Who Will Cry When You Die: Robin Sharma

Who will Cry When you Die
by
Robin Sharma
Discover Your Calling,
See Your Troubles as Blessings,
Enjoy the Path,
and
Live Fully So You Can Die Happy.
Life Lessons from the monk
who sold his Ferrari
“When you were born, you cried while the world rejoiced.
Live your life in such a way that when you die, the world
cries while you rejoice”.
- Sanskrit Saying
© All Rights Reserved LRC

Discover your Calling
We must decide to live life by choice rather than by chance, by

design rather than by default. Finding your calling doesn’t mean
you must leave the job you now have. It simply means you need
to bring more of yourself into your work and focus on the things
you do best. It means you must stop waiting for other people to
make the changes you desire and as Mahatma Gandhi noted, ‘Be
the change you wish to see most in your world.’ And once you do,
your life will change.
Every Day, Be Kind to a
Stranger
A meaningful life is made up of a series of daily acts of decency

and kindness, which, ironically, add up to something truly great
over the course of a lifetime. Daily, every person you pass
represents an opportunity to show a little more of the compassion
and courtesy that define your humanity. Kindness, simply put, is
the rent we must pay for the space we occupy on this planet.
Maintain Your Perspective
To live happier, more fulfilling lives, when we encounter difficult

circumstance, we must keep shifting our perspective and
continually ask ourselves, “Is there a wiser, more enlightened way
of looking at this seemingly negative situation?” We walk this
planet for such a short time. In the overall scheme of things, our
lives are mere blips on the canvas of eternity. So have the wisdom
to enjoy the journey and savor the process.

Practice Tough Love
Tough Love is the habit of self-discipline because getting tough

with yourself is actually a very loving gesture. By being stricter
with yourself, you will begin to live life more deliberately, on your
terms rather than reacting to life. The tougher you are on yourself,
the easier life will be on you.

Keep a Journal
Writing down your daily experiences along with the lessons you
have drawn from them will make you wiser with each passing day.
You will develop self-awareness and make fewer mistakes. And
keeping a journal will help you clarify your intentions so that you
remain focused on the things that truly count.

Develop an Honesty
Philosophy
To develop an honesty philosophy, begin to monitor how many

small untruths you tell over the course of a week. Every time you
do not tell the truth, you feed the habit of being untruthful. Be a
person of your word rather than being ‘all talk and no action.’

Honor Your Past
Thinking about all those things that you wish never happened to
you is actually blocking all those things that you want to happen
from entering into your life. It makes no sense worrying about past
events or mistakes unless you want to experience them a second
time. Instead, use the lessons you have learned from your past to
rise to a whole new level of awareness and enlightenment.

Start Your Day Well
The way you begin your day determines the way you will live
your day. If you have the self discipline to ensure that, during the
first 30 minutes of your day, you think only the purest of thoughts
and take only the finest of actions, you will notice that your days
will consistently unfold in the most marvelous ways.

Learn to Say No Gracefully
It is easy to say yes to every request on your time when the

priorities of your life are unclear. If you are clear about your life’s
highest objectives, then learning to say no gracefully to the non-
essentials will come easily to you. It will give you more time to
devote to the things that have the power to truly improve the way
you live.

Take a Weekly Sabbatical
To revitalize yourself and nourish the deepest part of you, plan for
a weekly period of peace – a weekly sabbatical – to get back to
the simpler pleasures of life, pleasures you may have given up as
your days grew busier and your life more complex. This simple
ritual will help you reduce stress, connect to your creative side
and feel far happier in every role of your life.

Talk to Yourself
The words and the language that we use on a daily basis have a profound
influence in creating a more enlightened pathway of thought. Select a
phrase that you will train your mind to focus on at different times throughout
the day until it begins to dominate your awareness. For example, if it is
inner peace and calm that you seek, your mantra might be, “I am so grateful
that I am a serene and tranquil person.” Try to say your personal phrase at
least two hundred times a day for at least four weeks. The results will be
profound as you take one giant step to finding the peace, prosperity and
purpose your life requires.

Schedule Worry Breaks
Too many people spend the best years of their lives stuck in a
state of constant worry. One of the simple strategies to conquer
the worry habit is to schedule specific times to worry – Worry
Breaks. Schedule fixed time to worry – say 30 minutes every
evening – during which you may wallow in your problems and
brood over your difficulties. But after that period ends, you must
train yourself to leave your troubles behind and do something
more productive.
Model a Child
Make the time to connect to your more playful side, the child
within you. Tale the time to study the positive qualities of children
and model their ability to stay energized, imaginative and
completely in the moment no matter what might be going on
around them.

Remember, Genius is 99
Percent Inspiration
With a healthy dose of inspiration, you will quickly raise your life to
a whole new plane of living. To increase your level of inspiration,
read a good self-help book, attend a public lecture by someone
you admire or spend a few hours studying the biography of one of
your heroes. Start spending time with people who are passionate
about what they are doing and dedicated to making the best out of
life.

Care for the Temple
Our bodies need to be treated like temples and considered sacred

if we hope to live life fully and completely. Regular exercise not
only improves health but also helps in thinking more clearly,
boosts creativity and helps manage the relentless stress that
dominates our days.

Learn to Be Silent
To reconnect with who you really are as a person and to come to

know the glory that rests within you, you must find the time to
be silent on a regular basis. Experiencing solitude, for even a
few minutes a day, will keep you centered on your highest life
priorities.

Think about Your ideal
Neighborhood
Make a list of all people you wish lived next door to you. Then
think about the qualities that make them so admirable and how
you can foster such qualities in your own life. The first step to
becoming the person you want to be is identifying the traits of the
person you want to be.

Get Up Early
Getting up early is a gift you give to yourself. It will allow you to

start controlling your day instead of letting your day control you.
Rising early provides you with at least one hour for yourself during
the most crucial part of your day: the beginning. If spent wisely,
the rest of your day will unfold in a wonderful way.

See Your Troubles As
Blessings
One must realize that pain is a teacher and failure is the highway
to success. Begin to see your trouble as blessings, resolve to
transform your stumbling blocks into stepping stones and vow to
turn your wounds into wisdom. It is during life’s most trying times
that we discover who we really are and the fullness of the strength
that lies within us.

Laugh More
Daily laughter has been shown to elevate our moods, promote

creativity and give us more energy. Stock up on some funny
movies or comic books like Dilbert cartoons to stimulate your
laughter habit. Reconnect to your playful side and enjoy the
wonders of a deep belly laugh.

Spend A Day Without Your
Watch
Rather than living by the watch and planning everything you are
going to do, once every while, spend a day simply living for the
moment and doing whatever you like.

Take More Risks
The real secret to live your life to the fullest is to stop spending
your days searching for security and start spending your time
pursuing opportunity. Get good at being uncomfortable and
stop walking the path of least resistance. You will meet with your
share of failures if you start living more deliberately. But failure is
nothing more than learning how to win.

Live A Life
Instead of judging events or experiences as either good or bad,

adopt a neutral stance and simply accept them for what they are:
a natural part of life. Detach yourself from the outcomes and
simply experience every circumstance that enters your life to the
fullest. Feel the pain and savor the happiness. There are no real
failures in life, only results. And there really are no problems, only
opportunities waiting to be recognized as solutions.

Learn From A Good Movie
A good movie can restore your perspective, reconnect you to the

things you value most and keep you enthusiastic about all the
things in your life. Films can transport us to a different world
and inspire us to keep thinking about the endless possibilities
that life holds.

Bless Your Money
As the timeless truth says, ‘The hand that gives is the hand that
gathers.’ When you send your money out, always remember to
bless it and ask it to bless everybody it touches. For example:
when you pay for your groceries, silently bless all those who have
helped bring the food to you: farmers who have grown it, people
who have processed and transported it and the store clerks who
have stocked it and hope that the money adds to the quality of
their life.

Focus On The Worthy
Time is our most precious commodity and yet most of us live our
lives as if we have all the time in the world. The real secret to
getting control of your life is to restore a sense of focus in your
days. Once you start spending your days only on those high-
leverage activities and priorities that will advance your life’s
mission and legacy, everything will change.

Write Thank-You Notes
The more the pace of our life speeds up, the greater the impact
the simple gestures of life will have on those most deserving of
them. And at the top of this list of simple gestures is the lost art of
writing thank-you notes. Few acts have the power to build and
cement relationships like a heartfelt letter of thanks.

Always Carry A Book With
You
Reading good books exposes your mind to the thoughts of the

greatest people who have walked this plane before you because
of which the depth of your thinking and wisdom expands. Always
carrying a book around, helps you utilize your unproductive time in
feeding your mind a rich diet of ideas, allowing you to connect with
the world’s most creative, intelligent and inspiring people. If you
have not read today, you have not really lived today.

Create A Love Account
Mother Teresa once said, ‘There are no great acts. There are only
small acts done with great love.’ To practice being more loving,
create a love account. Each day, make few deposits into this
account by doing something small to add joy in life of someone
else. These tiny deposits into the love account will give you far
more happiness than any amount of money in your bank account.

Get Behind People’s Eyeballs
Be a good listener. Taking the time to truly understand another’s
point of view shows that you value what he has to say and care
about him as a person. Often when someone is speaking, we are
either waiting for them to finish or we are busy formulating our
own response. When you start ‘getting behind the eyeballs’ of a
person who is speaking and try to see the world from his
perspective, you can connect better with him, building
relationships that last.

List Your Problems
To let go of all the mental clutter that your problems tend to

generate, list all your problems on a piece of paper. You will feel
lighter, calmer and freer. It will also permit you to put your
problems into perspective and tackle them in a planned, orderly
manner.

Practice The Action Habit
The smallest of actions is always better than the boldest of

intentions. A person of character spends his days doing what is
the right thing to do, what he ought to do; rather than what he
feels like doing. All too often we spend our days waiting for the
ideal path to appear in front of us. We forget that paths are made
by walking, not by wanting.

See Your Children As Gifts
The greatest gift you can give to your children is the gift of time.
And one of the greatest gifts you will ever give yourself is that of
enjoying your kids and seeing them for what they truly are: the
small miracles of life.

Enjoy The Path, Not Just
The Reward
Rather than savoring only the rewards that have flowed from the
achievement of that goal, celebrate the fact that the process of
reaching your destination has improved the person you are. You
have built self-discipline, discovered new things about your
abilities and manifested more of your human potential. These are
reward in and of themselves.

Remember That Awareness
Precedes Change
You will never be able to eliminate a weakness you don’t even

know about. Once you develop an awareness about the behavior
you are trying to change, you will be well on your way to replacing
it with one that is more helpful.

Read Tuesdays With
Morrie
The book is an account about the lessons of life that a dying

teacher, Morrie, imparts to his former student each Tuesday. The
lessons that Morrie, who has lived his life so completely, offers
include: how to avoid a life of regret, the value of family, the
importance of forgiveness and the meaning of death. This
beautiful little book will remind you of the importance of counting
your blessings daily and having the wisdom to honor life’s simple
pleasures.

Master Your Time
Commit yourself to managing your time more effectively. Develop

a keen sense of awareness about how important your time really
is and invest it only in those activities that truly count. Don’t
procrastinate and put the achievement of your dreams while you
tend to those daily emergencies that fill up your days.

Keep Your Cool
The problem with losing your temper on a daily basis is that it

becomes a habit and like most habits, a time arrives when it
becomes second nature. Tough times call for cool people and
keeping your cool in a moment of crisis can save you years of
pain and anguish. Words are like arrows; impossible to retrieve,
once released. So choose yours with care.

Recruit A Board Of
Directors
Companies often recruit a board of directors whom they consult to
reduce the number of mistakes they make, boost corporate
effectiveness and increase credibility. Similarly, you can have your
own imaginary board of directors, men and women of wisdom
from the past and present, whom you can consult to resolve your
issues. For example: when faced with an adverse situation, you
might like to seek advice from Victor Frankl, famed holocaust
survivor. Or when seeking advice on self-discipline, one might
consult Mahatma Gandhi.
Cure Your Monkey Mind
Our minds are like chained monkeys, rushing from place to place
without any pause for peace. So rather than being present and
mindful in the current moment, our mind is in ten different places
at a time. When too many distractions compete for our attention,
the power of our mind is dissipated in different directions rather
than being focused on the ‘here and now’. By developing present
moment awareness, we can unlock our mind’s full potential.

Get Good At Asking
‘He who asks may be a fool for five minutes. He who doesn’t is a
fool for a lifetime.’ The person who asks for what he wants at least
has some chance of getting what he wants. The person who does
not ask has no chance. So start flexing your ‘asking muscles’ by
asking for a better table at the restaurant, for a complimentary
upgrade on your next airline flight or for help from your co-worker.
You will be surprised at the abundance that will flow into your life.

Look For The Higher
Meaning Of Your Work
By concentrating on the value your work adds and the contribution

you make towards your organization, your team and your
customers, internal and external, you will see quantum
improvements in your satisfaction and motivation levels. Few
things energize the human spirit more than the desire to make a
difference in the lives of others.

Build A Library Of Heroic
Books
While almost any reading will improve your mind, in a world where
there is too much to do, you must be selective in the books you
read. So read ‘Heroic Books’ – those books that contain the
‘noblest recorded thoughts of man.’ Read the writings of
Mahatma Gandhi, Confucius, Leo Tolstoy, Albert Einstein and
similar great works. Connecting with such works will keep you
centered on what life is really about and will ultimate profoundly
affect your character.

Develop Your Talents
We are all endowed with the capacity for genius. But most of us
are so busy concentrating on what we don’t have that we neglect
the talents we do have. The greatest people in this world knew the
special qualities that made them unique and spent the rest of their
lives refining and expanding them. Are you using the best within
you to its fullest capacity?

Connect With Nature
Natural surroundings serve to stifle the endless chatter that fills

our mind so that our true brilliance can be liberated. Communing
with nature helps one connect to the larger universe and is an
excellent way of unlocking one’s creativity and generating new
ideas.

Use Your Commute Time
Given the amount of time we spend in commuting everyday, one

cannot afford to simply stare out of the vehicle or listen to
mindless radio channels. Instead, one can make this time
productive by either reading books or listening to audio tapes.
Many of the latest books can now be found in audio format which
can also be loaded on mobile phones.

Go On A News Fast
Today most of the news that we access through various media is

negative and we often read these news or watch them on
television more as a habit to pass time than to gain information
that can help. One of the best ways to wean your self off the
‘news addiction’ is to go on seven-day news fast. Vow not to read
or watch even a single negative new item. You will notice that
while you won’t really miss out on much information, you will have
additional time to pursue things that will truly improve the quality
of your life.
Get Serious About Setting
Goals
Setting clearly defined goals provides you with a framework for

smarter choices. If you know precisely where you are going, it
becomes far easier to select the activities that will get you there
and keeps you alert to opportunities that you can use. Selecting
goals that engage and motivate you is one of the best ways to
boost the level of your personal commitment to life and increase
the energy you bring to your days.
Remember The Rule Of 21
It takes about 21 days to develop a new habit. Yet most people
give up on creating positive change within the first few days when
they experience stress that is always associated with replacing old
behaviors with new ones. Remember the rule of 21; once you get
past the first 21 days, you will find that staying on course with a
new habit is far easier than you imagined.

Practice Forgiveness
Forgiveness is a great act of spirit and personal courage. It is a

selfish act rather than a selfless one because letting go of the
hostility and hatred that you may have bottled up inside you will
benefit you more than the opposite person. Every minute that you
devote to thinking about someone who has wronged you is a
minute you have stolen from a much worthier pursuit: attracting
those people who will help you. It is one of the best ways to
elevate the quality of your life.

Drink Fresh Fruit Juice
Eating wrong foods, in large quantities, will reduce your energy

level, affect your health and prevent your mind from serving you to
its fullest capacity. One of the best ways to boost your energy
level and your mood is to get into the daily habit of drinking fresh
fruit juice.

Create A Pure Environment
Your thoughts are shaped by the people you associate with, the
books you read, the words you speak and your daily physical
surroundings. So, take steps to improve the environment you live
and work in; you will soon detect improvements in the way you
feel, think and act.

Walk In The Woods
Many great wisdom traditions have emphasized the restorative

power of regular walks in the woods. There is something
particularly special about walking in the woods. Your steps will feel
lighter, a deep sense of inner quiet will flood your entire body and
creativity will flourish.

Get A Coach
One of the most effective ways to improve your effectiveness and

rise to a new level of excellence is to find a mentor to coach you.
A personal coach can illuminate your path, encourage you when
times get tough and shave years off your learning curve. Coaching
is an important element to a complete program of personal and
professional excellence.

Take A Mini-Vacation
A mini-vacation begins with closing the door of your office, holding

all calls and relaxing in your chair. Then close your eyes and take
deep breaths. Once you feel deeply at peace, begin to imagine
you are at your favorite vacation spot. Vividly see the colors, hear
the sounds and feel the emotions that this special place evokes.
After only a few minutes, you will be rejuvenated, ready for rest of
the day ahead.

Become A Volunteer
‘One can never pay in gratitude; one can only pay in kind
somewhere else in life.’ Volunteering affords you the chance to
help others and pay back the debt owed to those who have
helped you. Volunteering to serve those who have less than you is
also an excellent way to remind yourself on a regular basis of the
abundance that exists in your life.

Find Your Six Degrees Of
Separation
It is said that everybody on this planet is separated by only six
people. Six degrees of separation. Between us and everybody
else on this planet. It is profound to think that you and I are
separate from all other people on this planet by at most six
people. The real challenge is finding the six people that connect
you to the person you need to know.

Listen To Music Daily
Do you remember those times when you heard just the right song
at just the right moment? Music can lift your mood, put the smile
back on your face and add immeasurably to your quality of life.
Get serious about listening to music that inspires you. Build a
collection of your favorite pieces and play something that fills your
heart with joy every single day of the week.

Write A Legacy Statement
The time to start building your legacy is today, not ten years from
today when you ‘have more time.’ Reflect on what it is you want to
create in your life and what gift you wish to leave the world when
you are no longer here. Write your personal legacy statement that
expresses what you aim to leave when you die.

Find Three Great Friends
Cultivating great friendships is one of the surest ways to find more

happiness and joy in your life. Recent studies show that those with
a wide circle of friends and family live longer, laugh more and
worry less. Take the time, invest energy and maintain your
commitment to forge at least three great friendships that will last
you a lifetime.

Read The Artist’s Way
Read this book and have the self-discipline to go through each of

the thoughtful exercises the author, Julia Cameron, suggests you
do. This will help you in unlocking your creative side and fuel your
upward path of self-discovery, making each of your days far more
fulfilling.

Learn To Meditate
Meditation is an age-old technique that was developed by some of

the world’s wisest people to gain full control of the mind and in
doing so, to manifest its enormous potential for worthy pursuits.
The peace and tranquility that you will feel after twenty minutes of
daily meditation will infuse every minute of your day. You will be
more patient in your relationships, more serene at the office and
more happy when you are alone.

Have A Living Funeral
Imagining that each day is your last, will reconnect you to the fact
that time is a priceless commodity and the best time to live a
richer, wiser and more fulfilling life is now.

Stop Complaining And Start
Living
If you are not as fulfilled, as happy, as prosperous or as peaceful

as you know you could be, stop blaming others and take full
responsibility for your circumstances. This will be the first step to a
completely new way of looking at your life and the starting point of
a better way to live.

Increase Your Value
In the new economy, you will find yourself compensated not by

how hard you work but by how much value you add to the world
around you. The best way to begin adding value to the world is to
start to become a more valuable person. Acquire skills no one else
has. Think thoughts no one else is thinking. To get more from life,
you need to be more in life.

Be A Better Parent
If you do not devote the time and effort to becoming the best
parent you know you can be, one day you will deeply regret the
lost opportunity. Take the initiative to improve your parenting
abilities by attending seminars and reading books by the best in
this field and have the courage to refine the ideas you learn to
find parenting strategies that best suit your family

Be Unorthodox
Rethink the way you do things and do things that are right for you
or in a way that is best suited to you. Being different for all the
right reasons is a wise way to live. Take the road less traveled and
find success beyond your wildest dreams.

Carry A Goal Card
A goal card simply lists your top life goals along with clear
deadlines for achieving them. Carrying a goal card that you can
review during the quieter moments of your day is a smart way of
reconnecting to your highest priorities, whether they are personal,
professional or spiritual.

Be More Than Your Moods
You are not your moods; you are the creator of the moods you
experience and hence, you can change your moods in a single
instant. If you choose to do so, you can feel peace in a moment of
stress, joy in a time of sadness and energy during a time of
fatigue.

Savor The Simple Stuff
Have the wisdom to savor the simple things. The wonderful
memories that they bring will add more value to your life than any
of the material toys we spend so much life energy pursuing. At the
end of this life, the only thing we can take with us are our
memories of all those great life experiences that add meaning to
our lives.

Stop Condemning
It is easy to fall into the habit of condemning others, even those

we love the most. Stop blaming and condemning. Accept
complete responsibility for the way things are and resolve to work
on changing yourself before seeking to change others.

See Your Day As Your Life
The past is gone; the future is but a figment, so this day is really
all you can own. Invest it wisely. Life is not a dress rehearsal. Lost
opportunities rarely come again. Vow to increase your passion for
living and multiply the commitment you will bring to each of the
following days.

Create A Mastermind
Alliance
To create a Mastermind alliance, find three-four people you feel
you could learn from and who would get along well with each
other. Approach your prospective members and arrange to meet
once a week. At these meetings, you can discuss the challenges
you are facing and ask for the group’s inputs. This mutually-
beneficial alliance not only helps develop a personal support
network and some great friendships, but also taps into the
specialized knowledge and accumulated wisdom you would
ordinarily never have access to.
Create A Daily Code Of
Conduct
The Daily code of Conduct is simply few paragraphs containing
the values, virtues and vows that you have determined through
much reflection and that you need to live by in order for your life to
be a fulfilling one. Read this code of conduct every morning and
feel energized and committed with a renewed sense of purpose
as it will remind you about the highest priorities, the things that
matter the most but are so easily forgotten in the blur of daily
events.
Imagine A Richer Reality
Our greatest human endowment is the ability to reframe and

reinterpret a difficult circumstance in a more enlightened and
empowering way. In handling any problem, we must have the
courage to assume responsibility for whatever situation we are in
and then realize that we also have the capacity to use the setback
to our advantage.

Become The CEO Of Your
Life
To become more proactive, start seeing yourself as the CEO of

your life and your destiny. Seeing yourself as the CEO of your life
can create a fundamental shift in the way you perceive your world.
Instead of sailing through life as a passenger, you become the
captain of the ship, leading things in the direction you choose to
move in, not drifting with the tide.

Be Humble
Practicing humility shows that you respect others and reminds us

that there is so much for us yet to learn. It sends a signal to those
around you that you are open to receiving the gift of their
knowledge and listening to what they have to say.

Don’t Finish Every Book
You Start
If you find that after reading the first three chapters of a book, you
have not gained any worthwhile information or that the book has
failed to keep your attention, do yourself a favor: put the book
away and make better use of your time. Not every book deserves
to be read in its entirety and reading out of sense of guilt makes
the pastime of reading far less enjoyable.

Don’t Be So Hard On
Yourself
It is easy to spend much of your days beating up on yourself for

past mistakes. Human beings have been designed to make
mistakes. As long as you don’t keep making the same errors
and have the good judgment to let your past serve you, you will
be on the right track. Be gentle to self and see life for what it
really is: a path of self-discovery and lifelong learning.

Make A Vow Of Silence
Staying quiet for even short periods of time builds willpower and
self-control because you exert force on your will by not giving in to
the impulse to talk. To improve your personal discipline in this
aspect, keep a vow of silence for one hour a day over the next
seven days. Within a matter of days, you will feel a sense of
mastery and strength growing within you.

Don’t Pick Up The Phone
Every Time It Rings
The telephone is for your convenience, not for the convenience of

your callers. Many of us interrupt very important priority activities
to answer phone calls that could have been easily answered later.
Resist this impulse and learn to remain focused on the activity at
hand.

Remember That Recreation Must Involve Re-Creation
Any recreation you undertake must serve to restore you and bring
you back to life. Real recreation will fill you with a renewed sense
of optimism and energy. True recreation connects you to the
highest and best within you while rekindling your inner fire.
Effective recreation then must involve some pursuit that soothes
your soul.

Choose Worthy Opponents
Choosing Worthy Opponents is the process of setting

progressively bigger, more engaging goals. To maintain a healthy
level of optimism and passion for life, you must keep on setting
higher and higher goals. On attaining one goal, whether it is a
career goal or a personal goal, it is essential that you quickly set
the next one.

Sleep Less
The quantity of sleep is not important; what really counts is the

quality and richness of your sleep, the amount of renewal your
body receives. Understand that fatigue is often a mental creation
that stems from doing things you do not like and no amount of
sleep can beat it.

Have A Family Meal-Time
Your family meal does not have to be dinner; it can be breakfast,

lunch or even over dessert and milk at the very end of the day.
The important thing is to find time every day with those you love
the most and consistently work at building a richer, more
meaningful family life.

Become An Impostor
Research has shown that the way you act influences the thoughts
you think. Thus, you can pretend to be the kind of person you wish
to be. By consistently acting as a highly enthusiastic person might
or as a truly confident person would, you will eventually take on
these personal attributes.

Take A Public Speaking
Course
Fear of speaking in public can affect your confidence and prevent

you from doing many of the things you know you can do. Talking
to a large group of people draws us out of the circle of security
that we tend to live in and forces us to confront an entirely foreign
experience.

Stop Thinking Tiny
Thoughts
‘Nurture your mind with great thoughts for you will never go any
higher than you think.’ It is not what you are that hold you back; it
is what you think you are not. And the moment you understand
this insight and set about ridding your mind of all its limiting
thoughts, you will see almost immediate improvement in your
personal circumstances.

Don’t Worry About Things
You Can’t Change
By identifying and letting go of the worries you can do nothing

about or that are a complete waste of your energy, you can
eliminate majority of the problems that are plaguing you.

Learn How To Walk
A walk should never have a specific purpose; rather than having a

destination you should simply immerse yourself in the beauty of
the walk itself. And never take your worries with you on a walk,
leave them at home; if you don’t, they will become more deep-
rooted in your mind by the end of the walk. And finally be
completely aware about the surroundings as you walk - the sights,
the sounds and the smell.

Rewrite Your Life Story
Realize that every dawn brings with it the corresponding

opportunity to begin a completely new life. If you choose,
tomorrow can be the day that you start getting up early,
exercising, reading more, exercising, eating well and worrying
less. Remember it is never too late to become the person you
have always wanted to be. So, begin rewriting your life story
today.

Plant A Tree
Watching a tree grow from a sapling into a tall oak will keep you
connected with the daily passage of time and the cycles of nature.
Just as the tree grows and matures, so too will you be able to
mark your personal passages and growth as a human being.

Find Your Place Of Peace
Everyone needs a sanctuary or ‘place of peace’ that will be a spot

where you can take refuge from the crush of daily activities that
demand your time, energy and attention. Visit this sanctuary and
do some of those inner development activities that are so easy to
neglect during the course of the day – write a journal, listen to
music or read a book.

Take More Pictures
Photographs capture and record life’s greatest memories so that

we can re-live them as the years go by. Record the best times of
your life. Collect photographs of the things that have made you
smile or cry or appreciate the many blessings this world provides.

Be An Adventurer
Make a list of twelve pursuits you know would bring a greater

sense of passion and energy to your normally mundane routine
and tackle each one of them every month for the next year. Doing
so is a highly effective way to reinvent the way you live.

Decompress Before You Go
Home
We usually invest so much of our time and energy at work that
most of us arrive home tired, cranky and dispirited; and order
family members to live us alone till we regain our composure.
Remember that your family also needs you. So, take ten minutes
to decompress before you get home by either spending some time
alone in your parked car. Taking a quick walk or listening to your
favorite piece of music. Use this time to relax and reflect on what
you would like to accomplish with your family in the next few
hours.

Respect Your Instincts
It is often difficult to march to your own drum beats and listen to

your instincts when the world around you pressures you to
conform to its dictates. Yet, to find fulfillment, you must listen to
those hunches and feelings that come to you when you most need
them. Respect your instincts and go by them especially when it
comes to making crucial decisions in your life.

Collect Quotes That Inspire
You
A great quite contains a wealth of wisdom in a single line. So start
your collection of quotations, words that you can keep referring to
when you need some instant inspiration or advice about how to
deal with the tough times in your lives. Or paste them in places
where you know you can see them daily; this will keep you
focused on what’s essential during busy times, what’s positive
during trying times and centered on the principles of real success.

Love Your Work
Spending your days doing work that you find rewarding,

intellectually challenging and fun will do more than all vacations of
the world to keep your spirits high and your heart engaged. When
you love your job, you discover you will never have to work
another day in your life. Your work will be play and hours will slip
away as quickly as they came.

Selflessly Serve
All great leaders, thinkers and humanitarians have abandoned

selfish lives for selfless lives and, in doing so, found all the
happiness, abundance and satisfaction they desired. They have
understood the all-important truth of humanity – you cannot
pursue success, success ensues. It flows as the unintended but
inevitable by-product of a life spent serving people and adding
value to the world.

Live Fully So You Can Die
Happy
Do not wait until you are on your deathbed to realize the meaning
of life and the precious role we have to play within it. Spend your
days in doing work that is engaging, in pursuits that are inspiring
and with people who are loving. Simply stated, the purpose of life
is a life of purpose.

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Anupam Kumar Vatsa

Who Will Cry When You Die: Robin Sharma

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