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PROCESS
ACTIVE LISTENING
INSTRUCTOR:
PROF.Dr. Azize ERGENEL
WHAT IS LISTENING?
If
BUT LISTENING
DEFINITION OF LISTENING
Listening
vs. Hearing
Hearing- physical process; natural; passive
Listening- physical & mental process;
active; learned process; a skill
Listening is hard!
You must choose to participate in the
process of listening.
1)Attitude
Maintain a constructive Attitude
2)Attention
Empathy
What is it:
reflection of content and feeling at a
deeper level
Purpose:
To try and get an understanding of what
may be deeper feelings
Focuses on Person
her
Empathizing
Empathizing does not mean you need
to agree with your partner
Empathizing does not mean you need
to give in to your partner
Empathizing means you do not dismiss
what your partner says as ridiculous
or silly.
Listening is needed
everywhere
Negotiation
Emotional
skills
intelligence
heard
Hearing
Understanding
Judging
TYPES OF LISTENING
1. Inactive listening.
2. Selective listening.
3. Active listening
4. Reflective Listening
Active Listening
WHAT IS ACTIVE
LISTENING?
WHY LISTEN
ACTIVELY?
BENEFITS OF ACTIVE
LISTENING
EXTERNAL BARRIERS
INTERNAL BARRIERS
Internal
Barriers Within
The Listener
Internal
Barriers Within
The Speaker
External Barriers
noises
clutter
other interruptions
Comparing
Personal Experience
Automatic Talking
Mind-Reading
Judging
Day Dreaming
Perceptual Errors
Appropriate
Organizational Crises
Conflict situations
Giving and receiving
feedback
Brainstorming, problem
solving
Seeking peers
cooperation
Step 1: Listen
Focus on Speaker
Dont
Emotions -- Implications
Look At Speaker
Use Verbal & Non-Verbal Encouragers
1 ) Encouragement
I see
Right
Uh huh
Okay
Sure
Yeah
Yes
Wow
Really?
2)Non-Verbal Behavior
Non-Verbal Active Listening Techniques:
Maintaining appropriate eye contact
with the interviewee.
Occasionally nodding affirmatively to
display understanding and interest.
Using expectant pauses to indicate to
the interviewee that more is expected
touch
sound
smell
timing and speed of delivery of speech
proximity
posture
dress
eye contact
gestures
facial expressions
use of silence
2.Question
3 Purposes
Demonstrates
Types of Questions
1) YES/NO QUESTIONS
2) OPEN-ENDED QUESTIONS
3)PROBING OR FOLLOW-UP
QUESTIONS
4) LEADING QUESTIONS
1)YES/NO QUESTIONS(Closed
questions)
This
2)OPEN-ENDED QUESTIONS:
Observation: "What happened?"
Meaning: "What do you mean?"
Affect: "How do you feel?"
Motive: "What do you want?"
Action: "What will you do?"
3)PROBING/FOLLOW-UP
QUESTIONS
4)LEADING QUESTIONS
Step 3: Reflect-Paraphrase
In
1. REFLECTING
Reflect What Is Said (In your words)
Reflect Feelings
REFLECTING FEELINGS
2.REFRAMING
REFRAMING(cont.)
3.PARAPHASING
PARAPHRASE
the
speaker
to
acknowledge the story and capture
the content.
EXAMPLE: Lets see if I got this right.
Youre upset because you think were
going off in the wrong direction and you
want to clarify our objective before we
write this assignment. Is that right
Problem
Solving
Acknowledge
FE
EL
IN
G
Problem
Solving Might
Not Work In the
Face of Strong
Feelings
FE
EL
IN
GS
4. ACKNOWLEDING
Problem
Solving
5.SUMMARIZE
Step 4: Agree
Get Speakers Consent to Your
Reframing
Speaker Has Been Heard and Knows It!
Solution Is Near!
ACTIVE LISTENERS
1. Be there
2. Listen carefully to the person
3. Accept the person and his/her
feelings
4. Stay with the other person's point of
view without becoming that person
5. Trust the person enough to keep out
of it
ACTIVE LISTENING
&NEGOTIATION
Active listening is important for
identifying and creating negotiating
goals, because listening helps to orient
the negotiator to the environment.
50% of time.
CONCLUSION
Listening is a critical
communication skill
for managers and consultants, as well as
for all of us in our personal lives.
You can't negotiate effectively until you
understand what the other person wants.
Active listening, is crucial to achieving
your ultimate communication objectives.
Active listening is a skill that, like other
communication skills, must be developed .
By practicing you can develop these skills.