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Contents
Introduction .......................................................................... i Section 1: Faith Basics .......................................................1 Section 2: Faith Struggles ............................................... 39 Section 3: Discipleship and Evangelism..........................71 Sectrion 4: Life Choices ................................................... 93 Section 5: Family and Friends ....................................... 117 Section 6: Dating and Sex .............................................153 Contributing Authors ...................................................... 178
Introduction
YOU Are the Answer to So Many Questions! We serve in youth ministry because we love God and we love teenagers. Maybe youve wanted to be a youth worker since you were a teenager yourself. Maybe you discovered this call somewhere along the road of life. Or maybe someone bribed you to help out with the youth group for a few weeks, but now youre plugged in to a ministry that has given you more purpose than you could have ever imagined. Regardless of our individual stories, we all desire to invest in teenagers, knowing that God is using us to make an eternal difference in their lives. We all have a heart to help them find Jesus and to help them navigate through the messy journey of adolescence with minimal damage and pain. But heres the problem: Often we wonder if we are helping students. Or we wonder if we have anything to offer that can truly help them. We know that there is power in being there and remaining a constant stability in their lives. We know that listening to them is paramount and that asking questions about their lives communicates care and develops trust. But what about
the questions they face? In a world full of contradictions and confusion, teenagers are desperate for answers that will bring them hope and direction. They are yearning to discover answers that are founded in truth and can be lived out practically. Can you and I answer these questions effectively? The answer is a definite YES! Written in collaboration with veteran youth workers, Answers to Teenagers 50 Toughest Questions: A RapidResponse Reference for Youth Leaders will aid you as you seek to answer students questions. These questions are among the most frequently asked questions by the teenagers in your ministry. These are the questions that you and I have tripped over in the past and still stumble over today. The answers that are provided are biblical, practical, and effective in giving you the next steps to engage your students further. Weve built each answer around a scenario involving a specific teenager; all of the student names in this book represent either composite characters of teenagers weve worked with or actual students whose names have been changed. As you dive into this resource, bear in mind that as youth workers, we will never have all the answers. It is completely OK to let a student know that you need to
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research a question for yourself first, before providing an answer. Even better, it is brilliant when we can create opportunities to meet with students to go digging for the answers together! Please know that you make an eternal difference in the lives of teenagers! Your Christ-centered life and willingness to invest in their messy journey is exactly what they need. Whether they know it or not, your students are discovering answers through your life and your example every time you meet with them. Thank you for pointing teenagers to Jesus, who is the greatest answer in their lives.
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SECTION 1:
FAITH BASICS
validate the testimony that you have shared. Here are some verses that might be helpful: 1. Psalm 19:1-4The sky shows evidence of God all over the world. 2. John 3:8The existence of the wind is hard to explain, but it is real. The same is true of the work of God in a persons life. 3. Romans 1:20Evidence of God can be found in creation. 4. Romans 2:15Our consciences point to the existence of God. 5. 1 Peter 1:8-9People who love and trust in God even though they cannot see God are rewarded with salvation. Be honest with teenagers like Mike. It does take faith to truly know that God exists. Let students know that faith does not mean ignorantly believing in something that might not be true; it means confidently believing the evidence that something exists even though you cant see it (see Hebrews 11:1). 4
The Next Steps: Answer with follow-up questions without engaging in fruitless arguments. If the conversation becomes heated, defer back to your testimony. Personal experiences are hard to refute. Ask other students in the group how they know that God is real. Teenagers trust their peers. Keep the conversation open by letting the group know that you are available whenever they have questions about God. Pray for students like Mike and his friends. Mikes question shows a spiritual curiosity and is a signal that God is working in his life. Further Reading and Resources: The Case for ChristStudent Edition, by Lee Strobel and Jane Vogel The Case for Christ documentary on DVD
wild animals on the earth, and the small animals that scurry along the ground (Genesis 1:26, emphasis added). Then I [Isaiah] heard the Lord asking, Whom should I send as a messenger to this people? Who will go for us? I said, Here I am. Send me (Isaiah 6:8, emphasis added). But we know that there is only one God, the Father, who created everything, and we live for him. And there is only one Lord, Jesus Christ, through whom God made everything and through whom we have been given life (1 Corinthians 8:6, emphasis added). God is one God who is three distinct persons in one For there is one body and one Spirit, just as you have been called to one glorious hope for the future. There is one Lord, one faith, one baptism, and one God and Father, who is over all and in all and living through all (Ephesians 4:4-6, emphasis added). God the Father knew you and chose you long ago, and his Spirit has made you holy. As a result, you
Teenagers are hungry for solid answers to the relentless questions gnawing at their hearts and minds. Theyre yearning for help, hope, and healing that are founded in truthand youth workers are the ideal people for delivering those answers! If youve ever felt unprepared when students want to talk about tough topics, then this is the book for you. Answers to Teenagers 50 Toughest Questions will equip you with biblical, practical, specific responses to the thorniest questions students may toss your way. Written collaboratively by a diverse team of youth workers, this book examines tough questions from six different areas: Faith Basics Faith Struggles Discipleship and Evangelism Life Choices Family and Friends Dating and Sex For each question, youll find a biblically based response, along with next-step ideas that will engage students in conversation and exploration. And for most of the topics, weve provided a list of recommended readings and resources to aid their investigation. This is a perfect equipping resource for any youth workerwhether youre a youth pastor, a small group leader, or simply an adult who loves teenagers and wants to see them pursue Jesus-centered lives.
phil bell
Phil is a youth pastor, writer, and blogger (youthworktalk.com). He is originally from England and now lives in Michigan, where he has been ministering to students and their families since 2000. Phil is passionate about helping students own their faith for the long haul and is deeply committed to leadership development of youth workers in the local church. He loves spending quality time with his family, playing soccer, and drinking a good cup of English tea from time to time.
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