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Kavita Lal
Course Outcomes
Customer Issues Communicate clearly and precisely Share our views and concerns at the right time Understand their concerns and move towards a workable compromise Participate effectively in virtual as well as face to face meetings Paraphrase our understanding of the situation during the conversation Ask the right questions at the right time and summarize the action items
What is Communication?
Communication
Communication is a process by which information is exchanged between individuals through a common system of symbols, signs or behaviors Communication is a two way process Business professionals spend about 70% to 85% of their work time in communication, be it speaking, listening, writing or reading
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Time Pressure in all Business Communication Internal Frameworks of understanding information Internal filters of missing out and capturing information Importance of Language in which we think and speak Assumptions made when we are listening and collecting information Perceptions
Your Style
Fill up the questionnaire with complete honesty Give your first response and do not deliberate too much on any particular question Give your responses considering the way you behave and not the way you should behave Time allotted: 10 minutes
Your Style
6. I feel guilty if I leave on time for a valid reason and other people are still working.______ 7. I can be sarcastic.____________________________________________________ 8. I think my way of doing things is better than other people.___________________________________________________________ _ 9. If someone takes advantage of me, I find a way of evening the score.____________________________________________________________ __ 10. I feel I have the right to say no to other peoples request and find a way of making the score even.____________________________________________________________ ___ 11. If I am in a large meeting, I find myself not speaking up._____________________
Your Style
12. I like to be in control of a situation_______________________________________
15. If I am unsure of a task that I have been given I find it uncomfortable to ask for help._______________________________________________________ ________
16. I talk about other people behind their backs.______________________________________________________ ______
Your Style
17. When I have to deal with someone in authority, I find it difficult to look them directly in the eye.________________________________________________________ _______ 18. I am a good listener and think that people listen attentively to what I have to say.________________________________________________________ _______
19. Rather than confronting someone on an issue, I would rather drop hints that I am not happy._____________________________________________________ ____
20. I am not afraid to be direct with someone even if they think I am being rude._______________________________________________________ _______
Your Style
Self Assessment
Transfer the scores of each of the statements to the boxes given below and then total each of the columns downwards.
Assertive Q1
Passive Q3
Passive Aggressive Q4
Aggressive Q2
Q5
Q10 Q14 Q18 total
Q6
Q11 Q15 Q17 total
Q7
Q9 Q16 Q19 total
Q8
Q12 Q13 Q20 total
Your Style: Exercise Debrief Aggressive Communication Style Tend to offend others Highly opinionated Passive Communication Style Submissive Hesitant to voice their opinions Avoid conflicts
Not scared to ask why Strike a workable compromise and understand the other person
The 3 As Acknowledge Emotions Accept Facts Assure for solutions and come up to a Workable Compromise
1)
Push Statements:
1) Stating Expectations______________________________________________________ 2) Stating Views/opinions stated with a reason____________________________________ 3) Offering incentives and stating Consequences__________________________________ 4) Disclosing Feelings_______________________________________________________
2)
Pull Statements:
1) Active Listening________________________________________________________ 2) Asking open questions to increase Understanding______________________________ 3) Building common ground of agreement______________________________________ 4) Being open in order to help in the situation___________________________________
I Statements
Three parts of an I Statement:
Description of specific behavior Description of your specific feelings Description of the tangible effects on you of the specific
behavior
Example: When you ask me to take on another job with a tight deadline (Specific behavior) I feel pressured (your Specific Feeling) because I dont have the adequate time to do the new job and carry out the other work that I have to do. (tangible effects on you)
Intonation
Monotonous ---------------------------------- Varied
Pitch
Unclear ----------------------------------------- Clear High ---------------------------------------------- Low
Speed
Slow -------------------------------------------- Fast
Aggressive
Superior/inferior but desperate o hide it.
Fists on the waist Arms folded across the chest Hands clenched tightly Fist thumping and finger pointing Hand crunching handshakes or over hard slaps on the back. Trying to be physically higher Upright with head in the air Leaning forward to emphasize my point.
Assertive
Having equal rights with every one
Open hand movements Inviting to speak Arms comfortably by sides or arms folded loosely
Passive
Inferior- not as important as others
Hugging the body Hands are tightly clasped Wringing or covering hand with mouth.
How am I standing
Round shouldered head down Crest cramped Turning away from others Staying at a lower level.
Aggressive
Feet firmly apart. Sitting stiffly upright Foot tapping-swinging When moving striding
impatiently
Assertive
Feet about shoulder width apart Weight equally distributed on both feet Standing still
Passive
Shifting weight from one foot to the other Rolling one foot onto its side Stepping back, shrugging, shuffling Standing with weight
on one foot
Where am I looking
Looking through or past a person Glaringstaring a hard gaze Narrowing of the eyesunblinking Cold-sarcastic Very loud. Sharp Threatening Abrupt Clipped
Looking directly at same level Gentle and relaxed look Looking away often yet coming to back to look at the person Steady-firm-low pitched Medium volume Clear speech Warm tones
Looking down and away Avoiding eye contact Quick furtive glances
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Thank You!
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