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A publication of
Forgiveness
The Art of
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Co-DiReCtoRs oF the oRDeR oF ChRist sophiA Mother Clare watts Father peter bowes DiReCtoR oF oUtReACh Rev. Margaret laveda revmargaret@centersoflight.org 414.248.7405 Design & lAYoUt grace tenner Design llC DiReCtoR oF photogRAphY Rev. Meira leonard eDitoRs sister Camille stikeleather sister linda kayes CopYwRiteR Rev. timothy lin the light is published four times annually by the order of Christ sophia and is distributed through regional Centers of light. For information on local Classes & events at the Centers of light: Ann Arbor: 743.864.2017 boston: 617.990.7411 Charlotte: 704.526.8301 Chicago: 312.623.4418 Denver: 303.913.7053 Dolores: 970.882.2123 Durango: 970.882.2123 Milwaukee: 414.248.7405 Minneapolis: 612.205.5545 new haven: 203.785.9085 new York: 347.884.1709 oakland: 510.207.6593 providence: 857 231 1920 seattle: 206 525 8488
You cannot transcend what you do not know. To go beyond yourself, you must know yourself.
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Clockwise from top left: Rev. isabelle, Rev. william and Annaleah on a wagon ride to pick pumpkins, Deacon veronica, sister Joan and sister Carolyn, David, sister Maria, elizabeth and Catherine, sister Cynthia and sister sarah.
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believing, and believing paves the road to you knowing for yourself. When you learned to walk as a child, you leaned on the knowing of those around you who encouraged you to get up off your belly. After several tries and many bruises, you experienced for yourself what you were capable of. Before long you were walking, barely remembering what it was like to fall. So, how does this relate to you and why does it matter? Because you get to choose what you have faith in; you get to choose where you put your mind and energy and what you draw into your life. You have the power and ability to direct that positive life force within you toward whatever you want. What will you choose? The sky is the limit! When you set your mind and heart on a goal, then take a risk, take a chance and let God, the Universe and faith propel you forward. It is said, faith moves mountains. Sometimes that mountain is you and you have to rely on even the tiniest seed of faith that is within you. Remember that seeds, when planted in good soil, grow strong. Faith, when nourished with positive and forward-moving thoughts and actions, will produce good outcomes. Commit yourself faithfully to following through on something that really matters to you. Trust in what you cannot see or know yet, so that you gain an experience that changes you. Have faith in yourself and soon you will be one that has faith in others as well.
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Each of us has been incredibly hurt by something someone said or did to us. We were unable to understand how someone could do this thing to us. Our first reaction is to be indignant and enraged. We might collapse into sadness that people are so mean. Usually, there is a great deal of pride in our reaction. It says something like this: I cannot believe he or she treated me this way. We feel that we are so sincere and well-meaning that it would be impossible for anyone to treat us this way if they knew us. And yet people do treat us meanly at times and are inconsiderate and oblivious to our good intentions. It is a rare person who, after being hurt by someone, has a first thought, I know they have good intentions and mean well. They must not have noticed that this would offend or hurt me. We need to practice the art of forgiveness.
Forgive people if you want God to forgive you. Wash from your heart all animosity.
Forgiveness is an attitude of knowing that people are good at the core and would do what is right if they knew themselves better. Forgiveness is the action of giving understand6 CentersOfLight.org
the law of karma, and each of us is accountable for our motives and behaviors. God sees to that. Stay out of the mix and let God ing and patience to others before they make right their offense to us, before they pay us back for misbehavior. It is unevolved to harden your heart to another person. It lacks compassion and peace in your heart. There is no excuse for holding your heart stiff to another person. It shows you do not understand that God is inside the other person and that God is in you. God agrees with God. So to stay in permanent discord with another person is against God. The tendency for people to hold grudges based on differences in religion, making a career or family decision that you disagree with, or having an ideology that you disagree with is against Gods commandment to love your neighbor. You cannot love if you hate someone. You cannot love if you hold a grudge against someone for what they said, what they believe in, or how they behave. They may not know it offends you. They may not think it has anything to do with you. They are usually sincere and well-meaning in their intention to do well. Be Forgive people if you want God to forgive you. Wash from your heart all animosity and bad feelings about the other person, and give that person over to God.. God will judge with wisdom and love and support each person in their growth and development. God sees all the complexities of our motives, longings and strivings and will give to each according to wisdom and justice. Let God figure it out and ask for help to stay out of the other persons karma. Everything we do comes around again under
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patient with people and give them the freedom to make decisions like you would expect them to do for you. If someone is actually harming another person, you should tell them that it is hurting others. If it is criminal, then you should report it because they will do it to others besides you or probably already have. But forgiveness is much nobler than stubbornness or rigidity. Forgiveness is blessed because God cannot forgive you unless you forgive others.
take care of things. You may need to try to talk things out with your sister or brother, but look for ways to agree and not ways to disagree. We should not try to be so prideful that we have to be right all the time. Use love in your conversations and you will arrive at forgiveness much sooner than you think. You know you have forgiven the other person when you can visualize God blessing that person and loving them completely.
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negative emotions so they dont continue happening. these emotions include anger, worry, laziness, fear and sluggishness, as well as passive aggressive behaviors such as consistent tardiness or pouting when hard things are asked of you. >>
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What is the best way to stay open and loving without picking up energy from other people/places?
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When we are centered in our hearts and radiate out love and peace from there, energy flows outward and there is no way for negative energy to flow inward at the same time. You can choose to be a source of positive energy and focus on
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giving and loving and caring about others. in so doing, other peoples negativity will have no place to enter you. Light is stronger than darkness, as all it takes to defeat the darkness in a room is to turn on the light.
ter of our beings, right near our hearts. though it takes years to learn to connect inside to such a degree that you can always get clear and definite guidance from god inside, everyone can tune in and get at least somewhat clear direction if they seek it. god is so happy that you might actually want to know what god wants for you, and god is even happier if you want to cooperate with that plan. this is why god makes answers to sincerely asked questions available to the humble seeker. Make sure you truly want to do what gods plan is for you, no matter what it is. get still and enter into meditation, the best you know how. then ask your question, clearly formulated, and direct it to god inside you. then listen for a response. You may feel it more than hear it, you may see something in your minds eye, or it may come to you some other way. even if you are off
An adult takes responsibility for his or her life on all levels. An adult does not look for other people to take care of them emotionally, financially, spiritually or practically. After all the years of having to be under parents direction and influence, it is a great joy to become an adult and get to choose for ourselves. however, when we do, we need to take responsibility for the outcome of everything we do. the fun in it is that through responsibility, we contribute to creating many things of consequence and meaning. People come to know they can count on us, trust us and be with us because we are trustworthy. We can also choose a spiritual path of our own liking, and commit to it to whatever degree we want, leaving behind the bonds of prior obligations. What about all this would not be fun and rewarding?
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Offerings
SERVICES
Sunday Service
Open to All Followed by Brunch
not your average sunday service! experience spirit moving through songs, prayers, and powerful sermons that bring you into closer connection to god the god inside your heart, inside your soul, to the god within. each service begins with a silent meditation followed by a sermon relating directly to the spiritual needs of the community, finally culminating in a transformative Communion and personal blessing.
CLASSES
Introduction To Meditation & Christian Mysticism
Understanding the laws of the universe isnt easy, which is why the Centers of Light offer six sessions that explore the foundations of Christian Mysticism. Open to all, this class gives an overview of what Christian Mysticism is and what mystics do, and, most importantly, it offers participants a chance to experience the spiritual world first-hand. there is no restriction on faith. You only have to believe that there is most likely a power and intelligence that is higher than human intelligence. Free of charge.
What is love?, or What is the Creator? are presented in a simple, practical way that allows students to understand, discuss, and contemplate their meaning. these ancient teachings are paired with powerful hands-on experiences, giving students a tangible way to connect to the reality of gods spirit and power. this class is open to graduates of introduction to Meditation and Christian Mysticism.
SEMINARS
Master Teacher Seminars
seminars from the Master teachers of the Order of Christ sophia are once-in-a-lifetime opportunities to receive spiritual teachings that can move mountains in your life. the old saying, one day with a teacher is worth 200 years on your own applies to these enlightening and life-changing events. experience it for yourself by checking the enclosed schedule of events or contacting a Priest at your local Center of Light.
Bible Contemplation
it is a fairly common experience to read a passage from the new testament and ask, i wonder what that means? Bible Contemplation at the Centers of Light helps unravel the deeper meaning in Jesus teachings by exploring our inner and outer life experiences and how they relate to the parables Jesus taught. As a result, class members discover how these teachings relate directly to their own lives and experiences. this class is open to graduates of introduction to Meditation and Christian Mysticism.
Evening Prayers
All are welcome to join us at the end of the day with evening prayers and songs. Community members from the Centers of Light come together to thank god, Jesus and Mary for the blessings of the day and offer songs of gratitude and thanksgiving. Join us in spreading light into the world with this form of joyful devotion.
Tree of Life
the tree of Life lessons are written for the purpose of unfolding the soul alchemically and opening up spiritual consciousness to the wisdom of god. topics such as What is light?,
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Devotion
Devotion is the heart of every
religion and spiritual path. it is the feeling of love, longing and connection to god. it is from a powerful and pure devotion that rumi, saint teresa of Avila, saint Francis and all the great mystics spoke. it is devotion that offers all of the real fruit of spiritual life. For some people, devotion comes easily and they naturally feel a love-connection with god. For these people, relating to god in a feeling way is something that makes sense to them. they imagine god and feel love and longing immediately. Others have a very sporadic devotional life, in which they feel very connected and loving toward god at some times and then very disconnected at others. For the rest, relating to god with feeling is very challenging. they may have a firm belief and a sense of commitment to god, but not feel a lot of devotion or longing for god. no matter which of these categories you fit in, there is important spiritual work to be done. For those who easily feel connected to god in love, the growth process is focused on the purity of that relationship. Often, if devotion comes easily, it is because the person is naturally emotional, and this emotionality can make the devotion to god easy to feel but also
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more selfish. emotions can become addictive and feeling really good or very intense emotions can become an end in itself. in this way, we may really be worshipping the emotion more than god. to correct this, we must be more simple in our devotion. take all drama out of it and see how it feels. real devotion is not about what we get for ourselves, but what we give to god. For those who are very sporadic in their devotion, the spiritual work is to be consistent. if we only offer devotion when we are swept up by big feelings, then we do not contribute to the relationship with god. it is like being in a romantic relationship in which you only express care for your partner after they make a dramatic romantic gesture. A real and deep love relationship is about commitment and consistency as much as passionate love. the same is true with god. We must show up and express love even when we do not feel it intensely. in this way, our love can grow deeper and more steady. those who have a hard time feeling devotion at all are often people who have generally restricted their feelings. When we have shut down our feelings in order to have more control and less vulnerability, we also lose spiritual sensitivity. in order to grow in devotion, we have to open up the places that have been
protected. A good way to start is to visualize your heart protected and tight and then see those protections falling away. then invite god into your heart. Let gods presence heal the wounds that have protected you from love. then practice gratitude every day and notice how your heart softens. every person will benefit from deepening their devotional lives. start with gratitude, honor, love and desire to know god deeply. then seek a teacher to guide you to the deepest realms of love and union with god. May you be blessed on your journey.
ReveRenD lUCille MiChAels is an ordained Priest and Director of the Center of Light, Minneapolis. She began her study with the Order of Christ Sophia in 1999 and has been serving as a Priest since 2002. She holds a Doctoral degree in psychology and is currently working as a psychologist in Minneapolis.
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SPEND 10 minutes per day in meditation tuning into the changes happening within you.
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STRIvE to open and feel love. When you feel loved, you dont fear change.
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mAkE a list of five things that you are ready to let go of and let them go.
SPEND TImE looking at the beauty of the fall season and contemplate the truth that as we let go and open, so we can be filled.
No. 5
mAkE a list of five qualities, goals or aspirations you want to strive for and take them on.
No. 6
LEARN a new skill, take a class. When you feel the joy of what is new, you wont be preoccupied with holding on to what is old.
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APPRECIATE the abundance you have in your life.
No. 8
mAkE a list of the many ways you have been blessed with abundance.
No. 9
TAkE a walk once a week, blessing your surroundings and enjoying gods creation.
No. 10
COmmIT to speaking to at least one new person per week. Connect with your neighbors or make a new friend.
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suit. What would it be like? i had to find out! the first thing i learned when i moved into the Milwaukee novice house was that i really didnt know much about living with other people. i was mostly used to living alone and having a lot of time to seclude myself and nurse my wounds. in my own confused world, i felt trapped and cornered, like an animal threatening to attack if anyone came too close. Was this really me? Did i really have this much trouble feeling comfortable around others? the answer was definitely, Yes. i just pretended that this wasnt the case, keeping my self-image propped up and others far away. the next big thing i learned was that i didnt know myself very well not my true feelings, desires or motives. the other novices have been a mirror for me, kindly reflecting back to me different ways of seeing myself and supporting me in my growth along the way. Although i didnt understand at first, i began to realize that i didnt have to do everything on my own, relying solely on myself. Life in the novice program has been a steady climb upwards toward being okay with my life and accepting myself as i am. i
really never had an opportunity to be around such great examples before, and have learned many simple and deep lessons. now this place, which seemed so alien before, has become my home and the people i live with i now consider family. this Center of Light has become a place of love and safety for me, an experience unlike anything i could have imagined. having people who accept me in these new ways, who are honest about how i interact with them, has done much to build up my ability to trust others. i am mightily blessed to be living here. When i visit my relatives and friends, i can feel how different and relaxed i am, and how much more able i am to love others and to be genuine. in the end, i got the last thing i really expected or wanted from the novice program. i got to cross a great personal chasm, which i had created when i was very young that is, a separation that kept me away from Christianity, and consequently, Jesus and Mary. it is a miracle and a great gift for me to have gained the relationship and understanding that i now have. im sure many seekers have thought this, but i am probably the last person that i, or anyone who knew me, would have guessed would be here, doing this work. i am a very fortunate soul and have been given much. Matthew Jones, Milwaukee
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Spiritual Community
our spiritual community is a place where real, meaningful conversation can happen, thanks to the high level of integrity and honesty in every relationship. spiritual community gives us the opportunity to learn, grow and support each other in our individual journeys to god, no matter how young or old you are, whether you are single or married, with children or not. Activities such as camping trips, movie nights, picnics and cookouts make spiritual community at the Centers of light an even more dynamic and vibrant part of life.
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Gather with us on Sunday for a half hour of meditation followed by singing, a sermon, and Holy Communion. Join us for our monthly seminars to meet our Teachers and Priests. See the inserted Schedule of Events for all Classes, Seminars, Services and Community Gatherings. Event descriptions can be found on pages 10 and 12.
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Spiritual truths have been handed down from teacher to student since the time of Christ. The Radical Path: Teachings & Truths of Mystical Christianity by Father Peter Bowes brings these intimate truths into written form for spiritual seekers who can recognize the power of these ancient wisdom teachings.
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