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Effective Communication

Ground Rules
Please switch off your mobiles. Make it an interactive session. Brainstorming session

Above all

Lets agree to Disagree

Index

Effective Communication Verbal and Non-Verbal Communication Facial Expression Body Language Listening Skills

Communication
Find Out what your Listener wants Know what you want to say
Control Fear Stop Talking and Listen Think before you talk Believe in your message Repeat Major Points Find Out what your Listener wants

Communication: A Definition
Communication is the process of exchanging information by the use of words, letters, symbols, or nonverbal behavior.

Improved stakeholder response

Quicker problem solving

Stronger decision making

Enhanced professional image

Effective Communication

Increased productivity

Clearer promotional materials

Stronger business relationships

Steadier work flow

Types of communication

Verbal

Non - Verbal

Steps in the Communication Process Sender Message Channel Receiver Feedback

Basics of Effective Communication

It matters not so much what you say as it does how you say it. Your communication style is a SET of various behaviors and methods of relaying information that impact all facets of life.

Basics of Effective Communication

It matters not so much what you say as it does how you say it. Your communication style is a SET of various behaviors and methods of relaying information that impact all facets of life.

Basics of Effective Communication

Learning all communication styles is important in order to avoid communicating in less effective ways and in order to recognize those styles in others so as to be able to deal with them. People are not difficult. They only seem difficult to the extent that we do not have the skills to deal with what they bring to the table. It is our lack of knowledge that makes the situation difficult.

Passive, Aggressive, and Assertive

Communication

Understanding Verbal Communication Styles

Passive Communication
Allowing our own rights to be violated by failing to express our honest feelings. The goal of being a passive communicator is to avoid conflict no matter what. Little risk involved very safe. Little eye contact, often defers to others opinions, usually quiet tone, may suddenly explode after being passive too long.

Examples of Passive Communication


I dont know. Whatever you think. You have more experience than I. You decide. Ill go with whatever the group decides. I dont care. It doesnt matter to me. Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes. . . NO!

Aggressive Communication
Protecting ones own rights at the expense of others rights no exceptions. The goal of the aggressor is to win at all costs; to be right. Does not consider actions a risk because this person thinks they will always get their way. It is risky in terms of relationships Eye contact is angry and intimidating; lots of energy; loud and belittling; never defers to others, or at least does not admit to; manipulative and controlling. Often uses violence or verbal abuse.

Examples of Aggressive Communication

I dont know why you cant see that this is the right way to do it. Its going to be my way or not at all. Youre just stupid if you think that will work. Who cares what you feel. Were talking about making things work here.

Assertive Communication
Protecting your own rights without violating the rights of others. The goal of the assertive person is to communicate with respect and to understand each other; to find a solution to the problem. Takes a risk with others in the short run, but in the long run relationships are much stronger. Eye contact maintained; listens and validates others; confident and strong, yet also flexible; objective and unemotional; presents wishes clearly and respectfully.

Examples of Assertive Communication


So what youre saying is. . . . I can see that this is important to you, and it is also important to me. Perhaps we can talk more respectfully and try to solve the problem. I think. . . I feel. . . I believe that. . . . I would appreciate it if you. . . Let me understand your thoughts on this

Which is the Best Style?


All styles have their proper place and use. Assertive communication is the healthiest.
Boundaries of all parties are respected. Easier to problem-solve; fewer emotional outbursts. It requires skills and a philosophy change, as well as lots of practice and hard work. When both parties do it, no one is hurt in any way and all parties win on some level.

NON-VERBAL COMMUNICATION
Nonverbal Communication in Organizations

NON-VERBAL COMMUNICATION
The study of non-verbal communication examines how messages are communicated through physical behaviour, vocal cues and spatial relationships.

The total impact of a message breaks down like this: 7 percent verbal (words)
Hello!!

38 percent vocal (volume, pitch, rhythm, etc)


55 percent body movements (mostly facial expressions)

Nonverbal Communication in Organizations


Environment Body placement Posture Gestures Facial expressions and movement Clothing, dress, appearance

Effective communication is the combined harmony of verbal and nonverbal actions.

Nonverbal communication consists of body movement, facial expressions and eye movement.

Major areas of nonverbal behaviors are: Eye contact Facial expressions Gestures

Posture and body orientation

Proximity

Para linguistics

EYE CONTACT

EYE CONTACT
The eyes can give clues to a persons thoughts. When someone is excited, his pupils dilate to four times the normal size. An angry or negative mood causes the pupils to contract.

EYE CONTACT
Good eye contact helps the audience develop the interest in the speaker.

Eye-contact helps regulate the flow of communication and reflects interest in others.

EYE CONTACT
Direct eye-contact conveys interest, warmth, credibility and concern. Shifty eyes suggest dishonesty.

Downward gaze may be a sign of submissiveness or inferiority.

FACIAL EXPRESSIONS

FACIAL EXPRESSIONS
You have 80 muscles in the face that can create more than 7,000 facial expressions. The facial muscles produce the varying facial expressions that convey information about emotion, mood, and ideas. Emotional expressions are one primary result of activity by the facial muscles.

FACIAL EXPRESSIONS
There are six categories of facial expressions: Happiness Sadness Anger Disgust Surprise Fear

FACIAL EXPRESSIONS
HAPPINESS

Whoever is happy will make others happy too. -Mark Twain

FACIAL EXPRESSIONS
SADNESS

Sadness dulls the heart more than the grossest sin


-Author Unknown

FACIAL EXPRESSIONS
ANGER

Anger is one letter short of danger Author Unknown

FACIAL EXPRESSIONS
DISGUST A disgusting expression on the face is considered negative and should be avoided in formal gatherings.

FACIAL EXPRESSIONS
SURPRISE

The eye-brows and the eyes are most affected in an expression of surprise.

FACIAL EXPRESSIONS
FEAR

There is nothing to fear, but fear itself.

GESTURES

Recognizing attitudes conveyed through Body Language Right postures to adopt at the Work Place and postures to avoid Pick up non-verbal signals from a customers body language Facial expressions can enhance or detract verbal communication Setting standards of Body Language to drive Customer Delight at the Public Office

GESTURES
Gestures communicate as effectively as words, sometimes even better. Gestures support the verbal communication.

They sometimes detract from what you say.

GESTURES
There are some negative gestures which should be avoided:
Pointing at people- It is perceived as accusatory. Fiddling with your items-It gives the impression that you are nervous. Dragging the feet-It implies lethargy. Head Down- It suggests timidity.

GESTURES
Drooping shoulders- It implies weariness and lethargy. Weak handshake-It implies meek and ineffectual personality. Shifty eyes- It suggests nervousness. Arms crossed on the chest- It is a defensive gesture.

GESTURES
Hands in pockets- Shows disrespect, and that you have something to hide. Covering your mouth- It suggests you are lying. Shaking feet or legs- It shows indifference and disinterest.

Avoid these hand gestures

Use these hand gestures

POSTURE AND BODY ORIENTATION

POSTURE
Body posture can be open or closed.

Interested people pay attention and lean forward.


Leaning backwards demonstrates aloofness or rejection.

POSTURE
A head held straight up signals a neutral attitude.

A head down is negative and judgmental. A head tilted to the side indicates interest.

POSTURE
Some negative postures should be avoided: Rigid Body Posture-Anxious/ Uptight Hunched Shoulders Lacks interest/ Feeling inferior Crossed Arms-Protecting the body/ Negative Thoughts

What impression do the following people give you?

What impression do the following people give you?

PROXIMITY

Proximity is the distance people maintain between themselves while talking.

PROXIMITY

DISTANCE ZONES Intimate Zone- No more than18 inches apart (mother and baby) Personal Distance-18 inches to 4 feet. (Casual and personal conversations). Social Distance-4-12 feet (impersonal, business, social gatherings) Public Distance-More than 12 feet( Public speaking)

PROXIMITY
Space/Distance as an indicator of intimacy-The more we get to know each other the more we are permitted into each other's personal space Space/Distance as an indicator of status- Executives, presidents of colleges, government officials have large offices with big space... secretaries have small space

PARALINGUISTICS
Para linguistics are what accompany your words to make up for its true meaning.
Paralanguage refers to the vocal aspect of communication.

PARALINGUISTICS
Components of Para linguistics are:
Rate of speed- When a speaker speaks too fast, he is seen as more competent. Pitch-Pitch should be changed in accordance with the context of spoken words.

PARALINGUISTICS
Volume- It refers to loudly we speak.Loud people are perceived as aggressive or over-bearing. Soft-spoken voices are perceived as timid or polite. Fillers- Words like umhh ahaaa are used to gather thoughts.

Remember
Its Fun to be Good !

Let Em Hear you are Listening

Listening

TWO
AND

ONE

Nature has intended us to LISTEN twice as much as we speak!

Decide to be a better listener .

Remember - hearing is only physical , listening is intellectual.

There are four basic components to effective listening


listening with empathy listening with openness listening with awareness listening actively

Listening with Empathy


Sometimes we do not listen to others because we are not interested in what the other person is saying we do not understand what the other person is saying we do not agree with the other person

Listening with Empathy

To listen with empathy, try to identify what needs the other person is trying to meet Ask yourself these questions:

What need is this persons emotion(s) coming from?


What danger is the person experiencing? What is he or she asking for?

Listening with Empathy

Sometimes we do not listen because we do not want to hear what is being said
we feel threatened by the content we fear being wrong we cannot believe that an unlikable person has something to say that is worth considering

Listening with Openness

To listen with openness, imagine you are a detective trying to get all the facts. You are trying to find the truth.
View the information from the perspective of the other person. Consider the other persons background, culture, history, etc.

Listening with Awareness There are two components to listening with awareness: being aware of conflicts between what is being said and your own knowledge base being aware of conflicts between the content of the message and the body language of the speaker (tone, voice inflections, stance, etc.) Recognizing that conflicts can be a tool for making the verbalized message more accurate.

Active Listening

Active listening means to be verbally involved with the communication. Active listening helps us to keep our minds focused on the communication. The three elements of active listening are paraphrasing clarifying feedback

More types of Listening


Informative Listening Relationship Listening Appreciative Listening Critical Listening Discriminative Listening

Barriers to listening
Hearing what you want to hear called selective listening Thinking of what you are going to say next Distractions such as co-workers, noise, side conversations etc. Thinking about the previous customer call Worrying about the next customer call or work in general Stress Getting involved emotionally (instead of logically) Holding preconceived ideas about the callers inquiry Thinking about personal issues Boredom Making assumptions rather than asking questions

Remember
Its Fun to be Good !

Thank You

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