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Conversation
Rosanna Young, AS, BS
Rosanna.young@ucsf.edu
opposing
views open-
Reality minded
differen views or
t opinions
The Corporate Nod
My idea is brilliant,
absolutely the
BEST!!! He's
crazy!
No !!
way
we
can do
Time to
that!! dust off
my
resume
Taking Stock
CLEAR
PROPOSAL
CONCISE
2. Check for Understanding
BUT AND
No More But
I know you want more time to complete the project,
but the deadline is looming. You want me to help
out in Boston, but I only have a small window in
which to make some critical things happen in
Seattle. I'd like to help you, but I have no easy
choices right now. You seem stressed, but I expect
you to deliver this project on time with minimal
involvement on my part.
No More But
I know you want more time to complete the project,
and the deadline is looming. You want me to help
out in Boston, and I only have a small window in
which to make some critical things happen in
Seattle. I'd like to help you,andI have no easy
choices right now. You seem stressed,andI expect
you to deliver this project on time with minimal
involvement on my part.
Mineral Rights
Organization's values:
"What values do we stand for, and are there gaps between
these values and how we actually behave?"
Values = behaviors
Psycho-neuro-immunology
At a personal level:
weak Value Behavior your body knows
Depending on duration and severity, immune system will weaken, leaving you increasingly
vulnerable to illness
You Get What You Tolerate
When we are real with ourselves and others, the change occurs
before the conversations has ended.
Doubting & Conflicting Yourself
You must answer the right questions for yourself first, and
then for the other individuals
There are certain individuals who in the process of
resolving their own inner conflicts, become paradigms for
broader groups
Questions?
References
Scott, S. (2002).Fierce conversations: Achieving success
at work & in life, one conversation at a time. New York,
N.Y: Viking.