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M.L.PANDIA
“Communication is the
single most important
leadership skill.”
Lin Bothwell
The Art of Leadership
Leadership is Enacted
Through Communication
Communication Oriented
Evaluator
Solution-Seeker
Show interest.
Be understanding of the other person and use words such as “I see” or
“I understand” to confirm your understanding.
If there is a problem, listen for
the cause and single it out. Help person associate problem
with the cause. Encourage the speaker to develop ability
and desire to solve his or her own problem.
Learn to be silent.
Restate what the speaker has said to let him or her
know you are listening.
End the conversation by repeating and confirming what has
been discussed.
Concentrate intently on the speaker.
Practice reinforcing nonverbal behaviors, such as leaning forward,
establishing and maintaining eye contact, etc.
Be alert and attentive.
Imagine yourself in this person’s place.
Good Listening
Is An Active Skill
Observing – what one does
Hearing – what one says and how
one says it
Feeling – how one is feeling
Sensing – what one has not said, but
wishes to or means to say
Listening Skills
1. Have a purpose or reason for listening.
2. Ask questions.
3. Provide speaker with verbal and nonverbal feedback
Um..
I/You Messages
YOU
I
Change the following You messages to a more positive I message.
1. You never call me. 1. I wish you would call me more often.
2. You don’t listen to me! 2. Sometimes I feel I am not being listened to.
3. Everyone here hates me! 3. I sometimes feel people dislike me.
4. That’s a dumb idea. 4. Maybe we could try a different idea.
5. No one does anything here. 5. Let’s everyone work hard together.
6. You annoy me, go away! 6. I need some time to myself right now.
7. Leave me alone! 7. I feel that you don’t have time for me
anymore. Is something wrong?
8. You lied to me. 8. I don’t think that I was told the complete truth.
I didn’t know you were coming.
9. Who invited you! 9.
10. You did a horrible job. 10. I think you can do a little better.
11. You make me so mad. 11. I get angry at you sometimes when you…
12. You are so inconsiderate! 12. Sometimes I think you don’t consider
how I feel.
Discussion Leadership
Qualities of the Leader
Interest in the topic
Able to balance the viewpoints
The Story
A business person was about to lock up the jewelry store when a man holding a bag pushed his
way in. He demanded that one of the jewelry cases be opened. The owner unlocked the jewelry
case, and its contest were removed. A dog appeared and began barking. The man ran away.
True or False
1. The man pushed his way in before the owner locked the door.