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Session 8
Introduction
What comes to mind when you hear the word “in-laws”? Discover how in-
laws become assets or liabilities when Biblical boundaries are either observed or
ignored.
What are the key instructions regarding marriage given in Genesis 2:24?
“For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife,
and they will become one flesh.”
When you marry, parent will say “leave home” and cleave to your spouse.
Exodus 20:21: Honor your father and your mother, so that you may live long in
the land the Lord your God is giving you.
Deuteronomy 5:16: Honor your father and your mother, as the Lord your God
has commanded you, so that you may live long and that it may go well with you
in the land the Lord your God is giving you.
Leviticus 19: 32: Rise in the presence of the aged, show respect for the elderly
and revere your God. I am the Lord.
Leviticus 20:9: If anyone curses his father or mother, he must be put to death.
He has cursed his father and mother, and his blood will be on his own head.
Hebrews 12:9: Moreover, we have all had human fathers who disciplined us
and we respected them for it.
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Leave and cleave
Why should we honor our parents? Notice that the Bible does not say that when
we earn or they earn our respect then we give it to them. We respect because
God is saying it. It is a command whether or not non-believer or failed you.
Stage two: EARLY MARRIAGE independence. You are leaving home and
become to in control of your family. You are a leader. You are alone. “I left
home.”
What are the five primary issues that must be dealt with in order for in-laws
not become “out-laws”?
1. REALITY
2. LOYALTY
3. AUTHORITY
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-Home of parents-authority to parents
-You own home-authority to you and your spouse.
-In marriage, authority is changed.
-What’s your role when you are in your parents’ house?
-It depends where you are!
4. PRIORITY
5. DIGNITY
-Valuing the older generations and the upcoming generations than criticize.
-Honoring must go on and be valued. Set a model to your children so that
they can also do it to others.
-Doing into others what you want others to do unto you.
Conclusion
The issue of marriage is to separate from your parents and become
independent.