Symptoms

5 Different Identities: 1. Humanitarian- The one that just wants to help everyone, solve everyone s problems, and try to calm everyone down. 2. Protector- The shoot first, DOESN T ask questions later kind of person. 3. Mother- the one who just want to sit home with the kids and raise them to be perfect, responsible human being s. 4. Wife- The one that want to do everything to please her man. Cook for him, clean for him, and not ask any questions and do what she is told. 5. The Child- (laughing) Reoccurring Role: #2 takes control way more than any other of the people. A Psychosocial Stress Trigger- She saw a commercial where a father was telling her daughter that the reason he left was because of her attitude. She walks in the kitchen and took it as he was saying it to her and # s 2,3, and 5 all coming out having an answer for this father, and repeating her answers until I stepped in and stopped her. Gaps in Memory- Doesn t remember talking to me while she is one of these other personalities or what we talked about. Possibly due to this might being the first time she has let anyone else talk to these people. Depression, Anxiety, Passive, Dependency- Wanted to break-up because she was sad and doesn t know why but she doesn t want me to leave. She freaks out at the smallest thing like not being able to open a wrapper for the kids or her lighter isn t working on the first strike, & wants to start a fight (#2) just to do it. Self-Destructive Behavior- she has uncontrollable drinking plus Random Acts of Aggressive behavior. I t hasn t gotten physical yet, but that does not mean it won t. Visual/Auditory Hallucinations- We will be in bed and she falls asleep and maybe with-in 45 seconds she is screaming and when I wake her up, she doesn t want to talk and does not want to go back to bed, even if she has to be at work in 5 hours for a double shift. She will ask me WHAT THE F*%K DID YOU JUST SAY TO ME??? when I was listening to music minding my own business.

Might Be the Reason- Severe Physical and Sexual abuse during childhood.

How I got Involved

10/18/11- Tari asked me if I thought it was strange that she talk s to herself and I said what do you mean? and she gives me an example: I will be smoking on my break at work or at home and I will have a conversation with myself as someone else, and talking there parts out, and asking myself questions as them and when I am done asking the questions, I will answer them like I didn t know the question was coming. And not realizing the conversation is going on until it is over. I helped a customer the other day and she was so mean to me when she left I went to a part of the building where I though no one was and the words I want to stab that bitch came out of my mouth and my boss walked by when this happened and asked if everything was ok and I said yeah why? And he told me what I had said and I broke down in tears. And after a long while of us talking about why she feels comfortable with me and being the only person she has let in, now it is time for us to seek help for her because she will not talk to a therapist alone She said her parent sent her to therapist her whole life and when the set sessions were done the therapist asked her parent why did you bring her to see me?? She is fine.

Conversations with Her

1. She had told me who they were and what they all did. She said she doesn t have names for them just numbers, but I think the names will come later. After her shock of finally letting someone else in on her issue I ask some small tester questions like- When was the last time you played candy land? She responded with, ohhh years ago .last night with Aiden last Halloween with the kids at my parents party. When was the last time you went to red robin? that time you picked me up at the airport from my family trip that was a bad trip . Her eyes shift and #2 starts saying mean things about her family members that gave her a hard time up there, and I stop her from flipping out and we stopped talking for the night. 2. After that, I was just trying to process what just happened, she makes this laugh that oddly enough sounded like more than one person laughing. I ask what s going on and she says to me they think you are trying to get into my head. I respond, I am only know what you have told me about, I would not try to do anything. She said you lucky, they trust you.

I told her I was going to go make the bed and she said ok. I got to the top of the stairs and forgot something downstairs went back down and hear her having an argument with herself about going to bed. You need to go to be ..what??? Are you going to f*&(ing make me???.......... No, but you need your sleep .I don t want to go I am not sleepy .I should really go to bed, it is the right thing to do .. So I say it is time for bed so we go upstairs and she asks me to get her some water and I do and when I come back and give it to her and I step into the bathroom. I came in the room a minute later and she is doing it again with being hungry No, go to bed, you don t need to eat I am too fat to eat right now go ahead and eat when your hungry you don t need the extra weight I interrupt and ask if there is something I can make her to eat, and she said, No that s ok love, I am not hungry, but could you get me a bottle of water please? 4. 10/20/11 She falls asleep while her daughter is spending time with her and she wakes up 45 minutes later, telling her she was sooooo sorry and it will never happen again, and her daughter didn t mind. She goes in the kitchen to make her daughter dinner and starts putting herself down. Your a horrible mother and how stupid do you feel is for falling asleep, and how can some suck at making pasta so bad, just read the insturctions, dumb ass I have her go put Aiden to sleep and she falls asleep for the night.

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