YOU HAVE WEALTH UNDER YOUR NOSE

By Bo Sanchez
Adultery happens when you start looking for what you don't have.
"Bo, this girl in my office is a real looker," many a husband will say. "But it'
s not
her Wynona Rider features that got me. I'm head over heels with her because she'
s also
understanding, intelligent, tender-- so many things that my wife has not."
Sure.
Guys, trust me on this. Somewhere along the way, you'll find a woman who will be
more
charming. More alluring. More thoughtful. Richer. Be a better cook. Have greater
sex
appeal. Be a more efficient housekeeper. And you will find a woman who will need
you
and pursue you and go loco over you more than your wife ever did.
Because no wife is perfect.
Because a wife will only have 90% of what you're looking for.
So adultery takes place when a husband looks for the missing 10%.
Let's say your wife is melancholic by nature. You may find yourself drawn to the
pretty clerk who has a cherry laugh no matter what she says: "I broke my arm
yesterday, Hahahaha..." Or because your wife is a homebody in slippers and pajam
as,
smelling of garlic and fish oil, you may fall for a fresh-smelling young sales
representative that visits your office in a sharp black blazer, high heels, and
a red
pencil-cut skirt. Or because your wife is the quiet type (a rare find), your hea
rt may
skip a beat when you meet an old college flame who has the makings of a talk sho
w host
like Oprah.
But wait! That's only 10% of what you don't have.
Don't throw away the 90% that you already have!
That's not all. Add to your wife's 90% the 1000% that represents all the years t
hat
you have been with each other. The storms you have weathered together. The
unforgettable moments of sadness and joy as a couple. The many adjustments you h
ave
made to love the other. The wealth of memories that you've accumulated as lovers
.
Adultery happens when you start looking for what you don't have. But faithfulnes
s
happens when you start thanking God for what you already have.
But I'm not just talking about marriage.
I'm talking about life!
About your jobs. About your friends. About your children. About your prayer grou
ps.
About your lifestyles.
Are you like the economy airline passenger that perennially peeks through the do
or of
the first class cabin, obsessed with what he's missing? "They have got more leg
room!
Oh my, their food is served in porcelain! Wow, their seats recline at an 80% ang
le and
they've got personal videos!" I guarantee you'll be miserable for the entire tri
p!
Don't live your life like that.
Forget about what the world says is first class. (Do you know that there are man
y
first class passengers who are miserable in first class -- because they're not r
iding
in a private Lear Jet?)
My main message: If you start thanking God for what you have right now, wherever
you
are is first class!
You have wealth under your nose. Thank Him.
>From his book: You Have the Power to Create