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Alan Henry
Filed to: work-life balance2/28/12 5:00am
Those of us who have had to deal with annoying or aggravating bosses know how it's tough
to shake it off at the end of the day, but a new study explains why it's so hard, and why so
many of us suck at it and wind up bringing our stress home—where it doesn't just hurt you: It
hurts your family, your friends, and your other relationships. Let's look at the study and talk
about some ways you can learn to check your bad boss at the office door when you leave
work.
Science Explains How Your Bad Boss Follows You Home
Most of us have a hard time dealing with stress. We've discussed ways to fight it, but it's still
everywhere in our lives, especially at work. Sadly, few of us are able to leave it behind at the
end of the day. If you have a boss who micromanages you or makes you feel bad just for
showing up in the morning, a new study, conducted by the Université Francois Rabelais and
published in the Journal of Business and Psychology explains why it might be time to take
action. Researchers questioned 1,100 employees at different companies to find out how
closely a boss's management style and employee morale correlated. The results weren't
surprising. Title image remixed from Jhayne.
What Stress Actually Does to You and What You Can Do About It
Stress is an unpleasant fact of life. We all experience it for various reasons, and we all try
to… Read more
According to a story at The Atlantic, employees who felt their autonomy and their
contributions were respected reported higher morale and better on-the-job performance.
Employees who felt like their boss didn't trust them to do the work they were assigned, or
who "motivated" them by making them feel bad for not being more productive were the most
stressed out, and subsequently took that stress home with them, where it overflowed into their
personal lives and relationships.
A separate study by Baylor University, published in the journal Personnel Psychology drew
the line between stressed out employees who felt abused by their supervisors and higher
instances of familial tension and difficulty at home. None of this may seem surprising to most
people—if you had a hard day at work, it's likely you'll have little patience for issues that
you'd normally be able to deal with at home. Even so, these are the first few studies to put a
fine point on the fact.
What You Can Do About Your Stress, and Your Bad Boss
Dealing with a bad boss is a tricky proposition. I know a number of people who love their
jobs but hate their managers, and when someone tells them to just quit and find a different
job, they resist—mostly because they feel like everything else about their job is so perfect,
they just need to get over this one thing to make it worthwhile. Quitting is an option, but it's
not the only one. Let's look at some others.
Whatever you do, if your boss is stressing you out and you can see the signs of it seeping into
your personal life, you need to do something. What you do is really a matter of the degree of
stress you're feeling. If you think it's manageable with exercise or meditation, then don't wait
—start now. If you know you'll never really be able to deal with it, and your boss will never
change, more drastic action may be warranted. In the end though, stress impacts your
productivity, your health, and now, studies show, the health and well being of the people
closest to you. You—and they—deserve better. Photo by marekuliasz (Shutterstock).
How do you deal with an aggravating boss every day, and how do you leave them behind
when you leave the office? When do you make the call that it's time to go? Share your coping
mechanisms and stress-relief techniques in the comments below.