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i always feel that there is something missing ,i discovered that it might be that am far
away from god, i decided to go further steps and try 2 pray but am sure 100%
when it comes the test i'll fail and what failure.
I dreamed once b4 that god gave the ability 2 fly and get connected with "el3afarit wel
shayatin and 2become one of their friends that no one else can see me or her"shaytana" in that
dream we were flying and there was abuilding guarded by a very old man with a white long bear
,so when we tried to go thru the door, he let me pass and he stops hercuz she was not allowed
2 enter . then he brought a big stick and tried 2 chase me everywhere and i was runing away
from him till i reach a closed area at that time i waked up.and found "Azan el fagr" i went
"atwada we saleit el fagr 7ader"
and go back 2 sleep peacfully.
Mr..... i have a deep faith in god and you to help me in my situation and give the advice of what
2 do.
Thank u.
alsalam 3alykom
AHMAD
Answer
In the name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful.
All praise and thanks are due to Allah and peace and blessings be upon His
messenger.
Dear brother AHMAD,
Jazak Allah khayran for your email and for the confidence you place in our service. I ask Allah to
help me be up to your precious trust.
Dear AHMAD,
I was deeply touched by your message.
It dsecribes the feelings of a typical Muslim young man; those conflicting feelings that keeps
him unable to take solid steps on the way of Allah.
AHMAD,
I want you to know that I understand very well the temptations the youth face. I was in your
age and I understand your feelings. Don't think that I preach from a high pulpit; I'm totally
aware of your problems and the dilemmas you face. Therefore, I want you to listen to me as a
friend, not as a preacher.
Dear AHMAD,
Do you want to know the reason behind what you feel now? Believe me it is your sins. You
should be aware that when Allah commands us to give up sins and to avoid them it is not
because our sins will harm Him; rather, our sins will harm US! It was the habit of the righteous
ancestors to think about their sins whenever they were faced with hardship in anything. In fact,
sins have many bad effects on the lives of the sinners.
AHMAD,
Sins leave the sinner in a state of depression, anxiety and unrest in this life, and blindness in
the next life as a result of turning away from the remembrance of Allah. The Most High says,
'And whoever turns away from My remembrance shall have a
wretched existence and We shall gather him on the Day of
Resurrection blind.'
Imam Ibn Al-Qayyim Al-Jawziyah explains to us the effects of sins in his well-known book Al-
Jawab Al-Kafi. Some of those effects are:
1-Prevention of knowledge: Knowledge is a light which Allah throws into the heart and
disobedience extinguishes this light. العصيان يطفئ هذا الضوء
Imam Ash-Shafi`i said: “I complained to Wakee معلم المامabout the weakness of my memory,
so he ordered me to abandon هجرdisobedience and informed me that knowledge is light. He said
that the light of Allah is not given to the disobedient.”
Second, brother, I want you to avoid going to any place or being with anyone
that urges you to commit sins. Find yourself a group of religious friends. Allah (swt)
says in the chapter of al-Kahf:"And withhold yourself with those who call on
their Lord morning and evening desiring His goodwill, and let not
your eyes pass from them, desiring the beauties of this world's life;
and do not follow him whose heart We have made unmindful to Our
remembrance, and he follows his low desires and his case is one in
which due bounds are exceeded." ِلّ فَأْوُوا إِلَى ا ْل َكهْف َ عتَزَ ْل ُتمُوهُمْ َومَا َيعْ ُبدُونَ إِل ا
ْ َوِإذِ ا
ح َمتِهِ َو ُيهَيّئْ َلكُ ْم مِنْ َأمْ ِركُ ْم مِرفَقًا
ْ ََينْشُرْ َل ُكمْ َرّبكُ ْم مِنْ ر
Believe me those friends are the ones who are going to help you withstand
any temptations.
Third, occupy your time with useful activities in order not to give the satan the chance to
whisper to you: practice sport, attend Qur'an lessons, spend time with religious friends,...etc.
And always remember that free time is a double-edged weapon.
Dear AHMAD,
I advise you to do the following:
1-Pray the five prayers in their allotted times.