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Serial communication
Attitude surveys Focus groups Exit interviews Suggestion boxes Third party facilitators
Liaison Ombudsperson
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Email Etiquette
Include a greeting Included a detailed subject line Dont write in all caps Delete unnecessary information when forwarding email Avoid grammar and spelling mistakes Dont spend company time on personal email Allow ample time for a person to respond
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Speak slowly Give your name at the beginning of the message and then repeat it at the end Spell your name Leave your phone number Indicate good times for the person to return your call Dont ramble Dont include information you dont want others to hear
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Grapevine
Rumor
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Grapevine Patterns
Single Strand Jones Smith Brown Tinker Evers
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Smith
Brown Martin
Chance
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Interpersonal Communication
The exchange of a message across a communication channel from one person to another Three problem areas
Intended message versus message sent Message sent versus message received Message received versus message interpreted
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Sender
Receiver
Encodes Message
Sends Message
Receives Message
Decodes Message
What I say
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Think about what you want to communicate Practice what you want to communicate Learn better communication skills
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Actual words used Communication channel Noise Nonverbal cues Paralanguage Artifacts Amount of information
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to describe jewelry to describe the weather to describe food or sex female girl babe woman
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Use concrete words and ask how the other person might interpret your message
as soon as possible Ill be back soon Ill be out for a while Avoid confrontation test the water Avoid being the bad guy (MUM effect)
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Women Men
Talk about majorlife daily events Provide details Tell the main point Are more direct indirect Use uh-huh to agree listen Are comfortable withwith silence less comfortable silence Concentrate on the words spoken paralanguage nonverbal cues and Focus on unpleasant topics Sidetrack unpleasant topics
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Communication Channels
Oral
Nonverbal Written
Noise
Actual noise Appropriateness of the channel Bias Feelings about the person communicating Mood Perceived motives
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Nonverbal Cues
Are ambiguous Those that arent, are called emblems Gender and cultural differences are common Nonverbal cues are thought to be 80% of the message received
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Eye contact Expressions Micro-expressions Posture Arm and leg use Motion Touching
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Use of Space
Intimacy zone 0 to 18 inches close relationships Personal distance zone 18 inches to 4 feet friends and acquaintances Social distance zone 4 to 12 feet business contacts and strangers Public distance zone 12 to 25 feet
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Use of Time
Being late Leaving a meeting early Setting aside time for a meeting Multi-tasking (working while talking)
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People are different in their use of nonverbal cues and paralanguage Standard differences among people reveal information about the person Changes in a persons style reveal new messages
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Paralanguage
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I did not say Bill stole your car. I did not say Bill store your car. I did not say Bill stole your car. I did not say Bill stole your car. I did not say Bill stole your car. I did not say Bill stole your car. I did not say Bill stole your car.
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Artifacts
Our office
What we wear
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9% is spent writing 16% is spent reading 30% is spent speaking 45% is spent listening
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Listening Skills
Stop talking and listen Keep an open mind Show the speaker you want to listen Use appropriate nonverbal cues Empathize with the speaker Let the Dont ask excessive questions other person finish speaking Remove distractions Try to understand what the other person means
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Listening Styles
(Geier & Downey, 1980)
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Other Factors
Emotional State
has short sentences uses simple rather than complicated words uses common rather than unusual words
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FOG
Dale-Chall
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