Day 1: He would grow spiritually & consider his accountabil-
ity before the Lord...that he would guard his heart by devel-
oping spiritual disciplines-Bible reading & study, prayer, etc.
Day 2: His relationship with God & His Word will bear fruit in
his life...that he would be a man of wisdom & understanding,
fearing the Lord.
Day 3: he would be humble and quick to agree with God
about his sin...that his heart would be tender towards the
voice of the Lord.
Day 7: He would safeguard his heart against inappropriate rela-
tionship with the opposite sex...that his heart would be pure &
undivided in his commitment to me.
Day 8: He would work hard to provide for our family...that the
character qualities necessary would be a growing part of his
character {persistence, decisiveness, strength, determination}.
Day 9: He would handle finances wisely, having discernment
concerning budgeting & investments, and will be a good stew-
ard of his money...that money will not become a source of dis-
cord in us.
Day 13: He would use practical skills to build our family &
make wise decisions for our welfare...that he would serve un-
selfishly.
Day 14: He would speak words that build me and our family,
and reflect a heart of love...that he would not use filthy lan-
guage.
Day 15: He would choose friends wisely...that God would bring
him men who will encourage his accountability before Him,
and will not lead him into sin.
Day 19: He would be patient and a man of peace...that he
would not give in to anger, but allow the HS to control his re-
sponse.
Day 20: He would yield his mind & thoughts to the Lord...not
entertain immoral & impure thoughts, and that he will resist
the temptation to indulge in pornography.
Day 21: He would learn how to relax in the Lord and find joy
and peace in his relationship with God, in his greatest times of
stress...that he would submit his schedule to the Lord.
Day 4: He would grow in leadership skills in our relationship-
protecting & providing for us...that he would lead me wisely &
love me sacrificially, so that God would be glorified in our mar-
riage.
Day 5: He would be faithful to our wedding vows...that he would
have a desire to cultivate our relationship as a sign of his loyalty &
commitment to me, & as a picture of Christ’s love for the church.
Day 6: He would love righteousness & hate wickedness, especially
the evils of the culture…& recognize & avoid wickedness in his
own life and take a clear, strong stand against evil.
Day 10: He would cultivate a strong integrity, and not compro-
mise convictions...that his testimony will be genuine, honest in his
business, and never do anything to hide from others.
Day 11: He would have a humble, teachable spirit and a servant’s
heart before the Lord...that he would listen to God & desire to do
His will.
Day 12: He would yield his sexual drive to the Lord & practice self-
control...that our sexual intimacy together would be fresh, posi-
tive, & a reflection of selfless love.
Day 16: He would choose healthy, God-honoring activities...that
he would not live in bondage to any questionable habits or hob-
bies, but will experience freedom in holiness as he yields to the
Spirit’s control.
Day 17: He would enjoy his manliness as he patterns his life after
Christ & strong men in the faith...his physical, emotional, mental,
social, & spiritual strength.
Day 18: He would have an eternal perspective...reject material-
ism and temporal values and put God first in his life.
Day 22: He would practice forgiveness in our relationship and
with others...that he would recognize any roots of bitterness &
yield any resentment and unforgiving attitudes to the Lord.
Day 23: He would be a good father—disciplining his children and
loving them unconditionally.
Day 24: He would have a balanced life—that he would balance
work and play...that he fear God, but also gain favor with people
he knows at work and church.
Day 25: He would be courageous in his stand against evil and Day 28: He would be a man of prayer...seeking & pursuing God in
injustice, stand for the truth. Protect us from Satan’s attacks. purposeful quiet times.

Day 26: He would discover and live his God-given pur-
pose...that he offer his dreams to the Lord.
Day 27: He would understand the importance of taking care
of his body—the temple of the HS...that he would practice
self-control by making wise food choices and exercises to stay
healthy.
Day 29: He would surrender his time and talents to the Lord...that
his spiritual gifts will be manifest in his career, at church, and in our
home.
Day 30: He would serve God and others with pure motives...that he
would obey the Lord from his heart, and glorify God in everything.
Day 31: He would recognize the lies of the Enemy in his life...that
his attributes & actions will be guided by the truth as he brings his
thoughts into captivity to the Word of God.

My Children Myself as a wife

 For their genuine salvation
 My role as a wife: submissive, loving, attentive, nur-
 For their future spouse turing, respectful, not talking back, not resentful,
 For them to have love & respect towards parents and au- physically please my husband {selflessly}, keep my-
thority over them {with teachable spirits} self up, keep my home up, confront sin in kindness,
 Courage to stand up against temptation & peer pressure be forgiving and not bitter

 Morally pure/physical purity until marriage

 Physical protection from harm

Myself as a mother
 My role as a mother: to be loving and gentle, con-
sistent in discipline, nurturing, patient, diligent to
teach my children the Bible, an example of godli-
ness, discipline in love {always}, and that my children
might one day “rise up and call me blessed” {Prov.
31:28}