How am I gaining by indulging in this new helpful behavior in the
present moment? How am I gaining physically, emotionally, mentally, financially, and spiritually? How has this new behavior expanded my career opportunities? How has this new behavior transformed my relationships with others in a positive way? How have others been affected specifically by this change? What do other people say about me and how I have changed? How do I now tend to spend my time as a result of making this change? How has making this changed helped me in the pursuit of my goals? How do I now talk to myself? How does this change positively influence my physiology and state- of-mind?
What if I had made this change years ago?
How would I have gained physically, emotionally, mentally, financially, and spiritually? What career and relationship opportunities could I have had access to? How would others have been affected by these changes in a positive way? What would people have been saying about me? How would that make me feel? How would I have been spending my time if I had made this change in the past? At what point in my life would I be at right now in terms of the goals I desire to achieve? What fond memories would I have? How would I be talking to myself? How would all this make me feel? What benefits have I derived from making this change over the course of five years? How have things changed for the better physically, mentally, emotionally, financially, and spiritually? How have my career prospects improved? How have my relationship prospects improved? How am I now thinking about my life, about others and about my goals in a new way? What have I been able to accomplish over this period of time? How does that make me feel? How am I now spending my time as a result of these accomplishments? How does that make me feel? How has this change affected other areas of my life in surprisingly positive ways? As a result of all this, what additional positive expectations do I have about the future?