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Introduction
Family life today is under siege. It is beset by : >divorce/separation/annulment >a crisis in roles, > absenteeism of parents, > a breakdown of authority, >preoccupation with things, >inadequate time together, >financial pressures, and > a host of other problems.
The Bible teaches that the institution of family is of divine > origin and
> purpose.
The Lord God said, It is not good that man should be alone; I will make him a helper fit for him (Genesis 2:18).
So the LORD God caused a deep sleep to come over the man, and he slept. God took one of his ribs and closed the flesh at that place. Then the LORD God made the rib He had taken from the man into a woman and brought her to the man (Genesis 2:21-22).
Husband-wife relationships
The Bible calls for the marriage relationship to be characterized by mutual and voluntary submission in mutual respect and trust for mutual fulfillment in sexual union in the marriage relationship.
for mutual fidelity in a monogamous relationship.
Husband-wife relationships
The Bible calls for the marriage relationship to be characterized by mutual and voluntary submission in mutual respect and trust. submitting to one another in the fear of Christ (Ephesians 5:21).
The Bible calls for mutual fulfillment in sexual union in the marriage relationship
A husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise a wife to her husband. A wife does not have authority over her own body, but her husband does. Equally, a husband does not have authority over his own body, but his wife does (1 Corinthians 7:3-4).
Marriage must be respected by all, and the marriage bed kept undefiled, because God will judge immoral people and adulterers (Hebrews 13:4). Do not commit adultery (Exodus 20:14).
Foundation to good family relationships : Faithfulness by Family Members of their Responsibilities: Husband to wife Wife to Husband Parents to Children Children to Parents
The Husband Should Love His Wife. Should Be Committed to Marriage for Life Should Work to Provide for the Physical Needs of the Family. Should Be the Head of the Family.
The Husband Should Work to Provide for the Physical Needs of the Family.
Genesis 3:17-19 -- The man was required to labor despite hardships in order to have food. (Cf. 2 Thess. 3:10.) 1 Timothy 5:8 -- As the head of the family , a man should provide, not just for himself, but for his whole household This is the God-given duty of the husband. No passage instructs the wife to do this. Man should not neglect his other responsibilities by over-emphasizing work. Yet one who neglects working, expecting his wife or other people to provide income for his family, is worse than an infidel.
Neither the man nor the woman have the right to end the marriage while their spouse is alive, except for the cause of fornication
Parents Should Train Their Children to Know and Obey God's Will.
Ephesians 6:4 -- Fathers should bring children up in the training and admonition of the Lord. This includes bringing the children to all meetings of the church, and also teaching them God's word at home (Deut. 6:6-9). Training children is primarily the work of parents, rather than the church. When children grow up without a knowledge of God and His will, the parents will give account. (See also Prov. 22:6; Gen. 18:19; Deut. 4:9,10; 1 Sam. 2:22-25; 3:13; 2 Tim. 1:5; 3:15).
Reminder
Making happy homes is not easy, especially in a corrupt society. But God's plan is always best, and the homes that accomplish the most good are those that learn and do His will.
Building relationships requires that we manage our emotions (cf. Ephesians 4:31, 32; Galatians 5:17-26). Basically, managing emotions is by managing thinking.
Building relationships emphasizes prayer. Paul sets the example, And this I pray, that your love may abound still more and more in real knowledge and all discernment (Philippians 1:9). Jesus said to, pray for those who persecute you (Matthew 5:44). Persevering prayer is powerful, and should take the place of getting even with those we think have wronged us (Romans 12:14; cf. verses 9-21).
Thank you.