15 SEPTEMBER 15:59

that s all
just greeting sir
too kind thx

yes
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24 SEPTEMBER 21:42

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Trip To DJERBA
Tuesday, 30 October 2018 at 05:30 UTC+01
Djerba, Madanin, Tunisia
Created for Tunisia TEFL
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‫رحلة الى جربة و تفرهيدة بعد عمل شهر كامل‬

???
ma fhimtch
juste click on the link

is this an invitation or advertisement ???

i didn t receive any link
a trip to Djerba. Many colleagues are registering. I thought this may interest you!

aah yes yes

i got it right now

ill c then be back

okay
Does this mean another time or now you're gonna see !
SUN 10:27

good morning
i saw it but i can not this holiday
MON 08:54

‫صباحكن أمل‬
Music Dandana

MON 21:16
mmmmh chahhitni fi 9hioua min yiddik

hhhh min idaya si med????

mela min yiddi ana hhhh ?

ok u ll get it
when the sun rises in the west?

hhhhh noooo
when u invite me for it
How come? I invite you to make a coffee to me?
'for'

???? excuse me mafhimtkch

would u make it clearer plz
Aya i9lib alina he s7an sayib alina mademik wallit ma tifhimch hhh.

hhhhj
i don t understand implied meanings
what's the weather like in Tunis?

winter
real winter
cold and rainy
how did u know that i have a relation to tunis ???
Think you've told me once you live there. Haven't you?

yes yes true but no longer

im from tunis
its my hometown
but now i live away from there
Where do you you live now?
very close to u
here
To me hhh

yes to u
where do u live???
I live in Korba

me too
not really korba korba but very close to korba
Beni Khalled? Tazarka? M. Temime?
Kelibia?

im every day in korba

no prob u will know soon or later u will know
but what matters is that i don t feel at ease here
the life style is not that enjoyable as in tunis
Don't bother yourself. I'm not too curious.

even about me ???

Yes. I pay respect to married women' private lives.

thanks for that

where do u work ??
Sousse
rabbi i3inek
i was teaching in enfidha
Allahou Akbar

hhhhhh labess
surprised ???
hhh you are turning the conversation into a sermon

the world is very small

????
U're making prayers etc

me ????
never
im i talking abt religion??? im i talking abt morals??? im i giving a religious speech ???
take it easy

so i ll let u lead the conversation

I'mjust interacting with you when you said 'rabbi yiinik'

aah yes
what do u want me to say ???
yes
alloooo
hi
why do you absolve yourself from any responsibility to express yourself? Say what you want!
There should be no hieararchical relationship between us outside work
why did u say allah akbar when i told u that i worked in enfidha
ok
happy to hear this from u
Happy that you're happy

merci beaucoup
so kind
i really need it
i.e need to be happy
i.e need s one to make me happy
Your husband is first

hhh you are turning the conversation into a sermon

hhhhj
hhh

husband is husband
and ....?

finish the sentence explicitly

maw kotlik i don t get the implied meanings hhhh
I don't know you well and thus I've to wait till we get familiar with you

"we" who are they ???

hhh
ok inchallh
may i wish u good night now
ill talk to mum a bit
then go to bed
Ok. Sweet dreams!

I have a feeling that there is no communication with your husband. Is there?

You can trust me

I don't know you well and thus I've to wait till we get familiar with you
hhhhh
hhhh
But I said you can trust me!

did u ???
why u didn t trust me earlier and i have to now ???
we will know many things abt each other
Bec I know you're married and I'm divorced so I had to keep a distance. You know our job is
too delicate
no

are u divorced? ??
i ignored this
asbi fon t know anything abt u except ur name hhh
chnowa illi no???
typing error

yes
i meant i do not know anything about u except ur name
may i ask u a question?
At least I had the courage to tell u things. You not.

hhhh ill
sure I'll
i m certain of myself that i ll do it
it s only a matter of time
isn "t it ??
Why time!

we can t plunge straight forward

don t u c that we wished each other good night but back to chatting ???
??
You can leave the conversation if you want to

i can t
i don t want
just call mum and ill be back
okay
ok

welcome back
So, you now live with your husband or on your way?
'yOU4
'you'

does it make a difference???

together and away
it does
try to be more open

hhhh ok
if we are together would i chat to u all this time and at this time????
unless you trust me and express yourself freely there won't be any progress in our talk
but married and with me at home and next to me in bed hhh
wallah this is the truth
as all tunisian couples hhh
present absent
is it clear now ???
I see
but this is just a temporary situation. May be it's a crisis and soon you'll be ok.
Another interpretation of what you said is that there is no warmth in bed. This case is also a
temporary situation

i feel tired
i need to sleep
good night
i hope so
It's ok. let's not talk about this any more. it seems useless.

chnowa illi useless? ??

talking as if we'renot talking
Good night

why ???
we ve said a lot
c u tomorrow
thx
good night
BYE

TUES 09:37
ouups sorry
i wanted to say good morning
and send another sticker

WED 00:30
hhh what a nice wink ! lol
WED 02:38

u want a wink???

hhhhhhh
ahla
why not, It arouses passion. Doesn't it?
Oh! Sorry I thought you're still awake but you seem to have gone to bed too early!
WED 07:51

good morning
WED 09:31
bjr
tikhdim ilyoum?

noooo
why???
just a question
are going to invite me for thaaat famous coffee ???
hhhhh
you are welcome

thanks
a good idea. whynot?

are you in bed like me hhh?

would you like that wemeet and have a coffee somewhere today or tonight?

noo im listening to the radio and having coffee

what abt my suggestion?

a good one
but i ve already planned my day today
may be tomorrow if u want
we can make a plan since today to put in consideration all the other engagements and be free
tomorrow afternoon im free
how much time can you spare for that appointment?
I mean if we go out, what time would you like to go back home?

2 hours
hhhh
a business meeting?

a first meeting !!
No, I'm used to meetings
a first meeting with you i mean
a first meeting with a new person in s ones life shouldn t last for long i think
excuse me i need to do a call then be back to u if u want
No. When I plan to go out for pleasure I usually forget abt the time notion

sahha alik
i can t forget abt the time notion as i have 2 kids i must look after them
Ic
what's your phone number?

92 071 832
laila
Call you now?

sorry not now

not safe setting to talk on phone
when can I call you then?

i ll c and tell u
as in the aftermoon husband will be at home
but tomorrow all the day long yes i can
A phone call not a prog !

ok then
after 12 today
you can't be free for a phone call now? So strange!
why strange???
im not alone
A phone call usually takes seconds and minutes! Eventhough you're not alone!
I tell something: I won't call you or chat with you. Does that make you comfortable?

no
what makes me comfortable is that we be friends but u consider my circumstances plz
No need for aplogizing
I don't need to put anybody under pressure

no never its not pressure

just the opposite
i like ur insistance
To be honest I have kind of assumption abt you that you are not that easy-going but I thought
you've made some changes!

hhhh
u thought but did ur thoughts match ???? hhh
yes

how???
have i really changed ???
No

hhhhh
You're the same

!!
how ???
firm and stern. Not flexible.
I often avoid people with such chxs
Societal factors bar communication and deprive people to express themselves freely and in an
easy going way.

if u want to avoid me u r free to do what makes u feel comfortable

wana i hate people who jump steps and stages
i think that we mustnt skip stages; must we???
Don't worry!
Processes, products! What's this? You seem to fasten the doors of communication!
No worries. You feel embarassed to accept a phone call!Too conservative.
Anyway, there is no need to convince you to make changes. Stay as you are. I don't need to
bother you

nonon no plz
this is tooo much
and wrong
prejudices! !
i do not fasten the doors of communication; just the opposite but as im a married woman and
have 2 boys i must a bit cautious to not light up fire at home and disturb my family peace
WED 16:43
I think I did not tell you to do so! Ok, forget about chatting with me. I wouldn't have chatted
with you if you didn't start the conversation. Sorry! Sorry!

why do u think so
i think u r exaggerating though i didn t say nothing
can i call u
I think you are communicating with me as if you are guilty of something or that we should
keep our talk as a secret!
may be phone calls could make things clearer
of course i must keep it secret as my husband never accepts a friendship between a man and a
woman
That's why I don't want you to do things against the will of your husband

and i don t want to have misunderstanding with him though i need s friend here especially that
i m not from here and do know anynody here
I don't want to spoil your private life

no no spoiling at all
behi let me call u
if i ll obey all his wills anf wants i ll end up by burrying myself
i need to have friend; what s the matter in that???? unless if u refuse i can t impose myself
You know I am a human being and divorced. I have sins and virtues. So if I go out with a
beautiful lady I may do sthg wrong. For this reason I don't want to put you in trouble.

ok as u like
as i told u i won t impose myself to u any more
i wanted to call u but u refuse too
I'm on the phone now. 95932606 call me after 5 minutes
WED 23:32

bonsoir
bonsoir bilbanoir

chnowa???hhh
chnowa il" bilbanoir"
bihammam wissichwar
banwar + Hammam + Sichoir
hhhh chkoun kallek illi ana mezilt tawa ki khrajt m douch hhhh
hhh yizzi ada?

douch akahaw
sechoir non
You're driving me to sins naughty girl

nooo
never
i just said bonsoir
and u replied by allll the other terms
ay
Poor me!
No scent of a woman for ages

how come???
and u go to discos and spend nights hanging out with girls
that was a big while ago

how do u manage then???

Luckily I have to manage now. I use my old skills
what about you?

wallah ma fhimt minnek chay hhhj which skills??? are u skilled ???
me ???
oh oh oh a big story
plz entertain me a little by telling me some of your story
entertain u????
are other people "s stories enterainment for u ?????
this hurts really
hhh they sooth me
OK are you deprived of something?

brabbi??? sooth u???

no hmdllh im satisfied with everything thanks god
Ok thx
Enough

and even if i m deprived of s thg i would rather tell s one who feels and shares my pain and
cares not to sooth himself with my sufferings
enough
night
Nighty

u really disapointed me
i thought we could be close intimate friends
but it seems i was wrong
from now on we aren't intimate

sure sure
Delete my name plz.

bye
mine too
Just one last commentand I hope you would not feel hurt: You have a problem of
communication; you seem a problem in communicating with others and in communicating
your ideas. To know how, you'd better go back to the top of our conv history and reread it all.

i don t need to
THURS 10:12

bonjour
GM

sooo abreviated ???

ok
today i can talk on the phone freely u can call whenever u feel like doing it
I'm sorry
Better we leave private conversations

do what makes u feel comfortable

THURS 17:16

sorry no more money in my phone

THURS 19:42

i ll be free after 30 mnts

You could have mentioned the time

i said 30 mnts from the time of the delivery of the message

and there isn't time of delivery
So, when will you be free?

no there is

there is what?

ok ill be free in few time ahead

time when the msg is sent hhhh
just mezsli shower akahaw hhhh
sa7a en avance

bonsoir
bsr

hru
not too bad

bad then ??
alone???
yes

i feel that
why don t you go out with some woman
I don't have one
oh mela you have many hhhj
alors go out with them allll
hhhhhh
I don't know

why don t you re marry? ???

One day hopefully. Idon't have someone special for the time being

you have to look for s one

May be

even if y will marry with a tunisian woman believe me nothing will change, u will remain
alone even if she lives with u under the same roof
It all depends

no wallah no kollhom kiff kiff

khallik hakka ahssan
Your bad experience, or mine are not enough to make general conclusions

free and at ease

not only ur or mine
i ve never seen or heard a satisfied or happy husband or wife here in Tunisia
Not true
many couples are happy
try to show to others
but when alone never
try to act as happy
Mariage is not the only way to happiness

what are the other ways ???

enjoy oneself, go out, listen to music, play sports, travel abroad, make changes, eat out, talk to
people, read, write, get involved in events in associations, etc

are there any associations here in nabeul that i can be a member of ???
yes good ways to enjoy oneself
have u got children? ??
You ask many questions at the same time! He/ she who talks to you feels as if he is in a speed
race

hhhhh yes i agree

take ur time
Q1/
Now I'm the president elect of TunisiaTEFL
TunisiaTEFL is a nice association: we meet, organize events and enjoy ourselves. You can
join it and attend its events
Q2/ I have a child: My son is called Adam AND HE LIVES WITH MY EX INLAWS IN
sOLIMON

how old is ur son ??

18

may i know why did divorce

if talking abt it doesn t disturb u of course
Q3 / About whether I can get maried again: I want to but did not a suitable lady

yes
Look you are a typically Tunisian citizen
Yizzi min tnasnis

especially for some one like u

its hard to find a woman understands , respects and values your craziness
we're divorced for the reason that she had many problems with herself, her parents and the
world
Thx for you comments

oh ana enessnass ??? no never w i do never care

behi let s talk abt tefl bech matkoulch enessness ghhh
not tefl

pourtant andi serious headache ama i enjoy talking to u too

it's called TunisiaTEFL

behi hhhhh illu thibb misselich

https://web.facebook.com/groups/241581056381532/

but before giving me any idea abt it i know and im more than certain that my dear husband
won t let me participate in this association
bkz he is ill of jealousy, mad of jealousy,
going to work makes him mad everyday let alone events ...
i wish u good night
i have a severe headache
can t look at the screen anymore
i ll sleep
GN
Just one word to you in particular:

yes
You want a friend to care about you only

mafhimtkch
What's the benefit for S.O. to be your friend
?

first of all if we talk abt benefits that s no longer friendship

but if u want to look for the benefit
yOU GO TOO FAST§

he will talk to a woman with high levels of many things

open minded
up to date
Franck
sincere
supportive
whenever he needs me he founds me
good listener
inzid walla yezzi hhhj
but benefit doesn t go with friendship
you keep talking abt your problems.

the answer for u question is lesson nb 4 bridge over troubled water for the second forms hhhh
no no
may be yes
You need urgent solutions and so on! Think this is too much Laila
if my problems are the problems of many others
too much for what?? whom ???
urgent solutions fech ???
may be to my loneliness here yes
i fed up
When I talk to s.o. I have expectations to feel delighted and excited by listening to a joke,
learn sthg new, be reminded of sthg interesting and share feelings. Sometimes I live an
adventure etc

im bored
communication is an exchange not a one-way direction

of course is an exchange
so, don't make yourself the only centre of interest
let me know when you want to leave the conv
Did you leave the conversation?
Don't personalise plz
I'm talking in general
FRI 08:54

good morning
FRI 14:00

good afternoon
FRI 22:09
good afternoon

hhhh good afternoon now !!

just have a shower
as i was in the fitness room
I was busy all day

just came back

have shower
take s thg as dinner
You like showers!

and we ll meet here again if uu want

i mention the time this time hhhh
at 10:15 is that ok??
hhh ok

Don't you think you'll be with your family at that time?

hhhh which family r u talking abt

Yours of course!

behi let me have shower and wr ll talk

we ll talk after the shower
sa7a

waouuui thax
FRI 23:22

bonsoir
hru
Bsr. Just asI was a while ago.
it seems your busy with correcting exams. Keep up the good work

no
i m waiting for u msgs
What msgs?

i said bonsoir
and waited for u to start the conversation
I've nothing to discuss! You wanted me to chat with you at 10:15. I expected you to talk abt
sthg?

hhhhh
no nothing special
Ok then.

if tired i can wish u warm night hhh

i.e good night
I'm not tired.

fine
when i was free all the day long we r not free for chatting
didn t c u connected
You have my tel nber so you could have called me!

i was afraid that u were with s one or buzy and answer me somehow
so i avoided phone
especially that i didn t get a signal from u to call
if u were with colleagues or s one i fearedbi embaress u
No

next time mela

w zid i didn t have sthg special to call u for it
Ok. Have a compromise with yourself first

why a compromise???
am i in a war???
im enjoying myself
im enjoying my life

ouiv milberah jet lil poste

ama ana ma khlatch al poste ilberah
hhh sorry
not for u this msg
hhh you're getting confussed
sayis rou7ik

wallah exhausted
work + housework+some marketing hhhh+ sport alll in one day its too much for me
sayis khouk
hhhh chkoun khouya
inti ???
sayis + facebook = sayis khouk

equation jdida ma kontch na3refha

inti ma3lem w minnek nita3lem
haw ilfan wella blech

non mouch fenn heda

heda klem bassit
momkin

si
anyway
How dare you chat with a man while your husband is around?

hhhh a nice question

So, your answer !

who told u that when he is around he is looking at me or noticing my presence

If I were in his shoes I would do the same hhh

en + since he is all the time either watching news channels or sunk in his papers or silent what
should i do then
why would u do the same??
could u explain plz why
I think you're punishing him by chatting with me!

punishing????
no its not a punishment
its a sloution
its a way to avoid problems
to avoid quarrels
tobenjoy oneself
still it's a kind of punishment!

we punish a person just once not many years now

and he doesn t care
what he cares for is just to come at night to bed to find a woman for some minutes enjoy
himself and that s all
anyway i feel so tired
good night for now
c u tomorrow
Good night. Plz think of how to change yourself in such a way that you get on well with your
husband.
Neither me nor anyone else will be good for you more than him

hhhh i thoughtband did yesbi did it differently

good as husband yes
but as sthg else no
I really feel embarassed to talk abt private issues with maried ladies for I don't like to be
involved in any kind of problem
Some other ladies want to talk abt private things with me. I always try to avoid that since it's
morally unaceptable. You may get angry about my reaction but that's the truth.

do don't embaress yourself

don t bother urself either
no never
I don't like myself to spoil a relationship
why do i get angry
i respect ur point of view
i respect ur will too
nothing cause anger
Thx

don t worry
good night

I feel more comfortable to chat this way with singles, or divorced ladies

u ve right
With married ladies, I like talking about work, CPD, teaching etc

i agree
if u want to talk to me u r welcome
if u don't you r welcome too
choose the topic that makes u feel comfortable
i m not asking u for anything
feel free
Yes, I'm not against talking to you or anyone else. It is interesting to socialize. But the context
differs from one person to another

yes yes sure

u r not needed to give any explanation too
if u feel happy talking talk
if u feel stressed and uncomfortable avoid it
take it easy
To be honest, a married lady who asks you to go out with, or chat at a later hour of the night is
always a risky step to take!
i agree
and you may ask urself why shall i rake risks when free offred ways are available
reasonable thinking
I always think of the reaction of an innocent husband who sits there and not know what
happens in his home! I don't want to be guilty of destroying a home!

oh !!oh !!oh!!! plz plz plz

I'd like to add sthg
Can I ?

yes
u can
Thx

feel free
There are cases of women who may invite me for a coffee or a meal or ask me if I could
accompany them in an event, a trip etc. They do not let me know abt their private lives, nor
abt their relationships with their husbands or tell me abt their marital states. In this case, I may
accept the invitation on the basis that I don't knw
This is safer and less immoral

1/ why innocent first??? as if im a bad woman doing sthg bad in his right and on his back ????
2 / what is happening in his home?? did i invite a man to his house to have a sexual affair????
3/ who told u that a friendship can destroy a home???
You & I know that
it can be read between the lines
that is not safer but avoiding the truth
yes this is the difference
some men prefer to live in a lie
they lie to themselves
they know the truth but they turn their backs to it just to get a momentary pleasure
Look you and I do not have the same situation

they r not honest to face themselves

yes
I'm divorced. You're married

sure
yees i agree with all what u r going to say
just bear in mind that i didn t askvu for anything
OMG !

even u asked me to go out and i avoided it

Did I ?
show it to me in our conversation!!!!!

bkz i know that we r not in same conditions and this may cause u embarrassment
ok just 1 mn i showv u
OK go ahead
Why didn't retype that?

if there is s one who needs a compromise with himself then he is u sir not me
good night
Look you cut this reply from a context
you'd better go back to the whole context
you may have invited me for such things earlier

brabbi ????? lee aad plz plz plzzz enough

that s enough
Can you back to what we said before my reply?

at least im honest with myself and Franck and honest with my husband too we r married but
we don t delete conversations ; if there is something as friendship or even more THERE Is;
we don t hide or cut or delete; i ve told you that i live with britsh traditions but last night u
accusedvme of being curious and typically tunisian but its clear now how is typically tunisian
and who is not

ana i invite u??? i don t dare

u don t believe me and this makes me mad of anger
but ill showvu all the conversation since the very single words to be sure of urself asvu r not
sure ot it but plzbi would be so greatful if that will be the last thing and msg and word we
send to each other because i do never lie and there is nothing is this life deserves me to lie to
get it ok
I've gone back to our conversation. There are pretty many details that show how you insisted
on sinking me in your private life and how you were inviting etc. That is all saved now. You
can't fool me or put me in thesituation you have in your mind. I do not regret any single word
I said and it's all contextualized. But I've to tell you something: You're kind of a bad person
and that I will keep in mind. Thanks God that you've told me what you've told me now. It's
clear you have a hidden agenda.

Hence, I'll ask you to put an end to this coversation right now
Had I known you are this kind of person I wouldn't dare talk or chat with you a second
Ok disappear now.
Go to hell

disappear???
go to hell???

thanks a lot this is all what i can reply because im a good woman and mitrobbya very well and
my parents educated me well to be able communicate with all types of people and respond to
all levels of dialogues .i ll never utter an insult to someone whatever the situation in which i m
and here appears the differences not disappears sir mouhamed
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