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LEADERSHIP IS ...

Focus on the Situation, Issue or Behavior not the Person Maintain the self-confidence and self esteem of others Maintain constructive relationships Lead by example
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Principle Based Behavior The Basic Principles

Leadership Qualities
Show Emotion; Good Sense of Humor; Spontaneous; Passionate ; Creative; Dependable; Curious; Understanding; Honest; Trust Fully; High Self-esteem; Faith-filled; Persistent; Assume No Blame or Judgment Authentic;

Authentic ... DO NOT BE ASHAMED OF SHOWING EMOTION.

The Achievers

(p114)

Dr Gerald Bell notes that They (Achievers) feel without fear.

Dr Gerald Bell Bell Leadership Institute

Good Sense of Humor ... BE FUNNY

The Leadership Challenge, (p.60)


Researchers have found that appropriate humor can lead to cohesion and bonding among co-workers.
Leadership Challenge, Kouzes and Posner

The Achievers

(p. 115)

Achievers have fun. Their humor fits their moods and situations. Its not artificially buttressed by a reservoir of hostile or off-color jokes, hidden sarcasm or unreal laughter. Rather it is responsive to mans nature or unusual situations.

Passionate ... TELL STORIES.

Giving Recognition
Identify an opportunity for giving recognition
Describe the behavior as immediately and specifically as possible State how the behavior made a difference to you and to the organization
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Spontaneous ... PREPARE A SURPRISE.

Dependable ... OFFER A SMILE.

Curious ... BE LIKE A CHILD.

Leadership Qualities*
Show Emotion; Good Sense of Humor; Spontaneous; Passionate ; Creative; Dependable; Curious; Understanding; Honest; Trust Fully; High Self-esteem; Faith-filled; Persistent; Assume No Blame or Judgment
* Also Child-like Qualities

Authentic;

... PLAY.

... LISTEN.

Leading From the Heart, Kay Gilley


leaders create an environment of respect for people and for the process of involving people. They know it is more important to listen than to talk.

The Leadership Challenge - Kouzes and Posner


Those leaders who take the time to listen and offer support will find it easier to mobilize action in the face of people feeling stuck, stressed, angry and alienated.

Effective Asking and Listening Techniques


Dont allow outside interruptions or distractions Face the person youre coaching Keep your body language open Lean forward Maintain good eye contact Nod Give short verbal responses (uh-huh, I see, etc.)
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Remain silent to allow the other person to respond Ask open-ended questions Limit your use of close-ended questions Paraphrase what the person has said Acknowledge the emotions of the person you are coaching From time to time summarize what you have heard

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Understanding ... PAY ATTENTION .

Primal Leadership Daniel Goleman


Empathy allows a leader to keep people happy by caring for the whole person not just the work tasks for which someone is responsible. A leaders empathy makes an affiliative approach a booster of morale par excellence, lifting the spirits of employees even as they trudge through mundane or repetitive tasks.

Honest ... COACH.

Coaching is one of the primary responsibilities of leadership. Yet many leaders find it very difficult to coach. The reality for managers is that business goals come first by necessity. Even the most attentive managers typically turn to leadership development activities only after their other work is done.
CCL Abstract; The Leadership Imperative: Ensuring Management Accountability for Leadership Development.

Primal Leadership Daniel Goleman


Coaches help people identify their unique strengths and weaknesses, tying those to their personal and career aspirations. They encourage employees to establish long-term development goals, and help them to conceptualize a plan for reaching those goals, while being explicit about where the leaders responsibility lies and what the employees role will be.

Coaching Key Actions:


Identify an opportunity to help someone expand on his/her skills, knowledge and abilities. Confirm that the person is ready for coaching. Ask questions and offer information to clarify the situation. Help the person identify possible actions. Gain agreement on a course of action. Offer your support
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Trustfully ... TRUST FULLY.

High Self Esteem ... BE PARTNER.

Statement to the Prudential Presidents Council, Don MacNaughton,


President, Prudential Insurance Co.

Individuals work best and produce most when they (1) know what their job is; (2) know how it fits into the total picture and overall goals; and (3) are permitted to carry it out with a minimum of interference from anyone else. People tend to work best when they feel they are working for themselves.,

Faithfilled ... SHARE.

Persistent ... GIVE A LITTLE PUSH.

Key Actions for Giving Feedback


Convey your positive intent Describe specifically what you have observed State the impact of the behavior or action Ask the other person to respond Focus the discussion on solutions
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Receiving Feedback ... ASSUME THAT WE WERE WRONG.

Assume No Blame or Judgement ...ELIMINATE GUILT AND DENIAL.

Correcting Performance Problems


Prepare for a focused discussion State the need for improved performance Mutually assess the situation If appropriate, explain any steps you plan to take and why Help the person identify possible actions Agree on a plan and a date to follow-up Offer your support
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... IS GOOD TO HAVE A FRIEND, BUT SOMETIMES LEADERS NEED TO BE ALONE...