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Nobody has the right to force you to do something you don't want to do. You can talk to a
counsellor any time about how you feel and if you're having problems with your family.
But none of these reasons are okay. And nobody has the right to force you into marriage.
It’s possible that your parents or family would force you to marry because they think it’s the best
thing for you. This doesn't make things okay and you can get help to stop this from happening.
You might love your parents but might also feel unsure about why you're being forced to marry.
You might be told that you're bringing shame on your family if you don’t marry. Your parents
might even say that they'll disown you. This is emotional abuse.
If you can't talk to your parents, maybe you can think of another adult who you trust, like a
family member, teacher or school nurse. It’s important to let someone know as quickly as
possible so that you can be safe and get help.
YOUR RIGHTS
Forced marriages happen in many religions and nationalities, and can affect both boys and girls.
It doesn’t only happen to young people, it can happen to adults too. There are some people and
communities that think forced marriage is okay.
But it’s important to remember that all major religions (Muslim, Hindu, Sikh, Christian and
Jewish) are against forced marriage. Forced marriage is never okay, and it’s important to
remember there is help available.
Forced marriage is against the law in the UK and you have a right to say no if you're being made
to marry someone who you don’t want to. The minimum age for marriage in the UK is 16.
choose who you marry, when you marry or whether you want to get married or not
make decisions and to be able to tell someone about what’s happening to you
feel safe and to ask for help
say no and explain that you don’t feel happy with what is happening.
You might worry that if you tell someone then your parents or other people could get into
trouble. Or you may think it will make things worse. You don’t have to deal with this on your
own. There are people who won’t judge you and who will support you with what you’re going
through. You can contact a counsellor in private at any time and talk about anything
Arranged marriage:
is a cultural tradition
you have a choice
Forced marriage:
If your parents or family don’t accept your decision and still make you go ahead with the
marriage, this becomes a forced marriage.
If you need support and someone to talk to, you can and speak to one of our counsellors. It's free
to call and confidential.