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The word bully used to mean the total opposite of what it means now. Five hundred years ago, it meant friend, family member or sweetheart. The root of the word comes from the Dutch boel, meaning lover or brother.
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Each and every person has the right to feel safe in her/his life and good about him/ herself.
A situation in which one or more students ( the bullies) single out a child ( the victim) and engage in behaviors, intended to harm that child (Wright, 2003) Bullying is when a stronger more powerful person hurts or frightens a smaller or a weaker person deliberately (on purpose) and repeatedly (Beane, 1999)
A conscious, willful and deliberate hostile activity intended to harm, induce fear through the threat of further aggression and create terror ( Coloroso, 2006)
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Verbal Bullying : name calling, taunting, cruel criticism, abusive phone calls, extortion of money, etc Physical Bullying: kicking, pushing, punching, slapping, hitting, etc. Relational/Emotional Bullying : ignoring, isolating, excluding, spread rumor, etc.
C. Who is a Bully?
8. The kid may be a minority. 9. The kid may have a name that is not ordinary, etc.
If the kid get anxious or upset easily. If the kid usually is alone and doesn't have many friends. If the kid doesn't have a lot of confidence and doesn't stand up for him/herself.
Physical bullying: broken bones, broken teeth, bruises, scratches, cuts etc. Verbal : afraid, alienated, angry, ashamed, depressed, hurt, sad, stupid, ugly, useless Relational bullying: deny others company, friendship and social interaction, feel incompetent and unattractive, stomachaches, nightmares
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Talk to an adult!
Dont bring expensive things or money to school. Label your belongings with permanent marker in case they get stolen. Avoid unsupervised areas. Sit near the bus driver on the bus or walk with a teacher to class.
Act confident. Hold your head up, stand up strait, and make eye contact. Dont walk alone, travel with at least one other person. Avoid places where bullying happens.
What is a bystander?
A witness
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The bully is someone others look up to and want to hang out with. They want to side with the bully because to do that makes them feel strong.
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Theyre entertained by the bullying. They dont think speaking up will help.
Theyre afraid that if they say something, the bully will turn on them.
Bullying will stop in under 10 seconds when peers (other children) intervene nearly 60% of the time.
85% of bullying takes place with bystanders present. In playground observations, peers intervened and stopped bullying in more instances than adults did.
Listen to the report from the victim, the witnesses or parents Pursue the victim to tell the truth Talk to the perpetrator Talk to the witnesses/ bystander Confront the victim, witnesses and the perpetrator about what happen. Communicate with the victims parents by phone or face to face Communicate with the perpetrator's parents. Give consequence ( behavior contract) based on the schools rules
Source : http://www.bullyfree.com/resources/teachers.php)
Hang anti-bullying posters Talk to your students about bullying (set the tone on the first day of
class) Make anti-bullying part of one of your lessons Give the students a list of anti-bullying rules that you can also hang somewhere in the classroom Have the students sign an anti-bullying class pledge on a banner and hang that banner in the classroom Train students on how to deal with bullying (ex: scenarios) Do activities that promote class unity Have an anonymous notes-to-the-teacher box Do not allow students to pick their own groups (for group work) Get students involved in an anti-bullying campaign Keep your eyes and ears open at all times! What else can be done?
Source: http://www.bullyfree.com/resources/teachers.php
Get help, do not look on, do something! Dont just stand there, do something! Say no to bullying!
groups/teams Have assigned seating (and change seating plan if you see a problem arise) Be consistent! Take every students complaint seriously Have meetings with students to discuss bullying issues Get parents involved! Be approachable Create an open and safe environment Provide students ways to deal with bullying Display the Kids Help Phone number in your classroom (1-800-668-6868) Others?
A lot of people are afraid to tell the truth, to say no. That's where toughness comes into play. Toughness is not being a bully. It's having backbone. - Robert Kiyosaki
Resources:
1. http://www.bullyfree.com/resources/teache
rs.php 2. http://www.bullyfree.com/resources/teache rs.php 3. Les Parsons, Bullied Teacher Bullied Student, Grasindo: Jakarta, 2009. 4. Tim Yayasan SEJIWA, Bullying, Gramedia: Jakarta, 2008.
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