Centre, a park and major bus routes. Comments
from our members have been: “Love it – it’s bright
yet soothing. I feel safer here. It’s warm and wel-
coming”.
Moving can be stressful and change difficult. There
is always loss and sadness when you leave a place
that holds so many memories. We have been
cognizant that the difficulty of these emotions can
be even greater for our survivors who have already
experienced so much change in their lives. But we
also know that change is part of life and “If noth-
ing ever changed, there’d be no butterflies.” (author
unknown)
We invite all former and new members to come and
check us out. We are open from Monday to Thurs-
day from 10:00 until 3:00.
Carmen Burnay, Director of Client Services,Victoria
Brain Injury Society.
How Do You Rah…Rah…Rah…
When You Feel
Blah…Blah…Blah?
~Janelle Breese Biagioni
Everyone is entitled to have a bad
day. However, what happens
when your job involves motivating
a client and you could care less if
you got out of bed that morning?
Unfortunately, unless your ill, in
which case you shouldn’t go to
work anyway, you simply have to find a way to “park
it” at the door. You need to make a major attitude
adjustment before entering the workspace with your
client. Here are some things you can do that may
help you to feel better:
• Vent with a friend or supporter before going to
work
• Boost your energy (i.e. a brisk walk, jogging,
deep breathing, yoga etc.)
• Journal how you are feeling
If a situation in the workplace is causing you stress
or affecting your attitude, then debrief with a supe-
rior or seek out a colleague who is willing to let you
work through your feelings and/or offer you feed-
back to help improve the situation. If the problem
is outside of work (i.e. relationship issues at home)
then consider working with a counselor. Sometimes
talking with a professional is all it takes to gain a
new perspective.
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 My Life Now
Jamie Chubaty
Heel toe, heel toe, heel toe…...These are not the
words that most people wake to say to themselves
as they stumble down the hall to the kitchen every
morning. But they are the words I repeat to myself
daily while struggling to put one foot in front of the
other attempting to perform one of the first whole
body coordination movements we develop as a
child… the walk. Yet I am not a child, I am an adult.
That is my life NOW.
I am Jamie Chubaty, and I am 46 years old adult.
As a child I was diagnosed with ADHD (Attention
Deficient Hyperactivity Disorder), and continue to
live with it today as an adult. In my past I have been
dealt with the reality that I am an alcoholic, and
drug addict. Since understanding the reality of my
addictions, however, I am proud of the hard-earned
14 years I have maintained a clean and sober life-
style. That is my life NOW.
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I may have had an eventful youth, but nothing was
more life changing than the day I was in a motor
cycle accident; March 30, 2007. As a result of the
accident I was unconscious and then induced into
a coma. After waking up from the coma, it wasn’t
until the end of June when I started to attempt
standing and walking a few feet with parallel bars.
It was a magical time for me in the first few days of
July of 2007, as I was finally able to walk my goal of
50 meters. I was discharged from Royal Columbian
Hospital on April 26, and admitted to Ridge Mead-
ows Hospital for additional convalescent care until
I was finally independent enough to start rehabilita-
tion and thus transferred to Eagle Ridge Hospital for
their inpatient Rehabilitation Program. I was finally
released to go home and start outpatient physio-
therapy, Community Occupational Therapy, and
Speech Therapy on September 7, 2007, this was
a great day! In overall, due to the multiple injuries
I sustained, I endured several surgeries to aid with
the repair of a fractured pelvis, wrist, sternum, facial
bones, tracheotomy, and cranium. As a result of the
accident, I have had many injuries, but the worst of
them all was the extensive head injury I acquired.
I AM a head trauma SURVIVOR, and the conse-
quences of the trauma I will have to deal with every
day from now on. That is my life NOW.
After spending over 6 months in the hospital, I still
continue to work on living with pain, stiffness, and
residual nerve damage. I continue to challenge
myself with improving the remaining difficulties that
I have with word retrieval, attention span, concen-
tration, standing without support, balance, walking,
stability, memory, and many other basic physical
movements. One of the most frustrating aspects
is that everything that I try to do takes a significant
amount of time longer than it used to before the ac-
cident. I get confused about why I just simply can’t
do what I used to do. I am limited. That is my life
NOW.
This accident may have dealt me a tough hand
in terms of the physical aspects changed to my
body and the way it moves and functions, but the
emotional ramifications to acquiring a severe head
injury is the most difficult part of all. The way my
brain thinks, reacts, and computes is different now,
which is emotionally frustrating. It has been difficult
to express my thoughts, say what I think and want
to say…but most of all it has been really difficult
understanding I can’t simply do what I think I should
be able to do, like I did before the accident. That is
my life NOW.
Everyday I wake up, but it is my personal motiva-
tion that makes me get up! I have to push myself
everyday to continue, and I am so thankful I do, as I
have seen the difference perseverance makes. I am
now able to: attend active rehabilitation in the gym,
pool, and community; attend occupational therapy,
attend speech therapy, attend the food bank as a
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community volunteer, and finally I have begun to ac-
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In the next few years I hope to be able to walk each
of my 3 dogs, and help with the community brain
injury survivor support group, speak about my
experiences as a brain trauma survivor in order to
help others struggling with motivation. In overall, it
is my belief in myself, my personal motivation, and
supports from my friends, family and most of all- my
wife, Laurie, that together make each day worth liv-
ing and working for. The 12 steps of recovery I have
learned over the past 14 years of sobriety have also
helped me everyday since my accident to live day
to day being thankful for the blessings provided to
me. That is my life NOW.
I would like to specially thank those who have
helped me in my journey to recovery. I would like
to thank all the staff at each hospital and clinic who
have helped me get to where I am today. I would
also especially like to thank those who I still work
with weekly, Sandi Caverly, Nikki (Jensen) Sloboda,
Dan Carlson, and Keith Saunders, and my inspira-
tion to rehabilitation, Mike Coss. I have been gifted
in this life, to get the chance to live again, and I will
live thankfully each and every day. That is my life
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 This Time Let Kindness be Your Specialty
Larissa Szlavik
We are all guilty of making assumptions about
people we don’t know, it’s in our nature, a defense
mechanism if you will. It’s important to be mindful
of those you ought to be wary of; however, we are
often too quick to judge. Over the years of working
with people with brain injuries I have learned that
appearances and demeanor are very deceiving.
I have known many remarkable people with kind
souls who are greeted with hesitation and given so-
ciety’s cold shoulder because people assume that
they are drunks, druggies, or thieves. It’s because
their clothes are tattered, their speech slurred, and
their movements shaky. It is all too easy to jump
to conclusions and misinterpret the symptoms of
a brain injury, mental illness, or the side effects of
serious pain killers.
Last week I was walking around Pandora and Cook,
near the Conservatory, where many of Victoria’s
homeless crack-heads congregate. Only those un-
familiar with the area don’t expect to be stopped for
spare change in this part of town. A man approach-
ing me had the familiar walk and I was sure he was
a brain injury survivor. I even thought to myself how
he was probably a good man with a big heart, and
what a shame that most people would succumb
to their judgments and avoid his gaze. When he
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started with a question, his slurred speech was dif-
ficult to follow, and automatically my mind filled in
the blanks ... he was asking for change, I was sure.
Then the words “London Drugs” stood out. His in-
tentions were not to swindle me for money; he was
in need of directions. With an open heart, I stopped,
made eye contact, smiled and told him exactly how
to get there. Thank goodness I caught those words,
otherwise I would have shaken my head at the man
while muttering “sorry, no change” and walked on
by.
It’s an awful feeling being the last one picked on
a team, missing out on an invitation or finding you
were the only one who didn’t receive a valentine.
Probably my worst nightmare would be to be
completely ignored. Imagine waking up after having
a stroke, a different person than you were before.
Somehow you don’t have the same sort of authority
over your limbs you once did, and you are surprised
at the slurred speech that comes out of your now
clumsy mouth. What would it feel like if people
didn’t take the time to carefully listen to you as you
struggle to articulate a simple question, or request?
If people were afraid to walk too close because
they thought your stagger and the shirt you couldn’t
button up properly were warning signs? Have you
ever had that dream where you open your mouth to
scream and are let down by the absence of sound?
Some people live this every day.
It’s only natural to make assumptions, and there’s
nothing wrong with treating strangers with caution.
After all, if you don’t look out for yourself, then who
will? But it certainly won’t endanger you to keep an
open heart, and conceal your suspicions with tact.
It was this quote from Abdu’l Baha that lived in my
wallet for several years: “May your heart burn with
loving kindness for all who may cross your path”.
Each day I adopt this as a mantra and attempt to at
least make eye contact and share a smile with every
stranger I pass. Many reject this warm expression
by awkwardly sending their gaze in the opposite
direction. Every so often, however, there is some-
one whose face brightens, and with strong sincerity
says “Thank you for the smile”. These are usu-
ally the most disenfranchised of people; the ones
who rely on soup kitchens for nourishment and the
streets for shelter. These are the people our moth-
ers told us to avoid, who have been hardened by
society’s lack of concern. We all fear being shunned
by our peers, and no wonder solitary confinement
is among the harshest punishments in the west-
ern world. While brushing off persistent requests
for money easily becomes a nuisance, we mustn’t
forget the core of our humanity. Somehow a smile
becomes more helpful than a handful of change.
 For The Love Of Mary
Twenty-two years ago,
Kathy Oxner and Mary
Benson, found their soul-
mate in one another. Not
unlike other couples, Kathy
and Mary started out as
friends and then became
life partners. They shared
many common interests,
especially in the outdoors –
camping, hiking, backpack-
ing – they loved getting
out and exploring together.
Like other couples, they were in their relationship
for keeps… for better or worse, in sickness and in
health.
Eleven years into their relationship, Mary suffered a
brain injury due to an interaction from a prescription
drug. Kathy did not question for one second her
commitment to see Mary through recovery and to
rebuild their lives together. “Only one doctor really
had a problem with our relationship,” states Kathy.
“He was dismissive and would exclude me from
conversations and discussions about Mary.” Kathy
reported being treated more like a “roommate” and
she found that very frustrating. “It was finally Mary
who set things straight… she could barely talk and
she told the doctor that her father was dead and
her aging mother was unable to help. She told him
‘you need to talk to Kathy—we are going to do this
together’ and that finally started to change the at-
titude toward me,” Kathy said. G.F. Strong, on the
other hand, embraced Kathy’s involvement. She re-
ports feeling very included in the care plan for Mary.
“I was invited to every team meeting, and in the first
couple of weeks attended Mary’s speech, O.T. and
physio appointments… they were really great.”
Kathy took an extended time off work after Mary
became ill. She remained at home to help Mary
through her recovery until Mary was strong enough
and felt safe enough to take the HandyDart bus
alone to and from G.F. Strong, where she attended
the outpatient program five days a week for a little
over 2 years. Kathy found the hardest part to be the
lack of information and resources in the weeks they
had to wait between being in hospital and getting
into the G.F. Strong program. “Initially the doctors
told me… she won’t get better and you should
consider putting her in a facility.” This was beyond
comprehension. Kathy replied, “She is 38 years old.
She is a young woman. I
will find the resources and
do whatever is needed for
however long Mary needs
it.”
The team at G.F. Strong
responded quite differ-
ently. They outlined all
of the services available
to both Mary and Kathy
and helped them access
community resources.
Their programs were very helpful. For example,
early in Mary’s recovery the team sent an Occu-
pational Therapist to the couple’s home to assess
Mary. “I learned so much about Mary’s brain injury,
the brain itself, and how I could best support Mary,”
explains Kathy. “The assessment was very enlight-
ening.” As an example, when the O.T. assessed
Mary, it became clear that she was unable to se-
quence. When asked to make toast, Mary could
not process or follow through with the necessary
steps that required her to go from getting the bread
to putting it in the toaster or what to do with it once
toasted.
Kathy had a tremendous support team not only with
G.F. Strong, but also with her close friends, spiri-
tual community and her boss at work. There were
a lot of emotions and feelings that she had to work
through in those early days. For starters, their rela-
tionship changed. Kathy and Mary were no longer
equal partners in the relationship, sharing house-
hold tasks or planning activities. Kathy was more of
a parent and caregiver. Thanks to the support and
understanding from the counsellor at G.F. Strong,
Kathy quickly realized that she was grieving in much
the way that Mary was grieving and that this too,
was important to their recovery as a couple.
As Mary moved through her long recovery, Kathy re-
mained committed to do whatever it would take to
rebuild their lives together. She was not interested in
building a life for herself outside this relationship. So
it was no surprise to anyone when five years ago,
after Mary discovered a passion for cross-country
skiing and began to train for the 2010 Paralympics,
that Kathy took coaching courses so she could be
a part of the process and support Mary in achiev-
ing her dream as best as she could. She also took
classes and trained as a Wax Tech so that she
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could prepare Mary’s skis on
a regular basis. She had the
fortunate experience during
her early days of training to
have Brian McKeever spend
an afternoon showing her the
ropes and trade secrets for
being a good wax tech. All of
this training eventually led to
Kathy becoming an assistant
coach with the Development
Squad for Team Canada, which
enabled her to travel with Mary.
This not only helped Mary as
she needs an assistant for trav-
elling, taking medications, and
to act as a “memory compan-
Kathy, Bradan & Hale y at Whis tler
ion,” but it also made it finan-
cially possible for them to pursue
this dream together.
Mary did go on to compete at the 2010 Paralym-
pics. Although she was sick with a serious sinus in-
fection, Mary was determined to race. She called on
that same spirit that helped her pull herself through
rehabilitation and she placed 11th and 12th. When
she attended the opening ceremonies, Mary knew
pushing herself was the right thing to do. “Walking
into the opening ceremonies to see 66,000 people
was an accomplishment of a dream for me,” states
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Mary. “It was so moving to
be there that I couldn’t help
but cry.”
Since the Paralympics, Mary
has changed up her train-
ing routine and has turned
her focus to training for
the 2011 Canada Games
in Halifax. As well, she has
enjoyed several opportuni-
ties to talk with school kids
about children with disabili-
ties and their ability to still
be a part of sports. “I share
the book Kids of Courage
with them and they gain
a whole new perspective
about kids with disabilities.
They see that although someone may be visually
impaired or have a physical disability that they can
still participate in sports, or in arts and culture.”
Mary is also looking forward to getting younger
kids involved in skiing. And, just as it has been
from the beginning, Kathy is supporting Mary’s ef-
forts all the way!
Mary and Kathy attended the Pacific Coast Brain
Injury Conference, Nov. 18 – 19, 2010 in Vancou-
ver, BC. Mary presented a session titled: Healing
Through Sport: My Paralympic Journey
Government Resources

Resources
I N T E R N E T
Regional Health Authority’s ABI Coordinators:
Fraser Health - Aquired Brain injury Program-604-520-4175
Interior Health Authority-250-870-4664,
Contact Name: Deborah Preston
Northern Health-250-565-2640,
Contact Name: Jana Pirsel
Vancouver Coastal Health Authority-604-714-4159
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Vancouver Island Health Authority- 250- 370-8699,
Contact Name: Judith Armstrong
Enquiry BC-to locate Provincial Government Departments
• Lower Mainland 604-660-2421
• Outside Lower Mainland 1-800-663-7867 Learn Connect Find
• Victoria 250-387-6121
Ministry of Advanced Education, Training and Technology: Pacific Coast Brain Injury Conference
Open Learning Information: www.pcbic.org
• In and Outside Lower Mainland 1-800-663-1633 BC Brain Injury Association
Student Loan Information: www. bcbraininjuryassociation.com
• Lower Mainland 604-660-2610 Campbell River Head Injury Support Society
• Outside Lower Mainland 1-800-561-1818- select 1 then 5 www.crhead.ca
Public Guardian & Trustee of British Columbia: Fraser Valley Brain Injury Association
• 700-808 West Hastings St. Vancouver, BC V6B 3L3 www.fvbia.org
Victim’s Info Line: Central Okanagan Brain Injury Society
• 1-800-563-0808 www.cobis.org
Adult and Youth Addiction Services: www.protectyourhead.com
• Lower Mainland 604-660-9382 Comox Valley Head Injury Society
• Outside Lower Mainland 1-800-663-1441 www.cvheadinjury.com
Nanaimo Brain Injury Society
www.nbis.ca.
Community Resources Powell River Brain Injury Society
http://braininjurysociety.ca
BC Coalition of People with Disabilities Prince George Brain Injured Group Society 
Advocacy Access Program for assistance with provincial www.pgbig.ca
and federal disability benefits Brain Injury Resources
Lower Mainland 604-872-1278
www.braininjuryresources.org
Outside Lower Mainland 1-888-663-1278
Ontario Brain Injury Association
Bus Pass for Persons with Disabilities and Seniors www.obia.on.ca
Lower Mainland 604-682-0391 Brain Injury Association USA
Outside Lower Mainland 1-888-661-1566 www.biausa.org
Tim Readman, Executive Director South Okanagan Similkameen BI Society
Stroke Recovery Association of BC www.sosbis.com
Phone: 604-688-3603 Toll Free: 1-888-313-3377 Victoria Brain Injury Society
www.strokerecoverybc.ca www.vbis.ca
Cerebral Palsy Association of BC The Perspective Network
Lower Mainland Voice and TTY 604-515-9455 www.tbi.org
Outside Lower Mainland 1-800-663-0004 The TBI Chat Room
Community Brain Injury Program for Children & Youth in BC www.tbichat.org
Toll Free 1-877-451-5511 G.F. Strong Rehab
www.cbip.bc.ca www.gfstrong.com
BC Eplilepsy Society
Epilepsy BC
Lower Mainland 604-875 6704 www.bcepilepsy.com
Outside Lower Mainland 1-866-374-5377 Headway Centre
Victoria 250-475-6677 Howe Sound Rehabilitation Services Society
www.howesound.net
Information Services Vancouver
Northern Brain Injury Association
604-875-6381
www.nbia.ca

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Using iPhone Apps to Enhance Your Day to Day Function
By Ergo Rehabilitation Inc.
250-385-5277

Introduction
s Rehabilitation therapists with Ergo Rehabilitation, we work with people who have sustained mild to
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severe traumatic brain injuries through traumatic events such as motor vehicle accidents. Our goal is to
enhance a person’s overall function. We are excited about the new technology available to assist people to
increase their independence.
he iPod Touch (introduced in September, 2007), the new iPhone (January, 2009), and iPad (April, 2010)
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have significantly changed our ability to help people to help themselves. Below are some examples of
the applications that we have found to be the most helpful with clients we see. Your therapist or life skills
worker can help you to set up your iPhone.

DO YOU HAVE DIFFICULTY REMEMBERING

APPOINTMENTS? • Days Until – This application is free for both the
Calendars and Scheduling apps iPhone and iPod Touch. It monitors and displays
• Appointments can be put into a calendar that can the days remaining until special events that you
be viewed by the day, week, or month. There have entered into it.
are auditory reminders (alarms) that can be set up • Borrowed Things – A handy app that allows you
to remind you of upcoming appointments. For to record all the things that you have borrowed
example, if you create a doctor’s appointment or lent.
at 11:00 am on Tuesday, you can set up an alarm • Date Recorder – This app allows you to record all
to alert you twice; for example, the day before
types of small things that you want to remember,
as well as an hour before so that you have time
to get there. This also works well to plan meals. such as walking the dog, a friend’s party, meeting
Meals can be scheduled into your calendar. It is, someone for dinner, etc.
in fact, like a prosthetic memory. You can sched-
ule appointments months in advance and can
DO YOU HAVE DIFFICULTY KEEPING TRACK OF
have regular appointments repeat themselves YOUR BANK ACCOUNT AND BUDGETING?
throughout the year. This app also helps with Budgeting and Banking
pacing your activities. You can schedule rest
• These types of apps allow you to budget for
periods in between your activities so as to man-
age your fatigue. CalenGoo can be synced to a expenses, track where the money was spent, and
Google calendar to enable appointments to be review how much is left. Amounts may be entered
entered from a keyboard on a computer. at the store with the device offline.

Name of app: Name of app: Name of app: Name of app:

Pocket Informant LITE CalenGoo Spend – Budgeting Ace Budget Lite

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• Bill Tracker – This application will help you man- • Onetrip Shopping List – This app acts as an in-
age all types of bills, such as car payments, terface to the Onetrip.org web site, which contains
through a convenient user interface combined your shopping list. This app is not available from
with an advanced internal database. the Apple store, but it is free.
• Cash Tracker – This is another app that provides • Grocery Gadget – You can enter items you need
for an easy way of tracking your every expense, to purchase in the app or at Grocerygadgets.com.
plus provides tools to analyze your spending. The app learns the order of items at the store
as you shop and puts them in order next time you
DO YOU SOMETIMES LOSE YOUR WAY OR GET shop.
LOST IN WHAT SHOULD BE FAMILIAR AREAS? • Shopper –This app allows you to develop differ-
Navigation / Wayfinding ent lists for different stores, records aisle layouts,
• Getting confused and lost, even in a familiar city, prices, budget tracking and coupon tracking. It
may cause anxiety. These apps make use of GPS can also search through flyers and show you ad-
and will guide you from your current location to vertised specials.
your destination. DO YOU NEED MEMORY TOOLS FOR DAY TO
Name of app: Name of app: DAY INFORMATION?
MapQuest 4 Mobile MotionX GPS Drive Memory Tools
• dontFORGET – This app will help you to remem-
ber birthdays and other special events. It contains
two sections; one for your contacts and one for
custom events that you create.
• My Emergency Info – Key information that you
want to share with emergency technicians, such
as allergies and medical conditions, is kept within
this app.
• Dragon Dictation – This app is an easy-to use
voice recognition tool that allows you to speak
and convert this to text or email messages.

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• Car Minder Plus – Keep track of your car mainte- Medical Negligence
nance needs and log repairs and fuel with this
app. It will keep track of multiple vehicles. Free initial consultation
Percentage fees
• Take Me To My Car – One tap of this app saves available
your current position and when you next start the Focused on your needs
app it will provide walking directions to your car.
• Here I Am – This app creates an email that con-
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tains a link to your location. Other iPhone users
Free home and
will see your location in their Maps application. hospital visits
• Take Me Home I’m Lost – This app keeps track bmorley@fasken.com
of your home address and will provide you with
directions to get home.
DO YOU HAVE DIFFICULTY KEEPING TRACK OF
GROCERIES YOU NEED? DO YOU FORGET TO
BUY ITEMS OR OVERBUY THEM?
Shopping Lists
• Make It @ Home Grocery List – This app allows
you to create and manage your grocery list on
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• Voice Memos –this enables you to record and numbers that you then try to remember and type
review personal audio messages. You can record to the next screen. Correct answers advance you
grocery or to do lists, meeting notes, short and to the next level.
long messages, and name recordings. • Memory Matches – This is an app where you flip
• Speak It – This text-to-speech app utilizes a voice cards to reveal a matching pair. It can be played
synthesis engine that converts text into spoken as a single player or in multi-player mode.
words. • Anagram Game – This mimics the classic ana-
• Simplenote – You can keep simple lists, notes and gram word game where you try to form as many
ideas with this app that automatically synchro- words as possible from a group of letters.
nizes with your computer. • Brain Trainer by Lumosity – This app includes 7
• Kitchen Timer – An app that is a simple 60 minute brain games designed to enhance your cognitive
kitchen timer which is a perfect tool to use while abilities including memory, processing speed,
cooking. attention, flexibility and problem solving.
• Brain Challenge – This app has 43 games within
WOULD YOU LIKE TO WORK ON YOUR it that help in the following areas: memory, math,
ATTENTION, CONCENTRATION AND focus, visual, and logic.
SHORT-TERM MEMORY? • Build Attention – A game where you press the
squares displayed from 1 to 25 and your time is
Cognitive rehabilitation apps recorded, increasing your attention ability.
• Fearless Brain – This app will train your memory • Brain Up! – This app contains five categories of
every day with a fast paced game and allows you games in logic, calculation, memory, judgment,
to track your progress as your skills improve. and music.
• Glossy Touch – This app displays a pattern of
flashing colors, allowing you to repeat the pat- Summary
tern by tapping colored buttons in the same order. Endless applications exist for the iPhone, iPod
• Memory Exercise – This app improves your Touch, and iPad that can assist you in countless
cognitive skills by displaying random single digit ways. The above are only a small sample of what
is available for these devices. Many of the apps are
free, and other are quite reasonably priced.
iPhones, Blackberries, and other smart phones
Personal Injury are increasingly proving themselves to be useful
organizational tools for people with brain injuries.
Linda Glover, Community Coordinator at the Prince
George Brain Injury Group, is currently conduct-
ing surveys with people who find or would find this
modality an effective tool in their daily lives. Once
the survey is completed, she hopes to be able to
present her findings to companies offering these
phones in the hope that people with identified dis-
abilities will be able to receive a reduced rate in
their purchase and/or contract fees if prescribed by
doctors and other health care professionals. If you,
We can help or someone you know, is interested in completing a
survey, please contact Linda directly at:
“If you’ve been seriously
Linda Glover, Community Coordinator,
injured by someone else,
we will achieve a fair
Prince George Brain Injured Group,
resolution to properly 1237 Fourth Avenue,
compensate you.” Prince George, B.C., V2L 3J5,
Phone 1-250-564-2447, fax 1-250-564-6928, or
email at linda.glover@pgbig.ca
Mair Jensen Blair LLP Lawyers
700-275 Lansdowne Street, Kamloops, BC V2C 6H6
Phone: (250) 374-3161 | Toll Free: 1-888-374-3161

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 How to Enjoy the Holidays without Spending Money
Celebrate Christmas and Holiday Season With Limited Finances
~Teresa Knudsen
With the economic downturn, many people have
little-to-no money for presents or food. Yet, Christ-
mas honors the poor and humble, and holiday spirit
is free to enjoy.
One of the worst times to be poor or low on cash is
during the time when Christmas holidays are being
celebrated. All the advertisements imply that every-
one has lots of money, many loving family mem-
bers, and beautifully decorated homes with tons of
presents glistening under the tree.
Being low on money or without money can be es-
pecially difficult during this time as people struggle
to find ways to give friends, family, and co-workers
signs of holiday spirit. Here are ideas about find-
ing ways to make these holidays happy memories,
even without money.
Honor the Meaning of the Holidays
This time of year is special for many people of
different beliefs. Whether one is celebrating Christ-
mas, Hanukkah, the Solstice, or any of the other
joyful and somber occasions, it’s important to make
time to honor the season.
This can be done alone, in quiet time, or with oth-
ers. The important thing is to connect with the spirit
of the season. This costs no money at all.
Keep the Holiday Spirit
When under pressure from economic woes, it’s
easy to slip into sarcasm, bitterness, and anger. It
can happen to anyone. Yet, for the season, park the
negative, and let the positive light the season. Just
getting some time away from being negative can
provide an immense sense of relief.
Keep the Holidays Happy for Children
Staying happy is especially true for those with chil-
dren during the holidays. This is their time to make
memories of the holiday and Christmas, memories
which will stay with them their entire lives. Children
can be deeply hurt and worried about fights and
money. Therefore, this is a time to protect them
from adult concerns, allowing the children to fully
enjoy the season.
Children have amazing insights, cute ideas, clever
ways of doing things, and genuine words of wis-
dom. As many celebrate the birth of a child on
Christmas, this holiday in particular honors all chil-
dren. Give children a protected space to enjoy their
holidays, and experience this seasonal celebration
though their eyes.
Finding Free Gifts for the Holidays
It’s a challenge to find items that are free. Yet, it’s
not hopeless. Many second-hand stores have more
than they need, and offer channels to request as-
sistance in filling Christmas stockings or presents
for under the trees.
Family and friends often have items they no longer
want, but which are too good to throw away, or
which someone else might enjoy. Asking can result
in receiving.
Listen to Music During the Holiday Season
There is always a way to find music during the
holidays. Cities, towns, and market places often
sponsor free caroling. Symphonies or bands might
offer free performances. Check the music sections
in local papers to find free music.
There’s also ways to bring music into a home.
Just singing holiday songs and Christmas carols
brings a sense of seasonal spirit to a house. These
songs can be sung over, and the words and music
become familiar. Even people who say they can’t
sing can join in with others. What matters is singing
together, and the magic it creates.
Take Walks to Enjoy the Holiday Season
Another free activity is to take walks. Being outside
can give another perspective of the holiday season.
Walking in city streets provides a lot of interesting
sights. Walking in the suburban or country areas
can provide views of trees, lawns, Christmas deco-
rations, and animal life. This is a time to also dream.
If money does come, what will it be used for? To
buy a mansion? To take ice skating lessons? To
plan a trip, or an education? Let imagination flow.
Or just enjoy the views.
After the walk, it’s fun to write a short journal or
free-write about the walk. Include drawings or cut-
out pictures found in old magazines, newspapers,
or holiday greeting cards from previous years. Chat-
ting about the walk, about ideas that came during
the walk, can enrich this holiday time.
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 Connecting and Meeting
with Other People
Another way to enjoy the holidays without money is
to visit with others. Sharing a cup of tea, or of cof-
fee, can give a relaxing feel to the season. Children
can have fun with other children, using their imagi-
nations, and creating their own activities. Society is
always a nice way to spend time, and especially so
during the hard times
Another great way to connect with others during the
holiday involves sharing a meal. Eating alone can
be a treat, but during the holidays, it’s always nice
to share a meal. Maybe it’s a modest breakfast, or
a light lunch, an afternoon snack, or the evening
dinner. Eating with others creates a sense of com-
munity.
Reading to Find Holiday Relaxation
Read alone, or aloud. Find copies of Charles Dick-
ens’ A Christmas Carol, or any holiday story. The
Night Before Christmas is another favorite. Read-
ing is one of the best ways to relax and enjoy time.
Reading to others or to children, or having them
back, can fill hours with fun and interest.
No matter which way one chooses, the holidays
can be joyous and happy without spending a lot of
money. This is a time when the material is impor-
tant, but the idea of the holiday is most important.
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 Heads Up
WHAT’S HAPPENING
AROUND THE PROVINCE
BULKLEY VALLEY BRAIN INJURY ASSOCIATION
(BVBIA)
BVBIA offers case management services, and assistance
with accessing rehabilitation programs, one-on-one emo-
tional support, family support, and social and recreational
activities. For more information, call 250-877-7723.
CAMPBELL RIVER HEAD INJURY SUPPORT SOCIETY
(CRHISS)
CRHISS provides education, advocacy, support, and fel-
lowship. For more information, call 250-287-4323.
COMOX VALLEY HEAD INJURY SOCIETY (CVHIS)
CVHIS hosts a weekly drop in luncheon for a nominal
cost to survivors and their families. For more information,
call 250-334-9225 or visit, www.cvheadinjury.com .
FRASER VALLEY BRAIN INJURY ASSOCIATION
(FVBIA)
FVBIA Brain Injury Association offers programs, drop-in
sessions and support groups. For more information on
FVBIA, call 604-557-1913 or (toll free) 1-866-557-1913 or
email info@fvbia.org.
KAMLOOPS BRAIN INJURY ASSOCIATION (KBIA)
KBIA offers many services and programs, including case
coordination and life skills support. For more information,
call at 250-372-1799.
NANAIMO BRAIN INJURY SOCIETY (NBIS)
NBIS offers rehabilitation and case management servic-
es, disability benefits assistance, and workshops focus-
ing on issues ranging from trauma recovery to life skills
strategies and anger management. For more information,
call 250-753-5600 or visit their website at www.nbid.ca.
POWELL RIVER BRAIN INJURY SOCIETY (PRBIS)
PRBIS www.braininjurysociety.ca provides support and
services for persons with acquired brain injury, spouses,
family members and caregivers included. For more infor-
mation, call 604-485-6065 or toll free 1-866-499-6065.
SOUTH OKANAGAN SIMILKAMEEN BRAIN INJURY
SOCIETY (SOSBIS)
SOSBIS provides the following services: Case Manage-
ment, Psychosocial Recreation, Peer Support – Cognitive
Enhancement, Family Support, Stroke Recovery Support,
Education, Personal Support, Women’s Support and Pre-
vention and Education. For more information, visit www.
sosbis.com
TRI-CITIES BRAIN INJURY SUPPORT GROUP
As months have gone by, Tri-Cities Brain Injury Support
Group continues to have its meetings every 1st Thursday
of each month from 2 - 4 pm. At our meetings, friends
get together and discuss interesting topics and do fun
activities. Most recently, before the end of summer, we
were able to go on an exciting sailing trip. We all met up
at Jericho beach and one by one were sent off to enjoy
the cool ocean waves. We meet at the Coquitlam Public
Library - Poirier Branch on 575 Poirier Street. For more
information, please contact Sandi Caverly at 604-916-
5027 or stcaverly@shaw.ca or Martin Granger at martin_
granger2007@hotmail.com. New members are welcome!
VICTORIA BRAIN INJURY SOCIETY (VBIS)
VBIS offers individual and group programs to survivors
and their support system. Programs offered include:
Peer Support, ABI 101, Coping Skills, Personal Enhance-
ment, Creative Arts, a Family Support Group and Educa-
tion & Awareness seminars to community groups. For
more information call 250-598-9339 or visit www.vbis.ca.
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By Janelle Breese Biagioni

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BC BRAIN INJURY ASSOCIATIONS &
*This list updated Winter Issue, 2010.

Abbotsford
Support Groups
Carol Paetkau 604-557-1913 TF 1-866-557-1913
Acquired Brain Injury Society of the Yukon Anne-Marie Yahn 867-668-5283
Alberni Valley Head Injury Society/Port Alberni Linda Kenny 250-724-6772
Barriere/Merritt Terry-Lynne Stone 250-372-1799
British Columbia Brain Injury Association Jan Siwinski 1-877-858-1788
Bulkley Valley Brain Injury Association Katherine Metz 250-877-7723
Burnaby Chinese Brain Injury Support Group Angela Kan 604-877-8606
Campbell River Head Injury Support Society Shelley Howard 250-287-4323
Caribou Brain Injury Society Shilo Toews 250-392-7772
Central Okanagan Brain Injury Association Laurie Denton 250-762-3233
Chilliwack FVBIA 604-557-1913 TF 1-866-557-1913
COBIS - Vernon Contact Stacie Gadsby 250-306-2064
Comox Valley Brain Injury Society Dixon Hiscock 250-897-1255
Comox Valley Head Injury Society Jeremy Coombs 250-334-9225
Cowichan Valley Head Injury Support Group Barb Grantham 250-748-9338
East Kootenay Brain Injury Association Dawn Widdifield 250-417-6220
Fraser Valley Brain Injury Association Carol Paetkau 604-557-1913 TF 1-866-557-1913
Golden Brain Injury Support Group Donna Madden 250-344-5688
Kamloops Brain Injury Association Terry-Lynn Stone 250-372-1799
KBIA - Salmon Arm/Shuswap Contact Teresa Wolfe 250-833-0369
KBIA - Barriere/Merrit Contact Terry-Lynn Stone 250-372-1799
Langley/Aldergrove Brain Injury Support Group FVBIA 604-557-1913 TF 1-866-557-1913
Maple Ridge Support Group Ian Moore 604-944-9030
Mission FVBIA 604-557-1913 TF 1-866-557-1913
Nanaimo Brain Injury Society Mark Busby 250-753-5600
New Westminster Headway Gabrielle Pape 604.520.0130
B.R.A.I.N. (Brain Resource, Advocacy & Information Network) Tina Suter 604-540-9234
North Okanagan Shuswap Brain Injury Society (Salmon Arm/Shuswap) Lori Wootten 250-833-1140
Northern Brain Injury Association Carmen Jose 1-866-979-4673
Peace Country Society for Acquired Brain Injury Linda Proctor 250-782-7519
Powell River Deborah Dee 1-866-499-6065
Prince George Brain Injured Group Society Alison Hagreen 250-564-2447 TF 1-866-564-2447
Sechelt/Sunshine Coast Brain Injury Support Group Rita Grenville 604-885-8524
South Okanagan Similkameen Brain Injury Society Dave Head 250-490-0613
Terrace Brain Injury Support Group NBIA 1-866-979-4673
TriCities Support Group Sandy Caverly 604-916-5027
Vancouver Headway Leah Pentilla 604.732.4446
Vancouver Survivors Support Group Lillian Wong 604-873-2385
Victoria Brain Injury Society Barbara Erickson 250-598-9339
West Coast Support Network Wanda McAvoy 250-726-7459
West Kootenay Brain Injury Association Kim Johnson 250-304-1259
*Please email name and phone number changes to headlinenews@shaw.ca to ensure this list is kept as up-to-date as possible.

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