Recommended to Read 2, 3, and then 1. Foreplay Tips You need to tease her genitals, not commit an invasion.

While youre kissing, press a thigh between her legs and grind in. Move it up and down between her legs. Its the washingmachineonspincycle principle the overall vibration has a greater arousing effect than just using a finger or two. This type of indirect contact with her clitoris and vagina is a great way to get her warmed up. Then move down and nibble her through her skirt as a teasing prelude until she starts grinding on your face shell soon be in a hurry to strip to her knickers. Which is when you can try breathing and licking her pussy through her undies. This type of titillation ensures that when you finally do touch down on her clit oris, theres an explosive reaction. Positions She Loves The comfort zone More commonly known as the missionary position, the comfort zone is not to be ov erlooked. Nor should any man ignore its tremendous potential for scorching hot s ex. Yes, it can also make for predictable, boring sex a Puritan would admire, bu t only if youre lacking passion and creativity. The comfort zone is one of the to p sex positions women enjoy, and for good reason: the permutations for pleasure are virtually endless, and none of them involve discomfort or the skills of a gy mnast. Take charge: Lay her down on the bed, spread her legs apart by sliding yo ur knee between her thighs, place her wrists above her head and show her what yo ure made of. Women love displays of dominance in the bedroom, and this one can be either subtle or overt, making it suitable for nearly every woman out there. Sex position savvy: Take it to the next level by talking dirty to her. Bring you r lips close to her ear and whisper what youre going to do to her; let her know s hell be screaming your name before its over. Private lap dance Most women love being on top for one simple reason: It makes them feel like they re in charge, and power is always a heady aphrodisiac. Being on top is not limi ted to one style, however. If youre old-school, lie on your back and have her str addle your waist before lowering herself onto you; dont forget to lend her some s upport by holding her hips while she rides you. If your woman doesnt enjoy this s tyle, its likely for one of two reasons: She may feel overexposed during the act, or her legs might be a bit too short to pull it off comfortably. The easy fix f or this dilemma? Move to the sofa. Sit yourself down, lean back and pull her ast ride you. This is definitely one of the sex positions women enjoy because it all ows her to brace herself against the back of the couch, giving her excellent lev erage to ride you to orgasm. She can even brace herself with one hand, leaving t he other free to play with her clit. Sex position savvy: It may be tempting to just sit back and enjoy the scenery, b ut if youd like to really rock her world, tease her breasts and nipples with your tongue and trace the curve of her waist with your fingers; these moves will mag nify her pleasure. Stand at erection This sexual position women enjoy is pretty self-evident in the title: Your woman is going to sit on a surface that stands level with your waist, and then youre g oing to penetrate her as deeply as you possibly can. The further her legs are sp read apart the better, and you can maximize this by drawing her legs around your waist. This will place her vagina directly against your groin, and will make de ep thrusting incredibly easy for you, thereby increasing her odds of having a Gspot orgasm. Where can you put this sexual position women enjoy to good use? Try the kitchen counter, the bathroom counter, the washing machine, the piano, the

hood of your car -- get as naughty as you like. Sex position savvy: Some men come relatively quickly in this position, thanks to its deep-thrusting potential. Dont be afraid to slow down and take a break to get yourself back under control. Use that time to stimulate her clitoris and bring her closer to the edge. When you start thrusting again, shell be just as ready as you are. Spooning it The spoon position makes for fabulous sex, and its really no wonder that it s on this list of sexual positions women enjoy. A woman loves the feel of a mans chest against her back, she loves the feel of your arms wrapped around her and she lo ves the feel of being penetrated from behind. She especially enjoys it in the sp oon position, because its incredibly comfortable and still allows you to play wit h her breasts and clitoris, which, frankly, most women can never get enough of. Slide behind your woman, pull her bottom backward against your groin, and slip h er top leg over your hip, drawing it slightly backward as you do so. Having her thighs spread apart like this will make her feel deliciously naughty and shell pr obably arch her body to give you even further access. This is a very comfortable sexual position women enjoy, and you can expect a great deal of moaning to ensu e. Sex position savvy: Take advantage of this position by reaching around and stimu lating her clitoris, and dont forget to talk dirty to her as you do; this is one of the best positions for pillow talk. Stoop doggy dog You may be surprised to see doggy style making the list, but it really is one of the sexual positions women enjoy. That said, the doggy style you see in the ave rage porn flick isnt really what were talking about here -- were after something a bit more intimate and far more pleasurable. Yes, women do like being bent forwar d on all fours and taken from behind, but they like it even more when you bend f orward as well, sliding your fingers between her thighs and toying with her clit . And women simply love it when you switch things up by pulling them into a knee ling position while you continue to thrust deeply. Women definitely enjoy doggy style, as long as they arent made to feel like objects. Sex position savvy: While bending forward, gently nip your womans shoulders with your teeth; this area is very sensitive and most women enjoy being bitten there, as it greatly intensifies the sexual pleasure. Mistakes to Avoid What You Need To Know If what you re doing is a little off the wall, make sure she s agreed to it. Real sex is not like sex in porn. Don t forget to be a passionate lover - kissing is a good start When you re about to have sex with a woman, the last thing you want to do is tur n her off. A lot of men are unaware of what they re doing wrong in bed, which is where we come in. 1- Not kissing Believe it or not, many men don t kiss the woman they re with when they re havin g sex -- and that s one of the biggest mistakes to avoid in bed. Why don t these men kiss? Perhaps because the positioning doesn t allow for it. Nevertheless, w e recommend that you make an effort to kiss your woman when you re inside her. 2- Biting before she s ready While plenty of women enjoy an aggressive man, biting any part of her body befor e she s fully aroused may lead to pain and discomfort. Make sure she s fully exc ited before you bite her nipples, shoulders, neck, or any other part of her body . 3- Ignoring everything but sexualized parts Breasts and vaginas are great -- no doubt -- but you should definitely pay atten

tion to other parts of her body. Lick behind her knees, kiss her wrists, rub her back, caress her stomach; focus on her entire body. It ll turn her on more and, in turn, increase the chances of her pleasuring you back. 4- Putting your weight on her It s OK to lose yourself in the moment every once in a while and go crazy on you r woman. However, when you re lying on top of her, you have to be careful not to drop your weight on her, in essence hindering her ability to breathe properly - which is never a good thing during sex. 5- Ejaculating too soon/too late You need to have good penile control to ensure that you can ejaculate at an appr opriate time. Too soon and she may be unsatisfied; too late and she starts feeli ng like sandpaper. If you can t control yourself and end up letting go too soon, spend a lot more time on foreplay. If you last too long and can only ejaculate via manual stimulation, do your best to give her an orgasm and then get her to s atisfy you manually. 6- Not warning her about ejaculate If you re going to come, whether it s inside her vagina, in her mouth or anywher e on her body, you need to tell her beforehand. Something as simple as "I m goin g to come," will suffice. She deserves to know. 7- Treating sex like porn Although some couples enjoy having nasty, raunchy sex, you d be wise to talk to the girl you re going to sleep with before you engage in such behavior. If you b egin forcing her head back and forth when she s sucking you, or you pound away o n her and start spanking her without knowing if she likes it first, chances are the scenario won t end on a happy note. 8- Staying quiet We re sure you want to hear when your woman is enjoying herself, so pay her the same respect and give her a bit of dirty talk. Something as simple as a little m oan, or even saying something like, "That feels so good," will encourage her. 9- Pumping away like a jackhammer It may feel good for you to pump in and out of a woman like you re in a sprint, but you ll quickly discover that most women don t enjoy such an act, at least no t off the bat. Mix it up a little bit; go fast at times, then slow down. Go all the way in at times, and other times let only the tip of your head in. keep it interesting It s up to you to mix it up and avoid making sexual errors that irritate women. Once you do that, it s all butter. Watch out for the nine and you re guaranteed a good time. More Tips 1. Taking charge is not bad. Oh, there will be some women who feel that you are pushy. If you are making out with a woman, and she starts to push back, ask nice ly if things are moving too fast. If she says yes, say something like "I m sorry - you just look so fucking delicious. I ll go slower." Otherwise, skillfully mo ve forward. If you start kissing a woman, and she responds well, and before long , you re both on the floor with her skirt pushed up, and you on top of her, it s not the time to roll onto your back and start awkwardly stroking the top of her head. Seriously, grow a goddamn pair. YOU RE the man. Act like one. 2. Ohmyfuckinggod, please learn to respect the clit. It s different for every wo man, so ask what she likes. Do not, I repeat, do not just wiggle your fingers ar ound her pussy like you re trying to tickle her. Do not drum your fingertips aga inst her vulva like you are impatiently waiting at the Sears Tire Center for you r receipt. Do not push the clit like it is a doorbell at some house that you nee d to get inside of. Start by using all four fingers with firm yet gentle pressur e against the outside of her pussy. Do not charge in with a single finger and st art jabbing at things. And if you really don t know what to do, ask her. Just as k. "How do you like it?". It s a simple question, and most women will answer str

aight out. If she s being all coy, ask "Do you like pressure? Is it sensitive?" The clitoris is a varied item, indeed. Treat each one as though you have never e ncountered one before. Forget everything that your last partner liked. 3. Most women like to be fucked, and fucked well. Yes, there are women out there who want to "make love" every time - sweet, gentle, rocking love with lots of e ye contact and loving kisses. Those women are not the majority. The majority lik e to be pounded. The majority like to have their hair pulled. The majority like a good, solid jackhammering. When a woman is bucking wildly against you, it s no t because she wants you to pull back and slowly swirl your cock around her vagin a like you re mixing a cake batter up there. It s because she wants you to hold down her arms, or grab her hips, or push her legs above her head, and fuck her h arder. Don t be too afraid of what this means as far as gender equality goes - I am a raging feminist bitch, but I still want to be penetrated like you are plan ning on fucking my throat from the inside out. 4. A little roughness is nice. Do not pretend that you had no idea that some wom en like their hair pulled. Do not act shocked if she wants you to spank her ("Re ally? Spanking? Won t it hurt?" - yes, it does. That s the fucking point). We kn ow you ve read Stuff and Maxim, and that s all those laddie mags talk about in t heir "How to Please Her" sections. Start with light, full handed smacks to the a rea of her ass that she sits on. Judge her response and continue on from there. You don t have to bend her over one knee and tell her she s a naughty girl and t hat Daddy s going to punish her; save that for the fifth date. Women are less de licate than you think, so don t worry about breaking her hip. 5. It s OK for you to make noise. Otherwise, we feel like we are fucking a ninja . Unless you actually are a ninja, and have sneaked into our rooms with vibratin g nanuchaku and zippered black pajamas, please, please make some noise. If you r e banging a woman, and she s crying out and saying your name and moaning, and yo u can t even manage a grunt, she s going to feel like an idiot. You don t have t o make the sounds she is making, but do SOMETHING. You know how when you are wat ching porn, and the girl does something great to the guy and the guy kind of goe s "Ah!", half grunt, half yell? That s HOT. Do that. Whisper our name (assuming you know it) gruffly. Groan against her neck when you re in missionary position. You don t have to grunt like a mountain gorilla, but if you are totally mute, s he s going to get worried. 6. Most women like dirty talk, in addition to the grunting. If you d like to get some dirty talk going, ask her if she likes the way you fuck her. If she respon ds well, continue with something like, "I love fucking you. God, you look so fuc king hot." Is she still moaning in response? "Your tits are so beautiful." Does that work? If she doesn t respond well to the term "tits", you might have to sto p there. If she keep moaning or responding, pass Go and collect $200. Try the fo llowing: "Oh, god. Your pussy is SO tight." "You re so wet - are you wet because you like the feel of my cock ramming you?" "I think I m going to come inside you. I m going to fill up your little cunt." I t doesn t matter that you re wearing a condom; we LOVE hearing this. If all of those work, you can then progress to things like "sexy little bitch" a nd "dirty whore". Tread carefully, but please, tread. Do not tiptoe. Do not sit down. Charge. 6. You re not obligated to eat a woman out. In return, she s not obligated to ch oke on your dick. Don t skip one and expect the other. If you do eat a woman out , the only comment you should make about her pussy is how nice it is. The length of her labia minora, the color of her interior, her waxing job or full bush - y ou are not John Madden. No time for color commentary.

7. Do not bitch about condoms. Oh, we hate them. Trust us. They hurt us more tha n they hurt you. But we don t want to be preggers, and you don t want to catch a nything, right? Don t whine about condom sex. Do not explain that you can t come with one on. LEARN to come with one on, or if not, help us figure out what to d o with you once we re satisfied and it s time for you to let loose your load. 8. We really like it when you come. It s called a money shot for a reason. Watch ing semen shoot out of you is one of the most gratifying things EVER. However, d o not assume that she wants you to jack it off onto her face. She might, but don t assume. Seeing and/or feeling you come is rewarding for us, so there s no nee d to deprive us of it, but please do consult us before unleashing. "I think I m going to come - how do you like it?" is a fair question that shouldn t rob you o f your testicles. Giving Her Oral Useful positions In order to make your oral buffet as comfortable and as enjoyable as possible, h ave your lady lie on her back with her legs spread apart and her knees slightly bent. Get on your stomach between her legs and slide your arms under her legs. Y our head ends up comfortably facing your oral objective. Wrap your arms around h er legs and you ll have perfect access to her vagina, which allows you to manipu late it with your fingers. Move your tongue freely from her inner lips to her outer labia on one side. Once you ve done that, draw her lips into your mouth and massage them with your tong ue. And since the other side will probably get jealous, move on to the other sid e afterward. Little nips and tugs are amazing. Another amazing technique that is often overlo oked is using little nips and tugs to your advantage when you give her head. Now , that doesnt mean you should go all out and start biting and pulling really hard ! Try throwing in a light nip to an inner lip, or a little sucking motion around the clit, and gauge your next move from her response. If she leans into it, try incorporating those actions more frequently to break up the tongue strokes. With her clitoris still exposed, give it quick little sucks by enveloping it wit h your mouth momentarily and releasing it. This will definitely have a positive effect on her entire body. Next, take her clitoris into your mouth and gently suck on it while you simultan eously flick your tongue over and around it. You can perform this oral technique very lightly or aggressively, depending on what she likes. If you combine these oral sex techniques with your fingers, she will have a mind -blowing orgasm virtually every time. When she s close to orgasm, flick your tongue extremely fast down the length of her clitoris. This will have her explode in pleasure and surely have the walls s haking.