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in pornography. ” with new neighbors and extended fam-
In the decades since Bundy com- ily. Anger, vengeance and fighting may
mitted his crimes, Internet and media be part of human nature, but we can
have exponentially expanded access fight back.
and exposure to pornography and vio- Originally published in the Deseret
lence of every combination. Although News. See deseretnews.com. Wendy
biology, upbringing, temperament or is the founder of Sixteen Stones Cen-
culture alone does not unerringly pro- ter for Growth which is comprised of a
duce violence, the wrong combination group of mental health professionals
can turn lethal. who run seminars for LDS women on
How can we reduce the odds of that topics like forgiveness and coping with
lethal chemistry reaching a flashpoint? loss. Learn more at sixteenstones.net.
1. We can help kids develop empa-
thy by showing them empathy, teach-
A L L T H I N G S W O M E N ’ S S E R V I C E S AT. . .
ing them to serve and help others, and
helping them imagine others’ feelings. A
young man tempted to sexual violence
against women he saw as “whores”
{byuwsr.blogspot.com} had a breakthrough of empathy when
he answered the question, “How do
you think God sees these women?”
with “They are his daughters; He loves
contact: 3326 wsc tel: 422-4877 email: wsr@byu.edu web: wsr.byu.edu
them.”
2. We can learn, teach and model
good anger management skill, includ-
As summer approaches and finals recently learned that the foundation re- depreciates quickly. Find a conserva-
loom over our heads, 1/4th of the stu- cent graduates lay in the first few years tive car that is a few years old and you
dent population faces a whole new lev- post-graduation predicts the rest of will save a lot of money.
el of anxiety: graduation. Graduation their economic life. Knowing the next • Take advantage of 401K ben-
connotes various things from starting few years will be vital for setting pat- efits. Many companies offer matching
a job, leaving Provo, independence, terns for the rest of our lives, here are options for 401K contributions, so take
grad school, adventure, or fear of the a few tips for starting off life on the right full advantage of these benefits – it’s
unknown. As I approach the end of my foot: free money!
college career I have been excited for • Create an emergency fund. • Make a budget. A budget is re-
the finals, projects, and stress to end, You should have 3-6 months of living ally a spending plan that helps guide
until I read a quote by Orrin Hatch who expenses saved up to cover rent, food, your spending and saving so that you
said “graduation is not the end; it’s insurance, etc. as you never know what can have the things that really matter to
the beginning.” While my undergradu- the future may hold. It is also wise to you. Instead of limiting you, it will really
ate career may be over, I know that have a few hundred dollars in cash give you freedom and avoid monetary
this really is the start of a new life. I somewhere safe in your apartment. stress.
Store smaller • Pay off debt. Congratulations if
bills as in emer- you are graduating debt-free, but if you
gency situations do have some debt, plan to pay it off as
it may be hard to quickly as possible. Normally you have
exchange larger a 6 month grace period between gradu-
bills. ation and when you start being charged
• Don’t buy interest, so try and pay as much off as
a new car. possible before that time.
While you may • Actively manage your expec-
be tired of driv- tations. While it will be exciting to fi-
ing an older, nally earn a paycheck and be able to
basic car, buy- buy and do lots of things in the “real
ing a brand new world,” make sure you have a realistic
car could cause approach to how you plan for your ca-
a tight strain on reer and lifestyle.
your budget and
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inch thick.
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twist in opposite
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6 W omen’s Services and Resources
W h i t e T i e B a l l
“It’s remarkable that Alex can make an entire audience laugh so hard, with hands
slamming down on the tables in laughter because of his charisma, and he can
make us cry because of his passion all in the same performance. He left us feel-
ing that we wanted to be part of something bigger than ourselves. I think it’s re-
markable that the Lord blesses people with talents and that we really can touch
other people’s lives in a way that no one else can. We can inspire each other to
be better in ways that we wouldn’t have thought of on our own. Alex was a true
performer and tied in his own story with the message of our campaign to be a
voice of courage to speak up against abuse.” –Lindsey McMillan
“I felt like I was part of something bigger than myself, and it was humbling to have
God say, “This isn’t about you. This isn’t just about you.” –Alex Boye
“This spirit of love and caring for one another is really the message we want you to
get from this event; of courage—of being a voice of courage to speak up against
abuse.” –Mia Selway