Madyan, he found there a crowd of people watering [their flocks], and he found aside from them two women driving back [their flocks]. He said, "What is your circumstance?" They said, "We do not water until the shepherds dispatch [their flocks]; and our father is an old man.” (Al-Qasas-23) Male-Female Interaction at workplace
So he watered [their flocks] for them; then he
went back to the shade and said, "My Lord, indeed I am, for whatever good You would send down to me, in need.” (Al-Qasas-24) Then one of the two women came to him walking with shyness. She said, "Indeed, my father invites you that he may reward you for having watered for us." So when he came to him and related to him the story, he said, "Fear not. You have escaped from the wrongdoing people.” (Al-Qasas-25) Male-Female Interaction at workplace
Take-aways from previous two slides.
Interaction is allowed but guidelines are provided. Do not judge from far if you see some woman working. Converse to-the-point, No small talk. Be confident but have shyness-haya Haya = (feeling that Allah is watching me so I have to follow His guidelines) Understanding Common Ethics from the perspective of psychology and religion
اج ُة ُّ َاج ٍؕة ا ٌؕ ص َبا
ۡ ح ۡال ِم ۡ ض َم َث ُل ُن ۡو ِرهٖ َك ِم ۡش ٰكو ٍة ِف ۡي َها ِم ؕ ِ ت َوااۡل َ ۡر هّٰللا َ لز َج َ ص َبا ُح ِف ۡى ُز َج ِ ُ ُن ۡو ُر الس َّٰم ٰو ُض ۡ ٓى ُء َولَ ۡو ِ ب ُدرِّ ىٌّ ي ُّۡو َق ُد ِم ۡن َش َج َر ٍة م ُّٰب َر َك ٍة َز ۡي ُت ۡو َن ٍة اَّل َش ۡر ِق َّي ٍة وَّ اَل َغ ۡر ِب َّي ۙ ٍة يَّـ َكا ُد َز ۡي ُت َها ي ٌ َكا َ َّن َها َك ۡو َك اس َوهّٰللا ُ ِب ُك ِّل ِؕ ض ِربُ هّٰللا ُ ااۡل َ ۡم َثا َل لِل َّن ۡ َلمۡ َت ۡم َس ۡس ُه َنا ٌؕر ُّن ۡو ٌر َع ٰلى ُن ۡو ٍؕر َي ۡه ِد ۡىهّٰللا ُ لِ ُن ۡو ِرهٖ َم ۡن َّي َشٓا ُؕء َو َي ۳۵﴿ ﴾ َش ۡى ٍء َعلِ ۡي ۙ ٌم Allah is the Light of the heavens and the earth. The example of His light is like a niche within which is a lamp, the lamp is within glass, the glass as if it were a pearly [white] star lit from [the oil of] a blessed olive tree, neither of the east nor of the west, whose oil would almost glow even if untouched by fire. Light upon light. Allah guides to His light whom He wills. And Allah presents examples for the people, and Allah is Knowing of all things. Understanding the parable in Ayah “Allah is the Light of the heavens and the earth…” There are two basis of light in physical as well as spiritual sense: In physical sense, noor means Eye, vision, light We can’t see anything unless we have vision in eyes and unless there is light to see things. BOTH are crucial. In spiritual sense, word Noor means “Guidance” that Allah has placed inside us. We cannot understand reality unless we have guidance IN heart, and light of revelation (Quran) outside. Understanding the parable in Ayah “…the example of His light is like a niche within which is a lamp…” The parable is of a room. Niche: An Arch indented in the wall in which lamp is placed. It spreads the light to whole room. Understanding the parable in Ayah “…the lamp is within glass, the glass as if it were a pearly [white] star…” Significance of glass for the lamp: to protect the lamp and to reduce flickering The glass is also like a star (Durree). If a glass is completely clean, it seems like it has its own light. But if the glass is dirty, light cannot go outside. Understanding the parable in Ayah “…lit from [the oil of] a blessed olive tree, neither of the east nor of the west…” Mubarak/blessed/barkat is something that is not limited. So the supply of oil is unlimited. Olive oil: most refined form of oil. Neither of the east nor of the west: tree is at a place where it is continuously hit by sunlight, and such trees give best kind of oil. Recap Allah asks us to think of His light as a Lamp. Lamp is placed in an Arch – Our ribcage is also in the shape of an Arch. Allah placed a lamp in the Nich. What would that be? Our Heart. Till now, we were IN the room, now we are outside as trees are outside. Inside heart, Allah put a very pure fuel that came from “outside the room” that was in direct contact with the light of Allah. What would that be? That’s our Rooh. We were directly in the presence of Allah when He asked us “Who is your Rab?” Understanding the parable in Ayah “…whose oil would almost glow even if untouched by fire…” Have you seen pure gasoline? Even if fire is far from it, it runs towards the fire. In spiritual sense, if the rooh is pure and light of revelation is given to it through ears and eyes, a little spark and BOOM! This is “… Light upon light…” Light of revelation also means anything that is in accordance with islamic ethics. “” َي ۡه ِد ۡىهّٰللا ُ لِ ُن ۡو ِرهٖ َم ۡن َّي َشٓا ُء It has two meanings: Allah guides those to His light whom He wills. Allah guides those to His light whoever wills. Understanding the parable in Ayah Allah has compared the lamp/glass around it with a “star” that is in the sky. AL-Razi (R.A) commented on this ayah that “Angels look at the earth lit up by light (stars), and people of earth look at the sky lit up by light (stars)” What is this light on earth? It is light of the hearts of believers This light is figurative, but on Judgment day, this light will help to navigate us to Jannah in darkness. “…Allah presents examples for the people, and Allah is Knowing of all things…” When we teach children, we have to give a lot of examples. Similarly Allah teaches us, He makes things easy for us by Giving us examples. These examples are not limits of Allah’s knowledge because He is “Knowing of all things.” Lessons from ethical perspective EVERYONE knows about common ethics i.e., basic moral issues due to the guidance of Allah (light) that is in everyone’s heart by default no matter if they are Muslims or Non-Muslims. When do we turn the light on? there is darAt night when kness. The darkness is surroundings full of sins and unethical practices. In Quran misguidance is called darkness. How can the light actually guide us? If you have kept the glass around heart clean. And the heart gets dirty when people do sins. There is a hadith that says that Every sin puts a stain on heart, and their hearts start to become dark. Quran says, “ it is not the eyes that grow blind, but the hearts within the chests that grow blind (22: 46) We know by default what are common ethics, and what is unethical, but we ACTUALLY act according to this if we have kept our heart clean and we actually feel GUILTY when doing something wrong. This is why doing something unethical is difficult for the first time (first dot on heart), and it becomes easier later on because the heart is emanating less light. Lessons from ethical perspective Surah Noor is full of Laws that differentiate halal from haram (ethical from unethical). In the middle, there is ayah of Noor. It means that without the light of faith, those laws are meaningless. We can’t understand their significance if we don’t that “light in heart” to see their benefit. It also means that all the unethical practices have to do with the heart. Dirtier the heart, and we have more capability to be unethical. Such beautiful parable for dark and unethical times, we can’t say that I am not good enough, I can’t be ethical in these time. We ARE INHERENTLY AND INCREDEBLY good on being ethical. How can we keep the light strong? By being in contact with the revelation and being with people who talk about Allah’s guidance as it leads to “light upon light”, and everything becomes crystal clear for us.
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