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THE BEAUTY OF SEXUALITY IN A

MARRIAGE BOND RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD!


A FREE GIFT FROM PROPHETIC LIVE GIVING CHANNEL MINISTRYS
TO THE UNIVERSAL BODY OF CHRIST

Written on the 1 of August 2009 - revised at November 30, 2010

There is again no copy right on this teaching, but know that only the Author is responsible for the
teachings and he is been held responsible before His God as it is handed over to him to serve with it
the Body of Christ. Please do not misuse it or multiply this for gain to sell or to run with it for
yourselves, making a Ministry of it, because you would bring a heavy curse and a reproach from our
Father over your live. These writings are not mines but of my heavenly Father and of His Kingdom, I
have only written down what He has learned me and what I have heard and seen. Be wise and handle
it with care!

In Gods Service and in His commission


Apostle Prophet Minstrel Johannes John
Website http://www.johannesjohn.de Email: PLGCM@hotmail.de
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CONTENTS & INTRODUCTION


PART 1

TOUCHING HER SOUL


The man is responsible when it gos wrong.
First touch your woman with your sweet words.
You are raping your own married woman.
Overfilling the needs of your woman first!
So, the problem is not the woman.

PART 2

THE UNITY BETWEEN BRIDE AND


BRIDEGROOM
He intended us to have great pleasure, to please the other.
The sexual area as an example and a pattern of Jesus and the Bridegroom
A physical orgasm is only minor.
Man and woman, one soul, one body.
Satan has copied and perverted marriage structures.
He has for everything a substitute.

PART 3

HOW GOD SEES A BOND COVENANT IN A


MARRIAGE
The deeper live giving aspects of the bond/covenant
A bond covenant between a man and a woman is a covenant with God.
The bond/covenant before marriage!
Initiator and partaker!

PART 4

MARRIAGE IS SEALED THROUGH THE


BOND OF A BLOOD COVENANT
Marriage is the first Blood bond Covenant.
Intercourse is the moment of sealing.
A Bond Covenant for eternity!
Eternal faithfulness and bonding!
We break our Bond Covenant quick and with levity.
Kollao!
God is the 3e person in a blood Bond Covenant!
Wrong, fake and false bonding!
What is with other bonds in a Marriage?
Satan is the destroyer of true Bond Covenants.
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INTRODUCTION
This teaching about the beauty of sexuality in a Marriage in a bond-relationship with Father God
started with a question on a website of Messiah-Tube. My husband is not willing to have sex with me
anymore and I do not know why, can somebody please give me an answer? As I wanted to go, to
leave it to somebody else to answer her question the Spirit of God jumped up in me and before I knew
it, I was writing what you have now before you. Actually, one of my best and hottest teachings have
their existence in moments that somebody was asking: what do you think about this John? And
sometimes the Spirit of God had ANSWERS which were shocking, even giving direct prophesies,
speaking to the Nations.
This teaching was a cry from my heart and that from my Fathers heart to firstly give the
teenagers, the younger generations, clear insight knowledge about how God is seeing the act of sex
and what it means for Him. Who is responsible? And all other things which have to do with having sex
concerning the Spiritual consequences. I believe there has come to existence a teaching as I myself
have never heard it like that.
The first thing and that was major; what I was able to see, is that the man is ALWAYS responsible
if there is something which gos wrong in the sexual relationship between a man and a woman. I know
that both have their responsibility, but the man is responsible before God as he is the authority in the
relationship and therefore responsible for everything concerning his family, wife and children and
therefore if something gos wrong he is the first one who is been held responsible before God. So we
can bring everything down to the responsibility of the man when there are sexual problems in a
marriage! I know this sounds very weird, but give me some time and you will understand it!

Part 1

TOUCHING HER SOUL


We can bring everything down to the responsibility of the man when there are sexual problems in a
marriage! I know that sounds very weird, but give me some time and you will understand it! Most of
the men in a marriage are sexual not as active and in need for sex as the woman. BUT WE HAVE TO
LEARN HOW TO POSSESS OUR VESSEL. In a later part we will go something deeper into that:
how we should possess our woman, so that it pleases her.
Every man is first of all obligated to fulfill the needs of his woman; else he would have better
stayed unmarried. The Word of God is very explicit in this matter that we as partners, have to give the
other what he/she needs. Because when we do not do that, than the other partner will break out and
seek it somewhere else.
LIT -1Corinthians 7:2 nevertheless to avoid fornication let every man have his own wife, and let every
woman have her own husband. 3 Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence, showing her
kindness, compassion, good will, (with his sweet words) and likewise also the wife unto the husband. 4
The wife has not the full and entire authority over her own body, but the husband; and likewise also
the husband hath not the full and entire authority over his own body, but the wife. 5 Defraud ye not
one the other, unless it be with permission for a time only, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and
prayer; and come together again, so that Satan is not able to tempt you through your lack of selfcontrol, your strength of will. Magnified
NLT 1Corinthians 7:3 The husband should not renounce his woman of sexual intimacy, which is her
right as a married woman, nor should the woman deprive her husband. 4 the woman gives authority
over her body to her husband and the husband also gives authority over his body to his woman. 5 So
do not withdraw each other of sexual relations.
In the Old Testament there are rules and regulations for men who are freshly married and one of
them is: PLEASE YOUR WOMAN A WHOLE YEAR LONG -DO ALL WHAT PLEASES HER
AND DO NOT HAVE ANY OTHER OBLIGATIONS BESIDES THAT!
Deuteronomy 24:5 When a man has taken a new wife, he shall not go out to war, neither shall he be
charged with any duty. He shall be free at home one year, and shall cheer up his wife whom he has
taken.

DIFFERENT NEEDS
The needs of a woman are different as that of the man! He needs to hear: You are my warrior my
prince, go out and get them, you are a victor. His need is also that you show him on this way your
respect. He needs to have the feeling that he is been supported in the things of life and in the decisions
he wants to make. I will not go very deep into this as there are more than enough good books written
about the difference of a man and a woman and the needs of both of them. This is why I will only
touch this topic. What our focus will be here in this teaching is the deeper spiritual side of how God is
judging what a sexual relationship is and we will focus on how beautiful a sexual relationship can be
in the Biblical structures of a Marriage. Okay let us go on: A man is only as great as the woman who
supports him and every great man has an equal great woman at his site. This is why it is so important
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to have the right woman at your side and to marry not unequally yoked. 2Korinhther 6:14 and even so
if you do right, this extends even further. Now let me explain this to you: When you have a special
Assignment for Father God in His Kingdom, than it is so that not every woman at your site will be able
to fit, even when she is a great woman of God, serving Him with all her heart. It doesn't matter how
strong her or his faith is because they have to complete each other. She or he has to be able to support
and to help in the Assignments which Father God has given the husband to accomplish and so has he
to complement her in her God Planned role and Assignment. But that is actually a whole different
subject and I can not go into that now, not here.
The needs of a woman are: that he conquers her every day with his sweet words of love and
romantic, telling her how beautiful she is and also to support her. To encourage her and, she needs a
lot of physical hugging, fondling and kissing and showing respect for her will. What the woman needs
is that he is not ashamed to show of with her in public. To kiss her and show affection in public! He
has to lift her up like a crown on the head of a King. And he has to learn how to please his woman
sexually and physically (soul, spirit, body)! This is what Paul meant with:
Every man should know (learn, study, get to know) how to poses His woman!
1Thessalonian 4:4 that each of you know his own vessel (a synonym for the woman, her body and her
soul) to possess in sanctification and honor, 5 not in the affection of desire and lust, as also the nations
that were not knowing God,
1Peter 3:7 The husbands, in like manner, dwelling with them, according to knowledge, as to a weaker
vessel--to the wife--imparting honor, as also being heirs together of the grace of life, so that your
prayers may not be hindered.
Concerning this last bible scripture, The Spirit of God reminded me that concerning this, he had
given me a Word. A Word about the spiritual consequences when a man does not tread his woman
with the respect and the honor God requires of him. I had to ad it here and this is again specially to the
men. So men sharpen your ears and let this be carved into your heart. Here it is!

LISTENING, HEARING, DEAFNESS


I have no idea how many man have a quiet spirit, but I love the times of silence, just listening to the
whispering voice in the wind of silence ... I had times in my live that I was loud, always barking, yelling
with a hallelujah on my lips but that was not having fellowship with my Father, with Jesus the lover of my
soul and with the sweet Holy Spirit, so soft so gentle and still so strong; so easy to hurt him. Just like our
woman.

Ephesians 4:30 And do not grieve lupeo and make sorrowful the Holy Spirit of God, by whom you
were sealed to the day of redemption.
3076 lupew lupeo loo-peh'-o -from 3077; TDNT-4:313,540; v
AV-be sorrowful 6, grieve 6, make sorry 6, be sorry 3, sorrow 3, cause grief 1, be in heaviness 1; 26
1) to make sorrowful {#2Co 2:2,5 7:8 Eph 4:30}
2) to affect with sadness, cause grief, to throw into sorrow {#Mt 26:37 Mr 10:22 Ro 14:15 2Co 6:10}
3) to grieve, offend
4) to make one uneasy, cause him a scruple {#Mt 17:23 Joh 21:17 2Co 2:4 7:9 1Pe 1:6}

I will show you why the Woman is to be compared with the Spirit of God. Let me tell you first,
that there are two things, which are able to cut us man off directly from Gods workings and of His
voice, concerning the condition of the relationship to our woman.

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The first thing is when we treat our woman without respect and not giving her the honor which
God does require from us and when we grieve her and make her heart sorrowful this cuts us of from
Gods workings and of His voice.

2- We are been cut of from Gods voice and workings when we Grieve and hurt the Spirit of God.
It is without a shadow of a doubt so, that the woman is as meaningful compared with the position of
the Spirit of God at our site. And we have to listen very attentively to her. We have to get quiet, not
only from the outside but much more from the inward man and start to listen, to pay attention and to
take heed upon that what your woman is saying. Because she is Gods Instrument and channel given to
you, to stand along side and to help and to support you man. So that you are able to accomplish where
God has ordained and called you for to be and to do, all what He has called us for to do after His
perfect will and plan.
Song of Solomon 1:15 Behold, you are beautiful, My love.
Behold, you are beautiful; your eyes are as the eyes of the
doves'. Magnified
Song of Solomon 2:14 My dove, in the clefts of the rock, in
the secrecy of the steep place, let Me see your form. Let Me
hear your voice; for your voice is sweet, and your form is
beautiful.
Song of Solomon 5:2 I sleep, but my heart is awake. It is
the sound of my Beloved that knocks, saying, Open to Me,
My sister, My love, My dove, My undefiled. For My head is
filled with dew, My locks with the drops of the night.
Well, the very first thing you should be as a man is a
REMARKABLE GOOD LISTENER of the heart of your
own woman and of the intentions and the desires of her
heart. As a dove is easy to be scared away, so she also if
you do not start to LISTEN to her heart! For the heart of a woman is vulnerable and very quick hurt
and grieved just like the Spirit of God. It is easy to assert her heart in sorrow. Do you recognize the
parallels between the Spirit of God and the woman at your side? She who is close to your heart, yes
even more as the Spirit of God is. When you are not able to LISTEN, to take heed attentively and to
HEAR THE BEAT OF HER HEART, how will you man, be able to hear and listen to the Spirit of
God; To LISTEN, to take heed attentively upon the beat of His heart and to HEAR the desires, wishes
and the commands of Jesus and to follow these through?
When you hurt your woman, verbally, physically; when you dishonor her, (in what ever way) when
you annoy her, making her heart bitter putting her heart into sorrows, than she will be for a very long
time not be accessible anymore. Her heart will shut up, to protect herself for even more WORDS OF
HURT! The Word of God quotes very clearly and unmistakably that we are able, to grieve, to
dishonor, to annoy and to bring sorrows to the Spirit of God. The Word of God tells us very clearly
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that when I do not treat my woman with RESPECT, GIVING HER THE DUE HONOR, it will block
and hinder my prayers... it will hinder my relationship and my fellowship with Father God, with Jesus
and with THE SPIRIT OF GOD! It will hinder and block the open communication line with the
DIVINE FAMILY Father, Son and the Spirit of God. That sounds very serious right? Well it is more
as just truth!
Let me go even a step further: If we treat our woman badly, with no respect, grieving her heart it will
not take very long and you will get deaf and you will not hear anymore how the Spirit of God speaks
to you. Your attitude of heart will become like a wall, a fence which absorbs every sound and your
voice will NOT BE HEARD! And you will not be able to hear what the Spirit of God speaks to you!
You will not be able to hear His voice again, until you have REPENTED ABOUT HOW YOU DID
HANDLE YOUR WOMAN. You will not be able to hear the voice of this sweet soft Spirit of God,
not any sooner as that you have asked YOUR WOMAN to forgive you for the sin against her and her
heart.
First you have to REPENT... Go to your woman and tell her that you didnt tread her with the
respect you were due to give her, as she is GODS INSTRUMENT TO HELP YOU confess your sin
and you will start to hear again how the Spirit of God speaks to you... This is one BIG AND MAJOR
reason why so many men (even man of God ministers and so called ministers) do NOT HEAR, and
are spiritually deaf... I was also in that position but after that I repented and after that I could see how
much I have hurt my woman with my causeless words Oh my God... I wept for weeks ... Please
man... please... no causeless words that are not showing respect, honor and care and love... Please?
You build with your words or you break down just as the Book of proverbs is quoting it about a
woman.
Well I have some NEWS for YOU! TAKE THESE WORDS in Proverbs about the woman AND
ADJUST IT TO YOURSELF AS A MAN AND AS A FATHER! Because as we speak faith, we will
build faith in others and as we release LOVE we build love in others... Yes words do have a world of
God or a world of your soul or even of that of the world or from Satan and his demons... So those men
who do not hear the soft whispering voice of the Spirit of God should think about this.
Proverbs 21:9,19 It is better to dwell (to be at home) in a corner of the housetop, than with a brawling
woman in a wide house. (Because she -he-destroys wit her words her home and comfort is not been
given) 19 Better to dwell in a wilderness land, than with a woman of contentions and anger. Magnified
27:15 A continual dropping in a day of rain, And a woman of contentions (her words break down) are
alike,

DIE FOR HER NEEDS


You create and form with your own words or you destroy and brake down with your own words and
with that what you do; just as the Book Proverbs quotes it about a woman. Or do you think that the
family relatives feel protected and secure at words of disrespect, at words of dishonoring, words of
disgrace, words that annoy who bring sorrow and worry? Now you men, I have something new for you
concerning this Bible scripture. You were thinking this was only for the woman right? Well let me tell
you this as a Word from Father God: YOU MEN, YOU FATHERS AND TAKE THESE WORDS
AND ADJUST THEM UPON YOUR OWN LIFE AND LET THESE WORDS WORK IN YOUR
HEARTS!

For when we speak faith we will also create ignite and build faith in the hearts of those who hear us.
For as we release love we ignite and build LOVE in others. Yes our words have a world from God, full
of divine creative transforming power or a World of your own soul and or even of that from Satan and
his demons. So men when you do not hear this soft gentle voice of the Spirit of God, so gentle and still
so strong, than take to heart what I delivered to you now. All these things, about how to treat a woman
with respect and what happens if you do not do that! All these things, Apostle Paul addressed in his
letters and had written them down and specially those parts which we already listed above and which
you can read down here again! Every man should know, understand, comprehend and take the effort to
get to know his woman and learning how to posses her! What means nothing else as that he has to
learn how he is able to give his woman what she needs and this also in the sexual area.
1Thessalonian 4:4 that each of you know his own vessel (a synonym for the woman, her body and her
soul) to possess in sanctification and honor, 5 not in the affection of desire (lust of the flesh), as also
the nations that were not knowing God,
1Peter 3:7 The husbands, in like manner, dwelling with them, according to knowledge, as to a weaker
vessel--to the wife--imparting honor, as also being heirs together of the grace of life, so that your
prayers may not be hindered.
When we talk about the sexual area: than this starts with the sweet loving words of the husband in
the morning as he wakes up and looks into her eyes. And let me ad here this: His banner over me is
but love. Here are the moments where he is able to begin to touch her innermost being with his
words of love and gentleness. So when the woman is complaining that the husband is not willing to
please her also on the physical, sexual area, fulfilling her needs in this also; it could be possible that
she is not fulfilling his needs or hasn't fulfilled his needs. But when both think alike and act alike we
have a major problem. I ain't gone give it to her because she and you just fill it in. And when she
says: I ant gone fulfill his needs because he
But who is responsible to be the INITIATOR so that the needs of the other will be met and will be
fulfilled? Who is the one who has to bring the SACRIFICE? The responsible Initiator is ALWAYS
THE MAN, THE HUSBAND and he is the one who has to bring the SACRIFICE! Why? Well if you
stay with us we will cover this up and you will understand why we HUSBANDS ARE
RESPONSIBLE to be the INITIATOR, to sacrifice ourselves for the needs of our woman.
Listen carefully what comes now and this is again specially addressed to the man! If you no
matter if she meets your needs or not if you still MEET HER NEEDS WITH AN UNSELFISH
LOVE OF GOD SERVING HER, SHE WILL CHANGE: And this on such a way that this will blow
out your mind. Because after that you have fulfilled the needs of your woman to an extent which is
been fulfilled in a measure of abundance which is more than overflowing, you will produce LIFE!
When you meet the needs of your woman and HAVE DIED FOR HER JUST LIKE JESUS HAS
DONE FOR HIS BRIDE, you will even be able, with Gods help, to revive and to bring back to LIFE
what was death or seemed to be death. But you have to DENY and to bring to DEATH THE DESIRES
OF YOUR OWN SELF! You have to forget your own needs. Loving her UNSELFISH,
UNCONDITIONALLY WITH A SACRIFICIAL HEART! No matter if she is lovingly, sweet and
kind or backbiting or a contentious woman. No matter if she curses you or not, kisses you or slaps you
in the face. No matter if she is only out for her own gain or what ever. Let me repeat it again: Listen
very carefully, men and man of God; every man should be able to DIE to fulfill the needs of his
woman, just like Jesus has died to fulfill all our needs! This will in return bring back to live the heart
and soul of his woman if she is still willing to give him a change.
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YOU HAVE NO RIGHT TO TAKE ANYTHING


But men, will you get to heart and understand that sex will only bring you together in harmony
when you are able first to touch the inner most being of your woman with your words. First you
have to learn how you are able to touch the emotional string of her soul with your words of respect, of
honoring her in the things she does, in who she is as a unique person. You will not find in the whole
universe another woman like her, for she is unique and this is at the same time her beauty. Let us go a
little bit deeper into this:
No matter where you would seek something else or someone else, your woman is an expression of
the unique creativity and the genius of the beauty of the Nature of His being and therefore she is
UNIQUE, there is none like her. As there is only ONE GOD, there is only ONE woman as your
woman. She is at your side and God the Father has entrusted to you Man, His most beautiful creation,
as she is the crown of Gods creation and creativity! Hard to imagine right? But true! Every woman is
UNIQUE, ONE OF HER KIND! And this is also her beauty. But how will you be able to discover this
beauty? For it is hidden deep down in her and this so deep that she does not even know it herself. If
you want to dig this treasure it will cost you everything, but she is more than worth it. And you man of
God have been chosen to show her this overwhelming beauty in her, this hidden treasure she has in
her. To discover the treasure she is and which she has in her, to dig it out of her and to bring it to the
surface out of the deep of her heart and it will cost you everything and you have to die for this.
Father God has hidden and placed this treasure so deep down in her that she is not able to discover
it from herself, nor is she able to bring it to the surface on her own. This is where we man are Assigned
for to do that! But for this she has to open up herself, she has to surrender to let herself be found to
discover herself. Are you able to see the parallel with Jesus and the Bride? How He has given
everything to win the heart of His Bride? Can you see how vulnerable and defenseless she has to
position herself so that He is able to dig out of her and to bring
to the surface the treasure hidden in her? And this is directly
the reason why you man can NEVER EVER say to your
woman SOMETHING LIKE: Woman I am horny and I
want to have sex and you have to give it to me! You have to
be obedient. Now, how many times do we put this Bible
scripture up in front of her face, where it says that the woman
should be submissive to her husband and that she has to obey
him and this in the different moments that he wills, what ever
he wills. When ever he wills?
How many times, is the woman quiet and just lets it come
over her to have peace and to get it over with. And than she
fakes you an orgasm she never had just to get rid of you? But
how many times than later in a hidden place she weeps bitter
tears because she feels not just physically raped but much
more you raped her soul!
You haven't done anything to come in agreement with her will and when she is not willing, what
ever she is not willing, you have to respect that. And if you have problems with that, than this means
you still have a lot of work before you concerning DIEING for the fulfillment of the NEEDS of your
woman! It has nothing to do with the fact that you fulfill her needs, SO THAT your woman will
FULFILL YOUR NEEDS. When this is the reason why you fulfill her needs, than this is again selfish
and it means that you are not willing to die to fulfill the needs of your woman.
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And when you TAKE what you think that you have a right of, you DESTROY, KILL and
DEMOLISH your woman, you destroy her heart and her soul, yes her whole emotional being. YOU
ARE RAPING YOUR OWN MARRIED WOMAN, she who lives with you in trust. And than she will
not trust you anymore, because you have stolen something from her which actually broke down in
100.000 pieces and only God can heal that what you have stolen and robbed from her and what you
have broken into 100.000 pieces. Or do you think that she still feels like a precious diamond after that
you have broken into her? You have just destroyed the precious pearl and the diamond God gave you
to possess. He didn't give it to you to break it or to crush it or to rule and Master over it; He gave her to
you and placed her at your side so that you would SERVE AND PROTECT YOUR WOMAN! But
how will you be able to protect her from yourself?
AND YOU MEN, WONDER WHY A WOMAN BREAKS OUT, OUT OF MARRIAGE? I do
not wonder! You know what a Bond relationship is? YOU GIVE and she gives! YOU ARE THE
FIRST GIVER and than she gives! YOU ARE NOT HOLDING BACK ANYTHING, and than she
will give and surrender to you! NOT ANY SOONER! In this BOND relationship WE HUSBANDS
ARE THE RESPONSIBLE ONES. Just like Adam was first. There is much more to say about that, but
this would be too much here. Because than I would have to ad a complete teaching about the depth and
the meaning of a BOND RELATIONSHIP, but we will touch it and in one of our other Books from
the Lion of Judah we will teach about this in depth.
After that you MAN have DIED and HAVE GIVEN YOURSELF COMPLETELY OVERFILLING
THE NEEDS OF YOUR WOMAN FIRST (learn to know the needs of your woman) AFTER
THAT she will not be able to not have the will too have sex with you. As you are able to touch and to
open up her heart and soul, on the same way her physical body will start to open up and when you
have than sex, you will not only touch her body. But at that moment you will be able with every soft
gentle touch of your hand to touch her inner most being!
What is even more, she will be able to have an orgasm, only by your sweet words. Your words will
be so effective in touching her inner most being you can not even imagine. Think at Jesus and how He
is touching us with His TRANSFORMING WORDS OF LIVE! There is much more depth in it as I
am now able to address: Maybe you think it over for yourselves. And what is more important ask your
woman what effect your words have on her emotional state and being. If one brutal word in the
morning closes not only the door of her heart but also the emotional feeling of the desire to have sex
with you, what effect would than have honest and upright sweet spoken words to her emotional live
and the desire of her sexual feelings?
And when she opens up, you still have to forget yourself and you have to control your own lust. For
your lust, youre passion, your fire and your zeal is not there for it, to TAKE anything from your
woman. You have not even the right to TAKE IT. You have only ONE RIGHT That is to give and to
surrender yourself completely FOR THE NEED OF YOUR WOMAN AND TO PLEASE YOUR
WOMAN! After that this can take some time, maybe even several years -she will be HUNGRY to
fulfill your needs! Just as we are HUNGRY to do Gods WILL after that we have tasted how STRONG
HIS LOVE is for us. AS HE HAS GIVEN HIMSELF FOR HIS BRIDE WE HAVE TO GIVE
OURSELVES TO OUR BRIDES!
So we can conclude that the problem is not the WOMAN, the problem is that we man are not able
TO LOVE, to forget ourselves and to love as JESUS LOVES! Paul is quoting it very clearly:
Those who are married should seek for it to please his woman and because of that we are divided.

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But the secret lies in BRINGING FORTH LIVE. How to do this? Well if the seed doesnt die it will
see no fruit! If the husband is not WILLING TO GIVE AND TO SURRENDER; His Marriage will
stay barren and dry! Like in Ezekiel 37! We husbands have to have this unselfish character as that
from Jesus, forgetting ourselves and our needs and to be completely focused upon the NEED of our
woman.
SO WE ARE RESPONSIBLE WE MAN ARE RESPONSIBLE WE ARE RESPONSIBLE IF OUR MARRIAGE
BREAKS DOWN WE ARE RESPONSIBLE NOT THE WOMAN NOT THE WOMAN SHE IS FIRST OF ALL
A HELPER, NOT THE RESPONSIBLE ONE WHO LEADS.

I have been in it, doing all things wrong, I have taken the responsibility that my marriage is broken
down and that she went. I AM RESPONSIBLE. But I have learned from it. PLEASE learn from me! It
doesnt need to happen that Marriages break down. If we men finely start and assume our from God
given responsibility to DIE FIRST TO BRING LIVE IN OUR MARRIAGE, THROUGH FIRST
TOUCHING HER SOUL, Kissing her inner most being than many marriages will be saved, will be
brought back to live and will be restored.

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Part 2

THE UNITY BETWEEN BRIDE


AND BRIDEGROOM
God made sexuality and He intended us to have great pleasure with it TO PLEASE OUR
WOMAN! Not ourselves. But after that we have died for her pleasing her on an unselfish way, there
will come a time that she is not able anymore to hold back and the desire, the fire and her passion will
arise to please her husband! The whole sexual realm is not about what you can get -but about what
YOU ARE ALLOWED AND PRIVILEGED TO GIVE YOUR WOMAN. And I submit to you that
the REFORMATION/TRANSFORMATION of our SOUL is VITAL to be ABLE and to be
CAPABLE to EXPRESS A DIVINE LOVE PASSION that produces LIFE and this also on a physical
area! There is so much to tell about that. Butt I will try to touch the most important things and I will try
to make it as clear as my Father gives it to me! Because I am not writing from my mind but through
the Inspiration of the SPIRIT OF LIFE I AM ATTACHED TO! To Him all the Glory, all the honor!
The idea that God would turn His head away when a Married CHRISTIAN COUPLE IS
PLEASING EACH OTHER TO SHOW HOW MUCH THEY LOVE EACH OTHER comes from the
CONTROL AND THE INFLUENCE OF OUR UNSAVED not cleaned, not purified parts in our
soul and our WRONG WAY of thinking that SEX is some kind of DIRTY? Well there is nothing dirty
or sinfully at having sex with your spouse! There is nothing dirty in pleasing your woman on what way
ever when you are not violating the DIVINE NATURAL RULES.
But to be able to have THE GREATEST LIFE PLEASURE in the sexual realm, it has to be
CONSTRAINED through the Spiritual man able to CONTROL his Soul. And without being a new
CREATION this is not possible! And without having been through the PURIFICATION AND
POLISHING PROCESS of the SOUL THIS WILL ALSO NOT BE POSSIBLE. Because we will fall
back into the CONTROL and the appetites of our flesh instead of CONTROLLING THE FLESH
AND OUR SOUL, the flesh/soul will control us.
The whole sexual area is ONE GREAT EXAMPLE A PATTERN AND AN EXPRESSION of the
ONENESS between the Word -JESUS THE BRIDEGROOM and God and ME THE BRIDE
RECEIVING HIS WORD/SEED IN HER. Receiving it in me, in my heart! It is an expression of how
Jesus desires to bring forth HIS CHILDREN -WISDOM WORKS AND SUCH IN US AND
THROUGH US! It is such a great SECRET the parable between CHRIST AND THE BRIDE
CHURCH!
Ephesians 5:30 For we are members of his body, of his flesh, and of his bones. 31 For this cause shall
a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and the two shall be one flesh. 32
This is a great mystery: but I speak concerning Christ and the church. 33 Nevertheless let every one of
you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife see that she shows great respect to her
husband.

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CONCERNING THE ORGASM


Having a PHYSICAL ORGASM is only a MINOR EXAMPLE OF THE GLORY OF GODS
PRESENCE! BUT TO HAVE A COMPLETELY SOUL SATURATED SPIRITUAL ORGASM IS
AN EXPRESSION OF SOMETHING OF GODS GLORY IN THE LIVE OF HUSBAND AND
WIFE. Those who have been in GODS PRESENCE FEELING HIS POWER, HAVING BEEN
TOUCHED BY GOD, KNOW WHAT I AM TALKING ABOUT. So you can have in a marriage
relationship a physical orgasm ONLY; but you should have both: A PHYSICAL ORGASM AND A
SOULFULNESS SPIRITUAL ORGASM. And the last one will make that TWO SOULS ARE
GETTING UNITED AS ONE! TWO SPIRITS GETTING AND BECOMING AS ONE!
Man and woman can become much more as ONE SOUL AND ONE BODY as they are now, when
our relationship with Jesus, the Father and the Holy Spirit becomes more INTENSIVE AND MORE
AS ONE. I am in the Word and the WORD IS IN ME. But where comes the Word in me? Where will
I be able to have this INTERCOURSE with the lover of my SOUL? IN THE MOST HOLY PLACE
IN THE SECRET PLACE IN THE BEDCHAMBER OF THE BRIDEGROOM! So when are we
MARRIED with Christ? When are we and when do we have the RIGHT TO SIT IN HIS THRONE
TO RULE WITH HIM?
When I have not have had INTERCOURSE I AM NOT MARRIED! I ACTUALLY HAVE NOT
EVEN A BOND RELATIONSHIP! Or have I broken it? If you are in this relationship with the lover
of your soul: Than will the EXPRESSION BETWEEN YOUR SPOUSE AND YOU become far
more intensive as just a physical experience of two horny bodys rubbing against each other having a
physical orgasm ONLY! It will be so much better and so much more saturating two souls, on a way I
can hardly describe. And this will truly and DEEPLY TOUCH BOTH! I MEAN SO DEEP THAT
YOU FEEL SOMETHING OF GODS GLORY AS YOU ARE INTIMATE WITH YOUR SPOUSE.
And I could not speak about it if I did not have had this experience with my spouse. Still, she has left
me because my SOUL BECAME ENTANGLED WITH SO MANY THINGS WHO DESTROYED
ME, BUT GOD CAME THROUGH CHANGED AND TRANSFORMED my whole being! And
when we have been transformed in a certain measure and have been through this purifying process
than and not any sooner:
Than will we as HUSBANDS come to a State that we will be able TO TOUCH THE SOUL OF
OUR WOMAN WITH A FEW WORDS AND THIS WILL EVEN TOUCH HER BODY! And when
you touch her body physically, you do not only touch her Body oh no, she will have an experience
which is too awful for words because SUDDENLY she will FEEL AND EXPERIENCE HOW YOU
AS HER HUSBAND TOUCH NOT ONLY HER BODY BUT HER INNER MOST BEING AND
YOU WILL FEEL THE DIFFERENCE EVERY TIME YOU TOUCH HER AND EVERY TIME
YOU ARE INTIMATE WITH HER. There will be a ONENESS like that of JESUS AND THE
BRIDE! Maybe you understand now a little bit more how Jesus desires to BECOME ONE with us!
ONE WITH YOU!
1 Corinthian 6,12-20 All things are allowed and permitted to me, but not all things are profitable; all
things are allowed to me, but I will not let myself be brought under the power of what ever (even not of
my sexuality); 13 the meats are for the belly, and the belly for the meats. And God both this and these
shall make useless; and the body is not for prostitution/fornication but for the Lord, and the Lord for
the body; 14 and God both the Lord did raise, and us will raise up through His power. 15 Have ye not
known that your bodies are members of Christ? having taken, then, the members of the Christ, shall I
make them members of an harlot? let it be not! 16 have ye not known that he who is joined Kollao to
the harlot is one body? `for they shall be--saith He--the two as one flesh.' 17 And he who is joined
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Kollao to the Lord is one spirit; 18 Flee fornication. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but
he who commits fornication sins against his own body. 19 Or do you not know that your body is a
temple of the Holy Spirit in you, whom you have of God? And that you are not your own, 20 for you
are bought with a price. (Bride-price) Therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are
God's.
BECOMING ONE OF SPIRIT SHARING AL WHAT HE IS AND WHAT HE HAS TO GIVE!
Entering INTO His Presence is like the best SEX ever! Why? Because that is the place where you will
get pregnant of His Word and of His life! And than much more of Him in and through you, will be
EXPRESSED IN YOUR LIFE and in your marriage! This is what the hunger in our spirits and our
soul stills. This is what will make and create in us that we become a GIVING SOUL, a fountain of
LIFE a channel of His ETERNAL SELFLESS LOVE AN EXPRESSION OF HIS GLORY! Because
in the presence of His creative Transforming Word, of His Life, you can become pregnant of all what
He is and has. And because you have become pregnant of HIS WORD IN YOU, it will find its
EXPRESSION in your LIVE and in your MARRIAGE!
I have come that you have LIFE and this LIFE of ME in a measure of abundance you will never
ever be able to measure
John 17:3 And this is everlasting life, that they may know You, the only true God, and Jesus Christ,
whom You have sent. 10:10 The thief does not come except to steal and to kill and to destroy. I have
come so that they might have life, and that they might have it more abundantly.
She will feel and experience how you as her husband touch not only her body but her INNER MOST
BEING and this will IGNITE her Passion and her love to CLEAVE TO YOU! Than she will have the
strong desire, the passion and the zeal to share and to enjoy her sexuality with you! For the from
Father God created sexuality, lived and expressed with spirit, soul and Body in the structure of the
marriage covenant is the HIGHEST EXPRESSION OF LOVE from a real and truthful BLOOD
BOND COVENANT!
A character of a Bond Covenant is: I AS THE HUSBAND SURRENDER AND GIVE MYSELF, (I
die for her needs) THAN SHE GIVES. For we man, as the Representative of the Bond Covenant and
as the covenant maker, are those who are the INITIATORS. And I could just like Jesus say, that we
man have come to the woman so that she has LIFE and this LIFE of us in a measure of abundance, so
excellent that she will not be able to measure it. In a later part we will go much deeper into this
Kingdom Principle concerning a bond covenant relationship and marriage.
Solomon 8:6 Set me as a seal upon your heart, as a seal ribbon upon your arm; for love is strong
fierce, vehement as the death, jealousy, passion of the heart and soul passion 001 qin'ah' is as hard,
strong and mighty as the grave. Its flashes are flashes of fire and glowing 002 resheph coals, 003 'esh,
a most vehement flame, a fire of God. 7 Many waters cannot quench this love (of God), neither can
floods drown it. If a man offered for this love all the wealth of his house, he would be utterly scorned.
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Passion and love go hand in hand; you can not separate them from each other. This passion and
surrender is a fire of God a glow and flames flashing of the Lord. This passion and enthusiasm is a
torch, a fire and a flame of god. God is passionate, full enthusiasm and a zealous jealous god. He is
devoted, passionate, full off zeal, fire and divine love regarding its beloved or regarding that what He
loves. That is why He allows only ONE partner in our lives and not any one more.

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Deuteronomy 6:5 and you shall love the LORD your God with all your heart 004 lebab, and with all
your soul 005 nephesh, and with all your might.
LOVING ON THIS WAY THE ONE WHO LIVES WITH YOU IN TRUST AND WHO MADE
A BOND COVENANT WITH YOU IS: LOVING GOD!
Passionate love, heartfelt zeal and surrendering or yielding to each other and to God has in every
way something to do with our emotions and feelings. Passion surrendering and the yielding of or
hearth and soul desires for an activity of the soul or better said it expresses itself by and through the
emotions and feelings of our soul. Very often however we cannot break through to come to this
passionate love to love our woman, our spouse as God loves, because our soul is still sick and not yet
healed. And even sick of many wrong passions.

WRONG PASSIONS
Oh there is so much more let me go on! Satan is DECEIVING US already for many ages telling us
that SEX is something well not something kind of from God, but the opposite is true! He has created
Adam and Eve on such a way that the whole realm of sexuality is the ULTIMATE EXPRESSION of
their love to each other and it releases even GLORY and FEELINGS OF GLORY, like the ORGASM:
SPECIALLY THE SOUL ORGASM AND THE PHYSICAL TOGETHER. And Satan was successful
over the Ages even under the Christians to make us think that God is not into this and that God is not
into our sexuality, and that it is just to animalistic, to fleshly and well, God is spirit so He can not
really deeply be involved into this? Well the Porn industry is not showing very much of the beauty of
the sexuality. Sure Satan does everything to make it for us as attractive as he can, but still it is than
only attractive for our horny flesh. Where remains the saturation of the hunger of our soul? So if you
think God is not all too much into your sexuality than you have listened to the liar and the deceiver of
mankind. God made man and woman BEAUTIFUL AND PERFECT EVEN IN THEIR SEXUAL
EXPRESSION TO EACH OTHER! Or did God do something wrong? No he even INITIATED THE
SEXUAL INTERCOURSE!
And when we keep on listening to the deceiver and the cheater than it will at the end destroy body
and soul. So when you think that Father God is not really interested in an EXCELLENT expression of
the beauty of your sexuality than you have been tricked and you have been deceived. On some kind a
way you must have been listening to the deceiver, the whisperer of Lie, the greatest deceiver of
humanity! God the Father had made Adam and Eve and they were PERFECT! They were both
EXCELLENT in their own beauty, each one of his kind and after its nature. Or did Father God do
something wrong as he created Adam and Eve and gave them their different sexuality? No, they were
even in the expression of their sexuality an expression of Gods will and Glory! Did Father God not
motivate His son and daughter to discover each others sexuality?
Genesis 1:26 And God said, Let us make man in our image, after our likeness: and let them have
dominion over the fish of the sea, and over the fowl of the air, and over the cattle, and over all the
earth, and over every creeping thing that creepeth upon the earth. 27 So God created man in his own
image, in the image of God created he him; male and female created he them. 28 And God blessed
them, and God said unto them, Be fruitful, and multiply, (go and discover your sexuality and produce
live) and replenish the earth, and subdue it: and have dominion over the fish of the sea, and over the
fowl of the air, and over every living thing that moves upon the earth. Go have sex and multiply the
earth.

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I believe that Adam and Eve had a great sexual live and this even before the fall of sin. God made
them so that they were able to please each other and NOTHING WAS PERVERTED in their
ADVENTURE to discover how their BODY AND SOUL WAS able to please each other and to
express their sexuality. How they were able to bring to glow their body and souls. As Satan came
looked at this, how these two humans were able to love each other with an unselfish love, he was so
envious so full of hate seeing this perfect Marriage Covenant of love. Adam and Eve had not only a
perfect relationship with each other; no they were blessed and were able to REPRODUCE itself to take
control and to exercise DOMINION over the earth. Satan hated this with all his guts, because he was
not able to reproduce itself. He was not able to LOVE! They were so blessed and this only because
they had Father God at their side. He saw that his ruler-ship over the earth was in danger, so he went to
Adam and Eve and did what he could to destroy all this.
And it is his nature to DECEIVE and TO SEDUCE us to EXCHANGE the God given rules, will
and Gifts for his seemingly BETTER gifts and rules! Oh it looks so sweet and so tasty but he will not
tell you that at the end you will be just as futile as he is and that you will produce DEATH just like
him! Something what is EMPTY! Like a seed which produces no fruit and is sterile! That it gives
DEMONS the right to CONTROL you, to destroy you and to use you as a kind of destroying
instrument in his hands, becoming sons of Satan is not what he will tell you. That you give him the
rights to rule over you, because you follow and OBEY HIS RULES AND REGULATIONS that is
something he will not tell you. That you give him the rights that his torturing spirits control rule and
reign over you that is something you will get to know when it is too late. Through the process of
EXCHANGE, demons receive a legitimate right to CONTROL you, to MANIPULATE and to
DESTROY you; to misuse and to RAPE you. Yes they even receive a legitimate right to use you as a
kind DESTROYING instrument in his very skilled hands of torture and death. On this way he
produces his sons and daughters, an offspring of horror and death. Just think for a moment at the Islam
and its children.

SUBSTITUTE AND EXCHANGE


Over the Ages he has Copied the marriage structure with only one focus to PERVERT it and this
for several reasons -Well lets just say that as that he is DEPRIVING the whole Sexual realm in the
NATURAL, like with INCEST, PORNOGRAPHY, SELF-PLEASING ACTS, and such a like -HE IS
ALSO DOING THIS ON A SPIRITUAL LEVEL! -This is why God is telling us that the WHORE OF
BABYLON WILL BE JUDGED and finely will get of from Gods revenge. Sex is so beautiful when it
is the EXPRESSION OF PURE LOVE PASSION TO LOVE THE OTHER, and not one self!
Have you been deceived, do you have false structures in your live? Are you doing and practicing
wrong things? Do you love your woman wrongly? Do you love wrongly? Are you practicing false
passions? What is the SUBSTITUTE and the EXCHANGE Satan is offering us? Well the
substitute are all kind of structures, rules, regulations and principles and activitys which makes that
THE SOUL/FLESH gos its own selfish destructive way; never ever able to subdue itself to the
DIVINE principles of LIVE and DEVINE LIVE. So that this remains like that and we keep on going
our self-destructive way, he manipulates us concerning our sexual behavior and he initiates,
Masturbation: Prostitution, on both ways; gay, lesbianism, pedophilia, but the most DESTRUCTIVE
ONE IS INCEST! This is the most destructive one because it DESTROYS the Image of FATHER
GOD on a way that only those who have been in it know how true this is.
He has for everything a SUBSTITUTE; Believe me, even for our mind, for our emotions, and even
for our God called Ministry's. The only thing he needs to do, so that we are not blessed anymore and
become FRUITLESS and FUTILE is that you FORGET GODS WILL or see it as false and wrong.
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That we EXCHANGE the will of Father God, his good will 1, his pleasant will 2, and His PERFECT
will 3, for the will of Satan, as you think that it is Gods will! Actually it doesn't matter him for what
you EXCHANGE it, as long it will make that you do not do the will of the Father. You are even
allowed to preach and to prophesy as long it is not Gods will and VERY SURELY NOT GODS
PERFECT WILL and the Plan He has for your live! That is why he comes as an angel of light, to
deceive you! So that you think it is God and it isnt God at all, it is Satan! But why have you been able
to be deceived at all?
BECAUSE YOU DO NOT KNOW HIM YOU HAD NO INTERCOURSE WITH HIM! YOU ONLY WANTED TO
HAVE WHAT HE HAS TO GIVE AND NOT HIMSELF THAT WHAT HE IS!

So stop with listening to what the world says about how a Marriage should be, what you are allowed
to practice or not! Listen to the WORD of God and LISTEN TO THE LOVER OF YOUR SOUL,
JESUS. But for this you have to have that intimate relationship, so pressing into Gods presence is the
start and the key to all! Hunting after Him, to grasp Him when ever He passes by! Seek for Him like
you seek a hidden treasure. Those who truly seek Jesus will find Him! For He as the lover of your soul
will do all He can to let Himself be found.
Song of Solomon 5:2-8 I slept, but my heart stayed awake. [I dreamed that I heard the voice of my
beloved as He knocked at the door] Hark! My beloved is knocking upon the bedroom door. "Open to
me, my darling, my love, my treasure, my lovely dove, my perfect one; for my head is wet and soaked
with the heavy night dew, my locks with the drops and the wetness of the night." 3 I had put off my
garment, how could I put it on? I had bathed my feet, how could I soil them? 4 My beloved put in his
hand by the hole of the door, and my heart was thrilled and moved within me. [But He could not open
the door for it was LOCKED from the inside.] 5 (After I woke up) I arose to open to my beloved, and
my hands dripped with myrrh, my fingers with liquid myrrh, upon the handles of the lock. 6 I opened
to my beloved, but my beloved had turned away and was gone. My soul fainted within me when he
spoke. I sought him, but found him not; I called him, but he gave no answer. 7 The watchmen found
me, as they went about in the city; they beat me, they wounded me, they took away my mantle, those
watchmen of the walls. 8 I adjure you, O daughters and women of Jerusalem, if you find my beloved,
tell him I am sick for love.
Oh and stop listening to so many ministers who have not a fulfilled SEX-LIVE and who do not
know how to please their woman! Those who want to teach you something about God and sexuality
and who are not able to please and to satisfy their own woman.

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Part 3

HOW GOD SEES A BOND


COVENANT IN A MARRIAGE!
We will open up the deeper live giving aspects of the bond/covenant structure in a marriage which is
initiated from Father God. I will do my best to keep it simple and to fall not in to brain gymnastics but
all the more in heart breathing truths. Those who seek for truth will embrace it and find live! Let us
start to read with the most essential and fundamental Bible scriptures were we can find the start of
marriage and the principal structures which the Father initiated to be with and in a marriage, a bond
covenant.
Genesis 1:26 Then God said, "Let us make people/man after our image and likeness, to be like
ourselves. They will be masters over all life the fish in the sea, the birds in the sky, and all the
livestock, over wild animals, and over all the earth, and over all the creatures that move along the
ground. 27 So God created people (man and woman) after his own image; God patterned them after
himself; male and female he created them (both after himself). 28 God blessed them and told them,
"Multiply and fill the earth and subdue it. Be masters over the fish and birds and all the animals."
Genesis 2:21 And the LORD God caused a deep sleep to fall upon Adam, and he slept: and he took
one of his ribs, and closed up the flesh instead thereof; 22 And the rib, which the LORD God had taken
from man, he modeled it to a woman, and brought her unto the man. 23 And Adam said, This is now
bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh: she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of
Man. 24 Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave dabaq unto his wife:
and they shall be one echad flesh. 25 And they were both naked, the man and his wife, and were not
ashamed.
dabaq (179c); a prim. root; to cling, cleave, keep close:-0259.
echad (25c); a prim. card. number; one:We see in 1:26 that Father God created us man and woman after His Image and likeness, after His
character and after His nature. To understand the nature and the principle of covenant bondage we
have to understand the Nature and the Character of the Divine Family; Father Son and Holy Spirit.
Their nature is to be joined as ONE! Too act and to be active as one. What could the Father do without
the Son and what could the son do without the working power of the Holy Spirit? They are UNITED
as ONE! Meaning that although that they are three they are ONE! You will see later on that a Biblical
covenant is three as ONE.
The Character we can see in the relationship of the Divine Family is FAITHFULNESS and Father
God has created Adam and Eve with this same Character to be FAITHFUL and to cleave to each other
as He cleaves to His Son and the Spirit of God becoming and being ONE! The expression of Gods
character of faithfulness we see it in the lives of Adam and Eve and how they bond together, cleave to
each other till death departs them. The FAITHFULNESS and the BOND COVENANT between the
Father, the Son and the Holy Spirit is been EXPRESSED in MARRIAGE: With other words in the
faithful cleaving to each other so being as ONE through all circumstances in live; which is a
covenant instituted, established and set up after the image and likeness of the structure of the divine
family. But there is also another factor which belongs to a bond Covenant.
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A bond covenant between a man and a woman is normally ALWAYS a bond covenant with God
Himself, because He is the one who is the architect, the initiator the Father and the establisher of
Marriage and the one who strengthens it and fortifies it. After that they have made this bond covenant
husband and wife -the husband will not depart, he will not leave his woman anymore. He will bond
and cleave to her and be FAITHFUL to her through all situations of live. The purpose and the intention
from God the Father has been expressed already in "Let us make people/man after our image and
likeness, to be like ourselves.
Therefore we can see that it was the intention of God the Father that both of them together would be
an EXPRESSION and an IMPRESSION of His FAITHFULNESS, His goodness, honesty and HIS
LIVE! Yes an EXPRESSION of all what Father God is and has. In the relationship from a man to his
woman should we be able to recognize and we should be able to see how great and full of LOVE
Father God is for His children; His son Adam and His daughter Eve and all the children of this earth.

THE BOND COVENANT BEFORE MARRIAGE


A marriage is always a bond covenant. But where starts this covenant? Well it actually started
before the institution of marriage. Before that Eve was there and made a bond covenant with Adam.
Before that, Adam was there and he was alone. Adam was the first man who had a BOND
COVENANT with Father God. The rules and regulations were fairly simple. If you obey you will be
blessed, if you do not obey there will be no blessing, no live! The character of a bond covenant is
ALWAYS:
One is the initiator and the other the partaker. The Initiator is dictating the rules in agreement with
the partaker. From Gods site this is a BOND COVENANT to be able to alliance to us to be able to
bless us and to be able to give us all what He desires to give us. It is I give and you give, it is giving
and taking from both sides.
Adam was the EXPRESSION and the IMPRESSION of Gods nature and character and that was
first of all to HAVE A FAITHFUL RELATIONSHIP. Adam gave God his time, his heart and soul, his
live and he walked with God. And because that he walked with God he was able to be a
REFLECTION, an EXPRESSION and an IMPRESSION of Father Gods character and of His nature.
He walked 24 hours a day in the PRESENCE of the almighty Father God and was because of that a
beautiful and a glorious EXPRESSION and a REFLECTION of the nature of the Father. Son Adam
was being formed after Father Gods nature.
The difference between Father God and His son Adam was that he was a heavenly creation as well
as an earthly creation and therefore he was missing something in his earthly creation: another
relationship to be able to give an expression to all what he was made to be, from Father God. This
other relationship besides Father God became the EXPRESSION of God His live to produce live.
Genesis 1: 28 God blessed them and said to them, (this is my Blessing of LIVE) "Be fruitful have sex
-and increase in number; fill the earth and subdue it. Rule over the fish of the sea and the birds of the
air and over every living creature that moves on the ground."
Here is the origination, the start, the spring and the establishment of the institution marriage.
Father God blesses Adam and Eve so that they will produce and bring forth LIVE. They enter into a
BOND COVENANT to produce LIVE. This live (children) in the same BOND COVENANT will
become the EXPRESSION and the IMPRESSION of their image and likeness on an earthly level.
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Adam was through the relationship with Father God an EXPRESSIVE EXPRESSION of Gods
Wisdom, of His character and of His Nature on a heavenly dimension. Together with his woman Eve
were the sons of Adam and Eve the EXPRESSION of their image and likeness.

ASSIGNMENT, RULING, REIGNING GOVERNING


TAKING DOMINION
Genesis 2,8-15 And the LORD God planted a garden eastward in Eden; and there he put the man
whom he had formed. 9 And out of the ground made the LORD God to grow every tree that is pleasant
to the sight, and good for food; the tree of life also in the midst of the garden, and the tree of
knowledge of good and evil. 10 And a river went out of Eden to water the garden; and from thence it
was parted, and became into four heads. 11 The name of the first is Pison: that is it which compasseth
the whole land of Havilah, where there is gold; 12 And the gold of that land is good: there is bdellium
and the onyx stone. 13 And the name of the second river is Gihon: the same is it that compasseth the
whole land of Ethiopia. 14 And the name of the third river is Hiddekel: that is it which goeth toward
the east of Assyria. And the fourth river is Euphrates. 15 And the LORD God took the man, and put
him into the Garden of Eden to dress it and to keep it.
Adam received an Assignment without Eve. Still no Eve in sight! Adam was still the only one and
only he is responsible!

COVENANT RULES
Genesis 2:16-20 And the LORD God commanded the man, saying, (Bond rules) Of every tree of the
garden thou mayest freely eat: 17 But of the tree of the knowledge of good and evil, thou shalt not eat
of it: for in the day that thou eatest thereof thou shalt surely die. 18 And the LORD God said, It is not
good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet (made) for him. 19 And out of the
ground the LORD God formed every beast of the field, and every fowl of the air; and brought them
unto Adam to see what he would call them: and whatsoever Adam called every living creature, that
was the name thereof. 20 And Adam gave names to all cattle, and to the fowl of the air, and to every
beast of the field; but for Adam there was not found an help meet (made) for him.

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Part 4

MARRIAGE IS SEALED
THROUGH THE BOND OF A
BLOOD COVENANT
We have seen and discovered now that Adam had a bond covenant with Father God and that he
had this and lived this as an expression of the Character of the divine Family: Father, Son and Holy
Spirit. Now we will have a look at the Bond Covenant of a Marriage at the moment of institution and
we will see that Father God added a certain aspect in this covenant; namely the SEAL principle. Here
we see the existence of the first blood covenant, for a marriage is a blood bond covenant. With the
blood it is been closed and sealed it is been locked up like a room which is been closed and sealed.
Solomon 4:12-16 A locked Garden is My sister, My spouse; a rock heap locked up, a sealed fountain.
13 Your plants are an orchard of pomegranates with excellent fruits, with henna and spikenard; 14
spikenard and saffron, calamus and cinnamon; with all trees of frankincense, myrrh and aloes; with
all the chief balsam spices; 15 a fountain of gardens, a well of living waters; even flowings from
Lebanon. 16 Awake, north wind; yea, come, south wind; blow on my garden; let its spices flow out. Let
my Beloved come into His garden and eat its excellent fruits.
So let us go back to the moment of the initiation of the covenant and the Bond relationship between
Adam and Eve. The first moment that Adam came to his woman Eve and had with her the sexual
intercourse, at that moment blood flowed. This is the moment of which the BOND COVENANT is
been confirmed and is been sealed and this through the blood which flows. It doesnt need to be very
much blood and this is different from woman to woman, but when this woman coming to a man does
not yet belong to another man than blood will flow. It will not always be visible for us humans but for
God is it visible. He will see the BLOOD and He will see the Marriage or the BOND COVENANT AS
SEALED.
Because a bond covenant is ALWAYS an AGREEMENT where two wills are coming in alignment;
and because of that is a covenant only than legitimate when the bond is been made in agreement with
both party's. So there will never be a sealed wedding bond covenant after the moment when a woman
is raped, or when a woman against her will is not agree to become freely the woman of a certain man.
When the man however takes (WHAT IS ALWAYS AN ACT OF VIOLENCE) that what the young
lady or the woman is not willing than is this ALWAYS a BREAKING IN, A DESTROYING and an
act of STEALING. He breaks the lock and breaks in. She did not open up for him and therefore
although blood flows there is not a WEDDING BOND COVENANT which takes place. The blood
which flows than is to be seen as the blood of Abel which is been hit down and murdered through
Cain. This kind of blood calls for REVENGE and the avenger will surely come just as it was with
Abel.
So when the woman is willing and has given her yes, I will, which means she comes in agreement
with the will of the lover of her soul, than is this the MOMENT that after and during the
INTERCOURSE a SEALING takes place. You go into the bedchamber and you have the most
intimate time with your woman making her FINELY yours for ever. The garden is not sealed
anymore, she has given him the keys and he seals and locks the garden for him alone. He is now
allowed to make of the virgin lady his eternal wedded woman.
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Also here is a very DEEP spiritual meaning looking at the love relationship between Jesus and His
Bride! Have you had the intercourse and are you SEALED: big question right? Many have said yes, to
Jesus to become His Bride but have not yet entered into the Bedchamber. Hmm, and even after that we
have been into the Bedchamber, the seal can be broken and very often it is broken. Because we went
astray with strange teachings like psychology and humanism! A Marriage can be broken and destroyed
on more as just one way. A covenant can be broken on different kind of ways! When this happens it
has no existential validity anymore. This is applicable for the natural realm as well as for the spiritual
realm. But I think we will come later on to that.
So when the woman has not broken her maidenhood through an accident or through penetrating her
vagina with external objects, what is happening today very often and seen already as normal; than we
will be able to see most of the time that some blood flows at the moment of penetration and the
breaking of her seal! So actually the maiden was sealed from birth on (SET APART) to been given
away to her future husband at a time in her live as she wills, to be sealed again and to come under a
BOND COVENANT. The man will not come under a BOND COVENANT with his woman because
he is the COVENANT INITIATOR and he is making her a PARTAKER of his COVENANT. Keep
this in mind; I will come back to that later on and we will go than much deeper into that.

THE WOMAN COMES UNDER THE BOND


COVENANT OF THE MAN
The man does NOT come to stand under the protection of the bond covenant like the woman does.
In a covenant there is ALWAYS one the stronger and the other the weaker. The strong one gives the
protection, exactly as Father God gave Adam the needed protection and covering in the covenant with
Adam. Because Father God was the stronger one! As Father God is the INITIATOR, so is the man also
the INITIATOR of a Marriage bond covenant. HE MAKES THE COVENANT and he makes her a
PARTAKER of his covenant! Keep this good in mind; that Adam and every other man make their
woman to a PARTAKER from all what he is and has. And this also when the man has other bonds as a
bond covenant with God! A little later we will go deeper into this. Let me share with you first
something else.
This BOND COVENANT is been intended to be for the whole time of eternity! Maybe you think
now something like, why for eternity and not until death departs? Well this is so because:
1e Well because first of all a MARRIAGE BOND COVENANT is an ultimate EXPRESSION of the
character and likeness of the DIVINE family who live in a similar RELATIONSHIP; a relationship of
eternal faithfulness and bonding. They will NEVER depart NOR BEEN SEPARATED OR
DIVORCED.
2e And secondly because it is an eternal bond covenant, because the institution of the BOND
COVENANT -MARRIAGE -is been INITIATED before that man fall into sin and he became mortal!
So before sin came he was actually IMMORTAL. The blood bond covenant with Eve has therefore an
Eternal time value.
Before that sin came Adam was immortal and would never die living in an ETERNAL BOND
RELATIONSHIP -with his woman Eve and with Father God and this bond covenant structure we
name today MARRIAGE! Humanity, this is how Father God intended it to be, should live FOR
EVER, so that man and woman were able to live in the STRUCTURE of an ETERNAL
RELATIONSHIP and to EXPRESS and to be the EXPRESSION AND THE IMPRESSION of the
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continuation of this relationship just like the Father the Son and the Holy Spirit live and EXPRESS this
ETERNAL relationship: LET US MAKE MAN AFTER OUR IMAGE AND LIKENESS! Let us
reproduce ourselves.
I believe that it is the intention of Father God to teach us humans made after His image and
likeness to live here upon earth in a RELATIONSHIP of FAITHFULNESS, tied united and attached
or CEMENTED to each other through the BLOOD BOND COVENANT, through which we are
SEALED as a SEAL upon each others hearts; to be taken higher up afterwards to be allowed to live
with the ETERNAL God Himself: to live with the God of ETERNAL FAITHFULNESS and
bonding, who can never ever be unfaithful, and which will ALWAYS HOLD THE BOND
COVENANT HE HAS MADE with us. His yes is yes and his no is no! There is nothing in between
that. He will NEVER BREAK IT.
Solomon 8:6 Set me as a seal upon your heart, as a seal ribbon upon your arm; for love is strong
fierce, vehement as the death, jealousy, passion of the heart and soul passion qin'ah' is as hard, strong
and mighty as the grave. Its flashes are flashes of fire and glowing resheph coals, 'esh, a most
vehement flame, a fire of God.

BOND BREAKER
But we Christians and humans man and woman, we BREAK, we SCHMASH, we SHATTER and
CRUSH the BOND COVENANT with our woman and partner for live, quick frivolously and with
levity. But this is not what Father God does, because this is not His character and His nature of acting.
That is not after the Image and the Likeness of the heavenly character of the Father, the Son and the
Holy Spirit, who live together in HARMONY in an ETERNAL BOND COVENANT LOVE
RELATIONSHIP. And this is THE REASON why Father God HATES DIVORCE more as anything
else. This is one of the Major reasons why he hates it when COVENANTS and BONDS, which are
intended to be for ETERNITY are been broken up, disconnected and DIVORCED! God made us after
His Image and likeness and this means that He made our heart and soul so that we are able to ONLY
BOND and CEMENT ourselves to ONE partner for live, so that two souls/spirits can become as ONE!
1 Corinthians 6:15 Know ye not that your bodies are the members of Christ? shall I then take the
members of Christ, and make them the members of an harlot? God forbid. 16 What? know ye not that
he which is joined kol'lao to an harlot is one body? for two, saith he, shall be one flesh. 17 But he that
is joined kol'lao unto the Lord is one spirit.
099 kol'lao,
from kolla ("glue"); TDNT-3:822,452; v
AV-join (one's) self 4, cleave 3, be joined 2, keep company 1, vr reach 1; 11
1) to glue, to glue together, cement, fasten together 2) to join or fasten firmly together 3) to join one's self to, cleave to

Okay, I just want you to remember the first lessons about sexuality and the beauty of it in a
Marriage, how 2 souls (Spirits) can become as ONE. Gods desire is that we kol'lao to one partner and
not to 10, 2 or 100 and more and that we are FAITHFUL as He is FAITHFUL; That we produce LIVE
together with our BLOOD BOND COVENANT PARTNER, like Father God who produces and brings
forth LIVE in us and with us. When we are FAITHFUL than will Father God command and send HIS
LIVE in us and make it to our disposal in all abundances. This is why a Marriage is always a Bond
relationship with Father God. I will come later on to that.

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Genesis 1:28 God blessed them and said to them, (this is my Blessing of LIVE) "Be fruitful have sex and increase in number; fill the earth and subdue it. Rule over the fish of the sea and the birds of the
air and over every living creature that moves on the ground."
Father God gave His approval, His yes to this union, to this Bond Covenant relationship and He was
and is the 3e Person in this COVENANT. What Father God is adding to this RELATIONSHIP is
LIVE and that abundantly. So first of all is a Marriage a BLOOD BOND COVENANT WITH THE
MAN WHERE THE WOMAN IS COMING INTO AND UNDER HIS COVENANT. Why? Because
He is under the BOND COVENANT with the God of live which enables him to make a BLESSING
covenant with the woman who CEMENTS too his heart and soul. God is a jealous God, but this is the
ONLY relationship He allows besides Him. Because He did see that Adam was missing one who was
like him in his earthly creation.
1 Corinthians 7:1 Now concerning the things whereof ye wrote unto me: It is good for a man not to
touch a woman. 2 nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every
woman have her own husband. 7:9 But if they cannot contain, let them marry: for it is better to marry
than to burn.
Proverbs 5:18 Let thy fountain be blessed: and rejoice with the wife of thy youth. 19 Let her be as the
loving hind and pleasant roe; let her breasts satisfy thee at all times; and be thou ravished always
with her love.
Proverbs 18:22 Whoso finds a wife finds a good thing, and obtains favor of the LORD.
Proverbs 19:14 House and riches are the inheritance of fathers: and a prudent, discreet, wise wife is
from the LORD.
Malachi 2:13-16 And this have ye done again, covering the altar of the LORD with tears, with
weeping, and with crying out, insomuch that he regarded not the offering any more, or received it with
good will at your hand. 14 Yet ye say, Wherefore? Because the LORD hath been witness between thee
and the wife of thy youth, against whom thou hast dealt treacherously: yet is she thy companion, and
the wife of thy covenant. 15 And did not he make you one? Yet had he the residue of the spirit. And
wherefore one? That he might seek a godly seed. Therefore take heed to your spirit (will), and let none
deal treacherously against the wife of his youth. 16 For the LORD, the God of Israel, saith that he
hates putting away: for one covers violence with his garment, saith the LORD of hosts: therefore take
heed to your spirit (will), that ye deal not treacherously.
Ephesians 5:28 So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loves his wife loves
himself. 29 for no one ever did hate his own flesh, but doth nourish and cherish it, as also the Lord-the assembly, 30 because members we are of his body, of his flesh, and of his bones; 31 `for this cause
shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined to his wife, and they shall be--the two--for
one flesh;' 32 this secret is great, and I speak in regard to Christ and to the assembly; 33 but ye also,
every one in particular--let each his own wife so love as himself, and the wife--that she may reverence
the husband.
Ephesians 5:33 Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and
the wife see that she respect her husband. (But not in blind obedience)
So Marriage is always a BOND COVENANT between the God of live and between the
MARRIAGE PARTNERS who go into a BLOOD BOND COVENANT after the character of how
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Father God intended it to be from the start: An Eternal never ending bond of eternal love in a
relationship of faithfulness, TRUST and CLEAVING. As you see we ad as we go on more and more
aspects which all belong to the character and the nature of what a MARRIAGE BOND COVENANT
IS in the eyes of Father God. When I cleave to a woman and go into a UNION with her which is not
instituted from Father God than He will NOT SEND HIS BLESSING THERE.

CURSE AND DEATH INSTEAD OF LIVE!


When I as a man go to a prostitute, a whore or when I sleep with any other woman as my woman
and have sexual intercourse with these other women, than I receive a curse over myself and over all
who live UNDER the bond covenant; Which means also the children and my own woman! The same
thing is applicable with other relationships beside my blood bond wedding partner. When I have sex
with my mother or father or brother or sister, or when I try to practice sexual intercourse with alike
kind, man with man, woman with woman, or when I have sex with animals, than God can NOT
BLESS you and YOUR HOUSE and the curse of death and destruction will come. What is even more
He himself will send over you and your house the curse! You and your house will not stand under
Gods Blessing and protection anymore and the curse of death and destruction will come. This means
that God pulls His hand away from your marriage, from your family and that the demons have a
freeway to come over you. He will even send them himself to bring us to REPENTANCE!
5 Moses 11,26-32 Behold, I set before you this day a blessing and a curse; 27 A blessing, if ye obey
the commandments of the LORD your God, which I command you this day: 28 And a curse, if you will
not obey the commandments of the LORD your God, but turn aside out of the way which I command
you this day, to go after other gods, which you have not known. 29 And it shall come to pass, when the
LORD thy God hath brought thee in unto the land whither thou goest to possess it, that thou shalt put
the blessing upon mount Gerizim, and the curse upon mount Ebal. 30 Are they not on the other side
Jordan, by the way where the sun goeth down, in the land of the Canaanites, which dwell in the
champaign over against Gilgal, beside the plains of Moreh? 31 For ye shall pass over Jordan to go in
to possess the land which the LORD your God giveth you, and ye shall possess it, and dwell therein.
32 And ye shall observe to do all the statutes and judgments which I set before you this day.

SHORT PART OUT OF THE BOND COVENANT


WITH ITS RULES AND REGULATIONS
Deuteronomy 27,20-25 Cursed be he that lieth with his father's wife; because he uncovers his father's
skirt. And all the people shall say, Amen. 21 Cursed be he that lieth with any manner of beast. And all
the people shall say, Amen. 22 Cursed be he that lieth with his sister, the daughter of his father, or the
daughter of his mother. And all the people shall say, Amen. 23 Cursed be he that lieth with his mother
in law. And all the people shall say, Amen. 24 Cursed be he that smiteth his neighbour secretly. And
all the people shall say, Amen. 25 Cursed be he that taketh reward to slay an innocent person. And all
the people shall say, Amen. 26 Cursed be he that confirmeth not all the words of this law (rules and
regulations) to do them. And all the people shall say, Amen.
A curse is in the most deepest sense the ABSENCE of the PROTECTION of the COMFORT and the
BLESSING of LIVE in all its ABUNDANCE. It is the absence of Gods presence. A curse calls
therefore always the evil powers of demons at the scene and gives them the rights to do their evil
doings, because Father God admits them and He ALLOWS them, through taking back His hand of
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protection. To it comes that we have come into BONDS which are not after Gods will if we do not
hold ourselves to His guidelines and instructions. And this is very specially the case when we practice
a false sexual behavior. Curse is therefore: The absence of Gods protection and live. There where His
Blessing is, will He COMMAND LIVE and this in great abundance. Curse is when the Father turns
His back upon us with the consequences that we come again into the hands of our enemies who bring
us as prisoner and slave back into Egypt-land. Curse is when we have God as an enemy against us.

HOW YOU SELL YOUR SOUL


There are diverse and a countless number of different TWISTED FALSE BONDS. And these are
all those things in which we give our heart away against Gods will or against that what He allows us.
With WRONG FAKE FALSE BONDING we give ALWAYS DEMONS the allowance, the right,
the authority (POWER) over our lives, over our heart and soul and the concession/contracts to destroy
our lives and to bring our children under a curse.
Jeremiah 17:5 5 Thus saith the LORD; Cursed be the man that trusts in man, and makes flesh his arm,
and whose heart departed's from the LORD.
Jeremia 23:10 9 Mine heart within me is broken because of the prophets; all my bones shake; I am
like a drunken man, and like a man whom wine hath overcome, because of the LORD, and because of
the words of his holiness. 10 For the land is full of adulterers (COVENANT BREAKERS); for
because of swearing the land mourns; the pleasant places of the wilderness are dried up, and their
course is evil, and their force is not right.
Jeremiah 11:3-6 And say thou unto them, Thus saith the LORD God of Israel; Cursed be the man that
obeys not the words of this covenant, (with its rules and regulations) 4 Which I commanded your
fathers in the day that I brought them forth out of the land of Egypt, from the iron furnace, saying,
Obey my voice, and do them, according to all which I command you: so shall ye be my people, and I
will be your God: 5 That I may perform the oath which I have sworn unto your fathers, to give them a
land flowing with milk and honey, as it is this day. Then answered I, and said, So be it, O LORD. 6
Then the LORD said unto me, Proclaim all these words in the cities of Judah, and in the streets of
Jerusalem, saying, Hear ye the words of this covenant, and do them.
So if we REMAIN IN A FAITHFUL BOND COVENANT RELATIONSHIP than will our
children be blessed and is the God of LIVE ALLOWED to SEND HIS LIVE: when we have not
BROKEN the COVENANT BOND with or woman and with Him. Divorce is therefore also a breaking
of the COVENANT RULES WITH FATHER GOD as He is the 3e Covenant Partner in a
COVENANT BOND relationship, with the husband as the first and major responsible person over the
covenant which he made with his woman bringing her under the covenant with his GOD!
1 Corinthians 7:12 But to the rest speak I, not the Lord: If any brother hath a wife that believes not,
and she be pleased to dwell with him, let him not put her away. 13 And the woman which hath an
husband that believes not, and if he be pleased to dwell with her, let her not leave him. 14 For the
unbelieving husband is sanctified by the wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified by the husband:
else were your children unclean; (They could not be Blessed) but now are they set apart.
5 Mose 28,1-13 And it shall come to pass, if thou shalt hearken diligently unto the voice of the LORD
thy God, to observe and to do all his commandments which I command thee this day, that the LORD
thy God will set thee on high above all nations of the earth: 2 And all these blessings shall come on
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thee, and overtake thee, if thou shalt hearken unto the voice of the LORD thy God. 3 Blessed shalt thou
be in the city, and blessed shalt thou be in the field. 4 Blessed shall be the fruit of thy body, and the
fruit of thy ground, and the fruit of thy cattle, the increase of thy kine, and the flocks of thy sheep. 5
Blessed shall be thy basket and thy store. 6 Blessed shalt thou be when thou comest in, and blessed
shalt thou be when thou goest out. 7 The LORD shall cause thine enemies that rise up against thee to
be smitten before thy face: they shall come out against thee one way, and flee before thee seven
ways.8 The LORD shall command the blessing upon thee in thy storehouses, and in all that thou
settest thine hand unto; and he shall bless thee in the land which the LORD thy God giveth thee. 9 The
LORD shall establish thee an holy (SET APART) people unto himself, as he hath sworn unto thee, if
thou shalt keep the commandments of the LORD thy God, and walk in his ways.
10 And all people of the earth shall see that thou art called by the name of the LORD; and they shall
be afraid of thee. 11 And the LORD shall make thee plenteous in goods, in the fruit of thy body, and in
the fruit of thy cattle, and in the fruit of thy ground, in the land which the LORD sware unto thy fathers
to give thee. 12 The LORD shall open unto thee his good treasure, the heaven to give the rain unto thy
land in his season, and to bless all the work of thine hand: and thou shalt lend unto many nations,
and thou shalt not borrow. 13 And the LORD shall make thee the head, and not the tail; and thou
shalt be above only, and thou shalt not be beneath; if that thou hearken unto the commandments of the
LORD thy God, which I command thee this day, to observe and to do them:
In Jesus Christ though you have entered now into a NEW COVENANT and the curse is been
brought to silence because Jesus became a curse for us. He took upon Him the Curse which was and
had to come over us and the affliction of punishment which ought to come over us came over Him. It
is a better covenant because we were not able to fulfill the first covenant with all it rules and
regulations in our lost and deprived condition of heart, soul and spirit. So Father God worked very
hard at a solution to release us from the curse from Adam and Eve and the curse of the law. As ones
Adam and Eve were able to be in a direct relationship with Father God we are now again brought into
a position through a BOND COVENANT in Jesus Christ to come into a BOND COVENANT with the
Father.
Galatians 3:13 Christ redeemed us from the curse of the law, having become a curse for us-for it is
written, "Cursed be every one who hangs on a tree"--14 that in Christ Jesus the blessing of Abraham
might come upon the Gentiles, that we might receive the promise of the Spirit through faith.
We can see also very clearly that FAITHFULNESS in a BOND COVENANT relationship will
ALWAYS PRODUCE FRUITFULNESS AND LIVE, because Father God is than allowed to BLESS
them with His LIVE! More and stronger is it so that it is not a maybe it is SURE and it is a YES and
amen that we will be blessed and that we will be successful and victorious, able to subdue all what
there is to be ruled over. What ever this will be, we will be successful in the achievement and the
execution of His ruler-ship, because we rule with the authority of the Father backing us up. This ruling
and reigning starts with Marriage, with ruling and serving the Family with a ROYAL CHARACTER
AND WITH THE DIVINE SELFLESS LOVE LIKE THAT OF THE FATHER AND THE SON
AND OF THE HOLY SPIRIT. And now we have come again to the point why we teach you all this.
Father God can not and will not Bless UNFAITHFULNESS and BOND COVENANT BREAKERS.
This has also to do with the fact that Satan has BROKEN the COVENANT he had with Father God;
and because of that Satan is an ETERNAL HEAVENLY being, the BREAK and the DIVORCE is also
ETERNAL. But humanity was both: heavenly and earthly!

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So you can see very clearly now what a Marriage is in Gods eyes! Now you know when a marriage
is sealed and a blood bond covenant is made before God. Adam and Eve broke the BOND
COVENANT with Father God because they were disobedient and broke the rules in this covenant. We
spoke in short about and addressed the fact that God made us a PARTAKER of all what He has and
what He is through making a covenant with Him. And we addressed the fact that Adam and every
other man makes his woman to a PARTAKER from all what this man has and is even when he has
other covenants besides the only true living God. We have now come to the moment that we go deeper
into this.

WHAT IS WITH OTHER BOND-COVENANTS


IN A MARRIAGE?
It is so that Eve came into a BOND COVENANT with Father God because of that she came in a
BLOOD COVENANT with Adam, who had made a COVENANT with Father God.
1Corinthians 11:3 But I want you to understand that the head of every man is Christ, the head of a
woman is her husband, and the head of Christ is God. 8 (For man was not made from woman, but
woman from man. 9 Neither was man created for woman, but woman for man.)
Ephesians 5:23 For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body,
and is himself its Savior. 25 Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself
up for her, 26 that he might sanctify her, having cleansed her by the washing of water with the word,
Genesis 2:21 So the LORD God caused a deep sleep to fall upon the man, and while he slept took one
of his ribs and closed up its place with flesh; 22 and the rib which the LORD God had taken from the
man he modeled into a woman and brought her to the man. 23 Then the man said, "This at last is bone
of my bones and flesh of my flesh; she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man." 24
Therefore a man leaves his father and his mother and cleaves to his wife, and they become one flesh.
25 And the man and his wife were both naked, and were not ashamed.
1Timothy 2:13 For Adam was formed first, then Eve;
It is the man who is the REPRESENTATIVE of the COVENANT which he has with Father God
and that is because Adam was the first human which God created. Adam has been created for God and
Eve has been created for Adam. As Adam was mainly been created to have fellowship with Father
God and to execute His will upon the earth, so was it that Eve mainly was created for Adam to
COMPLETE him and to be a helpmate in the ASSIGNMENT which Adam had received from Father
God. This is why EVERY WOMAN comes UNDER a BOND COVENANT with Father God at the
MOMENT that she makes a BLOOD BOND COVENANT with a man of God! Can you see the
Glorious wisdom how Adam and Eve are a shadow pointing to Jesus and His Bride church? Through
the blood that flows it makes from her a COVENANT BOND PARTNER and this for all eternity.
Normally it should have been so that every man should have lived in a COVENANT
RELATIONSHIP with Father God. But because of that Adam broke the COVENANT; it was been
broken and destroyed for all the generations after him because we as Humanity live under the BOND
COVENANT FROM ADAM! Now is Jesus, just like the Word of God tells us, the NEW ADAM who
has come to make with us a NEW COVENANT through the blood of His own sacrifice.

Let me repeat it again: normally it should have been so that every man falls under and is in a BOND
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COVENANT RELATIONSHIP with Jesus and the Father. Whereby at the moment that the man takes
himself a woman, a soul-mate for live, this woman comes UNDER a blood bond covenant and this not
only with her husband, but also with Father God himself! Jesus says not for nothing that no one will
come to the Father as through Him. On this way the Father becomes always the 3e Person in the blood
bond covenant between man and woman. We have almost come to the end and the only thing I have to
set before your eyes are the FALSE BONDS, THE FALSE COVENANTS!

FALSE COVENANTS
What is when a man is not living in a BOND COVENANT with the Most High God? With whom
or with what has the woman at that moment a BOND COVENANT? Well, first of all is she going into
a BOND COVENANT with her husband who lives in a BOND COVENANT WITH WHAT, WITH
WHOM? To whom or to what is this man obedient? To whom or to what is this man submissive? To
whom or to what is his will obedient and submissive? Does this sound creepy?
2Corinthians 6:14 Do not be mismated with unbelievers (unbelieving believers). For what partnership
(bond covenant) have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness? 15
What accord has Christ with Belial? Or what has a believer in common with an unbeliever? 16 What
agreement has the temple of God with idols? For we are the temple of the living God; as God said, "I
will live in them and move among them, and I will be their God, and they shall be my people. 17
Therefore come out from them, and be separated from them, says the Lord, and touch nothing unclean;
then I will welcome you, 18 and I will be a father to you, and you shall be my sons and daughters, says
the Lord Almighty."
Nehemiah 13:26 Did not Solomon king of Israel sin on account of such women? Among the many
nations there was no king like him, and he was beloved by his God, and God made him king over all
Israel; nevertheless foreign women made even him to sin. (Salomon trespassed the rules of the
covenant)
James 4:4 Adulterers and adulteresses (Trespassers of covenants)! Do you not know that the
friendship (relationship of bonding) with the world is enmity with God? Therefore whoever desires to
be a friend of the world is the enemy of God. 5 Do you think that the Scripture says in vain, The spirit
that dwells in us yearns to envy?
1Corinthians 10:20 No, I imply that what pagans sacrifice they offer to demons and not to God. I do
not want you to be partners with demons. 21 You cannot drink the cup of the Lord and the cup of
demons. You cannot partake of the table of the Lord and the table of demons? (You can not have with
both a covenant it is either one or the other) 22 Shall we provoke the Lord to jealousy? Are we
stronger than he?
Ephesians 5:1-11 Therefore be followers of God, as dear children. 2 And walk in an attitude of
selfless love, as Christ also has loved us, and has given Himself for us as an offering and a sacrifice to
God for a sweet smelling savor. 3 For let fornication and all uncleanness or covetousness not be once
named among you, as becomes saints, 4 neither baseness, foolish talking, jesting, which are not
becoming, but rather giving of thanks. 5 For you know this, that no fornicator, or unclean person, or
covetous one (who is an idolater), has any inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and of God. 6 Let no
man deceive you with vain words, (that all this has no consequences) for because of these things the
wrath of God comes upon the children of disobedience. 7 Therefore do not be partakers with them. 8
For you were once darkness, but now you are light in the Lord; walk as children of light 9 (for the
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fruit of the Spirit is in all goodness and righteousness and truth), 10 proving what is acceptable to the
Lord. 11 And have no fellowship with the unfruitful works of darkness, but rather reprove them (cover
them up). 12 For it is a shame even to speak of those things which are done by them in secret.
We come back again to the men, the one who REPRESENTS the COVENANT, and it doesn't matter
in what kind of covenant they are. To what or to whom is his WILL obedient and submissive? When
he worships idols, other Gods, maybe even from wood or stone or with a direct service to demonic
powers, like the Satanist; than he IS UNDER A BOND COVENANT and has made a contract with
demonic powers. And therefore will his woman and his whole household fall under the DOMINION*
of these demonic powers.
Dominion* Is the territorial* area in which the Dictatorship is been executed over the city, place or
family, as the scene of the Dictatorship.
Territory* (latein. terra, Land, Area) That which is denoted as a space which is in our case also
a spiritual limited area with strict borders upon which ownership and sovereignty of Rulership is
been claimed. A power and a control of Dictatorship executed over a Territory with or without our
agreement. Those who do NOT RESIST come under their influence when in their territory.
I am in a BOND COVENANT RELATIONSHIP with God, or I am OBEDIENT to the powers of
nature; with other words, the WILL OF MY SOUL! Which are CONTINUALLY in direct danger to
be MANIPULATED and to be CONTROLLED through the effective working powers executed
through DEMONS upon our minds, our emotions and our will. Maybe you think now; how is it
possible to come in a BOND COVENANT with demonic powers, without knowing it?
Before I will answer this let me tell you first something else so that you are more able too
understand some things. Adam broke the COVENANT with Father God and entered into a FALSE COVENANT with Satan through being OBEDIENT upon the voice of his woman, instead of being
OBEDIENT upon Gods voice. And through this he lost the RIGHT OF INHERITANCE and
practicing DOMINION over the earth. He lost the sovereign right to Rule and reign over the earth. As
long as he was SUBMISSIVE to the Father, the Father would have given him the FULL
AUTHORITY to rule and to reign over the earth. But he was more SUBMISSIVE to his woman as to
the WILL of God and his woman had been OBEDIENT and SUBMISSIVE to the WILL OF SATAN,
which brought the whole family UNDER the DOMINION of Satan! Because of that Adam had NO
EXECUTIVE AUTHORITY anymore Father God did not back him up, he stood there alone Satan
had an easy prey and free game! He knew that as long that he would be able to keep the generations
after Adam in his control, he would got a SILENT RIGHT from us to remain the Ruler of this earth.
Because Adam had lost all the rights and had made a SILENT hidden COVENANT with him, coming
in AGREEMENT WITH HIM AND HIS WILL.
Practicing resistance without God at their side would have been of no effect and so they became an
easy prey and all the generations after Adam also. Before the fall of sin, Adam stood over him and
Satan had to be SUBMISSIVE to the executive power and the ruling authority of Adam, because
Father God stood directly behind him, giving him all the authority he would need to execute Gods
WILL! Can you imagine that he is terrified to death that we get this knowledge in our hearts and in our
minds? He knows that with God we have been lifted up in a position far ABOVE HIM and that it will
not take very long and he HAS TO RUN! Because if we start to EXECUTE RESISTANCE in this
POSITION: (IN A NEW BOND COVENANT WITH GOD) he has nothing to laugh anymore. As
long that he is able to CRIPPLE, TO WEAKEN and to place the RIGHTFUL OWNER of the
INHERITANCE OF HIS DOMINION, in a position that GOD IS NOT ABLE AND NOT
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ALLOWED TO BLESS HIM AND TO BACK HIM UP with His authority, Satan will remain the
Dictator and the ruler of the DOMINION of the rightful INHERITOR.
He will remain to destroy COVENANTS: he will slaughter Children, rape woman and make of
humanity his slaves just like Pharaoh did ones! But than came Jesus and now is everything way
different. You see, I do not need to make a conscious COVENANT with these powers of evil to come
under their INFLUENCE, to come UNDER THEIR CONTROL over my live.
It is fully adequate and more than sufficient enough that you are NOT IN A BOND COVENANT
RELATIONSHIP with God the Most High, the creator of heaven and earth, the Father of which all
fatherhood originates; to become a playboy, a play ball or a play woman from these mights and
powers of evil. And so you will come in and under a SILENT covenant. I give them, I surrender my
will to them and I am submissive to them and they will give me back. You have given your yes, even
when you didn't say a word, you agreed! You didn't say NO! You did not execute resistance to what
THEY WILLED. And believe me even when it looks like and it hears like so much promising (that
what they whisper in your ear) they give you NOTHING, they only take from you! THAT IS and ARE
FALSE BONDS, FALSE COVENANTS!
You can compare it with selling your soul to somebody of whom you think that he will do your soul
something good, but the intention of it is to destroy your soul and this with your agreement. The
stronger one designates the rules of the agreement. Do you want what I want for you? When yes, I will
bless you (with a false blessing)! The principle of a covenant is that there is ONE who desires
something of the other. If we come in AGREEMENT with that, than is our YES like signing a
contract. Our word stands, and has a BINDING EFFECTIVENESS! The CONTRACT (COVENANT)
is VALID! Businessman know this all to well. Our yes is yes and our no is no! This is one of the
reasons that Satan doesn't want us to understand all this and that we get KNOWLEDGE about the
Kingdom principles OF HAVING A TRUE BOND RELATIONSHIP WITH FATHER GOD, through
the NEW BLOOD BOND COVENANT WITH JESUS CHRIST. Because if we have this and we
know how to remain in it, we will be blessed and we will be able to HUNT HIM AWAY OF AND
FROM OUR RIGHTFUL INHERITANCE. The dominion where we as men have been placed over, to
execute the authority of Father God over that dominion which is placed under our RESPONSIBILITY!
This means also that we men are RESPONSIBLE TO TAKE BACK THE DOMINION of which we
have a RIGHTFUL ownership as our GOD GIVEN INHERITANCE! Which is first of all my Body,
Soul and Spirit, than my Family my woman and my children. Than we go further and take
DOMINION back over the citys, over the Nations and over this world.
Wow, isn't that cool? And you know who has to start running, right? Yes, Satan has to run and than
he has nothing to laugh anymore and than will he becomes the hunted one!
John 12:31 Now is the judgment of this world, now shall the ruler of this world be cast out; it is in the
continuation to be done that (he who has the power and the dominion over this earth, over the kings
and the Nations of this earth) shall be cast out. Magnified
John 14:30 I shall no longer speak many things with you, for the ruler of this world comes, (the world
is still in his possession) and he has nothing in Me. (in my soul he will find nothing to cling to, for she
is perfectly clean and pure)
Matthew 4:8 Again the Devil takes Him to a very high mountain, and he showed to Him all the
kingdoms (nations) of the world and their glory. 9 And he said to Him. I will give all these things ( the
Nations and all its glory, the kings, the people and all the treasures of the earth) to You if falling down,
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You will worship me (you will be SUBMISSIVE to me). 10 Then Jesus said to him, Go, Satan! For it
has been written: "You shall worship the Lord your God (BE SUBMISSIVE), and you shall serve Him
only. (Nothing else besides that) " Deut. 6:13 11 Then the Devil left Him. And behold! Angels came
near and ministered to Him.
Jesus could not say to Satan; hey are you kidding, they do not even belong to you! No, Jesus could
do nothing else as to acknowledge that it was in his power and under his DOMINION. Adam had
given it to him, so! It was all in his power and under his dominion and he could do with it whatsoever
he desired to do with it, because he had those who it actually belonged under his dominion. And they
were not in a position to take it back, moreover the kings of the nations were submissive to his will and
so... he had a firm hold on every nation of this world. Yes it belonged to him. And well I submit to you
that we live on this earth IN ENEMY TERRITORY because of Satan his dictatorship. And therefore is
it vital and from fundamental importance to be IN A COVENANT BOND RELATIONSHIP WITH
FATHER GOD through the NEW BLOOD BOND COVENANT WITH JESUS CHRIST. This gives
Father God the RIGHTEOUS ALLOWANCE to protect us for our enemys. If we do not BREAK or
DEFILE THE BOND COVENANT! Our enemy has only one thing in mind and that is to destroy
humanity.
Surely will he try to battle and to wage war against Gods TRUE BOND SERVANTS, HIS
WARRIORS, to kill and to destroy them! He has to. He can not change his character, he is what he is;
the greatest destroyer on earth, the demolisher, murderer and slaughterer, one who rapes, steals and
cheats and deceives. He is the DESTROYER and the DEFILER of TRUE BOND COVENANTS! This
is why he wills that we as humanity and as bond servants of the Most high God remain in an attitude of
ADULTERY, breaking continually bonds, Marriage bond covenants, the bond covenant with God.
That is what he successfully managed to do with Adam and Eve and he will not stop with doing this.
This is his major STRATEGY! Actually, is it his only one!
He started with destroying and demolishing the BOND COVENANT between Adam and God,
which he worked out through using Eve his woman, so destroying also the BOND COVENANT from
Adam and Eve and the COVENANT they BOTH had with God. And he has not stopped with waging
war against EVERY MAN who has a BOND COVENANT with God or who intends to go INTO A
BOND COVENANT with God. And because of that he knows very well of the nature and the
principles of a BOND COVENANT with God: he is working day and night at it to deceive humanity
and to bring them in ALL KINDS OF FORNICATIONS/ADULTERY! Because he knows that this
makes it for FATHER GOD IMPOSSIBLE to command and to SEND HIS BLESSING OF LIVE
THERE AND THIS ENABLES HIM THAT DEATH WILL REMAIN TO HAVE HIS POWER
AND DOMINION over Father Gods beautifully made creation. He knows that when we find out how
good and how DANGEROUS our BOND RELATIONSHIP is for him and his grip upon our familys;
that he has to run and this very fast. Because he knows who is HIS ENEMY and that is why he doesnt
want us to know that what we do teach you here in these lines.
Thank God that Jesus has come to bring us out of this valley of death! And it doesnt matter if it is
spiritual fornication or bodily fornication; because BOTH have the consequences of it that I AM A
BOND COVENANT BREAKER! The offer to us from Father God is now: TO MAKE A BLOOD
BOND COVENANT WITH HIM which reaches till into the eternal live with Him as it was intended
to be from the start with Adam and Eve. This BLOOD BOND COVENANT is been given to us in
THE GIFT OF GRACE in the Son of the Almighty living God, SEALED and CONSERVED through
the BLOOD of His Son Jesus Christ. And again has it all the CHARACTER-PRINCIPLES of a
MARRIAGE BLOOD BOND COVENANT in the Son of God. He is our man and we are His Bride!
HE WILL NEVER EVER BREAK THIS BLOOD BOND COVENANT. That is something we do, as
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we fornicate away from under His lovely eyes and go astray with other idols, spreading our legs and
let ourselves been penetrated and freely been raped through the philosophy and the Wisdom of this
world; in our lasciviousness and through the horny flesh of our soul.
I end with this: Think about how often that we humans/Christians have made a BLOOD BOND
COVENANT with a woman, a partner, through HAVING INTERCOURSE with that woman and how
we have counted THIS COVENANT as of NO WORTH and think about it how we have broken this
so very often: than you KNOW that we live in a generation of WHORES, PROSTITUTES and of
BOND BREAKERS! AND I DO NOT EVEN SPEAK ABOUT THOSE IN THE WORLD! Without
Gods GREAT GRACE AND FAITHFULNESS we will stay and remain OUR WHOLE LIVE long in
these PERVERTED DESTRUCTIVE CHARACTER ATTITUDES which have the ultimate
consequences that DEATH AND HELL WILL BECOME OUR BOND COVENANT PARTNER and
NOT LIVE!
Deuteronomy 30:15 Behold! I have set before you today life and good, and death and evil, 16 in that I
command you today to love the Lord your God, to walk in His ways, and to keep His commandments
and His statutes and His judgments, so that you may live and multiply. And the Lord your God shall
bless you in the land where you go to possess it. 17 But if you turn away your heart, so that you will
not hear, but shall be drawn away and worship other gods and serve them, 18 I declare to you today
that you shall surely perish; you shall not prolong your days on the land where you pass over Jordan
to go to possess it. 19 I call Heaven and earth to record today against you. I have set before you life
and death, blessing and cursing. Therefore, choose life, so that both you and your seed may live, 20 so
that you may love the Lord your God, and that you may obey His voice, and that you may cling to
Him. For He is your life and the length of your days, so that you may dwell in the land which the Lord
your God swore to your fathers, to Abraham, to Isaac, and to Jacob, to give it to them.
What is your inheritance? Get to know your inheritance and take in your inheritance with the God of
LIVE at your side, you will be more as just a victor. You will be a glorious victor bringing the
Kingdom of God on this earth, in your live in your family in your marriage!

SO CHOOSE TODAY WITH WHOM YOU MAKE A COVENANT


OR WITH WHOM YOU HAVE A COVENANT
WITH LIVE OR DEATH!
CHOOSE NOW TIME IS SHORT!
AND DO NOT FORGET JESUS HAS COME TO

RESTORE EVERY BROKEN COVENANT

Apostle Prophet
Minstrel Johannes John

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