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FIRST: FOLLOW HIS LEADERSHIP! * Need to be leadable, you enjoy following him!
* You say, "Lead me, I’m just dying to follow you!"
SECOND: HAVE CONFIDENCE IN THEM! * Find ways to build up their self esteem!
* And to let them know that you believe in them! * Need to express confidence in their ability
and in their decisions,(ask him 1st) & need to admire them! * Admiration is respect verbalized!
* "It is awesome to be married to you!" * "You are my man!"
THIRD: LET YOUR HUSBAND MAKE MAJOR DECISIONS!
* You can give advice, but you need to trust him with the final decision!
FOURTH: GIVE ROOM FOR FREEDOM TO FAIL! * We all make mistakes!
* And when a wife holds past mistakes over his head, he’ll be fearful of making future decisions!
* They need to know they can fail and still have our respect!
FIFTH: HAVE GOOD COMMUNICATION! * Let him know what your needs are!
* Be careful of the idea of not telling him your needs & expecting him to know!
(2) ENCOURAGE HIM TO BE A PROVIDER! * 1 Tim. 5:8 "But if any provide not for ......."
* God doesn’t smile on laziness! * A wife needs to be financially secure.
A) Husbands have a lot of pressure at work & does not need pressure at home!
* Some men can’t work & need special love and attention!
* But when a man comes home, the last thing he needs & wants is pressure from his wife!
B) If he comes home to a wife who is tense and upset with a long list of complaints and things
for him to do, where he is to go and relax and unwind?
* Wives need to understand the pressure of the husband!
C) You Need To Appreciate Their Hard Work! * Some work hard to show their love!
D) Encourage Their Ambition! * Don’t hold them back, and yet, don’t let them be lazy!
E) Be Content With What They Make! * Phil. 4:11 "... I have learned, in whatever state ......."
* Spend money wisely and you will learn how to be content!
F) Let Him Know You Need Him! * Don’t ever tell him, "I can get along without you!"
G) Enjoy Them Home, A Place Where He Loves To Be!
* Make home enjoyable for him so that he can’t wait to get home to you from work!
(3) ENCOURAGE HIM AS A PROTECTOR! * The wife should never worry about anything!
* The husband should protect physically, emotionally, and spiritually!
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