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• Pain is a messenger
that comes to tell me there is
something I need to learn
Brahmakumari
http://Signs-of-stress.com/images/StressSymptoms.gif
Subtle signs - Mind
1. Worry about what people think
• Information or counseling on
– self talk
– irrational beliefs
– Reinterpretation
Subtle signs - Body
• Insufficient sleep
• Frequent colds, sickness
• Negative effects from caffeine, nicotine, alcohol, etc.
• Uncomfortable chair, poor posture, excessive time
hunched over book or computer.
• Eye Strain (wrong glasses, poor lighting, computer
screen overload)
• Inadequate nutrition, missed meals, reliance on junk
food
• Lack of exercise
• Aversive environment
For external stressors
• Then try:
- Exercise regularly
- Choose healthy foods
- Change your environment (lighting,
space, etc.)
- Reduce or eliminate caffeine, nicotine
and alcohol intake
- Get enough sleep
A balanced way….
BEHAVIOURAL
Smoking / alcohol addiction, nail/biting, not mixing,
reckless driving, eating more or less, sleep more or
less, work-alcoholism or absenteeism
Brahmakumari
What to do then??
DETACHMENT
FILTERING
CONTROLLING
NOT ABSORBING
STABILIZING
HUMOUR
Brahmakumari
Otherwise
becomes in effective
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The proved and effective
steps that you can take to
alleviate stress
Self awareness
• BECOME AWARE of your stressors and
emotional and physical reactions
– Can you change your stressors by avoiding or
eliminating them?
www.reslife.net/assets/docs/stress_management.ppt
Reduce intensity of
emotions
• No “ifs and buts”
• Moderate or minimize overreactions
– Are you expecting to please everyone?
– Are you viewing things as absolutely
critical and urgent?
– Work at adopting moderate views
www.reslife.net/assets/docs/stress_management.ppt
Moderate Physical
responses
• Slow, deep breathing
www.reslife.net/assets/docs/stress_management.ppt
Bonds….bonds and bonds
1. Develop mutually supportive
friendships/relationships
4. Be a friend to yourself
Even these have a
significant effect
Improve air quality
Ban smoking
Open windows
Have plants in the room
Work by a window
full spectrum bulbs in your desk lamp
www.reslife.net/assets/docs/stress_
management.ppt
These have worked for
me…..
• Pleasant Assertiveness
• Personal space
• Focus your attention on your breathing
• Visualize
• Establish some feeling of ownership
• by bringing personal objects (small
plants or photographs of loved-ones)
Three Idiots
• Have a passion
• Lose Fear
• Stay in the present
Brahmakumari
Take home messages
• A - Attitude
• B - Be yourself
• C – Cope with negativity
• D - Deny the excesses
• E - Empathy
• F - Forgive
Stress Busters
• G – Gain from past
• H – Heal the wounds
• I - Insight
• J - Jocular
• K – Know your limitations
• L- Love your self
Stress Busters
• M – Manage time
• N – NO (ability to say no and not feel guilty)
• O – Open to different views
• P – Praise others
• Q – Quest for happiness
• R – Resistance to energy guzzlers (downers)
• worry, guilt and fear
• S - Satisfaction
Stress Busters
• T – Temper control
• U – Understand the situation
• V – Voila (be carefree)
• W – Worry…….Less
• X- Xpress!!
• Y – Young at heart
• Z – Zeal and zest
Hakuna Matata …..?!
Preempt stress
Key points
Ways to relax your mind
• Write - find better ways to cope
• Let your feelings out - Talk, laugh, cry, and
express anger when you need to
• Do something you enjoy
– A hobby, such as gardening
– A creative activity, such as writing, crafts, or art
– Playing with and caring for pets
– Volunteer work
Actionable points………
• Focus on the present
– Meditation
– guided imagery
• Techniques to relax
– Breathing exercises
– muscle relaxation, and
– yoga, tai chi and qi gong
Breathing exercises
• Have you ever noticed how you breathe
when you feel relaxed?
– The next time you are relaxed, take a moment
to notice how your body feels.
– how do you breathe when you first wake up in
the morning or just before you fall asleep
– Breathing exercises can help you relax
• make your body feel like it does when
you are already relaxed
Doable things
• Take slow, deep breaths
• Soak in a warm bath
• Listen to soothing music
• Practice mindful meditation - observe
• Write
• involves tensing and relaxing each muscle
group
• Take a walk
• Get a massage
Avoid stress
• Learn better ways to manage your time
• Find better ways to cope
• Take good care of yourself
• Try out new ways of thinking
– Work on letting go of things you cannot change
– Learn to say "no”
• Speak up - assertive communication
• Ask for help - have a strong network of family
and friends
To start with…..Implement
any two…
• S – Self confidence
• T – Temper control
• R – Resistance to negative energies – hurry
worry and curry
• E – Empathy
• S – Self awareness
• S – Self regulation
………….rest will be taken care of!!