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Penang Hospice
Palliative Care Association of Johore Bahru June 2012
Human sexuality is how people experience and express themselves as sexual beings. Human sexual activity has biological, physical and emotional aspects There are other ways of expressing feelings eg Close friendship love, holding hands, hugging, kissing, caressing People facing a life threatening illness feel they are robbed of past joy & often wish to discuss issues of sexuality with a trusted health professional
Sexuality
Barrier in communication
Medical professional often feel They have no time The dont know how to begin the conversation Knew little about sexuality Dont have the right answer
Age?
Astrocytoma
Young couple . No children Had 3 surgery. He had been with her all the time main carer Last op-became bedbound/semicoma Mother moved in She is my baby and I am her baby We love each other very much. I took care of her and she liked it. Now the disease is advancing so fast. I cannot bear to be without her. I dont know how to care for her now. She wants me to attend to her. She will not vomit or fit when I feed or wash her.
Looking over picture Very breathless and in pain 1st wedding anniversary spent in hospital
I want my wife
Rt. ant. Mediastinal teratoma
Young man-divorced no children. Lives alone Moved in with mother when sick Sisters came from abroad to nurse him Wanted wife to be with him Mother wanted him to marry someone else Brought in a new girl and introduced Angry , annoyed , banged the doors, Refused analgesic Sister informed wife Wife wanted to remarry and renew their marriage vows
MND.
Young man, married 3 times . Wives live in Ipoh sexuality ignored by medical carers. Started to have fantasies and looked for sexual partners amongst maid and carers
70yrs old lady diagnosed as ca lung with mets to liver and spine given 4 month to live. Came home to Penang to die Husband demanding. Does not understand she is in pain Husband will be sued for messing with children in the condo Niece-in law dresses up in an inappropriate manner does not respect the elders Quarrels and upsets sisters family Private nurse inappropriate behavior with husband
Ca. scalp
Married with 2 boys Main carer wife(only 49 years old) Asked if disease is contagious? Can they share the same room? Used less analgesia when wife did the dressing
Ca. Lung
Married with 2 children Wife main carer Didnt want hospital bed Didnt want to stay with in-laws Asked to be brought back home Wanted his wife to be near Wanted his wife to sleep in the same bed Had a night nurse once sent her back. Said he did not need a nurse!
Stoma belt
Stoma studs
Papa had been looking after you for so long . He is tired and need a break I am here now and I will take care of you