The Tempo of the Night

A) Its not normal for a human to go from logical mode to self-amused/social mode. So as the night progresses
the people in the nightclub gets louder and more loose. Banging or going home is the climax for most of
them (which is very late in the night).

i) Their nightout is like a download bar. As the night progresses the download bar reaches completion. ( Aka
They build up their emotions and the climax is sex).

B) Theyre going to screen to see if ur really a 10 as most guys fake their behaviour.

i) So adjust your actions to this behaviour to deal with it. (Ex- view your nights out as a download bar too).

C) Remember they like sex. But to them its like the climax to an emotional buildup ( aka bar fills up).

Three Parts to the Night -

First Part - (if the club closes at 4:00 or 6:00 then its gonna be 10 to 12:30). At this time they're emotions
arent pumped up enough, its too early for them, so regardless how good your game is you cant score them.
The convo will die in 10 to 15 mins. They may like you (you will know), so come see them at the end when
theyre pumped up and ready.

2nd Part - The time is midnight to closing time. You can have longer interactions at this time.

3rd Part - Closing time till the morning after

Things needed to be done during these three parts

First Part

A. Focus on yourself. At this time. As they wont be giving you much time, convos will die out quickly. They'll
not waste hrs talking to just one person. They wants to have fun with frnds, dance. Therefore in the
meantime Try to getting into the promotion based mindset from the prevention based mindset.

B. In order to make that transition. In the first part you'll have to apply 4 mantra's

1. Nothing to win, nothing to lose. - You'll get stifled and influenced down by the environment. Instead try
to chill, relax and get into the zone. In the first part no matter how good your game is, you still wont be able
to keep them long and get them at that time. If u come with the mindset "getting equals success" then
everything will be rejection to you. Therefore instead let go of the outcome, take the pressure off and focus
on yourself making that transition.

i) keep using this mantra and dont burn of all ur energy in the first part. Relax and take your time.

ii) Dont get tensed and approach. They'll sense the needy vibe and will be repulsed by the it. View the night
as one whole set instead of separate little sets. You dont know how well ur doing until the end of the night.

2. The more i do, the less the environment does to me. - You're at the cause or the effect.

i) You either overwhelm the environment or you stop taking action, get into your head and the environment
overwhelms you.

* ( getting into your head means getting anxious and thinking everyone is against you. That everyone knows
one another and you'll forever be disliked/dissed if anyone sees you get rejected. )

ii) You have to overwhelm the environment instead. Take constant action. Such as minimizing time between
sets. It doesnt necesarrily mean talking to them only. Action creates emotion. Do anything to not get
affected by the environment. Be at the cause not the effect.

iii) The more action you take, the more proof you're going to get that nothing is gonna happen.

iv) Every reference experience is a good reference experience. Try to learn from all of them. Stop viewing
rejections as bad R.E. Try to find out why that happened and then make sure you never make the same
mistake again.

v) As human beings we are creatures of habit. We are not used to feeling P.F.C.S therefore you're not gonna
wanna feel it. You're going to want to keep feeling whatever you're feeling.

vi) As soon as you have to take action something to feel happier, your gonna procrastinate and wanna keep
feeling whatever you were feeling.
( Ex - You're angry/mad at someone that you think fucked u over. But u find the reasons were wrong. Your
still not gonna wanna cool down and rant. )

vii)Therefore in the beginning you're still gonna want to feel approach anxiety because its easier and you're
used to it And that's why you're gonna want to procrastinate, which makes it even harder to take action, this
can only be fixed by taking action and getting used to the feeling of it. Only the external actions can change
the internal ones. Only your actions can kill A.A. Dont succumb to your emotions.

viii) Ask yourself who do u wanna become. Do u want to become the best or stagnate. Value yourself above
any external fulfillment.

ix) Only thing that's going to make you happy is internal fulfillment. When in doubt always ask youself " What
is the right thing to do ? ". You will always know what the right thing to do is.

x) Slowly start building that will and muscle. Dont think too far ahead take, it one step at a time. Trick ur
mind into doing it and take it one step further and further until the goal is accomplished.

xi) Don't buy into the illusions. It's human tendency to assume the worst when faced with something new.
And that's why you'll play all these "horrible-situation scenario" of yours. But it's always going to be better
than you thought it was gonna be.

xii) So lower your reaction time. The more you wait between sets, the worse/harder it gets.

xiii) The more you do something. The better you get at it. Its gonna be shaky at first but you've to grease the
process. Repetition is the way to victory/success. And whatever choices/actions you take, your state
always either move up or down. Trick your mind dont let the environment overwhelm you.

3. Don't force it, let its arise. - When you follow the 2nd mantra. You'll be in a hurry to take action. This puts
pressure on you. This contradicts the first mantra. And thatll make u seem incongruent/needy. Thoughts and
actions must be aligned. You will take action but it'll be at your own pace, not rushed. So to get into the
zone you must not think about it, force it to or expect it to happen. Let loose and it will come naturally to
you.

i) When feeling uncomfortable, lean over the edge. Do it little by little and by repetition and taking action
you will overcome it.

4. How can i make myself laugh. - Ask yourself that instead of pondering how you can get them to. Laughing
is the best way to get loosen up. View yourself as a character in a video game and your mission is to make
yourself laugh. Dont indentify with it, laugh at your insecurities and self-amuse with it.

i) One of the ways to self-amuse is embrace, exaggerate and laugh. Another way is to make things awkward.

ii) Treat rejections as funny and awkward too. When u get rejected make it funny/awkward.
** How to be more purposeful - When u approach a lot, ur gonna realize nothing's gonna happen. And ur
going to be more purposeful as you get more courage to" humph. You can also show it by taking (humph-ish)
actions ".

** How to be more controlled - When ur in a hectic environment. You talk to so many different people,
getting so many reactions ur going to become numb and more grounded

** How to be more flowing - talk to all kinds of them. Dont just talk to the hot one, talk to the lesser ones
too. If u talk to them so selectively ur going to put them up on a pedestal. Then you'll feel scarcity.
(Remember the more u do, the less the environment does to you).

i) Treat everyone of them like a 10 to get reference experiences. When you do this ur doing to get lots of
more experiences than the average 3 to 4 a night. Gaming every one of them is very important if u want to
become good at it.

ii) When ur burning down a set do it smart in terms of game.

iii) Building a massive reservoir of fun and abundance should be your overall focus. Let go of the outcome and
them, instead focus on having a lot of fun so that when the second part of the ni8 hits (when u game one,
have longer convo, screen for logistics, become a little attached to the outcome) you dont get shoved into
your head, make sure its coming from a frame of abundance.

iv) When u start to get serious or get attached to the outcome in the first half of the night, break the set on
purpose.

v) If u dont buildup fun and abundance in the first half, then when the 2nd half comes and your supposed to
pull, your going to be shoved in your head and overwhelmed by the environment aka fucked.

vi) When u get used to this, u can be more practical. Number game them, Get their number, their logistics
and leave by not rejecting (like tell her you and me gotta go back to frnds). So when the 2nd half hits u can
choose and pull her easily. Be careful tho, dont get attached to the outcome.

2nd Part -

A. At that time around. Their bar will be high and wont get bored talking to just 1 guy. Thats when u have to
commit to a girl.

i) Your commitment has to be ultra - persistent upto the point you score. (Think someone important dies if u
cant for motivation).

ii) A pull is usually 45 mins or 1.5hr. The energy is a bit toned down and sustainable. In this part of the night
realize their bar needs to be full. So concentrate on fulfilling that. Spend some time and afterwards pull.
B. During the 2nd part dont get sucked into scarcity. Before you pull, the thought of pulling might freak you
out and get you back into ur head. Try to delude/realise that there is an infinite amount of them and time.
Act as if its the 1st part of the night again. Realise emotions comes in waves. You might get into the zone
and lose it. But just because you lost it doesnt mean it'll not come back in the end. Just follow the process.
In the beginning ur zone control will come and go. But as you take more action/R.E you'll gain better
control over it.

3rd Part -

A. Part 3 is when the club closes and everybody going home. At this point its free for all. Their bar will be high
therefore they will be pumped and ready.

i) The better control you have over getting into zone, you'll start getting lazy. You'll not want to waste your
time on 1st or 2nd half of the night since u have epic zone control. Youll instead go out at the 3rd part and
just ouside the place and pull. Realize it doesnt matter who spiked the bar it transfers over to the person next
to them. All of the fun they had will transfer to you. And you'll then basically maximize the return of that
emotional and time investment.

ii)In the 1st half where u focus on fun, abundance and mingling the fuck around. Practice and do this all the
time, it transition to all parts of your social life. You'll be able to talk back socially, provide and generate fun,
you'll become the center of the party. Doing this will get you leads, numbers for later the night or the week.
You can also use the non-desirable ones to get desirable ones.

iii) In the 2nd half you learn things like willpower, sticking through, pulling and scoring. Doing this, u'll have an
adundance of choices.

iv) Organize the numbers you get. Cuz its very easy to forget whose number is who and ull need those ready
by the 3rd part. When they respond. Call them, dont start texting.

v) Do not trust them. They operate in temporary-truths (saying something that they mean in the moment,
but their mind always ends up following their emotions). So be practical, always get the numbers.

vi) Most important thing is to focus and always have fun. Nobody scored by going in with the mindset of
having agenda. You can always tell how good a person is at game by how much fun they are having.
Embrace and exaggerate it. Its the sub - communications that matter not what u do and say. It may get
incongruent. Its okay as long as you dont creep them out.

** Shock yourself into state. It depends on the environment. If ur in a lowkey environment do it verbally
(making things awkward, self amuse ). If ur in a high - key environment do abrupt action such as jumping or
hurt yourself to get into state.
* The game has some very serious rules. You have to follow those rules / process but u must have fun while
doing it.

* Feel good, embrace it, have fun and laugh.