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SCRIPTURES
GENESIS 2.18-25 HEBREWS 13.4
PRINCIPLES
1. GET THE FOUNDATION RIGHT ....if the foundation be destroyed, Matt 7.2427
Ask God for help in choosing Dont marry an unbeliever...2Cor 6.14-18
4. MATURITY
.......LEAVE your father and mother........Gen 2.24
You cannot cleave until you leave Become a better version of yourself.....Work on yourself..... Keep growing in every area spiritually, socially, financially, career, physically (your health)......FAILURE TO GROW MAKES YOU A LIABILITY Continuous self improvement Continuous life-long learning to improve you and your marriage......your marriage will always mirror/reflect you.....problem in a marriage is an accurate reflection of at least one of the partners
Work on your character. You can be attracted to someones GIFT, but you end up living with their FRUITS The fruits of the spirit are more desirable in marriage than the gifts of the spirit....the gifts are for public manifestation, the fruits, for private consumption
5. COMMITMMENT
.......CLEAVE unto his wife ..... .....make up your mind that your own marriage will work. Five commitments you must make
Commitment to God Commitment to continuous personal improvement Commitment to your own spouse Commitment to your children Commitment to your home
8. FOCUS ON GIVING
......it is more blessed to give than to receive....for God so loved that He gave
Selfishness (self-centeredness) is one of the biggest causes of marital failures Help your spouse become the best they could be Challenge your spouse to a higher version of themselves Release your spouse to FLY Nurture your spouse Make continuous deposit in their emotional bank account Find out your spouses love language...what makes them feel loved COMPROMISE, SACRIFICE....Eph 5.25...love your wife as Christ loved the church..that He lay down His life for her
9. BUILD TOGETHER
Leverage is one of the purposes of marriage...two are better than one...two shall chase 10 thousand...if two of you shall agree as touching anything Develop common vision, common goals, family projects Do things together.... Doing things together bonds people......vacation, relaxation, personal projects, hobbies, retreats, coming to church Celebrate together....birthdays......anniversaries, schedule regular/routine/special timeouts, play together FIGHT TOGETHER- Youre not fighting each other but your common adversary or challenges There is power in unity...if two of you shall agree concerning ANYTHING
Appreciate your spouse.....say THANK YOU Prophesy good things over your marriage Cover your marriage spiritually with your tongue....pray over your spouse and family
THANK YOU