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Even parents need occasional reminders on how to be a loving, responsible parent to children, from the day our children are born and even into adulthood. Taking a look at how our children view the world in general, and their perceptions on our parenting skills, can help parents improve their communication style that builds self-confidence and self-esteem in children that are necessary to succeed in life.
6. I need your encouragement, not just your praise to grow. Please go easy on the criticism; you can criticize the things I do without criticizing me. 7. Please give me the freedom to make decisions concerning myself. Permit me to fail, so that I can learn from my own mistakes. Then someday I will be prepared to make the kind of decisions life will require of me. 8. Please dont do things over for me. Somehow that makes me feel that my efforts didnt quite measure to your expectations. I know its hard, but please dont try to compare me to my brother or sister. If you have the tendency to give your child a chore to do, but continuously follow closely behind to re-do the chore your way, you might need to consider if you are really helping or enabling your childs efforts to grow and fully develop. 9. Please dont be afraid to leave for a weekend together. Kids need a vacation from parents, just as parents need vacations from kids. Besides its a great way to show us kids that your marriage is very special. Taking and making time to be alone with your spouse, over a weekend trip or during Date Night away from the kids, is beneficial for children as well as for married couples. Its so easy to get bogged down with various aspects of daily living that we may find the fire and romance in marriageonce enjoyed, before the kids came along, begins to slip away from us. 10. Please set a good example for me to follow in all the ways of life. I enjoy watching the things you do and want to do them just like you do. The old saying, Children learn what they live couldnt be more true, so make sure as parents that the attitude and behaviors children learn are the ones you really want your children to exhibit in their lives.
http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/2008/04/a-childs-ten-commandments-for-parents.html
7. Objasnite detetu kako da se snade ukoliko se u prodavnici ili parku odvoji od vas i izgubi. 8. Sa detetom razgovarajte o svim dobrim i losim stavrima koje u zivotu mogu da mu se dese. Ne mojte ga plasiti vec ga upoznajte sa cinjenicama i posledicama . 9. Ako dete dode u situaciju da mu je vasa pomoc neophodna, ne ustezite se vec mu odmah pomozite. 10. Obratite paznju i zapamtite kako je vase dete svakodnevno obuceno
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1. Moje ruke su male: ne oekujte savrenstvo dok spremam krevet, crtam ili bacam loptu. 2. Moje su noge kratke: usporite kako bih vas mogao stii. 3. Moje oi nisu videle sviet kao to su vae: pomozite mi da otkrijem sviet. Nemojte me sputavati. 4. Kuni posao nee pobei. Ja neu jo dugo biti malen naite vremena za igru sa mnom. Ja sam va poseban dar, tako sa mnom i postupajte 5. Trebam vau podrku dok rastem. Nemojte mi prigovarati i kanjavati me. Zapamtite moete prigovarati mojim postupcima bez da prigovarate meni.
6. Pruite mi slobodu samostalnog odluivanja. Dopustite mi da pogrieim kako bih mogao nauiti iz vlastitih greaka. Tako u jednog dana biti sposoban donositi pravilne odluke. 7. Nemojte se bojati otii bez mene na vikend. Potreban vam je odmor od mene, a i meni od vas. To je takoodlian nain da mi pokaete kako ste mi meusobno vani. 8. Znam da je to teko, ali nemojte me usporeivati s mojom braom i sestrama ili s drugom decom. 9. Nemojte raditi stvari umesto mene. Tada oseam da nain na koji ja to radim nije dovoljno dobar i razoarava vas. 10. Zapamtite: volim vas vie od svega. Vi ste moj sviet i sve to uinite ili ne uinite ostavlja trag u mom srcu.