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Empathic Listening Defined
Empathic listening is typically an effective
technique to use in emotional situations, when
there is a problem that needs resolving, or if
there is conflict present
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Empathic Listening Formula
Acknowledge Reflect Describe
Speaker Feelings Facts/Situation
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Empathic Listening Formula
Phrases to help get started:
“You feel…”
“It seems like…”
“As I understand it, you sound…”
“It appears as if…”
“If I hear you correctly, you’d like…”
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Empathic Listening Example
Speaker: “I can’t believe what poor shape our
finances are in. I think Karen is really
mismanaging the budget and I’m
worried.”
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Steps for Empathic Listening
1. Listen carefully to the speaker’s messages,
both verbal and nonverbal
2. Display an open, caring posture
3. Consider the speaker’s emotional state
4. Calmly reflect back what you perceive the
speaker’s feelings and meaning to be
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Behaviors to Avoid
Questioning or Probing
Judging
Criticizing
Lecturing
Advising
Interrupting
Giving autobiographical responses (e.g.
“when I was on that team…”)
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Empathic Listening Tips
Be interested in the speaker
Have good eye contact and body language
Minimize distractions
Invite the speaker to expand on his or her
thoughts
Respond in a tone that is appropriate for the
situation
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Points to Remember
Empathic listening is about the speaker, not
the listener
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