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Ashley Cabrera-Quintero
FAM 300
Overview of Parenthood
The transition to parenthood is considered one of the most life changing events to happen
to an individual and marriage. Depending on the individual, the change can be described as
positive or negative. When talking about parenthood, why do most adults advise young married
couples to not have children within the first couple years of marriage? Could it be because they
have more experience? Or because they are considered wiser than younger adults? There are
Before transitioning to parenthood, couples have to transition into marriage which leads
to parenthood. The transition to marriage is described as, “One of the most significant
marriage is a time where adapting occurs and the time to connect with your spouse. In a research
study provided by Santa Clara University Psychology Commons, several models have been
developed to explain divorce during early years of marriage. Disillusionment is a process that
couples use from the transition from dating to marriage. This process is not helpful because it
only happens for distressed couples. During the transition to marriage, Ms. Cornelius and Ms.
Sullivan explained that the research has provided them with information that allowed them to
know about the high-risk behaviors involved in the transition to marriage. The main high-risk
empathetic responding, and social support. (Cornelius & Sullivan, 2009). Having supportive
behaviors decreases stress and improves physical and mental well-being. The article explains
that, “Longitudinal research suggests that newlyweds with poor social support skills are at
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increased risk of distress and divorce two years after marriage.” (Cornelius & Sullivan, 2009).
Another high-risk behavior that was discovered was the prevalence of intimate partner violence.
In a psychological view, this can often happen because of the stress a partner is feeling towards
the transition. This can often lead to other high-risk behaviors and can undermine the structure of
a relationship. “When couples experience acute stress, they tend to report higher levels of
problems in a marriage, communication difficulties, and a tendency to blame their partner for
negative events.” (Cornelius & Sullivan, 2009). The way a couple is able to adapt to this
Over the years, we hear older couples mention that children cause many issues within a
marriage. Usually those issues are centered on stress and marital dissatisfaction which create a
dip in a marriage. But this dip is only temporary and should be expected as you start to adjust to
the new changes. As Dr. Phillip and Carolyn Cowan said, “We believe that children are getting
an unfair share of the blame for their parents’ distress… We are convinced that the seeds of new
parents' individual and marital problems are sown long before their first child arrives.” (Cowan
& Cowan, 1992). I never thought about this before, but it is very true, if a marriage is strong, it
The main psychological disorders include postpartum depression and parenting distress. “ In the
United States, 1 in 7 women may experience PPD (Postpartum Depression) in the first year after
giving birth.” (Kimberly Langdon MD, 2019).Postpartum depression does not only affect
mothers but also fathers. Half of men who have partners with Postpartum depression will go
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through depression themselves, which is close to 10% of new fathers. These changes occur
because of the physical changes after birth and any family history of depression. When a couple
experiences postpartum depression, it can affect the children’s mental and physical well-being.
Before your child is born, make sure to speak with your partner and discuss ways that you will
Although many psychological disorders come after giving birth, what occurs when
women are suffering from depression before becoming pregnant? It becomes difficult for them to
adjust to parenthood and the nurturing of another human. In an article from the Department of
Psychological and Educational Sciences at the University of Palermo it states, “The interaction
between a child and his depressive mother can be pathologically intrusive or detached.”
(Epifanio et al., 2010). During that time, a mother might not be able to meet the daily child
management which can cause serious consequences on child development that vary depending
Parenting Distress
Parenting distress occurs more when a couple is having their first child or child with a
disorder. During the birth of the first child, parents can experience parenting distress because
they are unsure what they should do and how to raise their child. When a couple has a child with
a disorder, factors of parenting stress could include worry, guilt, sadness, fatigue,
embarrassment, resentment, and anger directed toward the child. These have been described as
indications of the subjective dimension of distress (Brannan & Heflinger, 2001). During the
times of distress, parents can look for different programs or individuals that can aid them. “ In
particular, Belsky’s (1984) model of the determinants of parenting identified contextual sources
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of support, including the parents’ social networks -e.g., friends, neighbors, relatives-, as
During the transition to parenthood, there are many areas that could possibly change
including physical health, social life, work life, communication, and many more. When it comes
to physical health, the transition into parenthood can cause lack of sleep, not being able to take
care of one’s personal needs, and etc. Parents need to discuss ways they can help each other.
During the transition, parents tend to get ill because of the lack of proper care for themselves.
Their social life is a part that often changes as well. Parents are not able to go out as much as
they did before. During this stage, parents tend to grow stronger connections with friends who
have children. The work life is changed tremendously because parents need schedules that allow
them to be with their children and provide income necessary to support the family. With work
hours decreasing, it can bring more stress to a family. Communication is the main thing that can
change during transition. Parents need to communicate expectations they have including house
work and expectations on how life is going to be with a child. Although setting expectations can
bring postpartum depression after birth, if you have any expectations it should be discussed with
your spouse.
There are many resources that can help during the transition into parenthood. In a
Brigham Young University (2006) article, they discussed The Marriage Moments Program,
which is designed to prevent relationship deterioration during the first year of parenthood.
martial virtues and partnership within the transition. This program is absolutely amazing and has
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a focus that can help so many people. BYU conducted a study with one hundred and fifty-five
married couples. Those couples were from different backgrounds, races, religion, and age
groups, so they did not specifically focus on just the Latter-day Saints population. The couples
were not asked about income because they were young college students. During the study, one
group received encouragement for completing the childbirth classes while the second group did
not. “This different treatment procedure was included in the design to test whether childbirth
educators’ involvement was essential to the intervention or whether simply putting educational
materials directly into the hands of transitioning couples would be sufficient..” (Hawkins et al.,
2006). The results showed higher levels of participation from couples who had the involvement
of an educator rather than those who received the educational materials directly. The Marriage
Moments Program was designed to help normalize the transition into parenthood and help
understand the challenges. This program helps strengthen family marital virtues, friendship
within a marriage through a shared vision of life and important life goals. During the primary
analyses, “The overall goal of the Marriage Moments Program was to prevent relationship
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