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Healthy Families
Dysfunctional Families
Singapore Families
What Is a Family?
Oxford dictionary
Types of Families
Nuclear Family
Extended Family
Reconstituted Family
Adopted Family
Intermarriage Family
Single
Aging family members adult
Married Couple
Middle aged
parents
Why?
Marriage improves healthy lifestyles
Healthy people get married and stay
married
Why Marriage?
Reproduction
Companionship
Sex
Escape
Forced marriages
Having a family
What Makes Marriage
Successful?
L isten
O verlook
V oice
E ffort
Family Life Cycle Stages
Late Life
Adjust couple functioning in face of
physiological, financial and work-role
decline
Deal with loss of spouse, siblings and
friends
Accept assistance from children/
outside agencies
The Well Functioning
Family
Roles
Relationships
Rules
Family Problems
Divorce
National Divorce Figures
Top reasons:
1.Unreasonable
behaviour
2.Lived apart >
3 yrs
Duration of marriage for
divorces
Predictors of
Dysfunctional Families
Parental ill health
Spousal violence
Addictive behaviours
Parents married early
Big age gap in parents
Whirlwind marriages
Different religions and other incompatible
goals
Lack of growth in marriage
Affairs
Areas of Marital Conflict
Work
Stress
In-laws
Money
Sex
Housework
Baby
Resolving Conflicts
Regulate emotions
Compromise
Tolerance
Unhealthy Involvement of
Child in Parental Conflict
Ask child to take sides
Spy on other parent
Custody
Legal decision-making authority child’s life
Religion, education, health, activities
Usually joint custody
Care and control
Which parent child lives with
Access
Periods during which parent without care
and control is granted time to spend with the
child
Is Divorce Harmful to
Children?
Hetherington (1993)
Majority of children do not have serious
problems
Some exhibit emotional problems
• Behavioural changes (regression, bedwetting,
defiance, clinginess)
• Teens (academic problems, suicidal behaviour)
Is Divorce Harmful to
Children?
Amato and Keith (1991), Amato (2001)
Studies showed children worse off
• Academically
• More behaviour problems
• Negative self concepts
• Problem with peers
• Trouble getting along with parents
Is Divorce Harmful to
Children?
Wallerstein et al (2001)
25 year follow-up
Some children grew up having
difficulties in relationships
• Fearful of marriage
• Fearful of becoming parents
• More marital breakdown
Why are some children
more affected?
Resilience of child
Other stresses, including
socioeconomic disadvantage
Parenting quality
Single parent/new family composition
May become more permissible or harsher
Degree of parental distress
Degree of marital conflict
How Children Can Be
Affected
Divorce
Loss
Distrust
Guilt
Shame Inferiority
Effects on Child
Sense of loss
Abnormal family
Fear of abandonment
Mixed feelings
Economic loss
Custody issues
The 3 Wishes of Children
from Divorced Families
Parents back together again
Life back to “normal”
Divorce
Child abuse
What Is Child Abuse?
Child abuse is defined as any act of omission
or commission by a parent or guardian which
would
Physical
Sexual
Emotional
Neglect
Child Abuse
Parental/Family Factors
Domestic violence
Substance abuse
Parental immaturity
Parental expectations inconsistent with child
development
Social isolation
Family stress from illness, poor finances, divorce
Adult caretakers who themselves were abused as
children
Family Problems
Divorce
Child abuse
Others
Chronic illness
Death
Moving/ Relocation
Food for Thought