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"We should be careful to get out of an experience only the wisdom that is in
it -- and stop there; lest we be like the cat that sits down on a hot stove lid.
She will never sit down on a hot stove lid again -- and that is well; but also
she will never sit down on a cold one anymore."-- Mark Twain
"Aim for success, not perfection. Never give up your right to be wrong,
because then you will lose the ability to learn new things and move forward
with your life. Remember that fear always lurks behind perfectionism.
Confronting your fears and allowing yourself the right to be human can,
paradoxically, make yourself a happier and more productive person."
"Good and evil both increase at compound interest. That is why the little
decisions you and I make every day are of such infinite importance."-- C.S.
Lewis
"He that would live in peace and at ease must not speak all he knows or all
he sees."-- Benjamin Franklin
"A friendship can weather most things and thrive in thin soil; but it needs a
little mulch of letters and phone calls and small, silly presents every so
often - just to save it from drying out completely."
"A man begins cutting his wisdom teeth the first time he bites off more
than he can chew."
"If you're not failing every now and again, it's a sign you're not doing
anything very innovative."-- Woody Allen
"He can who thinks he can, and he can't who thinks he can't. This is an
inexorable, indisputable law."-- Pablo Picasso
"When you live for others' opinions, you are dead. I don't want to live
thinking about how I'll be remembered."
"If there is anything that we wish to change in the child, we should first
examine it and see whether it is not something that could better be
changed in ourselves."-- Carl Jung
"Knowledge and timber shouldn't be much used till they are seasoned."--
Oliver Wendell Holmes Jr.
"If you haven't any charity in your heart, you have the worst kind of heart
trouble."-- Bob Hope
"By the time a man realizes that maybe his father was right, he usually has
a son who thinks he's wrong."-- Charles Wadsworth
"The most difficult thing is the decision to act, the rest is merely tenacity.
The fears are paper tigers. You can do anything you decide to do. You can
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act to change and control your life; and the procedure, the process is its
own reward."-- Amelia Earhart
"Silence will save me from being wrong (and foolish), but it will also deprive
me of the possibility of being right."-- Igor Stravinsky
"There are two ways of being happy: We must either diminish our wants or
augment our means - either may do - the result is the same and it is for
each man to decide for himself and to do that which happens to be
easier."-- Benjamin Franklin
"I think happiness comes from self-acceptance. We all try different things,
and we find some comfortable sense of who we are. We look at our parents
and learn and grow and move on. We change."-- Jamie Lee Curtis
"Do not fear to be eccentric in opinion, for every opinion now accepted was
once eccentric."-- Bertrand Russell
"After a time, you may find that 'having' is not so pleasing a thing, after all,
as 'wanting.' It is not logical, but it is often true."-- Mr. Spock, Star Trek
"There are generations yet unborn, whose very lives will be shifted and
shaped by the moves you make and the actions you take."-- Andy Andrews
"Three things that never come back: the spent arrow; the spoken word; the
lost opportunity."-- Willam George Plunkett
"Truth is like the sun. You can shut it out for a time, but it ain't goin'
away."-- Elvis Presley
"You have to be focused on the things that make you a human and not a
golden god. You have to focus on just living."-- Michael Kearney
"Fill what's empty, empty what's full, and scratch where it itches." (when
asked what is the secret of a long and happy life.)-- Wallis Warfield
Simpson, Duchess of Windsor
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"Age does not diminish the extreme disappointment of having a scoop of
ice cream fall from the cone."-- Jim Fiebig
"It is books that are the key to the wide world; if you can't do anything
else, read all that you can."-- Jane Hamilton
"I've always believed in the idea that each of us has a particular place in
the universe where we belong, and that if we find it everything will fall into
place and we will
flourish."-- Patrick O'Connell
"Do not confuse motion and progress. A rocking horse keeps moving but
does not make any progress."-- Alfred A. Montapert
"Square your shoulders to the world, be not the kind to quit. It's not the
load that weighs you down but the way you carry it."-- Anonymous
"Real beauty isn't about symmetry or weight or makeup; it's about looking
life right in the face and seeing all its magnificence reflected in your
own."-- Valerie Monroe
"If you see failure as a monster stalking you, or one that has already ruined
your life, take another look. That monster can become a benevolent
teacher, opening your mind to successes you cannot now imagine."--
Martha Beck
"If a man does not make new acquaintances as he advances through life, he
will soon find himself left alone; one should keep his friendships in constant
repair."-- Dr Samuel Johnson
"You have to start by changing the story you tell yourself about getting
older... The minute you say to yourself, 'Time is everything, and I'm going
to make sure that time is used the way I dream it should be used,' then
you've got a whole different story."-- Diane Sawyer
"Treat people as if they were what they ought to be and you will help them
become what they are capable of becoming."-- J.W Von Goethe
"When you are through changing, you are through."-- Bruce Barton
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"Look, I'm not the one with the problem, okay? It's the world that seems to
have a problem with *me*! People take one look at me and go Aargh! Help!
Run! A big stupid ugly ogre! They judge me before they even know me."--
Shrek
"Responsibility is the one thing people dread most of all. Yet it is the one
thing in the world that develops us."-- Frank Crane
"It is infinitely more exciting to live a life of catastrophic failures than a life
of could-haves, should-haves and would-haves."-- M.H Meng
"A lot of people like to do certain things, but they're not that good at it.
Keep going through the things that you like to do, until you find something
that you actually seem to be extremely good at. It can be anything."--
George Lucas
"You can't base your life on other people's expectations."-- Stevie Wonder
"I attribute my success to this - I never gave or took any excuse."-- Florence
Nightingale
"The difference between false memories and true ones is the same as for
jewels: it is always the false ones that look the most real, the most
brilliant."-- Salvador Dali
"Those who enjoy their own emotionally bad health and who habitually fill
their own minds with the rank poisons of suspicion, jealousy and hatred, as
a rule take umbrage at those who refuse to do likewise, and they find a
perverted relief in trying to denigrate them."-- Johannes Brahms
"If you want a happy ending, that depends, of course, on where you stop
your story."-- Orson Welles
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"For beautiful eyes, look for the good in others; for beautiful lips, speak
only words of kindness; and for poise, walk with the knowledge that you
are never alone."-- Audrey Hepburn
"It is good to realize that if love and peace can prevail on earth, and if we
can teach our children to honor nature's gifts, the joys and beauties of the
outdoors will be here forever."-- Jimmy Carter
"There's no secret to getting started. You simply decide and then take your
first step. With each subsequent step, the next one becomes easier..."--
Tom Venuto, fitness expert
"When you grow up and you're different, all you want to do is find a way to
be the same. And then as a more mature adult you realize the beauty of
thinking on your own."-- Sarah Jessica Parker
"Everybody has to look at his or her own footprint and do the best they can.
It's not about being perfect, it's about doing something. If we're looking for
perfection, we'll never, ever get there."-- Laurie David
"The fishermen know that the sea is dangerous and the storm terrible, but
they have never found these dangers sufficient reason for remaining
ashore."-- Vincent Van Gogh
"It is the responsibility of every adult to make sure that children hear what
we have learned from the lessons of life and to hear over and over that we
love them."-- Marian W. Edelman
"A true conservationist is a man who knows that the world is not given by
his fathers, but borrowed from his children."-- John James Audubon
"Diamonds are nothing more than chunks of coal that stuck to their jobs."--
Malcolm Forbes
"Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be."-- John Wooden
"One has to handle these negative experiences alone. You can't get help
from your friends or family. You're finally alone with it, and you have to
come to grips with misfortune and go on."-- Shirley Temple Black
"To live a creative life, we must lose our fear of being wrong."-- Joseph
Chilton Pearce
"The more sand that has escaped from the hourglass of our life, the clearer
we should see through it."-- Jean Paul
"Life is a great big canvas, and you should throw all the paint on it you
can."-- Danny Kaye
"A nickel will get you on the subway, but garlic will get you a seat."-- Old
New York Proverb
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"My dog is worried about the economy because Alpo is up to 99 cents a can.
That's almost $7.00 in dog money."-- Joe Weinstein
"There is only one success -- to be able to live your life in your own way."--
Christopher Morley
"Worry a little bit every day and in a lifetime you will lose a couple of years.
If something is wrong, fix it if you can. But train yourself not to worry.
Worry never fixes anything."-- Mary Hemingway
"Cleaning your house while your kids are still growing is like shoveling the
walk before it stops snowing."-- Phyllis Diller
"If you don't learn to laugh at trouble, you won't have anything to laugh at
when you're old."-- Edgar Watson Howe
"There are people who make things happen, there are people who watch
things happen, and there are people who wonder what happened. To be
successful, you need to be a person who makes things happen."-- Jim Lovell
"Don't ever take a fence down until you know why it was put up."-- Robert
Frost
"People who ask our advice almost never take it. Yet we should never
refuse to give it, upon request, for it often helps us to see our own way
more clearly."-- Brendan Francis
"Failure is the condiment that gives success its flavor."-- Truman Capote
"I went to the brink many times. A couple of times I thought 'I'm gone. This
is it.' But then you would just keep working. I think if you're close to the
brink and just make sure that you work twice as hard and put twice as
much effort into everything and the people around you and everything, you
should come through."-- Gerry Harvey
"If you don't know where you are going, how can you expect to get
there?"-- Basil S. Walsh
"Take a deep breath, count to ten, and tackle each task one step at a
time."-- Linda Shalaway
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"I don't run away from a challenge because I am afraid. Instead, I run
toward it because the only way to escape fear is to trample it beneath your
feet."-- Nadia Comaneci
"There is only one way to happiness, and that is to cease worrying about
things which are beyond the power of our will."—Epictetus
"I do not cast my eyes away from my troubles. I pack them in as little
compass as I can for myself, and never let them annoy others."-- Robert
Southey
"You don't understand anything until you learn it more than one way."--
Marvin Minsky
"You are the same today as you'll be in five years except for two things, the
books you read and the people you meet."-- Charlie "Tremendous" Jones
"Accept that all of us can be hurt, that all of us can and surely will at times
fail. Other vulnerabilities, like being embarrassed or risking love, can be
terrifying, too. I think we should follow a simple rule: if we can take the
worst, take the risk."-- Joyce Brothers
"Minds are like flowers. If you let it sit there without soaking anything up, it
will dry up."-- Ken Hill
"To thine own self be true, and it must follow, as the night the day, thou
canst not then be false to any man."-- William Shakespeare
"Laughter is the brush that sweeps away the cobwebs of your heart."-- Mort
Walker
"Things can fall apart, or threaten to, for many reasons, and then there's
got to be a leap of faith. Ultimately, when you're at the edge, you have to
go forward or backward; if you go forward, you have to jump together." --
Yo-Yo Ma
"No matter how busy you may think you are, you must find time for
reading, or surrender yourself to self-chosen ignorance."— Confucius
"You only live once--but if you work it right, once is enough."-- Joe Lewis
"The past is a great place and I don't want to erase it or to regret it, but I
don't want to be its prisoner either."-- Mick Jagger
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"Grow old along with me! The best is yet to be, the last of life, for which the
first was made."-- Robert Browning
"Decide whether or not the goal is worth the risks involved. If it is, stop
worrying."-- Amelia Earhart
"The best way to escape from a problem is to solve it."-- Alan Saporta
"It isn't sufficient just to want - you've got to ask yourself what you are
going to do to get the things you want."-- Franklin D. Roosevelt
"Whatever acts a good or bad man may do, the fruits thereof follow him
and will never stop pursuing him."-- Sri Sai Baba
"In order to change the world, you have to get your head together first."--
Jimi Hendrix
"I believe that man will not merely endure; he will prevail. He is immortal,
not because he alone among the creatures has an inexhaustible voice, but
because he has a soul, a spirit capable of kindness and compassion."--
William Falconer
"I figured if you're going to do something, you should do it the best you
can." -- John T. Walton
"Laughter is the brush that sweeps away the cobwebs of your heart."-- Mort
Walker
"How often I have found that we grow to maturity not by doing what we
like, but by doing what we should. How true it is that not every 'should' is a
compulsion, and not every 'like' is a high morality and true freedom."-- Karl
Rahner
"If you want to be truly successful, invest in yourself to get the knowledge
you need to find your unique factor. When you find it and focus on it and
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persevere, your success will
blossom."-- Sydney Madwed
"If you keep thinking about what you want to do or what you hope will
happen, you don't do it, and it won't happen."-- Desiderius Erasmus
"Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today
and make a new ending."-- Maria Robinson
"It's far more impressive when others discover your good qualities without
your help."
-- Judith Martin
"For every minute you are angry, you lose 60 seconds of happiness."--
Ralph Waldo Emerson
"If you think you are too small to be effective, you have never been in the
dark with a mosquito."-- Betty Reese
"Gratitude unlocks the fullness of life. It turns what we have into enough,
and more. It turns denial into acceptance, chaos to order, confusion to
clarity. It can turn a meal into
a feast, a house into a home, a stranger into a friend. Gratitude makes
sense of our past, brings peace for today, and creates a vision for
tomorrow."-- Melody Beattie
"If you don't have confidence, you'll always find a way not to win."-- Carl
Lewis
"Life is what we make it, always has been, always will be."-- Grandma
Moses
"All I can say about life is, Oh God, enjoy it!"-- Bob Newhart
"If you can find a path with no obstacles, it probably doesn't lead
anywhere."-- Frank A. Clark
"It's not the critic that counts, not the man who points out how the strong
man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done better. The
credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena."-- Theodore
Roosevelt
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"We can never judge the lives of others, because each person knows only
their own pain and renunciation. It's one thing to feel that you are on the
right path, but it's another to think that yours is the only path."-- Paulo
Coelho, Brazilian novelist
"We should not look back unless it is to derive useful lessons from past
errors, and for the purpose of profiting by dearly bought experience."--
George Washington
"There is only one failure in life possible, and that is not to be true to the
best one knows."-- George Eliot
"It's fine to celebrate success but it is more important to heed the lessons
of failure."
-- Bill Gates
"Again and again, the impossible problem is solved when we see that the
problem is only a tough decision waiting to be made."-- Robert H. Schuller
"Determine to do some thinking for yourself. Don't live entirely upon the
thoughts of others. Don't be an automaton."-- James Cash Penney
"I can accept failure, everyone fails at something. But I can't accept not
trying."
--Michael Jordan
"Every job is a self-portrait of the person who did it. Autograph your work
with excellence."—Unknown
"No one is born hating another person because of the color of his skin, or
his background, or his religion. People must learn to hate, and if they can
learn to hate, they can be taught to love, for love comes more naturally to
the human heart than its opposite."-- Nelson Mandela
"The only kind of dignity which is genuine is that which is not diminished by
the indifference of others."-- Dag Hammarskjold
"We all have different desires and needs, but if we don't discover what we
want from ourselves and what we stand for, we will live passively and
unfulfilled."-- Bill Watterson
"If you have time to whine and complain about something then you have
the time to do something about it."-- Anthony J. D'Angelo
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"It matters little where a man may be at this moment; the point is whether
he is growing."
-- George MacDonald
"The most pathetic person in the world is someone who has sight but has
no vision."
-- Helen Keller
"Who is richer? The man who is seen, but cannot see? Or the man who is
not being seen, but can see?"-- Babe Ruth
"You can buy a person's hands but you can't buy his heart. His heart is
where his enthusiasm, his loyalty is."-- Stephen Covey
"A hero is no braver than an ordinary man, but he is braver five minutes
longer."-- Ralph Waldo Emerson
"The wisdom acquired with the passage of time is a useless gift unless you
share it."
--Esther Williams
"We must let go of the life we planned, so as to accept the one that is
waiting for us."
-- Joseph Campbell
"The past does not define you, the present does."-- Jillian Michaels
"You can do so much in 10 minutes' time. Ten minutes, once gone, are gone
for good. Divide your life into 10-minute units and sacrifice as few of them
as possible in meaningless activity."-- Ingvar Kamprad, Founder of IKEA
"The beautiful thing about learning is that no one can take it away from
you."B.B. King
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"Be content with what you have, rejoice in the way things are.When you
realize there is nothing lacking, the whole world belongs to you."-- Lao Tzu
"Humor is the great thing, the saving thing. The minute it crops up, all our
irritations and resentments slip away and a sunny spirit takes their
place."-- Mark Twain
"Help others and give something back. I guarantee you will discover that
while public service improves the lives and the world around you, its
greatest reward is the enrichment and new meaning it will bring your own
life."-- Arnold Schwarzenegger
"What it comes down to, for me, is that people want to do what will make
them happy, but in order to understand that they really have to understand
their world and what is going on around them."-- Mark Zuckerberg, founder
of Facebook
"It is not work that kills men, it is worry. Work is healthy; you can hardly
put more on a man than he can bear. But worry is rust upon the blade. It is
not movement that destroys the machinery, but friction."-- Henry Ward
Beecher
"Hide not your talents, they for use were made. What's a sun dial in the
shade?"--Benjamin Franklin
"To control and sort young people for the sake of institutional efficiency is
to crush the human spirit."-- Ron Miller
"If you see ten troubles coming down the road, you can be sure that nine
will run into the ditch before they reach you."-- Calvin Coolidge
"The person who gets the farthest is generally the one who is willing to do
and dare. The sure-thing boat never gets far from shore."-- Dale Carnegie
"I am always doing that which I can not do, in order that I may learn how to
do it."
-- Pablo Picasso
"There are generations yet unborn, whose very lives will be shifted and
shaped by the moves you make and the actions you take." -- Andy Andrews
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"Everyone experiences tough times; it is a measure of your determination
and dedication how you deal with them and how you can come through
them."-- Lakshmi Mittal
"Many of our fears are tissue paper thin, and a single courageous step
would carry us clear through them."-- Brendan Francis
"Take a deep breath, count to ten, and tackle each task one step at a
time."-- Linda Shalaway
"A dead end street is a good place to turn around."-- Naomi Judd
"Every student can learn, just not on the same day, or the same way."--
George Evans
"The future may be made up of many factors but where it truly lies is in the
hearts and minds of men. Your dedication should not be confined for your
own gain, but unleashes your passion for our beloved country as well as for
the integrity and humanity of mankind."-- Li Ka Shing
"Carpe diem! Rejoice while you are alive; enjoy the day; live life to the
fullest; make the most of what you have. It is later than you think."—Horace
"You will never find time for anything. If you want time you must make it."--
Charles Buxton
"Make it thy business to know thyself, which is the most difficult lesson in
the world."
-- Miguel de Cervantes
"If you haven't any charity in your heart, you have the worst kind of heart
trouble."-- Bob Hope
"A strong positive mental attitude will create more miracles than any
wonder drug."-- Patricia Neal
"I was thinking one day and I realized that if I just had somebody behind me
all the way to motivate me I could make a big difference. Nobody came
along like that so I just became that person for myself."—Unknown
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"Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to
help you discover who you are."-- Bernice Johnson Reagon
"Walking your talk is a great way to motivate yourself. No one likes to live a
lie. Be honest with yourself, and you will find the motivation to do what you
advise others to do."-- Vince Poscente
"If you are planning for a year, sow rice; if you are planning for a decade,
plant trees; if you are planning for a lifetime, educate people."-- Chinese
proverb
"Do not fear to be eccentric in opinion, for every opinion now accepted was
once eccentric."-- Bertrand Russell
"Work is the basis of living. I'll never retire. A man'll rust out quicker than
he'll wear out."-- Harland Sanders
"Nothing you do for children is ever wasted. They seem not to notice us,
hovering, averting our eyes, and they seldom offer thanks, but what we do
for them is never wasted."-- Garrison Keillor
"Life is something like a trumpet. If you don't put anything in, you won't get
anything out."-- W.C. Handy
"What is a weed? A plant whose virtues have not yet been discovered."--
Ralph Waldo Emerson
"When it is obvious that the goals cannot be reached, don't adjust the
goals, adjust the action steps."—Confucius
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"Over the years I have developed a picture of what a human being living
humanely is like. She is a person who understands, values and develops her
body, finding it
beautiful and useful; a person who is real and is willing to take risks, to be
creative, to manifest competence, to change when the situation calls for it,
and to find ways to
accommodate to what is new and different, keeping that part of the old
that is still useful and discarding what is not."-- Virginia Satir
"It is more important to know where you are going than to get there
quickly. Do not mistake activity for achievement."-- Mabel Newcomber
"Move out of your comfort zone. You can only grow if you are willing to feel
awkward and uncomfortable when you try something new."-- Brian Tracy
"The one who asks questions doesn't lose his way."-- African Proverb
"It takes a great deal of bravery to stand up to our enemies, just as much to
stand up to our friends."—Dumbledore
"So let's be honest with ourselves and not take ourselves too serious, and
never condemn the other fellow for doing what we are doing every day,
only in a different way."-- Will Rogers
"It is not what we take up, but what we give up, that makes us rich."--
Henry Ward Beecher
"Even a happy life cannot be without a measure of darkness, and the word
happy would lose its meaning if it were not balanced by sadness."-- Carl
Jung
"The recipe for perpetual ignorance is: be satisfied with your opinions and
content with your knowledge."-- Elbert Hubbard
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“Man has such a predilection for systems and abstract deductions that he
is ready to distort the truth intentionally, he is ready to deny the evidence
of his senses only to justify his logic.” --Fyodor Dostoyevsky
"Notice the difference between what happens when a man says to himself,
'I have failed three times,' and what happens when he says, 'I am a
failure.'-- S.I. Hayakawa
"Character is doing the right thing when nobody's looking. There are too
many people who think that the only thing that's right is to get by, and the
only thing that's wrong is to get caught." -- J.C. Watts
"The biggest men and women with the biggest ideas can be shot down by
the smallest men and women with the smallest minds. Think big anyway."--
Kent M. Keith
"Always think outside the box and embrace opportunities that appear,
wherever they might be."-- Lakshmi Mittal
"Respect the past in the full measure of its desserts, but do not make the
mistake of confusing it with the present nor seek in it the ideals of the
future."-- Jose Incenerios
"The first thing which I can record concerning myself is, that I was born.
These are wonderful words. This life, to which neither time nor eternity can
bring diminution -- this
everlasting living soul, began. My mind loses itself in these depths." --
Groucho Marx
"If it's never our fault, we can't take responsibility for it. If we can't take
responsibility for it, we'll always be its victim."-- Richard Bach
"Men are like steel. When they lose their temper, they lose their worth."--
Chuck Norris
"You become a champion by fighting one more round. When things are
tough, you fight one more round."-- James Corbett
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"It is in many people's best interest for you not to find yourself, but it only
matters that it is in yours, and the whole world's, to proceed."-- Anne
Lamott
"Seek out that particular mental attribute which makes you feel most
deeply and vitally alive, along with which comes the inner voice which says,
'This is the real me,' and when you have found that attitude, follow it."--
James Truslow Adams
"One must never lose time in vainly regretting the past or in complaining
against the changes which cause us discomfort, for change is the essence
of life."-- Anatole France
"The man who doesn't relax and hoot a few hoots voluntarily, now and
then, is in great danger of hooting hoots and standing on his head for the
edification of the pathologist and trained nurse, a little later on."-- Elbert
Hubbard
"Anything will give up its secrets if you love it enough. Not only have I
found that when I talk to the little flower or to the little peanut they will
give up their secrets, but I have found that when I silently commune with
people they give up their secrets also -- if you love them enough."-- George
Washington
"To bring up a child in the way he should go, travel that way yourself once
in a while."
-- Josh Billings
"Happiness cannot come from without. It must come from within. It is not
what we see and touch or that which others do for us which makes us
happy; it is that which we think and feel and do, first for the other fellow
and then for ourselves."-- Helen Keller
"A good laugh and a long sleep are the best cures in the doctor's book."--
Irish Proverb
"The praise that comes from love does not make us vain, but more
humble."-- James M. Barrie
"Practice isn't the thing you do once you're good. It's the thing you do that
makes you good."-- Malcolm Gladwell
"In the long run, men hit only what they aim at. Therefore, they had better
aim at something high."-- Henry David Thoreau
"As I grow older, I pay less attention to what men say. I just watch what
they do."
-- Andrew Carnegie
"If we did all the things that we are capable of doing, we would literally
astound ourselves."-- Thomas Edison
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"You are today where your thoughts have brought you; you will be
tomorrow where your thoughts take you."-- James Allen
"I learned that courage was not the absence of fear, but the triumph over
it. The brave man is not he who does not feel afraid, but he who conquers
that fear."-- Nelson Mandela
"Do something everyday for no other reason than you would rather not do
it, so that when the hour of dire need draws nigh, it may find you not
unnerved and untrained to stand the test."-- William James
"Language is the dress of thought; every time you talk your mind is on
parade."-- Dr Samuel Johnson
"Growing old is nothing more than mind over matter; If you don't mind, it
doesn't matter." – Anonymous
"Always fall in with what you're asked to accept. Take what is given, and
make it over your way. My aim in life has always been to hold my own with
whatever's going. Not against: with."-- Robert Frost
"Joyfulness keeps the heart and face young. A good laugh makes us better
friends with ourselves and everybody around us."-- Orison Swett Marden
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"Blessed is the man who, having nothing to say, abstains from giving us
wordy evidence of the fact."-- George Eliot
"We must not believe the many, who say that only free people ought to be
educated, but we should rather believe the philosophers who say that only
the educated are free."—Epictetus
"I keep my friends as misers do their treasure, because, of all the things
granted us by wisdom, none is greater or better than friendship."-- Pietro
Aretino
"The act of putting pen to paper encourages pause for thought, this in turn
makes us think more deeply about life, which helps us regain our
equilibrium."-- Norbet Platt
"The test of a first-rate intelligence is the ability to hold two opposed ideas
in mind at the same time and still retain the ability to function. One should,
for example, be able to
see that things are hopeless and yet be determined to make them
otherwise.”-- F. Scott Fitzgerald
"A musician must make music, an artist must paint, a poet must write if he
is to be ultimately at peace with himself. What one can be, one must be."--
Abraham Maslow
"Once children learn how to learn, nothing is going to narrow their mind."--
Marva Collins
"Love begins at home, and it is not how much we do, but how much love we
put in that action."-- Mother Teresa
"In these days, a man who says a thing cannot be done is quite apt to be
interrupted by some idiot doing it."-- Elbert Hubbard
"I count him braver who overcomes his desires than him who conquers his
enemies, for the hardest victory is over self."—Aristotle
Certain thoughts are prayers. There are moments when, whatever be the
attitude of the body, the soul is on its knees.--Victor Hugo
It takes people a long time to learn the difference between talent and
genius, especially ambitious young men and women.--Louisa May Alcott
"If you aren't fired up with enthusiasm, you will be fired with enthusiasm."--
Vince Lombardi
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"An idea can turn to dust or magic, depending on the talent that rubs
against it."-- Bill Bernbach
"If you ask what is the single most important key to longevity, I would have
to say it is avoiding worry, stress and tension. And if you didn't ask me, I'd
still have to say it."-- George F. Burns
"What do you first do when you learn to swim? You make mistakes, do you
not? And what happens? You make other mistakes, and when you have
made all the mistakes you possibly can without drowning - and some of
them many times over – what do you find? That you can swim? Well - life is
just the same as learning to swim! Do not be afraid of making mistakes, for
there is no other way of learning how to live!"-- Alfred Adler
"The important thing is not to stop questioning. Curiosity has its own
reason for existing. One cannot help but be in awe when he contemplates
the mysteries of eternity, of life, of the marvelous structure of reality. It is
enough if one tries merely to comprehend a little of this mystery every day.
Never lose a holy curiosity."-- Albert Einstein
"Be as smart as you can, but remember that it is always better to be wise
than to be smart."-- Alan Alda
"Look not mournfully into the past, it comes not back again. Wisely improve
the present, it is thine. Go forth to meet the shadowy future without fear
and with a manly heart."-- Henry Wadsworth Longfellow
"The aging process has you firmly in its grasp if you never get the urge to
throw a snowball."-- Doug Larson
"Beware of undertaking too much at the start. Be content with quite a little.
Allow for accidents. Allow for human nature, especially your own."-- Arnold
Bennett
"I think of life as a good book. The further you get into it, the more it
begins to make sense."-- Harold S. Kushner
"It does not do to dwell on dreams and forget to live, remember that."-- J.K.
Rowling
"Today is not yesterday: we ourselves change; how can our works and
thoughts, if they are always to be the fittest, continue always the same?
Change indeed is painful; yet ever needful; and if Memory have its force
and worth, so also has Hope."-- Thomas Carlyle
"Time is more valuable than money. You can get more money, but you can't
get more time."-- Jim Rohn
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"It's not enough to be busy... the question is: what are we busy about?"--
Henry David Thoreau
"Do not follow where the path may lead. Go instead where there is no path
and leave a trail."-- Harold R. McAlindon
"May you live all the days of your life."-- Jonathan Swift
"Apply yourself. Get all the education you can, but then... do something.
Don't just stand there, make it happen."-- Lee Iacocca
"Life is like riding a bicycle. To keep your balance you must keep moving."
-- Albert Einstein
"Advice is what we ask for when we already know the answer but wish we
didn't."
-- Erica Jong
"Take chances, make mistakes. That's how you grow. Pain nourishes your
courage. You have to fail in order to practice being brave." -- Mary Tyler
Moore
"If we do not change our direction, we are likely to end up where we are
headed." -- Chinese Proverb
"That you may retain your self-respect, it is better to displease the people
by doing what you know is right, than to temporarily please them by doing
what you know is wrong."
-- William J.H. Boetcker
"While we may not be able to control all that happens to us, we can control
what happens inside us." -- Benjamin Franklin
"Associate yourself with men of good quality if you esteem your own
reputation; for 'tis better to be alone than in bad company."--George
Washington
"So many fail because they don't get started - they don't go. They don't
overcome inertia. They don't begin."-- W. Clement Stone
"What is a great love of books? It is something like a personal introduction
to the great and good men of all past times. Books, it is true, are silent as
you see them on their shelves; but, silent as they are, when I enter a library
I feel as if almost the dead were present, and I know if I put questions to
these books they will answer me with all the
faithfulness and fullness which has been left in them by the great men who
have left the books with us."-- John Bright
"Of course, I want to be number one. But being happy and healthy is the
most important thing." -- Venus Williams
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"There are no shortcuts to any place worth going."-- Beverly Sills
"Even if the hopes you started out with are dashed, hope has to be
maintained."
-- Seamus Heaney
"A bend in the road is not the end of the road... unless you fail to make the
turn."
-- Author Unknown
"When you come to the end of your rope, tie a knot and hang on." --
Franklin D. Roosevelt
"We cannot live for ourselves alone. Our lives are connected by a thousand
invisible threads, and along these sympathetic fibers, our actions run as
causes and return to us as results." -- Herman Melville
"The battles that count aren't the ones for gold medals. The struggles
within yourself -- the invisible, inevitable battles inside all of us -- that's
where it's at."-- Jesse Owens
"If you can't be kind, at least have the decency to be vague." -- Jerry
Seinfeld
"The human brain is unique in that it is the only container of which it can be
said that the more you put into it, the more it will hold."-- Glenn Doman
"Sometimes when you sacrifice something precious, you're not really losing
it. You're just passing it on to someone else."-- Mitch Albom
"You can teach a student a lesson for a day; but if you can teach him to
learn by creating curiosity, he will continue the learning process as long as
he lives." -- Clay P. Bedford
"Assert your right to make a few mistakes. If people can't accept your
imperfections, that's their fault."-- David M. Burns
"Remember, people will judge you by your actions, not your intentions. You
may have a heart of gold -- but so does a hard-boiled egg."
"A man who limits his interests, limits his life." -- Vincent Price
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"All the woulda-coulda-shouldas layin' in the sun, talkin' 'bout the things
they woulda-coulda-shoulda done... But all those woulda-coulda-shouldas
all ran away and hid from one little did." -- Shel Silverstein, Author
"The mind is its own place, and in itself can make a heaven of hell, a hell of
heaven." -- John Milton
"An inventor fails 999 times, and if he succeeds once, he's in. He treats his
failures simply as practice shots." -- Charles F. Kettering
"It's all right letting yourself go, as long as you can get yourself back."
-- Mick Jagger
"Sometimes the most important thing in a whole day is the rest we take
between two deep breaths." -- Etty Hillesum
"Our lives improve only when we take chances -- and the first and most
difficult risk we can take is to be honest with ourselves." -- Walter
Anderson
"People who fight fire with fire usually end up with ashes." -- Abigail Van
Buren
"If time be of all things most precious, wasting time must be the greatest
prodigality, since lost time is never found again; and what we call time
enough always proves little enough." -- Benjamin Franklin
"In order to succeed, your desire for success should be greater than your
fear of failure.”-- Bill Cosby
"We did not change as we grew older; we just became more clearly
ourselves." -- Lynn Hall
"There are two ways to spread happiness; either be the light who shines it
or be the mirror who reflects it."-- Edith Wharton
"All you need is love. But a little chocolate now and then doesn't hurt." --
Charles M. Schulz
"Some people grumble because roses have thorns; I am thankful that the
thorns have roses." -- Alphonse Karr
"A desk is a dangerous place from which to watch the world." -- John le
Carre
"Make no little plans; they have no magic to stir men's blood and probably
themselves will not be realized. Make big plans; aim high in hope and work,
remembering that a noble, logical diagram once recorded will not die, but
long after we are gone be a living thing, asserting itself with ever-growing
insistence." -- Daniel Hudson Burnham
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"The hardest thing in life is to know which bridge to cross and which to
burn." -- David Russell
"A mind once stretched by a new idea never regains its original
dimensions." -- Oliver Wendell Holmes
"He who knows others is learned; He who knows himself is wise." -- Lao-tzu
"A journey is a person in itself; no two are alike. And all plans, safeguards,
policing, and coercion are fruitless. We find that after years of struggle that
we do not take a trip; a trip takes us."-- John Steinbeck
"I think of life as a good book. The further you get into it, the more it
begins to make sense." -- Harold S. Kushner
"Anyone who keeps the ability to see beauty never grows old." -- Franz
Kafka
"A bend in the road is not the end of the road... unless you fail to make the
turn."
"Goodness is the only investment that never fails." -- Henry David Thoreau
"Time sets the stage; fate writes the script; but only we may choose our
character." -- Liam Thomas Ryder
"Life has got a habit of not standing hitched. You got to ride it like you find
it. You got to change with it. If a day goes by that don't change some of
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your old notions for new ones, that is just about like trying to milk a dead
cow." -- Woody Guthrie
"Every job is a self-portrait of the person who did it. Autograph your work
with excellence."
"Parents can only give good advice or put them on the right paths, but the
final forming of a person's character lies in their own hands." -- Anne Frank
"Circumstances do not make the man, they reveal him." -- James Allen
"This is the beginning of a new day. You have been given this day to use as
you will. You can waste it or use it for good. What you do today is
important because you are exchanging a day of your life for it. When
tomorrow comes, this day will be gone forever; in its place is something
that you have left behind... let it be something good."
"When you were born, you cried and the world rejoiced. Live your life so
that when you die, the world cries and you rejoice." -- Cherokee Expression
"I would rather be ashes than dust! I would rather that my spark should
burn out in a brilliant blaze than it should be stifled by dry rot. I would
rather be a superb meteor, every atom of me in magnificent glow, than a
sleepy and permanent planet. The proper function of man is to live, not to
exist. I shall not waste my days in trying to prolong them. I shall use my
time." -- Jack London
"Women have to harness their power -- it's absolutely true. It's just learning
not to take the first no. And if you can't go straight ahead, you go around
the corner."
"The greatest compliment that was ever paid me was when someone asked
me what I thought, and attended to my answer." -- Henry David Thoreau
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"An expert is a man who has made all the mistakes which can be made, in a
narrow field." -- Niels Bohr
"Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it." -- Dennis P.
Kimbro
"A man may fail many times but he isn't a failure until he begins to blame
somebody else." -- John Burroughs
“It is dangerous to be sincere unless you are also stupid.” --George Bernard
Shaw
"Ever tried. Ever failed. No matter. Try Again. Fail again. Fail better." --
Samuel Beckett
"If you don't know where you are going, how can you expect to get there?"
-- Basil S. Walsh
"I will not die an unlived life. I will not live in fear of falling or catching fire.
I choose to inhabit my days, to allow my living to open me, to make me less
afraid, more accessible, to loosen my heart until it becomes a wing, a torch,
a promise. I choose to risk my significance; to live so that which comes to
me as seed goes to the next as blossom and that which comes to me as
blossom, goes on as fruit." -- Dawna Markova
"Many of life's failures are people who did not realize how close they were
to success when they gave up." -- Thomas Edison
"You can't turn back the clock. But you can wind it up again."
"The only job where you start at the top, is digging a hole."
"Never refuse any advance of friendship, for if nine out of ten bring you
nothing, one alone may repay you."
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"People travel to wonder at the height of the mountains, at the huge waves
of the seas, at the long course of the rivers, at the vast compass of the
ocean, at the circular motion of the stars, and yet they pass by themselves
without wondering."
"Happiness is inward and not outward; and so it does not depend on what
we have, but on what we are."
"Our lives improve only when we take chances – and the first and most
difficult risk we can take is to be honest with ourselves."
"You can complain because roses have thorns, or you can rejoice because
thorns have roses."
"Things turn out best for the people who make the best out of the way
things turn out.”-- Titus Livius
"Just when you think that a person is just a backdrop for the rest of the
universe, watch them and see that they laugh, they cry, they tell jokes...
they're just friends waiting to be made."
"Learn the art of patience. Apply discipline to your thoughts when they
become anxious over the outcome of a goal. Impatience breeds anxiety,
fear, discouragement and failure. Patience creates confidence,
decisiveness, and a rational outlook, which eventually leads to success."
“The question is not whether we will die, but how we will live.”
« If you really put a small value upon yourself, rest assured that the world
will not raise your price.»
"I can accept failure, everyone fails at something. But I can't accept not
trying." -- Michael Jordan
"There are two lasting bequests we can give our children. One is roots, the
other is wings."
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"Take a deep breath, count to ten, and tackle each task one step at a time."
"The path to our destination is not always a straight one. We go down the
wrong road, we get lost, we turn back. Maybe it doesn't matter which road
we embark on. Maybe what matters is that we embark."
"The way to get things done is not to mind who gets the credit for doing
them."
"In matters of style, swim with the current; in matters of principle, stand
like a rock." -- Thomas Jefferson
"The present is a rope stretched over the past. The secret to walking it is,
you never look down."
"The brain is a wonderful organ; it starts working the moment you get up in
the morning and does not stop until you get into the office." -- Robert Frost
"Love the earth and sun and animals, despise riches, give alms to everyone
that asks, stand up for the stupid and crazy, devote your income and labor
to others... And your very flesh shall be a great poem." -- Walt Whitman
"If you think somebody cares about you and believes your life is worth
saving, how can you give up?"
"The important thing is not to stop questioning. Curiosity has its own
reason for existing. One cannot help but be in awe when he contemplates
the mysteries of eternity, of life, of the marvelous structure of reality. It is
enough if one tries merely to comprehend a little of this mystery every day.
Never lose a holy curiosity." -- Albert Einstein
"My interest is in the future... because I'm going to spend the rest of my
life there."
"Forgiveness is the fragrance the violet sheds on the heel that crushed it."
-- Mark Twain
"Every job is a self-portrait of the person who did it. Autograph your work
with excellence."
"Love is the ultimate outlaw. It just won't adhere to any rules. The most any
of us can do is sign on as its accomplice. Instead of vowing to honor and
obey, maybe we should swear to aid and abet." -- Tom Robbins
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"Never look down to test the ground before taking your next step; only he
who keeps his eye fixed on the far horizon will find his right road."
"A great marriage is not when the 'perfect couple' comes together. It is
when an imperfect couple learns to enjoy their differences."
"Although there may be nothing new under the sun, what is old is new to us
and so rich and astonishing that we never tire of it. If we do tire of it, if we
lose our curiosity, we have lost something of infinite value, because to a
high degree it is curiosity that gives meaning and savour to life."--
Robertson Davies
"Ability is what you're capable of doing. Motivation determines what you
do. Attitude determines how well you do it."-- Raymond Chandler
"If you want happiness for an hour -- take a nap. If you want happiness for
a day -- go fishing. If you want happiness for a month -- get married. If you
want happiness for a year -- inherit a fortune. If you want happiness for a
lifetime -- help someone else." -- Chinese Proverb
"There is only one way to happiness and that is to cease worrying about
things which are beyond the power of our will." – Epictetus
"When you hold resentment toward another, you are bound to that person
or condition by an emotional link that is stronger than steel. Forgiveness is
the only way to dissolve that link and get free." -- Catherine Ponder
"If we all do one random act of kindness daily, we just might set the world
in the right direction." -- Martin Kornfeld
"Don't let someone else's opinion of you become your reality." -- Les Brown
"If people did not do silly things, nothing intelligent would ever get done."
-- Ludwig Wittgenstein
"You don't understand anything until you learn it more than one way." --
Marvin Minsky
"All persons are puzzles until at last we find in some word or act the key to
the man, to the woman; straightway all their past words and actions lie in
light before us." -- Ralph Waldo Emerson
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A wise man does not chatter with one whose mind is sick. --Sophocles
Hang ideas! They are tramps, vagabonds, knocking at the back-door of your
mind, each taking a little of your substance, each carrying away some
crumb of that belief in a few simple notions you must cling to if you want to
live decently and would like to die easy! --Joseph Conrad
"If you cannot get rid of the family skeleton, you may as well make it
dance." -- George Bernard Shaw
"Things can fall apart, or threaten to, for many reasons, and then there's
got to be a leap of faith. Ultimately, when you're at the edge, you have to
go forward or backward; if you go forward, you have to jump together."
"Adversity is sometimes hard upon a man; but for one man who can stand
prosperity, there are a hundred that will stand adversity." -- Elvis Presley
"No man ever achieved worthwhile success who did not, at one time or
other, find himself with at least one foot hanging well over the brink of
failure." -- Napoleon Hill
"If you have time to whine and complain about something then you have
the time to do something about it." -- Anthony J. D'Angelo
"The greatest weapon against stress is our ability to choose one thought
over another." -- William James
"A man who has never lost himself in a cause bigger than himself has
missed one of life's mountaintop experiences. Only in losing himself does
he find himself. Only then does he discover all the latent strengths he
never knew he had and which otherwise would have remained dormant." --
Richard Nixon
"Anyone who keeps the ability to see beauty never grows old." -- Franz
Kafka
"All of us do not have equal talent, but all of us should have an equal
opportunity to develop our talent." -- John F. Kennedy
"Assert your right to make a few mistakes. If people can't accept your
imperfections, that's their fault." -- David M. Burns
"There is no such thing as 'on the way out' as long as you are still doing
something interesting and good; you're in the business because you're
breathing." -- Louis Armstrong
"Develop your eccentricities while you are young. That way, when you get
old, people won't think you're going gaga." -- David Ogilvy
"Think of life as a terminal illness, because, if you do, you will live it with
joy and passion, as it ought to be lived." -- Anna Quindlen
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"Exhilaration is that feeling you get just after a great idea hits you, and just
before you realize what's wrong with it." -- Joe Moore
"It's easy to make a buck. It's a lot tougher to make a difference." -- Tom
Brokaw
"Life is like riding a bicycle. To keep your balance you must keep moving."
-- Albert Einstein
"A good laugh and a long sleep are the best cures in the doctor's book." --
Irish Proverb
"The ultimate reason for setting goals is to entice you to become the
person it takes to achieve them." -- Jim Rohn
I try to avoid looking forward or backward, and try to keep looking upward.
--Charlotte Bronte
"Never fear shadows. They simply mean there's a light shining somewhere
nearby." -- Ruth Renkel
"Vice may triumph for a time, crime may flaunt its victories in the face of
honest toilers, but in the end the law will follow the wrong-doer to a bitter
fate, and dishonor and punishment will be the portion of those who sin." --
Allan Pinkerton
"I say to my child, I will explain to you as much of life as I can, but you must
remember that there is a part of life for which you are the explanation." --
Robert Brault
"Don't worry about the world coming to an end today. It's already tomorrow
in Australia." -- Charles Schulz
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"Life is too short to spend your precious time trying to convince a person
who wants to live in gloom and doom otherwise. Give lifting that person
your best shot, but don't hang around long enough for his or her bad
attitude to pull you down. Instead, surround yourself with optimistic
people." -- Zig Ziglar
"A youth becomes a man when the marks he wants to leave on the world
have nothing to do with tires."
"The greatest pleasure in life is doing what people say you cannot do." --
Walter Bagehot
"Keeping score of old scores and scars, getting even and one-upping,
always makes you less than you are." -- Malcolm Forbes
War never takes a wicked man by chance, the good man always.
--Sophocles
“Truth is, everybody is going to hurt you; you just gotta find the ones
worth suffering for.” -- Bob Marley
Never do anything yourself that others can do for you. --Agatha Christie
"I would rather have a mind opened by wonder than one closed by belief."
-- Gerry Spence
"The true measure of a man is how he treats someone who can do him
absolutely no good." -- Samuel Johnson
"This art of resting the mind and the power of dismissing from it all care
and worry is probably one of the secrets of energy in our great men." --
Captain J. A. Hadfield
"Life is part positive and part negative. Suppose you went to hear a
symphony orchestra and all they played were the little happy high notes.
Would you leave soon? Let me hear the rumble of the bass, the crash of the
cymbals and the minor keys." -- Jim Rohn
"Look, I don't want to wax philosophic, but I will say that if you're alive
you've got to flap your arms and legs, you've got to jump around a lot, for
life is the very opposite of death, and therefore you must at the very least
think noisy and colorfully, or you're not alive." -- Mel Brooks
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"Genius is the ability to put into effect what is on your mind." -- F. Scott
Fitzgerald
"The surest sign that intelligent life exists elsewhere in the universe is that
it has never tried to contact us." -- Bill Watterson
"No man in the world has more courage than the man who can stop after
eating one peanut." -- Channing Pollack
"You just can't beat the person who won't give up." -- Babe Ruth
"If A equals success, then the formula is: A = X+Y+Z, where X is work, Y is
play, and Z is keep your mouth shut." -- Albert Einstein
"The more tranquil a man becomes, the greater is his success, his
influence, his power for good. Calmness of mind is one of the beautiful
jewels of wisdom." – James Allen
"Instead of thinking about where you are, think about where you want to
be. It takes twenty years of hard work to become an overnight success." --
Diana Rankin
"Education is a wonderful thing. If you couldn't sign your name you'd have
to pay cash." -- Rita Mae Brown
"The best years of your life are the ones in which you decide your problems
are your own. You don't blame them on your mother, the ecology, or the
President. You realize that you control your own destiny." -- Albert Ellis
"There are only two kinds of people who are really fascinating: people who
know absolutely everything, and people who know absolutely nothing." --
Oscar Wilde
"If I were given the opportunity to present a gift to the next generation, it
would be the ability for each individual to learn to laugh at himself." --
Charles Schulz
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"The truth is that there is nothing noble in being superior to somebody
else. The only real nobility is in being superior to your former self." --
Whitney Young
Self-love darkens the inner eye to the point where the man is often happy
of the things that he should be sad about and consider useful, things that
are nothing but hidden traps dangerous for the soul.
"If your ship doesn't come in, swim out to it." -- Jonathan Winters
"Beware of undertaking too much at the start. Be content with quite a little.
Allow for accidents. Allow for human nature, especially your own." -- Arnold
Bennett
"I not only use all the brains that I have, but all that I can borrow." --
Woodrow Wilson
"I'm not going to limit myself just because people won't accept the fact that
I can do something else." -- Dolly Parton
"The Eskimos had fifty-two names for snow because it was important to
them: there ought to be as many for love." -- Margaret Atwood
"In poverty and other misfortunes of life, true friends are a sure refuge.
The young they keep out of mischief; to the old they are a comfort and aid
in their weakness, and those in the prime of life they incite to noble deeds."
– Aristotle
"The last three or four reps is what makes the muscle grow. This area of
pain divides the champion from someone else who is not a champion. That's
what most people lack, having the guts to go on and just say they'll go
through the pain no matter what happens." -- Arnold Schwarzenegger
All I have seen teaches me to trust the Creator for all I have not seen.
--Ralph Waldo Emerson
"It does not do to dwell on dreams and forget to live, remember that."
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"Aim for the moon. If you miss, you may hit a star." -- W. Clement Stone
"Everyone who got where he is has had to begin where he was." -- Robert
Louis Stevenson
"Keep your chin up and you will see the clouds in the sky. Keep your chin
down and all you will see is the dirt on the floor."-- Shelley L. Young
"My dog is worried about the economy because Alpo is up to 99 cents a can.
That's almost $7.00 in dog money." -- Joe Weinstein
"The art of being wise is the art of knowing what to overlook." -- William
James
"It is not the strongest of the species that survive, nor the most intelligent,
but the one most responsive to change." -- Charles Darwin
"It wasn't until late in life that I discovered how easy it is to say 'I don't
know'." -- W. Somerset Maugham
"I count him braver who overcomes his desires than him who conquers his
enemies, for the hardest victory is over self." – Aristotle
"A friend is someone who knows the song in your heart and sings it back to
you when you have forgotten how it goes."
"You have to have confidence in your ability, and then be tough enough to
follow through." -- Rosalynn Carter
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A person who doubts himself is like a man who would enlist in the ranks of
his enemies and bear arms against himself. He makes his failure certain by
himself being the first person to be convinced of it. -- Alexandre Dumas
I learned long ago, never to wrestle with a pig. You get dirty, and besides,
the pig likes it. --George Bernard Shaw
"Think for a minute about what makes you fabulous and how you can
celebrate it." -- Laura Mercier
"Do the best you can in every task, no matter how unimportant it may seem
at the time. No one learns more about a problem than the person at the
bottom." -- Sandra Day O'Connor
"Don't reserve your best behavior for special occasions. You can't have two
sets of manners, two social codes -- one for those you admire and want to
impress, another for those whom you consider unimportant. You must be
the same to all people." -- Lillian Eichler Watson
"Do not be awestruck by other people and try to copy them. Nobody can be
you as efficiently as you can." -- Norman Vincent Peale
"It is amazing what you can accomplish if you do not care who gets the
credit." -- Harry S. Truman
"Challenge is a dragon with a gift in its mouth... Tame the dragon and the
gift is yours." -- Noela Evans
"Mistakes are a part of being human. Appreciate your mistakes for what
they are: precious life lessons that can only be learned the hard way.
Unless it's a fatal mistake, which, at least, others can learn from." -- Al
Franken
"Although there may be nothing new under the sun, what is old is new to us
and so rich and astonishing that we never tire of it. If we do tire of it, if we
lose our curiosity, we have lost something of infinite value, because to a
high degree it is curiosity that gives meaning and savour to life." --
Robertson Davies
"The bottom line is that (a) people are never perfect, but love can be, (b)
that is the one and only way that the mediocre and vile can be transformed,
and (c) doing that makes
it that. We waste time looking for the perfect lover, instead of creating the
perfect love." -- Tom Robbins
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"Yesterday is a dream, tomorrow but a vision. But today well-lived makes
every yesterday a dream of happiness, and every tomorrow a vision of
hope. Look well, therefore to this day." -- Sanskrit Proverb
"Use what talents you possess: the woods would be very silent if no birds
sang there except those that sang best." -- Henry Van Dyk
"Envy can be a positive motivator. Let it inspire you to work harder for what
you want." -- Robert Bringle
"It's so simple to be wise. Just think of something stupid to say and then
don't say it."-- Sam Levenson
"You can take from every experience what it has to offer you. And you
cannot be defeated if you just keep taking one breath followed by another."
"When the water starts boiling it is foolish to turn off the heat."-- Nelson
Mandela
"All mankind is divided into three classes: those that are immovable, those
that are movable, and those that move." -- Arabian Proverb
"What is a weed? A plant whose virtues have not yet been discovered." --
Ralph Waldo Emerson
"Not what we say about our blessings, but how we use them, is the true
measure of our thanksgiving." -- W. T. Purkiser
"Men are born with two eyes, but only one tongue, in order that they
should see twice as much as they say." -- Charles Caleb Colton
"An expert is a person who has made all the mistakes that can be made in a
very narrow field." -- Niels Bohr
"In order to succeed you must fail, so that you know what not to do the
next time." -- Anthony J. D'Angelo
"We can't take any credit for our talents. It's how we use them that
counts." -- Madeleine L'Engle
"The best years of your life are the ones in which you decide your problems
are your own. You don't blame them on your mother, the ecology, or the
President. You realize that you control your own destiny."-- Albert Ellis
"The sweetest two words are 'next time.' The sourest word is 'if.'"
"Avoid the crowd. Do your own thinking independently. Be the chess player,
not the chess piece." -- Ralph Charell
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"Let it never be said by future generations that indifference, cynicism or
selfishness made us fail to live up to the ideals of humanism which the
Nobel Peace Prize encapsulates. Let the strivings of us all prove Martin
Luther King Jr. to have been correct when he said that humanity can no
longer be tragically bound to the starless midnight of racism and war."--
Nelson Mandela
"Keep the other person's well being in mind when you feel an attack of
soul-purging truth coming on." -- Betty White
"The road to happiness lies in two simple principles: find what interests you
and that you can do well, and put your whole soul into it -- every bit of
energy and ambition and natural ability you have." -- John D. Rockefeller, III
"As we express our gratitude, we must never forget that the highest
appreciation is not to utter words, but to live by them." -- John Fitzgerald
Kennedy
The only true equalisers in the world are books; the only treasure-house
open to all comers is a library; the only wealth which will not decay is
knowledge; the only jewel which you can carry beyond the grave is wisdom.
-- J. A. Langford
"If you wait to do everything until you're sure it's right, you'll probably
never do much of anything." -- Win Borden
"Never bear more than one trouble at a time. Some people bear three kinds
--- all they have had, all they have now, and all they expect to have." --
Edward Everett Hale
"If you are truly flexible and go until... there is really very little you can't
accomplish in your lifetime." -- Anthony Robbins
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Freedom is not the right to live as we please, but the right to find how we
ought to live in order to fulfill our potential. --Ralph Waldo Emerson
"People are always blaming their circumstances for what they are. I don't
believe in circumstances. The people who get on in this world are the
people who get up and look for the circumstances they want, and, if they
can't find them, they make them."-- George Bernard Shaw
Things are pretty, graceful, rich, elegant, handsome, but, until they speak
to the imagination, not yet beautiful. --Ralph Waldo Emerson
"Good, better, best. Never rest until good be better and better best." --
Mother Goose rhyme
"All you really need is love, but a little chocolate now and then doesn't
hurt." -- Lucy Van Pelt
"Let us put our minds together and see what life we can make for our
children." -- Sitting Bull
"Think wrongly, if you please, but in all cases think for yourself." -- Doris
Lessing
"If all of our misfortunes were laid in one common heap whence everyone
must take an equal portion, most people would be contented to take their
own and depart." – Socrates
"It's when you treat people like freaks that you become one yourself." --
Dolly Parton
"No matter how old a mother is, she watches her middle-aged children for
signs of improvement." -- Florida Scott-Maxwell
I believe that if one always looked at the skies, one would end up with
wings. -- Gustave Flaubert
Love is a springtime plant that perfumes everything with its hope, even the
ruins to which it clings. -- Gustave Flaubert
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"The spirited horse, which will of itself strive to win the race, will run still
more swiftly if encouraged." – Ovid
"Do not wait; the time will never be 'just right.' Start where you stand, and
work with whatever tools you may have at your command, and better tools
will be found as you go along." -- George Herbert
"Riches do not consist in the possession of treasures, but in the use made
of them." -- Napoleon Bonaparte
"Failure is never final and success is never ending. Success is a journey, not
a destination." -- Ben Sweetland
"Then give to the world the best you have, and the best will come back to
you." -- Madeline Bridges
"I think when you move past your fear and you go after your dreams
wholeheartedly, you become free. Know what I'm saying? Move past the
fear." -- James Todd Smith
"The happiest people don't have the best of everything, they just make the
best of everything they have."
"Dwell not upon thy weariness, thy strength shall be according to the
measure of thy desire." -- Arab proverb
"He who does not know how to look back at where he came from will never
get to his destination." -- Jose Rizal
"When you make a mistake, there are only three things you should ever do
about it: admit it, learn from it, and do not repeat it." -- Paul "Bear" Bryant
"If you see someone without a smile, give 'em yours!" -- Dolly Parton
"Men are alike in their promises. It is only in their deeds that they are
different." -- Jean Baptiste Moliere
"Bowmen bend their bows when they wish to shoot: unbrace them when the
shooting is over. Were they kept always strung they would break and fail
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the archer in time of need. So it is with men. If they give themselves
constantly to serious work, and never indulge awhile in pastime or sport,
they lose their senses and become mad." – Herodotus
"It is not who is right, but what is right, that is important." -- Thomas Henry
Huxley
"Better to remain silent and be thought a fool than to speak out and
remove all doubt." -- Abraham Lincoln
"Nature, time and patience are three great physicians." -- H.G. Bohn
"This is as true in everyday life as it is in battle: we are given one life and
the decision is ours whether to wait for circumstances to make up our mind,
or whether to act, and in acting, to live." -- Omar Bradley
"It is well to give when asked, but it is better to give unasked." -- Kahil
Gibran
Opportunities flit by while we sit regretting the chances we have lost, and
the happiness that comes to us we heed not, because of the happiness that
is gone. --Jerome K. Jerome
A memory is a beautiful thing, it's almost a desire that you miss. – Gustave
Flaubert
«God loved the birds and invented trees. Man loved the birds and invented
cages.»
"The early bird gets the worm, but the second mouse gets the cheese." --
Jon Hammond
"Friendship is the hardest thing in the world to explain. It's not something
you learn in school. But if you haven't learned the meaning of the
friendship, you really haven't learned anything."-- Muhammad Ali
"To be one's self, and unafraid whether right or wrong, is more admirable
than the easy cowardice of surrender to conformity." -- Irving Wallace
"Take care of the minutes and the hours will take care of themselves." --
Phillip Dormer Stanhope
"Let the world know you as you are, not as you think you should be,
because sooner or later, if you are posing, you will forget the pose, and
then where are you?" -- Fanny Brice
"If you do not tell the truth about yourself you cannot tell it about other
people." -- Virginia Woolf
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"I'm a great believer in luck, and I find the harder I work the more of it I
have." -- Thomas Jefferson
"When you hold resentment toward another, you are bound to that person
or condition by an emotional link that is stronger than steel. Forgiveness is
the only way to dissolve that link and get free." -- Catherine Ponder
"It takes courage to grow up and become who you really are." -- e.e.
cummings
"Tell everyone what you want to do and someone will want to help you do
it." -- W. Clement Stone
"We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised
as impossible situations." -- Charles R. Swindoll
"Sometimes I lie awake at night, and I ask, 'Where have I gone wrong?'
Then a voice says to me, 'This is going to take more than one night.'" --
Charles M. Schulz
"Have more than thou showest, speak less than thou knowest." -- William
Shakespeare
There is nothing in which the birds differ more from man than the way in
which they can build and yet leave a landscape as it was before. --Robert
Lynd
Man can now fly in the air like a bird, swim under the ocean like a fish, he
can burrow into the ground like a mole. Now if only he could walk the earth
like a man, this would be paradise. --Tommy Douglas
Tolerance is a very dull virtue. It is boring. Unlike love, it has always had a
bad press. It is negative. It merely means putting up with people, being
able to stand things. -- E. M. Forster
As if you could kill time without injuring eternity. ~Henry David Thoreau
As long as I retain my feeling and my passion for Nature, I can partly soften
or subdue my other passions and resist or endure those of others. ~Lord
Byron
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But what is Hope? Nothing but the paint on the face of Existence; the least
touch of truth rubs it off, and then we see what a hollow-cheeked harlot we
have got hold of. ~ Lord Byron
It is useless to tell one not to reason but to believe - you might as well tell
a man not to wake but sleep. ~Lord Byron
"Where the spirit does not work with the hand, there is no art. "- Leonardo
da Vinci
"Blessed are those that can give without remembering and receive without
forgetting." ~ Elizabeth Bibesco
"The older I get, the greater power I seem to have to help the world; I am
like a snowball - the further I am rolled the more I gain." ~ Susan B.
Anthony
"We did not change as we grew older; we just became more clearly
ourselves." -- Lynn Hall
"There will be little rubs and disappointments everywhere, and we are all
apt to expect too much; but then, if one scheme of happiness fails, human
nature turns to another; if the first calculation is wrong, we make a second
better: we find comfort somewhere." -- Jane Austen
"Be life long or short, its completeness depends on what it was lived for." --
David Starr Jordan
"Sometimes when you sacrifice something precious, you're not really losing
it. You're just passing it on to someone else." -- Mitch Albom
"The path to our destination is not always a straight one. We go down the
wrong road, we get lost, we turn back. Maybe it doesn't matter which road
we embark on. Maybe what matters is that we embark." -- Barbara Hall
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"Always laugh when you can. It is cheap medicine." -- Lord Byron
"Ever tried? Ever failed? No matter. Try again. Fail again. Fail better." --
Samuel Beckett
"To get the rainbow, you've gotta put up with the rain." -- Dolly Parton
"Feeling gratitude and not expressing it is like wrapping a present and not
giving it." -- William Arthur Ward
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