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What is BULLYING?

Bullying is a form of aggressive


behavior that is intentional, hurtful,
and repeated. The person who
bullies has more power than the
person who is targeted.

The mistreatment is intentional.

The mistreatment is hurtful (physically


or psychologically).

The mistreatment occurs more than


once.

There is an imbalance of power


(physical, psychological, or social).

The target has difficulty


himself of herself.

defending

Does it have to be a part of


growing up?

No

Each and every person has the right to feel safe in your
life and good about yourself.

All bullies have one thing in


common:

Something or someone is making them feel insecure.


~Therefore they bully to make themselves feel better.

They

could have something going on in their family.

They

might not feel like they are getting enough attention


from parents or teachers.
They

might have watched their parents or older siblings get


their way by being angry and pushy.
Maybe
They

they are also bullied.

might be spoiled by their parents.

Possible reasons for being a


Target.
The

bully or the target are either


smaller or bigger than most kids
their age.
The target may be a minority.
May have a disability.
Maybe you have a name that is
not ordinary.

Possible reasons for being a


Target.

If you get anxious or upset easily.

If you usually are alone and don't have many friends.

If you don't have a lot of confidence and don't stand up


for yourself.

Title:

Anti-Bullying Act of 2013


(Republic Act 10627)

Coverage: Elementary and Secondary


Schools
Who can commit: one or group of students
Definition:
A severe or repeated use of physical act
or gesture, written or electronic expression
or combination thereof resulting to:
Fear, physical, emotional harm, damage
to property, creation of hostile
environment and infringement of rights of
another student.
Disruption of education process or

Physical bullying
Verbal and written bullying
Relational (or social) bullying
Cyberbullying

Hitting, slapping, elbowing, shoving,


kicking, pinching, or restraining.
They hurt my little brother, too. He was punched
in the face and given a bloody nose. When he told
the bus driver and showed him his nose, nothing
was done.

Taking, stealing, damaging, or


defacing a persons belongings or
property
Sexual harassment

Name-calling
Making insulting, racist, or rude
remarks
Repeated teasing
Harassment, threats, and intimidation
Mean or intimidating notes
Mean or intimidating graffiti
Whispering behind someones back

The subtle form of bullying involves


destroying or manipulating relationships
(such as turning someones best friend
against him or her). It can mean:
Destroying

status within a peer group


Destroying reputations
Humiliating and embarrassing someone
Gossiping or spreading malicious rumors
or lies

Exclusion (social rejection or isolation)


Stealing a boyfriend or girlfriend to hurt
someone
Negative body language (glaring, dirty
looks, turning your back to someone)
Threatening gestures
Passing mean notes
Circulating hate petitions (promising to
hate someone)

Increasingly prevalent, this type of bullying


can involve:
Spreading gossip, rumors, and lies
electronically
Sending or posting defamatory or
embarrassing photographs and video
recordings
Sending insulting or threatening emails
Sending malicious code

Sending pornography and other junk


emails and instant messages (IMs)
Impersonating someone online to make
them look bad
Sending or posting cruel jokes
electronically
Sending or posting malicious gossip
electronically
Creating a website designed to humiliate
and embarrass someone

Bullying occurs in all grades,


beginning as early as three or four
years of age. It generally peaks in
middle school or junior high.

Bathrooms
Hallways
Stairwells
Playgrounds
Gym and locker rooms
Buses (on the bus and waiting for the
bus)

Cafeteria
Library
Parking lots
Common areas or lobbies
Between buildings
Classrooms

No adult supervision
Inadequate or poor adult supervision
Lack of structure
Few or no anti-bullying rules

Bullying is more likely to occur where teachers


and students accept it or are indifferent to it.

GOAL:
STOP AND PREVENT
BULLYING

Kids who bully


Kids who are bullied
Kids who witness bullying

Who is involved in Bullying?


Bully
The Bystander is the
most influential person in
the triad

Bullying
Triangle

Victim

Bystander

A witness to bullying who does nothing


about it is a bystander.
A witness to bullying who tries to help the
target in some way is an ally.
Research shows that allies are a key to
stopping and preventing bullying

Reasons
The

bully is someone others


look up to and want to hang
out with.

They

want to side with the


bully because to do that
makes them feel strong.

Reasons
Theyre

entertained by
the bullying.
They dont think
speaking up will help.
Theyre afraid that if
they say something, the
bully will turn on them.

Remember the golden rule:


Treat

others the way


you want to be treated.
Stand up for someone
when he or she needs it,
and when you need it,
someone will stand up
for you.

Think About It!!!

Do you ever..

Laugh when a classmate makes a mistake?

Make fun of people in a mean way?

Join in when someone is being teased?

Gossip or Spread Rumors?

Bullying: What Can You Do?


Let

someone know what is happening!!!


Its okay to ask for help
Being bullied is not your fault!!
Who????
Parents, Teachers, Advisor, Principal, Vice
Principal

Put Yourself in Someone Elses Shoes


If you were being bullied

How would you feel?


What would you do?

Everyone Can Help Out!!!

Good Citizens Do The Right Thing!

Dont join in and Refuse to watch


Say something- Hey dont do that to him.
Report Bullying to an adult
Invite the person being bullied to join your group
Be a friend to a person being bullied
Distract the bully so that he or she stops

Bullying: How Not to be a Victim


1. Act and look CONFIDENT

Bullies go after those who appear weak


Bullies repeat actions to those who they think they can

2. If someone is picking on you dont show them it hurts

It is okay to feel sad or hurt over what a bully says but try
not to show them
Express your feelings to your parents, friends and people
you trust!!!

Strategies
How can I help myself if I am getting bullied?
Ignore what the bully or bullies say
Agree with what they say- Bullies dont get
satisfaction if they dont get a negative
reaction
Make a quick joke or a funny response
Change the subject

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