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D - Leente Szkely
BLYOND SCHOOL AND IAMILY
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I. 1heories of socialisation environments
1he term agencies o socialization coined by Giddens ,Giddens, 2006, reers to groups or social
contexts in which socialisation processes and cultural learning take place
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.le asserts that certain
stages o an indiidual`s socialisation might be realised through seeral agencies, which can be
structured groups or enironments where the key socialisation processes take place. Giddens
introduces our agencies o socialisation: the amily, peer groups, schools,the workplace and
mass communication deices, but also adds that in act there are as many agencies o socialisation
as groups or social situations in which an indiidual spends a considerable period o his lie
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Other models dierentiate only two enironments o socialisation. 1he irst one is the amily,
generally reerred to as early socialisation or the primary or early enironment o socialisation.
1he amily as a small, inormal group is the irst source o patterns, the scene o the irst we-
experience` where the indiidual`s habits and behaiours
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are ormed. 1he second one is the
school, where late, or secondary ,chronologically and not in order o importance, socialisation
takes place.
Socialisation in the school can be examined rom the ollowing perspecties: that o child peers,
the class as a social enironment, and that o the teachers. Parson also distinguishes between
primary socialisation in the early years when the basic structure o personality orms and
secondary socialisation when social patterns are acquired in an institutionalised system ,Parsons,
1955,. According to another theory deried rom this one, the most important enironments o
secondary socialisation are the school, peer groups and the media. ,Bodonyi-Busi-legeds-
Magyar-Vizely, 2006,.
\et other theories propose a tripartite system with the amily being the scene o primary
socialisation, the kindergarten and school those o secondary socialisation and the workplace that
o tertiary socialisation: secondary socialisation reers to learning processes in groups o the
same rank and takes place during childhood
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In the present case socialisation is deined as the process o acquiring knowledge and skills enabling the indiidual
to become a member o society. During this process the indiidual acquires knowledge o himsel and his society,
acquires the rules o liing together as well as the possible and expected behaioural patterns ,Bagdy, 1994,.
Lducation is aimed at inluencing this process, while socialisation can be an unconscious process. 1hereore, in our
deinition socialisation is a broad category: it is not restricted to a closely delineable process but rather a wide range
o phenomena ,rom ormal socialisation agencies to non-ormal actors, ,Vajda-Ksa, 2005,, where the socialisation
process is not only the result o conscious learning but can occur ia hidden mechanisms ,Pecheron, quoted in
Muranyi, 2006,. Socialisation, one o the notions shared by psychology and sociology, and in this sense is not
identical with social deelopment, part o which is the ormation o the indiidual with a distinct emotional world
and indiidual behaiour.
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Although the socialisation agencies and social mobility share many characteristics, in the present study these
agencies are not deined as areas o mobility ,about social mobility, see: Sorokin`s studies,.
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1hese agencies o course do not trigger mechanic responses but rather urge the indiidual to participate in a
particular ramework in his social practice ,Giddens, 2006,.
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\e irst see the relations between roles, symmetrical and asymmetrical relationships here, and we learn the status
alue o dierent roles, the hierarchy o statuses and the principle o mutuality in the amily. 1he socialisation
unctions o the amily: care and protection ,learning loe as the primary social emotion,, proiding interaction space
- proiding models and learning roles, acquiring the undamentals o the I, the I system, and inner control unctions
,ormation o systems o stimulating and inhibiting action, delaying, rustration tolerance and the ability to control
onesel in receiing reward and punishment, and the oundations o the order o communication ,erbal and non-
erbal communication and their harmony,.
1hese groups o arious sizes ,school classes, gangs, associations, clubs, etc., contain indiiduals with shared
interests and represent typical social patterns, themes as well as a relatiely homogenous language and style.
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Musgrae ,Musgrae, 199, explores the areas o work and proessions. In his iew, the irst stage o career
socialisation is determined by learning the occupational roles linked to the system o careers and ater eery decision
the repertory o roles decreases since the range o aailable opportunities is narrowing down. Musgrae discusses
proessional socialisation in detail, the deelopmental stages o which include, irstly, the ,concealed, learning o the
roles o preliminary proessional socialisation ,attainment o career knowledge,, ollowed by entering a proessional
ield, stepping onto a career path, career expectations and reality, and, inally, real proessional socialisation begins
when the indiidual`s inal role behaiour and meeting the requirements o the gien career is ormed. lor Musgrae
tertiary socialisation emerges when an indiidual changes his career or actiity, but since this is only a coincidental
oerlap o terms, we will not deal with this area in detail.
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In this diision 1rencsnyi only includes conscious actors ,not denying the existence o spontaneous`
socialisation eect,.
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1he delineation o this enironment is necessitated by theoretical ,does extraamilial and -curricular socialisation
hae shared moties, elements and a oundation that link them into a distinct category with shared characteristics,
and practical reasons ,establishing the basic statements o the youth proessions,.
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lree time or youth is also a trial o adulthood: it is a time o autonomy, sel-management and sel-realisation
where multiidentity maniests itsel the most isibly. Due to the cyclical nature o a year, the ollowing types o ree
time actiities can be examined:
a, ree time on weekdays ,typically aternoons,
b, ree time at week-ends
c, ree time during holidays ,especially in summer,.
lree time during weekdays, week-ends and holidays can be described based on the results o ree time and youth
research ,Demetroics-Paksi-Dll, 2010, Szapu, 2002, Szab-Bauer, 2009, 2006, 2001, Gabor, 2000, Gabor, www,
Azzopardi-lurlong-Stalder, 2003, Nagy, 1991 etc.,:
a, ree time during weekdays: watching 1V, listening to music, hanging about`, going out to places o
entertainment, shopping ,consumption,, going to shopping centres, entertainment in general, going to the cinema,
studying and home work, computer and internet games, time spent together with riends or peers in a community or
organisation ,sport, cultural or art, student body, local goernment body, church, ciil,youth organisation,, reading,
doing sport or dancing, raising children, non-computer games, cultural programmes: theatre, concert, exhibition,
restaurant, ca, pub, other actiities.
b, ree time at weekends: same as during the weekdays, plus going to a disco, house party, trips, other actiities.
c, ree time during holidays: same as ree time at weekends, plus going on holiday with riends, with amily, with
partner, alone, other actiities.
In these periods o time the actiities can be diided into two main groups based on the intensity o the actiity:
there is a strong distinction between unctional, physically, intellectually and emotionally demanding ree time
actiities ,shopping, meals, and non-unctional, passie reception ,hanging about,. ,About the shopping centre as
social space, and about unctional and non-unctional ree time actiities, see: Demetroics-Paksi-Dll, 2010,.
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Peer groups, without a predetermined hierarchy o people with equal rank, the world o shopping centres, the
Internet, the media and small community interaction, etc. Large institutional systems o education ,work, and amily
aairs are unable to substitute the predominantly oluntary and sel-organised third socialisation enironment, and it
is not their task either.
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About peer groups and more about globalisation, see: lerain in Babosik 2009.
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Csepeli, 2006
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I we examine the world o youth . interaction, we must see that the principle o mutuality cannot be practised
in any other context.` ,Csepeli, 2006, 406,
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1here are attempts ,e.g.: Nahalka, 2003, to introduce extracurricular deelopmental actiities into the classroom,
howeer, these do not go beyond the traditional approach to roles, with the teacher playing the key role, and do not
proide the opportunity or real community roles to be ormed. 1he tertiary socialisation enironment is dierent
rom school exactly because the roles deelop in relation to the orming community.
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lor more about authority in the amily and the school, see: Vajda-Ksa, 2005, about peer groups Csepeli, 2006,
Piaget, 190
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Csepeli, 2006
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C. disco dance loor s. shooting association. 1he peer group alls outside the institutionalised social network ,in
our case institutionalised constitutes an objectie existence independent o the will o the group members,. Adopting
an extreme approach we could say that ormal groups play an essential role by carrying out actiities directly
beneicial to society ,e.g. work,, while inormal groups play a similarly essential role by engaging in actiities directly
beneicial to the indiiduals ,e.g. games, leisure time, entertainment, ,Csepeli, 2006,, although the borders between
these two groups are becoming less and less deined. 1he institutions o a consolidated society try to tame`
initiaties organised outside the oicial institutions with arying degrees o success ,1rencsnyi, 2006,.
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1he youth paradigm is tossed about like Charon`s boat: although it can be primarily regarded as an autonomous
pedagogical discipline, it can orm part o sociology, can be seen as a politological entity, youth work, partly social
work and partly a pedagogical actiity. It being an autonomous entity is supported by the ery act that it does not
ully orm part o any one science or proession.
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More about the decomposition o the primary socialisation enironment, see e.g.: Alpar, 2009, the problems
within the secondary enironment, and primarily about behaioural issues and learning diiculties, see: Ksan,
1989, Ksan - Mnnich, 1985 ,although only in relation to its solution within the school,.
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It is not age ,or age dierence, that plays the main role in the counselling interiew but that the helper should not
hae any selish moties in his relationship with the one helped during the period o the helping relationship. ,lere
anything that did not orm part o the personality o the helped person at the outset, or anything that was initially
and remained the monopoly o the helper can be regarded as selish, een the most positie manipulation by a priest,
doctor, psychologist, teacher, etc. in the counselling interiew is orbidden. 1his requirement constitutes a problem
because een today the experts working in the area o the so-called helping proessions unquestionably regard
themseles as the knowers in the counselling interiew, thus establishing an asymmetrical relationship o roles and
excluding the chance or a symmetrical interpersonal relationship. lelpers only hae the right to bring to the surace
the inner powers` o the person they are helping and let these powers moe into action. lelpers must also be ully
aware o the limitations o their own competence., Moreoer, it is important that helpers know exactly up to which
point an interiew is successul and eectie but does not oerstep the limit by interering in the others` lie ,keeping
a symmetrical relationship, and staying within the amiliar stranger status,. Situations requiring medical treatment
and help rendered to people in a psychologically critical condition do not all within the parameters o helping
relationships, only those who need temporary help in a gien situation and under gien circumstances, e.g.: i those
helped need inormation and, acts or applicable procedures they do not know about, they need help to be able to
ace their real situation, knowledge, competences, and opportunities, they need to be released` rom the arious
consequences o pangs o conscience or need help to let the accumulated excess emotions and anger be purged`
rom their system, need help to recognise their alues and powers, achiee a positie sel-ealuation, conirmation
and support, or they need help with ,psychological, cramps resulting rom misconceptions, alse belies, and
misunderstandings. 1he helping relationship is always based on a request, is always indiidual and unique. ,In an ideal
case, the request is ormulated, but oten the potential helper has to decide i the communication conducted with
him contained the element o a request., 1aking on the role o a helper is also always a matter o the ree, personal
decision o the potential helper. 1he helping relationship occurs within the ramework o a kind o contract
concluded or the duration and aimed at the concrete subject o the relationship een i this contract is unspoken.
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1he more communities the members o the youth age groups actiely participate in, the more they strengthen the
local and ultimately the entire society, especially i they do not orget the patterns learnt as young people when they
enter adulthood. Key words o the area: community, community deelopment, guided conersation, oluntariness,
animation. 1his actiity proiding help or the youth is deelopment aimed at the social enironment and the
,human, community which young people need to learnt to accommodate to and in which they hae to be able to
ind their way, role, sel-expression, sel-alidation, sel-representation and the representation o others, as well as
assuming responsibility and bearing consequences, i.e. they hae to learn decision-making. Sel-expression is not the
only ocus in community deelopment, but the exploitation o the potential and resources inherent in communities
enabling them to achiee things they indiidually could not. 1hus, the other ocal point in community deelopment
is locality, i.e. action and deelopment at local, municipal or regional leels. Community deelopment primarily
constitutes the deelopment o the skills o initiatie and action, in which citizens play a key role, along with
communities and their networks, as well as - depending on the local tasks - community deelopers, whose
encouraging, stimulating, inorming, and networking work is oten inaluable. Community deelopment has the
potential o exploring, complementing and strengthening the resources o a community. \outh community
deelopment is also realised at least in two spheres: in an inormal world ,street workers, and in ormalised youth
organisations, and in neither o these two areas do the participants hae to possess simple attributes linked to a
teacher role. Moreoer, community deelopment can be studied in a urther dimension: there are actiities carried
out by young people, and those by experts that started working in the ield in their youth.