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Discipline
Discipline
Training expected to produce a specific character or pattern of behavior, especially training that produces moral or mental improvement (Webster); Disciple one who follows the teaching of another.
Perspective on Discipline
Shows kids what they have done wrong
Shows them how they are responsible
for their actions Teaches them how to solve the problems they have created Leaves their dignity intact
Punishment
Punishment
Defined as imposing external controls by force on children to change their behavior.
Perspective on Punishment
Is adult oriented Requires judgment Imposes power from without Arouses anger and resentment Invites conflict
Why Punish?
The misbehavior often stops
immediately. Children often show remorse during punishment. The parent gets to blow off steam. The parent feels in control. The parent hasn't let the children "get away with it. The parent was raised that way.
We must examine our current practices, let go of the way it was when we were kids and find effective techniques to get the results we want!
Positive Discipline
Ignore minor, irritating behavior
Praise and reward positive behavior Be specific with praise
result from breaking the rules Use consequences consistently and calmly when rules are broken
Discipline Techniques
Anticipate trouble
Give gentle
Be Firm
Stay in control Separation Behavior
important, not achieving perfection! Give praise for effort and hard work and help kids understand that success takes time . Provide consequences that teach and restore.
Albert Schweitzer once said: "There are three ways we teach our children. The first is by example; the second is by example; and the third is by example."