Dear Atul,

You're welcome, and kind regards to you as well. With regards to your question, there are indeed connections
and similarities in resonance between the different centers of the body.

However, the "connections" you feel are because of the particular meridians (nadis) that are currently most open
in you. Keep working with the awareness you have developed, but also pay attention to the subtle connections
between other centers.

Some of the similarities you have noticed have to do with the three "knots" or granthis, which prevent the rise of
kundalini through three of the centers, and the three lingams (Svayammbhu, Bana, and Itara) at which the
meditator may center him/ herself... We cover practical ways to experience these and more in Umaa Tantra's
Tantric Inner Circle.

As for the prosperity exercise, it is *very* powerful, and if you do it daily, you should see a great improvement
in the way you relate to the world.. and visa versa!
Tao Semko of www.UmaaTantra.com

P.S. For those of you who missed that exercise, there's a link at the end of this email to our our online archives...

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I am a 56 years male doing tantric sex Practice for the last 15 years. I don't ejaculate during sexual intercouse.I
can withhold my ejaculation for more than 30 minutes .I can withdraw from the sexual intercourse before
ejaculation.I seek tantic sex friend who will be interested in practicing tantric sex.
L.R.

Hello L.R. --

I hate to say it, but tantrically speaking, you're missing the point!

From the standpoint of giving your lover a chance to enjoy herself, it's good that you can last longer than the
average of 9.5 minutes without ejaculating, so congratulations on that. The problem is, Tantric lovemaking is
*not* about "withholding ejaculation!"

You could make love for 4 hours by keeping yourself from ejaculating by closing your eyes and repeating,
"Margaret Thatcher naked on a cold day!" like Austin Powers, but that would just make you less aware of your
partner, yourself, and your sexual and loving experience.

Don't look for someone with whom you can perform sex with ejaculation control - look for someone with whom
you can explore the very nature of reality and sexuality through full awareness in lovemaking! Real ejaculation
"mastery" arrives out of full relaxation of the breath and internal smooth muscle tissue during conscious
lovemaking. In short, it's not about control at all, but about letting go of internal tension...

L.R. - For the real "Tantric Sex," get Dinu Roman's "Secrets of Tantra" DVD's. To learn to relax into longer,
more enjoyable lovemaking using the biggest secret of Tantric Sex, stay tuned for a big announcement later this
week!

Tao Semko of Umaa Tantra

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