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All rights reserved Yenmen, Tapu Y-44 — Uersipe cesona 6paka: Pasropop 0 BeYHO MEHAIOUIMXCA LIMK- Jax 6paka: Tep. canrn. / Tapu Yemen. — CI16.: Mupr, 2008. — 206 c. ISBN 978-5-88869-231-8. Bpak nloctoaniio uamenseTca, Mepexons 43 OnHOTO ce30Ha B Apyroii. Bo3- MOXHO, OH He ClemyeT FOLOBOMY UHKT, KAK B TIPHPOMe, HO BpeMeHa Tora B 6pa- Ke MeHIOTCA Tak Xe HeHSMeHHO. Ce30HbI MPHXORAT H YXONAT, NeTO cMeHET BECHY, 3aTEM NPHXORHT OceHb HM 3HMa. Kaxkabill CesOH HeceT CBOH onlacHOCTH, Ho H MpeqOCTaBNAeT BOSMOKHOCTH JUIA ABMXCHHA K CYACTHIO M IMOMMOHATS- HoMy aoponbio. DrasHoe — pasBHTb HEOGXOMMMBle HABEIKM, STOOBI CHEAT OpaK TYME B m0G0e BPEMA TOMA. Tipoftas Tecr Ha onpeneneHe cesoHa nautero 6paka, BbI CMOXeTe Y3HATb, aK YKpeTIHTS cyNPYAeCKHe OTHOWIEHHS, YTOGB OCTHYS pailOCTH H B3AHMONIO- HMMaHHS. BBK 86.37 Copyright © 2005 by Gary Chapman © Visnanne Ha pycckom aabike, nepesoa Ha pyccKMli 9381K, ocbopmeHHe. MPOEX «XII «Mupr>, 2008Coyepxanne BuaronapHocta 4 TIpeawcnosue . 5 acts I. 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