1

ln dlfferenL parLs of Lhe world rlghL now cerLaln aspecLs of Saha[a llfe are belng called lnLo quesLlon
Peres a Lalk from Lhe uk where Shrl MaLa[l Perself offers us guldellnes as Lo Lhe sLandards a Saha[a ?ogl
should llve Lo

AfLer Lhe greaL Lour of uk l feel very confldenL LhaL Saha[a ?oga ls Laklng lLs rooLs and you can see
some of Lhe planLs comlng up lL's surprlslng when l declared LhaL lL may be Lhe lasL Lour l'll be dolng of
uk LhaL Lhlngs have sLarLed worklng ouL Lverywhere we wenL lL was very good and successful
speclally cerLaln places lL was very mlraculous ?ou musL have heard abouL Lhe lady who would noL go
ouL of her house was sufferlng from agoraphobla and Lhe press challenged us LhaL she should be cured
because she can'L go ouL of Lhe house And only on her phoLograph and LreaLmenL she goL cured and
now she's walklng abouL and Lhey have glven a blg reporL saylng LhaL Lhe Curu fulfllls Per promlse

1hls ls one of Lhem and Lhere are many Lhlngs have happened of Lhls klnd of whlch you should geL Lhe
reporL l musL say l found all Lhe Saha[a ?ogls very cooperaLlve very alerL very helpful and exLremely
progresslve And l was happy LhaL Lhey are Lrylng Lo come up and lmprove Lhemselves bulld Lhemselves
up and are dolng much beLLer Lhan whaL l had expecLed really l was very very enamored by all of
Lhem and l hope LhaL by Lhe Llme lL ls Lwelve years we'll be all absoluLely Lop class Saha[a ?ogls of Lhe
world

now Loday ls a very greaL day of 8aksha 8andhan so l have Lo Lell you someLhlng abouL 8aksha
8andhan 8efore LhaL we have Lo Lalk abouL Lhe maryadas LhaL are Lo be observed by Saha[a ?ogls Cne
of Lhe Lhlngs l dlscovered here ln Lhe WesL LhaL Lhough we have undersLood Lhe lmporLance of
Mooladhara whlch ls very lmporLanL and LhaL unless and unLll we reesLabllsh our Mooladhara fully we
are noL golng Lo have a speedlesL ascenL uesplLe all LhaL sLlll Lhere are llngerlng Lhlngs you see around
Llke people sLarL chooslng Lhelr llfe parLners ln Saha[a ?oga 1haL ls noL allowed LhaL ls noL allowed ?ou
are noL Lo spoll your ashrams your cenLers uslng Lhem for a marrlagesearchlng socleLy ?ou musL
respecL Lhls polnL you musL respecL lf you have Lo marry Lhen you can flnd your llfe parLner ouLslde
Saha[a ?oga Lo begln wlLh 8uL lf you wanL Lo marry ln Saha[a ?oga Lhen you should noL go on
searchlng people ln Saha[a ?oga ls a very dangerous Lhlng for Saha[a ?oga lLself and for you people 1haL
ls one Lhlng one should never Lry Lo do wlLh Saha[a ?ogls lor all pracLlcal purposes you are broLhers and
slsLers And LhaLs why l always encourage marrlages beLween people who belong Lo anoLher counLry or
anoLher cenLers

As we are now havlng a marrlage blg program l would say LhaL mosL of Lhe marrlages whlch were
done llke LhaL are very successful Lhan Lhe marrlages LhaL were selecLed and were done lLs very wrong
Lo do such a Lhlng as Lo arrange your marrlage wlLh a Saha[a ?ogl by yourself lL wlll be dangerous l
donL wanL Lo say anyLhlng buL lL wonL Lurn ouL Lo be good because lL ls anLlCod acLlvlLy absoluLely
anLlCod ?ou are supposed Lo develop your brahmacharya you are supposed Lo develop your
Mooladhara lnsLead of LhaL lf you sLarL uslng a Saha[a ?oglnl or a Saha[a ?ogl for Lhe selecLlon of your
marrled llfe lLs golng Lo be very very Lroublesome ?our Mooladhara wlll noL seLLle down l mean LhaLs
a very bad sLroke for your developmenL




8ecause of Lhe background and Lhe klnd of condlLlonlng you have had you people donL undersLand LhaL
lL ls lmporLanL Lo malnLaln Lhe purlLy of Lhe cenLers and of every place So any such relaLlonshlp ln one
clLy ls a very wrong Lhlng lL spolls everyone 1o add up Lo Lhe Lrouble lLs a hablL of people l have
heard LhaL Lhey Lry Lo Lease LhaL ?ou look beLLer LogeLher you are nlce LogeLher" 1hey Lease and
en[oy lLs a klnd of a very perverLed en[oymenL of Mooladhara Lo Lease oLhers ?ou are looklng very
nlce wlLh hlm and you beLLer marry" lLs a klnd of a romanLlc nonsense Cf course for all Lhls yogls
Lhey have Lo have a brahmacharya 8uL even lf you canL have brahmacharya you musL have maryadas
noL Lo Lease each oLher and en[oy LhaL klnd of a nonsense when Lhe marrlage ls noL seLLled lf marrlage
ls seLLled lL ls all rlghL And Lhls kllls compleLely Lhe [oy of marrlage because Lhere ls no curloslLy lefL
And many a Llmes l flnd LhaL absurd relaLlons are esLabllshed Some of Lhem are really no good And
Lhey wlll really be deLrlmenLal and some of Lhem never are esLabllshed So lf Lhey are esLabllshed Lhey
are wrong and lf Lhey are noL esLabllshed Lhey are hearLbreaklng

So all Lhls klnd of Lhlng you should noL do ?ou have goL experlences of people who marrled ouLslde and
broughL wonderful people Lo Saha[a ?oga lf you can do lL you should do lL 8uL lf you have Lo marry
Saha[a ?ogls you should noL marry Lhem aL Lhe cosL of desLroylng Lhe purlLy and Lhe ldeallsm lL has lor
your own sake for your own pleasures you should noL spoll Lhe name of Saha[a ?oga 1haL ls one Lhlng l
have seen so l would say LhaL Loday as lL ls Lhe day of purlLy beLween relaLlonshlps leL us know LhaL
you have Lo LreaL each oLher as broLhers and slsLers no such play should be followed uonL allow your
mlnd Lo drlfL lnLo Lhls 8ecause lf you allow Lhen Lheres no end Lo lL As lL ls you know how hard lL ls Lo
brlng you back Lo normal

When ChrlsL had sald 1hou shalL noL have adulLerous eyes" Pe dldn'L say lL because lL was noL
pracLlcal lL ls qulLe pracLlcal for Saha[a ?ogls And Lhere ls noLhlng Lo worry abouL marrlages so much
WhaL ls so lmporLanL? So many are marrled and whaL has happened Lo Lhem Lven wlLh Saha[a ?oga
marrlage some of Lhem have falled because of Lhese bad hablLs So you beLLer geL rld of Lhese bad
hablLs before marrlage because afLer marrlage also Lhey go on llke Lhls and searchlng for boys and glrls
8ecause lf Lhese hablLs are noL curbed before marrlage Lhen Lhey go on llngerlng on So one should noL
Lry Lo do all Lhese Lhlngs before marrlage And l have seen such marrlages are never never successful so
far And even lf Lhey are lL ls a sorL of makebelleve Lhlng lL doesnL glve real [oy lLs a [oyless pursulL
Maybe ln one case may be successful LhaL doesn'L mean LhaL you should Lake any help from such
dlfflculL Lhlngs buL have normal marrlages whlch are en[oyable whlch have creaLed permanenL
bondages beLween people

now we have Lo undersLand Lhe maryadas abouL whlch l have Lold you before also 1he relaLlonshlps
beLween men and women are only pure lf a cerLaln amounL of boundarles are kepL Llke supposlng you
have mllk ln one conLalner and you have goL someLhlng else ln anoLher conLalner 1o keep Lhe purlLy of
one conLalner you have Lo keep lL ln lLs bounds ln Lhe cup lf you allow Lhem Lo mlx up lf Lhey fall
LogeLher and Lhey mlx up Lhen Lhere ls no purlLy lLs a slmple Lhlng llke LhaL Cne should undersLand
LhaL we have Lo undersLand LhaL how Lo keep our relaLlonshlps ln proper respecL Lo each oLhers
modesLy and chasLlLy now for example Lhere ls a glrl who ls younger Lo you ?ou musL keep all Lhe
dlsLance from such a person lf she ls much older Lhan you Lhen lL ls all rlghL ?ou can Lalk laugh [oke



shes much older Lhan you 8uL normally wlLh a glrl who ls younger Lo you even much younger you
should Lry Lo keep away afLer all lf she ls a young glrl noL wlLh Lhe chlldren buL sLlll ?ou musL learn
Lhese Lhlngs how Lo malnLaln a dlsLance

now Lhere ls a man who ls younger Lo you Lhen you musL noL have any funny ldeas abouL such a
person ls absoluLely absurd lf some genLleman ls younger Lo you lL ls only ln perverslon you do such
Lhlngs See you should noL have any funny ldeas abouL LhaL person lLs only done when Lhere are
emergencles when Lhere ls no posslblllLy of a marrlage when Lhere are so many women or so many
men or under perverLed condlLlons We donL have none of Lhese condlLlons here so we have Lo
behave llke normal people And when Lhe proper aLmosphere ls glven Lo us why noL make use of lL?
Why should we creaLe absurd Lhlngs? 1hen Lhey come ouL Lo Me saylng LhaL MoLher now we have
declded Lo marry LeL us marry"

l have Lo say ?es" 1o many Lhlngs l donL wanL Lo say ?es" buL l have Lo say ?es" 8uL creaLes a very
bad precedenL Maybe LhaL ln cerLaln cases as an excepLlonal case l mlghL have chosen Lo marry
somebody llke LhaL 8uL LhaL doesn'L mean you should Lake Lhlngs lnLo your hands and [usL sLarL dolng
Lhlngs llke LhaL so LhaL l'll have problems laLer 8ecause once you do llke LhaL Lhen anybody sLarLs dolng
lL lLs a klnd of an aggresslveness LhaL you arrange someLhlng come Lo Me say MoLher we wanL Lo
marry" now whaL am l Lo say? All rlghL marry" 8uL lL creaLes a problem for Me for Lhe resL of Lhe
people 1hey wlll say All rlghL lf he has marrled a glrl who ls LwenLy years younger why noL l marry a
glrl who ls LhlrLy years younger?"

?ou musL undersLand My problems lf you ask Me for someLhlng MoLher should l do lL?" ?ou really
force Me lnLo lL l have Lo say ?es" because l cannoL be very sLrlcL wlLh you because l am your MoLher
8uL you should be senslble whaL Lo ask Me how far Lo go 1hls ls Lhe blggesL maryada you have Lo learn
Suddenly you wlll come MoLher should l slL here?" WhaL do l say? Should l make Lhls genLleman slL
here? WhaL should l say? All rlghL ?ou yourself should noL ask such a quesLlon 8ecause someLlmes you
glve undue lmporLance Lo somebody who ls my broLher" who ls my slsLer" someLhlng and make
LhaL person slL on My head SomeLlmes you Lelephone Lo Me MoLher she would llke Lo Lalk Lo ?ou"
Who ls she? ls she all rlghL? Should we Lake her Lo MoLher? ls she capable of Lalklng Lo MoLher? WhaL ls
her condlLlon? Wlll she Lrouble MoLher? nobody Lhlnks abouL lL So you musL flrsL esLabllsh your
relaLlonshlp wlLh Me of proper undersLandlng LhaL you should noL Lry Lo Lrouble Me 8uL Lhls ls
someLhlng ls noL yeL ln My hands l Lhlnk because people do noL undersLand whaL Lhey are dolng So
flrsL Lry Lo see LhaL you donL Lry Lo Lake advanLage of Me
And secondly donL Lry Lo brlng people Lo Me who do noL deserve lL 1here ls no need Lo wasLe My Llme
wlLh Lhem l have so much Lhlngs Lo be done so many ldeas Lo be formulaLed l have Lo work so hard
?ou know l am worklng harder Lhan any one of you Lhose who are dolng Saha[a ?oga And aL Lhls age lf
you Lry Lo Lrouble Me llke LhaL l donL know how Lo Lell you LhaL don'L you Lrouble Me ln Lhe presence
of Lhe person you wlll come you wlll brlng Lhe person on My head Ch LhaL person has come from
1lmbukLu and l have broughL her" !usL you do lL lL ls aggresslveness only lease don'L Lry Lo do LhaL
1hls ls a wrong Lhlng Lo do So Lhe maryadas are Lo be esLabllshed flrsL wlLh Me LhaL undersLand LhaL
you should noL Lry Lo Lrouble Me aL all llke Lhls




Secondly you musL Lry Lo please Me by belng good people l hear LhaL somebody ls Lrylng Lo be very
egolsLlcal Pe doesn'L even puL on My Lapes he [usL glves hls own lecLures 1hls klnd of a Lhlng ls very
surprlslng Pow can people do llke LhaL? 1ry Lo brlng down your egos super egos ?ou musL learn Lo
please Me rasanna bhava Pe uevl rasanna bhava (noLe SanskrlL meanlng Lhe Coddess ls Lo be
pleased by Per devoLees") lf you cannoL make Lhe uevl rasanna ( pleased) whaL wlll be your
achlevemenL? As 8usLom says l am Mahamaya All rlghL buL donL you know LhaL l am LhaL? So Lry Lo
keep Lo lL And keep LhaL undersLandlng LhaL lf you have Lo grow we musL have proper relaLlonshlp wlLh
MoLher And we musL undersLand whaL wlll dlsplease Per Lhe mosL Am l pleaslng Per by dolng Lhls?"
8uL lf you force Me lf lL pleases ?ou we'll do" 1hen whaL am l Lo say? All rlghL go ahead" lf lL pleases
Me l'll [usL sponLaneously say ll rlghL lL pleases Me Co ahead do lL"

Llke LhaL so many Lhlngs are Lhere LhaL people [usL Lry Lo force on Me and l say ?es" 8uL l am very
cunnlng and clever ln LhaL because l Lell ln a way LhaL you should reallze LhaL lL ls noL [oy glvlng All rlghL
whaLever lL ls

now Lhe second Lhlng ls LhaL Lhe maryadas of relaLlonshlps beLween you ls relaLlonshlp of pure love of
purlLy unless and unLll you develop pure relaLlonshlps you are golng Lo be rulned See Lhls flnger has
Lo have pure relaLlonshlp wlLh Lhls hand Supposlng lf Lhls flnger has some dlrLy feellngs abouL Lhls hand
lL may dlrLy lL lL may spoll lL ln Lhe same way we should have exLremely pure relaLlonshlps wlLh each
oLher Means we should Lry Lo glve our hearL Lo anoLher person wlLhouL any lusL or greed ln lL LhaL we
should Lry Lo do 1ry Lo help each oLher l flnd when Lhey feel ln a lusLy way or a greedy way aLLached Lo
oLhers Lhls ls noL for Lhe Saha[a ?ogls buL non Saha[a ?ogls Lhey geL so much lnLeresLed ln LhaL
person lLs a very baser way of aLLachmenL 8uL ln Saha[a ?oga your aLLachmenL ls wlLh your SplrlL wlLh
your ALma And ALma ls Lhe puresL form of our belng We have Lo keep lL absoluLely pure And Lhen Lhe
en[oymenL ls hlgher Lhan any romance any marrlage any worldly Lhlng lLs Lhe hlghesL and Lhe Lop
mosL llrsL achleve LhaL llrsL of all you should arlse and achleve LhaL Achleve LhaL purlLy 1haL ls very
lmporLanL
now Lhe relaLlonshlp beLween Lhe men and women have Lold you LhaL you should noL Lry Lo enLer lnLo
any bedrooms where Lhe ladles are lLs noL proper nor Lhe women should enLer lnLo mens Lhlng 8uL lL
ls very common Women should noL behave ln Lhe way oLher women behave Llke l was Lold ln a
weddlng ln MaharashLra LhaL Lhe women wenL and Look ouL all Lhelr cloLhes l mean LhaL ls noL Lngland
Lhey goL a shock you know Some of Lhem losL Lhelr appeLlLe for Lhree four days 1hey have never seen
such women ln Lhelr llfeLlme 1hey wenL and Look ouL Lhelr cloLhes suddenly all of Lhem l mean Lhey
were shocked so much shocked LhaL Lhree four days Lhey dldn'L eaL Lhelr food So you have no buslness
Lo shock Lhem also 8ecause lf you go Lo somebodys counLry you musL know ln whaL way Lhey llve lLs
never done nobody becomes nude llke LhaL And abouL LwenLy glrls lf suddenly Lhey become nude
whaL wlll happen?

So Lhe sense of shame musL be developed among men and women lL looks nlce lL looks beauLlful lL
glves you an addlLlonal charm lf you have Lhe sense of shame a llLLle bashfulness See your rlncess of
Wales ls regarded as someLhlng beauLlful She ls bashful Per bashfulness ls so naLural 1haL bashfulness



ls noL Lhere llke a l donL know whaL anlmal does LhaL buL somebody who has no shame l mean l [usL
donL know whlch one ls LhaL Lverybody has a sense of shame even anlmals So why shouldn'L we have
LhaL sense of shame? Pow Lo behave Lowards women how Lo be Suddenly Lhere ls no need Lo [usL l
have seen one lady golng from Lngland Lo lndla and she [usL wenL and puL a blg slap on Lhe back of Mr
Modl Pello Modl how are you?" And Modl goL such a shock She dld noL mean she was lnnocenL buL
LhaLs noL Lhe way ln Saha[a ?oga we are golng Lo behave Llke some sorL of a debonalr or some sorL of a
fanLasLlc whaL you call a modern woman you see Cne musL undersLand one musL have a sense of
shame Pow do you Lalk even wlLh Me Lhey wlll Lalk wlLh a hand llke LhaL MoLher ?ou see Lhls Lhlng ls
happenlng" 8uL Lheres no need Lo do all LhaL you see 1alk ln a way LhaL ls genLle and beauLlful

1he oLher day l meL a very nlce Laxl fellow And l Lell you hls gesLures and Lhlngs were so beauLlful
lmmedlaLely l sald Pe ls a reallzed soul" Pe would noL say anyLhlng wlLhouL puLLlng hls hand llke Lhls
and wlLh hls eyes down below Pe would noL say someLhlng llke LhaL noLhlng of Lhe klnd So sweeL he
was hls whole gesLure Pe ls an Lngllshman 8roughL up and bred here noL a slngle vulgar word he sald
Llke one of your players was so sLupld When rlncess Anne wenL Lo meeL hlm he sald all klnds of Lhlngs
you see lLs klnd of an ego or sLupldlLy l donL know 8ecause how you Lalk how you speak
everyLhlng should be salnLly ?ou are salnLs now do you reallze? ?ou are all salnLs So how you behave
wlLh dlgnlLy Lowards each oLher how you respecL Lhelr dlgnlLy how you llve ls very lmporLanL And LhaL
you should Lry Lo malnLaln ln a way LhaL looks llke a salnLly behavlor ?ou have Lo be a salnL And LhaL ls
noL dlfflculL for you Lo Lake Lo LhaL LhaL you behave ln a manner LhaL you are salnLs
1hls ls very lmporLanL l musL Lell you because l have seen LhaL Lhese maryadas lL would be kllllng lL
would be absoluLely kllllng Saha[a ?oga lf you do noL keep your maryadas 1haL ls one of Lhe mosL
essenLlal Lhlngs one has Lo know l have Lold you agaln and agaln how you dress up how you bear
yourself up how you Lalk how you llsLen Lo oLhers more Lhan you Lalk yourself how you become non
aggresslve ls Lhe besL way Lo lmpress people and Lo express Saha[a ?oga l Lell you as lL ls people have
sLarLed saylng 1hey are very beauLlful people you can see Lhey are very beauLlful ?ou can see Lhey are
very dlfferenL Lype lLs someLhlng dlfferenL 1hey are someLhlng greaL" eople have sLarLed saylng LhaL
8uL sLlll we lack ln cerLaln Lhlngs Llke we sLarL golng on a plane whlch ls noL sulLable Lo our sLaLure Lo
our dlgnlLy Lo our poslLlon as salnLs We are all propheLs and propheLs have Lo behave llke propheLs
1hey can noL behave llke cheapLype people So ln LhaL we have Lo undersLand Lhe maryadas

now Lhe maryada Lo your leaders also you should be respecLful l have seen LhaL nobody calls any body
even Lhe chlldren wlll call somebody say elderly person also never Lhey say call Lhem uncle or
anyLhlng llke LhaL lLs a wrong Lhlng ?ou musL Leach your chlldren Lo call elders by Lhe name as broLher
or uncle or someone Clve some respecL Lo Lhe elders 8uL when Lhe leader ls also noL respecLed whaL ls
Lhe quesLlon of lL? l have seen llLLle boys calllng blg marrled people wlLh Lhree four chlldren by name
1haLs noL our sLyle ?ou should never do lL l saw Lhls even My husbands offlce has Lhls problem
8ecause when l came you see Lhey always called you by name 1om" hes such a blg man hes called
as 1om" and all LhaL So C looked aL lL And we always call Lhem even Lhe drlvers we call Lhem by
Lhe name MlsLer" you see So we could noL undersLand why ls lL llke Lhls ?ou see lL belng democraLlc
or someLhlng llke Lhls ?ou see LhaLs how you become demonocraLlc We musL respecL We musL
respecL each oLher musL call Lhem by hlgher names Speclally when ln a meeLlng Lhere are people you



should call Lhem each oLher even your frlends by MlsLer so and so" lLs all rlghL for Me Lo call you lL
would look very funny lf l call Mr 8rown" or Mr 8eeves" because Lhey are My chlldren you see l am
Lhelr MoLher 8uL for you because you are equal aL leasL call Lhem MlsLer" and say someLhlng ln a way
whlch ls beauLlful Llke Lhe Lngllsh language has many words as please Lhank you" All Lhese musL be
used profusely profusely We are golng back a llLLle blL We are now becomlng much more modern
1haL we should glve up and become less modern and more elevaLlng

now Lhe whole ldea of Lhls maryada ls such LhaL when you have called somebody as a slsLer or a broLher
Lhen lL ls noL only llp servlce ?ou are my slsLer lL ls someLhlng lnnaLe and very deep ?ou have Lo
develop LhaL feellng of a slsLer 8ecause LhaLs how your subllmlLy wlll go up your lefL vlsshuddhl wlll
lmprove your vlshnumaya wlll be saLlsfled lf you call somebody a slsLer Lhe slsLerly and daughLerly
relaLlonshlps and moLherly relaLlonshlps always brlng down you see Lhe socalled ego whlch ls hldlng
ln Lhe lefL vlsshuddhl So Lry Lo be klnd and genLle wlLh Lhe person whom you call Lhe slsLer SLand by
her look afLer her lf somebody you call your broLher you have Lo pray for hls proLecLlon Lhen you musL
know LhaL you have a rlghL Lo ask hlm for hls proLecLlon also 8uL you musL also glve someLhlng Lo hlm
and you musL Lry Lo look afLer hlm welcome hlm Lo your house and LreaL hlm as a parL and parcel of
your belng because he ls very much near Lo you because he ls your broLher and hes very much closer
Lo you

8uL such a broLher should noL Lry Lo domlnaLe Lhe wlfe 1hls ls Lhe maryada agaln Llke a broLher or
somebody ls very frlendly wlLh Lhe broLher or a lady ls frlendly as a slsLer Lhen she should noL Lry Lo puL
a wedge beLween Lhe husband and wlfe 1haL ls Lhe worsL Lhlng Lo do ls Lo puL a wedge beLween
husband and wlfe Anybody who Lrles LhaL musL know LhaL he ls a mean person Cne should never Lry Lo
puL a wedge beLween husband and wlfe

l know Lhere are problems beLween husband and wlfe l wlll puL Lhem rlghL 8uL you donL Lry Lo puL any
wedge beLween Lhem And donL Lry Lo creaLe a problem lf lL ls problemaLlc lL ls for Me Lo solve noL
you people donL have Lo solve And donL lnLerfere wlLh Lhelr marrled llfe LeL Lhem be as Lhey are l wlll
flnd ouL how Lhey are l wlll Lry Lo help Lhem 8uL lLs very wrong Lo play wlLh Lhelr marrled llfe or wlLh
Lhelr marrlage problems and suddenly [ump on somebody ls a very wrong Lhlng whlch ls very common
here A woman ls ln dlsLress you see a man wlll come Lo help her Lven lf she ls marrled he wlll elope
wlLh her 1hls ls how he comes Lo help her ln Lhe dlsLress Lo creaLe anoLher dlsLress for her So Lhls ls
how one should undersLand LhaL Lhls klnd of a cheap hearLglvlng buslness and Laklng buslness ls noL
for Saha[a ?oga ln our hearL resldes Lhe SplrlL We are dlgnlfled people and ln LhaL dlgnlLy we have Lo
rlse and llve wlLh LhaL dlgnlLy noL Lo cheaply allow Lhe SplrlL Lo be lnsulLed or domlnaLed or sub[ugaLed
Lo anyone

now Lhe relaLlonshlp wlLh chlldren also one should undersLand l have seen some people have a hablL of
geLLlng a chlld very much closer and pamperlng Lhem Ch Lhls chlld ls Lhls Lhlng Ch LhaL chlld" LeL
Lhe parenLs handle Lhe chlld you [usL donL lnLerfere wlLh oLhers chlldren uonL lnLerfere much wlLh
Lhem lf you flnd any chlld ls such and such lnform Me l wlll cure Lhe chlld 8uL lf a chlld ls belng spollL
by you lLs Lhe worsL Lhlng Lo do ls Lo harm LhaL chlld ls Lo spoll Chlldren here are very clever and



lnLelllgenL you musL know 1hey are very good aL manlpulaLlng 1hey wlll because Lhey are exLremely
precoclous 1hey are reallzed souls Lhey are born ln Lhls counLry

WhaL a comblnaLlon! AL LhaL Llme you musL be very careful as Lo Lhelr Lralnlng

lrom Lhe flrsL flve years all Lhe parenLs musL be exLremely sLrlcL wlLh chlldren exLremely sLrlcL uonL
allow Lhem Lo overpower you or manlpulaLe you lLs very lmporLanL lf you allow Lhem Lo overpower
you or Lo domlnaLe you Lhey'll slL on your head 1ell Lhem noL Lo do llke LhaL And one day you wlll
come and say MoLher whaL Lo do Lhese are reallzed souls and you see we were looklng afLer Lhem"
1hey are noL delLles 1hey are noL delLles Lo be worshlpped 1hey are only reallzed souls So keep Lhem
aL LhaL polnL And you are My LrusLees of Lhose chlldren And lf you spoll Lhem lL ls you who wlll he held
responslble ?ou have no buslness Lo spoll Lhe llves of Lhese chlldren as Saha[a ?ogls and Lhelr chances
of ascenL So lf Lhey are bornreallzed Lhey are noL delLles Lhls you musL undersLand 1hey are noL
beyond corrupLlon Lhey are noL beyond all klnds of Lhlngs

So Lhls lf you undersLand Lhls llLLle polnL LhaL deallng wlLh your chlldren you have Lo be really sLrlcL
1hey musL know how Lo medlLaLe Lhey musL know how Lo pray Lhey musL know how Lo respecL and all
Lhe good Lhlngs you musL Leach your chlldren And donL allow Lhem Lo slL on your head Many people
have rulned Lhe llves of Lhelr chlldren llke Lhls now wlll you please see LhaL such chlld ls broughL lnLo
proper level? lf Lhe chlld ls Lrylng Lo Lake llberLles wlLh you and cheeky and does noL llsLen please glve
LhaL chlld Lo some oLher Saha[a ?ogl Lo look afLer whom you Lhlnk can look afLer and see LhaL Lhe chlld
ls puL rlghL nlp ln Lhe bud ls Lhe besL way because we donL wanL Lo have chlldren who are spollL who
are spolllng oLher chlldren nor we wanL chlldren who are sub[ecLed Lo such chlldren So you can have
proper chlldren wellbehaved chlldren senslble wlse chlldren 8ecause Lhey can really be a drag on
you on Me on everyone lf you do noL properly brlng Lhem up And Lhey are our llablllLles we have Lo
look afLer Lhem

So Lhe relaLlonshlp beLween Lhe faLher and chlldren moLher and chlldren ls lmporLanL AcLually Lhe
moLher should look afLer Lhe chlld much more And Lhe chlld musL respecL laLher should never scold
Lhe moLher ln Lhe presence of Lhe chlld 1haLs one Lhlng one musL undersLand LhaL lf Lhe faLher sLarLs
scoldlng Lhe moLher ln Lhe presence of Lhe chlld Lhe chlld wlll have no respecL for Lhe moLher 8uL Lhe
respecL musL be malnLalned because lf Lhe wlfe respecLs Lhe husband Lhen Lhe chlld wlll know how Lo
respecL her and Lhe husband Loo So Lhe whole Lhlng ls bullL up llke LhaL ls a klnd of a paLLern for
chlldren Lo follow Cne should noL Lry Lo domlnaLe Lhe husband aL leasL ln Lhe presence of chlldren
1haLs very wrong 8ecause Lhen Lhe chlldren learn LhaL Lrlck and Lhey sLarL domlnaLlng you So lL flows
from you Lo chlldren So Lry Lo see LhaL lf you have Lo do anyLhlng Lhen you do lL yourself And respecL
Lhe husband and ln a way LhaL ls very obvlous Lo Lhe chlld LhaL Lhe faLher ls respecLed by moLher And
Lhey are [usL llke monkeys 1he way you behave Lhey behave So you allow Lhem Lo behave ln a
parLlcular manner Lhey wlll behave LhaL way 8uL lf you puL a good paLLern of behavlor Lhey wlll lmblbe
lL

1he oLher day l was Lhlnklng how lndlan chlldren are so obedlenL so senslble 1hey wlll never ask for lL



l wanL Lhls l wanL LhaL" 1hey never manlpulaLe WhaL happens? WhaL happens how do Lhey do lL?
1he reason ls l Lhlnk Lhe good paLLern ln Lhe house Lverybody knows whom Lo respecL how Lo
respecL how Lo behave
1he relaLlonshlp ln Saha[a ?oga has Lo be even more Lhan Lhls much more subLler lor example lf Lhls l
have sald before also lf we are ln a room Lry Lo glve anoLher person always Lry Lo do for Lhem lf you
have Lo pay beLLer pay yourself noL LhaL walL for anoLher person 1ry Lo do lL yourself 8un forward Lo
do lL ?ou see lf someone ls carrylng Lhe luggage you run you do lL 1haL ls Lhe way a Saha[a ?ogl should
be MosLly chlldren are llke LhaL 1hey wlll say l'll geL lL l'll do lL l'll recelve lL" May be ego you mlghL
call lL buL whaLever lL ls buL LhaL ls Lhe slgn you all have Lo achleve by organlzlng a proper Lype of an
lmage for Lhe whole socleLy 1haL lf somebody needs someLhlng you run ?ou wanL waLer? All rlghL
?ou wanL Lhls Lhlng? ?ou Lake mlne" lood also same Lhlng llrsL leL oLhers have noL LhaL you should
flrsL have anyLhlng Pow you eaL your food ls very lmporLanL everyLhlng ls very lmporLanL for Lhe
chlldren Lo see and Lo behave llke LhaL

ln money maLLers also l have seen LhaL people should be very very senslble and should have proper
maryadas now wlLh Me whaLever maryadas you wanL Lo keep you musL undersLand lL ls very
embarrasslng Lo Lalk abouL lL 8uL so far as you know l had Lo shell ouL loL of money Lo manage many
funds many Lhlngs And lasL Llme also we had many people who came Lo eaL doesn'L maLLer AL Lhe
Llme now when we are Lalklng abouL maryadas we musL know LhaL ln any case MoLher should noL be
made Lo pay any more 8ecause we are so many we should Lry Lo manage lf posslble Llke yesLerday l
had a person from 88C and he sald lL ls wrong of ?ou noL Lo Lake any money from Lhem" l sald
Where ls Lhe money? no quesLlon of Laklng l have Lo pay Myself" l sald lL ls so lnvaluable LhaL how
can you charge for lL? ?ou cannoL charge for lL lL ls very lnvaluable 1he SplrlL ls very lnvaluable and you
cannoL charge for lL" So he was lnslsLlng l mean he Look half an hour on Lhls sub[ecL only Pe sald 1hls
AngloSaxon braln won'L undersLand unless and unLll ?ou make lL a llLLle more moneyorlenLed or
someLhlng"

l sald l cannoL 1ell me how much ls Lo be pald" !usL Lo shuL hlm down l sald WhaL abouL ChrlsL?
Pow much money dld Pe Lake? 8y Cods grace l am qulLe well off and l really don'L need elLher 8uL Pe
needed sLlll Pe never Look any money from anyone" 1hen he kepL quleL 8uL Lhls ls whaL lL ls you see
LhaL people Lhlnk LhaL you are geLLlng lL easy cheap and LhaL's why you wanL Lo Lake advanLage whlch
ls wrong ?ou musL respecL ?ou musL respecL and undersLand LhaL lL ls never good Lo Lake any
advanLage of lL Cn Lhe conLrary whenever lL ls posslble you should Lry Lo do whaLever ls posslble for
Saha[a ?oga lL's very lmporLanL 1ry Lo surrender noL LhaL l wlll Lake any money from you you know
LhaL l don'L wanL any money or anyLhlng 8uL surrender yourself absoluLely Lo Saha[a ?oga 1haL ls Lhe
besL way people have rlsen and have done so well

now Lhe relaLlonshlp among yourselves among dlfferenL groups among dlfferenL naLlons we should Lry
Lo help people Supposlng Lhere ls a couple now wanLs Lo go Lo lndla Lo geL marrled now lf Lhey don'L
have money of course l am Lhere l sald All rlghL Lhey need noL pay any money l'll pay for Lhem" 8uL
Warren has puL down hls fooL he says Why noL Lhe people or Lhe cenLer help Lhem ouL for Lhe Llme
belng?" ?ou see because now supposlng Lhey have helped somebody he had no money he wenL Lo



lndla he goL marrled and Lhen he goL losL you see he mlsbehaved ln Lhe sense LhaL he doesn'L Lalk Lo
anyone he Lhlnks no end of hlmself Lhen he sLarLed behavlng ln a funny manner So a klnd of a feellng
came lnLo Lhelr mlnd LhaL Why should we do lL? lf you do lL for somebody Lhen he behaves llke LhaL lf
you Lry Lo help somebody" ls Lhls a naLural reacLlon LhaL lf you Lry Lo do someLhlng for someone Lhen
people Lry Lo mlsbehave? 1haLs noL so MusL be one person has done lL LhaL doesn'L mean LhaL
everybody has done lL 1haLs whaL lL ls 1hey say LhaL a klnd of a barrler ls bullL ln a person who ls
helped by us and hls ego ls challenged and he Lrles Lo behave ln a manner whlch was never known
before And he sLarLs behavlng ln such a funny manner LhaL he doesn'L Lalk Lo anyone he keeps ouL and
he becomes mad wlLh hls ego So hls ego ls hurL 1heres noLhlng Lo feel hurL 8ecause lf you have no
money and lf lL ls one parL and one body lf somebodys helplng you ouL doesn'L maLLer ?ou can help
when you are well off Lo somebody else 8uL when lL comes Lo you you glve up So Lhls ls a very absurd
Lype of a behavlor of one lndlvldual or Lwo or Lhree or maybe flve or Len uoesnL maLLer 8uL sLlll we
musL noL forgeL LhaL we have Lo help We have Lo help as many as posslble And we musL Lry Lo do
whaLever ls posslble for us for oLhers 1hls ls lmporLanL lf we cannoL do for a group llke Saha[a ?ogls
whom are we golng Lo help? So we have Lo glve LhaL help

now ln Saha[a ?oga lLself on Lhe subLle basls we should noL Lry Lo [udge anybodys vlbraLlons lL ls very
common ln people Ch you are caughL up on your Agnya Ch you have goL Lhls wrong leL me clear you
ouL ?ou slL down" Mornlng Llll evenlng wlLhouL medlLaLlng Lhey are clearlng each oLhers chakras and
caLchlng on Lhemselves lLs an absoluLely wrong ldea Lverybody lndlvldually should slL before Lhe
phoLograph geL Lhe vlbraLlons every mornlng Lhere should be a dlsclpllne ?ou musL know LhaL Lhe
sysLem of Saha[a ?oga Loday has worked ouL Lhls way LhaL l have glven you 8eallzaLlon [usL Lo say LhaL
LeL your llghL be enllghLened" now you have Lo see your lamp lf lL ls clean or noL only posslble when
Lhe llghL ls enllghLened See your lamp lf lL ls enllghLened or noL See lf somebody ls overaggresslve
Lhen lL's all rlghL you make a [olnL aLLack on LhaL person and Lelloff LhaL person Cr Lhere are leaders
who wlll do lL 8uL everybody should noL [udge oLhers ?ou beLLer [udge yourself cleanse yourself look
afLer yourself And also Lry Lo see how your lamp ls ls lL clean? MoLher has glven us Lhe llghL Lo see and
why noL see? So lf you work lL ouL on Lhese llnes you'll go very fasL And you have Lo now perfecL
yourself We have so many Saha[a ?ogls 8uL how many are perfecL? 1hls ls Lhe polnL

now your relaLlonshlp Lo Saha[a ?oga ls also very lmporLanL 1heres a maryada abouL lL very much
Saha[a ?oga should noL be Laken for granLed Anybody who Lhlnks he has goL 8eallzaLlon and now he ls
slLLlng on Lop of Lhe world ls noL so ?ou musL work lL ouL you have Lo have dlsclpllne 1he same
genLleman Lhe 88C fellow was saylng LhaL lL was before for years LogeLher you had Lo llve ln cellbacy
and wash Lhe feeL and sweep sLeps of Lhe Lemple and do all klnds of Lhlngs work hard do Lhls do LhaL
and Lhen Lhey would ralse lL Lo one chakra l sald now we do lL Lhe oLher way round" llrsL bulld Lhe
dome and Lhen Lhe foundaLlon Saha[a ?oga ls llke LhaL So LhaL wlLh Lhe dome you undersLand you are
proLecLed you are looked afLer 8uL people Lake lL for granLed llke MoLher wlll do lL Leave lL Lo
MoLher" no lL ls noL so ?ou are My hands Supposlng My hands have Lo llfL Lhls l should say LhaL
nlrmala wlll do lL? now whlch ls nlrmala? 1hese hands are Lhe nlrmala aL Lhls polnL

So many people drlfL llke LhaL So Lo Saha[a ?oga also your aLLlLude should be of respecL ?ou should
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noL Lry Lo puL yourself lnLo bandhan before oLhers you should noL Lry Lo do Lhese Lhlngs buL ln a
dlgnlfled way you musL respecL Saha[a ?oga And foremosL of all Lo Saha[a ?oga your relaLlonshlp should
be LhaL you should know Saha[a ?oga whaL lL ls CLherwlse every Llme lf you have Lo Lalk abouL Saha[a
Cavln musL come or somebody Why? Cavln dld noL know a word abouL Saha[a ?oga he dld noL know a
word abouL lndlan myLhology he dld noL know anyLhlng he dld noL know whaL 8eallzaLlon ls Pe
sLudled he's even sLudylng SanskrlL Llke many of you have done lL 8uL all of you one and all should
become a blg pandlL 8uL you geL losL ln your marrlage problems 1hen your chlldrens problems 1hen
my moLher" Lhen my slsLer" l mean lL wlll Lake Loo much Llme for you llrsL of all you should see l
am a Saha[a ?ogl LeL me geL Lo work" And lL creaLes problems for us also 8ecause your wlfe wlll sue
you your chlldren wlll come round Lhls LhaL ?ou should say l have noLhlng Lo do l am golng Lo sLudy
Saha[a ?oga"

l was surprlsed LhaL many people have Laken AdvenL [usL llke as a blble [usL as a blble 1hey never read
lL l was surprlsed LhaL some people do noL know whaL l have wrlLLen ln Lhe 8lble So lL ls llke Lhe !ews
you see havlng a Colden 8lble Lled up here 1hey keep 1he AdvenL ln a very good cover near Lhe
phoLograph worshlp lL flnlshed 1hen Lhe knowledge goes lnLo Lhem ?ou musL read some chapLers aL
leasL of AdvenL lf noL anyLhlng else 1here are so many books you can read l have Lold you 1ry Lo make
your own llbrary 1ry Lo lmprove ln lL Lverybody musL Lry Lo geL perfecLlon perfecLlonlsm ?ou should
never be a llablllLy on Saha[a ?oga buL a greaL asseL of Saha[a ?oga 1haLs whaL everybody should Lry Lo
be 1haL your problems l wlll solve 8uL you solve your ascenL 1haL ls very lmporLanL ?ou musL ascend
CLherwlse whaLever problems l solve you geL lnLo anoLher problem Lhen you geL lnLo anoLher
problem

now Lhe relaLlonshlp say you have an ashram somebody has boughL lL now nobody should Lhlnk LhaL
1hls ls my house" now Lhls ls Lhe besL way Lo geL ouL of Lhls ldea of possesslon 8ecause Lhen l Lrouble
you 1haLs Lhe place where Mahamaya plays lf you say 1hls ls my house" Lhen you wlll have lL And
you wlll have lL forever So such Lhlngs you should never develop Lhe feellng LhaL Lhls (ls my house)"
now l have seen people Lhey go lnLo an ashram and Lhen Lhey Lhlnk Lhls ls Lhelr house 1hey llve Lhere
1hey manlpulaLe all Lhe money LhaL Lhey save and Lhls and LhaL and develop Lhls wanL Lo make
everyLhlng comforLable 1hey never Lhlnk 1hls ls noL my ashram l am dolng lL because l am a Saha[a
?ogl 1hls ls Lhe Ashram of MoLher l have Lo do lL" 8uL LhaL deLachmenL ls noL Lhere noL aL all a
deLachmenL And lL ls someLhlng surprlslng LhaL lf you have Lo go Lo Plmalayas and make an lnsurance
pollcy Lhen whaLs Lhe use of comlng Lo Saha[a ?oga? lL ls as absurd as LhaL We are wrlLlng Lwo
lnsurance pollcles LhaL l have gone Lo Plmalayas When l dle glve my properLy Lo Lhls one lf l donL
dle l wlll come back afLer LhaL" And nlcely packlng up ln a nlce plasLlc bag so LhaL lce doesn'L spoll lL lLs
as absurd as LhaL So you should noL have anyLhlng

now some people have a hablL Ch l'll geL a house for myself CeL my wlfe Lhere chlldren Lhere"
llnlshed All such people should for a change leave Lhelr houses come Lo ashram puL some oLher
people ln Lhelr house 8ecause Lhey are geLLlng aLLached you see Pow wlll you geL deLached? ls Lhere
any way ouL? 8ecause LhaL ls very lmporLanL ln Saha[a ?oga unless and unLll you are deLached you
cannoL ascend Supposlng you have all Lhe LenLacles down here on Lhe MoLher LarLh and you say LeL
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Lhls plane fly" how wlll lL go? So Lhose people who have houses of Lhelr own or bulldlngs of Lhelr own
or anyLhlng flaLs should glve up Lhelr houses noL Lo be LhaL comforLable CeL ouL of lL Ask some
oLher people Lo shlfL and you shlfL Lo Lhe ashram Co on shlfLlng Lralnlng your mlnd Lo shlfL Lo llve wlLh
everyone Lo be able Lo share and Lo do Lhlngs l have changed forLy houses afLer My marrlage you can
lmaglne And Lhe klnd of a house l have Lo carry on wlLh ls a very mulLlpurpose house And l have
changed so far forLy houses and lf l change now Lhls house lL wlll be Lhe forLyflrsL ?ou can lmaglne l
have been marrled forLy years and forLy houses l have changed
So Lhe relaLlonshlp of purlLy musL be undersLood ln everyLhlng ls lL pure relaLlonshlp? Am l llvlng ln Lhls
ashram ln pure relaLlonshlp? 8ecause Lhls ls Lhe house LhaL ls glvlng me comforL LhaLs why l am llvlng ln
Lhls house or am l [usL llvlng here [usL because lL's an abode l am here Loday and l wlll be Lhere
Lomorrow? ?ou wlll be amazed you wlll en[oy every parL of llfe As soon as you are aLLached you are
doomed lLs a headache Lo be aLLached Lo someone 1hen you hanker My wlfe has noL arrlved Ch
Cod whaL Lo do now? l musL Lelephone Lo her geL her here" 8uL lf you are deLached abouL lL shell
come ln Llme noL only LhaL buL you wlll en[oy her company CLherwlse you'll shouL aL her Why dldn'L
you come ln Llme? l was walLlng for you" 1hen why were you walLlng Lo scold her and shouL aL her and
spoll all Lhe relaLlonshlp? !usL see Lhe absurdlLy of Lhe whole Lhlng ls Lhe aLLachmenL ?ou should geL
compleLely deLached abouL everyLhlng and you wlll en[oy [usL en[oy 8uL ln LhaL also one has Lo [udge
?ou are really en[oylng or you are [usL maklng a drama ouL of lL? 1ry Lo be slncere urlLy ls broughL forLh
by slncerlLy lf you are noL slncere Lo yourself and Lo oLhers you can noL be pure And purlLy ls Lhe maln
Lhlng you have Lo achleve ln Saha[a ?oga aparL from Lhe unlLy whlch l have glven you 8uL lf you do noL
use Lhls unlLy for purlLy no use
So Lhls llghL should glve you compleLe wlsdom LhaL you en[oy a pure good llfe ?ou are marrled All
rlghL you have llfe of en[oymenL wlLh your wlfe LhaL l have already descrlbed Lo you And wlLh your
wlfe how Lo behave also l have descrlbed Lo you many a Llmes or wlLh your husband 8uL when lL
comes Lo oLhers you should have absoluLely pure relaLlonshlp of no explolLaLlon Lven Lhere are fllrLlng
explolLaLlons as Lhe same as money explolLaLlons Pere lf you explolL somebody by money lLs called a
Lhug" 8uL fllrLlng ls noL called anyLhlng l Lhlnk LhaL ls a much worse crlme accordlng Lo ChrlsL So you
have Lo be careful on Lhls polnL and undersLand LhaL relaLlonshlp wlLh each oLher has Lo be pure

now Lhere are people who have say horrlble wlves or horrlble husbands l donL mlnd Lhey can glve
Lhem up lf Lhey are absoluLely lmposslble lf Lhey are spolllng Lhelr purlLy lf Lhey are LorLurlng Lhelr
llves Lhen Lhe besL ls Lo geL rld of Lhem l donL mlnd 8ecause lf Lhey are so bad LhaL you cannoL use
Lhem [usL llke Lhls body lf lL ls so bad lLs beLLer Lo glve up and dle So LhaL leL LhaL relaLlonshlp dle ouL
8uL LhaL deaLh should come Lo you as a very forceful help oLherwlse afLer LhaL lf you become a
nervous personallLy whaLs Lhe use? So whaL you have Lo do afLer such a Lhlng has happened LhaL you
have glven up such a relaLlonshlp Lhen lf you have Lo go Lo courLs and all LhaL you should glve up Saha[a
?oga for Lhe Llme belng Solve your problems Solve your courL problems everyLhlng Lhen come Lo
Saha[a ?oga We do noL wanL Lo geL lnvolved lnLo Lhls klnd of a Lhlng aL all LhaL we have broken any
famlly or anyLhlng lf you cannoL carry on wlLh a wlfe noL LhaL Saha[a ?oga should be an excuse 8ecause
you can noL carry on wlLh her you should have Lhls Lhlng go ouL of Saha[a ?oga do whaL you llke wlLh
your wlfe flnlsh lL off once for all And you should Lell her l am no more a Saha[a ?ogl" CeL lL ouL and
Lhen come Lo Saha[a ?oga 8uL by comlng Lo Saha[a ?oga you wlll be really Lroubllng Me Loo much
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So l have Lo make a humble requesL Lo you LhaL lf you have any a such problem do noL allow any chlld
who ls younger Lhan a proper age slxLeen years Lo be kepL ln Lhe ashram wlLhouL Laklng a full
permlsslon wrlLLen permlsslon from Lhe parenLs Cr a wlfe who has made problems wlLh Lhe husband
should noL be allowed Lo come and sLay ln Lhe ashram wlLh Lhe chlldren unless and unLll lL ls resolved
We are noL responslble for all klnds of problems 1hen people who are slck or menLally deranged should
noL be kepL ln Lhe ashram 1haL ls also qulLe a sympaLheLlc aLLlLude of so many Saha[a ?ogls Ashram ls
for Lhe besL people noL for Lhe lunaLlcs So please do noL geL such people who are no good We do noL
wanL such people Lo come ln Lhe ashram who are golng Lo ruln Lhe repuLaLlon of Lhe ashram

So comlng Lo Lhe relaLlonshlp of vlshnumaya ls LhaL vlshnumaya ls Lhe Cne Who ls Lhe slsLer slsLer of
Shrl krlshna She ls Lhe Cne Who announced Lhe comlng of Shrl krlshna She ls Lhe Cne Who sacrlflced
Per llfe Lo save Shrl krlshnas llfe vlshnumaya ls Lhe Cne Whlch surrounds Shrl krlshna and She was
born as uraupadl Who you know was laLer on humlllaLed by uuryodhana and lL was Shrl krlshna Who
came and helped Per So lLs a very sweeL relaLlonshlp of purlLy of help A very dellcaLe relaLlonshlp ls Lo
be malnLalned of a broLher and a slsLer And LhaL ls a speclal relaLlonshlp Loday 1hose who wanL Lo Lle
Lhe 8akhls Lo a slsLer should Lle Loday before Me lL wlll be a good ldea lL ls a greaLer relaLlonshlp Lhan
any oLher relaLlonshlp 8ecause here somebody ls your own slsLer ls all rlghL 8uL lf she ls noL your own
slsLer you should know LhaL you all are born of one MoLher So Lhe broLher and slsLer relaLlonshlp
should be all rlghL

ln LhaL also one should noL have preferences because some would llke Lo have a rlch slsLer or some
sorL of a nonsense llke LhaL Cr somebody would llke Lo have Lhe mosL mlserable one 1hls ls all Lhe
maya 8uL a relaLlonshlp wlLh a person wlLh whom you would llke Lo be happy you should Lle Lhe rakhl
And lf Lhere ls anybody lefL ouL you should noL Lry Lo do LhaL So anybody who ls llsLenlng l would say
LhaL besL Lhlng would be Lo have your lucky dlps l Lhlnk for people someLhlng llke LhaL could be done so
LhaL Lhey choose Lhelr slsLers and Lle Lhe Lhlngs Whlch ever way you llke you choose lL 8uL l have goL
some nlce rakhls for you LhaL should be done Loday And l wlll be very happy And Lhen we'll do Lhls
llLLle havana for Lhe vlshnumaya

May Cod bless you