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VALUES

EDUCATION
WITH WORK
ETHICS

MS. DONNA D. MENDOZA


What is Values
Education and its
Nature?
What Values Education Meant:

 character,
 moral development,
 religious education,
 spiritual development,
 citizenship education,
 personal development,
 social development and ,
 cultural development.
Meaning/of Values Education

 It is a process by which teachers and other


adults transmit values to others.
Meaning/of Values Education

 It is also a process that gives young people an


initiation into values; giving knowledge of the
rules needed to function in the manner of
relating to other people. ; and seeking the
development of a group on certain underlying
principles as mandated by God and Man and
together with the ability to apply the principles
to life, intelligently and to have the settled
disposition to do so.
How Values Education is
shared?
Shared values are actually the virtue
one’s uphold. A virtue is a habitual and firm
disposition to do well. It is a human virtue
that takes place when someone shares
comfortably the values to others. Human
virtues are firm attitude, stable dispositions,
and habitual perfections of intellect and will
that govern actions, order of passions, and
guide conduct according to reason and faith.
They provide ease, self-mastery, and joy in
leading a morally upright life.
Significance of Values
Education
 Help the individual to be aware of the
personal, cultural and social values
uphold;
 Help young people to identify their
values;
 Help young people to feel comfortable
sharing their values to others; and
 Help young people to behave in ways
that are consistent with their values.
Two Main Approaches to Values
Education
To inculcate or transmit a set of
values through personal, cultural or
societal in nature.
Socratic Dialogue where people are
gradually brought to their own
realization of what is good behavior
for themselves and their community
through participation and
involvement.
Two Ways of Acquiring Values
Education
Implicit way – it is associated with
different methods or programs used
to create learning experiences.
ex. Cultural show
Explicit way – it covers the aspects
of educational experiences resulting
to value influence of peer group
which can be related to the concept
of curriculum. Ex. Skills olympics
Activity # 2 Acquisition of Values Education in Two
Ways ( Implicit and Explicit Way)

Provide Pictures of both and How these ways are


practiced and What was the Lessons Learned

Criteria for Evaluation:


Organization – 40% Neatness – 10 % ( Margin
is observed)
Content _ 30% PPT -10%
Composition _ 20% ( Legible writing)
July 17, 2018 First Test : BSIT II – E BSIT II-G
(Done) last July 12, 2018

1. How significant is your values for the


enrichment of other experiences. Provide
situation. 10 pts.
2. What is intrinsic and extrinsic Values. Explain
in your own words.
What is Values
 Are bases of judging which attitudes and
behavior are correct and desirable and which
are not.
 It is something desirable, worth having, worth
possessing, worth keeping and worth doing.
 It is anything which satisfies a human need.
 it is anything which enriches our experiences of
life such as: person, relationship, feeling,
object, place, event, opportunity, profession,
work, travel or a state of being.
 It is considered the principles of life, a belief, a
meaning we assigned to events.
 It is also what we believe in.
It is some other things have their
intrinsic worth such as science and
art, technology and machines,
customs and traditions, rites and
ceremonies, laws and ideals,
history and memories, careers and
hobbies, farms and gardens,
businesses and religions.
They are things we are for and the
things we are against for it gives
meaning and direction to our lives.
How significant Values Is?

 According to Aristotle “ Values is the ultimate


happiness in Life”. It consists of sum of earthly
goods essential to us.
Values are significant for it creates actions that
becomes means to an end – to attain happiness.
Actions are both good and bad . It is both moral
and immoral. Good moral actions are considered
good while immoral actions considered bad
disguise as good action. Morally good actions are
authentic values while immoral actions are
apparent values this is where evil acts disguised
as good not fit to human nature for they are
contrary to law.
Kinds of Values & its
Hierarchy

Moral Values
Intellectual Values

Social Values

Biological Values

Cultural Values
Kinds of Values and its Hierarchy

1. Biological values are necessary to the physical


survival and growth of man such as food,
shelter, exercise, work, pleasure, sex, sports,
career, and medicines.
2. Social values are necessary to the
psychological maturation of man such
companionship, friendship, marriage, family,
family life, and social interaction/or community.
3. Intellectual values are necessary to the mental
fulfillment of man, such as truth, science, art,
technology, experience and religion.
Kinds of Values and its Hierarchy

4. Moral values are necessary for the


development of character. It corresponds to
spiritual development and ranked the highest in
the hierarchy.
5. Cultural values are those that are shared in the
community such as ideals, laws, customs, beliefs,
rituals and ceremonies. Some values are
described as religious, economic and aesthetic.
Social Dimension of Values: Its
effect to Values Education
The authenticity of values consists in their being
shared with others.
The higher the value goes up the ranking the
more it becomes altruistic “ unselfish concern”
for the welfare of others; or simply called
selflessness.

The lower values are seen as competitive and


egoistic caring only about yourself and your own
needs
Social Dimension of Values: Its
effect to Values Education
The virtues charity and justice are the foundation
of society.

No society would be possible where men do not


have goodwill towards one another.

“It is not good for man to be alone; I will give him a


helper who will be like him” ( Genesis 2:18)
Moral Dimension of Values: Its
effect to Values Education
Moral Values are those pertaining to the functions
of the intellectual and the will: our choices,
decisions, actions , and habits.
Moral values relate to our spiritual growth.
In this sense, every human activity has a moral
dimension and, depending on one’s motive, an
innocent act like working or playing may be moral
or immoral.
Value Clarification approach: Its
influence to Values Education
Value clarification approach is a resume of all
the models which tries to help the young people
answer some of the questions necessary in the
development of their own value system.
- This method is concerned with the process of
valuing, and how people come to hold certain
beliefs and establish certain behavioral patterns.
The value clarification approach
is categorized into different
models:
1. Moralization model means direct coercion
approach of the adults values upon the
young.
2. Laizzes Faire Attitude means the
transmission of values without interference
from an adult.
3. Modelling Approach is the transmission of
human virtues from certain set of values.
The famous adage: “Values are caught not
taught”
The value clarification approach
is categorized into different
models:
3. Modelling Approach
The approach acknowledges two realities:
a. ) The importance of setting a living; and
b. ) The necessity in teaching values for the
deeds to match the words “ walk the talk”.
Three basic questions often asked
about values formation.

1. Are there values for all people?

Personal values – arise from individual tastes


and preferences
Cultural values – arise from tradition and
lifestyle of a given people.
Moral values – arise from human nature, which
is the same for the whole humanity.
Yes, there are values applicable for all people
– moral values which ought to be the
foundation and acid test of all values;
personal, cultural and social

Moral values is the sum of standards of human


conduct, the basic universal considerations to
determine that an act is wrong or right; and
virtues and even habits of acting in
accordance with the standards of human
conduct and the manner of God wants us to
be.
These two are mandates of Man and God that
defines man’s obedience to the statutory law
and Natural Law.
Three basic questions often asked
about values formation.

2. Are there values for all times?

It would seem that even moral values chance:


what was deemed morally wring 50 years ago
is now deemed moral.

Yes, there are values for all times. They are the
values that have applied to all humanity and
will continue to apply for as long as human
beings share in the same human nature.
Three basic questions often asked
about values formation.

3. Why is there a need for values?

Survival, sanity , and peace of mind


Filipino Values and Beliefs

1. Bayanihan Spirit – manifested in helping


one another during crisis. Damayan
operates on the basis of mutual help.

2. Buena Mano – A Spanish term that means


“good hand”. It is a magical belief that a
good sale at the start of the day brings in
more customers and more transactions.
Filipino Values and Beliefs

3. Compadre –Comadre system – Form of


kinship that is one of the strongest
elements of our natural fabric. It extends
beyond the lits of blood relationships.

4. Ginhawa – Is the reality of the total well –


being of man? It literally means “relief”
Filipino Values and Beliefs

5. Gulong ng Palad – picture of one riding on


the rim of the wheel of fate.

6. Harana – Are a romantic expression of love


through music and a serenade of man to a
woman that expresses affection?

7. Hiya – The Filipino feeling of inadequacy to


face up something that involves other people
who he thinks expects much from him.
Filipino Values and Beliefs

5. Gulong ng Palad – picture of one riding on


the rim of the wheel of fate.

6. Harana – Are a romantic expression of love


through music and a serenade of man to a
woman that expresses affection?

7. Hiya – The Filipino feeling of inadequacy to


face up something that involves other people
who he thinks expects much from him.
Filipino Values and Beliefs

8. Kursunada – Is a condition of intense liking


for an object or for a member of the opposite
sex

9. Lagay – Grease money, tong, payola or


plain bribe.

10. Lakad – Literally means “walk” means a


euphemism for making an attempt to
smooth out difficulties.
Filipino Values and Beliefs

11. Lusot – Literally means “escape from


something by wriggling into a hole”

12. Machismo – is the belief in male


supremacy and the relegation of women to a
secondary or domestic role

13. Mano Po – is the tradition gesture of


kissing or bowing on the hands of respected
persons.
Filipino Values and Beliefs

14. Nationalism – is the condition of the mind


in which loyalty to the ideal or fact of one’s
national state.

15. Ningas Cogon – means a rapidly entice to a


new organization at first gathered
enthusiastic support and be entirely
neglected afterwards.
Filipino Values and Beliefs

16. Ninong and Ninang – is a traditional


catholic practice of enlisting popular and
rich members of the society to be sponsor
during wedding and baptism rites.
17. Padre de Familia – a term for the husband
who enjoys and prides himself in the rank,
authority and respect his carried position.
18. Pakikisama – the term rooted in the
intrinsic Filipino value of pakikipag kapwa
tao.
Filipino Values and Beliefs

19. Pakipot- the value that induces Filipino


women to play hard to get so as to project a
maria clara image.
20. Pamamanhikan – Is the time when a young
man formally ask for the woman’s hand.
21. Panata – It’s the belief that salvation could
be earned by observing rituals, fulfilling
vows, or offering sacrifices.
Filipino Values and Beliefs

22. Paninilbihan – is one of the practices


performed by a young suitor to win a woman’s
heart and the family’s reward.
23. Pabongga, Paporma, Pasikat – Means the
Filipino ways of trying to impress others and
proving that one is superior through cultural
extravangances’ of dubious worth.
24. Patriotism – is a sociological concept
which indicates a special feeling of love for a
certain area, region and country.
Filipino Values and Beliefs

25. Utang na Loob – means debt or volition


26. Under de Saya – is a set up in which a
woman assumes superiority over the man in
the home.
27. Bahala Na – is an unproductive perspective
of life. It is rendered loosely as “come what
may” or “que sera sera”
Filipino Values and Beliefs
28. Tuli or Binyagan – is a minor surgery that
entails the cutting of the foreskin of the male
genitalia. This act is considered a rite of
passage from boyhood to manhood.
29. Swerte – is understood as one’s
predetermined luck in life.
30. Sala – is the cultural strep of either guilt of
shame.
Nature of Work &
Work Ethics
The Value of Work
“The most beautiful hands are those that
work”, is a saying that still holds true today.

It means that through work, people are able to


earn a living, put up their own home, help
develop their community, help other people
who need help and make this world peaceful
and productive place to live in.
Why do people work
1. It offers a person a sense of identity and
status. Work contributes to self-esteem
and can satisfy the drive for fulfillment and
accomplishment for meaning and purpose
in life.
2. It bring social rewards, meeting the need
for belonging to a group and providing the
security to be a member of a team or
community.
3. It furnishes opportunities to form friendship
and meet different types of people.
The Nature of Work

The right to life implies the right to work.


Working is the means by which man can
preserve his life.
Working is both right and a duty
Work is the legitimate use of our mental and
bodily powers for economic gain or profit.
Its significant importance are:

1. Work is the use of our physical powers to


accomplish a task.
2. Work is for the purpose of obtaining and
economic gain for the worker.
3. Work is a means of human labor, it is an
effort applied to produce a deliverable or
accomplish task; it also refers to physical
work done by people.
Classification of Work

1. Work which must be done at a definite time.


This class work is often called rush work
because the profits depend upon doing a
maximum of this work and doing it well.

2. Work which may done any time within wide


latitude. The old adage say “Put off
nothing until tomorrow which can be done
today”
Classification of Work

3. Work which is often postponed indefinitely.

4. Work that can be done and affected by


seasonal elements.
The Right to Work

Working is both a right and a duty.


The right to work derives from the right to life.
Man has basic needs which must be satisfied in
order for him to survive as reflected in the
triangle of biological needs of man.
The Duty to Work

Work aims to promote life.


It is a natural duty since every person is
endowed with bodily and mental powers to
that he may take care of himself.

“the work which sustains you is the basis of


love: love for oneself, love for the wife and
children, love for the brothers and
countrymen”
- Andres Bonifacio
The Qualities of a person who
value Work
1. Self-Confidence
2. Cleanliness and Orderliness
3. Patience
4. Industry
5. Unity and Cooperation
6. Commitment
7. Creativity
The Nature of Ethics

Ethics is the study of right and wrong


It is the moral choice of an individual
Its application of moral standards on decisions
and actions

The word “ethics” is derived from a Greek


word “ethos” which means “characteristics
way of acting, “habit”, or “custom”

The Latin equivalent is mos, mores, from


which come the word moral or morality.
The Nature of Ethics

Ethics studies the characteristics and behavior


of man as endowed with reason and freewill.
-it is a science of the morality of human acts.
-it is the study of man as a moral being, one
who is rationally able to distinguish between
right and wrong.

Ethics is concerned with the norms of human


behavior.
The Nature of Ethics

The study of ethics started with the Greek


Philosophers: Socrates, Plato and Aristotle

Socrates is regarded as the Father of moral


philosophy.
Aristotle has greatly influenced ethical
thinking with three (3) important treaties:
Nicomachean ethics, Eudemian ethics and
Magna Moralia (great ethics)
Two Dimensions of Ethics

1. Practical dimensions – is based on what


one might call reciprocity, something like
the Golden Rule: “ Do unto others what you
would like others to do unto you”.
2. Spiritual dimensions – People have an
inner of right and wrong. That is why we
feel the guilt and shame.
The Art of Correct Living: How this
define our Ethical Values?
Ethics is an art. “the art of correct living”,
because it teaches how we may put order and
harmony in our lives.

Morality is not only necessary to a person but


also to society.

“without civic morality, communities perish ,


without personal morality their survival has no
value”
-Beltrand Russel
Two division of Ethics

a. General Ethics –is about the principles of


morality. It explains the norms with which
the moral significance of the human act is
determined.
b. Special Ethics – is the application of the
principles of General Ethics to the
problems and issues confronting a person
on account of his circumstances in life.
Two approaches of Ethics

1. The atheistic approach assumes that only


matter exists and man is responsible only
to the State since there is no God who rules
the universe.
2. The theistic approach assumes that God is
the Supreme Lawgiver.
Bills of Rights

The study of the Bill of Rights is imperative to


man’s Ethical Values Formation.

The Bill of Rights is a list of rights pertaining to


persons.
Ignorance of the law excuses no one a principle
that bespeak of being aware of what’s going on the
workplace.
Bills of Rights

The 1987 Constitution of the Philippines provides


for the Bill of Rights as basis for an Ethical Work.
Section 1. No person shall be deprived of life, liberty, or
property without due process of law, nor shall any person be
denied the equal protection of the laws.

Section 2. The right of the people to be secured in their


persons, houses, papers, and effects.

Section 3. (1) The privacy of communication and


correspondence shall be inviolable except upon lawful order
of the court. (2) Any evidence obtained in violation of this or
the preceding section shall be inadmissible for any purpose in
any proceeding.
Bills of Rights
Section 4. No law shall be passed abridging the
freedom of speech, of expression, or of the press,
or the right of the people peacefully to assemble
and petition the government for redress of
grievances.
Section 5. No law shall be made respecting an
establishment of religion, or prohibiting the exercise
thereof.
Section 6. The liberty of abode and of changing the
same within the limits prescribed by law shall not
impaired except upon lawful order of the court.
Bills of Rights
Section 7. The right of the people to information on
matters of public concern shall be recognized.

Section 8. The right of the people, including those


employed in public and private sectors, to form
unions, associations, or societies for purposes not
contrary to law shall not be abridged.

Section 9. Private property shall not be taken for


public use without just compensation.
Bills of Rights
Section 10. No law impairing the obligation of
contracts shall be passed.

Section 11. Free access to the courts and quasi-


judicial bodies and adequate legal assistance shall
not be denied to any person by reason of poverty.

Section 12. Any person under investigation for the


commission of an offense shall have the right to be
informed of his right to remain silent and to have a
competent and independent counsel preferably his
own choice.
Bills of Rights
Section 13. All persons, except those charged with
offenses punishable by reclusion perpetua when
evidence of guilt is strong, shall, before conviction,
be bailable by sufficient sureties, or to be released
on recognizance as may be provided by law.

Section 14. No person shall be held to answer for a


criminal offense without due process of law.

Section 15. The privilege of the writ of habeas


corpus shall not be suspended except in cases of
invasion or rebellion when public safety requires it.
Bills of Rights
Section 16. All persons shall have the right to a
speedy disposition of their case before all judicial,
quasi-judicial, or administrative bodies.

Section 17. No person shall be compelled to be a


witness against himself.

Section 18. No person shall be detained solely by


reason of his political beliefs and aspirations.
Bills of Rights
Section 19. Excessive fines shall not be imposed,
nor cruel, degrading or inhuman punishment
inflicted.

Section 20. No person shall be imprisoned for


debts or non-payment of a poll tax.

Section 21. No person shall be put in jeopardy of


punishment for the same.

Section 22. No ex post facto law or bill of attainder


shall be enacted.
The essence of Man as Person in
relation to Work Ethics
Ethics is the study of man as a moral being.
Socrates said the starting point of wisdom is “to
know oneself”

Person is the defined as “an individual, existing


separately and independently from others, capable
of knowing and loving in an intellectual way, and of
deciding for himself the purpose or end of his
actions”.
Also referred to as “self” or “ego”
The essence of Man as Person in
relation to Work Ethics
Ethics is the study of man as a moral being.
Socrates said the starting point of wisdom is “to
know oneself”

Person is the defined as “an individual, existing


separately and independently from others, capable
of knowing and loving in an intellectual way, and of
deciding for himself the purpose or end of his
actions”.
Also referred to as “self” or “ego”
Human Acts: Its significance
Human acts are either elicited or commanded acts.

A. Elicited Acts are those performed by the Will but


are bodily externalized such as the ff:
1. Wish
2. Intention
3. Consent
4. Election
5. Use
6. Fruition
Human Acts: Its significance
Human acts are either elicited or commanded acts.

B. Commanded Acts are the mental and bodily


actions performed under the command of the Will.

Internal actions are those performed mentally such


as reasoning, recalling, imagining, and reflecting.

External actions are those performed bodily, such


as walking, dancing, talking, and writing.
Human Acts: Its significance
Human acts are categorized as:

1. Moral actions – are those in conformity with the


norm of morality.
2. Immoral actions – are those which are not in
conformity with the norm of morality.
3. Amoral actions- are those which stand neutral
or indifferent to the norm of morality.
Modifiers of Human Act
A voluntary act is under the control of the intellect
and will of a person. However, there are factors
that may influence the intellect and will so that
actions are not perfectly voluntary.

These factors are called modifiers of human for


they interfere with the application of the intellect
and will.
Modifiers of Human Act
1. Ignorance is the absence of knowledge which a
person ought to possess. It is either vincible or
invincible.
vincible ignorance is one which can easily be
corrected through ordinary diligence.

Invincible ignorance is one which is not easily


remedied
Affected ignorance a vincible ignorance which
is intentionally kept in an effort to escape
responsibility.
“ignorance of the law excuses no one”
Modifiers of Human Act
2. Passion or concupiscence, are psychic
responses.

Antecedent passion comes as a natural reaction


to an object or stimulus without being aroused
intentionally.

It is antecedent passion when we feel happy in


the company of a friend.

Consequent passion is the result of an act which


causes it to be aroused.
Modifiers of Human Act
3. Fear is the disturbance of the mind of a person
who is confronted by a danger to himself or loved
ones.

4. Violence is any physical force exerted on a


person by a free agent for the purpose of
compelling said person to act against his will.

5. Habits are the readiness, born of frequently


repeated acts, for acting in a certain manner.
Man’s Moral Habits
Moral character is the sum of man’s good habits.
Habit comes from the latin word “habere” , meaning
to have or to possess
Habits are either:
a. Entitative predispose man to acquire certain
nature or quality like being healthy, being
intelligent, being beautiful, or being rich.
b. Operative predispose man to act readily
towards a purpose like singing, dancing, playing
basketball
The operative habit of doing well is called virtue;
that of doing evil is vice.
Intellectual Virtues
Intellectual virtues are:
1. Understanding is the habit or intuition of the first
principle called common sense.
2. Science is the habit of proximate causes, why
things are such because of their nature or
natural properties.
3. Art is the habit of making beautiful things, such
as literature, architecture and fine arts.
4. Wisdom is the habit of the ultimate causes,
such as the interdependence of created things
in the ecosystem.
Moral Virtues
Moral virtues of a person are:
1. Prudence enables a person to know the best
means to employ in attaining a purpose.
2. Justice inclines a person to give to everyone
what is due.
3. Fortitude gives a person the strength of the will
to face dangers and the problems in life.
4. Temperance moderates a person’s instincts
and emotions.
The role of vices and character
A vice is the opposite of virtue. It is the habit of
doing evil acquired through the repetition of an evil
act.
A vice is evil because of excess or defect.
1. Vices opposed to prudence by excess are:
cautiousness, fraud etc
2. Vices opposed to justice by excess are:
profligacy,idolatry,etc
3. Vices opposed to fortitude by excess are:
rashness,boldness, etc.
4. Vices opposed to temperance by excess are:
rigorousness, boldness, etc.
Moral Integrity is man’s
true worth.
The importance and Challenge of
Building Relationship
The poem by John Donne entitled “No man is an
island” is a reminder that human beings are made
for each other, and the best in each person can
only come out if he or she is in contact with another
person.
Guidelines for a successful
relationship by David King
1. Respect other’s individuality
2. In close relationships, make agreements on
activities and responsibilities.
3. Recognize that we are all equal and therefore
have equal rights.
4. Avoid restricting the freedom of others.
5. Treat others with kindness.
Guidelines for a successful
relationship by David King
6. Be close by choice
7. Don’t depend on others for everything
8. Be supportive of other’s goals, dreams and
aspirations
9. Take responsibility for your own happiness.
10 Guiding Principles of Getting along with
people at work by Mary Whelchel:

1. God created us with limits


2. Put others First
3. Rejoice and Weep with others
4. Love Unconditionally
5. Be a good listener
10 Guiding Principles of Getting along with
people at work by Mary Whelchel:

6. Be dependable and loyal


7. Confronting Constructively
8. Go the extra mile
9. Mend broken relationships
10. Work with Integrity and without compromise
How to deal with difficult Co-workers

1. The Lazy
2. The condescending, Arrogant
3. The Domineering
4. The Negative co-workers
5. The vindictive, hostile co-worker
6. The gossiper
7. The complainer
8. The Delegator
9. The Credit Grabber
How to deal with difficult Managers

1. Attitude Matters
2. Pray for your Management
3. Protect your Boss
4. The unreasonable or incompetent Boss
5. Finding favor with God
6. Following in the Steps of Jesus
The Beginning of a Relationship
Home as the Foundation: Its Role and Influences

Home is the basis of all social groups and upon it


have depended the strength and happiness of the
community.

It is where the foundation of society sprouted called


Family – the smallest unit of the society.
Significant Influences
1. Mother’s Influence
2. Father’s Influence
3. School Influence
4. Church Influence
5. The influence of barangay and the community
Significant Influences
1. Mother’s Influence
2. Father’s Influence
3. School Influence
4. Church Influence
5. The influence of barangay and the community
What the Family owes to the community is justified
if the Community makes a real contributions in
terms of:
1. Protection of Life and Property
2. Conveniences. Ex. Paved streets, electric lights
3. Oppose to harmful amusements that foster low
morals
4. Provide opportunities to development
5. Progresses according to the quality of its
members through livelihood training
6. Safeguards the youth and protect the
community against pauper class.
The roots of Customs and
Traditions of Values Formation
- Customs determine the habits and acts of an
individuals and families as a whole.
- Values are influenced by custom and tradition.
- Doing things repeatedly is called a habit.
- It becomes a custom if it was thought of and
believed by the community as a whole to be the
right way of doing things.
Nature and Causes of Custom
Patriarchalism
1. Religion
2. Physical barriers
3. Immobility
4. Fear of the Ghost of the Dead
5. The Rule of the Old
6. Local dialects
7. Clannishness
8. Natural tradition
9. Mental indolence
Tips on how improve relationships
with Co-workers:
1. Remove the blame factor
2. Let the people know the results of their actions
3. Talk in person when addressing sensitive
issues.
4. Be brief
5. Handle a whiner with tact
6. Do your homework
7. Don’t complain
8. Let go of your anger
9. Don’t take it personally
10. Stick to the points
Tips on how improve relationships
with Co-workers:
11. Keep people in the Loop
12. Deal with a screamer
13. Watch your language
14. Create measurable goals for difficult employees
15. Stop gossip
16. Be friendly without getting too close
17. Cultivate small talk
18. Keep your temper
19. Dish out compliments
20. Stay open minded
21. Be grateful for people in your life
The Art of Conversation
It includes the use of voice, speech, intelligence,
charm and personality.

The use of good speech is vital in the art of


conversation.
Topics to be discussed in
Conversation are:
- Interest
- Own Activities
- Fashions
- Literature
- Art
- Music
- Education
- Travel
- Civic Affairs
- Vacation
To acquire conversational charm, one
must:
1. Guide the conversation
2. Do not be argumentative
3. Be a good listener
4. Do not monopolize the conversation
5. Do not become personal
To acquire conversational charm, one
must:

6. Talk about ideas rather than people


7. Use simple language that all can
understand
8. Never gossip
9. Be pleasant
10.Use good English
Avoid following topics:

a. Personal problems
b. Religion
c. Ill-behavior of other
d. Your love affairs
e. Your own financial status
f. Poor workmanship of fellow workers
g. Your own health problems
h. Never betray a person’s trust by
repeating confidential matters to another
fellow.
Avoid following traits:

1. Do not be bossy
2. Never be sarcastic
3. Do not ridicule people
4. Do not lose your temper
5. Do not be rude to others
Avoid following traits:

6. Do not start an arguments


7. Do not talk continually
8. Do not spread gossip
9. Do not monopolize the conversation
10.Do not use profanity, slang or poor
grammar
Desirable Qualities to be cultivated or
developed:
1. Good Attitude
2. Right Behavior
3. Critical Thinking
4. Pleasant voice
5. Emotional stability
6. Be gracious
7. Politeness
8. Be well groomed
9. Have a sense of humor
Work Ethics is a belief in work as
a moral good ( Merriam
Dictionary ,2008).

Get along with People at Work


through Work Ethics
Work with Integrity and without
Compromise
The Challenge in this principle relating to people
we work with is: How to draw the line being
excellent workers and respecting the authority of
those in management, and our responsibility to
other relationships and commitments in our lives.
 Give to people what is rightfully theirs
Hardwork
Loyalty
Honesty
Honorable Activity
God Created Us with Limits
Limits are boundaries that :
Will keep order in our society;
Help prevent harm to individuals ; and
Guard against crime and injustice.
Put others First

Do nothing out of selfish ambition or


vain conceit,
but in humility consider others better
than yourselves.
Each of you should look not only to
your own interests, but
Also to the interests of others

Philippians 2:3-4
THE WORLD NEEDS MEN ……
Who cannot be bought,
Whose words is their bond,
 Who put character above
wealth,
Who possess opinions & will,
Who are larger than their
vocations,
Who do not hesitate to take
chances,
Who will not lose their individuality in a
crowd,
Who will be as honest in small things
as in great things ,
Who will not compromise with wrong,
Who will not say they do it because
everybody else does it,
Who are true to friends in adversity as
well in prosperity,
Who do not believe the shrewdness,
cunning and hardheadedness are the
best qualities for winning success;
who are not ashamed and afraid to
stand for the truth when it is
unpopular;
Who can say “No” with emphasis
although all the rest of the world
say “Yes”;
Whose ambitions are not confined
to their own selfish desires;
 This I can say” Go and catch the firefly for it will
light the room during the night with its booming
light” and;

 WALK WITHOUT SHAME FOR WHAT YOU


DID IS RIGHT.

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